I was at a baseball game a few weeks ago and I saw this family. The father was married to a woman that was a bit heavy set and unattractive to me. The thought of having sex with her made me cringe. I heard the woman say a few things to her husband and I was just thinking about what he finds so nice about her.

Iam 45 my husband is 40 and we have a two year old son. We had to do fertility treatments to have our son. My husband is constantly saying how he wants more kids badly and things like "he wants a little girl" and once he said " he should go knock up some young girl to have a baby" I try not to take it seriously but it really gets to me a lot. He also has said things like he wish he made his baby like a man instead of in an office.

My husband and I have a two year old son who was diagnosed with autism. When I told my husband he was livid. I was crying telling him it's really not a big deal and he hung up. He blames it on me for having my son at 43. I also know my husband has a history of cheating on me and he said he should just go knock someone up for a "normal child". I'm devastated and don't know what to do especially since my son is involved. Advice????

She's been asking to meet my parents. She wants me to tell them about her . Only my friends know about her . Is it reasonable for her to want my parents to know ? Is it reasonable for me to be nervous? I'm 38 btw ! Yes, I love her sand it's difficult for me to be away from her.

I was crazy about this guy for yesrs...we dated on and off and in the end we just were over and met other people but stayed friends..... but then i met my husband and i cut contact with him. Years later we reconnect on social media and then years later we chat and he admits he was foolish to have let me go and that i was the only 1 for him. Hes not asking me of anything but ever since that, my mind is f*cked up. I feel nostalgic of him ever now and then. I have 3 kids. My husband is a great guy even though every marriage has its faults...i still find myself fantasizing about my ex. I havent seen him in 8 years. Why do men do this.

When you are referring to someone expressing feelings of love and remorse- crying and sadness. Are a drunk JD thoughts usually how he feels sober?

How much awkward will be for the virgin husband to face this on the first night itself?

They've been married a little over a year. He treats her like ****. -He is here on a green card, which expires spring of 2020. He's not sure if he wants citizenship, but from my understanding, if they get a divorce, he would be deported back to the Ukraine? -They own a cleaning business together that they run from their house, but even though she's an owner/manager of the business, there's nothing on paper stating so. In other words, they don't have a joint account for the business. The $ is in his account without her name. -They have a lease on the house that they're staying in, which is up a month after the husband's green card expires. The lease is in both of their names. -One of the husband's friends is supposed to move in with them for several months starting next week, but his name would not be under the lease because technically they're not supposed to have any other roommates if they're leasing a house the landlord owns. -They have a large dog, and if she got a divorce, the husband would probably send the dog to a pound or give it away. -My friend has nowhere to go if she leaves him, and doesn't have the money to get a lawyer. -They got married and live in Oregon. -He doesn't know she wants a divorce. Overall, what should she do, in terms of trying to get a divorce? How would him being an immigrant impact the process? If the green card expired, how would this effect the husband as far as the business? What would happen if they got a legal separation instead?

So if your husbands ex wife was still on the house deed, but the lawyer typed up another one quit claim with mine and my husbands name on it but haven't had a chance for ex wife to sign because of her work, would it bother you? The ex wife does not mind signing at all, it's just bad timing. Would this bother you? She signed one before, but the lawyer never filed it or it got lost somewhere along the way she didn't let my husband know until a couple of months ago.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, she was diagnosed with leukemia and she beat it but it came back and its terminal. My wife wants me to marry her best friend so our son won't grow up without a mother, the best friend is okay with this. I'm an emotional wreck because I feel like I won't be able to properly grieve my wife and this makes me very sad. Her best friend is a kind woman and I have no doubt she'll be a great step mom. Am I being selfish about this?

Or does it make you feel proud? Women can answer this too.. How does your husband react?

I received a job offer to teach at a university in Tulsa OK. We currently live in Michigan. My husband does plumbing and his company has branches in Tulsa he could apply to plus, there are plumbing jobs everywhere. The problem is my husband has never actually been to Tulsa. He only gets 2 weeks vacation per year which he unfortunately used to visit his father back in May who was very ill. Financially this would be a great opportunity for our family. Im currently unemployed and we are struggling a bit financially. I told my husband that I am not comfortable accepting the job without getting his input on the area and whether he feels it would be a good fit for him. He's refusing to take any sick days to fly out there with me to look at the area and told me he can't go look until January when he has vacation time built up again. He told me just go out there by myself with the kids, find a town with a good school district for the kids and to just accept the job. He said he will then see if he can eventually get something out there or not. I'm concerned about doing this all on my own. I'm also concerned about resentment on his end. What if he hates the area? It's very far from family.

I hear mixed answers and contradictory. I hear that , "men will say and do whatever it takes to keep getting sex". So then how would you ever know if you are being used then ? That means technically, they can marry you and still be using you for sex correct ? My bf and I have been dating for 8 months . He wants to marry me in the future and have a child . He also asked me for my ring size most recently. However, I've never met his parents and he's never met mines yet. In our last break up , I stopped talking to him and he messaged me 3 weeks later stating that he loved me and missed me . Then is person he said he wanted to marry me and truly loved me . Is he saying this to keep having sex with me ? How would I know ? After all , he could be leading me on right ? Yes , we do more than just sex . But it doesn't matter , he's still getting it from me . Should I suddenly stop or do I waste time trying to see if he will get me a ring while continuing sex?