I am a 17 year old girl. There's this couple I know who are in their 40's who have a child. I'd rather not say how I know them. Anyways I've known them for about 5 years. The wife is very nice and friendly to me. Thou the husband isn't rude or really nice, I just get super creepy weird vibes from him. So the other night out of boredom searched her husbands name on the internet. I found out that he abuses animals. This really freaked me out. So could this be why I'm getting freaky vibes and since he does these things is he a threat to me?

My husband drives 2-4 hrs to work and back every week. He comes home on the weekends, and I understand he is tired from driving. I tried to help as much as I can. I am also 8 months pregnant, and out of work due to my pregnancy. I sometimes need his help, like going grocery store to buy water bottles or even drive. My back hurts when I drive, I tried to tell him but he keeps saying his back hurts as well. His sister's throwing a birthday party for her daughter this weekend and she lives 3 hrs away. I think he's gonna want me to drive as well. I talked about it to my husband but he is a very hard person to talk to.

My husband got mad at me and confided in his four adult children. I had set a boundary with my husband over some financial issues. He ended up telling his children where I got all my money and how much I have as well as our private's marital issues. Of course they sided with him and viewed him as the victim which he portrayed himself to be. It's been almost a year and in spite of the fact that he says he told them the truth about his part in things they refuse to see me or allow me to see their children whom I previously had a great relationship with and babysat for. I have been good to his kids over the years. I did not create this problem but I am being punished for it. We have two vacation homes and he said he would not allow them to use them due to their ugliness toward me. Now he got mad at me again and invited every single one of them to our beach condo while I was out of town. I feel this is feeding into the problem and I feel so hurt over it. I am ready to end the marriage over this among other things. How would you handle this?

He hurt me really bad, but never allowed me to heal. Now he says I'm so negative and annoying. I'm asking him to let me go so I can heal? And be happy again but he won't let me go. He doesn't understand the impact his cheating has done to me. And I feel like he does not even feel bad about it. I don't know what to do :(. He says he doesn't understand what's wrong now, but I can't let go and I feel soo unappreciated. I know it's my fault I forgave him sooo much and took him back that now he thinks he didn't do anything

I'm 45 my husband is 40. We have a young son together. Though multiple times in our fifteen years of marriage I have caught him cheating on me with women who are from ages 19-24. We have an agreement he can hook up with women when he's out on the road working. The thing is it makes me wonder why he cheats with women so young. I try everything in my power to look attractive and stay in shape.

We've been in a relationship for 2 years and we have a great relationship. We live together. My parents know him. They've known him for over a year. They come over pretty regularly. However, I've had minimum contact with his parents since they live in Africa. I've only spoken to his dad once. I've never spoken to his mom. They speak English. I've met his uncle twice that lives in our city. My boyfriend knows that family is important to me. He knows that marriage can only happen if the two families have spoken and knows each other. He has told me multiple times in the last year that we can get married at the courthouse and then go back home to marry. He's even arranged a time for a ceremony at the courthouse. I've told him no. Last weekend, he told my dad that he wanted to marry me. My dad told him that we need to know his parents. He told his dad that he wanted to marry me. He told his uncle. His dad told me that it's okay for me to go through with the arrangement and it's fine if I marry his son. I told him that I'm not fine because his family doesn't know mine. Today, I saw his uncle and his uncle told us that we will see where the relationship goes. At no point of all of this talk has his family reached out to mine. I don't know his parents very well but his dad is fine with me marrying his son. My boyfriend said that he will figure this out and see when his parents can talk to mine. He said we will be engaged from now until the end of the year. Whats going on?

in a situation where they were unlikely to get caught just for the fun of it. Katie M. - What if you were a really good liar and there was no chance of you being caught?

Back in February, I started dating someone. I've been divorced 4 years. She had been separated for a few months. We have liked each other since we were kids, but it just never happened. So as you might imagine, we fell in love QUICKLY. It surpassed our expectations. The kids met only because our opportunities to see each other were limited. My daughter was 9. Her daughter was 4. We all got along very well. And for the first time since my divorce, I really thought I'd marry again. (Trust me, I've been dead set against it since my divorce). My girlfriend's soon to be ex-husband figured out that she had been seeing someone. He made her life difficult... Planting things in their daughter's head. Next thing you know, she calls me and says she's in love with me but she can't do this right now. She says I'm everything she ever wanted in a man. That she cannot picture herself with anyone but me. And that she's so sorry, but it's just not the right time. I offered to wait... She told me it was my decision. That she feels horrible asking me to wait because she doesn't know how much time this will take. Not only does she have to complete the proceedings, but her daughter is also not adjusting well to the divorce. Now, I know we did not make a wise decision by getting involved with each other. But here we are. I love her. I miss her so much that I'm in pain. We talk here and there, not often. I don't want to overwhelm her. Do I wait? Am I wasting my time?

My daughter is 2 year old and I told my husband that my daughter was not his when he went to jail. So years later we took a test through child support and found out that my husband is not the father but he still claims her like his own. We have a son together also I have 4 other children that has the same father. I dont know who my 2yrs old daughter father is or dont have a idea.

My husband and I just got married a month ago and he want to adoption my 2yrs old daughter..but i do not know who is my daughter's biological father is.

I'm 30 and my husband is 33. We have young kids and I'm a SAHM. I'm biracial and he's an annoying typical white man. He works long hours and when he comes home he messes up the house leaving doors open and he wants attention. I'm tired all day taking care of the house and kids while he works. I am so bored these days. Just being at home not meeting people except my husband is a shame. Am tired all the time as well. I have really been thinking about a divorce because he annoys me so much but we have young kids the youngest being 1 years old. I'm so bored these days it's just the same old everyday. I love my kids very much but I guess I'm tired of only being a mom and wife and never having time for myself. I just cook and clean. I'm tired of my husband and his lame jokes. We've been together since I was 19 and I wish it were easy to just date other men and try something new. I'm pregnant now in the first trimester and I'm not looking forward to it. What do I do?

We have been together for 4 yrs. The first time I saw him loose his temper was when we were in the car and he suddenly broke the rearview mirror.....sometimes he punches things....another time he smashed his windshield after throwing keys.... Recently we got into a HUGE argument and I called him a liar. He got enraged and told me to "Get the f out of my house!" ...then he said he needed to punch something and started punching the front door and his knuckles started bleeding. He told me he likes me to get out of his way when he is angry and he would never hurt me because I am not replaceable. Should I be worried???? I have a temper too but I never break things ...

Today my husband got mad at me and choked me out and slapped me while I was holding our 9 month old, I am leaving him, if I have written proof of him admitting he was physically abusive and videos of him with his severe anger management problems and terrifying our children could I get full custody of our children? The only reason I haven't left him until now is because I was terrified of him having any custody and our children being alone with him.

Everybody who's married know they still have a choice if they're going to have sex with other people or not. And many do. Considering the idea that most people will have sex with other people if they can get away with it, why not assume that all marriages are really open marriages?

Would you find enjoyment in that? Would it make you want to do that again for that person? Or would you not want to cause that amount of pleasure for that person, because, you know, they re not you?

did you go? hubby mad or does he like you flirting with his boss ?

If one day if her first love returns to her life for free sex by emotionally blackmailing her, will she able to control herself as she had strong feelings for him? Will the risk have to be beared by the husband for marrying such a girl who had past bfs? Yes not everyone might be like that. But who knows, the risk is there

I'm 5'9 and 125 pounds I'm slightly underweight and really under-eat fo maintain that weight. Thou my boyfriend is pretty big. He's always praising me for being so thin and loves it. He doesn't fully know that I'm really starving myself. I want to tell him I can't keep this up but scared he might get mad. I say this because he's married and he's cheating on his wife with me. (Yes I know it's a pretty bad situation)

does hubby hate it or like it? does the wife like it?

So long story short whenever he's around and talks to me he seems very shy and can't even keep direct eye contact with me I've also noticed he checks me out and he thinks I'm not looking. I've also developed feelings for him and even think of him when I have sex with my husband. He seems to like me too but he's also married. He invited us to the lake with his wife and 2 small children but seemed he was not even paying attention to his wife and was paying more attention to me. How else do I know if he likes me? My husband did me bad I'm the past.. but I want to see what people think about this what should I do I even dreamed about me and him last night. No rude comments please

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So I have been with my wife for about 4 years now but we just got married about a year ago. The situation that has happened is the fact that I have always had a high sex drive and my wife doesnt do anything to help it. She enjoys oral on her and I enjoy giving but after she finishes she is done and no longer wants to do anything for me. If she does she says get on top to finish...to some that's ok but I do enjoy foreplay. How can we possibly work on this

My wife has made it clear that she wants to sleep until midday and get up to do her job 7 days a week in the evenings. Claiming she isn't making sales and that she is about to lose her job. That the best time for cold calling is in the evenings. So I must get up early or come home off night shift and drop off my son to the childcare. I enjoy the quality time together in the evenings. My wife is so angry because she has gone back on our agreement when I'm on night shift. I told her to pick up our son and wake me up at 6pm to look after him for a few hours so she can stay out in her company. Instead she has stayed with our son and now claims she has made too many sacrifices. Just today I had an afternoon shift as overtime that she knew about and agreed upon a couple of weeks ago. About 3 hrs before my shift starts, she got up and started getting increasingly angry. She decided to walk out and left me stranded. Said she would pick up our son after I start my job at the hospital! As it turned out, my son went through a freak accident where he accidentally swallowed a spring that broke out of the high chair and my quick actions stopped him from choking to death. Scared the life out of me and ED cleared him to go home. The thing is my wife doesnt want me to work my job anymore. She absolutely refuses to budge on looking after him. She wants to sleep all morning and go to work in the afternoon. Monday to Friday that might work but I still get rostered for afternoon shifts... My job is crucial and a 24 hour rotating situation. I must be available to work rotating shifts and I pay all the bills including the mortgage that keeps a roof over our head! I'm trying to find all options including running numbers on balancing government subsidies for both childcare and in home care. My wife has proven that I cannot rely on her and I need someone to help look after my 15 month old son. That's why I feel so stuck. On top of it I have part time nursing studies. I can give up the studies but it will throw away 4 years of hard work and a lot of money in student loans... Currently, I work 7 night shifts, followed by 4 days off and then 3 or 4 day shifts or afternoon shifts. But some weeks I'm not on night shifts. I have been enquiring about full time night shift roles but not a lot is going around at the moment. I'm also a rep for OHS and manual handling for the department. I don't want to give all that up if I can help it.

I think they are overreacting. I follow my coworkers around at close range to make sure they are not making a mistake.I literally stand on top of them almost and sometimes run into them or rub against them because that is what one of the guys did in military school who was in charge. I want my wife to come to bed when I go to bed, but she wants to watch reruns of the office on tv for a while. I don't like what she likes on tv.I come out walk really close to her and stand behind her ask repetitive questions. I am trying to make small talk but it seems to annoy her.

So we have a usual bickering but this last fight we are in I've never felt this way before and it scares me. Makes me feel like we may be close to the end and I just cant. So here the problem. My husband works for a woman same age as us and decent looking. they snap each other usually about work stuff but it's always joking and carrying on. (she super flirty with erveryone)Well yesterday I said I dont like them snapping because it like hidden messages. She had snapped him the night before and she wasn't at work so I said what's that about he said she stopped by work amd since she is the head boss he told her the people weren't coming and she said to come back to store. But i said why didnt u just tell the manager on duty not her. He said she messaged him. Then he said he was going to stop by another femal coworkers house that's a half mile away from us that she just happened to be hanging out at to smoke on one of his delieverys (works for food delievery)I said I dont like that if roles were reversed you would have a fit. He said no he smokes with anyone that let him and she had some. But he has some less then a mile away at his house. Were his loving wife is. Then he was it's fine I just going to quit which then I proceeded to beg him not to cause it's our only income. He then deletes snap chat which was not what I was asking him to do and got upset cause we always snap. He deleted his snap. I logged into it on my phone it said I was blocked. Which I got ..( more in comment

Is it because of the shame of their ancestors during WWII? The Japanese people did rape a lot of other people in WWII. Or is it because of some other reason?

Every time I think of breaking up with him I have a mental breakdown and Change my mind because I start reminiscing. It's crazy because we haven't even broken up but I've been mourning the loss of this relationship for so long. I've been sleeping for 12 hours straight, crying almost every night. Over eating, emotionally eating. We are going on 5 years of being together come August. 5 years is a long time for me because the rest of my relationships only lasted 3-6 months so I hope y'all can understand that's why I'm as devasted as I am. We have so many memories together. I reallyI lost my virginity to him: hes the only person I've ever slept with. We've met each other's families and he's developed a huge bond with my brother. Out of all my bfs he's the only one who's family I've met. We had plans to Move to New York to start our careers. We were best friends before we got together. Im 27 now and he's 35. He has 3 kids by two woman. We fight all of the time. He's controlling, insensitive. He doesn't show me any affection. We're so different and we have different viewpoints on life which causes him to resent me probably because I have my opinions and he has his. He thinks I'm better suited for a more passive and laid back guy. I don't remember the last time I smiled while in his presence. I'm also going through some major bladder problems and since doctors can't diagnose what's going on he says I'm just making it up. That's just one of the ways he's insensitive. I really revolved my entire world around this dude. I set back my date to move to new york so i could wait on him to finish school, I stop hanging with my friends and strictly hung out with him." I'm going to be so lost without him I don't know what to do I haven't hung out with my friends in five years because I was so wrapped up in him and our love I just started looking at our pictures when we actually looked happy with each other and I just started crying hard because I know that we will never be able to get that back. I know our relationship is toxic beyond repair My boyfriend even said the other day he has thought about breaking up with me a couple of times because we are so incompatible We have our signature spots that we go out to and I can't there without him. I can't go there without thinking about him and all the memories we shared. We had plans to go to italy but Now I don't even wanna go because If I go alone I'm just going to be thinking about all of the memories we could have had there...

Is it pretty common husband to show his middle finger to his wife in America ?