She married her high school sweetheart at 18 and she managed to make the marriage work for 6 months. She got married again at 20 to someone she dated for a year and now they are getting divorced. I seriously don't know what to do with her. When somebody tells her to go right, she goes left.

My ex husband and I have a six year old son together. He's now remarried to a girl who's about twenty five years younger then him and they have a baby now and she's pregnant again. They have a very nice house and A stable environment. My son never complains and says she's very nice to him. Which I truly believe cause she is a very sweet girl. Though my sons known her his whole life cause she lived down the street from us. I know my husband has been cheating on her since she was like 16. The whole scene makes me uncomfortable but I realize he does enjoy seeing his dad I'm just still very uneasy because I feel like it's a poor situation

My wife is 34 years old and has always been effortlessly thin. She is one of those people that can eat whatever she wants and never gain any weight. She has never had to exercise to maintain her weight. Even after having four kids, she went right back to normal each time without having to try. For some reason she has started to get very arrogant about her slim figure and has also started having a lot to say about overweight women. This was never the case with her until the past year. She always comments about how "fat" other moms are. Whenever she sees an obese women she'll whisper a fat joke to me. The most recent thing she did really crossed the line in my opinion: while in line for a tube waterslide at a waterpark there was supposedly a 5 person limit. They originally wouldn't let us go down with our 4 kids all at once. The family of 5 in the slide next to us had a very large mom so my wife said to the slide attendant really loudly, "the lady in that slide is at least the size of 2 of me. If five of them can go together, then there's no reason why the six of us can't." She got her way, but her methods felt inappropriate. I've never felt a need to try to change her behavior before, but I fear this could start setting a bad example for the kids. It also feels very childish to me and a little hypocritical given that she doesn't have to work for her figure.

A month ago I confronted him about cheating with proof during counseling, and he denied. I was already at the verge of asking for separation, as I was tired. He then made it seem like he is the one who was done with me because he is innocent. the counselor said we should reconsider divorce because he could help us fix our marriage. I wanted to reconsider because of the kids, but I didn't speak on it. he maintained that we were done. He has taken his ring off. I did my grieving and I'm slowly getting back to being myself again. but then he tries to turn our son against me, we discussed that with the counselor so he stopped, then he tried to tempt me with fast food knowing I have been trying to lose weight but it didn't work. Some days he is nice, some other days he is pure evil. last Sunday he complained that I am the reason the utilities bills are high.I tried to pull out the trend, to show him it hasn't changed for years and he wouldn't let me. Knowing I would go and print it out he changed the password on the account so I won't be able to view anything. still maintaining that it's my fault. He got me so upset I cried and he was so happy. I asked why do you hate me, he says he has resentment towards me because of the cheating stuff. Today he noticed my weight loss chart and He comes down and let me know that he is at 209 when I'm at 210. Making it seem like he was talking to himself. The thing is it didn't even bother me. But why does he feel the need to do all this?

Most nights my wife is off sleeping with other men and barely comes home anymore to make matters worse my daughter makes fun of me for it. How do I get my wife to stop sleeping with multiple men. I have asked many times and she no listen ??

I'm not a doctor and I have no medical training whatsoever. The best I can do is just stand there and watch. Besides, doctors are great and they know exactly what they're doing. It's going to be fine.

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My parents and husband don't trust me around such people because they worry that I might end up getting involved with them. Me and my husband are both 36 and my husband feels entitled to me and a person's age is more important than anything else in my family. Is it best to limit oneself and/or another to your and/or their age group? And my parents married me off to a guy close to my age who gets mad and jealous when I talk to someone much older and/or much younger, and anyone else that does not meet my parents expectations for their son-in-law.

I had a lipoma removal from my back 2 weeks ago. It was a very simple surgery, the incision is probably 2 inches long. The thing is it's still bleeding like it was the next day. A few days ago my surgeon called for a follow up and I told him it was still bleeding, he said I can make an appt with him and he can take a look at it if I'm concerned. I made an appt for this week but I'm nervous going because I have lots of hickeys and finger nail scratch marks on my back and I have a small bruise under my eye. Before I had my surgery I went in for a consultation and I was very nervous, my surgeon asked me if I was fine and if I needed any help from him, I told him I was going through issues with my husband and that I'm talking to a detective about issues I'm having with my husband. If the surgeon sees my bruise and hickeys can he call the cops on my husband? I live in California. I'm not under age nor an elderly so I'm assuming there's no law that he has to report this. Please don't tell me to leave him because I won't for cultural reasons, plus he's a good father but he has issues. Also in my culture Arabic women are prohibited from leaving their husbands. Thank you for your answers

My parents have been married for 18 years, but it started with an arranged marriage (we're brown). My mom says she loves my dad but believes he doesn't care about her or love her back. I honestly think she's better off without him and his side of the family. I love my dad and I love my mom, but with how much my mom complains about him, I don't think they should be together. I got sick of her trash-talking my dad so I told her to talk to her mom, but she said her mom says this is normal "in our culture." So... should I tell her to get a divorce when she asks me what to do ?? Any advice would be appreciated :)

My wife and I have been married for twelve years we have a three year old son together. I love them more than anything. Though I look at other younger women and am way more attracted to them. My wife does say thin which I like, but she is 45 and i get grossed out cause Im six years younger. She has a saggy body and I would much rather be with someone with a younger body. But trust me I still love her

It is not as big as a relative's shocking extra-marital affair in 1999 that caused the world to stop turning.

Been engaged for a year now, been together for 9 years and we're at the point where we are on the verge of breaking up. He said were not having enough sex and how we can't have any kids there is nothing holding us back so why not have sex ? I feel like after 9 years I don't always wanna have sex. After 9 years let's talk about saving money to buy a house, how we can improve on us. Not about having sex everyday . It's been very stressful for me. He even said if that's the case then we don't need to be together. He keep using his age as a excuse. He says I'm 36 I'm on the prime of my life. Like I'm not just satisfy with just having sex . I want more. When I talk about wedding I can tell that's the last thing on his mind. To him he can't see hisself marrying me cause the lack of sexy now. So right now he doesn't wanna marry me. It hurts my feelings. To know the person you were with for 9 years will break up cause we're not having sex as much as he want too . Once during a argument he said he didn't wanna marry me. That still hurts me . I feel like that's exactly how he feels

He is my uncle by marriage, my aunt's husband. We are not related my blood. So why do you all think it's disgusting? Is it the age difference?

And have a bottle of champagne with divorce papers.

she has been do we have to do this right now and I am leaving if you are going to be like this right now I am leaving I don't why she is such a coward.She should stay and fight back. She said it is not worth it.The tension makes her feel bad. I told her Tension makes you a stronger person though.

We had a rocky marriage from the start. Were married and together for 17 years. I left him due to us not ever seeing eye to eye, and his anger management and drinking problems. After baby #2 it was just not acceptable. Not to mention baby #1 should not have had to go through what she saw. We've been separated for 11 months now and I often wonder if we've had enough of a break that maybe things could be different. He went through rehab for 5 months and was clean. Not sure about right now but I figure we would talk about it if I gave it another chance. Only thing holding me back is he doesn't take our kids a lot during the week, he doesn't help me with money to support his kids. I do it all myself. He says he works two jobs and is trying to get on his feet. Should I believe him?

I recently met someone online and our relationship shortly turned into FWB. I am separated and he is divorced. He is Korean and I am Hispanic. At the beginning he was very straight forward with his intentions which were find a wife and have children. Due to my situation, I am not able to offer a normal relationship at the moment until everything is finalized so he decided not to pursue me. However, our S is amazing and he have a strong connection so we come back to each other. He is a bit demanding and I have hard time gaging him because of this attitude and I am not sure if is a cultural thing. I feel I need to be submissive to his needs in order to keep things going. Any tips on how to navigate this situation? I feel he likes me but sometimes he is demanding or its hard for me to understand him. When we are together we get along great it just goes cold when we don't see each other.

My spouse had filed for an uncontested divorce in which I later contested and made a counterclaim for. In the beginning of this process, neither of us had an attorney and were representing ourselves. In court after my spouse made his argument (which wasn't well prepared), the judge told him that he would need to come back to prove his grounds and kept our case open. Well a few months have passed, and we have decided to both sign a Divorce Settlement Agreement prepared by his attorney. His attorney advised once everything has been signed, we would not need to return to court and everything will be handled accordingly. BTW, we do not have any shared properties or children together and are in the state of Arkansas.

what would you do or not do? was sex important reason you got married ? Do you think you brought more unreasonable expectations to the marriage than your mate? did you bring financial stability or need?

So me and my high school sweetheart of 9 years just got engaged in our mid 20 s. He and his parents haven t been very close over the past few years, but now they are very excited to plan our wedding (they are Hindu so it is huge in their culture). Basically his parents stopped speaking to him for a while because he is a total hippy/rock-n-roll type dude (think Motley Crue, but an Indian guy lol). He plays music, makes art, smokes weed, prefers natural medicine to pills made by big pharma, has long hair, tattoos, etc. He is super nonjudgmental, laid-back and works as a tradesman, much to his parents disapproval. He is their only child and they are SUPER hardworking Indian immigrants who brought him to America as a little boy. His dad is an ex surgeon who also holds a master s degree in business and is now a vice president in a big pharma company, so is his wife. They make a ton of money and always hoped their son would be a doctor, lawyer or businessman like themselves. They are always telling him i am more mature than him because i too have a master s degree in business, and work in an office. They don t drink, smoke or party and when you talk to them, it feels like being in a business conference. There are no raunchy/inside jokes, swears or any of that. I've honestly never met someone who is more different than their parents, and i want them to connect after the wedding. The wedding sadly, is the only thing they have been excited to talk to him about in the past 5 years.

I'm 34 years old no children and never been married. I've been in a 2 year relationship with a 35 year old man who is divorced (9 years ago) has 3 children (15 year old twins and a 16 year old - who has one daughter and is pregnant). Only his 15 year old (twin daughter) lives with him. The other 2 children and grandchildren live with their grandparents on the mothers side. The mother lost custody of all of her children and my boyfriend only had custody of the daughter who lives with him. The mother is in jail for DUI. My boyfriend wants me to drop him a his daughter off at the jail once a week so his daughter can see her mom. My boyfriend says he has to accompany his daughter because she's a minor. So the 3 of them sit there a visit. I'm upset that he has to be part of the visit. Am I wrong for this? He said he doesn't care how o feel about it and he is going. I just don't understand why his ex wife's fiancée can't take his daughter or another family member. Another thing is that he and I lived together for 6 months and we were engaged (our engagement is postponed) I moved out of his apt and I live alone. I moved out because we were arguing a lot and his daughter was disrespectful to me. I love him but this relationship is causing me pain and I don't think he really understands or cares how I feel. Also, he took his daughter to see her mom last week and he told me it was nice seeing his ex wife because he hasn't seen her in 8 months.

got into a bad arguement that night…and I said some horrible things to him resulting in the best sex in my life with the hardest, deepest animalistic thrusts. I didn't even know what hit me. But i feel bad that a child was conceived this way? Or you think its fine?

I got to thinking about this recently and I have heard a lot of different answers. Most women I know when they were young always dreamed about marrying and starting a family later when they got older. I know very few women that don't feel this way. I am just wondering does every young woman want to grow up and get married and have children?