My husband got a divorce quite some time ago. 3 weeks after the divorce was final his ex decided to ask for a garnishment for his military pay for the child support. We began putting the money aside thinking she would turn it in and she never did. He doesn't have any contact info for her, he has an active restraining order against her and he doesn't have any custody because that's what he was forced to agree to by her attorney. He didn't have an attorney. The attorney is the one that obtained the garnishment and never turned anything in or contacted us. They do have an up to date address on file and my husband is active duty very easy to find. How long should we continue to out this money away for this child that he has no relationship with and won't ever?

I've been friends with this guy since middle school we were nerds. By senior year of high school he started talking to the cuter girls even though he had acne But now he's getting married to a really beautiful woman and al his exes looked like models. I'm proud of him but I couldn't pull it off. He's very health oriented and dresses cool. Like idk. I'm proud he pulled it off.

When he broke up with me he said we're too different and not right for each other. He said we will be happy with other people. Next day, he said why did I not try hard in this relationship. he said he was unhappy with relationship but also unhappy with break up and wasn't ready to tell others.

And told me he feel scared of his feelings. My ex and I were together for 5 years and got engaged and we still love each other but separated for reasons that are out control. Now his brother in the picture, he was there for me to help me during my depressed days, but disappeared for several months for a sudden. He called me yesterday and admitted that his disappearance was due his fear from his feelings towerd me, and told me he wouldn't do that to his brother but cannot control what he feels which make his heart broken. And he asked me if I ever would choose him? I didn't give him an answer which made things wrost. What should I do?

My sister got her car at 17 and her license at 17 she wrecked her car 3 times but it never went to the point it was totaled now Ive got my car and my dad won't let me drive it cause of my sister wrecking her car 3 times so i have to drive my moms and my mom drivers mine am Is it bad I'm upset cause i feel I'm paying for my sisters dumbness

Hi! My boyfriend and I have been together for a bit more than one year by now. Two years ago I moved abroad for university and after one year we met. We spent more and less one year together in his country, where i am studying at the moment. Now, in one month he will be the one going abroad as his university requires him to do. The moment is getting really close and I am already freaking out... I don't know whether I will be able to deal with such a situation. Just to let you generally know, we would usually see each other around 4 days a week and for a couple of weeks during summer holidays. I have always felt needing to see him quite often. This is why I am not sure how to get psychologically ready for having him so far away from me for that much time. I want to precise that I am not worried for the future of our relationship as such since we are a strong and good couple, as we have a deep reciprocal trust and understanding. I am only worried about me; I am not sure if I would be actually able to menage such a heavy emptiness in my life. I would really appreciate any kind of advice.

Her suitor is a man of 'new money' and as such, he lacks the grace and refinement of someone from an established dynasty like ourselves. My cousin is naive and won't stop seeing this brute.

Those people, that he owns money, would show up at my mom's place looking for him. He doesn't have a steady job. I think something serious is going to happen to him when they find him. Should I get involve with his f*ck'n drug addict drama to save his @ss or let him learn his f*ck'n lesson the hard way, getting beat to a bloody pulp and getting shot from the people he didn't pay them back?

I have a "cousin" who keeps saying I'm mislabeling him as my "cousin" and that the correct label is "uncle". He's not my uncle, he's not old enough to be considered on. He's 20 (Born in March 1999), and I'm 18 (Born in June 2001). My dad and him are brothers but that makes no difference!

My mother is from New Jersey born and raised. I was born in New Jersey and my father took a transfer to Dallas TX when I was only 3 months old. EVERYWHERE we go/visit my mother feels the need to tell everyone she's originally from NJ. When people ask me where I'm from I will say "Dallas" or TX because well, I've lived here 32 years and only spent only 3 months of my infant life in NJ. She will immediately correct me and tell everyone that I'm "originally" from NJ. It drives me insane. I'm not sure why she feels the need to do this. I've told her how much it bothers me and her response is I should be proud to be born in NJ and shouldn't be ashamed. I lived in NJ for 3 months! I have never been back since and know absolutely nothing about the state. Any advice on what to do? I've alteady told her how much this bothers me.

I feel like I act like it because people say I act like it because I smile and they say I sound like I'm a tall 15 bout to be 16 male that people say I act and sound like it

I was talking to guy and after conversation, he turned around to walk away but then turned back again with his hand out like wanting to touch my shoulder (my hands were full with stuff). Somehow I had a natural reaction to flinch (even though I didn't want to) and then he dropped his hand and walked away?

My girlfriend send me a message saying "When i get home, im gonna f*ck you, love you babe". I tought her saying she is goint to f*ck me was akward/strange. Can a women say she is going to f*ck her boyfriend?´ Or only men can say that ?since men have a penis and women dont. What she meant by this??

Long story short: my cousins baby daddy got out of prison (baby momma is basically an addict) and he has his life together and he has a bright future ahead of him. I'd like to get him a few things for getting his life back in order, he is more positive now and hopefully can continue his path in life. Would a visa gift card, maybe a kids store gift card be ok? So he can take his little girl shopping? I just need some ideas!

I made love for the first time with my boyfriend (19) because I was frustrated and sad that he will go to the academy this september. I was so sad that I would count down the single days that were left to be with him and I cry really often when he's not with me, because I cant get over the fact that the only person who has ever loved me will go away soon. Please do not think bad of him being 19, he never forced me, he didn't even want to, he asked a lot of times if I was sure, it just happened because I was so sad and in despair because of the attachment I have for him. Almost 2 miles away, who knows when I'll see him again. I am so attached to him because we fell at first sight, I was 13 and he was 17, we always had this special connection, we are the ones who understand each other, we went through similar traumas and difficult lives, I speak many foreign languages but I think he is the one who actually understands me. I remember telling him how I came home with the broken bone because of the bullying and he was the one who ever cried and held me, even my mom told me upset why didnt you break him a bone too? And she didn't even bring me to hospital nor report the classmate. My boyfriend was the one who took care of me and took me to the emergency and came to school to defend me. When we made love it was my first time he was afraid of hurting me and at the end I cried and hugged him tight and he held me too and had tears in his eyes saying we found each other in this world.