His family always need money and live above their means when they cant afford it.. and they keep asking my husband for money.. so he gives it to them and lies tp me about it.. so i went off on them.. his favoritism for his family is driving a wedge in our marriage..

My boyfriend is 35. 3 kids by two baby mamas. hes living with his grandmother and mom and he is working as a pharmacist 12 dollars an hour he says. he also is trying to go back to school. problem is he has issues with control and i've been struggling for years to try to get him to see his error of his ways. I keep telling him i want him to view me as an equal and not someone he can control. He nitpicks about my voice and the way i say words ( i think it's an OCD thing). He doesn't want me going to a certain mall he claims as dangerous even though i've been going there all my life. he got mad when i didn't want to have sex with him. in general, he gets mad about small things. Recently I have reconnected with an old friend of mines that i've been friends with for 10 years. it had been a while since we last talked and i decided to message him to see how he was doing one day. It was like no time had ever pass. We talked for hours and days and then the days turned into weeks. crazy enough I've began looking forward to talking to him more than my boyfriend. he is the same age as me. we actually are going through the same type of situation. his girlfriend broke up with him and she also got mad over everything. She was also not nurturing or caring enough. Like how my boyfriend isn't nurturing enough. My guy friend is extremely in tune with his emotions and he is a romantic person in general. I've been craving romance. Mu boyfriend isn't romantic at all and I hate it granted no one is perfect, i feel as though me and my guy friend are more compatible. my guy friend also sent me a video that a poet wrote concerning love My guy friend basically has all of the qualities that I would want my future husband to have. He also just bought a house and has a couple of other projects he's working on.

To shave her husbands back at his request?

husband works full time o work part. He expects me to clean cook child care and pay all bills. He has no money and only pays the mortgage which isn t alot. He took our combined taxes to pay his truck insurance and mortgage so it s cheaper every month and I got nothing to help my bills. I m in charge of shopping Drs schools everytbing. should I not feel slighted here?

Hi. I'm a female 33 I been chatting with this married man we text back and forth he is very persistent for me to hang out with him and his wife. Should I?

In February my fiancee left our shared home unexpectedly. We are both on the deed and mortgage. We are unmarried parents to two children. We continued to equally share the children throughout February and March. She rented a house in April and moved out of our house with less than 12 hours notice to me, taking the majority of our children's belongings. She disappeared for most of the month of April - I couldn't get a hold of her at all. She removed my name from the "authorized pickup list" at the children's daycare - I cannot pick up the children without her approval. She has ignored or denied my requests to see our children consistently since April. At times it's been 3 or more weeks since I've seen our children. She has become weirdly more cooperative in her communication with me lately. Considering these facts, what are my odds of a favorable custody determination at our Temporary Matters hearing next month? I kept thinking she was going to come home and was so shocked throughout April that I basically had emotionally shut down. I filed for primary physical custody back in May after I found out about what she did at the daycare. My lawyer has said she looks bad, but my anxiety level is through the roof about it.

My husband and I separate for month now, he cheated on me with the lady oversea. We had 3 kids: 6;5 and 1. Im stay home mom, he the main support. The house paid off, his car paid off the car im driving still have 4 years financing. He said he will transfer the house ownership to me. He still live in the house. He say when he move out he will take the older boy with him? He says he leave the house so he wont pay anything else. Any advise? If the take the boy can I call.police?

If my daughter were to ever get into a fight with her husband and her husband put his hands on her and hurt her, is it legal for me to kill him with a weapon?

How can I feel good about myself? I've recently lost 80lbs, but I still don't feel good about myself... I'm married, but my husband doesn't tell me that I'm beautiful anymore and I caught him talking to other women multiple times.... I feel so sad and depressed and I have no one to talk to...😢

For example, I see women who look to get married start dating guys that are complete dweebs, socially awkward nerds who happen to make a lot of money as doctors, or engineers, but she doesn't find him attractive at all, she's just with him for security and stability. Why settle your standards so low? There are plenty of financially well off men who aren't complete socially inept geeks who look like a bean pole and are awkward and timid that are confident, outgoing, in good shape, just as intelligent, and loyal partners. Basically what I'm saying is that women don't have to sacrifice sexual/romantic attraction for security. There exists guys that offer BOTH....

Or is it a pointless effort since they were programmed since birth to work hard and have a good work ethic and this is their comfort zone so I should accept her for who she is, even if her workaholism interferes with our family and our marriage and makes a negative impact on her own mental, emotional, and physical well being?

My wife has been addicted crack for almost a year and it has completely changed our marriage. I have tried to help her get sober plenty of times but I don't think she really sees it as a problem. She wastes all her time and money on the drug. We don't spend any time together or have any intimacy. She even gets upset when I ask her to stop smoking until the wee hours of the morning so we can lay down together. She gets upset when I won't give her money and recently punched me square in the face twice. I feel torn between supporting her and wanting better for myself. We have two kids and I have moved them with relatives for the time being. I recently packed my things and left while she was at work this past weekend, but I am torn on if this is worth working out. I don't want to give up on my marriage, but I truly feel like she already has. Aside from the physical abuse, she puts me down often and complains about my desires to want to spend together. She has become incredibly controlling to the point where she has locked me out of our house and taken away my wallet and phone. Can this be fixed?

Keep in mind before I say anything else I had never seen my best friend cry and he is one of the toughest people out there. My best friend's wife left him four months after his mother lost her battle with cancer and he wept like a newborn the day of the funeral. Wasn't long after that the wifey thought he suddenly wasn't "equipped enough" to handle their relationship and started banging her fitness instructor. Thankfully they had no children but that didn't stop my friend from attempting suicide a month afterwards. He is better now but my question is do other girls think like this. As a single man this worried me because I don't want to marry someone and have that done to me. How many of you women/girls would do what she did or think what she did is fine.

If the husband happens to be an inexperienced one, then how can he experienced with such an experienced wife? And how will she adjust with an inexperienced one as she is used to multiple partners. So will she compare him forever.

is mother's intution always right? My mom thinks something is off about him and she's never liked him. every time he's over the house i can tell she feels forced to talk to him. My dad doesn't really like him either. my mom however said it's something not right about him aside from the fact that he has 3 kids by two women. he is living with his grandmother and mom and he just enrolled in school for pharmacist tech She said its something else she can't put her finger on. he is 35. I'm 27. there used to be a time where he refused to be out at night because he was afraid of thugs shooting him but he isn't so weary of being out at night anymore. my mom told me " you don't want to wake up and regret wasting your life with him but i'm afraid that's exactly what's going to happen. you deserve better and im not just saying that because im your mother." it's crazy my mom said she thinks something is wrong with him because I didn't even tell her how controlling he is and how he gets mad about little things a lot. I chose not to tell her because I don't want her opinion swayed based on what i'm saying. I want everybody to form their own individual opinion of him

The 4 kids all want different things and they refuse to get a job, license, car, or a sugar daddy/momma so they are always home and they are always around. How do I get through these next 5 years of my life (assuming they eventually grow up and want to move on/out)?

Several weeks ago my husband was hit with a pretty sizable repair bill for his truck and asked me to help him out with it. I put a little more than $600 on my credit card and he assured me that he would pay me back. On his very next pay day I asked him if he was going to give me some money and he said he had paid several large household bills and just didn't have it. He told me that since I just put it on my credit card to just give him the statement and he'd just pay that. I told him my credit card doesn't send out statements. He thought that was very strange. We take a big Labor Day trip each year with his family and this morning he sends me an email saying we both need to budget a certain amount to pay for our portion of the vacation. I thought that was strange of him to tell me what to do with my money considering he hasn't given me anything back for the car repair. I politely replied that I thought it was strange how he wants me to pay something when he hasn't even started paying me back. This was his reply, "I should have never asked you for help if you were going to hound YOUR HUSBAND about paying it back. You put it on a CC card so it's not like you took the money out of your pocket or your bank account." Am I hounding him to pay me back? He feels that since his car benefits the both of us he should just pay me back when he can. He said, "it's only been a few weeks, chill out a little." And for those who are wondering, no, we don't put our money into one account.

I have had my fair share of boyfriends and one serious broken heart. I have put everything I have into my career. I am 5 7 and 125 pounds. I work out, I know attractive. I could bring any random man home wit me. I have lots of 25 year old men so hit on me and men my age. I just can't seem to find anyone that is ready to settle down. Is it weird that I would love to just be in an arranged marriage with a decent man to have companionship and a travel person and someone to build a life with?

I have tried for over 25 years to find a woman and it seems like now adays women don't want a love that is able to last through even the hardest storms life sends your way. I have never cheated on a woman in my life nor have i ever hit a woman since i view both as the lowest thing a person can do to someone. I have always wanted to be a Father even if the child is not from me and it just seems women don't want real love anymore. I have even been told the one reason i don't have a woman is because i wont consider stuff like open marriage and open relationships....my heart cant love someone that wants to love someone else on the side in a sexual way .

The ex gf dumped him. They decide to remain friends. He gets into a relationship with another woman and they breakup. He then tries to get back with the friend ex gf by wanting to fly her out to Vegas with him. When with the newer ex gf, he told the former ex gf that the newer one was madly in love with him and they just have great sex. When the older ex gf didn't want sex until marriage

lately I haven't been feeling this relationship. my boyfriend is 35. im 27. we've been together 4 years so obviously out of the honeymoon phase but you would think he would want to kiss me sometimes. He said he's not big on kissing but when we have sex he surely kisses me like his life depends on it. the kisses are passionate during sex. but any other time he doesn't show affection. no kissing, holding my hands noth I got tired of trying to initate kissing so i just stopped to see if he would ever kiss me first and it never happened. his excuse is that he can't kiss me without wanting to have sex and he wants us to stop having sex until we are married. so basically he said no kisses so no sex.

I'm hoping my husband will do something about my dad bc he's an asshole.

My husband travels about five hours for work. So usually he's gone for about four days a week. When he was home the other day I went somewhere in his car and found codons. I want to know if there's any acceptable reason he may have them before I approach him? Any ideas

My husband and I have been married a little over 3 years. My husband is a gamer, he plays after we get off work everyday. He stays up until 5am, sometimes 6ish. Depends! So, he recently started role playing in GTA i think. He's talked to me about him having a relationship. Ugh! Well now he does have an RP girlfriend. I want to be okay with it, but I cant seem to accept it. I feel like its disrespecting our marriage. The girl hes talking to is also married with kids and lives in another country. Anyways, i just cant stand the fact that they talk everyday. Im scared this will mess up our marriage. Like what if they develop feelings for each other? I want to be okay with it, but i just cant. I cant help to think of this. :( Am i just overthinking? What should I do?

Okay so iam 15 and my neighbors next door are about 40 or so. The wife talks to me here and there and is super nice. Though her husband never really talks to me at all and is always super quiet. I always get weird vibes from this dude. Though when he talks to my dad he's super nice. Maybe it's just me but I don't know

I have this 18 yo girl who is the daughter of my husband's best friend (supposed-to be) and his goddaughter. The have known me for 16 yrs which is the time that my husband and I have been together. My husband and I have always sent her gifts on bdays and sometimes Christmas. And since my husband is an airline pilot, I have noticed that they expect him to cover their airline tickets every yr on their SUmmer vacations. Well, at least this was regularly the case when both our families lived in the same city and buddy passes were easier to get. I am very offended that this family has not given anything to Eric in return nor I gotten any gift fr them through all those yrs. Not that I want any gifts fr them, but the 2 kids do not even know how to show gratitude and this girl was taught by their mother ( who comes fr the same Asian county as I do) to call me Ms Keiko whereas she calls my husband uncle. When their older son got married just a few months ago, the invitation card was addressed as my husband's name and "partner.". I feel very disrespected by them but pls, anybody, am I supposed to be offended? thank you for your time.

So I m on probation and my wife decided to put her aderral (which is amphetamines) in the alive bottle so what do you know I got a head ache went to go take a few now keep in mind the alive and the aderral are the same blue color not thinking about just to some 5 mins later my wife runs out and says how do you feel? You just took some of my aderral!!! I was like nooooooo!!! Anyway my meetings coming up here in an few days and I m going to be honest about it. Do you think he will believe me?? God I hope so I would hate to violate my self for something as stupid as a mistake???

My husband and I have a family friend. They have a daughter who's about 15. She's a super sweet girl and I talk to her sometimes, thou my husband doesn't. I asked him why and he says he doesn't want to scare her or look creepy.

...isn't marriage just men exchanging money for sex and women exchanging sex for a roof over her head? If she's withholding sex then why is he keeping her around?