Anything longer than two days or three days and I start to spiral downward with my mental health

So I'm with my boyfriend 5 years we have 2 amazing children which we had within 18months of one another. I do love my boyfriend just feel life is moving on and i am noticing things. We both work in hospitality but work opposite days. Lately I've just noticed my partner having no get up and go in him. It kind of upsets me how he never suggests we do things that don't cost much but are important as a family. On his days off he would mind the kids and I notice he doesn't take them anywhere just sits in the front room watching tv the odd time take them to the shops/park which I understand we all like a day off but kids want to be out doing things. Am I overthinking all of this or is my body telling me something. As well he would frequently stay in the pub after work that's okay if it's arranged I have no issue there but he would ring me and say oh ya I'm leaving now and I may not see him until 3am if not later and then he looks perplexed when I am annoyed at him and tries to turn it on me saying if I didn't ring him as much to come home he would come home. That's BS if you ask me. Opinions??

wMy ex said we'll be happy with other people, then why is he texting me first out of blue after months and try to have a friendly conversation

We was together for 6 years We broke up 3 months ago At first we was texting and hanging out everyone in a while last time we hung out was a month ago we both said we were talking to someone else nothing serious We don't really talk like that maybe check up on each other every other week We don't talk on the phone We don't hang out I don't call or bug her We don't live together no more or anything We recently had a conversation and she said she hasn't gotten a chance to move on Nor have I given her space I think it's bullshit Can I really be stopping her when I hardly talk to her or see her or anything She don't know what I'm doing Not do I know what she is doing

I noticed my sister -of legal age- had some bruises tonight on her body as she was moving around in the house and rearranging some items. I was a bit freaked and asked her what happened, and she seemed panicky because I'd noticed, hesitated at first but then told me that they just came from a guy she's having s ex with. That it's nothing violent and he's not harming her. But ok...I lost sleep We're sisters.

His parents were out of town, his brother should have come back at dinner but he came home earlier in the afternoon. I thought my boyfriend had closed the door but as his brother opened it I realized he did not, maybe he had forgotten. I screamed, my boyfriend reacted immediately and he tried to cover me (I didnt have anything on, and he too) with his body (he was on top of me) and he stayed like that screaming to his brother to go away, but he was half shocked as he saw us making love. He went away and he apologized, he didnt laugh at all he looked worried and shocked instead. My bf saw me afraid and trembling because of all of it and he told me everything was alright his brother is just as upset as we are. He was nervous, got dressed, looked for my clothes and gave them to me. He didn't say much afterwards he looked just a bit upset and worried the whole time. I know he protected me with his body so his brother wouldn't see me, but why was he so protective and manly when he did that? He also made me feel ashamed with his behaviour, like I was a sl*t for making love to him, and I had to hide my female parts because they are shameful. I know he did that for good, but I just felt that way because I am a female and I have to shame myself, and he is a man and it's no big deal if someone sees him naked (well actually he was ashamed too). Why do I still feel so dirty from that moment? It was my second time being intimate with my first boyfriend and he hides me like I am a shame

my younger sister is 17 and her and her friends (also 17 yr old girls) have a male friend who is 20 years old. He throws big parties (where there are drugs and alcohol present) and invites my sister and her friends. I think it's weird that a 20 year old guy is hanging out with girls who barely finished their junior year of high school and inviting them to his parties. I told my sister that I thought it was kinda gross and she disagreed. i'm not even bothered about the fact that she's partying, i'm just bothered that she thinks these older sketchy dudes are her friends and that they see no problem with her being younger. I feel like there's often a difference in maturity between a 17 year old and someone who's 20. I grew up A LOT between those ages. what are your thoughts?