so basically I live alone and my only things of value are my exotic pet a 7 year old tiger, a 2017 MacBook Air, a 2008 iMac, and my pet black lab dog. I used to be quite wealthy but I got fired recently from my job so I need money. I still live in a good house but I can't get a new job so I need to sell some things, I don't want to sell any of the things I listed bc I cherish them a lot and also the tiger is already really expensive for feeding and the 2008 iMac is also really expensive bc it keeps breaking and I have to call somebody to fix it. so my questions are. 1. what do I do about my money problem? 2. what do I do about my constantly breaking 2008 iMac? 3. what do I do about my tiger and dog? 4. Also please give me advice on what to do I don't want to get rid of my 2008 iMac bc I cherish it a lot and im really connected to it and I can't live without it or I get anxiety

me and my boyfriend was in a fight because i felt as if he wasn't talking to me enough and she had no idea what was going on but she keeps saying "he cheated on you didn't he" "didn't he" she absolutely does not wanna see me happy she thinks everything bad in the world should happen to me why is she so hateful

I want nothing to do with them.

*This is a continuation to a previous question* My mom and I don't always get along. Sometimes she'll physically threaten me if she doesn't get her way, she calls me names, guilt trips me often, and doesn't respect my boundaries. Sometimes she'll touch my thigh and butt, and when I ask her to stop, she'll say, "I'm your mother, so I can do whatever I want." I talked to a lady at my church about this, and she talked to my mom and our pastor. After they talked, my mom came home crying and told me that I ruined her life, that she could go to jail, that they labeled her a pedophile, and that she'll have to go to another church (she's a minister). I know my mother isn't a pedophile, she just doesn't have any respect for me. So I talked to the lady who talked w/my mom and pastor, and she said that my mom isn't in trouble and that I shouldn't feel about wanting to help my relationship with my mom. My mom is making it seem like I did something terrible. When I go to hug her, she becomes passive and says, "oh wait, I can't touch you. I don't want to get in trouble." My mom wants me to go to our pastor and tell him that I made up the things I said out of anger. However, what I said was the truth. I feel like my mom is playing mind games with me and I'm not strong enough to play

We'd see him on 4th of July and Thanksgiving every year and yet she banned me from my Dad who was a non-violent alcoholic. The rapist was the brother of a friend of hers. I recently learned this person also is now accused of sexually abusing a child family member of his 30 years ago.

It is what made summer growing up but now as adults they don't have time and the grandparents have died so they don't travel to town.

She is one of my best friends, I've known her for 2 going 3 years now and I've known about her father and mine since 2017. So her father did a power grab and suspended my dad from work with no official notice or reason. But it's obvious it was because my dad was getting in his way. My dad is old, and was unemployed for a while and we got really poor because of his suspension(with no pay), I'd be hungry at school most days. But she was always kind to me, she shared her food with me and always involved me in everything she did in school. And I love her like my little sister, I can't say that about many people. Now the tables have turned, my dad got her dad arrested on charges of mismanagement of public funds, misuse of public office and sexual harassment of female staff. I feel really bad and I don't want to go to school because I can't face her. Even if she doesn't know, I can't tell her because it will make everything awkward. She is like this innocent ball of light in this messed up world and I don't want her to be hurt or sad or messed up. She's a really sweet and kind girl and I would never ever want to see her hurt. I know who her dad is, she doesn't know who mine is. And I feel nothing but guilt. What is the best course of action?

My parents just gave birth to twins a week ago and they cry CONSTANTLY, especially at night. I haven't had a good night sleep since they were born. There's also no way to get away from the crying because we live in an apartment. I'm thinking of asking my parents if I could live at my grandparents until those babies get into a normal sleeping schedule. They only live a mile ago so it shouldn't be a problem. And I'm 15.

My parents are always fighting every single day. Its been like this all my life, my sisters are alot older then me and they argue too but my mom told me their marriages filled with too many fights....i told her that her and my dad argue too and she lost it...she flipped on me and said im lying....wtf why is my mom such a hypocritical *****??

Whenever they come over the oldest one who is trans gets in a fight with everyone...the 2nd oldest talks **** and the third hates white ppl. Their dad is hispanic and him and my sister are divorced, he tells his kids to treat our family like **** and his mom, my sister like ****. He makes over 200,000 a year and use to beat my sister. What can i do to put these kids in their place??

I'm going to be doing a modelling shoot in Thailand for bras, and I will be paid 600,000 baht which is around £16,000. I am 16 so I know I shouldn't be having this much money however when I asked to keep it she was a bit funny about it.. should she give me all the money or keep it for herself?

I recently moved 4 hours away with my husband! We have a 7 month old daughter, his family is watching her till we have everything settled into our home and daycare ready(which is next week) We come back every weekend to see her. Now my family has always hated him (no reason), hates that I moved, said they wouldn't help with watching our child(which was fined, I never asked them to) Up to this day, I've been working at the hospital, he's been working at the mill he runs. My parents have been saying, I need to come home to be with my daughter, I need to help out with her( I was a stay at home mom for 6 months, till finances got hard), they say I need help for leaving he behind(I didn't, she's coming over here in a week) saying they're going to call cops because I don't care about her? My husbands family agreed to help us, so I'm not sure how my family is saying we don't care or love her? Making accusations that I'm doing drugs(I'm not, never have), that I'm a **** accuse for a mother. They're trying to hold money over my head from when I was a teenager & living with them. Im at a loss of words, to the point where I feel depressed. My parents have been so negative and toxic. How do I cut them out of my life? My life isn't theirs, so I don't understand why they're like this.

Many of pointed out that well she seem nice to me she may be wicked evil on the inside. How do I act if I have to see this beast again at something for one of their adult children as they have four adult children?

Extended family means the world to me but they've been busy whenever reached out. It'll be Thanksgiving before I see them. I feel really really disappointed as it's the highlight of the summer but now that everyone's getting older they don't have time.

She's 18, has a part time job as a waitress, and is planning to get married to her fiance in the very near future. Her fiance is unemployed. They both just graduated from high school. I don't support this marriage and the worst thing is, she refuses to listen to me.

Possible child abuse described in my other posts but theyre f ucking horrible people I wish were dead. Have destroyed the lives of a few in my family and are pieces of ****. Bully younger and autistic kids and once abused a cat.

(nsfw warning) It takes alot of effort to explain this because its something i dont want to believe. I just want an honest answer because i am a confused 15 year old and i dont know who i can talk to about this topic. I always feel uncomfortable to wear whatever i want around my dad because he always says stuff like "won t your vagina freeze with that skirt on" and "girls wear revealing stuff and they expect us not to look?!". I always think of the time when he laughed and dared me to skinny dip when we were in a pool at night together. Its something i akways think about because i hate it. I hate it when im feeding or hugging my cat happily and he says stuff quietly like "stop playing with your p*ssy" and "a girl and her p*ssy". I hate it and i dont know what to feel because i know he can be good but i can never feel comfortable around him. I m confused please help i just want to cry

I am 33 years old and the only girl in the family. I have been with this man for almost a year. He converted to islam a few months into our relationship, and wants to propose, but I am terrified to tell my mother about his. My mother and I have a strained relationship, she is very rigid and has been horribly verbally and emotionally abusive in the past. She told me if I marry someone who is not from the same country as us then she will disown me. The thing is I dont are if she disowns me, I"m just scared of her wrath and anger when I do tell her and I dont know if it is worth it. I have no other family support from siblings except partially my dad. I also cannot keep being singe because of her either, especially since I am 33 now. Do I need her support, am I in the right? What do I do/

When I was 14 I would sit on my mom's lap a lot and I'm a boy and she was 51 kind of thin and white. was she?

I'm always much happier with my grandma, much more supported in anything, and I can talk to her about anything. My parents have this way of teaching me right from wrong. It's an outdated way know as the Socratic method... I've been mentally abused by my parents my whole life.....

My brother and i are white and he constantly calls blacks the N word, we were at a store the other day and he made fun of a mexican speaking..how do u get him to shut his mouth and mind his business?? Im starting to not like him Especially since he yells in every sentence when he speaks..should i disown him??

I mean women and men cheat, but i thought it has nothing to do with their partners. Some wives cheat even if their husbands are rich and give them what they want, and some men cheat even if wife is beautiful.

I'm 24. I make about $55,000 per year. I live with my dad. My dad takes about half of my money. About $20,000 per year. He makes about $200,000 per year. -I pay $1,000 per month for rent to him -I pay for all the groceries -I pay for random billls sometimes -he has about $3,000,000 saved -Probably the dumbest thing is for his birthday I bought him like a $100 meal from a restaurant and for my birthday he didn't buy me a meal. Decent apartments where I live cost about $800 minimum. I always tell him I cant move out because I cant save money easily and he thinks he's treating me fairly. Sometimes he asks me if I want to buy the house he lives in so I can keep it for myself. So maybe he thinks I'll just buy the house from him eventually? Idk... have you heard of a parent who charges this amount of money to their kid?

I have an older brother who we'll call George, and he is REALLY annoying. He likes to come into my room without knocking, mock me, and some worse things like hitting me over the head with stuff and giving me red marks. I can't say that I've been the nicest to him, but it's hard not to when he does stuff like this daily. But I don't want to tell my parents about what he does because he has depression and if I were to tell them, they would go and yell at him (normal parent stuff) and I would feel really bad about it. I've read his diary once, and it's really sad and I don't want to cause him more pain. I'm not sure what to do!

I have a biracial daughter. She has very curly hair which I love and is beautiful. I decided I don't want her around my side of the family anymore because I feel like they say things that can really affect her in the future. My older sister is always telling me that I should straighten my daughters hair because she'd look much prettier and it wouldn't be as nappy and hard to handle and also that it's good she doesn't have "bad hair" and has "pretty light skin." Which really bothers me because I want my daughter to love everything thing about herself. My mom and sisters are always throwing out the n word and think because it ends with the a it's okay. My sisters and their boyfriends also talk about how they don't like black people because they're ignorant and ghetto and how of all races black people cheat the most. I don't want my daughter to not like being black and think that her dad cheats on me. They also do this thing where they hug her and talk to her in Spanish and say "you don't look like a black girl though." Or "you're a clean and pretty black girl." My daughter is 5 now and understands more and more each day. We just moved back to my home state so this was never an issue before because my daughter didn't see them much just on FaceTime. How can I tell my family that they need to stop this behavior or they won't be able to see her without upsetting them. It also really hurts and bugs my husband and makes us argue because he feels as if I don't do enough about it.

For the three years I ve been back in my mother s care, I have been told by her in almost every argument we ve had that she is "the only person there" for me and that I can t do anything correctly. When I try to bring up things she s said or done that have been hurtful for me she dismisses it and says that I m making up things to be mad about. I ve also noticed that anytime I cry or get distant from her she always tells me I m mad and that I "should be mad at myself and not her". I m 14 turning 15 this August and I don t think I can take three more years of this. If I am being abused, what can I do to get her to stop without getting CPS involved as it scares me to be put into foster care? Just last month she threatened to break my neck during an argument where she got in my face to say that. It takes everything I have not to kill myself to get away from her.

I'm a oncall field training manage. I supervise over the caregivers in the company I work for. But when someone ask me what's my occupation I say caregiver. It feels like I'm ashame of being a oncall supervisor or somethin. Or I'm afraid people may think I'm a caregiver and he saying I'm a supervisor make me like like I'm ashamed of being a caregiver. Or I have low self esteem and if I tell people I'm a supervisor I'm afraid they may just look at me and laugh. And say how are you a supervisor.

My 7 year old made a friend at school this year and he was invited to his birthday this summer. After that they had a play date. They have a pool and both kids swam and ate pizza after. When I picked my son up she offered some clothes for my son. Some shorts I felt a little offended but I didn't know if she meant to be nice or was telling us that he needs clothes. She says these are her sons cousin's clothes. That were too small ( her son is chunky) so they want my son to have it. I didn't want to be rude so I took it. But now I want to return them and say they didn't fit. Should I ? My husband says she was just being nice because Spanish folks are like that. I didn't feel that way. It felt as if she thought my son didn't have clothes. But we live in the same subdivision so we are not in need.

Idk im kinda skeptical about it. But she has 2 kids of her own. One is 2 and the other is 1, both boys. Well she is living with me and we been together since february. Well she keeps lettin her parents take care of her kids because shes afraid of her oldest son to cry missing his grandpa which is who he sleeps with. I tokd her she oughta try and let them stay with us to see if its gonna work out because she has full custody and she wants me to be their daddy. Well she's pregnant but not with my blood kid. Ecause we're waiting til marriage before we like sleep together even though she is wanting to do the dirty with me now. Bit i told her no i want tl wait. I guess more or less i got a lot of questions going through my mind. Shes pregnant with someone she slept with and not sure who the dad is. I guess i just dont understand why is she not wanting her kids to stay with us. At first when we got together she fought with her parents cuz they wouldnt let her have her kids even tbough she is the one that has custody. Idk im just so confused on the whole situation and not sure what to do.