He is also getting frustrated with me bringing it up like I am nagging at him. He is a good guy but I do not feel appreciated it at all. He has went through some things in life but I need his help. Any suggestions? Also he avoids me so he does not have to hear my mouth. I am so tired but I love him.

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I have guy friends that have watched me hop from one toxic relationship to the next. It's crazy because I know that good men exist because my friends are GOOD MEN, but one of my friends said I wasn't his type and the other one is in a relationship now. my guy friends go into explicit detail about how a woman should be treated and how my boyfriend always does the opposite of that. I know for a fact that they would make a great boyfriend. One of the guys I'm friends with has been my friend for 10 years and we have intense chemistry and a major connection. This is the guy that has a girlfriend.My mom has wanted me to be with him since the day she's met him. She's never wanted me to be with my boyfriend cause he is 35 with 3 kids and two baby mamas. At first I had to think about why I was settling for this situation with this man with all these kids AND who was controlling towards me. It was because all of the good guys either don't like me OR are taken. My current boyfriend even told me my guy friend is a much better match for me. He said that in time my guy friend will realize 'im the one. He was like " they are boyfriend and girlfriend, not married. he doesn't have baggage like I do and yall are just more equally yolked. Me and you are too different and I have no desire to change who i am."

So I have this friend who lives out in the country with her husband, daughter, sister, brother-in-law, and niece. Her and her husband have five dogs and one cat, and the sister has two cats. Is that too many animals?

I'm 45 my husband is 41. I had a baby three years ago and have put on a little weight but not that much. Though the other day this teen aged girl walked by our window and he said "god damn if only you could have a body like that" I was devastated and really don't know how to tell him that made me felt

I'm considering divorcing my husband for these reasons below.... We have not had sex in 4 months, sex life is nonexistent now He never initiates sex We never go out, when we do he barely interacts and looks bored with me He stares at women hard like as if I'm ugly to him which I'm not ugly (very attractive) and get hit on by men often We don't sleep together at night. He falls asleep in a different room He doesn't really help with chores I feel like a maid and nanny I don't even have a wedding ring because he can't afford one and I bought myself a band and him one which he rarely wore He falls asleep when I'm talking to him about something important I don't feel like a priority I ask to cuddle and he says ok but never does All I get is a goodbye kiss peck when he leaves sometimes I didn't get married to have a roomie that occasionally pecks me on the lips and ignores me most of the time He's good with our babies and some other things he's not all horrible but I feel so disconnected to him and feel like he wants me to just be his roommate not his wife I've told him exactly how I feel about all of this too many times and he says he will do better but it never happens I've told him I want an open marriage or a divorce since he doesn't want to act like my husband. He says he doesn't want either but I don't know why he wants me here I feel so defeated like I've tried everything I can think of Serious advice please thanks

I recently found out that my married co-worker (young woman) is having an affair with our married boss! Usually I'd mind my own business but I've already noticed favoritism towards her at work even though she tends to slack off/do whatever she wants after the affair began and I'm supposed to have a promotion coming up and I definitely dont want it to be taken from me just because I'm not sleeping with our boss! I know about the affair because she admitted it to me herself along with details I did not want to know. I have proof on my phone but feel wrong to spill her disgusting secret even though I did not care to know or even want to know! I love my job but I'm feeling like I really dont know what to do. I feel so disgusted at work when they flirt and when I see her be over friendly with the boss's wife ( oh yeah did I mention the boss's wife also works there!!!) I've already told the co worker I do not want to hear anything else about it but I need advice please!

He's always gone for work (8weeks gone, 12 days home) and has a history of drunken rage, cheating, and generally being a doüche. I'm done.

I was married to my first husband back in 2011 had a child 2012 after i've got pregnant my ex husband decide to move to back to Texas where he reside. And he told me he wanted me to move with him I said I love to remain VA. But we ended up divorce because he left me to Texas since 2012 he had never met my daughter he came today to meet her with he's mom and when I see him tears comes from my eyes I also got married to another men and had baby girl 1 years old. How can I get over him

My husband got a new job and unfortunately, my company has moved an hour from where we currently live. I normally get home around 6:15 by the time I pick the kids up. My husbands new job has him working crazy hours till 7:30 sometimes later. We've been trying to get into a routine for dinner but it's been really difficult. We've been eating out with the kids almost daily and it's starting to get really expensive. The problem has been my husband feels it's important we eat all together as a family however, with how late he gets home it's been next to impossible. The kids by 6:15 are hungry, I'm generally hungry, I never know what time he's getting home, the kids need showers, help with homework. I'm having a hard time cooking dinner even at 6:15 so we are constantly eating out. Any suggestions? For those who's family works crazy hours or long hours what do you do?

I got married young. Thankfully my now ex husband and I never had children together. I'm now remarried and my husband and I want to have kids. I'm going to be 36 this year and I'm concerned I might be too old to have children at this point. A lot of women I've spoken to have told me they'd never have another child after 35. This will be my first child. My hope is to have 2 children by the time I'm 40. Am I too old to have kids? Has anyone had children after 35?

The other night my husband and I were having a few drinks and he had a bit to much and got pretty drunk. He started saying stuff about this girl we know who's like 15. The things he was saying about her was extremely sexual but I tried to let it go cause he was drunk. Though I can't help but keep thinking when people are drunk they're typically honest. So should this be a concern

It's my personal opinion, but I don't believe anything they say in church. Plus, the kids are too young to scare them of hell and demons and what not. If they choose to be catholic, I have no problem with that, but she needs to let them choose when they're ready. Not force them down this road from this age.

My husband always looks at other women Korean Girls especially we were in a arguing and always tells me I would love to sleep with a other women but I don't do it cause I'm married to you . Always tells me he wants to cheat how would this make you women feel? I'm very insecure and he knows doesn't care anyone's husband said this to them ?

I said for the commission she's getting she should blow him. She's a Trumpster, good come back for me or what?

We have been married over 6 years it's my 3rd and his 2nd. I am 52 he is 56 years of age. Three years ago I was able to convert a hobby into a business. My husband supported me so could get my certification and fronted money to open my first studio. We both agreed that for first year would be working lots of hours and would not take vacation or be together much. He also has dome almost all of the remodel work and maintenance on studio to keep costs low. Fast forward to now 3 years later I had a chance to open a 2nd studio and since first is doing well and running smooth I jumped at chance in 2nd city to open that was 2 months ago. Now I am swamped again with start up and my husband has been once again providing the physical remodeling also use some savings to jump start this new studio faster. Couple nights ago he said to me that this is not working. In that we had said 1 year of no vacation and limited time together and here we are 3 years plus later still no vacation for us. In addition he said that it's like we are roommates that never see each other. The only time he sees me is when fixing something at studio or the remodel of the new studio. He told me if knew that was what our life was going to be like should have not gotten married. My reply was yes that is all true and that I rather be with him than have these studios so if it meets just not continuing the new studio and let the other studio be as is that's what will do.

My bf is a mommas boy. He lives right down the street from his family, we see his family at least 2-3,times per week, when I cook dinner he always wants me to make his noms recipes, he will tell me "that's not how my mom does it." He goes on the same vacation every year for 32 years with his family and refuses to not go. He even almost missed his best friends wedding because he had to make sure he had enough vacation time to go on his family vacation first before requesting off for the wedding. I've been looking for a new job and he is refusing to move more then an hour from his parents. His mother found out I had an interview 2 hours away and she told him she did not think it was a good idea that he move with me that far away. She even messaged me asking if he and I broke up. I told her no we were just having a disagreement Her response was "I'm so sorry just don't know what to say or do to help he's not going to leave town." Should I just end things? I'm 30 he's 32 and it just seems outrageous at this point

My in-laws hate me. My brother-in-law hated me since day 1 and has tried to sabotage me and my marriage since the very beginning. The moment I spoke up for myself his parents never forgave me. They are all heavily involved in my wife and son's life but want nothing to do with me. They make this known to all around them. They go to great lengths to make them happy and I can partake to the extent my wife and son benefit. The moment they no longer benefit it is made clear that this was not for me. I have always found myself taking the position that since they are so good to my wife and son I should always show them my appreciation. But I am wondering, why should I show appreciation if they are making it clear it is not for me. Perhaps, I should only go out of my way for them to the extent that it benefits my wife and son. However, the other part of me says do not let someone else's bad behavior influence how I behave and continue to do what I would do, and do it for the sake of my own character. Thoughts? Obviously, there is the high road, there is certainly a low road, but I want the most effective road. Please do not say talk to them. They are effing narcissists and will only trample all over it and then act injured afterwards.

My husband and I have been married awhile and have young kids. Though I caught him cheating on me in our own bed with a girl who I found out is just seventeen. We went to marriage counseling and the counselor tried to say he could very well just be having a mid life crisis cause he's forty two. It sat uneasy with me but I'm not sure. Do you think this could be a mid life crisis?

my boss is forty years old with a wife and child. Though I saw him in the parking lot making out with a girl that I figured out is 16. I have heard him talk to her a few times on the phone as well. So it's quite apparent they're having an affair. I can't report it because age of consent in our state is 16. However I feel like I should somehow tell his wife. Though I'm not really sure if that's my place to know. Any tips thanks!

Should i be worried he's trying to leave without me knowing it? He tried to erase the history on the computer but forgot to erase it. Lately he's been getting on the internet staying all night while i'm sleep and erasing everything afterwards. He also claim he went to visit a coworker to smoke and drink with and when i kept calling his phone he said he left it in his car that's why he wasn't answering. Another time he left stayed gone for hours and claim he was just riding around. Those are red flags he's cheating to me. What should my next move be? file for a divorce?

My husband and I have been married for fifteen years. We have a young child. Many times my child and I leave to go to the store or something and my husband is at home I get suspicious. When I come home he's often very tired. I didn't really think much til I found a condom hidden in the trash that wasn't between us. I haven't approached or asked him about it cause I really don't know what to think. Any tips on asking him about this stuff

I'm really getting frustrated with my husband. We've been married since March and we have no biological kids of our own, but i have a four yr old son. My husband doesn't work cause he's disabled. I recently accepted a position for federal government, thing is i have to be to work b4 schools start. So i will be unavailable to drop my son off when school starts in two weeks. He keeps saying I'm not no babysitter. This is really getting to me cause i'm starting to feel as he doesn't accept my son as his and if u home with your own kids while your wife work and consider it babysitting i'm nothing or have no meaning to him. I had interviews twice b4 and he was home and like he would leave the house an hr or two b4 my interviews and say he can't take my son with him or be home to watch him until i'm done My son was in daycare but my husband complained so much and wanted me to take him out. My son is four so i took him out. I want to work and not have to depend on him for everything. He's always saying you only going to be working a few hours a week that's no money. It's not about the money to me, but a way i can pay bills and help get things our family needs. It's very hurtful to me

I'm talking beliefs here not core values. Beliefs appear to be the result of popular opinions or indoctrination; core values appear to be the result of character building and self made decisions that the person holds deeply to be true about themselves and maybe the world. Example of a belief might be: There's no point to try hard in a marriage because if they really loved me for who I am then it would work without any effort on my part", an example of a core value might be: "I am willing to work for anything that I want in life as long as it grows me or makes me a better person". If someone has a belief, whether it's idealistic on their part or it's been influenced upon them by people who made sense like reading someone's personal blog and having an "ah-ha" moment since they agreed with what you wanted to believe anyways (confirmation bias), then how do you confront them about this belief and tell them that it's not objective reality and it is only in their head? Example that pertains to me: My wife believes that she is doing what's best for the children by making them the focus of our marriage since her parents didn't focus on her or her siblings and they all turned out messed up in ways that she didn't like.... This is a lie she tells herself to make herself feel better about ignoring the marriage (something that makes her anxious because she doesn't like intimacy) and it gives her that "I'm busy" excuse when I ask her to spend time with me... Help? My kids are 13, 16, 17, and 18; they are old enough to take care of themselves now, but she continues to coddle them when they make bad choices and she comes to the rescue too much. Especially since my 18 year old likes to make bad decisions on purpose to see who "cares" enough to come help her.

I have not seen her this happy in my life. Her brother's wife has called it quit after 33 years of marriage. My Mom, who is the only sister of her brothers, has not been this happy since when my Dad came home from Iraq in 1991 after the Gulf War (he was in the army). I feel celebrating a divorce would be like celebrating one's suicide since divorce is like suicide, always wrong but sometimes not anything we can judge someone for after that fact cause of the state of mind they may have been in.

I am newly married, I have 3 kids from a previous marriage but I do not recieve financial help for them. I have a well paying job, with over 100K in the bank. My husband on the other hand was working under the table making very good money and had nothing saved. I pay for the bills, he does pay for going out to eat once in awhile, he does not financially help me with my kids. He now is in jail for credit card fraud, he wants me to pay for his lawyer, pay to renew his license, pay to pick up his car and to send him money for food, I refused. i do accept his calls, we talk for long hours so i have spent thousands already. His friends and him think I am the worst wife in the world, They think that its my responsibility when hes down to help him. I feel really bad at times, maybe im bitter. He made his money and choose not to help me and spend everything. I do not go out, I work a lot of hours and I take care of the bills and kids on my own. I know i should be there for him but I feel that he made a foolish mistake. Im going through serious depression over this. I think we might get a divorce over this and I don't want to. I just want him to be reaponsible. Am I wrong for refusing to pay?

They character assasinate me and threaten people not to talk to me.I sued them.Why do they think they re above the law?