We've dated before. Our friendship started after we dated. When we first met we liked each other and went straight into a relationship. Then after we broke up, we agreed to be friends. We disconnected for a bit, he changed into a much better person, we reconnected, and now we're super duper close. I thought I got over him in the time we were apart, but I realized that I've had feelings for him ever since. Now that we're close, I've fallen in love again. I refuse to tell him because I've told him already that I had feelings, but during that conversation, I told him I was getting over him. I lied. I know for a fact I'm not getting over him any time soon and I'm angry with myself. He's my best friend and I don't know what to do.

I hooked up with a cute guy becuase it had been 5 months since U had sex after a bad break up. We had sex twice and then I got dressed immediately after as he lives in O.C. and I live in East LA and I had something to do in the morning. I also did not want to get to emotionally intimate, so I did not stay to watch tv and cuddle but I like him. He seemed surprised that I got dressed and took me back to my car and drove off. There was akward silence for the majority of the ride back to my car. I did not know what to say. I also checked my phone a little while with him and dating app notifications came up. I send him a flirt y text the next day and he did not reply. 😿😐😒

My sisters boyfriend had already cheated on his girl to be with my sister (sad) and then he suddenly left for a break for a month!! but I know he was with his ex. He's a master manipulator, he told my bf he was gonna leave my sister & that he only likes her for her body.. he's rude to everyone and always expects something in return for being a good human being and helping people in need.. his ex always posts weird stuff too but he has my sister believing he loves her and he isn't the same.. I don't know what to believe.. oh and just earlier he took away a tv plug for a tv he was letting us use because I don't like him and I guess he doesn't want me watching tv but my sister and I share a room so she goes without the tv too!! Idk what do you guys think

As a 20 something guy, I am never settling down. The house I buy is from my own hard money. I can take care of myself alone. I know how to cook, and do my own laundry. Why do other men say I need to get a girlfriend? Women don't owe men anything and I am glad women are standing their own ground.

....but then I realized he talks to every girl at work so I just stopped talking to him. I don't have a crush on him BTW.

"I'm not enough I know, so let me go. It hurts to be half loved" posted by a 22 year old female Why? why would the guy have to let her go instead of her dumping him...and what does the saying mean? it makes no sense to me

I like to tease her back as well. She usually always smiles at me and always keeps very long eye contact.. She says things like "Who would want your instagram anyway" or "Wow you broke her heart, what a heartbreaker" or "I heard you have big muscles"

I liked this guy, my best friend, a couple years back, but when I told him I liked him he freaked out and said he needed space. I gave it like 3 months until I tried to talk to him again, but he eventually ended up blocking me. I was heartbroken and couldn't understand why he would hurt me like that. Add to that, that I was going through a very hard time, since I was sick with gastritis and anxiety, panic attacks and lost 50 lbs. He knew this, but still blocked me. When he said he wanted space, he did tell me he was scared because I told him that I didn't want to die without seeing him again and he made me fight to live. I was on meds then though, and I explained that to him and that I didn't mean it that way, but he still blocked me. So, flash forward to now, I had a dream about him recently and saw someone that looked just like him at work! I decided to google his name, and i came to a video saying he went through a very hard time, with a lot of his friends dying all at once and he said that he found god. Well, the thing is I am going through the same thing with my mom who has cancer! There was a point where I believed that she would die within days, and I freaked out and pleaded to god to save her, and that i would go to church every sunday if he saved her. (Please read on my other question to see the rest of the story)

For the same reason some white girls are so unfriendly and rude, do some girls in general like to force guys to keep themselves? Are they taught to think that anyone with a penis could be a dangerous threat to them?

I broke up with him a few days ago, and he sent me a text today asking if we can still see each other. I told him i'll see him today. He asked if we could take a break for a few weeks. but now I have been an emotional wreck and bawling my eyes out because he was toxic and I don't know what to do with my emotions. It has been 2 days since I said yes to our break. I hate him so much, and he was the worst human being in the world. He was emotionally abusive and posessive. Should I text him and end the relationship now? Idk why i feel so nervous. I feel so stupid, and this is my first relationship. Idk what to do anymore, and I want to release my emotions and let him go. Should I text him and end the relationship now? I composed a text that said, "I don't need 3 weeks to know how I feel anymore. It's over, Daniel. You cheated and abandoned me when I needed you. I don't need someone in my life who constantly insults me and never considers my feelings. Loving you is my biggest regret, and I'm done with you and all the constant pain you put me through"

I have been in the "talking stage" with a guy for a few months. I'm having a feeling that he is losing interest in talking to me. What to do? Should I be straight forward and ask him about it or just leave it be and give out the same energy? Just some ideas but I have no idea what's happening and if he is I don't want to be wasting my time because I am starting to really like him

so me and this girl really like each other except she lives in another state. We talk and FaceTime all the time, we talk about our future, we have plans for an apartment after senior year. And I want to visit her before senior year ends. But when I get there what do I do? Is she going to run up to me and kiss me or should I kiss her? Should I not kiss her? Please help

As I passed the front desk and he was writing and I just looked at him. He right away stopped what he was doing and just stared at me. I stopped looking at him but he kept on staring at me until I passed. The customer that he was helping ask him a question and he stopped staring at me. Another time I was walking behind him and there was another person with shoe wheels. She was making noises and he kept on turning around to see what was making the noises. He was still turning around all of time.

Me and this girl have been talking on and off for like a year now, just a couple days ago I went over to her house and spent the night. I wasn't expecting sex, so it was a great night either way, we put on the tv and fell asleep in each other's arms. It felt amazing. It felt real to me and I'm just scared that it wasn't the case for her. I really like this girl.

It's happened to me, I imagine it's to a lot of guys too. Say if a guy takes interest in a girl, he tries to ask her to hang out, text her, go with her, and all he gets is "no" answers. And ignores half his texts. Then after a while he realizes she's not into him, and is forced to move on, and he stops liking her. Well now six months to a year later after he's moved on from her, now likes HIM. But the guy is saying "too late, I liked you before, I don't want you now". It's like, girls wait until it's too late to start liking a guy that likes them. They have to go after the guy while the feelings are mutual.

So this is a long story. Okay so I dated this guy in October and we broke up because I was busy at the time with school. So we decided to stay communicating, even talking about once I was graduated from high school we would try to be together again since I'll have more time for a relationship. A few months later he asked me to come see him but I don't think I was ready. So after months of him wanting me to come see him I finally decided I was ready for a relationship so I went to go see him 4 weeks ago and he said he wanted to meet my family and be with me, so we have sex and after wards he only texts me 2 times and then he wasn't replying to my messages and 2 days later he blocks me on everything. Then a couple nights ago I found out he's had a girlfriend the whole time since November and she's pregnant with his kid. I'm just so sickened and upset over this and I'm trying to forget about it but it keeps popping in my head and makes me feel heartbroken all over again... I just need some advice to move on from this 😞😔

I dated this girl for almost a year and for the past month she's been distant and would not come over anymore but just call. When she called she'll only complain about her family or a guy she was friends with for about a week. I'm ok and supportive with her feeling sad but when it comes to just calling me just for those things it makes me feel empty. She said during our relationship that I wasn't allowed to call or text her so I have to wait and hope for her to call me which sucked. She doesn't sleep on the phone with me like she used to and when she did call it's only like 5-15 mind and just leaves without saying bye. What should I do?

I hooked up with a cute guy becuase it had been 5 months since U had sex after a bad break up. We had sex twice and then I got dressed immediately after as he lives in O.C. and I live in East LA and I had something to do in the morning. I also did not want to get to emotionally intimate, so I did not stay to watch tv and cuddle but I like him. He seemed surprised that I got dressed and took me back to my car and drove off. There was akward silence for the majority of the ride back to my car. I did not know what to say. I also checked my phone a little while with him and dating app notifications came up. I send him a flirt y text the next day and he did not reply. 😿😐😒

We used to see each other daily. But then life changed for me so I see her on and off every few months. I was about to see her a very long time. One of our friends told me that her dog died. Our friend explained that she was very sad and depressed and no matter how our friends tried they could not make her laugh smile or feel better. I saw her on the same day she just hugged me, then we started talking and she started to feel better. she started to laugh and smile. Why she only felt better after we met?

I met this guy at a party a week ago, followed him on Instagram and he followed back and all that. We talked once (just us one one one convo) about how his experience with acid was, lmao. We talked a bit in a group setting but overall not much communication. There was some eye contact when weren't in a group, like from across the room. But still, not that much that told me he was super interested and wanted to hook up right then and there, but enough that I would believe it if he was interested, you know? I think he's super cute, and wanted to know if I should ask him if he ever wanted to get together, not for anything serious, maybe some hookups. I'm 16 and he's either 17 or 18, going off to college in about a month. What should I do? If I should ask him about linking, how do I go about that? Thanks for reading all this, and please don't be obnoxious in the replies.

I texted my boyfriend and asked him if he wanted to come over and watch netflix/eat dinner and he said no because his grandmother had surgery and he has to watch her. I said ok and started back working on my book.then an hour left he texts me and tell me to come out with no warning at all that he was on the way. I had already discussed with him before about coming over without warning because this is about the 3rd or 4th time he's done this. I had to stop in the middle of writing and then go outside to his car. " he said "hurry up and come out only for a second i have to get back to the house." I told my friend about it and my friend was was like "It's rude and a form of manipulation unless he was suprising you with a gift or trying to be sweet. he was a just being nosey probably. there's no alternative reason to waste yalls time." my boyfriend claimed he just wanted to see me for a second. My guy friend was like " you need to go ahead and let him know you not with the games. that's low level manipulation. nobody is falling for that"

Long story short I don't understand this double Standard. My ex boyfriend was using it as an insult against me that I had a threesome w/ two guys and that I've had sex w/ 3 guys in one night before.. which it's like honestly if you ask me, I GOT GAME. It just makes me so angry because if roles were reversed and I was a dude I would be on a pedestal for getting 3 girls in one night yanno? It's just such an unfair double standard and I shouldn't be having insults thrown at me simply because I enjoy sex. Will there ever come a day when sexual freedom is embraced? ):

im 27 and my boyfriend is 35. been together four years. I never considered it to be sexual abuse but when i discussed it with my friend he said its a form of sexual abuse. I admit that I play a part in him being distrusting because 3 years ago I cheated. It was wrong and I'm owning up to it. I NEVER had sex with the man I cheated with. It was more so emotional cheating because I TEXTED him half naked pictures of me. very wrong of me. every now and then my boyfriend gets moments where he has to test me to make sure i'm not having sex with another man. Couple months ago I was at work ( I'm a teacher) on my lunch break he called me and while on the phone he heard one of my students voices and my student was trying to flirt with me and talking about how I was gonna be his gf. obviously I don't really take that stuff seriously because he's a high schooler. Boyfriend got mad i didnt tell my student i had a boyfriend and accused me of trying to get with him. so when i got off work he fingered me to make sure i was tight. he said " he said you should still be tight because we havent had sex in a while. so if you are loose i will know."

He went out last night and this is the photo I found on Twitter. His colleague said he was quite stressed out and sad but I can't figure out by this photo... I need help!?

I feel like he's faking it.

I told my guy friend (who I like) that a guy I asked out called me ugly and said "who would date you, your too ugly" My guy said " should I beat him up" "don't take what he said to heart it thinks it true because you're amazing and you're beautiful and you have a lot to offer to someone" He drove me home and when we got there he parked and turned off his car and we talked for like 30-40 minutes I guess my question is does he like me, is he friendly or does he feel bad

We had a falling out a long time ago, (I distanced myself because I had feelings for him but was not ready for the demands of a relationship; I never told him I had feelings for him to prevent any additional hurt to him) but he recently reached out to me. We started messaging daily. All the emotions unearthed, and I ended up saying that I still had feelings for him and that I had had feelings back then, too. He responded by telling me my feelings were probably not serious and that we were both different people now. The next day, he messages me as if nothing happened. Why is he pursuing a conversation with me if he knows I like him romantically? Wouldn't he know from his own personal experience that talking to someone that doesn't reciprocate their feelings is painful? Is he attempting to learn the new 'me'? Is he playing hard to get because it seemed as though I led him on? I am extremely confused. Real answers, please.

Let's say, your friend was walking down the street and you passed them on the opposite side (so, driving towards them) but you were day dreaming about something/something was on your mind... would you see them? Or be completely oblivious?

My boyfriend knows I have endomentrosis which affects my sex life, periods, and more. my bf said is boring and he yearns for more. sex is painful and my pelvic area hurts. I told my friend my health issues and i told him sex is probably never going to be some mind blowing experience because of that, no matter who i'm with. Me and my boyfriend are incompatible in a lot of ways, but I think my boyfriend is mostly focused on how sexually incompatible we are as sex is the most important thing for him. My friend jokingly said " I wanted to get your head checked when you said the sex was average. I thought for sure that was holding the relationship together. But trust me, there are other ways to be stimulated than simple intercourse. the sex can still be phenomenanal." I was like " well we do oral too and it doesnt really do anything for me when he goes down on me. thats average too." and my guy friend said " has he asked you how he could be better, what you like, or new things he should try." I was like " never." My friend was like " sorry to tell you but it's defintely him. good sex isn't just about how good you are at moving back and forth. it's about your ability to connect with your partner, figure out what they like, and want and then understanding of the female body in general. among other things. if he hasnt shown those traits you would still find that the sex is average regardless of medical conditions. he doesn't know how to connect with you emotionally. my guy friend was like " different wavelengths sweetie. he's just not hearing you right. I think even if you say it perfectly ( which you won't because there's too many fears and minced feelings you're still going to have to say it a thousand times for it to get through to him correctly and make a positive change. He needs to get his act together and find someone in his league and focus on creating a stable life for his 3 kids. you would be asking him to go through a supernatural metamorphis I'm trying my best to make him happy. I just don't know what to do. I even have sex with him when I don't feel like it and even though I am in pain my friend said "you went way down the ladder to grab this man. he's never going to be the man you are actually looking for. he just doesn't have what it takes."

I met this guy online about three months ago. We both felt a very strong connection to each other and decided we'd stay in contact through email. Recently, he's just been showing no effort when it comes to talking with me, almost as if it's a chore. Sometimes he'll take more than a week to respond to my emails when he's very clearly active on social media most of the time. I tell him I understand after he apologizes but he keeps doing the same thing. He's very sweet when he does write back and I care about him but I just feel like I'm only an option to him and I don't want to be in that kind of a situation. I just feel like if I really mattered to him, he'd at least acknowledge me. This is what I'm going to write to him. Please tell me your thoughts or if it comes off in a negative way. Thank you in advance.

When I was on the phone with my friend she was asking me How am I doing; I told her I was good. She said, "Ok" and I thought "have I said something wrong?"

This question is mostly for females but males are welcome but I have noticed that I am a horny rabbit when I have nothing to do with men and not dating anyone but when I do it's rare. Could I be asexual and not know it? I however love masturbating when I'm not with anyone after the period it's worse of course around then I can do it about 5 times a day I have no interests in dating either but men hits on me times to time and I have a few that are just friends but that's about it. Is this feeling normal though?

I'm a 21 year old guy. Recently, I got a cute girl on suggested on Instagram. She lives in my city. I followed her and she followed me back. She's 18. We have similar interests. We have liked and sent messages back and fourth. I want a date with her. I need s romantic angle here. Maybe I should ask her to meet for coffee or something? Or dinner? Or a walk in this park I like to go to? Ice cream? I need advice here.

So I've been talking to this guy for about a week now. We've been having really nice convos and I really do feel a connection with him. We talked dirty twice but I feel like there's more to this than just sex lol. Whenever we snapchat ans I say a statement like "yeah" he'll try to start the convo back up again and say something like "I'm tired" . He does this every time and then when I ask him why he won't take a nap he'll always say that it's because he has to eat every hour or just eat in general ( even at like 12 am he'll say it ) . He says this EVERY time but does this really mean he just likes talking to me and doesn't want to go to sleep because of that but doesn't want to admit it yet?

So the other day I was shopping in Walmart. I grabbed the items I needed and headed to the self checkout as I always do. As I finished I walked past this girl sitting on the bench and walked out the door. I didn't think much of the girl at the time. I walked across the Walmart parking lot to the Mc Donalds to get something eat. I was sitting down eating my food. When I saw the girl that was sitting on the bench with a tray of food in hand. She was about to sit at the table right next to me, but I gave her a weird look. The only reason I looked at her that way is because I just saw her and I thought she followed me but I cant confirm that. There were plenty of other tables to sit at. So I don't see why she chose the one right next me. I am wondering if she followed me of if it was just a concidence...?

Why is it that if my guy friend doesn't want to date me and pushes me to dat other guys. Every time I tell him I have found someone he disses them or states how "low" they are because of their profession? We've kissed once and he doesn't want to talk about it, and that night didn't want to do more. So I don't get it. Even he has started going on dates (nothing serious).