It was a misunderstanding of communitcation that lead to a argument. When I confronted them to talk about the misunderstanding. They replied "I must've just took it the wrong way then because I was upset if that is the case." It seems like they don't even know why they took it the wrong way.

Can 2 women that are best friends be soulmates? I know when people usually think of soulmates they think of a husband and wife but I was just wondering about 2 women that are best friends

I brought a home a month and 1/2 ago with hard work and dedication. I have two extra rooms. I invited some friends and family over for home warming and last week my friend ask could she and her two kids stay with me because she has no where to go as she has to leave in one week. She then told me, it'll only be for some time and that I had plenty of room. Then today, my big sister text me and ask can she, her six kids and husband live with me for three months. I told her no and that I needed my space. No my entire family is saying that I've changed and I'm a nasty hearted person and I'm probably losing a friend as well. I just need my space and I don't want their kids destroying my home as I'm a neat freak. Am I wrong?

My friend and I are 18, but my friend doesn t have enough money to support himself to make adult decisions such as moving out of his parents home. His mom is extremely restrictive. I really enjoy hanging out with this person as a friend, but his mom believes hanging out with someone of another gender (i m female and he s male) is going to lead to us dating and doing inappropriate things. We both have no interest in dating, we are just really close friends. I really want to spend more time with him, but I don t know how to convince his mom to allow us to hang out. My mom and I both explained to her that there is no romantic attraction, but she just said she believed us and then punished my friend for telling me he couldn t hang out with me. However, she still bars him from hanging out with me. She also dislikes me because I m of a different race than her. I don t want to specify races as this isn t an argument about race, but I just want to be "approved" by his mother so we can hang out. Does anyone have any advice on how to get through to a restrictive parent? What do I do when my friend'ss mom won't let us hang out because we are a different race and gender?

So I've known her for like 2 weeks , and she's so fun, we kinda go out every day.. So she said that she was in this school, and I have friends in that school,you know when you talk to them and mention that you also know someone else there , and I told them that she was a 12th grader,they said that their school don't have 12th grade , so yeah she lied about her school,and we are taking this course together, I noticed that she changed her scores , like if she got 42 she would say that it is actually 52 and erase the 42. So yes I'm actually asking this,because I never lie about these stuff and none of the people that I know Lie about it either .

I have a tight group of friends whom we mutually talk to about everything. However, I noticed one of them was lowkey kind of a douche. Eventually we had a talk and, for whatever reason, he admitted that he honestly doesn't care for any one of us. He admitted to feeling annoyed and ignoring us whenever we talked about our issues to him and that he sometimes tries to manipulate us. iow, he's a self-centered douche, and he continues to act normal and friendly with everyone. If it were just me he felt this way about, I wouldn't care too much tbh, but since I care a lot for my friends, I can't stand watching him be fake and the others buying it. I spoke to a couple of my most trusted friend of our group, and bc he goes through so much and is suicidal and everything, we agreed that we don't want to just abandon him and, bc it hurt us lot to hear how he feels, we also don't want to tell the others about him yet. However, I don't think it's healthy to be with someone out of obligation and, again, he's a douche, and I don't want him to be around me or part of our friends circle anymore. What should I do?

I have a "friend" that I suddenly started to noticed her distancing from me. She started to make snarky comments when we talk, when we are talking about her live and whatever she's going through she's ok but when we talk about mine you can see it in her eyes becoming annoying or like she doesn't care. We've known each other for 4-5 years and we became close really fast. This past Couple of months I've been going through a very difficult situation and I been a little down and maybe questioning things in my live, and I shared my feelings with her because I thought of her as a friend, after that conversation is when she started to change and behave like that. I do want to know and would like to hear it for her what's going on with her, not because I want to fix it because honestly, if she doesn't like me at my worst I don't care if she likes me at my best, I don't need a friend like that. I just want to know because we share many activities throughout the week and I just want to clear the air.

First of all, my friend lives on the other side of the country from me (for university and has become a permanent resident of that state). For a few months now hasn't texted me like he used to. I assume it's because he is really busy with work and studies. Now it's been a month and I haven't heard from him at all. I know for a fact he isn't seeing anyone. I want to text him and ask if everything is ok, but the following would be awkward: ME: hey is everything ok? HIM: yep ME: ok, good to hear. ....Then go another month or so without hearing from him. What else should I say? The last thing he texted me was that he's planning to move to another state to finish college...would that be awkward to ask him if he still plans to move to another state when he told me that a month ago? I assume he still has plans to do that. Serious help. What else should I text him that won't be awkward?

So my roommate told me last night at almost 12 AM that she wanted me to clean my dishes because they had been there for a while. I was feeling kind of sick so I told her I would get to them in the middle of the night or morning. She said it was fine and she was smiling and in a really good mood. 6 hours later (she wakes up at 6 am) she takes all my dirty dishes and puts them in my bathtub. Because she saw that I didn't do it immediately, she did that without warning and I thought it was really catty. She acted like everything was fine and dandy the night before and then 6 hours later she does something so rude; it's like Jekyll and Hide. She smiling sweetly before all this and then flings my dishes in my tub 6 hours later. She leaves dishes around constantly and she also keeps food and dishes for her friends that DON'T LIVE WITH US. We have no room in our fridge because she has her friends things in it, so I could do the same thing to her and take her friends dishes and food and put in her room (or bathtub) but I don't. I pay rent and I'm on the lease, so if her friends are taking up space in the fridge and they don't live with us, I could be mean about and make it an issue but I dont. She's not perfect and I could do the same thing to her and fling her friends stuff, but that's not my ammo. What should I do or say? I think it was really uncalled for and catty and I don't know what to do. Help lol

Some very close friends of mine and my (now ex) girlfriend have been very spiteful to me because of my mental health problems, believing I was making it up and attention seeking, which resulted in a nasty fall out. I know I don't want to ever go back to being friends with them but my anxiety has been really awful to the point where I'm unable to eat and sleep properly because I'm afraid of having to face them when I go back to school as I know some of them are quite confrontational and I don't know if I can handle that. What should I do?

there is this girl whom I talked to and over the course of a year she has given me problem in which I know I haven't done anything, about two months ago she blocked me from social media and said I was calling her private which I wasnt, then just recently I opted in giving her a chance and we met up and talked; however, ever since this past Friday she still has not unblocked me from social media and I find it very suspicious.

im 16 and its summer vacation so the school is closed and i feel like i cant get away from my teacher. it started a few weeks ago when she sent me an email on my school email asking how i was and how my summer is and i said good and we had a good conversation, it got weirder when she requested my instagram and added me on snapchat, i have no idea how she found them. i didnt add her back because its a little strange (shes like in her 40s) and she sent me emails telling me to add her back. at this point i just stopped responding but she was persistent. i then got a text from her (again i dont know how she has my number). she texted me CONSTANTLY begging me to add her back and saying she is crying and just wants to be friends. i blocked it and for the past weeks shes been CONSTANTLY daily hourly texting me begging me to talk to her and saying shes sorry and so depressed and even sometimes threatening calling me a terrible person and a jerk for not talking to her. i keep blocking but she keeps making new numbers. she admitted to being obsessed with me and cant help it and begging to be her friend and to hang out and all this crap. PLEASE HELP i dont know what to do and neither do my parents

Do you think that's a major character flaw? Or, do you pity them?

I was in a really abusive relationship, and I managed to get away with nothing but the clothes on my back and my beloved pet birds. I had massive amounts of debt that needed repaying, and so many physical and mental wounds that still haven't quite healed. It's been 18 months. I had to move interstate to get away and stay safe. But where I am now, I don't have any friends or family. I got a job in an attempt to pay off the debts, so I have my job. Which isn't what I want to be doing long term at all. I like the people I work with, but I'm not interested in a new relationship or even in making close friends. They're people I enjoy talking to during work hours, and if I see them on the street. All my friends and family are interstate, my best friend is getting married in 6 months, my sisters are graduating uni, I have a Goddaughter I hardly know. I've been wanting to move back to them since I got here. But now I've made the decision, and started to get things moving, and I don't want to leave. I dont want to see my friends or family anymore. I've been alone this whole time (a natural introvert, this solitude is comforting). But now I just, I don't want to go. But if I don't, I know I'll stay in a job that won't get me anywhere and I won't even try to make new friends. I'll just become more and more recluse. Why am I feeling this way? Is this normal? I feel so torn and I don't know what to do. I just don't know how I feel anymore. Please, can anyone help me? Thanks in advance

how do i make new friends

If im with another person strangers will be rude to me and nice to my friend or if im with a group of ppl a stranger will only insult me. The other day i was with my 2 friends and a stranger came up and compliments my 2 friends then they looked at me and laughed. This happens all the time....

I do get mocked and made fun of in school because most people over there find me weird. Inspite of everything im going i think there is nothing weird about me and there is nothing wrong with me as a person. I do go for art classes and boxing classes after school.I don't know what my peers in that environment think of me.I don't know if they find me weird too.I don't know if they talk behind my back like the bullies in school. Of course no has ever walked up to me and called me weird.No one has ever told me to change anything about myself and no one has tried bullying me upfront. I do think that im normal and that my school mates are dumfucks and i hope that other people perceive me as nomal elsewhere in order to prove them wrong. How do i know what people in other environments are perceiving me?

I'm currently 15, and I'm going to be a sophomore in August. I'm sorry this question sounds pathetic but I really am scared of going back to school. My grades are fine and my teachers all like me because I do all my work and don't talk during class, it's just my peers and the experience I had when I started freshman year is the thing that makes me scared of going back. I didn't have any friends during freshman year because I got distant from my middle school friends due to various reasons...and I knew I had to make new friends but I couldn't. I either just avoided talking to any one, didn't have the guts to talk to any one, or when I did I got shaken up and nervous beyond belief (fast heart beat, hot, shaking stuff like that) my whole freshman year sucked because I was bullied, lied to, had my feelings taken advantage of, and was just some object or weirdo to people. Because of the bullying and not being able to relate to my peers looks wise and friend wise, I started to hate myself. I feel miserable because there are kids my age that are better than me, and have what I've always wanted. At school I feel fat, ugly, sad, tired, and diffrent. The whole year I sat alone at lunch and ate little to nothing because I was self-conscious. Not only that, but I feel upset because my parents don't understand what I'm going through, but mostly it feels like no one cares about me at all. I'm afraid to start sophomore year because I don't want it to be like freshman yr all over again..

I've been going out with my girlfriend for a few months and she's the sweetest girl ever. During the summer she sometimes wears crop tops and matching skirts because they're cute and fashionable. My grandparents and aunt & uncle were over at our house and she stopped by & it was a day she had one of her crop top outfits on and I could tell from the first moment she was really embarrassed about it. A few times she tried to pull her top down to cover some skin & she told mad afterwards she felt like a slut in front of my grandparents. I know this might be weird, but I found it so HOT that she was showing off some skin around my family. Is this weird of me? I hope she isn't a slut for doing this?

I didn t want to type in "how to stop being too nice" because I need to be slightly rude. I am literally being walked all over in every. Single. Aspect. Of my life. That is not an exaggeration. And I am absolutely sick of it, but whenever someone is rude to me my chest starts burning and my heart rate soars and this feeling weakens my entire body. Please help, how do I actually find the courage to talk back?!

Hello, I am an 18 year old male. I want to be able to socialize, meet new people, and just interact more in person. I'd love to also get a girlfriend, but that is not my main objective. Does anyone have any tips or ideas?

A person who is good looking, intelligent and creative with nothing wrong as a person..... Be bullied too? I get made fun of and bullied by my classmates. People make fun of my appearance but i really don't think there is anything wrong with my appearance.When i look at the mirror i think im good looking.

My friend made a big deal about the guy I'm interested in dating, we aren't dating, he was hanging out with a group of girls (2-3 girls). However he wasn't with a group of girls, he was with 2-3 girls and the rest were guys. Her exact words were "the way he treats you is uncalled for you can tell for one he was with a group of girls"

Some years ago, I was fired from a job and lost a friend who chided me for excessive whining. According to her very blunt criticisms, I "think the rest of the world" is my problems, and I need to "look forward to life" as I had a "great future" ahead, given my high education level and professional experience. She informed me that "she couldn't deal with negative conversations" anymore and tired of "having to make me feel better." Maybe I was "whining." I did speak to her on multiple occasions about my frustrations; it was the second time in a year that I lost employment and I was particularly unhappy at the first job I lost. However, I was also undergoing treatment for severe depression that I had thought was bipolar disorder (I did not disclose that to her), so I didn't think my problems were everyone else's fault. Lastly, I tried to comfort her when she lost a job and a loved one. I even tried to help her find employment by revamping her resume. I also mentioned my attempts to become more spiritual (attend church) and improve myself. She asked me to borrow money due to her financial problems, though no money was ever exchanged (we fell out before I could help her). When I tried to apologize and mentioned how I'd helped her, she told me "YOU asked to help me, so don't ******* make people feel bad for reaching out." She then blocked me off all her social media, and then refused to respond when I told her "thank you for telling me about the whining." What should I learn? Should I ever try to reconnect with her? Or try to apologize again? Or recognize that maybe it's best to leave her alone as this in all likelihood wasn't a real friendship?

I used to be friends with this guy from high school, we would always hangout and stuff. We graduated and he got a job out of town, one day he asked me if i could ETransfer him $50. I couldn't because i was tight on money, and he deleted me on Facebook. When i asked him why he deleted me he told me im not a real friend for not lending him the money. He made me feel bad, can i have advice?????

Your friends started to threatened a person you care about, your friends judged this person by the clothes this person was wearing, judged this person hair color. For example, my friends threatened a person I have an interest in dating, (beat him up and slap him with an object) the thing is, not once did this person I'm interested in did anything wrong that night. My friend's boyfriend started threatening him first, I told them to leave him alone but they continued to threatened him to beat him up and slap him with an object. One of my friends told me I could do a lot better cause he had pink hair. He loves the color pink. They called him an a$$hole and I deserve better, they NEVER met him and NEVER gave him a chance. They judged his clothes and said he's gay for wearing really tight pants. They were judging a person they never met and never gave a chance. It makes me upset anyone judges a person without getting to know them. Would you call these real friends or would you call them bullies?

So I just started going to a public school and i was there for 4 months and then school was over, ao i was not able to make friends, now that school is about to start, i will be a junior, hows a good way to make friends?