She is 21, never had a boyfriend, never went to a party, her father last time we saw each other called her and told her to come back home because he had hypertension and was feeling ill (since she left the house). He didn't know she came to meet me, he just started being ill as she left the house. Another time she came to where I work just to exhange two words, and lied to her dad saying that she went to buy groceries. Everytime we meet we just talk for 5 min and then she has to go. I feel so frustrated everytime she leaves. Her dad is super controlling and doesn't let her alone, she only lets her hang out with her 12 years old cousin, which is still a child. I understand you want to protect your daughter but come on, at 21 she is an adult she can get married and have a family, but no, her dad has to be sick so she can stand by him. She also told me when guys look at her he gets mad and says they are bastards and the upbringing of the young people should be changed. Once she said she felt like she was doing a sin by falling in love with me because her dad is becoming ill because of her wanting to find her way, and having a boyfriend means going away from the family, and growing up. It made me feel sad too, because I was the reason why she argues with her dad. He knows about me, we also had a little discussion I behaved really politely and he kept on insulting me and acting angry just because we were talking. This girl constantly cries because of her familiar situation.

I am very attractive muscular dark hair after 5 shadow women from other states have said I'm gorgeous and I have met awesome women in Texas that are from other states. Texas women however shun me and avoid me and go for ugly fat bald red necks with fat wallets or black/Mexican drug dealers what is their problem. I am currently saving up so I can get out of this crap hole state. It seems if you are an attractive law abiding citizen Texas women hate you

Is that how they were raised? Having their mistakes rubbed in their face? Did it work? Because last I checked that would only make someone want to do it more and prove to them that it WASN'T a bad idea.

Granted, my friend is about 6 years older than me, in her 40s and she thinks that her experiences are a great basis to offer me advice, but she's ALWAYS WRONG when she gives me advice. We're both runners, however, she's had a couple set backs and thinks that my own minor injuries are reasons to stop running like she had to. She gives me feedback on my relationship, on my living conditions at my apartment, but she's wrong about her advice (she 'predicts' what's going to happen with my relationship, and it's totally out of the realm with what's going on). I do say, yeah I appreciate your advice and feedback. But ultimately she's not the stellar role model to give me or anyone advice. How can I tell her she's dead out wrong about her advice and what she thinks of my life? I don't mind tossing ideas around, but in this case, older is NOT wiser.

These guys typically are athletic, football player fat, muscular skinny. They usually have a beard and a whole lot of body and facial hair. They usually have dark hair brushed across their arms. They are very hairy They will use the word 'gay' in their sentences. They would randomly walk up to you and try to cause a fight, call you out. If you back away they would laugh and tell the other guys 'he's not a man' If you report him he would usually go out and talk to all the guys and all of the other guys would join in harassing you. He will then tell you 'It doesn't help if you complain' When I am around them they accuse me of being a male b i t c h or soy boy or gay. Most however assumes me of having a disability and would bounce their hands across their chest and rock back and fourth and make sounds mocking a disable person. These guys stick together with each other and they are exclusive and all the same. These guys scan other guys when they are around women and make sure he doesn't says any little thing slightly out of the way to the woman or they will charge at the man and try to fight him saying 'I want to see if he would say that to a man' These guys are always trying to fight other guys and I cannot be around them for they will randomly walk up to you and provoke you. I see them playing with other guys, they would wrestle them down onto the ground beating them up. There is blood seen. All of the women out here sticks to these particular guys.

A few days ago I was a little sick and out of the blue my nose was slightly starting to run. I was helping a customer at the time and I felt that I had a runny nose. I felt like it was coming out of my nose and i touched my nose lightly with the back of my hand and unfortunately some mucus ended up coming out of my nose when I rubbed it a little with my hand. Then I said I would be right back to go get a tissue. After I came back, my guy friend whom I work with didn't say anything but I think he noticed and he turned and I could see he started rubbing his nose. I felt embarrassed by this because I didn't think he would have noticed as I was trying to lean forward so he wouldn't. He has told me before he has had to run to the bathroom because he had the runs one time so he is pretty open with me. It's been about two days since this happened and I still feel embarrassed, should I?

i cannot believe i'm resorting to this but i can't get in with a good therapist til next month, and google search doesn't seem to be of any help. so i'm 18 years old, just graduated high school, so i'm obviously not of drinking age. however, shortly before i turned 17 i went through my first heartbreak (with a very controlling manipulative guy 2 years older) and then less than a month later i was diagnosed with crohn's disease, had multiple surgeries, and was stuck in a hospital bed for 2 months. after i got out of the hospital i basically went wild and did drugs, smoked weed, and drank A LOT. before i met my boyfriend i quit doing the hard-ish drugs, stopped drinking as much, and a few months into my relationship i didn't drink as much, but then i got black out drunk and instantly wanted to keep doing it. initially he was fine with it, but i cannot handle my alcohol and always act an idiot, so it turns out a disaster. i told him id stop and he would try to help me not do it but everytime i take a break and start again i just want to keep doing it. i then feel horrible for disappointing myself, my boyfriend, my family, my friends, etc. i don't know why i can't say no to it, but my dad's side of the family has addictive personalities (my dad is not an alcoholic but his family members are). so if anyone has any words of advice, similar experiences, etc. please share. also thanks if you read this & no, i have never done crack, meth, or heroin.

Everything was great the first week, we were able to talk a lot. Then we had a couple arguments we moved on from but in the last few days our conversations are just dry and meaningless. No cute messages or miss you love you's the past couple days. I tried a couple times but didn't get much back. He's literally the sweetest when he's here and we've never had this issue before. Is this normal for heavy training to kind of detach or no? Any advice on what to do or if I should just give space?

I'm engaged to my boyfriend of 3 years. We never did the deed. I've done it in previous relationship but he's got his v card still. He really wanted to wait for marriage. We're gonna be really busy on our wedding night with the reception so idk if we're gonna do it the day we're married. But I'm really excited and also nervous. I like to tease him cause he's this good Christian boy (I'm 3 years older) he's even had to excuse himself a few times when things were getting touchy between us. I'm pretty sure he's nervous and excited. He's been waiting a long time

I live with my boyfriend and I think hes a narcissist but not sure. I am just going off of youtube videos because I am constantly being blamed for things and we have had lots of arguments that go on for ever. We live together, he moved in with me and I signed a lease for another year in June and we have a trip to Spain planned in a few months. We have traveled and we do have good times, even plans to buy a house, but I feel I want to break up every time we argue, which is once a week almost I live with my boyfriend, I think hes a narcissist; not sure. I am just going off of youtube videos, I'm constantly blamed for things, lots of arguments that go on forever. We live together, he moved in w me and I signed a lease for another year in June, we have a trip to Spain planned in Sept.. We have traveled and do have good times, even plans to buy a house, but I feel I want to break up every time we argue, which is once a week almost. What should I do to plan on leaving eventually?

I met a girl this summer, I'm 16yo male, and I've never connected with someone as much as her. But, we live an about 7 hour drive apart and can basically never see each other again. I was thinking about her non stop and couldn't take it anymore so I decided to let her know that I can't be talking to her over the phone anymore because it's really messing up my emotional state knowing I'm not gonna be able to see her again. She is very sad that I cut her off, but I believe if I go back to talking to her I won't be able to do anything or function because of my thoughts, as I barely can stop thinking about her as of now. Please give me advice if should just block her or respond, I have no idea I can't take it.

So my dad had a baby with his gf. She way younger than he is. They both work together. I think she is or was an intern at his work fresh out of college. I've never met her at any holiday or family function. Is it going to be awkward since im 20 and close to her age?

Seriously you all... I need help about this Muslim guy... we have become like best friends.. I am struggling😔.. I am a young lady people not a dude. ..

He has been there for me when life was tough... my husband doesn't know about him.. Ive tried many time to tell my husband about him, but he is always too busy to hear me... I talk to my Muslim friend mostly about my relationship proplems. I have video spoke with him and voice call.. but Ive never seen him in person because we live oceans apart. Is it wrong of me to be friends with him?

This man is an acquaintance and I barely know him.