Family: Question: I’m the only one out of my friends who doesn’t like drinking and I feel left out, what should I?

Question: I’m the only one out of my friends who doesn’t like drinking and I feel left out, what should I?

Posted: 06 Dec 2017 01:01 PM PST

I'm 22, most my friends love going out on the weekend and getting as drunk as ever. I've just never liked it. I don't really like most alcoholic drinks and my uncle was an alcoholic, that got him into a right mess. My best friend loves alcohol, I swear she knows everything there is to know, it's not like she's out getting drunk every night but sometimes she does try to drag me out the house for a night out. Fun, I get to be surrounded by drunk people for hours. Seems like my idea of a perfect night is different to everyone else's

Question: I get abused by my little sister, she is physically stronger than me what do i do?

Posted: 06 Dec 2017 12:49 PM PST

So 2 days ago i've been messing with my little sister by turning the TV,off, she usually just laughs and turns it back on, but this time i something bad happened. she quickly noticed i turned the TV of and said knock it the f**k out, keep in mind this is the first time i've heard her curse. i quickly went back to my room and waited there but then i suddenly heard her sprinting up the stairs to my room, i forgot to lock the door she said she was sick off my **** and that she wasn't putting up with it anymore. She then approached me and grabbed me by my shoulders and threw me on the ground. i was shocked and terrified because she's never been physical with me. and has always been super nice and sweet with me. i was telling her that i was sorry and wouldn't do it again but i guess that wasn't enough for her. She then started punching me in the arms (My blocks were useless) and stomach until I was crying trying to ball up so I was less vulnerable. Once she felt satisfied with her beating, she slapped me once on the face and said that I was "her little b*tch now". I was freaking out and just laid there crying, not sure of what I could even do. She then left my room and slammed my door shut. Now she's being very mean to me and has been threatening to beat me up since if I don't do what she says. There's a good 3-4 hour period once we get home from school where our parents aren't home and we're alone together. She's making me do her chores, clean her room and make her food. :(

Question: My bro is 37 and I'm 15 y/o girl. My brother and I got in a fight. My mom yelled at me and said I need to respect my elders. Is this weird?

Posted: 06 Dec 2017 12:31 PM PST

Since he's so old we never had a brother sister relationship. I know he's super old but he's still my brother so is he really my elder. I will always just think of him as a brother but my thinks I need to treat him as an adult. What do you think ? Isn't she weird?

Question: Why does my mom think goth is demonic?

Posted: 06 Dec 2017 12:26 PM PST

I'm tired of her narrow minded ways of thinking. I want to express myself, and be free. I can't exactly do that because i'm 15, I have nowhere else to go, and no I cannot dress like a normal person for the next three years, it's been killing me slowly. Yes, she is a christian.

Question: Do I have grammar in my note, if so can you please rewrite it for me? I appreciate it?

Posted: 06 Dec 2017 11:56 AM PST

I think it's better if I didn't take on a different role in PTA this year. Maybe next year I can start off fresh with a different role. I must admit that I have too much going on and this is an opportunity to focus on my family issues. I will still attend the general meetings and I can help out in the school whenever someone needs my help :) Thank you!

Question: Am I wrong for cutting my mother out of my life?

Posted: 06 Dec 2017 11:50 AM PST

First, she's not been in my life since I was 5 years old. She left her children and partied her life away. As an adult, she does not call me or pick up the phone when I call, Ahe didn't even know I deleted her from Facebook over a year ago. I haven't talked to her in years anyways, because she hasn't called me in 8 years. I wrote her a nasty letter, and told her I hate her. Parents don't do that to their kids. She lives in another state, so I don't see her either. She has her own life. My brother lives in her state a few hours from her and she doesn't call or see him, or his kids eother. No, she doesn't do a thing, and any woman who can walk away from 3 children is worse than an animal. She didn't cut me out, she just doesn't do anything,...and yes, it worked. I feel much better knowing that my whole family has been telling me she's a piece of **** my whole life. I feel much better now, thatnIm not candy coating her behavior any longer.

Question: My mom never trusts the people I work with...? I know she’s logical, but it’s making me feel fearful and wanting to reject future offers...?

Posted: 06 Dec 2017 11:44 AM PST

I just started freelance photography on the side, I usually advertise myself on CL etc. I know that there have been cases where people seem interested, tell you their info, and then you go to the place and end up getting mugged or even killed. I do mention that I'm an amateur and depending on what they want me to do - I tell them upfront I don't have much experience with that, and if they're still interested then we proceed. So don't think I'm misleading everyone and saying that I'm some pro - no I make it clear (if they can read) that I'm an amateur with limited experience. However, I got my first gig tomorrow at a real estate place, the person gave me their website and contact info and I did a little digging and I think it's a legitimate STARTING business. I mean if these were muggers, how far would they go to 'pretend' they've got 2 websites - all related to each other, the person is on LinkedIn, and if the names/ phone numbers are LEGIT aka not made up or stolen (say it's their website and name but they're actually someone pretending to be them), then I think it's okay. My mom is always telling me NO don't do it, NO don't go out you don't know them, It's dangerous etc. and while I can understand her concern, it's just not logical for me to turn down every offer because I think it's a scam. I have a part time job, but it's just not cutting it, so that's why I've begun offering my services online.

Question: My mom is upset with me, b/c my hometown will not let people like me work as adults, & most ppl want revenge for 10-20 yrs. Ago, help?

Posted: 06 Dec 2017 11:41 AM PST

My mom is upset, she would not go to the doctor, now she is stuck at the hospital. Even through it is up north, people put the cart before the horse, & want a tall, anorexic, or smart person working. That is just not working. I went to visit my mom, but as I left the floor, I heard my mom disown me. It hurtd, that she believes I am a slacker, when I am not. They keep setting me up. Help me & my family? I have no job, no one in the state will hire someone like me. My mom wants me out after Christmas, & she hates me, & she can be angry at a person for up to a year at least, longer if she feels violated.

Question: Last night my lil dumb sis started an argument in my car driving to my nephews house and should’ve kept her big mouth shut...?

Posted: 06 Dec 2017 11:01 AM PST

told me to calm down and accused me of being mad and angry when I wasn't. At least I don't smoke weed like she does and she doesn't act mature. and she called me paranoid. Why doesn't she get a car since she's been without one since August? She needs to try harder and get a car if she really wants one and stop putting if off. she likes to use people for rides and get in other peoples cars and mine but doesn't wanna get a dang car. that's why her ex girlfriend Bella left her bc my sis was mean to her or else they would still be together. Is she is the wrong? Bc my dad always tells me not to drive stressed or angry and she caused the big argument in my car and laughing on purpose. But if someone did the same thing she did to me, I'm sure she wouldn't like it and would get mad and offended. She's the one who needs to calm down, stop being angry, stop smoking weed and the one who is paranoid (the one who says it is the paranoid one). Doing something around me and my nephew that's shes never done (crack her knuckles) all of a sudden and trying to provoke and cause an argument. I'm never going to help her out ever again. Took her to the dr last week only bc my dad asked me to and she doesn't have a car bc she's too lazy to get one. Am I right?

Question: Why does my aunt treat me different?

Posted: 06 Dec 2017 10:20 AM PST

My aunt and I used to be very close when I was younger. However, as I grew up she changed. She would yell at me constantly. I would always get in trouble with her for things I didn't do. She didn't like it when I would leave the house, unless it was to go to school. She would treat me like a child. I'm the oldest of four. She's doesn't treat them like how she treats me. I'm 24 now, and she still treats me like that. I went to visit her a few months ago, and she tracked the car I was driving in, to make sure that I wasn't lying to her about where I was going. She talks about me to my little sister. I'm 24, I graduated with my Bavhelors at 22, I am working, I pay my own bills, etc. yet she still treats me like this.

Question: My sister is moving away to another state. :(?

Posted: 06 Dec 2017 08:33 AM PST

I'm a 17 y/o. Male. Yeah I guess I'm older and shouldn't be stressing about her leaving but I never grew up with a mom. My mother killed herself when I was 2 and I've been living with my sister who is 22 and my dad whos never home rarely talks to me. She always cooked and I relied on her on alot. She's moving to move in with her boyfriend. Which I don't care about but it feels like now I'm lonely in in a apartment with no company. Just wondering if you know anyways I can pass time and just live. I do have a job. I don't really have any friends It's not that I'm anti social it's more like everyone in my school roughly 40 people are disrespectful rude and just talk about smoking weed and sex. Which I clearly am not on about.

Question: My father hates me unjustly! What should I do in this circumstances?

Posted: 06 Dec 2017 08:31 AM PST

Question: Should i get over it?

Posted: 06 Dec 2017 08:25 AM PST

its been 3 years i really miss the lady who took care of me all me life until i was about 13 and she was step mother at the time and she was my blood sister's mother also even though she wasnt my real mom i thought of her and her kids and family as my own. then she moved to north carolina 3 years ago and i stayed with my actual my my mom for the summer in pa thinking that i would only be the for the summer but it turns out i actually stayed longer and when it was time for court i told my mom i wanted live with her but i really didnt i just said it to make her happy and i was 13 at the time and i have never heard from my step mom and im in contact with her son and we are really close and her son said that she told the kid from s that they are not allowed to speak to me anymore but idk why and i havent heard from sister in years and its killing me everyday and im always sad i live with my my actual family now but i will never forget my sis or her mom btw im 16

Question: I just heard my dad telling my mom "open your eyes" because that mean idiot has a vague suspicion I stole her money.?

Posted: 06 Dec 2017 08:19 AM PST

I'm so peesed off right now because I don't steal money. What would you do? I'm really peesed!!

Question: Should I stop talking to my mother?

Posted: 06 Dec 2017 07:49 AM PST

Long story short my father left my mother when I was a baby. My mother moved on 5 years later with my stepfather and had 2 kids. Fast forward 8 years they split up. I meet my father when I was 13 I'm 24 now. My mother gets back with him. My father and I have like no relationship at all. They now have two kids together. I have a sorta good relationship with my mother we talk everyday except when my father is around. I live in another state I recently went for thanksgiving and was looking forward to see my brother who had just got out from the Marines. I was told by my mother I was not welcomed to stay or even go visit them, my children aren't allowed either. So now I don't now should I bee happy to get to talk to my mother when ever she can or wants to. My father is in and out of her life so talk on the phone when he's not around but as soon as he's back I'm out. I also help her financially when ever he's not around and doesn't help her out. Not that I have to I just feel like if I help her she'll always want to talk to me but I guess not. Is this ok or should I just stop all communication?

Question: Should condoms be given out in middle school?

Posted: 06 Dec 2017 06:56 AM PST

Question: I'm Clinically depressed and my brother is making it worse?

Posted: 06 Dec 2017 05:53 AM PST

I've had intermediate to mild depression for the past five years (along with anxiety and mild OCD) and living with my brother is making it worse. we both still live at home because we're both in our late teens and he picked up a lot of issues from our abusive father. He's aggressive, arrogant and is the type to be pleased with his own ****. I'm currently looking for my first job and he constantly reminds me how I need to "do better" despite the fact that I'm doing all I can. He yells at me constantly and quite frankly makes me feel like an enemy in my own home. The best part is, he's so deluded that no matter what I do it's not enough. If I speak up I'm "an annoying **** that needs to shut the f*ck up" and if I'm quiet then I'm a "selfish rude c*nt". I work as an unofficial carer to our sick mother but even after a day of shopping, doing laundry, cooking the dinner and helping her around the house I some how still end up as the "lazy dick who never does any work" despite the fact that he rarely does any chores. The phrase "Sticks and stones" comes to mind but his verbal abuse is really starting to affect me and there is no way for my to move out. any advice?

Question: Trick Question!?

Posted: 06 Dec 2017 05:09 AM PST

If a granddaughter;s grandmother on the her father's side is half black, and the granddaughter's grandfather is full black; and the granddaughter's mother is full white... how black is the granddaughter? *Please note* The granddaughter has the skin tone that is close to Beyoncé's, yet has almost straight light brown hair.

Question: My family doesnt understand my anxiety?

Posted: 06 Dec 2017 04:27 AM PST

My siblings all of them ditched me because i have anxiety issues. They all dont want anything to do with me because in their eyes im being selfish. they never cared to listen to my problems or helped me out. Why are people this mean?

Question: How do I deal with this? Please help.?

Posted: 06 Dec 2017 03:35 AM PST

The secret of having a new stepmother was hidden from me for 3 to 4 months (I found out on my own) and it wasn't until a couple of days ago when my father ACTUALLY told me the truth. But he didn't even warn me or anything. He just picked me up from school and there she was sitting in the front seat and my dad turns around and says "this is your new mom" acting as if my Biological mom didn't exist. I didn't know how to feel at that moment I felt so numb and lost. I went home and cried. I don't know how to cope with this anymore. (And talking to my father about how I feel is not an option because I know for a FACT he won't understand).

Question: I've lost expensive headphones?

Posted: 06 Dec 2017 03:33 AM PST

I have a pair of Beats Solo 3's and I take them to school. But one day I was walking home from school with one of my friends and I felt someone reach into my bag (we do this as a joke, not stealing or anything.) andI of course thought nothing of it. but when I came home that day it turns out I didn't know where my headphones were. I've told my teachers and confronted my friends about it and they have said the same thing "I'll keep an eye out for it." I've also told my dad and he kind of reacted in a calm way about how it was my loss. But I'm sad because I don't know if I have lost my headphones or if they have been stolen. Dylan

Question: Que parentezco tenemos? Ella es hija del sobrino de mi padre.?

Posted: 06 Dec 2017 03:03 AM PST

Question: I have a real problem here....?

Posted: 06 Dec 2017 12:14 AM PST

After COUNTLESS job interviews and rejections, I finally got hired for a job I interviewed today. I honestly thought I wasn't gonna get the job, but I did. So I'm happy and I'm very nervous at the same time. The job is a tax preparer. It's a seasonal job, which I don't care, as long as it's a paying job (plus it'll look good on my resume applying for other jobs). I really am not happy and nervous at the same time, because I kind of lied to get this position. I told the truth on some things, but I lied on others, like multitasking and knowing about tax and stuff. I think I can multitask, but I never had a scenario where I had to and I know very little about tax. The job is going to train me, but I'm afraid if I'll **** up on this job. I don't want to get fired. I FINALLY get a job and I don't want to blow it. What should I do?? I saw this job on my school job website. Their field of study (which means anyone who applies) is any major and no degree is required. So, before you go off telling me how much of a ******* idiot I am, look at this!!

Question: My family has no food or money I m 13 and don t eat much cause of my little sister?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 11:49 PM PST

We've been poor for a few months now and I ve been Ok during the warm months cause I could eat plants fish and I would trap but now I cant gather plants and the fishing and traping seasons have changed My mom has got a bit of money for Cristmas and I ve been planing to stalk up on caned and non-perishables I ve fished and traped out of season to get food And no I'm not going to ask the school or Social Services for help Any ideas?

Question: Is it bad for big sisters to tickle little brother?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 11:30 PM PST

Im the little brother to three big sisters. They all love to play with me and since im the youngest everyday when we play they always tickle me. im the smallest and the most ticklish. I dont mind it because its always fun but i wonder why they always do it. My sisters say that big sisters are supposed to tickle there little brother. My mom is glad that we are all having a good time and think its cute. My only problem is i get so embarrased when they tickle me because they get me giggling so hard and a lot of the time they tease me when they tickle my feet. My mom says that its good that they tickle you because its good way to bond and that theres nothing wrong with being ticklish and losing a tickle fight. Do you think this is bad or not? Should i be embarrassed?

Question: What would you do if you found out your kids were having sex?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 11:00 PM PST

Question: Teaching son to pee standing up?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 09:49 PM PST

My son's dad is not in the picture so my brother agreed to take him with him a few times to the urinal when out and the toilet when at home. Is this an okay method?

Question: I m having "daddy issues"...?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 09:44 PM PST

Someone was supposed to love me and show me that I m valuable because of their love. But poor choices and mental illness as a result of drug abuse have robbed me of that. I can t just be fine with that. There is a huge hole in my heart. Now because of my fiancé, I have his dad and stepdad in my life. His dad is pretty self centered but also really interesting and his step dad is a hard-*** and inspiring. I m on good terms with both, but it s been years and we re still not close (I know them but they don t know me). I plan to actively build the relationships. Could they be the answer to the emptiness that my dad caused?

Question: Can I stop seeing my dad? (16 years old)?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 09:22 PM PST

So today me and my dad got into the biggest argument. I normally see him every other weekend since my parents are divorced. So we go out to eat and I was really tired and out of it from school, got assigned lots of projects, etc. So I recently got a job interview and my dad before had offered me a job. We were talking about it and I told him I didn t need his help with a job. I guess he got mad for no reason and said, "Your not going to the job interview." He also tried to take my phone away since he "paid" for it, but I don t give him gifts for his birthday and take them away do I? So I called my mom and waited for her outside the restaurant. The whole time he kept saying how awful my mom is and how her family does drugs (which is not true) and started acting real childish by saying "Awww your going to call your mommy?" I kept my cool, just waited and said nothing I honestly hate the way he talks when he s arguing since he always thinks he s right. When my mom came to get me I just said, "I can t see him anymore." So I guess I won t be seeing him this weekend but the next? I feel like my mom will make me and what do I do then? Run away from home? My hate for him is like no other, talking bad about my mom, saying I m unproductive and do nothing, I can t take it anymore.

Question: Is nuts an inappropriate word to use around my daughter?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 09:19 PM PST

My best bud came over and was playing a game with me and my daughter and he was being silly to make her laugh. He accidently got hit really hard in the groin. He yelled "ouch right in my nuts" and put his hands on his stuff. Shes 5 about to be 6, is that something we shouldnt say around her or am i just being overprotective

Question: What to do for a toddler who's bowel movements clog toilets?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 09:11 PM PST

My son is three. He loves green beans so I know he is getting some fiber. He likes carrots, apples, pears, healthy food in general. He does NOT poop every day but when I bring that up with his doctor she says it is perfectly normal for a child to go even up to three days without pooping. When he does poop it is not always hard. Hardly ever hard. Not all liquidy either. Healthy looking. It is just that big. I currently have one toilet down. It has been down for awhile now because no matter how many times we plung it, it remains clogged. I even bought a snake but nobody can get it through (I didn't try as I never used one.) The toilet that is clogged I have suspicions of being the original toilet from when the house was built back in the 70s. Just today my son pooped in his potty and when I dumped it in the working toilet I allowed it to sit in hopes of that helping after his dad suggested we try it. I forgot about it until I went to use it an hour later so it should have sat plenty long enough. Yet I flushed it and it acted odd. It did not sound right and made a bubbling sound. When I lifted the lid to check the water was very low. (It is a lower water level toilet so I mean even lower. That one is newer. A number of years old but it was bought after my boyfriend bought the house.) It is a water saver toilet which we found out when in had the septic tank pumped is not good for septics. Something about not enough pressure but they are good for if you are on sewage.

Question: What age should I stop bringing my daughter into the men's restroom?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 09:07 PM PST

She is currently 5 but I don't know if i'm comfortable letting her in the women's alone.

Question: Is this a good reference letter? I need help if it has grammar?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 09:06 PM PST

To whom it may concern, I am the principal of Sunday school Islamic (name of the school) I am very pleased to be asked to write a Character Reference letter for Kareema Abdullah. In the last 3 years that I've known Kareema she has proven to be reliable and responsible. I've been impressed with her dedication to any endeavor that she has been involved in. This year she has stepped up and gone above and beyond to volunteer her time as a Special Ed teacher assistant. In addition to these great qualities Kareema has displayed great enthusiasm and initiative. Kareema is generous, kind and very helpful to the community. (My name and address)

Question: How much should I pay my babysitter?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 08:09 PM PST

She is a family friend who watches my son once or twice a week from either 3 or 4pm to 6pm (2-3 hours) and maybe one or two Saturdays a month (11 hour days). She has 2 older sons who help her with my son and her two younger sons. She doesnt require money but I feel like I should give her something. We live in Oklahoma.

Question: How much should I pay my babysitter?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 08:06 PM PST

Question: Ok so im Hispanic and all my friends, and cousins which are all guys had babies with white girls?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 07:48 PM PST

Ok so this may be a little off but we live in Colorado where im starting to see that most Hispanic guys are switching to white girls. ( born Hispanics americans) We no longer want Mexican girls anymore ( not because of the race its because it all values, culture, beliefs, economic problems and more) . so they are having babies with these girls. funny part that my cousins babies are all white they don't look Mexican and I wonder why. Also every Mexican guy I see who is with a white girl they all have a white baby. So im wondering if its the girls DNA that is stronger then the guys or its just how it is? And you know what's funnier that when a white person sees my cousins baby they look like they don't believe its his kid cuz the baby looks white so its funny

Question: Girls Quick question do you like heavy boobs or light boobs?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 07:35 PM PST

Question: Are US children more vulnerable to sexual abuse?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 07:34 PM PST

A man on the news was charged for abusing youth ages 12-17 he met online. About 26 girls were all from the US, but only 10 Canadian children and 1 British child were victims. There's a big gap between the number of young girls and where they're from. More than half of them are American.

Question: I'm a 37 y/o male and the legal guardian of my 16 y/o sister. I would like her to say yes sir/ no sir. Is that too far?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 06:50 PM PST

My parents passed 12 years ago and I became her legal guardian. The most important thing to me is that she grows up with manners. I think of it as a form of respect. I used to call my parents that. My parents were young to have me and old to have her. She's she's 21 years younger than me and my parents were like 21 when they had me. So I could basically be her father and I think it would be respectful. But is it weird ?

Question: How rich/wealthy is someone who makes between $1.5million to $2million a year?? What lifestyle does that income buy?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 06:39 PM PST

Question: How do I get more attention from my mom?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 06:34 PM PST

My parents just got separated and my dad left to live with his girlfriend. Now my mom is acting like a teenager she stays out all night and doesn't tell us where she is. I told my mom I was about to committed suicide by swallowing a bunch of pills. She didn't care she hasn't even brought it up again she just acted like it didn't happen. On top of that when ever my brother or I want to spend time with her she leaves to talk to her friends or her boyfriend. I feel like she doesn't care and I have told her that. She just says your an 18 year old girl grow up. I hate my life and my mom right now. Even though my dad doesn't live with us and has a girlfriend he is always there for us whereas my mom is not. I just want to know how to get her attention

Question: A man tried to kidnap me!?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 06:04 PM PST

So I was walking my dog earlier and I was far down the road from my road and I was coming back and I passed by a car in the middle of the road just sitting there, and I saw a man sitting in it just doing nothing, so I passed by it and suddenly the man got out and ran to his trunk and I saw him messing with something so I get weirded out and jog a little away from the car and a little way away the car suddenly drives over to me and the man pulled over the car next to me and asked if I need a ride. I said "no thank you I'm walking my dog ( which was quite obvious really) and I hurry away and then the car pulls up to me again and asked me to get in for something special I again refuse and run away with my dog and the man suddenly gets out of the car and started running full blast at me! I screamed and ran with my dog as fast as I could to my house which by then I was close to. The man chased me to the front door then walked away and my mom said if I see him tell her bc the police couldn't do anything and then i saw the man watching me from my window and I screamed and he knocked on the window with a creepy smile and my mom looked and he wasn't there I'm so paranoid what do I do I'm shaking while writing this

Question: Is this considered child abuse?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 05:52 PM PST

I am a 16 year old male. I live with only my father. So I am currently receiving an F in my math class, even though I try really hard to do good. I never get in trouble, don't do drugs or alcohol and never plan to, I am very respectful to my dad even though he doesn't respect me, and in general a successful, good person. So since I am receiving a failing grade, my dad is threatening to hit me with a bat, rods, fists, cords, and anything else he thinks that would cause me lots of pain. He says that he will beat me if I still have an F on a report card. He also emotionally abuses me on a daily basis, for example he curses at me, calls me names, says that I am stupid and will not have a good job in the future because of the grades I am getting. He also occasionally hits me upside the head and slaps me for when I "deserve" it. I am just sick and tired of living with him and would rather live with my mom's side of the family. So is what my dad doing to me considered child abuse? Sorry for such a long statement.

Question: What would you do if you found out your mother was dating a sex offender who raped children?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 05:38 PM PST

Let's say you have a 7 year old little brother and your 18. Your dad was a kind, friendly man who made a decent salary but you're mother divorced him and started dating a sex offender who had sex with a 12 year old boy. Your mom is in love with this man, she's in the process of bailing him out of jail and she wants this man to live and stay with your 7 year old brother. Your mom says it'll be good for your brother to know this man despite him raping a child. What would you do?

Question: Am I just a disappointment?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 05:31 PM PST

Hey. So my parents are saying to me I have an attitude and I m always grumpy (cough cough depressed). I ve been in homeschool for 2 years. I m sick of it. My parents tell me they ll put me back in public school but it NEVER happens. They say it s because I m grumpy. Yeah but it s them. My mom always cusses me out and makes me feel terrible and punches me a lot. She says I have no common sense and I ll do nothing with my life. So does my dad. Maybe my mom says it because I m a girl. She always yells "You ll be 13 soon and you do **** because your always in your bed". They tell me to come out and then I m sent back in because they can t stand being near my face. I try to have privacy online and when they hover I turn off my screen. They assume I m doing something bad 😒. I can t have privacy. I m miserable. Whatever I tell my mom she tattles to my dad. Making me sound horrible. I m sick of my life.

Question: Please help?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 05:15 PM PST

Okay so, I ve been thinking about this a lot lately but, ever since an early age I was hit and left with bruses all over my body and being stepped on the face due to my mothers anger, of course, me being a dumb seven year old. My father is the same, he let s it all happen and does nothing. Sometimes, he joins in. But a few years later I grew a little more mature and they hit me less. They verbally abuse me making my self-worth deteriorate less and less making me feel worthless and depressed. They slap my face and call me names. My relationship is not a love-daughter relationship, they re my bullies instead. I would never tell my mother my feelings due to her calling me stupid and crazy. I m fifteen, still going through that until I reach the age of eighteen. I always ask to be with friends and hang out but they always say "No, you ll end up in a ditch and pregnant." when I know how that ends up, I m not dumb. Yet they still think of me as being the most dumbest thing in the house. Her expectations puts me in so much anxiety. I feel the reason as to why they do this is because my mother doesn t want me to end up like her, sixteen and pregnant. It grew my feelings to hate her, but pity her at the same time. I also think she s bi-polar due to the fact that after slapping my face she says, "I love you." It confuses me so much. It makes me cry over the things she has done to me. I ve tried to stand up for myself but I end up being shut up and calling it "back talk."

Question: What do I do for suicide attempt? I'm ding it no matter how much you lecture me?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 05:14 PM PST

My mom told me I'm not part of her family long story short I'm with my aunt and uncle my uncle has anger issues and they're both basically saying it's my fault. I had one friend and they said I can't see her because they're Jehovah witnesses and she doesn't have a mom so it would be weird with her dad. I've known het for 2 years her dad is like my dad. I've always been afraid of death but how can I with no future? No one likes me and I mean literally. I'm just not all dramatic with the whole depressed thing I haven't told anybody I'm depressed. I have nightmares. I really just want to die or attempt it and if I do live, maybe my mom will realize what she's doing to me. What do i do to attempt it. Don't lecture he and call me names I can't talk to anyone because my siblings will get taken away so just answer me please

Question: Grandma argue for hours every day because she arrogant?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 05:07 PM PST

She keeps on saying his own this house, the government give me money and saying logical fallacies that am wrong and your right.

Question: I'm having issues with my nephew so I'm moving with my friend for 2 weeks until my sister chills out?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 04:56 PM PST

So here's what happened I live with my sister and i pay my half of the bills and try my beat to keep the house clean like I'm supposed to anyway long story short my nephew(preteen) doesnt respect me and basically throws hissy fits when he doesnt get his way and is spoiled. Yesterday he got upset because my sister hasnt gone grocery shopping yet and I ate the rest of the eggs. He demands that I order him food but I said no because I didnt like his tone of voice. So after that he starts throwing stuff around. So I went in his room and took his cable box (I pay half the cable bill so..) And broke it. My sister said I had no right to do that and was upset with me the rest of the night. So today I told her that I will just stay at my friend's house starting this weekend so that we can have some space. My question is what should I do now? I work and I'm saving my money to get my stuff out. What do you think? I have no patience when it comes to children which is why I'm permanently sterilized. That's another story tho. I'm in my late 20s

Question: My Mom's 1st First Younger Brother Padmanabhan Kumar Audhinarayanan Boovi Aanmaa Uncle is scolding me and yelling, warning, firing me?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 04:52 PM PST

and hitting me, beating me, and his sons of Aditya and Dhananjay I am going to complain to his friends He is not allowing me to talk about the movies play all every games for him going to meet ups have a friend's to say what is Church in My Language Tamil like temple is Kovil in my language Tamil I am going to complain to all every of his friends they are Swaminathan and Sabarinatgan, Seetharama, Sreenivasan, Keerthi Ganesan, Karthik, Raj Kumar, Swaminathan's wife Preetha, Raj Kumar's wife, Raj Kumar's daughtersSamyudha, Charadha Doctor's Daughter Rasikkah, Charadha Doctor, Charadha Doctor's Husband of the man wearing Eyeglasses with no moustache, Sabharinathan's wife, Sabharinathan's children's four of them, Charadha Doctor's Big Daughter of the girl, Karthik wife, Keerthi wife, Seetharama's wife my uncle is telling to not use the cell mobile phones all every electronic devices gadgets on me if I go tell th3m what would they console me and what would they tell to me about him of my uncle Padmanabhan Kumar Audhinarayanan Boovi Aanmaa Paddy I could be sad on all every of them that I mentioned and cry on them about show my beatings to them cry about it, tell his behavior of the bad tempers to them of him reacting to me

Question: Not able to pickup my child from her father out of state this christmas, what to do?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 04:46 PM PST

My 6 year old step daughter lost her battle to cancer this year. My spouse has worked to the bone during her whole treatment and cancer journey. He only took one week off of work during/after her passing. He recently left his job and is taking time for himself since he was unable to grieve her propely. Since doing so that has left me to be the only one employed (mom of 3) and supporting our family financially. I only make enough to pay rent, necessities (food, hygeine items etc.,) and bills. I have sole physical custody of the daughter I share with an ex. He has visitation with our daughter during school breaks (he lives out of state). I am responsible to find means to bring my daughter back home (either myself or a relative). Unfortunately this time around I will be unable to do so since I do not have the financial means to do so. My relative would be pleased to do so but travelling to a funeral out of the country during this time. I am not preventing nor trying to prevent my daughter to visit her father but idk how to handle this situation when her father is giving me a hard time. How do I legally handle this? Any advice is grateful, Thank you! (Court is based in San bernardino, CA and I reside in AZ)

Question: What should I do?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 04:39 PM PST

my dad cussed me outing my mom my mom didn't do anything at least I try to clean but she sits and dose nothing it makes me feel like having a not clean house is ok the way she Is sitting do nothing and they get mad at me fr Plus my dad drinks and drives while my mom don't do nothing my dad had a thing for his shoulder cause he had surgery and popped me and I don't think he realizes it and they scare me a lot

Question: Does CPS investigate reasons for a child's poor behavior?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 04:12 PM PST

There are two children in my neighborhood who are already provided essentials in a middle class household. They don't, however, have sense of what's right or wrong and how their actions impact others. They've done things that are upsetting to other people. They're 9 and 14. The behavior varies (such as insulting, lying, manipulative, blaming on others). They seem to have enough adults around, but this just continues on. I also don't know what goes on at home to make them want to act out so much.

Question: I need help.?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 03:59 PM PST

Long story i will try explain asap.My father died when i was 5 years old and from then i am living with my mother and my grandma.My grandma took care of me all my life and my mother was working to pay rent food etc.I am 20 years old male and i am university first period.I try to make them proud with all my powers but my grandma has alzheimer's disease and she is starting to forget things.. My mother has a tumor in her neck and she is ok for now.I am just here in my ******* room looking them die slowly and i cant do **** about that.I cant even study i am just in my room thinking about all of these.I think i will be alone in some years but i dont have the strengh to do something in my life to feel ok.I am not thinking about suicide for now but maybe it will come in my mind. (sorry for my english)

Question: My brother feels real guilty.?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 02:55 PM PST

My brother feels guilty because he thinks he is disappointing everyone. Our parents make him feel this way. My brother wants to pursue a career in interior design, but our parents tell him that that isn't okay and that interior design is going to get him nowhere. He wants to go to a big college but our parents instead want him to go to a small college. He wants to move to Florida to study but our parents are trying to make him stay in Utah (where we live.) Our parents make him feel worthless, and I tell him that he needs to follow his gut, but he carries the emotional guilt of disappointing them, even if he doesn't like them. His best friend told me today that he's been acting like this for 2 weeks. Maybe he needs time to figure this out, but next week we sign up for our classes for next school year and he's taking all these classes that are useless and I know he doesn't want to do (he doesn't want to do interior design because he doesn't want to disappoint our parents) so there is not much time. He is giving up his dreams. I talked to him this morning. He says that he's fine, but I think he isn't. I don't want to be annoying and constantly worry but I don't want to put this to rest. I want him to feel like he doesn't need to carry emotional guilt because of our parents, but idk how to do that. Also, he's just went through a tough breakup. I've tried talking to them, but they backfire and say its none of my business, and talking to them isn't going to work anymore. help!!

Question: Advice on my mom pressuring me to talk to family members that have taken advantage of me?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 02:51 PM PST

I'm 19, living with my mom... I have a reserved, easily agitated, personality, so I deal with confrontation by not dealing with them. I hold a grudge and don't talk to the person. This is the way I've always been. I'm currently not talking to my 2 aunts and cousin. My first aunt stole my car under the influences of 3 cars. I confronted her and she responded by calling me a miserable bougie *****, etc. While my mom and I were out of town, I left my car for emergencies, as my second aunt was staying with my younger sister. My second aunt crashed my car TWICE and broke other rules I set forth in her using my car. While my mom & I were out of town, my cousin went over my house and took stuff out of my room. When I came home and asked her to bring my stuff back, she would ignore me, mock me on Facebook, tell me she would bring my stuff back when she felt like it. I have stopped talking to the three of these relatives since. My mom kept asking me when I will forgive them and when I will talk to them. I told her I don't know when. She has just sent out a group text, telling everyone to come over later this week so we can have a sit down and talk. None of my relatives have apologized to me and the aunt that crashed my car still haven't gotten everything fixed and it's been a month now. I need y'all feedback, opinion input on the situation and on why my mom is forcing me to sit and talk about things I don't want to.

Question: How old do you have to be to have a heart attack?

Posted: 05 Dec 2017 02:46 PM PST

So my cousin is MLG and weighs like 300 lbs, never excercises and eats fast food every day. I keep telling him that he could have a heart attack any day now if he doesn't change his habits, but he thinks that can't happen because he's only 13. How old do you have to be before you could possibly have a heart attack?