My attractive therapist married a high school girls soccer coach. I also interviewed at a marketing company once with a guy who was definitely handsome to women--he looked like a model and he definitely had an attractive wife--and he told me that he used to be a basketball coach. Is there something special about coaching? Are women into coaches? Bonus question - I used to be huge into the gym, but I have chronic shoulder inflammation and chronic shoulder impingement, so I had to stop working out. My entire life is a joke and I am stuck skinny--a worst case scenario when trying to attract a girlfriend--and I may never be able to life weights. I am 30-years-old now and forced to be out of shape. Any advice? It's too late to become a coach. I work at a bank opening accounts, but it doesn't pay well. I learned computer programming as an emergency, in case I want to go back to school for a master's degree, but wouldn't that be even worse for attracting women? I think being in customer service is probably less of a love life killer than being a software engineer or something nerdy.

I realize that I am highly sensitive, so this has caused on-the-job problems for me, as well as difficulties in interpersonal relationships. I need help in knowing how to address this problem.

i support israel, invading north korea, the death penalty, and oppose recreational marijuana, but i support universal health care, citizens rights, necessary regulation, a social safety net, and the like. i also hate trump.

My friend and brother used to be in a relationship for a couple of years. It was so up and down it was insane. Wasn't a healthy one that's for sure. They've both been seeing other people, but the whole time they've been seeing each other behind their significant other's back. I confronted my brother and thought that I got through to him about cheating. Well, my friend got married but I found out she's STILL talking and "hanging out " with my brother. Her husband is a really good guy and I don't know what to do. I hinted to my brother that he should stop seeing her and of course he denied it. Should I confront my friend? Should I not do anything? What should I do??? They don't know that I know. I found out by accident.

With that said, what if the disrespectful son manages to keep a job and never asks his mother for money, therefore allowing her to live comfortably upon retirement (options to buy new house or whatever). ... while the respectful son has no job, a police record, and several baby mamas, therefore putting his mother in the poorhouse (bail money and financially taking care of his children), resulting in her being deeply in debt with no options and having to remain stuck where she lives forever.

Doesnt matter who.some one famous or someone who is good at what u want to do or whatever. U know isnt looking up to them like u know getting extacly like them? Ehy do ppl have some they look up to?how does it happen? Soorry it was long and thankyou so much

He loves his wife not more than his child, but why he wants thanks from his child but not wife?

Why she doesn't need to thank her husband as his child? If he decided to provide his children free shelter food and clothes, child never need to be grateful as like his wife does not need to isn't it?

They moved two months ago, we met them and he introduced his three wives, one is about 18 another 30 and the last is his age around 50. Their religion allows it. I just wondered how it works I can't imagine living with another woman in my marriage. Anyone ever been a second wife?

I will probably need to see therapy because he was emotionally abusive but in the meantime it seems I get this urge to take him back. My family keeps telling me that at 25 I should be married and it makes me feel so awful and I want to run back to my ex

I got fired at my job because i tried to fight a guy who try to provoke me. At the meeting I told my managers everything about what happened. When on of my managers walk me out of the door, he told me I should never say what I meant to say. I ask what he mean by that. He said I shouldn't tell the other managers I took my glasses off and sweatshirt off, and things like that. So what did he mean by saying "never meant to say what you say"? I didn't lie and told everything, because the managers were really like friends to me, and I didn't feel like to lie to them.

Im starting college this January, Im so excited. But on the inside Im freaking out! My ex goes to the same college and I terrified that I'll run into him. Last time we spoke he was threatening to expose private pictures of me, I ended up scaring him that he stop talking to me. But what do I do?

So I am thinknig about going to an marriage broker or matchmaker in vietnam to get set up with a vietnamese woman. I tried dating on my own and that didn't work and I tried getting my relatives in vietnam to set me up and that didn't work either. Those women that my family tried to set me up with gave me a hard time. Some said I don't know if I wanna meet him and others said I will decide if I wanna marry him when I meet him. I am frustrated and I am going to go to an marriage broker or match maker in vietnam and get them to set me up with some vietnamese woman who I could marry. I am desperate and this is my last resort. I got told by people that going to an broker or a matchmaker is going to get me in trouble with immigration fraud. Then someone said that I can also get in trouble in vietnam as well. I don't get how is this illegal as it is just someone setting someone up with someone. I have no choice and I am doing it anyway regardless. Why do people say that this is illegal to do ???

Hello. I am a 27 year old male, in a homosexual relationship with my 24 year old partner of three years and I am in need of some advice on how to save my relationship from falling apart, because of my actions. I grew up in a family where my father abused my mother and I guess you could say some of that mentality he had, is exactly what I am doing with my relationship. I am not proud of it, but it's something I just do and I need help on how to stop because my partner doesn't deserve some of the s*** I put him through. I'm really possessive of him and I get pissed off when I see another man talking to him in any way; I mean to the point I have gotten in literal fights with these guys, got arrested once, even harmed my partner over it. When I get mad, I get violent and there's been times where I have left bruises or scratches on him, pulled his hair, or called him names that made him cry. I've hurt him to the point that he was afraid of me. It's not like I want to hurt him, but it just happens. I get so mad that I just explode with rage. I hate the idea of someone taking him away or him leaving me. Of someone even looking at him. I know he deserves better, so don't lecture me on that; I'm an ******* that doesn't deserve someone like him. I just need advice on how to change myself. How do I stop abusing him, what can I do to change? I need advice on how I can save my relationship because he is threatening to leave and I can't loose him. Tell me what I need to do to change.

If we're not friend etc..and not family then why get excited? We are both the same religion and he got excited when he heard my grandmother was from the same area that his grandparents were from which means the same culture I suppose. Why care or get excited though? 😂just trying to be nice and make conversation?

I recently joined a play for a community theatre and I dont know anybody. Im super shy and have a hard time talking to people but I like theatre so I figured Id join in hopes of breaking me out of my shell and making me more outgoing. Anyway, I went to rehearsals and I know nobody, and it seems like everybody else knows each other. I was hoping that somebody would introduce themselves to me and maybe I could make some friends, but it was like nobody had an interest in even talking to me. Theyd acknowledge me, wed make eye contact, but then theyd continue on talking to somebody else like they were avoiding me. I know I should probably get up the courage and introduce myself (as everyone has been telling me) but Im already extremely out of my comfort zone and truthfully, I get the feeling that none of them would have any interest in making my acquaintance. If they havent talked to me yet, then why would they want to talk to me now? Im aware that half of this is just me being insecure, but advice would be greatly appreciated. I have rehearsal again tomorrow so whatever advice is given, hopefully I can apply it. Thanks in advance.

I have been through physical and psychological abuse from my family. Lately after my parents found out about the fact that I used to have a boyfriend they and my siblings keep constant tabs one me and I never have any privacy at all. I get spied on all the time unable to have friends or go out to places outside of college. The only freedom I have is during the college semester when I hang out with friends I met online on discord on discordapp. I cannot use the internet at home for things other than school and I get monitored all the time. I want to have personal liberty and freedom but I don t know what to do. I care about my family they are the closest people I have to me considering I don t have friends irl due to my imitiations and only have friends online. I don t tell my friends online about my life at home. I am currently 19 years old. I don t know what to do. If I want to run away what is the best way to run away. Where can I go? If I run away I would not be able to contact my family again or have any sort of relationship with them. I don t know what guys would want to marry me if I run away from my family like this but I have suffered my entire life and I will continue to have no personal freedom or privacy and get threatened all the time.

But yet they all fawn and make a big deal over one another. But you walk in the room no one cares, no one asks about your life or even tries to make small talk. You are not even worthy of that apparently. You could be sad and someone you were friends with just died and they know it but no one wants to gove a hug and only 1 person will say 'sorry about that'... Yeah I'm sick of these people. Don't even want to hear their voices anymore nor their nasty countenances of selfishness.

Okay heres the spill: I recently moved from my hometown to Arizona and have really been disliking it. I became really depressed, and told my parents that Arizona just isn't for me. My mom just gave me the option to move back to Colorado. She said I either have to leave in two weeks, or wait the rest of the year out and finish school here in Arizona before finishing my senior year out in my old town. I dunno what to chose. Leaving in the middle of the school year may drop my credits bc of the different ways the two schools handle credits, and I'll also be away from my family. I also have plans to keep up with my youtube and moving back to my hometown means living in a house that's too busy to film my videos. I also had plans to take my miserable time in Arizona to benefit myself (like mentally and physically improve). But, I'm very sad here. And I don't want to spend a large chunk of my slowly diminishing highschool career, in a place I hate with no friends. thoughts?

I'm 17 year old, almost at the age of 18. I don't have any friends and the family that I have in my life are my parents and sibling. I didn't have friends when I was 14 years old and was bullied for my appearance and speech impediment, I was apparently ugly and the speech impediment was so hilarious. I was homeschool the next school year, because of my mental state has become polluted and my well-being was in questions. Within the time frame of 2 or 3 years, I haven't been around that many people. I did spend some time with my cousins and her friends, but none of them like me enough to actually talk to me or try to befriend me. I was the oddball out. The people that I am around in my town and others don't like me. No boys are interested in me. Never had a boyfriend. I try to befriend others, but no one wants to be my friend. Am I truly worthless? What's the point of life, if you don't live? I don't want to be lonely for the rest of my life. I know I don't look like a Victoria Secret Model, but I know that I am not that ugly The bad part is my cousins get a boyfriend every time they break up.