When I married my wife, I knew that I would love who she was until the day I died. I thought she felt the same way. But now I m not so sure. I am a nerd, and I love being a nerd. I hate physical labor (so much that I actually got depressed while I was working a physically demanding job). I don t hate the outdoors, but I only like to visit them, not live in them. My wife is a country girl through and through. I came to love that, and I thought that I could compromise. But she doesn t want to compromise. She s fallen in love with the show, Alaska The Last Frontier. She keeps saying that that life would be so amazing. I would absolutely hate it. I can tell by watching. Now she s talking about wanting to move to Alaska and start raising cattle and training horses. My parents have 40 acres within city limits here that we could do that on. But being here is "awful" and she wants to "break all ties and start our own lives". She seems to think that if I just give it a chance I will love it. Why is she trying to change me now?

so recently my father and my sister found out my mom forged his signature on divorce papers. my father would never agree or sign them and we are pretty sure she did it for fraudulent purposes. we found the divorce papers in one of her drawers and when we tried to find them again a week later they were gone. a couple family friends know about this but it's all new news to myself sister and father. my question is what can we do about this? my mother is an evil manipulative person who none of us care what kind of legal repercussions she will face and we HOPE she can get jail time from this. the only real evidence we have is that my father was out of the country while the papers were signed. i'm just wondering what steps we can take? we don't have any money for a lawyer what can we do?

I recently asked a question about why are older women being so flirty towards me. Everybody just told me to have sex with them. Why? Dont they know that these women are married?

now that we have been separated for 2 weeks I found a guy I really like but I have a complex about my faces I make during sex. Is this a big deal for men?

A guy I met at my gym asked me to meet him at a nearby bar with some other gym goers. I hesitated at first because I'm really not a bar person. Because of his insistence, I agreed and my mistake started. When I got there, he separated me from the rest of the people and. Old me he wanted us to be alone. I ended up getting more drunk and we started cuddling and kissing. I ended up in his place and we've been having our rendezvous for about 6 months now This affair is killing me. I have missed my kids sports tournament rver since this affair and I just feel numb around ny husband. The guy I'm seeing wants me to just move in with him but I don't know if I love him enough yo move i. My loyalty is still with my husband despite my betrayal. Help!

I am 60, disabled, on SSI. Married 40 yrs, divorced. He is 65, disabled, on SSDI. I MUST retire at 62, he CANNOT retire until 66. We have NO dependants. I can claim survivor benefits now that I am 60 & we were married over 10 yrs but he has not died. I heard that I could actually claim a portion now as his divorcee" & he would not lose any income. I cannot get a straight answer from SSA (duh, they told us if we divorced but presented as married we'd be prosecuted but then we'd been legally separated 12 yrs & lived at separate addresses! I cited a couple w a child between them who receives SSI & the woman receives survivor's benefits, while the the man works but they call each other fiances. They've lived together thus for 4 yrs. She said I'd better talk to my local office. I asked if SSA didn't have a clear written federal law regarding all of this? She refused to talk to me anymore. I'd heard about the "marriage penalty" but when my ex & I seriously tried to reconcile I lost all but $49 in income & my medical benefits were endangered. We separated again divorced immediately after the above convo with SSA. We're still living separate. We also heard that if I was granted income as his divorcee' then we could remarry?

I'm 21 and he's 23, we've been married for just over a year now. We just had a child and gave her up for adoption (which was a mutual choice) because we felt we weren't ready and we wouldn't be able to care for her. She was born on September 19 so it hasn't been very long. He's in the Air Force and he hates this job because he hates the hours (12 hour shifts) (545 pm to 545 am). He wakes up at 4pm and doesn't get home until 630 am the following day. He's been displaying signs of depression and it's like nothing I do seems to help anymore. I also have depression and anxiety so it may just be me overreacting but I'm scared I'm going to lose him. He won't talk to me about anything and it seems as though his higherups just don't care. I've been told if we needed anything to just call them and I've done that and said he made an appointment to mental health but they just brushed it off as though it didn't matter. I think about it and my heart falls into my stomach because I don't know what to do. I'm scared and I just want him happy but in all honesty I don't know how to deal with it or help and I just want him okay again. It doesn't help that he is active duty and we are in Germany and he doesn't want to go out because he doesn't like driving here. He has so many stressers here and he's even said it would be better if we went back to the states because he'd feel more open. Does anyone have any type of advice or anything that I can do to help or we can do.

We now wants to move out of state for the third time in three years. He gets stressed from work, finds a million reason why he hates a place, then he wants to move. Then shortly after we move he finds other reasons and wants to leave once again. We just got to our new place six weeks ago, and he already wants to leave. We spent all of our savings on this move. He was really excited and happy to be here just a few weeks ago now he actually wants to go back from where we just came from. That has me absolutely stunned. Not only because he hated it there but also because we have been saving for a year to move to where we are now. I love him dearly but I refuse to move again. It is breaking my heart and stressing me out so bad i feel ill. Anyone been in a similar situation?

Because I am!

My beautiful wife and I have 4 kids. My wife is very beautiful lady, she is smoking hot lady, my wife family on the other hand hates me and they makes up all lies to end our marriage. My wife went to Florida, for a week during the time she was with her family they tried to brainwash my wife convince her I am cheating on her. Even if you paid me all the in the world and I would have all my wishes and dreams to come true ,I still will not hurt my wife. The problem is I can not compete with her family. How do I get my wife to stick up for me and tell her family to go to stay out of our relationship our marriage. Her family has come up with everything in the wrong book to get us to get a divorce they even told my wife that I've been watching child porn when I haven't even watch porn and if I watched porn it was with my wife years ago to get me excited after I took too many pain pills after having my tooth pulled and even that didn't turn me on, how could I watch porn when my wife is the prettiest lady on the face of this planet? My main question is my wife loved her family more than she loves me and her 4 kids that we have together. Again I love my wife and I only have my heart and eyes only for her and her only. Sad and lonely man with no family

I'm not going the rest of my life without sex, I'm just not doing it. I refuse to cheat on her so should I divorce her?

My wife and I are getting divorced, our house is big enough for the two of us to live there, I dont mind it, if she still wants to leave and rent an apt, do I have to pay for alimony?

How?

I made the huge mistake of dating a married men for a year. His wife found out twice, yet he never left me. We both worked for my uncle, and when I broke up with the married man I came clean with my uncle and he fired us both. If anything the married man got the better end of the stick, now his wife doesn't worry he's with me, and all he had to do was find a job. I ended up jobless, and in shame with my family for life. The day we got fired was the last day I saw him. He hasn't tried to contact me. I feel played with. Did I mean nothing for a year? He was my first and he knew it. He doesn't even care how I am doing?

If so, did it help the marriage, or did it harm it? And, in what ways did it help or harm? Also, were there rules of separation, such as no dating other people during the separation, for example? If so, what were the rules? If not, do you think there should have been?

My husband and I have been married for a little over a year, we have known each other for five years and have always been very close. My husband is kind, understanding, intelligent. I m someone who is encouraging, always have good intentions at heart. My husband recently had a break down and wanted told me that I m too naive to understand his deep thoughts and that I m not a therapist. I was never trying to be, but I told him that he needs to talk to me about his problems because we are married and I want to support him. I can t support someone who doesn t share things with me that causes them distress. He was very arrogant and told me that he couldn t tell me what was going on because I wouldn t understand and I m too naive to understand... when I m not, and he knows it. He told me it s not my fault. I told him I m his wife and I feel as though he never shares things with me. He said I never talk deep conversations with him. I told him I would talk deep conversations if he would talk deep with me, it s not just a one way street. He told me that he can t tell me. So I guess I don t know what to do, I want to talk with him about it and I probably will... because he gets angry if I support him but then gets angry if I don t. So I don t know what I m supposed to do or how I can support him... because I feel like I failed as a wife when I truly want to be there for him and he won t let me.

I'm such an idiot for marrying her. She is so bad at sex. I don't know why I got married to a virgin. The wedding night was a disaster and I've never been so turned off in my life. She bled everywhere and was crying. I just left the house and slept in a park for the night. Should I divorce her?

How?

For most people a relationship starts off with great sex, If you were lucky enough to have the same partner through your young adult life you went through the experiment phase and trial and error and usually found out what the both of you enjoyed he most. As time goes on one of you for some unknown reason decides that the amount of this activity should be cut down if not almost completly cut off? Is it fair to the other person? this usually happens without comprimise....so who is the one getting cheated?

What should he do having viewed it,where he saw many guys banging her together and she is enjoying it but she does'nt allow her husband do anything kinky with her and said she does'nt like it and never did with anyone else. Yes, the husband was inexperienced and did'nt evdn have past baggage. How should he deal with it, should he keep the video as it is or should he confront her? And if he confronts her and she apologizes for it, what next should he do? Forget easily and keep himself hurting inside?

He is now so immersed into school life, meeting new people, hanging out with smart friends, I feel like I am left behind. I don't feel needed anymore. Am I over reacting? We moved to the new city for his school so I don't have any friends yet. Also it bothers me when he lies that he doesn't notice my phone calls and never answer my calls while in school. He is now so immersed into school life, meeting new people, hanging out with smart friends, I feel like I am left behind. I don't feel needed anymore. Am I over reacting? We moved to the new city for his school so I don't have any friends yet. Also it bothers me when he lies that he doesn't notice my phone calls and never answer my calls while in school. I only call when he text me saying he is out of class room.

He has NOT once considered what that would do to me. I would never see my mommy, I would have to find ANOTHER shrink, Therapist (THESE SMALL HICK DOCTORS DONT EVEN KNOW ABOUT BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER b/c they are stuck the 50's with their VERY UGLY houses in Segiun.I mean it's a COLLEGE TOWN shouldn't there be some bars or God forbid a NIGHTCLUB. I hate San Antone and nothing to do in New Braunfels. THEN MOST IMPORTANTLY I would need a weed connection. I really do NOT think he is taking MY feelings into regard. Am I wrong? I am mentally ill I do NOT adjust to SMALL TOWN BS. I am from Houston so it's only NATURAL to insult the INBRED redneck white trash Podunk "towns". I thought LUBBOCK was bad ,Geez? Oh yeah I have to have SEAFOOD on a regular basis and some places don't even HAVE Shrimp or LOBSTER. I am surprised SOME restaurants don't have "poop on a shingle" on their menus. Very funny . I HATE MEXICO IT"S NOT MY FAULT THE MEN ARE DIRTY AND STUPID AND THEY SPEAK A "LANGUAGE" that is NOT that common which is why "Je parle Francais". Do you piss lickers have nothing better to do than STALK me and when I DO find out which fudgepacker OR carpet muncher or just plain LOSER WITH NO DICK! YOU people b/c you are probably blacks or beaners with no money I can still report you to the POLICE OR FBI!

They have granted joint custody and I won't get to be with my son all the time. I held him for 9 months in my womb and I feel like dying now. He will be with my ex. What do I do now? I have lost the interest to live. The law is so cruel and life has become miserable