I got this new job as a supervisor, and I do not want him working there. I'm not saying he'd be a bad worker, but I really don't want our friendship to boil down to me having to make a 'Tough Decision' at work. He wants me to help him get on there. I do not Lie.

Basically I've been best friends with this girl for 6 years.we were so close we called eachothwr sisters ,talked like 24/7 and when we had a disagreement we like texted eachother an hour later saying wete so sorry and how much we love eachother .then a couple of years later she found a new friend and I don't like it as se always sticks to us at school and I don't like that.We used to like b**itch about certain girls together and stuff .I went on to do senior year and she stayed behind .She promised me nothing would change and how I'll always be her best friend .but now she's changing so much .She started hanging out with the people we always 'b*itched* about togethe ,she doesn't text me at all anymore ,isn't so concerned about me whatsoever ,doesn't ever stay at my house.Bur when I complain to her how things have changed and how she got friendlier with that girl she promised she wouldn't ,she just says yore my best friend and stop fighting about this .We had that conversation so many times but I always bring it up again as I don't want to loose her but She's literally a different person.When she's not in school I'm relived because it means I won't have to see her and see how much she's changed .Now whenever we fight she never texts me apologising first ,if we fought we can go 2 weeks without talking ad before litetally shed text me like a day maximum later apologising or actually just acting like nothing happened .please help me as I've been bawling day and night for about a week as I literally can't loose her like she's my other half.Whenevr I tell her how I feel she just tells me to stop and that she doesn't know how she's "changed" but she's has so much. Btw ,ok I didn't want to make it sound like we bitched about all other girls.We would ***** about like people who are mean to us or bullies .We never did it to ordinary people Only to people we mutually didn't like

one of my friends have been acting pretty horrible for the past year and a half and my friend group and I are fed up with it. she was insecure and wanted friends but now she's going out with a group of other friends doing underage drinking and illegal drugs. She is being very cocky, tries to make us jealous with boys and friends and social media etc. it may not seem a big deal but this happens daily and it's not just this. Everything is a competition to her and even those around her are bitching and saying how cocky and arrogant she is. we are at the extent that we are willing to ditch her, but because we've been friends for so long I'm not sure if it's the right thing? do we ditch or do we have another conversation with her about what she is doing and how she is acting (these conversations have been repeated several times but she has gotten worst). we have been friends for 6 years as a group and are all 16-17 years old..

my mom found a new church and she's crazy religious. i mean I'm pretty religious too, but not as much as her. the youth group starts before the regular service. I'm really socially anxious, but I've already got a couple friends from school. her argument is that she wants to join her own adult group and that i can't be alone. She said i could either join her, or go to a group for my age. I asked if i could wait in the car, but she said it was extremely rude!

A friend of mine did something that I thought was wrong some weeks ago & we winded up having some bad words with each other, some nasty things were said & the friendship was over. But time passed & Im not angry anymore, I missed her & considered our friendship worthy of me going by her house to say Im sorry, maybe talk things out & try to make up with her. But when I went by her house & she saw it was me at her door she wouldn't even come to the door & totally ignored me. Should I feel stupid, defeated or bad? Was I dumb for going by her house to try to make peace?? Or should I just forget about her & move on with my life?

I lost all of my friends after I found out they were all fake (popular crowd) I haven't ever tried looking out side of the popular group for friends but now it is time anyway backstory aside. I met this girl named kayla in my art class. We instantly clicked and i feel like maybe one day I will get to call her my best friend. I don't want to rush things or seem to needy or anything. She allowed me to sit with her friends with I found amazing. Questions How can I become one of her close friends What are some things we can do on the weekend How do you stay interesting how do you become best friends thanks so much

she has a boyfriend and when ever shes not with the "folowers" shes with him and i try to hangout with her she is always "unavalible" or some excuse :(

Im 15 and I live in a beach town. Everybody likes the ocean, but I don't. We moved to the beach town from the city two years ago, I've gone from having tons of friends to only having three. My family does not go to church, but almost everyone here does. So when people find out that we don't go to church, they become unfriendly and ignore us. I used to go to a youth group, but they became racist. Most teens my age here go to church, so when I did go to the youth group I had to act different because they all want us to act the same and do the same things. In the city, everybody was friendly and accepting, but here if you act different and don't go to church then they won't like you. It's just so frustrating because I've tried to make friends with these teens but all they talk about is church and how you have to act how the bible tells you to and to go to church. Luckily I have 3 friends that don't go to church either. I don't have anything against churches, but iptgey are very mean and rude where I live. Advice?

My best friend's mummy is pregnant. He feels really jealous because, according to him, having a brother will make him to have less time to spend with his parents.

I'm always invited so IDK why I wasn't invited this year. So my other cousin has the same birthday as her (not the same year) so I guess they heard I wasn't invited so his mom invited me (and I have NEVER been invited to his birthday party before. So I spent the night at his house with my other cousin ( lets call him cousin number 2) and they played Destiny ( I know nothing about this game) and thats all they talked about last night. I fell asleep on the couch and the next morning we waited for my cousin's mom to pick us up (she went to get the cake) and take us where the party was going to be. I didn't know any of the guests and I wasn't even told their names. The whole time I was eating and playing games alone but then they planned to go to hang out after this and they invited cousin #2 but not me! They don't even know him! So I was sitting there and no one noticed me. Then I can hear my two cousins talking and they planned for cousin #2 to stay the night again and go swimming. Now the sad thing is I had swimming clothes in my backpack just incase but I didn't tell anyone because that's embarassing (Idk why it just feels like it) I dropped some hints (which I don't normally do) that I wanted to go and they didn't notice I guess. So we dropped all the kids off to hang out and my aunt was taking me home. I thought it wasn't too late for some MAJOR hints but she didn't notice either. So now I am sitting at home alone. I'm wondering if I upset them some how. Help!?!

I'm 22 years old and I've recently moved back home from studying away. I lost contact with all of my old school friends and tried to make contact again but that failed. I'm searching for a job at the minute so I can't even make friends through work, nor do I have a boyfriend. I seem to be spending all of my time alone in my house and I have no one to do anything with. I have zero friends here. How can I make friends? Being and feeling completely alone is really getting me down

I'm 14 and my mom is leaving for the Philippines tonight. She won't be back for 2 weeks and I can't stop worrying because I'm scared somethings going to happen to her. We're going to the airport tonight and I'm going to be so depressed once she leaves. I've always been super close with my mom and I've never, ever been separated from her. I know I sound like a baby but it's the truth. She's like my best friend, I tell her everything. And without her, I don't know what I'm going to do. I'll be so far apart from her and I don't feel safe when she's not around. Has anyone ever felt this way? How do I get over it?? :(

I need help dealing with my friend. I don't like her that much since she is always bragging about how good she is at everything. She also really loves to put me down for a lot of things. Recently, she asked me if I could play a duet with her just for fun so I told her that I would think about it. I ended up telling her that I didn't want to do it but then, she told me that I really don't have a choice and that I kinda have to do the duet :/ What should I do?

So a while ago I posted that my friend had been sneaking out. Here's the link https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20160623222148AAYGTOC she was 13 and naive. I told her parents via text. Everyone on her says I did the right thing yet now the parents feel I betrayed he daughter by ratting her out. I told my mom the entire situation and she says she would have done the same thing. And that I did the right thing. So why do her parents feel like I betrayed her when I was trying to keep her safe? I am going over to her house to night and I don't know how to act to her parents since they hate me. What do I do.

so my friend showed me her artwork and shes so incredible and amazing at art and her first two artwork was just mesmerizing but the third one was a bit bland so i said that it needed a bit work and some shading because i didnt want to sugarcoat anything (friends tell each other the truth). and then today, two days later she told me that i really hurt her feelings and i said sorry but i knew she's still hurt. i have this terrible gut feeling in my stomach. i don't know what to do?

I am a 16 year old girl. I stay home almost every night during the school week (besides friday) and I get home from school at sound 7:30 or 8 because I have practice and then I go get dinner with friends. But, on the weekends (especially Friday) I CAN NOT STAY HOME. I don t remember the last time I was home on a Friday but I know I get really depressed and sad and I just want to cry. It s Saturday today and my friends are busy and im trying to think of any way to get out tonight and do something fun. when I go out on the weekends, I usually go to parties and stuff like that. what is wrong with me? Why does this happen

So I have a good friend of mine who I've known for a good time now. I would probably say... we've known each other about 3 yrs. We met on a business trip, and just hit it off. I guess some people just click. Anyway, right after that business trip, she extended an invitation for me to come to her hometown. To accompany her to family camp. Being excited, I went. We had a good time , fun memories ECT. Now about a year later, the same opportunity pops up for this annual summer thing. And I was invited...but due to my hectic work schedule and helping my kids needs I could go. And I could tell this person was really.. really expecting to see me. Well, anyway the point is ( and I had to zoom out a little so you could see the whole picture. With the details i described above of this scenario.) Because I wasn't there, she mingled; just as anybody would have with the other people present at that time. And one of the people she rubbed elbows with happens to live right by her. And ever sense they mett. From what I witnessed. They sort of mimic each other. I'm not sure if its on purpose. ...but they text the same , like literally say the same things. Almost like echoing each other . They dress the same. And ECT. My question is why do people do this? I can't understand it?

I am aware and many of my friends are aware of the fact that i am very nice and have an extreme fear of hurting another person's feelings (no matter how they act). Whenever someone needs help i usually volunteer to help if its something i know i can do and if someone wants to talk i listen. It got to a point at one time that i was bombarded with many people asking for help all at once and it was hard to juggle but i pushed through because i didnt want anyone to feel bad that i didnt help. There have been times in the past where people have taken advantage of my kindness but i don't think its easy for them to do that anymore because i've been training myself to notice. Despite some of these things sounding like a burden they genuinly does not bother me. I enjoy doing whatever i do to help as long as it makes the person im helping happy and when i do help i definitly get praise for it. My only issue is that i feel that im really ignorant on how i should treat others and how others should treat me, and often times i find my close friends sitting me down to explain why "what this person said was not meant to be nice" or "you shouldnt have helped that person with this" and mostly "you should have just said no"

... Is this realistic? I don't want to be annoying how would I avoid that? And how would I stay in contact? They also said I should visit their classroom sometime. How should I approach this. This person is really nice, and is so lovely to talk to, so I was happy when they suggested being friends.

I can't remember the last time I had fun after the school year started. Ever since the beginning of the year, I've just been overloaded with work, and between that and my extracuriculars, I haven't had time to have fun and it's making me really sad. My birthday was last weekend, and I had a couple of friends over, and I thought that that would be my break, but it wasn't. During the event that I had planned, my mom was yelling the whole time, my dad was grumpy, and I could tell my friends didn't enjoy it. Then when I got home (my friends were staying the night), I had to deal with my one friend complaining about the others because he didn't like them, and then he slept for the entirety of the next day, being antisocial. Playing XBox with the other two was nice, but it was supposed to be a celebration of my birthday, not some gaming reunion, and that's all the other two wanted to do and I was bored the entire time. Now this weekend, I had to do community work to get service hours for graduation, and guess what my friends were doing. They decided to choose this weekend to go out paint-balling (something that I've always wanted to do) and their sisters and my sister went to the zoo and then to dinner. All while I was doing community service. I can't rant to my parents about this because they spent like $400 on my birthday event, and they'll get mad, so I kept it inside and started to cry from stress, and my mom literally laughed at me, because I'm a teenage male that's crying. Please help, I'm really sad and I can't get happy because there's no fun in my life, and I'm broke so I can't plan anything fun. Isn't school supposed to help you. In freshman health class, we learned about the three points of health (mental, social, and physical), so why does the work that school gives me hurt al; three of those points? Feel free to make your responses as long as you wan't I'll read all of them

I recently fought with my best friends over some silly things. We aren't very close anymore, but another friend has taken me under his wing and made sure that I've had a friend through it all. In general we've always been good friends to each other, I've always been there for him when he needed me as well. I've liked him multiple times in the past, I'm not sure if he's ever known that, but I'm guessing that he hasn't ever felt the same way. Now that we're getting closer than we have ever been before, I'm starting to like him again. I don't have a best friend to go and talk to anymore. And I don't wanna make a move because I've done it before with other guys and it hasn't worked out and I'm too scared to do anything anymore. Please help?

everyday, when i talk to people, i have this terrible feeling in the pit of my stomach and i always care about how i look like while talking to someone and that makes me distracted while talking to people. i'm always afraid that we will have nothing to talk about and when there is an awkward silence tears well up sometimes. every conversation is like a script--before my friend tells a funny joke, i mentally prepare to laugh instead of actually listening to it and my laugh comes out fake. other times, i completely miss the joke and i hesitate for a moment before i laugh, and i make a COMPLETE fool of myself. many of my beautiful blooming friendships have stopped because of my anxiety. everyday, i pray that i don't have to talk on the phone because i absolutely hate just talking and not doing action. i pray that when i walk near a familiar neighborhood i wont bump into someone i know and make awkward conversations. i used to be lively, funny, amazing, i had many friends. now i only have one really close friend, but sometimes my anxiety starts acting up and my laugh comes forced. i really am sad, and i'm afraid for my future. i don't know how to stop it--the reason why i got social anxiety was because of tumblr and an insecurity, but i deactivated tumblr and i'm not very insecure anymore yet its STILL happening. who should i talk to? what should i do? i don't want to live like this for the rest of my life. i had social anxiety for two years now.

There is a boy in my class with autism and everyone else always teases him and plays mean tricks on him. I want to be his friend, but he makes it difficult. I was the only kid from school at his birthday party and when he opened my gift he said he didn't like it and threw it in the garbage at Chuckie Cheese. He has also hit me when I won't give him my potato chips at lunch. How can I be his friend when he acts this way? I know it is not his fault.

I always get invited to all these parties in my grade but most of my friends aren't invited or they can't go because they're always hanging out with their boyfriends. I'm afraid if I keep saying no I won't be invited to the parties anymore but I just can't get myself to show up alone. If none of my friends go I would have to walk in by myself in front of everyone and I just feel like that would be really embarrassing. Is it that bad to show up alone or am I just insecure?

Hi! So i am a twelve year old girl and I just started secondary school. Don't get me wrong, I do love it, but there are a few things wrong lately. Firstly, I knew I would get homework but what I didn't realise was how much of my day would be consumed by it! School is from eight to four (I go in early to sort my stuff) and by the time I've changed out of my uniform, eaten my dinner and finished my homework, it's nearing six. I have no time for hobbies like trampolining and walking my dog, like I used to love. Another thing annoying me is English- I'm not showing off but I used to be really good at it, it was always my best subject, I've done college courses in novel writing, journalism and short story writing. My primary school teacher was aware of this and set me different work to all my classmates, and set me tasks he knew I would be challenged by. My new English teacher has so far covered punctuation and capital letters! I don't know what to do- I can't really tell her I find her classes crap, but I don't want to lose all my talents either! Thanks so much for your help... I don't know what to do!

I'm a really quiet asian girl. I have bad anxiety so I don't usually talk to others. I know I'm ugly and I hate the way I look, so why would people assume I think of myself as beautiful? Is it the ways I walk or talk? What I wear? I'm actually really humble and make jokes about myself when I'm with my friends. Can someone describe how an arrogant person would act?

Its long. My friend asked me if I had a gf or liked any. I told him yes and her name (I've never had a gf I'm 16 as well) he texted me 3 days later asking if I made progress I said idk, I think she's mad but idk he messaged her asking if she was mad and told her I liked her. She didn't like me back. He then went off on her. I went off on him and sent her a long message saying sorry and i don't know why he did that and told her I didn't want a gf (so she doesn't hate me more) so we talked it out and we were fine weeks pass and she texts me asking why I told my one friend she went to homecoming with another guy. I didn't though, he saw her flyer asking for parents permission so she can go. He asked her about it too. Now she's mad at me and I wanna make it right and have her back 😢 =,( please help

An acquaintance who calls me a close and family friend just verbally abused me in front of my friends for a trivial matter and it seemed so strange. I had borrowed 30 dollars from him yesterday and today I couldn't find him so I decided to leave the money with his best friend and roommate. They are really close to each other that it is impossible for one to cheat money out of the other. Besides his roommate is loaded with money to try to reach out for somebody else's. When I informed the money lender about that, he got so angry to the point that he said would beat me up in front of my friends. I'm not a puny man but he is a really big bodybuilder. I tried to calm him down by saying that it didn't make sense since there was no way he could have lost his money. He insisted that I should have handed the money only to him. Then his roommate came in and he changed his reason to get angry by saying that I had spoken to him in a really bad tone. I swear to God that I didn't talk to him like that. I mean, how would one say "I couldn't find you so I left your money with your roommate" rudely/harshly/offensively? That's the only thing I said before he lost his cool and started abusing me in front of my friends. I left the place and went to my room. He kept sending me abusive WhatsApp messages. I blocked him. Then he kept ringing my phone. I thought it was too much and decided to go back to meet him to clear up the issue. My friends were still there. He called me girlish for blocking him on WhatsApp - saying blocking is only intended for girls - and started another verbal abuse session where he was angry because I blocked him on WhatsApp. A few days back, when I talked to his father, his father said that his son was an idiot. I didn't believe him that time, but could he have been true? Or was he right to be angry because I asked his trusted friend and roommate to keep the money for him while he was away and because I blocked him on WhatsApp? Obviously, I won't/can't call the cops on him, but since he doesn't respect me like I did to him and since none of my new so-called friends(I moved to this town only 3 months ago) stood up for me or utter a single word for me, I would like to leave 3 WhatsApp groups they have put me in without my consent cos I don't want to be associated with them anymore in any way. I'm 100% certain, he won't leave me alone if I did that but should I leave those groups? I can leave without bothering about how he will react and what he will do to me, but there are other people in the group who I like. I have cut off real world connections with him. And why do bad things always happen on my Birthday? I'm 18 today. I never had a single good birthday in all the times I remember. The rest of the days of the year are usually fine but bad things definitely happen on my birthdays.

Should I be careful with who I make friends with? Say one is into drugs or other bad stuff, would they rub off on me?

wtf?

I have been best friends with this girl for about 5 years, and I have only just come to the realization that she is a 'toxic' person. At the beginning of our friendship, I was happy, but about three years in, I noticed things began to change. She would constantly talk about herself and her problems, and when I would try to get help for her, she would complain that no one understood her and there was nothing anyone could do for her. She began to make up mental illnesses for herself as a way to garner attention, despite the fact that she claims that she wants no attention. She never says anything positive, and I dread seeing her. When she leave, I'm relieved that she's gone. My mental health has reached an all time low, and I feel trapped. She doesn't listen to my problems, because when I tell her, she immediately talks about how she had it worse. I feel awful being around her, but I would feel guilty if I left her. I'm confused, and I need help.

la carta es una sorpresa sin ninguna mala intención ya que espero hacerla llegar para su cumpleaños, seria esto posible? la carta es una sorpresa y espero que llegue el dia de su cumpleaños, existe inconveniente para q la reciba?

I'm a girl and there is this girl who I know and she has always been quite standoffish towards me. It's got much worse in the more recent years and it's more obvious that she doesn't get on with me. I've tried my best efforts to be friendly to her as well. - She follows me on Instagram and Facebook but she never likes any of my posts. She always likes other people's pictures and posts but never mine. - One time I was wearing a dress similar to her dress (without realising) and she spent a great deal of time staring at me and the dress and looking at my body - Another time I was at a party and wanted to get another drink and she said to me 'you'll have to go over to the boys and get one won't you' sarcastically and her friend laughed. - She was being really friendly to me at one point and saying we should both hang out and so I recently messaged her asking to hang out and she saw the message and never replied Why is she being shady with me? I don't think I've ever done anything to upset her...

When I talk to some people, the conversation is going good, both of us talk, but with other people it feels really awkward and it feels like I'm bad at conversation skills, but I know I'm not, and I feel like stuck without anything to say. What could be the cause? Is it me doing something wrong? I'm not too worried but I'd just like to get some opinions. If it means anything, I'm a Capricorn - specific for capricorns, they don't open to people quick.

*Still updating details.... An acquaintance who calls me a close and family friend just verbally abused me in front of my friends for a trivial matter and it seemed so strange. I borrowed 30 dollars from him yesterday and today I couldn't find him so I decided to leave the money with his best friend and roommate. They are really close to each other that it is impossible for one to cheat money out of the other. When I informed the money lender about that, he got so angry and.. he got so angry to the point that he said would beat me up in front of my friends. I'm not a puny man but he is a really big bodybuilder. I tried to calm him down by saying that it didn't make sense since there was no way he was gonna lose his money ever. He insisted that I should have handed the money only to him. Then his roommate came in, then he changed his reason to get angry by saying that I had spoken to him in a really bad tone. I swear to God that I didn't talk to him like that.

Hi! So I have this friend at school, and we used to be pretty good friends. She was fine until I said that I couldn t go to her birthday party. I told her I couldn t go because I had to visit family that day. Ever sense she hasn t been taking to me that much! I said sorry very many times and she said "Oh it s fine.. :)" but I could tell she was hurt. I keep asking her what s wrong and she makes dumb excuses like "I m tired" or "Sorry, I m having family issues, don t take it personal" But the problem with this is, is that she is ONLY acting like this around me. I ve seen her talk soooooo much to her other friends, but around me, she never talks. Idk what to say I m getting irritated. I don t even like her that much anyways, we are nothing alike, but it just bugs me lol! What should I do? Should I ignore her back? I ve already tried asking over and over what s wrong. OH ALSO... she NEVER snap chats me or opens mine, but she showed me her phone one day on snapchat, and she had opened everyone s but mine. I was like "Why didn t u open mine?" She said "Uh.. I ve been busy" it takes two seconds to open a snapchat :/

She has ratchet,curly black hair and likes one direction. She calls everyone a hoe and wont come out of the same roasts, she basically cant roast anymore. All she ever tells others are that their fake and basic (trust me, we've been friends for years). I want to roast her so bad that she'll stay roasted for weeks.

My friends and my sister are always trying to get me to go to parties and bars and cut loose. I HATE parties and bars. I hate drinking, I hate dancing and I hate screaming over loud throbbing dance music. I like staying home and reading or going on the computer or watching movies. They all think I just need to loosen up, but I have been to many parties and bars and the situation totally disgusts me. How can I make them stop pressuring me? I've already asked, but they think "If I give it a chance, I'll love it." @Ron. I don't care what they think. I just want them to shut up about it.

Do you just automatically assume they're antisocial or social freaks, or think that maybe there is something deeper hidden under the veil? If you were popular enough, and had a numerous amount of friends already, would you go out of your way to make friends with that person? Even if he's that odd ball kid in class you kind of sort of know? Or would you just ignore it and go hanging out without your popular clique and tell me why? It happens every day at school during lunch and no one gives af, and I would know cause i'm that one kid who's the loner.

I had 2 friends. I recently made 2 new friends and I want them to be long term, cause I only have 1 long term friend since the other one moved away. How could I get closer to these two people? Don't judge me for having many friends. There are already cliques and groups so I can't just join a group all of a sudden.

Though me and my friends from college live in the same city, I have changed a lot since and I feel two of them still have grudges from back then I offended a good guy friend of theirs, therefore I'm hesitant to rejoin the group. I feel that I must make an effort to start a new group of friends somehow but it's very difficult, I feel especially now I'm working and turned 30. Sometimes I have to say I am saddened by what happened in the past and I question if I wasn't a good friend, if the same thing won't happy again, and if it was a mistake, etc, but the thing is I have changed a lot since college, I feel that I need friends who can help me grow in my life and career, etc, but to start over is just so hard and i can't help but wonder when others see i don't have any friends from schools, etc, what does it say about me for instance, how can i move on from this?

I have this friend and he has been my friend for about a year or so now. He s really been the only one that has stood up for me and helped me. Anyway he is one of the popular kids in school and he has a lot of friends. I have two Insta accounts (one main, one backup). And I was added to a group chat with all the popular people on my second account and logged in for the first time in weeks yesterday and found out he s being saying stuff like ******* is a f*ckboy and he thinks he is hard and I hate him . It might be because I have Asperger s and he feels sorry for me or something. Any info would be great thanks.

I don't have any friends. I have never been someone with a lot of friends. And I would like to make some. How to do that? What to say? I go to school online so I'm not really on campus. How to make friends?

Buy them with money or buy them with kindness?

I was talking to one of my friends I met on the bus yesterday and she blocked me on instagram. She texted me first the convo went on like this Emma: Hey Me: Hi Emma: What's up? Me: Nothing much really you? Emma: Are you sure? Me: Um yeah, why are you asking? Emma: Didn't you notice? Me: Notice what? Emma: I blocked you on Instgram. Me: Oh. Emma: How come you didn't notice? Me: Dunno, we were never friends, that's all. Emma: ): but Angel!! Me: Gtg can't keep my friend waiting!, goodbye p.s good luck making new friends!

I went to my friends party last night and got drunk, my ex best friend was also there because she's a mutual friend of my friend. We talked about our issues and had a great time until both of us got drunk and ended up sleeping with each other. I was horrified when I woke up and I tried talking to our mutual friend but she said she would stay out of this because it's our own business what we did last night...I can't even remember what I did last night and how I ended up sleeping with my ex bff.... I tried talking to her but she's just as shocked as me and goes red and won't even talk to me properlly.... Idk what to do.... all of us are 17 btw...

I was going to visit my bf and i put a picture of a flag of his country when i reached.and he saw it. He said he would visit me in his holidays and he has holidays right now. And he recently posted a picture of my countrys flag where i have blocked him ( he knows i see it because ive blocked him there) so is he in my town? Why hasnt he asked to meet and what do i do. Thank you

I used to be friends with a kid that we'll call John. Before I went to China with him for the summer, I used to like him as a friend. Right now I am 14 years old. During the China trip I started to see his true personality and I really hated it. He was very annoying and every night I would think of how to get rid of him when I got back to the U.S. In China, his mom would send him messages about my feelings (Ikr wtf) about my parents divorce. His mom would always say some personal stuff that my mom told her to send on John's phone because mine broke. (my mom and his mom are good friends) John started showing everyone my personal info and spreading what I apparently was going through (It was all false what he told everyone). I really didn't want him to do this anymore so I deleted the messages that were supposed me be for me on his phone. When I came back to America I tried to avoid any thing with him and I tried to ignore him and it worked out pretty well until today. I was going to go to the gym with some of my friends but I found out that he was going to. What was even worse is that my mom was asking John's mom to pick me up. I didn't want to go to the gym with him (My relationship with John doesn't seem that bad but it really was, there are just some feelings that I don't want to share). His mom got the news that I wasn't going so she came to my house to talk to me. She said that she knew exactly what I had in my mind (She had no clue what was on my mind). She said that when she told John to make me call my mom in a carnival at my school, I ignored him. I didn't know what John was saying when he told me to talk to my mom and I was having a fun time and I didn't want a ******* jackass to ruin it so I ignored him and there was no reason to call my mom at that time anyways. John mom also said that she want me and John to be BEST FRIENDS. I could tell the whole time that she was bringing the divorce and my own problems that she made up into this. She also said that my dads wife hated her and she tried to make me agree with things she said so I could be on her side of her imaginary battle with my dad's new family and me not wanting to be her sons friend. Keep in mind that my mom and her are very good friends and my mom also wants me to become friends with John again. Also please don't answer with "Just tell them how you fell and be honest that you don't want to be friends" They are Asian, I am Asian it doesn't work like that. Just help.

i'm meeting her in less than two weeks and i'm really excited but also nervous? i've known her for about two years and we've facetimed and all, so there aren't many surprises with looks and everything but every time we've talked i've had the ability to pause the call and go on another app so if we were ever quiet it wasn't a big deal. or i had the ability to wait to answer her so i could gather a response. i'm not really that awkward irl but i've never met an internet friend and i'm not sure what to expect? like what if it gets awkward or quiet and we don't have anything to talk about?

My mom doesn't want me to give out Halloween candy to kids on Halloween because she says no one will be home with me and someone might want to ring the bell for other than candy (like maybe someone wanting to hurt kids). I'm a 14 year old girl and she and my grandparents are taking my younger brothers to trick or treating. Lots of other kids give out treats.

I'm seventeen in high school and I have friends and a best friend and acquaintances and all but on weekends I usually always get this hate feeling towards everyone and I just want to kill myself I can't explain it.

bueno yo soy un alumno que le va bien y que tiene una cantidad de amigos (hombres) normal, pero el problema es que no tengo casi ninguna amiga debido a que soy timido. estas solo se acercan para conseguirse la materia del curso o algun material, y eso me hace sentir mal ,ya que siento que me usan. ademas que tengo un hermano en mi mismo curso y ahi le hablan mas que a mi pero para socializar, no para aprovecharse (ya imaginaran como me siento al ver que a el lo quieren y ami solo cuando necesitan materia de colegio). ¿que hago?. si les digo que no cuando ellas me piden la materia se enojan,me dicen que soy pesado y que mi hermano es mejor que yo etc.

From highschool to my earlly work expeience i was pick on, gossiped about, lied on, name called. I was told I need to defend myself and it will stop which i did later on. i had the nervous shy peronality at the time. one thing that got me the most was when i talk to anyone about it they would tell me that its me, im the reason they treat me that way. some of the people did it becaus ei was black and unatractive. so is that my fault In school kids use to call me names but when someone call them out on their behavior they would make up a lie saying i treated someone else with a disability bad. When i was a part time janitor the girls excuse was that i didn't do anything. when i started talking back to them they tried getting me fire. i put my 2 weeks notice in Now have a good job. the begining was bad, until i start being assertive and calling them out on their behavior. they pretty much left me alone after.

So, I had two bad experiences with people who pretended to be my friends but then every time I invited them somewhere they ditched me. In time, I realized they didn t want me as a friend and I let it go. I never heard from them again. The problem is that now, every time someone refuses my invitation I think they are avoiding me like those two before. I hope they are not but I am never sure and start to fear they are avoiding me. How can I stop believing that?