She was home alone for about 30 mins while I went to the grocery store and post office. She said she would rather stay home so I let her.. I get back home and she didn't come to the door to help with the groceries. I called her name a loud and told her I was back home and to come help put some away. She still didn't come or answer. I walk upstairs into her room and the door was closed and I heard heavy breathing and little moans. The last thing in my head was that she was masturbating! I immediately thought she couldn't breathe or something happened. I called her one more time and knocked on the door and she still didn't answer. I burst open the door and she's completely naked, on her bed with her legs spread very wide and her electric vibrating toothbrush!! She had her eyes closed and she was moaning and I guess in the middle of an orgasm. It must have been super intense because she didn't even hear me come in her room. Then she let out this huge moan and turned off the vibrator and put it under her covers and relaxed her body and just layed there while touching her vagina lips and giggling. I was in her doorway just staring and she didn't even notice. I was in shock!! I know this is normal but damn! She's 12! She hasn't even really stared puberty. Her chest is still flat and she doesn't have any pubic hair anywhere. She's still my baby !;( Did I do something wrong? I just walked out and went downstairs and she hadn't come down since & I did not go up. What should I do?

Basically he has been a pain and my husband won't do anything about it, my stepson takes drugs, drinks, stays out for days, lies, steals, breaks thing and is verbally abusive, I found cannabis in his room so I put him over my knee, pulled his underwear down and spanked him 20 times.

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This is really annoying the **** out of me. Basically I'm a picky eater and I don't like some foods. My Little sister always have something to say or she make fun of me when I don't like something. For example I dislike eating pancakes, Whenever my mom cook breakfast and she makes breakfast she always include pancakes, I tell my mom that I don't like pancakes and my little sister always have to say some ****, She always say that I'm such a picky eater and that since I'm a picky eater is the reason I'm skinny. I love being skinny. I rather be skinny than fat like her any day. But let me get to the point. Whenever my mom cooks something or we go out and I order something my little sister always speak up and say I don't like that item or something. Like for example I order chicken. "You don't even like chicken." She thinks I don't like anything. It's getting on my last nerve. She's so annoying. What do I do?

My niece and sister both have a recreational marijuana card, they both live in CA. I live far away and communicate with both often. They both reconnected recently after complicated family issues causing them to be estranged for several years. My sister has a criminal history with drugs and is totally clean record now, but noticed that her daughter is addicted to marijuana and is hanging with the wrong crowd. The dad doesn't know she smokes it, and he's strongly against it. My sister gave all of her marijuana stash to her daughter, because she came to her asking for some, and she smoked all 3mths worth in a week. When she knew her mom no longer had any, she just stopped going over to visit her mom... Anyway, if my sister tells her ex-husband what their daughter's doing, he will undoubtedly blame her for getting her daughter on drugs in the first place. I don't want her to get into trouble with the law again. Only I can really say anything since I'm the only other family member who knows she smokes the stuff. I think I put in all the necessary details...please help

I'm 15 and I've lived in the same house since i was 3, with my mum, dad and younger brother (12). My mum moved out last year but still lives nearby and I go to her house most days after school - I have a bedroom there but I hardly ever stay over, because I 'live' at my dad's so all my things are there. Basically, I hate my dads house. It's in a good area (small village) but is small, old and horrible. The bathroom is full of mould and no matter how often my dad treats it and repaints, it grows back. Until recently there was a carpet on the bathroom floor (we pulled it up ourselves because mushrooms grew where it attached to the bath and it was constantly wet) and the bottom of the bath has rotted, so when you take a shower, water gathers under it and rots It even more. There's mould and peeling wallpaper on most of the walls in the house. Plus it's dusty, full of spiders and so hard to keep fresh and clean because of its age. We rent it and the landlord is supposed to address issues like these. He's extremely rich and knows full well what it's like inside, but expects my dad to do everything himself despite his declining health - my dad is old, undernourished in my opinion and had a heart attacking last month. I'm begging my dad to let us move and rent a different place. He is very stubborn and says no - he doesn't mind how it is. Plus he says we can't afford to do anything. I don't think he realises just how much it affects me, although I try to tell him.

I ve realized recently that when I talk to my friends, I am always extra nice to one person, but I am mean to the other. Like, I m trying to start fights with them, and just be mad and annoyed with them and just having negative emotions to them. And then I saw it when I was with my mom and my grandma. My mom says that when my grandma comes over I act depressed and moopy, and that I only tell my mom about the sad things my grandma talks to me about. And she says that I try to start fights with her too, and just act weird. I don t know what s wrong with me and I hate myself. If I can t fix it, I ll stop talking to these people, cause I m tired of being this way. Please help.

I litterally had a bowl pack of a little weed that's all I had in my tiny bowl. And I was smoking and then my dad came out and started yelling and said go inside and I listened. Then he told my mom and she started freaking out and said she was going to send me to rehab. Im 17, I don't even live with my parents a large amount of the time cause I go to a boarding school and im home yes I want to go out with my friends and such but if that includes smoking weed, why is it a big deal. Also another big point, my older sister was smoking weed at my age and when they caught her they didn't do ****. But of course when I get caught it's a big deal and the worlds gonna end. Im 17 but they treat me like im 12. And going to rehab is just with a bunch of real addicts on coke and smack and going there is only going to have me peer pressured by a hot girl with coke. Any thoughts?

We have a pool at my house and she keeps bringing her friends over and she keeps getting drunk and having sex with kids from her class. I dont want to be a snitch, but I'm worried about her, what should I do?

My boyfriend had a condom in his wallet and he's had it in there for a while(almost a month) because i remember what it looked like. We used it but i wasnt paying attention when he put it on. I'm not nervous because I know if i'll stress myself out. It's been 6 days since and I dont have any symptoms. however, i WAS fertile the day of. My period is in 10 days so I'm just waiting until then. He did c** but I'm still worried. I checked this morning and i have white discharge (it didnt drip out, it was more like it needed to be "forced" out). I'm just a little nervous. If you could give me advice, it would be much appreciated. thank you

I feel for my little sister when she asks me to use my laptop or phone because I did not have those things or access to them at a young age and being on one always made my day. Playing games and such. I let her use my devices often and she watches movies and shows and her favorite youtubers (just corny little kids singing music videos). I recently checked my youtube history just out of curiosity of what I was watching a couple weeks ago. But I found this, I **** you not. "a guy is humping on a bed naked showing his penis" "little boys sucking his penis" "a little 10 year old is something a little girl on the bed no why not seeing" and MORE. I'm very disturbed about this especially since it seems she pulls up videos of her shows and youtubers like mattyb to fool me when she gives it back. She's a little slow, and can't type accurately on my phone so she uses google voice. What do I do? I thought my little sister was a little girl. edit: our guardian is nothing like most peoples parents and will most definitley not be the person to tell about this, also i am 16 and thanks for your help it wasn't cp it was on youtube but i'm still worried but i'll resolve it with her thanks everyone

When her boyfriend left her to care for their child she told her five year old she hated her and she was a accident and gave the child to the grandparents. 11 years later she comes back to the kid and tried to be the mother she never was. The child was abandoned by her freaking parents... So is she a bad mom?

This question needs some explaining, I guess. I've tried to ask this before but just couldn't word it right. I'm asking if you were treated like you were less important than another person rather the treatment was intentional or not. Example: Parents are divorced but the father always send his son gifts for his birthday and Christmas but never his daughter. You are visiting you parents for a family reunion but they give you the cold shoulder showing favor to a favored grown sibling. It could even be, family night, mom and kids pick out a movie without caring what dad wants. I think this happens to almost everybody but some times it's just hurtful or just too wrong.

Today my parent called me a Thot because win one of my pictures me and my friend poked out tounge out! I didn't think it was bad neither did anyone else! I literally cried over MY OWN PARENTS calling me this and I don't knew why. I don't want to be known as a thot ;c

I don't think this is normal, but I'm a 15 year old boy, and I freaked out this morning because I couldn't open the door for 40 minutes because my brother locked it. I started to cry and my brother came home 40 minutes later, opened the door easily (in less than 2 seconds) than walked away. I was so enraged that I just acted like a total moron and trashed my room. My dad was comming home, so I sort of got my act together and cleaned up so he wouldn't notice. I have had a history of social anxiety and passed out a few times because of it. I feel like I shouldn't live on this earth because of how stupid everyone makes me feel. I was trying to open my bedroom door for 40 minutes!! And my brother opened it in just 2 seconds. That right there just made me realize how stupid I am. I need help and I need my problems fixed. I came to yahoo answers because I don't want to talk to any fancy Doctor because I don't want them to think I'm mentally sick and stupid. Please help me.

She only hits me when she gets really mad at me. Today she hit me and threw my phone and a blanket at me. When I was younger she would spank me when I did something wrong, but now that's considered child abuse. She drinks and is rarely sober and cannot keep a job. I want to move in with my grandparents or maybe my father. Maybe 2 weeks ago she got mad at me and kicked me out of the apartment and made me sit outside. I ended up walking a mile to my grandparents house and she wouldn't let me have any shoes so I walked bare foot. I got 2 nasty blisters on my feet and they are still there except my feet don't hurt to walk on anymore. I don't know what to do but I don't want to live with my mom anymore I'm sick of her.

My parents are over protective and strict and just mean in general. Like here are some examples... I cannot have sleepovers and I rarely get to go anywhere with my friends and then my mom complains that I sit at home and do nothing! My mom has no idea what my grades were last year because she didn't know how to get online even though she could've easily figured it out... And my mom never let's me hang out with one of my best friends because she thinks she is a bad influence and I have to lie every time she asks me to hang out!! And now this guy I like invited me over... There's no way in hell they would ever let me go... PLEASE HELP! I've also tried telling them they're too mean and my mom just says "being a good good mom is being a mean mom"... ******* help

I'm a 14 year old iranian boy. I'm emigrating to Nevada Reno to be exact in a week. I want to know how I'll be treated between kids my age ?

I know this questions has been asked alot but I have to ask again. I suspected my sister of doing something inappropriate so I snooped. She's sexting with one of our far cousins. I started searching internet to find out what to do. Recommended by many, I tried telling our father; but I'm not sure I could explained it correctly. He seems much calm, and I was only brave enough to bring it up and finish it in five sentences and go back to my room with a red hot face. What should I do? And our family isn't really a open minded one, although I'm 18 my parents have never had the talk with me and I can imagine of my father ignore or misunderstand what I've said.

For years now my mom and I have constantly bickered. She always says she does these certain things for the good of me but it doesn t always feel like that. For ex; she s been calling me fat since the first grade. I almost became anorexic at one point. She also compares me to my other relatives, but then she claims she loves me the most even though she treats me completely different from my brother. My brother gets away with calling me awful names and even wishing cancer and other horrendous things upon me. He s another issue. Point is, whenever I feel good about myself my mom damages my self esteem. Mothers aren t supposed to be like that..right?

I had a first baby a month ago and my mom came from another country to help my husband and I with a baby. Today we had a huge argument. My mom brought a cat 4 years ago and left with us with no intention to take her back. She explains that she doesn't need a cat any longer. While she is staying with us she lets the cat out constantly and the cat roams in our townhouse community. I am tired to tell her that it is not acceptable. This morning I got up to feed my baby at 6 am. I told my husband to call the cat from outside. He did but she never came. In 20 mins my mom went down to let the cat in. Mom's room is on the other side and she heard how the cat was meowing and asked to get in. So my mom run into our room and started to curse on us. I told her that I am not going to sit at the door and wait when the cat will decide to come back, I have a newborn to take care of. She started to call us names and wish us all the bad luck on earth. She even wished my husband to be handicapped. I told her that she is dishonoring me. She run back to our room while we were in bed and tried to hit me. My husband stopped her. What do you think about this situation. This is so unhealthy. Now she even doesn't come to a baby...

Does anyone have a story of a child finding the parent once they turn 18 after the parent signed their rights over to the new family (mom and step-father or father and step-mother)? Any stories about one parents manipulation and hostility towards the other parent resulting in the child turning against the other parent and later the child realizes the truth?

I really just want to do one pagent for the experience, but my parents won't allow me because they say I don't have the look so I won't do well. After much attempt in perseuading, I've found the perfect pagent for me, miss achievement. It's based on interview, public speaking, healthy living and academics and has a talent portion that's optional. I feel as if this is a good oppertunities for me and I excel in academics as well as public speaking. It's also largely based on volunteer work which I am heavily involved in. I showed my parents and they just don't want me to do it, I even offered to pay the entrance fee and buy my own dress but they don't want me to do it and are holding me back. I'm 16 years old and all my life I have wanted to try a pagent and I feel as if this is a perfect opportunity for me. Any suggestions on how to change their minds?

Each family does at least one daily activity differently. What are some rules in your house that you know annoy guests? With my family, there are 2 things that sticks out: We do not push in chairs all the way to under the dining room table. We have a cat and 2 dogs, so we need to keep the chairs at least a meter far away from the table or else they would jump up onto the table. Also, we keep our bread in the freezer. My mom claims that doing that keeps the bread from expiring, so what we do if we want to use the bread is first put it in the toaster a few times for it to warm up.

So I've wanted my tounge pierced for three years now and I'm going this weekend to get it done my mom said okay and she's taking me my grandma and I r pretty close and she doesn't know because if she did she wouldn't let me get the piercing but when she finds out I'm scared on how she'll react because she's a nurse and uses that as a explanation to literally freak out about almost everything I do and she told my mom if I ever came home with it she would disown me but it would make me so happy and I've wanted it done for so long now and my grandpa is kinda of the same way but whatever my grandma is okay with he's basically okay with but he might freak out about this one too what should I do? Idk how to hide it or to make them except me with it any advice would be nice.

My parents aren t good parents and my aunt said she would take me in..I don t know what to do. Staying with my parents makes me depressed. My dad is a verbally abusive jerk. And my mom won t clean the house. It s embarrassing to live there I can never invite my friends over.

He always makes rude comments, even since when I was younger, and he honestly makes me feel horrible about myself. Usually it's about my weight, I've always been very skinny but this year I've put on a few pounds as I am a teenage female and I'm getting a shape to my body. I've always had unhealthy habits and I would say some of the weight I've gained has been from eating unhealthy, but still I'm nowhere near fat. Anyways, he always tells me to go to the gym and calls me fat and it makes me want to cry. Also, I struggled with depression and anxiety & he would always call me crazy and poke fun at it, he's even said to me "What are you going to do? Go cut yourself again?" after I started crying. He's always unnecessarily rude to not only me, but others, it's so embarrassing and I always feel horrible about it. I hate him so much, he travels for work sometimes and when he's gone I am so much happier. I guess my question is, what can I do to stand him? I don't know if I can live with him for two more years. I just need help dealing with this.

Hello. I am a 19 year old university student and I live with my parents. They are EXTREMELY strict; I am not allowed to go out to certain places, expected to be home by 9, not allowed to work or have a boyfriend, etc. I also do not have the same relationship that I had with my dad years ago.. He's gotten really emotionally aggressive, picking fights and getting offended easily, etc. If we argue over something small, he won't talk to me for 2 days. Whenever we argue, my mom always tells me to be quiet and takes his side, even though she tells me that she agrees with me (when he isn't around). I don't know what to do anymore? I haven't been happy in such a long time. My dad is very old.. (80..) and it worries me because I don't want is to ever end on a bad note.. Whenever I go down town with friends, apparently I'm "looking for trouble" and becoming "wild". My parents don't trust me at all. My mom reads through my messages, misinterprets it, and tells my dad what I talk about with my friends. My dad saw me spraying perfume on my ankle (I read an article that stated that perfume rises from bottom to top), and apparently it means something kinky & I am having sex. I've never had a bf in my life. All I do is have a 1D Twitter account, lmao. I haven't done ANYTHING. I tried explaining to them that I feel like I'm being sheltered, and my dad asked me "what I'm complaining for" "I still got to go out" and that I'm crying for nothing.

It started last night after a stupid argument with my mom. So I went to the movies to have a night out to myself. Even though I told her I was going she still blew my phone up like crazy when it started getting late around 9 pm while the movie was still playing. When I got back home she demanded to know why I came in so late (even though I'm 25). One thing led to another then she just blurted out that she was worried and that I was selfish and didn't love or care about her. What she said shocked and hurt me because it's furthest from the truth and came out of nowhere. When I leave the house she's always worried and wants me to stay in, but I'm confused as to why she was so upset this ONE time when rarely leave the house and was simply having a night out to myself. Then she rambled on about how certain relatives are gossiping about us (kinda true) and how her siblings hate her etc. My extended relatives are toxic which is why I keep my distance, but she is starting to become just like them. I'm confused, angry and just want to live my life in peace without her constant guilt trips & the family drama. How do I deal?

My mom has been divorced from my dad since I was four, we moved to a (BLOODY TERRIBLE) town in Georgia. I hate it so much here, everyone knows everyone and I hate it here. I also want to be homeschooled because I hate everyone here and I have bad anxiety, my mom DOESNT KNOW ME AT ALL! For instance she is Christian and i am agnostic and she doesn't know because (every time I tell her something or try to talk to her she shakes her head and ignores me) I'm afraid to tell her. I am also pansexual but I'm afraid to tell her because she is homophobic. I hate it so much here and I wish I could have a new mother. I really want to move to California so (yes I'm aware it's not like the movies I've lived there before and I already found cheap houses there that she said were great) i need a way to convince her to move there. (I am 14 btw) I want to move to California because everyone knows me here and already have an opinion on me, I want to move there because people will not have a pre-formed opinion on me. Sorry for venting, I just need to get it off my chest. Thanks. Please leave advice

So I told my uncle I wanted to stay and he wasted gas just to come to me and I didn t even care I have been so blind my grandma cried on he phone when she knew I wasn t coming and I feel really and I regret not coming because this is my last day in the u.s. they have given so much when my dad died and they didn t even have to and all I did was ***** about what I wanted to stay when I never realized how much I had and how much they did for me is there anything I could do? Cause I feel terrible right now

My uncle, who is not on the straight and narrow, lives with my mother. I found out my child was allowed to ride with him to the store. It upset me and I told my mom I had already told her I never wanted my kids to be in the car with him because of his habits. She looked at me in disgust and yelled fine. I was walking away, stopped, turned back to her and said u know what if it's like that, screw it. She yelled screw me and we started yelling back and forth. She told me she never wanted to see me, she was dead to me. I am crushed, but I feel very strongly about the safety of my kids. What should I do. Thanks in advance

Yesterday, my cousin sent me a theory on a video game and told me to explain it to my brother, so I did. Then we started fighting about it, and eventually my brother got extremely mad at me just for trying to prove my points and now he's giving me the silent treatment. I'm not sure whether I should say sorry or not because the matter is super stupid. Hating someone over a video game theory that may or may not be true? I think it's foolish. My brother never says sorry at all, and it's always me who has to say sorry. But in this childish case, I'm not sure whether I should apologize or not.

Basically I'm 13 and I have been visiting my brother in Norway, I have been there for three days so far, my brother is 26, his wife is 27 and his girlfriend friend Heidi who's a horrible woman is 29, at first I thought she was nice as on the first day she took me shopping and bought me some clothes, I've been sharing a bed with her downstairs and I noticed she was getting to comfortable with me, she would use the bathroom with the door open and she would get dressed and undressed in front of me. Last night it was about 11:00PM and my brother and his girlfriend was asleep, Heidi told me to look under the bed covers and she didn't have any underwear on, she asked me to perform oral sex on her and I was scared and didn't want to do it, she then grabbed my arm and said "be a good boy, I can make the next two weeks hard for you" so I done it and I wanted to stop so I moved my head away and she aggressively pushed it back towards her vagina and wrapped her legs around me, and forced me to keep licking, ever since I've been shaken and angry, and I don't know what to do because if I tell my brother or his girlfriend they will think I'm a liar and it would cause an argument, I just want to go home but I can't, should I just pull myself together and stick it out for the next two weeks?

I have a relative that has been hospitalized and has gone through surgery, but is still there for some other reasons, for the past two days, they ve expressed they don t want me to go, because they don t want me to see them in the state they re in, should i go anyways? I want to be by their side. Thank you in advance.

Let me start by saying that my parents always got me what i wanted.. i could say that i always was kinda spoiled with all the nice things they bought me.BUT i do not feel attached to my parents AT ALL. I dont feel love..nothing.I just see them as an income resource.They might buy me everything i want but.. there was never an emotional support from them.They would always judge me.Never support me of what i like, always telling me that im worthless and not doing things right.Before i distanced myself so much from them i used to tell them some ideas i had on life what i liked and what i would like to do in the future..and every time they would laugh, telling me how i wont manage to do anything,telling me how **** my ideas are and that i should wake up.They would comment on my appearance,that my body is awful, the way i dress, talk act and it drives me insane.Thats why I avoid talking to them as much as i can.The only time we actually "talk" is at dinner even though i eat as fast as i can so i can avoid them.I dont see them as anything.And I feel like theres no way i could bond with them again..they always tell me how, in the future, im going to regret that i dont do anything with them or talk to them and how **** i am..theyre blaming me all the time for it,because theyre the type of people that say, im the parent im always right, youre nothing you always have to do what i say and youre always wrong..and and i actually started believing that its my fault..

I've studied for my drivers permit and I failed the second time. Some people were like "You can do this. It's not that hard." And other said, "Oh come on. It's not that hard. You're just not studying hard enough. My dad said I shouldn't even be getting a permit if I'm going to be slacking off. My sister and brother were trying to help me study but I kept slacking off and joking around. They gave up helping me study and walked out. I ask where are they going and my brother said, "Wasting our time trying to help you! What's the point in helping you if you're going to joke around?" My dad told me, "You are not trying hard enough and you're wasting people's time trying to help because you lack paying attention and failed to do that. If you're going to keep being this way and slacking off, you will NEVER be close to driving. Don't even bother wanting to get a driver's permit if you're not going to take it seriously. THAT'S the truth." And he walked off. My brother, sister and stepmom nodded and agreed. I have autism and my parents need to be more softer to me and I'm 26. My brother said, "Dad's right. We tried to help but you keep joking around. Don't bother asking us to help you if you don't mean it." My stepmom was like, "They're right. You need to study more and drive is no joking matter and you should know that. You're an adult and you're old enough to face the harsh reality. We're not going to treat you like when you were 6. We don't sugarcoat things and you're disability is no excuse. You're very smart so you should know that." My dad should have said, "Aww that's too bad sweetheart. Just try harder. You can do it" but NO he had to be blunt with me and said don't bother.

I think it's an invasion of privacy, and I'm not a really bad kid. I dress decently, don't do drugs or alcohol, has never had a serious relationship, maintains As and high Bs in school, participates in two sports.... They have caught me not doing homework on my laptop, but it's not like I was watching porn - I just go on Buzzfeed.com (a harmless website) sometimes.... and have caught me on my phone. Am I overreacting or is this an invasion of privacy?

My mother just called me and asked me if I would take in my 19 year old nephew and try and help him get a job and apartment because her husband didn't want to deal with him anymore. In 3 months I am getting ready to get a place with my gf and her daughters and our newborn son. I have pondered letting him stay with me for 3 months when my lease expires and by than he would need an apartment or plan of his own. The girlfriend is essentially throwing constant guilt trips at me for not thinking of my "new family" and that I must not think of her and the kids as my family if I would consider helping my nephew after she demands I don't. I find the irony that she would not be in the place she is in without the "above and beyond" help of her own family while she went to school.

I have a 6 year old son. He was always happy until we moved he became angry and crazy. He would write on walls things like die or reborn them hr would draw pictures of our family members dieing. Plz dont say something like it could be ghost or some because i doubt thats real and no one was reported dead in the new house we live in. One thing that scares me the most is my son talks in his sleep. He said in his sleep Dont hurt grandma then he said grandma back away from the steps. I woke him up and he said he doesnt remember his dream a month later my mom his grandma died after falling down the steps in her apartment complex. Doctors say that my son is perfectly healthy so idk wats goin on but its getting worse? Help?

My mom has always had a rough life. Even now, she's (a little bit) depressed. She can't drive, she doesn't have any friends, and she stays in the house the whole day. Every single day since the day I was born she cooks, cleans, washes clothes, and outside work. I tell her to go out and do something but she says she cant because she needs to clean the house. I understand that she has to do that, but EVERY day for the last 16 years??? She doesn't do anything. She says that the house always gets dusty and my dad and i dont help her clean, so she needs to do it. But then she complains about how she hates doing it and how she doesnt have friends etc... The point is that I dont know how to help. She complains about all this stuff yet still does it and doesnt make an effort to do anything about it. She stays in the house, and cleans, literally cleans the house ALL day, every day. Is there anyway i can help her? I dont know what to suggest.

I'm a 16 year old girl, an incoming Junior (11th grade), and my parents won't let me get a job. The problem is, I need a work permit, and they refuse to get me one because I'm "busy" this summer (I have absolutely NOTHING going on until the last two weeks which are a ways away). They also say I can't have one during the school year even though I always manage to get my homework done on time and get good grades with time to spare on my evenings. The reason why I'm really frustrated about this is because I don't have that much money (even though I have been saving for as long as I can remember). My parents have told me that they're not buying clothes for me anymore, which is a problem because I don't even have enough clothes to go 3 days without washing them. They also told me they can't help me pay for college, which means that I will have to figure out how to pay for it myself despite having no money to do so. This especially irritates me because even though I'm 16, my parents have guaranteed my brother that he will be allowed to get a job as soon as he turns 15 next year because he wants to make money for video games. I hate to sound like a whiny brat, but I feel as if I've been put in a very unfair position since my parents won't let me make money, and also refuse to buy me things that I need (they sometimes don't even buy me food). What should I do to change their minds? Also, doing chores for them wouldn't work because whenever there are jobs to be done, they give them to my brothers because they insist that they "need money" to buy xbox games. They don't even do the jobs well, and complain the whole time, but my parents still give these chores as priorities to my brothers. For a while my parents gave us an allowance recently because my younger brothers wanted money, but I never had an allowance when I was little.

Hey guys so my parents have been talking about me behind my back to my older sister, and I found out a few days ago that they contacted her complaining about me. Let me tell you why though. They are frustrated because I still live with them and I have no job right now. I accepted a job but have not started yet. I'm 24 and still living with them and my mom has been paying my bills. So yeah I understand they are upset at me. I haven't made the best life choices, but I'm working my *** off to hurry and get a job so that I can move out and start paying my own bills and get them off my moms back. I felt really pissed off that they went to my sister to talk about me instead of coming to me directly. Like my dad is always saying come talk to me like a man, but he's the main one talking behind everyone back. I love my dad but he is really two faced sometimes. He smiles in your face then talks so much crap about you when you're not around. My parents treat me like crap around the house saying rude things and ignoring me etc all because I haven't gotten myself together yet. I mean I get the frustration but that doesn't mean I deserve to be treated that way right? Another thing I thought was funny is that they went to my sister to talk about me, but she is the one they talk about the most behind her back. I always tell my sister what they are saying about her and she didn't even tell me until I got into a argument with my mom about some things. I hate the way my parents are.

I am visiting my dad for the summer and my dad has a girlfriend who has two girls and I slept in their room that past two nights and one night they weren't in their and the second night they were. I slept on the oldest ones bed with her and she knew. I just went in theregards to sleep and when my dad lived somewhere else before I shared a room with them went I went to see my dad but now I got my ownew room me and my brother share. They both know I slept in their room and they don't seem to care that much. But I don't want my dad or my dad's girlfriend to know well mostly I don't want my dad to know. I'm kinda worried about it though. It's awkward for me now though. Do you think they care but also since we shared a room once before in the past. Do I have anything to worry about? In there to sleep* My dad and brother said I would never do that and that they don't believe them. So am I fine or... because I don't think it matters if I say I did or I say I didn't

Hi, I'm a 13 year old girl and my mom makes me feel awkward and uncomfortable sometimes. Especially now that I'm 13. First of all, a couple months ago, she started asking me if I have feelings for boys. I said no. She said I was lying. She asked if I thought any of the members of the bands that I listen to were attractive. Obviously, I said yes, but I'd never want to get physical with them because I'm 13 and they are all grown men with girlfriends/wives. And then she asked what would I do if one of the band members kissed me. I told her they wouldn't do that because they are all grown *** men with girlfriends/wives. This conversation led into her asking me if I ever saw myself getting physical/having sex with a boy. I said no, because I'm 13. Why the hell would I? She then goes on to ask if I ever feel wet in my pants. I know what this means, so I obviously said no, other than for when I get my period and don't prepare for it. Then she asks me what I do upstairs. Basically she asks if I masturbate. I remember backing about 5 feet away from her, further than I already was and saying no. Then she said when she was my age, that she masturbated. Too much information. I didn't want to know that. And then she said do you feel anything like that. And I said no. So and then she says maybe we should ask the doctor about it because apparently only dead people dont get sexual feelings. I of course think that some boys are attractive, but not in the sexual sense. Like I'll look at a picture of a band member and think heyhe's pretty cute. But not sexual or anything like that. I also think of having an s/o, but not getting sexual with them. I think that's totally normal, but my mom doesnt. Next, this has been happening more recently. My mom has been making comments on how I dress. I wear a lot of black, white, grey, dark colors like that. I don't wear skirts or dresses, but I wear shirts for bands like KISS, Motionless in White, New Years Day, My Chemical Romance, Nirvana, Metallica, and I wear jeans and jean shorts. I also wear flannels and leather jackets and combat boots. Anyways, I had a Batman shirt that was too big for me, too long and too wide, so I cut it to a muscle tank. Anyways, so I wear it alone without the leather jacket over it because I wasn't outside yet or going anywhere. So I go downstairs wearing the shirt. My dad doesnt say anything, but my mom does. She starts saying "It's good to see you dressing like a girl, boys like that." I'm automatically uncomfortable and upset. I don't dress to impress boys, I don't dress to impress anyone. I dress the way I do because it's comfortable. Anyways, after that, she comments how low the shirt is cut. I didn't mean to cut it that short. but I was gonna cover it up with BOTH a leather jacket and a flannel. So I go to put the flannel on and my mom says to take it off because she said that I have a great figure and I should show it off. I know it's a compliment, but I feel like my mom is checking me out after she said that. I might be wrong, but it just made me uncomfortable. And she always makes comments about how I'm built like a brick **** house. I looked it up wow I'm very uncomfortable now. Being built like a brick **** house is an expression for a well endowed women that is "stacked" or built like M. Monroe. Stacked means that I have big boobs. Yeah I'm a little differently built from other girls my age, but I'm not happy about it. In fact after I while I stopped caring. But then my mom makes comments like that and I feel uncomfortable. Both around her and with my body. Anyways, please help me. Is my mom checking me out or something I feel so awkward right now. I'm questioning my sexuality too btw. I think I might be panromantic asexual and my parents are so against LGBT too

I do know what the difference is. Actually he started a 'small business'. After he got paid with cheque for the first job, he asked HIS FRIEND, that also runs a small business, if he needs to issue a receipt. Then he told my husband to purchase the booklet of invoice by 'code name'. Although the booklet title said 'invoice', he kept calling 'receipt' In fact, when he said 'receipt' most of the time it was invoice for me... I'm worried.... I mean... I'm kind of shocked that my husband was not quite clear about it.

okay so my parents and sister are gonna be gone tonight and come home tmrw evening. i don t wanna go w them but if i say that my mom will make me stay w someone. so i was thinking about pretending to get sick before we leave so my mom doesn t have time to find someone for me to stay w?? i don t wanna do anything sketchy like throw a party or have people over, i genuinely just wanna be alone lmao. any tips to convince her to let me stay would be gr8!! ty

Since my ma is leaving to live with her new boyfriend and start a new life. She says she wants to start over with him and do it right this time. But she is leaving me with my pa. Because hes my only other family. I don't wanna live with him at all. I'm 17 so I can move out soon if I find a job maybe. But I'm so scared even to live with him for a year. I don't know what to do. Is there any place in Michigan for homeless teens to stay? In case I need to leave what can I do to live on my own. I posted this before but I need more answers fast because I'm supposed to be moving in tomorrow or the next day

She will always say, walk upright!! Your hair looks awful today!! Why are your hands so long and skeleton like?? (Yes, I know the last one was kind of weird, lol) But she says these things in stores, and in front of people.... I know she is the adult but.... I feel it is a bit disrespectful. At home she will say, I don't feel an attachment to you, ya know. I say, what about my brother?? She replies, Well, he never gave me trouble, so ya know.... She has relationship issues with her mother though, so mate she is taking them out on me?? Idk. What do you think??

I'm already seeking professional help. I just want to see what the Internet has to offer. 2 years ago, I fought for and won custody of my 2 children (one boy and one girl) who were being molested by their older half - brother and grandfather. Now I find out that my son also molested my daughter 5 years ago. He was 8 and she was seven. Nothing has happened since then that Im aware of. And he says thay he still stuggles with wanting to do it still. The granddad was molesting all of them thier whole life. I think He needs help understanding what he went through and learning how to navigate his feelings with professional help, but I also think that his part was because he was being taught this behavior and it was accepted. Will my son and my daughter be able to continue in the same house together? What would you do if you found out one of your kids had molested another one of your kids. How much does time place and circumstance affect your opinion?

I say step father, but he is actually my mum's long term boyfriend since my parents split up. We all know that he at least has mild bipolar, and he has known since he was very young, but he was never dignosed due to the will to be 'manly' and 'deal with it', so consequentially he have never taken medication for this, and due to the lack of medication, during a 'dark period' he gets extremely irritable and rude. He used to come into my room to ***** at me about something I had seemingly done wrong (for example, a few years ago I refused to go somewhere with my actual dad because he was a mega ******** at the time (he's improved though), and he came up to my room to tell me that I was a manipulative ***** and that I should kill myself, and how dare I ruin his and my mothers weekend for my own selfish wants, and that I clearly don't love my mother as if I did I would have gone, this is despite him disliking my dad as much as I do), he used to do this until I cried at my mum to tell him to stop, as his words still hurt me to this day. (Continuation) Now that my brother and I have both expressed our concerns about him to our mum, and she has thankfully convinced him to stop taking out his anguish on us (most of the time), he now takes petty jibes at everything we do, for example: we might have not put the dishes away perfectly, so he has a massive go at us, my mum may have not COMPLETELY cleaned the kitchen after cooking, so he shouts at her and calls her lazy, despite him also being just as messy while cooking. (more continuation) The most painful part of this is the fact that he is very nice and lovely when he is not in his 'dark period', so when he is not we trust him again and we don't tiptoe around the house in fear of making a sound incase it interrupts his TV show, but then he falls right back and we're sh!t-scared again. Does anyone know how to deal with this? It is messing both my brother and I up, especially with our dad being almost as bad in previous years. Thank you :) I realise that there are worse things that could happen, he could rape us, attack us etc, but sometimes words are just as bad, I'm sorry if I offend anyone by posting this.

Since my ma is leaving to live with her new boyfriend and start a new life. She says she wants to start over with him and do it right this time. But she is leaving me with my pa. Because hes my only other family. I don't wanna live with him at all. I'm 17 so I can move out soon if I find a job maybe. But I'm so scared even to live with him for a year. I don't know what to do. Is there any place in Michigan for homeless teens to stay? In case I need to leave what can I do to live on my own

My dad abandoned my mum and me and my two siblings. I was 4, my sister was 6 and my brother wasn't even born then. He just randomly appeared on our doorstep 20 years after leaving us to be with a childless, younger woman. We all ordered him out, but he wants to reconcile with us. He told us where he was staying if we want to. Should me and my family let dad back into our lives?

I am 20 but I feel 16. I have a lot of resentment towards my mom because she is a control freak and doesn't let me do things on my own and because she was an immigrant who came to the states when she was 17 years old. She was completely independent by the time she was my age. She didn't have anyone to back her up financially or to provide a home when she was here so she had to survive. Yet here I am. I don't pay my own bills, I depend on my parents for money.. My mom does everything but not in just a mothering way in a need to control way. I really don't know anything about how to be an adult. And everytime I ask questions about how to pay bills, how to open up my own bank account, how a mortgage works, how to lease an apartment, how to sign up for credit cards or car insurance etc. she tells me "don't worry about that right now, just get your education." Yes I know that college is important, but It doesn't mean anything if I can't be a functional independent adult like she was. When she was my age she was also in college but still out living in her own!! She won't answer my questions, she won't let me get a job, she doesnt want me to transfer because she wants to continue to hold me here and control me, treating me like a teenager for as long as she can. The worst part of all this though, is that she is like this yet gets abusive and compares me to other people my age whose parents didn't clip their wings and points out how much more independent they are.

My cousin and her mom just arrived at our house today. I didn't know about their arrival until today. Anyways I hate my cousin! She's so annoying and keeps on stealing everything I own. She says the meanest things about people. I just can't stand her! Is there anyway to not getting angry at her? I want to say things back to her but I wouldn't want to get in trouble. What do you recommend I do? For those asking I'm 14 and my cousins 7 and I'm pretty sure their just visiting but i don't know for how long

She called and asked. The ticket is for a flight in my name which is more than a month away. From US to Germany. Stupid decision for her to buy me a ticket without warning me it was 1300 dollars, then when I say I dint wanna go anymore she says I have to pay her back. They offered to reschedule the ticket so I can go within a year from the date she bought the ticket. But she can't use it, I have to. Lame. My mom knows I can't afford to pay her back now so why she coerced me into going with her to Germany and then when I gave in and later decided my decision was too hasty and I don't wanna go, she says I'm bad for not wanting to see my family and that I should repay her. I work a minimum wage job. How can I pay for that ticket?