I gave birth to my daughter 2 days ago. The house I live in is a terraced house in a street that isn t very nice. The people living in the street are always fighting and littering the whole street. You can t hear it unless you go outside and as for anything else, we live on the end of the street so everytime we go outside we only have to turn a corner to be in a nicer area. Our house is kind of small, not cramped though. Two bedrooms and it s only me, my bf and our one daughter. I like it here but my bfs nan came to visit the baby today and told me she doesn t like the street. Followed by his mom coming and asking me if my dad can t get me another house (he s a landlord to 7 and I rent from him). I found this extremely rude, who goes to someone s house and expresses how much they dislike it! Our house is safe and clean and I feel awful now, like I m doing something wrong by my baby by having her here. Do you guys think it matters to her?

Im 17 years old and am 20 weeks pregnant but i have a 15 year old brother who tells me to suck his dick and i just say no and he tells me come on nobody is here nobody has to know just make it quick and i say no and walk away but in times he follows me and keeps telling me the same thing. The last time he told me that was last night and i just kept on saying no and once again he kept on telling me to do it and i said no and walked away into my moms room and thats when he said im just playing like he would always say when i would walk into another family members room. Idk what to do. He is on probation right now but the last time my mom and i had a talk with him about a problem my mom is having with my brother he told us he isnt his babysitter and that we should call the police but the thing is, is that if we call the police all the'yre gonna do is tell us to call his p.o .. my mom doesnt know about this but i am going to tell her today after she wakes up or when she is not bussy

My parents are very over protective, and non-trusting. I'm 14 years old, and my parents don't won't me around guys unless for school. Because the reflect my life from their's and other's stories of mess ups; they have given me little freedom. My mom tries to live her life to mine. She is controlled by my dad, and very unhappy in life. The only way to real way tot all to her is through text message. I got in a fight with her about me hanging out with boys the other day, and she still won't listen. I can get she is sort of being protective. She doesn't trust me enough around boys, or them around me. Instead of talking to my boyfriend's parents; she facebook-stalked them. Instead of letting me explain; she yelled at me and then told me I shouldn't be around guys. She said so herself that she is depressed and stuff. My family is literally so depressed, and emotionally detached. My parents(including my mom) won't listen to me. My mom let my sister go out with guys and stuff. I tried talking to her, and tell her I get what she is coming from, but she still won't talk to me. All I want to know is how can I get her to let me see my boyfriend, and trust me enough? Because my boyfriend and I got to different schools. And he even tried to find away to impress them, but they still won't talk to me about it. My parents also think something is messed up about me. It's come so bad to where I feel like I want to get emancipated, or go as far away as I can from them. I feel trapped. I tried talking to my parents, but all they say is I'm depressed and that I need help or make jokes about me killing myself. And when I try to talk to my dad he makes comments about me being a whore or something. PLEASE HELP!!!

I have heard that I am a rich spoiled brat. Quite personally I think that's completely false. I do go to a private school, my parents do have 3 houses (they aren't divorced). My father have a Mercedes Benz convertible and a Toyota and my mother have a family sized Mercedes Benz and a a BMW. Yes we do travel, during the year to Europe and in the Summer to the Bahamas or to Hawaii. Does that make we spoiled? I am not a only child, I have an older sister and the younger brother. I dont wish to describe my parents houses. through they are lovely. I don't understand, perhaps what makes me spoiled is that I give home to the homeless? Please explain this to me.

It s every single day, I ll be trying to get things like homework done but in his mind I should be cooking my brother and sister tea, and making drinks for the family and doing all these other things that aren t my responsible pity! Tonight I heard him talking to mum saying "all she does is stays up in her room, chatting to people and lazing around" but I ve been doing my art homework for the past 2 hours. When he told me to make pasta earlier mum said I couldn t because I had to do homework and he said I m just lazy. I m shouted downstairs every 5 minutes to do something, and never get anything done because of that. It just really stresses me out because when j do just one little thing wrong they both take the piss out of me and it s the same with friends at school. He doesn t realise it s effecting me and if I said anything he d either laugh or tell me to grow up. I just feel like I m always doing things for people and trying to do what I need to do as well and it s just hard

I love my mom to death. She is my rock. I know she needs a break from her two jobs. She is 65 and I know she can take care of herself and my aunt will look after her but I am still so scared as I always am when she goes away for more than a few days. What the heck is wrong with me? I am SO anxious! I won't be able to talk to her much b/c she is going to Belize and Honduras.

I am 16 and turn 17 in february. My mom says my grandpa was a child mollester back then like beyond decades ago but he never once in my life hurt me or try anything. Me my mom dad sister and brother used to live with them but we moved out because we needed more space. But now im ready to move back because i have way too many problems with my mom. she says she doesnt want me living with her but she doesnt want me living with my grandparents and tia because of my grandpa. I know they love me and want me to live with them. They only live half a mile away from my school and a couple of blocks away from my moms house

My brother got hospitalized and needs money to settle the bill - I refused to help He says he's "unlucky" - but I just think he's irresponsible He makes slightly more than I do - which isn't much - but you can still make a decent living out of it Instead of saving he spends it on strip clubs and booze, and expensive cars He doesn't buy insurance - he says he can't afford it Is he responsible for this? I know that him getting kidney stones is not completely his fault and is unexpected - but at some point in our lives we all will get hospitalized for some reason or another - and we should have saved up for that, or buy insurance, or both I feel guilty for not helping him, but at the same time he doesn't deserve my help What should I do?

Ive always heard the phrase "you cant help someone who doesnt want help" but my situation is more complex. My mom is a pillhead & alcoholic & has been this way since I was young. Over the course of my 22 years we have been in many fights all of which were started because she was either high or drunk & she wasnt thinking clearly. She has apologized 100s of times & each time Ive accepted her apology and continued to TRY to have a relationship between us but she always does something to start a fight and blames everyone else. Ive tried since I was little to get her help but she wont take it. She blames her addiction on outside problems but as Ive grown up ive realized theres a new excuse everytime she starts drinking therefore it became clear to me that she is in denial that SHE is the one with the problem,not everyone else. The other day she called me from college and she was wasted and told me bye I love you you can find my dead body later after I commit suicide. I freaked out, left class, called the cops to try and find her, all to find out that it was for nothing more than attention. She was cooking supper when I got home perfectly safe. Of course I was mad because she scared me to death so she told me to leave her house and I refused to leave until she heard what I had to say. She still refused to accept that she has an addiction problem and that she needs help. I told her I was done with her and left. She does nothing but hurt me and lie to me over and over. What do I do??

I am 15, and over the last couple of years went from a 34B to a 36 DD bra. I get shoulder aches from my bra, even though my mom got me fitted and bought me several good bras. I really look forward to when I get home and bedtime, so that I can take my bra off. I have my own room so I started sleeping topless. My mom found out and now she wants me to sleep with a bra! I don't want to. I put on pajamas or a loose t-shirt at home, but she still wants me to wear the bra. Why is she forcing me?

I was doing some cleaning and de-cluttering my closets when I found an old box of my Dad's. He had passed away years ago. Inside I found very important documents pertaining to all my siblings and their family identifying numbers, birth certificates, and other info. My father obviously kept this in case of emergency, and the info was needed. I'm thinking of putting this in a safety box at a bank. Is that a good choice?

We have never met our biological mom or her daughter. Ive never contacted them but i guess her daughter got curious about me and my brother. So she followed me on instagram and commented something noce on one of my photos. Im 16 and shes 14 and i want to comment something nice back on one of her photos... Not something stupid like hey lil sis. I want something that will make her smile but not too nice that it comes off flirtatious. Thanks!!

He's never been there for our me nor our son since day 1. He could've helped me, but preferred some tuna sluts over our precious son. His loss! He just got out of prison and promised the world to me we wouldn't argue if I bring my son out to see him, long story short, I did plan a day that we did together, end of day, he told me to take him to see his friends he never in awhile-found hidden drugs on him, and that ended the day with my son crying. He emails me to bring him out again promising the world and that his family really wants to see him. It's been 2 weeks and a half, what should I do? Btw, my son is 10 months old all lost time with his father

so i am a 20 year old male full time student and i found out that i had 4 year old daughter about a year ago. the baby doesn't like seeing me because she is still attached to the ex-boyfriend. and he is getting in my way of my relationship of me being her dad because she thinks he is the real daddy. what do i do? the mother still lets her see the fake daddy and continues collecting my child support and on top of that she tells baby that im bad daddy and daughter believes it and doesn't like me

I sometimes get a little overly-passionate. Well I finally told my mom exactly what i think of her husband. Not my stepdad I was 18 already when they got married. I admitted that he had good traits like very dependable, honest, straight forward. I admire those qualities. It's just he's such a temperamental, A** in personality, and I basically admitted that there were times when I'd like to kick his teeth in, and I told my mom that if his personality doesn't change that I wouldn't allow her to see my children, if she was with him. And of course she starts crying about it, and now I feel bad. I sort of said I was sorry, for being out of line, but do I need to do more?

Hi, I'm a 14 year old girl and I'm very worried about my older sister (she's 16). A few years ago she used to be very caring, sweet, did great job at school, had good friends… But now she just wears a bunch of makeup, spends a bunch of money, doesn't care about school anymore, she always goes out with friends, she drinks behind my mother's back, sometimes she says she's going to sleep over at a friends' house but ends up going out and skipping school. She always hangs out with these "bad" friends of hers and since my sister is easily influenced I'm scared she's going down the wrong path. My parents have been divorced for 6 years now but they still talk to each other and my dad always looks after us. My mother has hernia (back problems) and she already has a lot on her mind, and now my sister is making it worse. Sometimes I come home from school to my mother crying and it really breaks my heart. Sometimes my sister sneaks out and dissapears with her friends for a few days and god knows what she does. She also doesn't call or text anyone and just leaves me and my mother hanging. I also feel like she doesn't care about me. When I try to tell her what she's doing to my mother she yells at me and tells me to shut up, she even threatens to hurt me. She said she doesn't see me as her sister, she cares more about her friends than she does about me. My dad has also tried to talk to her and tell her that what she's doing is wrong but she doesn't care.

Today I was in a shop with my dad and the man who worked there was overly touchy with me: He touched my hips first and then moved down ant touched my butt... I don t know if he touched me intentionally or not. What i know is that it didn t feel right. What should I do? Should I tell my mom? P.s. My dad didn t notice

I m currently 18 years old and will be 19 in less than half a year. My parents are not letting me go to my boyfriend s house for a few days (he lives out of state that s why). I told my mother she can say no all she wants and I know she doesn t feel comfortable, but she can t really keep me from doing something I choose to do. I had a job previously and quit under hard circumstances. I actually just went to a store that I m interested in and told my parents all about it. My mom even suggested the place for me. I m planning on just going to his house anyways, I have a form of transportation that s not my parents. What can I do in order to make this right in the long run?

Last year my son married a bipolar woman from South America and they now have a child together. Two weeks ago she disappeared with the baby and after some police investigation they discovered that she is at a shelter. My son is not abusive and loves this woman to death. The police said that there is nothing my son can do about this and that the two are doing fine at the shelter. My son does not have the funds to hire an attorney. Has anyone experienced a situation like this before? What can be done? . P

im 13 years old and my parents still don't think im responsible!!!

Welfare Question? my grandma gets Tanf for my baby . (I'm not 18 yet yes I do take care of child) Me and my boyfriend take care of him I'm just not 18 yet. and I wanted to know how much child support is gonna take out of my boyfriends check? he's starting a new job 10$ a hour. Are they gonna be taking more money because she's the one that's the getting the mone United States · 22 hours ago

Im pretty young, I moved to LA about 1.5 years ago from living at home with my mother in another state. We have not had the best contact over the past year. No real in depth conversations. But I just got off the phone with her and she apparently has had a breakdown. From what I can understand (she did not go into deatil) she's been bouncing around from job to job and hasn't been able to find work. She tried getting finincial help from a friend which fell through at the last minute. The apartment she's been living in is going to serve her an eviction notice in a few days so she's moving accross state lines to stay with her older brother. She seems to really have hir rock bottom. She feels like she's a failure. Money is really tight for me right now so I can't really help her with money beyond a couple hundred. I feel so bad because I'm far away and can't help her and she's just run out of other options. Any ideas on how I can help her? She's already in the process of packing but I'm just not sure what to do?

He has not seen her since march of 2013..she is 4 years old.. he never has been around her when she was a baby.. it was his mom... now his mom is saying we should start fresh and he should see her! I think not! My husband has been in my daughters life since she was 4 months old!!! he has been her daddy! she has not a clue who her bio dad is and thinks that my husband is her real dad!

Im in 8th grade my brother is in 10th. When I was in 6th and he was in 8th we were really close, he then broke his arm and became closed off. We still do things as brother and sister and I literally love those moments, I love being with my family as they are super close to my heart. But now my brother is closed off, I gave him time and space and I miss things, If i ask him something like a question hell tell me to leave or go away, he wont even listen to my question. Then recently we got into this talk with my parents cause I told them that I really miss the old jack (my brothers name) we talked and my mom asked him to look at my and say he loved me, He couldnt, he would mumble and wouldnt even look me in the eyes. Ive tried the aproach that I need to seem like I need him, asking for help on hw but nothing changes, When it came time for home coming he was to scared to ask the girl he wanted so I kept pressuring him and he finally did it, and he became brighter for a couple days. Then it went back down, some of my friends who play sports with him tell me things that he does, he yells at coaches and they tell me hes always mean to people. 2 year ago this would never have happened. I want my old caring, loving brother back and how do i do it?

To sum up how my mom is: she doesn't care about the 5 children she has, she let's my younger brother play violent video games that give him nightmares (I've bought him games like Minecraft yet she lets him play Left For Dead and Halo), she spends my money(I get over $1,000 a month because of ss + work) plus what little money her fiancé gives her. She never helps me with my schooling and doesn't get involved until the school emails her and calls her begging for her to start helping me (I attend online schooling), she always bashes me, she tells my friend (the only one she truly likes) that I sit there bashing her(basically saying I sit there bashing my mom to her face and I never did and won't ever do), she only cares about herself, money, and manipulating people to believe she is some sort of angel mother who everyone should love. Oh, and she lies to people saying my father abused and raped her when that NEVER happened and that my Grandpa (who is literally the sweetest man you'll ever meet) abused her too. She never got raped, never got abused, etc. But she did let her ex-boyfriend/baby daddy sexually/physically abuse me, my older sister and older brother and would laugh about it but now tries playing the hero by saying she tried her hardest to stop it. Anymore, her and her fiancé use me for money and as their free, 24/7 baby sitter and treat me like trash. My best friend's mom is okay with getting custody of me because she sees me as her own daughter. What should I do?

Okay so, to start off im a 16 year old girl. I suffer from severe social anxiety and because of that i cant do certain things like shopping, doing well in school,going out,having friends, talking on the phone etc. My fatger knows it, yet he treats me like ****. He calls me stupid literally, always ignores me and he has his ways to show me im a disappointment( i also get bullied at school and he blames it on me as well) On a top of that my mother and my sister are constantly fighting and i mean CONSTANTLY. They dont even act as a mother and a daughtet. I think they hate each other. And to top even that my sister takes it all out on me. I even started cutting cuz i cant handle all of these problems.(my family doesnt know about it) So how do i make my father treat me atleast a little bit better? And how do i make my sister and my mother stop fighting? Please help!

Okay I am having trouble focusing on my work. It's just that are have been things on my mind that keep me from paying attention to school work. I have family in Utah and mean all of my whole family is down there and I'm in New Mexico. I miss dearly and I have been worrying for them for so long, I have been able to them on the weekends and that's it, I miss them so much that some times I cry for them. I have no family members to talk to. I need someone to help me with my problems, I don't want to talk to my friend about it because then she would start to worry for me. I'm depress for no reason, I try to find a reason, but nothing. My family means so much to me, I have been able to talk to them some times on the phone, but in person. I need help to get this off my mind, it's driving me crazy. Please Help. Please help me. I'm literally about to cry and I don't to cry in class. Can anybody give me any advice, it's driving me insane.

She blames exhaustion and the pressure of not making any sales... We have sex maybe once every 6 weeks and it is never enjoyable. She relies on me orally but when it comes to sex, she doesn t relax and feels painful inside. At the beginning of our marriage it never used to be this bad. Four years on, it is slowly getting worse. We have been together for 6 years and have no kids. We are under financial pressure to afford the properties she booked off the plan. Only one is in the process of being built. I have grown used to us having little time together and just co existing. She never orgasms during sex snd just wants oral to release and that s it I haven t been with any other women so I can only imagine what I may be missing out on. There s no passion or excitement. I don t know if I m clueless as to what real love is. She told me that she has also been very much in the mood recently. So have I. So I ve been making suggestions and making moves. But sex is uncomfortable. She sometimes can t last very long before tiring out. We never kiss. She has this thing about kissing. Tries to kiss my eyes as she says they are the window to my soul. There s no doubt that she is good at earning money and getting apartments though! So I'm after advice on how to handle this and change things. In our past, she has gotten really angry at me about my wages. She wants me to earn more. She sworn at me with words like "f...you" and made comments like we should live separate lives if I don't listen to her and do things the way she says like not studying at uni until I find better work. She tries to apologise after she calms down.

I am 18 years old and I am a male, I am a senior in high school, and I have a little brother who is 16 years old. He and I have always been close as brothers, we have always been good friends and never fought a lot, Boy did that change! I have pretty severe Anxiety, OCD, and ADHD, and for a year now I have been obsessing over my brothers health and well being. When I say worry about his health and well being, I mean worry to the point where I am mad at him for not doing what i tell him to do! I watch his every move! If he goes into the kitchen to get something to eat, I will make sure it is something healthy such as Nuts, Fruit, Vegtables, something good for him. When he goes to get a drink, I make sure it is not Soda, or anything with a high amount of sugar!I make sure he gets water or milk! I remind him everyday how important it is to keep active, and go outside and get exercise, and to not be on the video games often, to go to bed early, everything! I have been doing that for a year and finally he is sick of it because he wants to make his own decisions, I am sick of telling him because I have my own life to live, and my parents think I am nuts for Caring about what my little brother does with his life! My parents say "If he wants to be fat, and play video games the rest of his life then let him, it's his choice!" I really want to stop reminding him to do stuff and telling him how to live, but my mind won't let me! I keep picturing in the future my brother having diseases!

My mom recently got outta the hospital & went to my 92 yr old granny house to recover. My granny told me she wants my mom to go home bc she eats alot and its costing her $ in groceries my granny also told my husband all she does it worry about my mom to the point where she's lost her appetite and can't eat. I told my mom you better go home and what was said and my granny accused my husband of lying, though my mom said granny told her the worrying part last week and my mom said she's disowning me, my hubby, granny over this but claims she's not mad. Why is my mom accusing my hubby of lying when my granny has a history of lying and why is she taking this out on us?

So my daughter was born and raised outside san Francisco, California her whole life, but a few months ago she picked up her stuff and just moved to Canada. She has a job there and all, but she told me she wanted a change from the controlling family she once lived with. I told her she could move to Sacramento or Los Angeles and she said no. She has dual citizenship so she just moved there. She has been there over a year and still loves it. is she crazy for moving away?

my little sister had scabies and so my mom bought tee tree oil and sulfur and other oils and lotions and **** to put on her. that was about 1 year ago. my little sister did have scabies and so that was he right thing to do but scabies do spread so, there being 8 people living in our house, ( 6 out of 8 are kids ) and so she thinks that every little bug bite we get is scabies. last Sunday us six kids and my dad ( mom stayed home ) went on a four hour canoeing trip. there were lots of Mosquitos because it was a swampy area. we all got bit at least 10 times (it was crazy). when we got home my mom didn't see any of our mosquito bites and so it was good. today my brother was walking pat her and she saw some mosquito bites on his neck. she rubbed him down with all the oil putting at least 4 layers. she called all of us kids 1 by 1 and rubbed our whole body with all the oil and calling all the mosquito bites scabies. It's nasty and the oil smells so bad and it makes you so slimy and she just needs to stop. we're damn kids and kids get bites from all sorts of bugs. I'm scared to go outside because if I get a bug bite she'll put 4 layers of oil all over my body. I don't want toxic shock or whatever. she needs to realize that just cause my sister had scabies a year ago, we don't have it to. whenever I tell her its a mosquito bite she'll be like shut up no it's not I'm rubbing you down anyways. how do I make her stop thinking I have scabies and stuff?

Hi, pls take your time to read. So my parents are being too much overprotective to me! They won't let me go to the mall with my friends, nor their house to play or sleepover! When I was like 10 years old they promised to me that I could go to a sleepover at my COUSIN's house when I will be at junior high school. And now i'm already at JHS and almost passed it THEY WONT LET ME. They said I will be a troublesome! Like seriously, I'm not a child anymore and it's my cousin! My family!.. And also, they didn't let me to go to my school camp. Well the camp was over today, and the camp is from 2 days ago. I was the only one that didn't join the camp and I felt so upset. I've tried like million times to talk to them about this and they still won't listen. I said "why are you being so overprotective?! I want to experience outdoor activities too!" Blahblah. And they said i am being disrespectful to them! Oh yes. There will be a farewell trip at the end of the school year. I tried to talk to them again nicely and yes, they said "no way". Ugh... Help please.

I'm 22 I've been on my own for the past 2 and a half years or so. I grew up with an older brother. The longer i'm on my own the more I realize how malignant, and vampiric my parents are. All i am and have ever been to them is this - a kid with problems who's always had problems. Me opening my mouth and having needs is just the problems manifesting themselves. They shun me, minimize me, condemn and slander me. There has never been support or warmth. Their lack of love and their dismissal of me has taken it's toll and I am a very angry, unstable person, and i've said some stuff to them that would solidify me as that to them. But I maintain, that they made me this. I'll give examples of my upbringing. A family member visiting and sleeping over the house for a few days. That always meant me getting out of my own room for them to stay. EVERY TIME. The next year another relative comes to stay - 'alright, jackson, get out of your own room'. "uhh can it maybe be sam's room this time?".. "oh stop being difficult, jackson, we all know this is the way it goes'. - just apply that mode of thinking to every instance, and that's a good picture of my childhood. Can parents be jealous of their child? envious? I am a very unique, creative individual. I am very empathetic and artistic. My parents were older. Do tired parents tell and give their kids problem because it's easier? Are my parents just miserable f*cks? All through the years their pursuits are made clear. - They've found comfort in me being this 'black sheep'. They maintain it,, they garner to tools and people to maintain it,, but to them they're just being supportive parents trying to help their crazy, unloveable child... just why.. why. Why is this attack happening. Do parents take pleasure in destroying their children?

My parents used to do drugs and it caused a lot of issues that we still haven't recovered from. Also, two of my best friends overdosed a few years ago which made my opinion on drugs even worse. My hate for any and every drug is very strong. My girlfriend was talking to me and she brought up that she used to do drugs. I had trouble with that at first but she assured me that she no longer does them anymore and hadn't done them for years. She also told me that both of her parents do drugs. She knows how much I hate drugs and the reason behind it but she got mad at me because I told her I will have nothing to do with her parents as long as they continue doing drugs. I don't care who/what you are to me, if you currently do drugs, you will not be a part of my life. I've lost countless friends, family and even a job because I don't want anyone in my life that does drugs. (The boss was an a** anyways) If you used to do them but no longer do, I can get over that but if you start again, your gone. That probably seems really harsh but that's how I feel. I don't really care if my girlfriends parents don't like me or agree with my opinion on drugs and how I handle it but how do I get my girlfriend to understand? I told her that I want nothing to do with her parents 2 weeks ago and she is still mad at me.

REALLY smart but socially awkward and intense OR socially confident but an average student? Either/or...no other combinations.

My grandson has become a really bad child, he is only 5 years old . But he behaves bad he doesn't respect his mother or father he yells at them says bad words to his mother and father and his aunts ,uncles . He refuses to go to school , he cries for everything my grandson has become so mean a rebleshid , my other grandson is also a respectful child and he is only 3 years old . I don't know how to help my daughter , sometimes I think that my grandsons are possessed by a demon .Sometimes it's becaue my husband spoils our grandsons '' help someone ''? my grandson also attacks his mother ,father , aunts and uncles , he says he hates his mother and father but not his grandfather becues ,grandfather doesn't care if he disrespects everyone and behaves bad .HELP SOMEONE

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. He became a big part of my life and I enjoyed spending time with him. I never wanted to leave. Everything went smooth until, he started lying to me. I caught him out once or twice.He used to have a thing for one of my friends and when they're around each other i feel uneasy.I went on his phone and saw that he had liked one of her photos. I got angry and started screaming at him. Next minute he is crying. Saying he needs to tell me something. That he has some sort of cancer. Which i know he is lying about cause he continues to change the story, he has no proof of test results and his mom doesn't know about this either, he always tries to avoid it and the unfortunate thing is that he said he had been going to doctors on days I was with him and I don't remember going to any sort of doctor. I now want to go home and no longer want to visit him. He never wants to speak about his past and things he told me in the begin - now have different story lines. i tried for him to get to know mt family, but there is no interest from both sides. He comes to my house and just avoids my family.I used to lie to my family as to where I'm going and who I'll be with, just to be with him because my family says he is not good for me and that he is a liar. Our phone conversations are so dulI and short off, it used to be so romantic. I need help. Should I try harder and just go against my family or move on and start over.

Im 14 and my sister is 12, and she is much taller than me and stronger, she does some kind of martial arts. She thinks its fun to pin me down and choke me until I almost pass out, or pull my arm back. It really hurts, and my mom thinks its funny so she does't care, I just want to be able to get her down for a change and pay her back for the countless times she got me.

I've always admired girls with a larger, more husky/stocky builds. I want to know the best way to get a build like that. I'm 5'6, 125.

Hello, I am dealing with a very critical problem in my life. My mother is a psycho freak. She is very dominating and egoish. I have found the love of my life. I want to marry this guy and he wants it too but now the problem as usual is my mother. I have been trying to convince her since 5 months now. The moment i start talking about my marriage she starts shouting like a crazy women. At the peak of her voice, not willing to hear anyone. My relatives tried convincing her too but all in vain. My mother tries to threaten us by shouting abusive language in public. Not caring little about our reputation she use abusive language and throw things. I don t know what to do. I want to get married but she is creating problem and obstruction. Please advice

I'm 14 and my sister is 17, and I saw her naked for the first time ever (I've only seen her in her swimsuit and undergarments before) when I walked in on her masturbating when our parents weren't home. She was startled, but smiled and told me I could watch so long as I didn't tell mom and dad. The vision of my sister is burned into my memory and literally at every chance I get I jerk off to the thought. In the bathroom at school, in the shower, in my room, everywhere. I love her so much because she's my best friend but is it wrong to love her in a sexual way? If so. Why?

My sister is 15 years older than I and our parents passed a while back. Ever since we've lived together until one of us is able to support ourselves and move out. I barely remember my mom, and my sister has cared for me as a mother would all my life. I think of her as my mom and she practically raised me. I want to do something special for her for Mothers Day next year, but don't know if that's appropriate because she's not my mom. I used to call her mom but she didn't care for it. Recently she's been very affectionate and understanding to me as I've been depressed. We got in an argument and although it was very heated, afterward she kissed my forehead and told me I'd always be her baby. Doesn't that seem contradictory?

My mother is 20 years my senior and has been very close to me all my life since my older brother died in a car accident and my sister died at birth. My dad isn't part of the picture and hasn't been for 10 years now. My mom's been seeing a therapist to help with the grief and treat her depression but recently she's kept to herself. I came home from work at midnight yesterday and walked out to the backyard to see my mom weeping to herself in the hot tub. I offered to rub her neck and make her some tea but she turned around to reveal herself naked in the water and reached her arms out to embrace me. She asked, "Please, just one more time can you be my baby?" I let her hold me in the water and cradle me in her arms, as she wanted, and she stopped crying as she kissed me and began to stroke her fingers through my hair. I asked if she minded my face was in her beasts and she said she didn't mind at all, and that I'm her "love". As I went inside I immediately called my friends and asked if my mom is suffering from some mental illness and they all said the same thing - yes. What should I do? I genuinely want to help her but I find it borderline incestuous she kissed her son naked.

This guy was being super rude and swearing excessively and being racist and criticizing the people of the same religion and race as me. I asked him a spinoff of the phrase "do you kiss your mother with that mouth." I asked him "Do you kiss your mother's mound with that mouth" He and his friends gang beat me outside until i was all bloody. My girlfriend stood there apathetically and coldly watching without saying anything. She looked like she didn't cared. When they were done beating me, and i was lying on the ground bleeding, she didn't ask me if i was ok. She just stood there staring at me. I had to spent a week in the hospital. My eyes were swollen shut. Not once did she visit me. She never visited me. She went out partying with her friends. Now, for the last week after i left the hospital, she has been really cold to me. Not treating me she same way she once did. She barely shows any concern.

I'm 21 living with parents and my sister is 26 and married living in Aiken SC. In four years she graduated from BU, moved to RH, got married, moved to SC and had a baby and is currently pregnant again. My parents couldn't afford to send me to college or to allow me to take classes and they want me to move around Aiken with them. I'm from between Worcester and Boston and I have a gf and a lot of friends. What is it going to be like to get up and leave my life because my sister decided to leave everything for her husbands job opportunity that he has grown to hate? Am I going to be bored moving from MA?

So my mom let my friends mom take temporary custody of my 6 year old sister. My mom wanted me to go visit with her to make sure everything's ok but after the first visit she started closing us all out. I can't even see my best friend anymore. My step dad can't get a word out of her but her to ask him to buy food. We didn't go to court we just went to a UPS and got a document signed for 6$ per signature. But now I haven't heard about anything and they're being very rude to the rest of my family. I already told my older sister I would bring her out for Christmas but the grandma had to get very rude and tell her 'there's no way in hell we can let that happen'. I was going to tutor her but now they won't even let me come over for 10 minutes to say hi. I'm very worried about her. Can my mom terminate the temporary custody? It's only been 2-3 weeks. I feel they're trying to take full custody.

So I'm 35 years old and I'm sleeping on couch . I haven't had a bed in years why you ask ? Because my family meaning my mother and sister and brother keep having to live with me . So my mother and sister, mom-55 years old sister 21 years old can't seem to get their life together and hold down a decent job and rent a an apartment and drive theirself to work . It's so much I can't even fit the whole story in this details but the both of them have been living with me since December 2013 and I gave them my room not really charging hem anything in the hopes that they would save their money and move but no that hasn't been the case ..they moved out for a few months into an apartment that I put in my name but didn't last due to them getting to fights and arguments and so they were thrown out and I let them come stay with me again and it's been a year now and I lent them thousands of dollars , all this time they had no car and so I would take them both back and forth to work , help them either food and yet I gave them until November 1 st too move and I don't see them like applying anywhere all I see them doing to ordering clothes online and my mother is getting ready to go on a trip smh like I don't get it what should I do I'm angry and upset and back and neck hurts because of me sleeping on the couch for so long trying to help them and so I've given my mother and sister a move out date November 1 at and I kinda asked my mother this morning if she found a place and she got agitated and was like "yeah we will find a place " we will be out soon so I'm like okay cool but tonite I was sleep and felt someone over me and it was my mom and she's like oh can I use your phone and I told her no and she starts calling me weird and she goes to her room and goes and gets her phone and starts using it .. That's makes me nervous And there was another instance where I was sleep and I caught my sister standing over me throwing water on me like splashing water on me as I was sleep.. it's terrible the things I go through and I've been nothing but helpful Update 3: And to top it off my mother has verbally told me to my face that she does not like me and i have heard her tell my sister F u c her I don't give a dam about her " those where her words verbatim and my brother too he's said the same thing he doesn't like me or care for me either even when I gave him a place to live several times when he was homeless

I'm a 19 year old female and I recently became a cam model. I'm really happy doing it! I make good money from home, it's a dream. My boyfriend of 4 years knows and he is happy with it too and very kind and supportive. I love my parents and they fall somewhere between conservative and liberal. I don't know what to do when it comes to telling them or not.

If you kneed an attacker in the groin, how long do you think you'd have to escape?

I haven't seen my cousin since late July early August. She is not that attractive but to me she is attractive. I found her Instagram later and we barely know each other, whenever I send her a DM she doesn't see and reply back to me :(. Why didn't she see and reply back to me?

It's 10:42pm in Cali right now and I can't fall asleep!! is it because I'm worried about my History test tomorrow? I didn't study enough? Or is it my friends being a jerk to me? he always swares at me for no reason! he always grabs on to my backpack whenever we walk to class! he is so annoying when he does this. Do you think I should yell at him tomorrow and tell him I don't like it when he tells me what to do?

My family begged me take a trip cross country to visit my dying grandpa (who I was never that close with) - it's his first grandchild and he is too sick to travel. My mom, and my two aunts all came - sounds great, right? Wrong, no one offered to help shoulder any of my travel costs (over $700) - not like this was exactly a vacation for me with a 2 month old....I was left alone with the baby in the hotel most of the time we were there, while they were off doing non-baby friendly things. It was in the 90s/100s outside, and I didn't rent a car. The only time me and my baby left the hotel was basically a photo op with my grandpa....no one even visited me in the hotel or offered to babysit so I could go do anything! Not to mention that one of my aunts is like obsessed with my baby, constantly texting, etc - she barely made any time to see my him, like literally less than 30 mins the entire trip - WTF? I am so angry at my entire family, I don't even want to talk to them anymore. Am I wrong about feeling really angry and resentful about this?

So I missed school on Monday because I haven't finished the rough draft of an essay that was due. And I stayed home Tuesday because I didn't have a ride to school. I went to school today on Wednesday but stayed up all last night trying to do the essay, literally didn't sleep at all, didn't even finish the essay (I think I'm developing a severe attention disorder or something... I know I had PLENTY of chances to do the essay, but it's like I just can't force myself to do it), and I made a HUGE mistake and decided to smoke weed before school. I went to school, had a terrible day and kept falling asleep every class, and one of my teachers knew I was high, wrote me a note about it on my paper but it doesn't look like he's doing anything about it... And now it's midnight I've been asleep for the last 8 hours and I have homework to do. This, along with a social problem I'm having, makes me want to stay home. I feel I may have an emotional breakdown or something in class if I try to power through tomorrow, as I'm doing poorly in my classes, certain social situations that are causing me an increasing amount of stress... Should I stay home? And how should I try to explain this all to my parents?