but not too extravagant. Thanks guys!

I'm a 20 year old female. I've been dating for 6 years, and each guy I dated hurt me in different ways depending on the age. Cheating, physical abuse, and verbal abuse were in every relationship I have had. One of my ex boyfriends impregnated me and beat me for being pregnant before kicking me and our unborn child out on the street. I don't trust men anymore. At all. I'm scared of them. I have grown suicidal and depressed, and my body is covered in knife scars from when I was trapped in each relationship. I have lost all of my hope in love. And in men. Is it justified to just be alone now?

I have been friends with this girl for about 3 years and were both 14. Lately i have been um, very sad a lot. So much that i dont want to get out of bed. Sometimes i have to tell people i wont be talking for a while cus im so sad. But shes always there for me and pulls me out of that sad mood. Thats just some backstory. Heres the bad part, so one night we got really um...dirty i guess u can say, we planned a lot of things and said a lot of things. Then one day she says she has to go to the doctors, which was true but right after that she said she got back and then said she cant talk rn. so i gave her space for about a day and a half. then i msged her on the app Snapchat saying "lets start a streak starting now" she opened up the msg and never responded. I give it another day and msg her asking her a random question seeing if she would respond to that. She didn't. Same day im on the phone with one of my really good friends and i told him what was going on and he decided to msg her and she responded. I am so confused and so sad. i havent left my room at all today, which is so dumb over such a stupid reason. Does it sound like somethings wrong? like i did something? or do u think she just wants a break from talking to me? ugh :( when i said ive been sad lately in the beginning i wasn't talking about this whole situation, there a lot more going on than that. Though this situation is making it a lot worse.

She has been wearing an eye patch but I haven't really asked her why, I've mentioned it but she's kinda avoided the question. An ideas what could be up?

Long story short, I knew this girl in elementary school, we had a small thing where we liked each other and such but she's older than me and was a very creepy girl now that I look back. I moved away and never saw her again UNTIL now. Turns out we are going to the same college, community college. ((I didn't move far)) and we were put in a group together. She ended up giving me her number and I took it being the nice guy I am. So she tells me about her boyfriend and shows me pics of him and such and we catch up. But I don't give away any big details because I'm just a very paranoid guy. Then she starts texting weirdly and kept asking for photos of me and my friends from our prom since we were on the topic. Then she sends me multiple pics of herself and says I can use them for her contact photo and I told her I don't do contact photos and she starts apologizing and saying how I can come talk to her. Idk what the deal is but I'm pretty spooked by her attitude and her apparent bf isn't around much but she has like a female friend so yea. But my older sister who knew her freaked me out and told me to delete her number and block it. What should I do cause I'm paranoid.

Okay so my bf and I have been together for almost three months. I recently going out that he's addicted to getting/giving pleasure. I help him out and touch his penis, I don't suck on it because I'm not comfortable with that. I've let him touch me a few times but I stopped letting him because I realized I'm uncomfortable with that. He told me that he masturbated about 7 times last night and he still wanted to do it. He respects what I am and what I'm not comfortable with, and he resists the urges to touch me. I really appreciate it, but I know he hated her he goes though this. What can I do?

Well, my ex and I are in an extracurricular group and since we're graduating and the teacher of this group is out of the school, the group wanted to get him a framed picture of us and we were planning to give it to him on next Friday. So anyways, I don't know if anyone has even thought about our gift, and so I texted her asking if we were still getting it for him (And yes, I asked other people in our group before her). She said yes. So I was just like "I'll pick up the frame, I don't mind". And she goes "I'll come with you, you shouldn't do it alone!!!!". And also, she was like "PLEASE BRING YOUR YEARBOOK I NEED TO SIGN IT" The thing is, we haven't talked much since last year. When I asked her this, I wasn't trying to get her to go with me to buy a frame, I just wanted to know what the group was doing. Anyways, why is she saying "I'm off on Wednesday, we can go together and buy it then!"? It's just a frame (you really don't need two people going for it), we haven't talked in months, and in all honesty, she was the one who ended it with me and I've stayed far away from her since yesterday, we checked in about buying the frame and I texted her "Alright, cool, so Wednesday" around 8 am but didn't get a response. And then around 7, we were at an awards ceremony for people in our grade. She saw me before the ceremony and I said hi to her because she was next to my friends. Anyways, she could've been like "sounds good!" when she saw me, but waited until halfway through the ceremony to text me a simple "sounds good"

So me and this girl have been friends for about a year and a half. I really don't want to start college a virgin and I was wondering what her reaction might be if I asked her to have sex with me? It would just be one time.

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We've been dating for 5 months now & things have been great. He is such a great guy. At the beginning of the relationship he was flirty all the time and it was great. But recently, he's seemed distant. His answers are short & not flirty at all. he hardly texts me. I end up waiting 3-4 days sometimes even a week before he texts me. We went out last week & usually he'll get out of his car and walk me to the door/hug/kiss me goodbye, but he didn't. Also during said date, he hardly held my hand at all. Usually he holds my hand A LOT. that was the last time I saw him. He said that he's been home all week doing absolutely nothing but he didn't bother to make plans with me. Also, he never tells me when he's going on vacation or whatever so I always find out from his twins girlfriend or his younger brother. In the 5 months that we've been dating we've gone out 4 times. That's it. It doesn't seem like he wants to spend time with me at all. Also he used to call me babe & that stopped. the goodnight texts stopped. All he says now is "I'm going to bed." He ONLY tells me he loves me over text. He's said it maybe twice in person. I'm imagining myself with someone who will want to talk to me & will spend a lot of time with me. But when I thought about ending the relationship, I cried. He means so much to me & I absolutely adore him. He can always make me smile. But I feel like he just doesn't want to spend time with me. At least, he's not making a very good effort.

How do i get a homeless girlfriend? Im a handsome young good looking guy but im mostly attracted to homeless type girls, they are more easy going, more sensible and full of life in my experience, and they cling, I like clingy girls cuz im clingy too, with the right chemistry of course, but how do I approach these girls without looking like a pimp? A creeeper? A human trafficker? A sexual pervy exploiter? Im none of these horrendous things im looking for something real? I also dont want to be hero guy, I want to be felt more like a rider or part comrade part lover

my friend sent this guy a pic of me (w/o my permission) saying "screenshot if u don't think she's hot". he didn't screenshot - does that mean he thinks I'm hot or probabl just didn't wanna be mean?

Okay, so my grandmother is 86 years old and senile, and I've been watching her at home for the past couple of days while my dad is in Vegas with his buddies. Anyway, yesterday I was trying to get her to eat dinner with me, but she seemed really upset for some reason. I asked her why and all she would say was "They're coming, I can feel it!" Since she wouldn't cooperate and also refused to leave her room, I went downstairs and ate dinner by myself. As I was going back upstairs to check on her, there was a loud screeching noise outside and she ran out of her room, screaming "They're here, they're here!" She tried to leave the house, but I managed to catch her, and after I calmed her down, I locked her in her room for the rest of the night. I didn't think much of the incident; as this is far from the weirdest thing to happen around here. Then, just this morning, I went upstairs to give her breakfast and her bedroom door was open and Grandma was nowhere to be found. I did a little searching and discovered a trail of her footprints in the mud that led from the sliding glass door all the way to the woods behind our house. I followed them into the heart of the forest, but when I reached the end of the trail, Grandma wasn't there. I tried calling my dad, but he didn't answer. Then I called my friend Geoffrey and asked him if he could help. He told me to call the police, but I'm not on good terms with them and I don't want to risk it. Please help me find my Grandma some other way!

I live a pretty healthy lifestyle. I eat a lot of vegetables and exercise and all that, but I don't think my psoriasis is going away anytime soon.. I am not asking how to cure it though...there is plenty of advice out there for that. What I want to know is, should I still keep trying to ask girls out even if all I have experienced is rejection? I am a 29 year old guy and I often get these sharp pangs of loneliness.. I try not to think about it too much.. Should I even bother asking girls for their number or should I just accept that I will probably always be alone?

A female friend of mine and her boyfriend were staying at my house for a few months because she lost her job. Apparently her boyfriend went on my computer and found some scandalous sexual photos of me and my girlfriend and our porn collection. Shortly after they moved out I my girlfriend felt like she was the butt of several jokes when we were around our mutual friends. The jokes are indirect and they act like they are not about her however they are very specific. I have asked her directly if they were snooping on my computer however she denies it completely. what should we do?

I have a feeling that he is seeing other women and just wants sex. He once said we were seeing each other but he was single. He canceled one outing with me. He seems to only want to hang at my house. I told him my suspicions. He recently added some waitress I did not know. He deleted her when I asked who she was, I have tested his phone couple sometimes it seems he turn it off. I am starting to think I am being wise to not sleep with him. What would you do. He knows my suspicions.

I know when her birthday is on social media and I know she really likes me. But we never really talked before and I'm worried that she would think it's creepy?

Well the thing is my girlfriend doesn't seem to get online very often, but I want to talk to her but I feel that if I text her while she's not online I won't be respecting her privacy or the fact that she doesn't want to text, what do you guys think?

So today in class i was looking down & doing my work & then when I looked up I saw the girl i liked looking at me & smiling then she looked down at my chest while still smiling then she looked up at my face while still smiling so I just looked away..then when I was talking to one of my friend I couldn't really hear him cause I had my headphones on & he said justin did you hear what I said & i said no. Then I heard her telling her friends that I crack her up and said that I was quiet but funny. Then later I heard her telling her other friends again that I'm quiet but funny. Then later i saw her looking at my direction

so my bf, told me that hhis ex will always be more then just a friend and im sure he like her still and it bother me. and i know she dont feel that why about him.. i asked her..i dont know what to think anymore. he act like a jerk to me at times and theh he nice other times. i know he been thou alot with girls but i kinda want to give up on him. he told he give give 3-5 months before he open up to them

So I was hanging out with my bestfriend today and we always act silly. We were snapchatting my eldest sister who goes to grad school (I'm 14) and I guess we were king of acting silly and she asked if I was drunk. At first I thought it was a joke so I responded with a silly face along with my friends and said "yes." So she freaked out and I tried to calm her down but now she thinks I'm lying :/

I'm a freshman, and we both like each other. How do I BEGIN by telling them I like a senior and he likes me.We're right now, getting to know each other, but it might lead to dating in the future. I already set some ground rules, and he doesn't want any nudes or sex, and he respects me, and wants to meet my parents to show them that he's a good kid with good intentions. I want to be honest, because we aren't anything YET but I'm an honest girl and I want to start by telling my mom. Any advice on just exactly how I begin?

Would the fact that she doesn't have much experience bother you when you guys had sex? I'm 19, in a situation like this, doesn't seem like it's gonna change anytime soon. But it's not waiting for marriage kinda thing, and I'd only actually admit that to a guy if I was planning on sleeping with him. Also, can you tell a girl was a virgin if you're her first and she doesn't tell you?

I would not mind this but my dog has anxiety and ends up sitting in the corner shaking... I am wondering if it would be rude to call the police... thanks!

I was in a grocery store today and came out of an isle and four girls passed me and one said hey cutie.

It's everywhere, the beach they're half naked, movies, social media, everywhere. Call me crazy but I get so upset knowing he sees that stuff. He always tries to lie like "I didn't even look at that" to protect my feelings which is nice of him but it just makes it worse. Is anyone else like this?