There's a group of friends (who I went to school with in elementary and became my closest friends) who I've been trying to make plans with. I'm most closest with one of the girls, and I always do try to make plans with her but everytime when I do she's always busy. I also do tell her to invite the rest of the group. My only concern is I don't know if she wants to hangout, because she's always saying that we need to hangout but everytime when I do she can't. And she's always posting pictures with the rest of our friends, like how come she couldn't invite me? You know. And the thing is whenever she's free, she never tells me and asks to hangout. It's always me arranging it. So I was wondering if I should stop trying to make plans? Because I feel like she doesn't want to.

So, this year I made 3 new friends and they all seemed very nice and sweet. Except I really didn't seem to trust one of them, because I think I heard her saying some things about me, but that isn't the point at all. I messed up REALLY bad this past year. Last year in 5th grade, I started to feel very insecure and I felt like nobody would like the real "me". Don't get me wrong, I have had a lot of childhood friends from my school, and I never had this problem. But some girls thought I was weird and I just wanted to fit in. But this year.... I told my friends that I had a boyfriend and used a fake texting app and everything. It was extremely wrong of me, and a terrible thing to lie about. To make it even worse, I told them that I would be in a TV show episode 2 months ago... and everyone was happy for me. But 3 days later... I realized that it was wrong to lie like that, and I had made a HUGE mistake. I came clean about everything, and I overreacted when my friend got mad. I couldn't stop crying for a week, and slipped into a temporary depression. A lot of my friends were reasurring, and very kind to me, even for what I did. I really don't deserve them. The friends that were mad... we talked a few times, but we just ended up fighting at the end. I just want to apologize to them and tell them that I understand if they don't want me around. But I can't contact them, and they removed my name from the group chat. I feel like such a horrible person. How do I deal with this?

I really want to be part of a band and I emailed 3 people online that I would like to be part of their band. Unfortunately, I don't play any instrument, but I would like to play on drums. Look, I NEED this experience!! Anyway, 1 of the emails responded to me and I lied saying that I play drums. Then he asked me about myself and if I have any experience or band experience or clips/videos of me playing drums. I still didn't respond yet. I don't want this guy to think that I bailed on HIM. I want to respond, but I don't have any experience in playing drums. What do I say to this person???

There is this girl at my school that I don't really like. Last year she sent my friend and me to the office 3 three times because she felt like she was being left out. My friend and I have know each other since preK and we met her only a few months before that. In a polite way we told her we can not be her friend if she keeps doing that. She cries and calls her mom. Then she acts like we're bffs again. This year she sent my twin sister to the office for some crazy reason and my sister doesn't deal with drama so she said she didn't want to be friends at the moment. After that she acted like they were best friends again the same way she did with me. And she also tried to figure out if she was invited to our birthday party after all of this. We have been over to her house once and she invited us again yesterday. I said sure because I ran out of excuses from before the like and hour ago I told her my mom said it was to late and we need to do it another time. Truth is my mom just doesn't want me around her and her dad. Her dad gives my mom and I the creeps, he also texted me one time on her phone saying I need to stop being mean to her when I legit did nothing. I feel bad for not coming over but I just don't want to be her friend at all. She lies so much. One time she told me she had cancer, and she did not.

So I'm 13 and my ''friends'' never seem to notice that I exist because every time we sit together in lunch they always have inside jokes (like Pinto) and they never include me in anything. They even have a group chat that i am not included in. What do I do? Should I just make new friends?

You should probably know that i struggle with depression and anxiety. My only escape from my depression and anxiety is going to school and seeing my friends. Things have been happening that make me not want to be her friend anymore. I got her a job where i work and not too long ago she got a boyfriend from work. This stings because I ve bern working there for much longer and haven t meet anybuddy but whatever it happends. Then she came to my school this year by my recommendation and started dating the boy i like (this happened before the work date) but she didn t know i liked him so i dont blame her. They broke up and she keeps bad mouthing him which isnt fair to him becauee hes a nice person so i think this is where i started disliking her. When she was dating the guy i like she kept ditching me for him which hurt. Now shes at my school and has been taking my friends away. I used to be the one to make them laugh, make them happy and now they dont even walk with me to the bus. Our class is made of 7 people and not even one waits for me. It hurts and ive been spiraling into depression very quickly. I cant trust my friend to be there for me anymore. I dont know if im just jealous but this is getting bad. I get suicidal pretty often and this is just making it worse. I dont want to live if i dont have any friends. Might sound rediculous but my family life is terrible and i dont have anyone to trust anymore. Sorry for the long block of text. Any advice would help.

How about if they just go for their first party out of high school? How about if they attend multiple parties by their high school friends?

So I was staring into space & i was staring at the trash can & i see someone looking at mw later I was staring at the wall & when i look over again i saw the same person looking at you & smiling while they have there hands on their chin

My mom over the past few months has allowed her roommates daughter and her boyfriend to move into a small room in the garage. I absolutely hate them being here. I never had a problem with her roommate or her roommate and their daughter visiting every weekend but these people moving in and living with us is too much. They give me **** because I love animals or bother me when I am playing Xbox at night. They don't pay rent and the only real thing they have done since they got here was mow the lawn. I am sick of it and my mom knows but doesn't care. I am old enough to move out. But my mom's roommates daughter and her bf are. I have a therapist (since my dad left) and she hasnt cared to mention anything about it though I have told her I dont like this

I am living with some friends and it recently came to light that a tenants girlfriend is a nude cam model. She has been streaming from his room and they said they had the intention of telling us. There was a huge argument about whether or not we had the right to know what was going on as it was in the privacy of his room. I would have liked to have been asked if I was comfortable with the situation as I probably would have said no. Do you think we should have been told or asked? Or do you agree that it's his room therefore it's his privacy? P.S- I'd like to add I have nothing against her doing this, I'm actually impressed in her confidence. Our only point was that we would have liked to have at least been told about it so that this issue of us finding out in an awkward way wouldn't have happened. Every single person said we don't care we just wanted to know and he is adamant we don't have the right to know.

So three weeks ago I went to a youth group and met this super nice dude and I was sad that day and he made me feel better( im a boy too). Anyways so I didn t go the next week( I had no ride and I felt bad because I told him the last week I would go) and the next week we went to camp and I saw him but he didn t notice me( I wasn t trying to get him to) and today youth group was canceled. I was excited to see him because he was super nice and I would like to get to know him better so I was disappointed.

I know this sound childish but im not trolling this is a true story that happened today. So me and my friend were watching a movie. We came to the last piece of fried chicken and I said "can I please have the last piece" and he replied"no it's mine"and he punched me in the face and took a bite. I didn't care about the chicken anymore and I got up and slammed him on the ground and took the other half of the chicken and why is he being so selfish...My question is who deserved the last piece?

evening/night but never really in the morning/early afternoon. In the morning I usually get sick if I wake up before like 10 am. Not like incredibly sick, but just in the manner of "I don't want to do anything, I just want to ignore everyone and sleep" for a few hours. How can I go about fixing this? I know that the obvious solution is "Hey, go to bed earlier" but it's really not that simple. I can't force myself to go to bed early when I'm really anxious about something and I want to make a good impression my first day. How can I defeat this fear and go about talking to people Finally, how should I go about making new friends without seeming really awkward? I haven't had to make new friends in so long I genuinely don't know how to do it and me being excruciatingly socially awkward doesn't help

I'm 16 yo and I've never been to a party. I never hang out with my friends outside of school, I just spend my weekends in my house, watching TV, playing videogames. Is this OK ?

My father always alludes to the fact I spend a lot of time alone whereas my brother has a lot of friends and is rarely home. I have a couple good friends that I hang out with but I am not constantly busy like my brother. My dad has commented more than just once or twice basically stating I have no friends. I have always been more of a homebody but I do hang out with my friends too. When my parents voice comments like this it makes me feel terrible about myself and makes me question if there is something wrong with me since my friends are not constantly making plans with me. I also get upset after they say something which leads to my parents making me feel like my feelings are uncalled for and overdramatic. I guess I am just wondering if this is normal or if this is common among parents? Am I being overdramatic by getting upset when my father essentially tells me I have no friends?

I have been in and out of schools my whole life, as a matter of fact, the longest have been in a single school is 3 years (the average time is 1.5 years) And because of that, its been hard to make, and keep friends, especially since i have,... different intrests And at pretty much every school i have went to since about 5th grade, i have noticed there are 3 groups, the gossipy girls, the boys, and the "special needs" kids. And when i sit at the girls table, i either get told "Sit some where else" or they look at me like "what the heII are you doing" Or they cover up the seat, and on the rare occasions that they let me sit there, the stuff they usually just talk about sports and clubs (and i cant stand sports or clubs, i get enough of them at the dinner table). Then at the "special needs" table, they just ignore me. Also it's not just in the lunch room. I get called ugly and fat just because i wear sweat pants and a basic vneck shirt to school every day Also since i have SPD, it makes it even harder, since i only can wear certain clothes without having a melt down, i dont shower ( i get my hair washed at the salon every 3 weeks and i scrub my body down every other day, its the only way that works) also i usually wear ear plugs in the lunch room since its so loud, But they dont notice that (thank god!) And i have been hit a few times, once a boy kicked me in the stomach, another time a boy slapped me with his binder, and another time a kid pushed me into the wall (not... SUPER hard, but it was enough to move me) And this year i did online school, but i really didnt learn anything, So that is why im going back to public school, but that is also why im really worried, And the older i get, the harder the bullying gets. I also cant use soap because of the feeling, and the scent, but i try to use a little scented lotion mixed with a lot of baby lotion to try to make myself smell a little better, Its because... ...fragrance drives me insane and i start coughing uncontrolably (i have to hold my breath when i walk through the hallway near the bathroom if my brother used his old spice, or if my mom used her hair spray) Please help me, im so f***ing scared about next year PLEASE NO SHORT ANSWERS (eg: "just ignore them", "its ok" "just deal with it") I HAVE HEARD ALL OF THAT BULL CRAP BEFORE, I HAVE TRIED ALL OF THE OBVIOUS THINGS LIKE IGNORING, BEING MYSELF, ETC,

I have been living with this for as long as I can remember, and it only seems to be getting worse. I can t seem to continue a conversation I have with anybody, and this goes for strangers, and even friends. It's not initiating the conversation that s the trouble for me.. It s continuing it. I only hang out in groups, and I avoid one on one conversation as much as possible, and this includes hiding in the bathrooms or pretending to be on the phone. Every time a friend invites me to hang out, I always decline unless it is a group invitation.. i haven t hung out with just one person in nearly 3 years, since I had my last best friend. The thing is though, I m a very social person, and in groups I branch out and talk, but when it comes down to any single person, I become extremely awkward. The only exception to this is my family of course, but I just hate how this affects my whole life, and it seems as if nobody else is dealing with it either. I feel like I will never get another close friend, or find somebody I can talk to.

When te teacher asked us to do a school work, she said that we could not write It in topics, we were supposed to do It in a text. Then, one of my friends said to me: "Did you understand, (my name)." He was just playing, he said this only because I like to do my work in topics. However, another guy, who is not my friend, said to my friend: "Let her do her work in the way she wants". I wasn't bothered by the comment of my friend, but this guy defended me, and I got kind of surprised. This boy that defended me also stares at me a lot from a distance. Is he most likely interested or not?

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He invites him all the time to hang out with him and all of his other friends. My brother doesn t even like him that much. Is he doing it to make me feel left out?

Hello...I'm 11 years old. I feel that suicide is the only answer. I am very sensitive. If someone just raises their voice a little bit at me, I cry. I can't help it. This year, my school shut down. I moved schools and I was very scared. My best friend was in different classes so we didn't get to see eachother. The only time we got to see each other was at recess...which is only about 10 minutes long. I had a very good friend That got put in my class. Unfortunately, she found new friends (nothing wrong with that.) but ditched me. And she never talks to me. We talk in a chatroom, but rarely, but she always finds a stupid excuse to leave. I lost one of my bestfriends, one that I could talk to about anything. My friend, that is still my best friend, and talk to her about everything, thinks that I don't know my feelings. I try to be happy, but I'm so tired of it. I've gone to the school counseling, but not about my suicidal thoughts. I had to watch my Papa slowly die of cancer. I had to watch my Memaw slowly die in the hospital. My mom always drinks beer, and alcohol tea. My parents fight all the time, and my mom yells at me a lot. I am not happy with my looks. I try to where makeup but my mom of dad doesn't like it so I stopped. People say I don't know my feelings, but they simply do not know what this is like. I get discriminated at school because of my political views.Please answer,if you do not answer now,I am seriously considering suicide. Thank you.

I met this guy online in May of 2014 he's 42 and I'm 29 and we met in person for the first time in June 2015. He and I live in different states but I've been to see him a few times. The second time I went to see him was in February of this year but we couldn't meet because he was busy. So I went back to see him last month and we were intimate again we talked and he let me know that he doesn't want to be in a committed relationship. So I asked him if it was ok if I come to see him when I want to and he's ok with it. Right now I don't want to be in a relationship because I'm more focused on myself and getting my life together. I just want to know if it's wrong that I like coming to see him even though we aren't in a relationship.

I am 14 and my friend is 12. Over the past month I have been noticing he's too sensitive. Like if we are both playing a game and he's doing something wrong I tell him nicely stop do it this way and he gets mad and whines and says No I'm not shut up and then later he dies and starts whining and being a baby. He's so sensitive like he might hold the world record for it. He gets mad and everything and he always needs to be correct and even if he is not he will still get mad. Like yesterday he lied to me and I found out he lied and I said lying is a sin and he kept saying ok shut up ok ok ok and getting mad acting like lying is not a sin ( but he can't argue against God) so he kept saying ok until he started to cry and say your making me feel guilty shut the f up. He gets too fed up and idk why. Please explain why he is doing this (is it because of his age or his development or what?) and please give me a solution and is this common?

I'm 14, and used to be in a group of friends who had parties and other stuff like that. Back then, I was always invited to everything but as time moved on, I didn't get invited to anything at all. At first, I was very sad and upset but now, I don't even care, and I don't really like those people anymore. My mom thinks that I should try and get back with them, but I do t really wanna. I figure I'm in 9th grade, and only have 4 more years left until I graduate and barely see any of these people again. Do you think it's ok to not get invited to stuff, because I do. I meant is it ok

Me and my best friend are like brothers to each other (16m). I've known him for 3 years. We always have a blast when we see each other and hangout. We always hangout no matter what but recently it feels like he's forgotten about me. I texted him today and he didn't respond at all but he saw my messages. I call him and he says he's busy when really I'll check snapchat and he's at the beach with this girl that hangs out with me and him a lot. I tried talking to him earlier cause I wasn't feeling so well and I needed his support but he didn't respond til hours later. I'll try to sit down and talk to him and he says that "I'll always be there for you. I love you bud" and all that but then the next day he goes back to ignoring me and stuff. What can I do so that he notices that I wanna talk to him?

Her and I have been very close. She's a big part of my life, and I have always done whatever I could for her. Well, she just started ignoring me lately. It all started when she went to go to a festival, and ever since, hasn't contacted me at all. She reads and doesn't reply, no calls, no hanging out, and then doesn't even bother to read my messages sometimes. I thought maybe something happened, new guy in her life, maybe she's just busy right? Nope, I confirmed with all her friends. Its not like I said anything to her either, I asked her how she was, if she was having fun, and then me checking on her, all I was doing was being nice. Now, she only ever replies to keep our snapstreak alive and thats it. I don't want to lose her in my life, and I'm trying so hard to keep in contact but I don't know what to do! Should I stop contacting her, ask her why she's ignoring me and then stop contacting her, any help?

I've been in search for an online best friend for a while. Our communication medium would be through Kik or Skype. My interests include rock (heavy metal, alternative, etc.), punk style influences, dark and other humor types, creativity, the band "Tool," Skyrim, The Sims, DANK MEMES, and plenty more. I'm into Roleplay (Not like smut, but character development third person storyline roleplaying. Some fun to pass the time) so I'm hoping to find someone into Roleplay. (Might sound cringe worthy but it's fun to me) I'm a Sagittarius 15 year old female. We don't have to be exactly alike, I like different. So if you're looking for a friend, just let me know your zodiac, age, and if you'd prefer to communicate using Kik or Skype, and I'll leave you my Kik or Skype in a comment. Hopefully simple ❤️ Thank you! You can also leave a bit of information on yourself if you want. I love getting to know people

Okay, my friend who is super caring and kind-hearted, often gets bullied for being different and insulted but she has a bright spirit that rises up after it falls down. it's good for her but it's still too unfair. I used to have this friend who is a backstabbing ***** and she's not popular or anything but she doesn't get bullied. why can't this fake friend get hurt instead of my friend?

Some old friends of mine that I haven t seen in a while are getting together and planning a party for tonight. I was only invited early this afternoon. I would love to go and reconnect with them, I just would like some fair warning. Especially since everyone s been asked to bring a side dish. I m not sure what to do in this situation because I do want to spend time with them, but I already had a nice meal planned for my family tonight. Do you think people should give their guests an earlier invitation?

I am 14 and my friend is 12. Over the past month I have been noticing he's too sensitive. Like if we are both playing a game and he's doing something wrong I tell him nicely stop do it this way and he gets mad and whines and says No I'm not shut up and then later he dies and starts whining and being a baby. He's so sensitive like he might hold the world record for it. He gets mad and everything and he always needs to be correct and even if he is not he will still get mad. Like yesterday he lied to me and I found out he lied and I said lying is a sin and he kept saying ok shut up ok ok ok and getting mad acting like lying is not a sin ( but he can't argue against God) so he kept saying ok until he started to cry and say your making me feel guilty shut the f up. He gets too fed up and idk why. Please explain why he is doing this (is it because of his age or his development or what?) and please give me a solution and is this common?

You think he's happy, but he's sad. You would think he has friends, or at least some online people to chat with, but he's completely lonely. He seeks for attention by giving honest nice sharing opinion " This shooting was terribly wrong and all my prayers go out to the victims and family's" Notifications +3 Responder "yeah it was wrong" but doesn't seem to work. So he realises the world loves negative people. He then post "I don't care about those ******* who died in Orlando, They're going to hell any way" Notifications+453 comments Now he has something to do other than eat, sleep and watch YouTube. Haha he actually has people to talk to 😃 THATS WHY IM A TROLL

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I recently started really liking this girl at work. I dont know how to approach her or get at her. She works in the coffeehouse and i work across the hall in the kitchen for the restaurant. I get jealous when i see her talking to other guys. I have like a knot in my stomach all the time. I wanna see her all the time and IDK what to do.What do i say? there are video cameras there. Why would a girl or anyone does this ok so she said hey derek when she walked into the kitchen at work then she walked behind me and whispered hey derick again even tho i had said hey to her when she said it the first time. she smiled a me when i looked at her i was like what the **** but didnt say anything.Everytime I see her shes smiling.Ive had a few small conversations about random stuff .Nothing personal. i got shy and looked away when we made eye contact and she was smiling earlier this week.

It's been quite the while since I last used this old account!!! Anyway, let's cut to the chase. I'm 15 years of age. I have plenty of real life friends, but we don't seem to click as I want it to however. I want someone that shares some similar interests. Our medium of communication would be through Kik or maybe even Skype. I am hoping for someone that is creative, likes dank memes, doesn't have a problem with occasional dark humor, and someone that would be willing to roleplay (sound cringe worthy? Well it wouldn't be smut. I just find character development and storylines fun. We'd roleplay in third person. But roleplay isn't required. It's chill if that's not your thing) I'm a female Sagittarius and I think my most compatible friends would be Aries, Leo, Libra, and Aquarius 😌😊

It's been a little over a month since I last talked to my "bestie". In the beginning we always got along very well and I could talk to her about things and joke around. However, I knew going into the friendship she was a complicated and difficult person, no biggie. She also doesn't like to talk about her problems but she doesn't like it when I don't tell her things that have gone on with me. Lately, she's acted distant. She's gone from saying she's this loyal friend, we were meant to be friends and she was so glad we've become besties to saying the friendship is too much work and too complicated. Idk why, I'm the one that's always tried because I know she's got a lot going on so it's not like I'm being needy or clingy to her. I gave her a bday present and she never said thank you. On her birthday I asked her if she was ok because she was acting distant. She txt back that she's not that friend that can be there like I want and it's best we distance ourselves. After a week of not talking, I txt her and just told her that I'd always be there for her and whenever she's ready I'd still be there. It's been almost a month and a half and Idk if I should try to reach out to her again? I'm just worried about her and just want to know if she's ok.

My best friend is in the hospital and she has Anorexia Nervosa, and she is only 13 years old. My friends and I are getting her a gift basket to show that we care and we re here for her. But how do I show her that she is a beautiful and amazing person, and that she isn t overweight? I really want to help her but I don t know how.

I met this guy online in May of 2014 he's 42 and I'm 29 and we met in person for the first time in June 2015. He and I live in different states but I've been to see him a few times. The second time I went to see him was in February of this year but we couldn't meet because he was busy. So I went back to see him last month and we were intimate again we talked and he let me know that he doesn't want to be in a committed relationship. So I asked him if it was ok if I come to see him when I want to and he's ok with it. Right now I don't want to be in a relationship because I'm more focused on myself and getting my life together. I just want to know if it's wrong that I like coming to see him even though we aren't in a relationship.

OK, so I always think about having big feet and being 5'10'' or 5'll'' tall and I'm a teenage girl.Yes,a girl that's obsessed with being tall and big feet.I'm NOT a trans girl if anybody thought that cause of my obsession. I WAS BORN A GIRL AND LOVE BEING A GIRL! So don't ask me that. My family think that because Imma gal that it's crazy that I really care about this stuff. I'm 5' 7'' and a size 10 in women's shoes and I really really wanna be 5' 10'' at least! I feel depressed a lot and feel short even though I'm taller than a lot of teen gals my age and older (I'm 15),but I often feel super depressed and feel that I'm short and worry that my feet are smallish looking. According to my best friend though my feet look really big (she's only a size 5.5 to 6 in women's).

I want to tell my mom that I want to hang out with my friends that are boys and I have girl that are friends to but I want to hang out with them to. Idk if she scared I'm gonna end up pregnant but I'm not ready for sex yet and I'm 17 about to be a senior so how can I tell her to let me hang out with them without her coming?