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- Question: I have a weed-related dilemma. Help?
- Question: Is it stupid my friend unfriended me on Facebook for this reason?
- Question: 18 year old makes me feel scared and threatened?
- Question: What do you do with a back stabber traitor?
- Question: My friend's boyfriend is mad?
- Question: Ok, how to unfriend someone annoying?
- Question: What to do in the summer?
- Question: Why do i feel so guilty about a made up story i told people?
- Question: Why do i feel like my grandma hates me?
- Question: Is it embarrassing that i'm 21 and my Mom is my best friend?
- Question: How hard is it to be friends with your crush?
- Question: Guys Is He Interested?
- Question: How do I get my best friend to tickle me without tickling her ( she's not ticklish ) or without asking her too?
- Question: What is the safest roommate sites I want find a roommate can someone tell me number 1 site or sites That are safe and not scams to ?
- Question: How to gain confidence?
- Question: My friend's boyfriend is mad?
- Question: If a girl does this kind of stuff?
- Question: Am i loser for going to watch movies with my parents at a friday night because i have no friends to go with? I'm 18 male out of high school?
- Question: 18 year old messing with me and im 15?
- Question: Friend wants to meet a guy she met online?
- Question: What to do about fake friends?
- Question: HOW CAN I STOP BEING SO AWKWARD ?!?
- Question: Maria you think that you laugh at me,funny how much i laugh at you fat loser?
- Question: I don't really like my friends...?
- Question: How/should I keep in touch with my friends?
- Question: Should I change the date of my birthday party or change the plan?
- Question: How do people make new friends?
- Question: I did a gay prank. Why do my friends now think I am gay? Can't people understand it was a JOKE?
- Question: Is my best friend being an jerk or am I in the wrong?
- Question: I want to be friends with someone but we don't go to the same school. Would it be weird to comment on her photo on Instagram?
- Question: What to do with a friend who sucks at texting?
- Question: My life is not worth living anymore?
- Question: Will I change after HS?
- Question: Some advice for guns?
- Question: How can I make my divorced friend to stop being taken advantage of a creep into prostituting herself.?
- Question: Does This Guy Secretly Like Me? How Can I find out?
- Question: I might like my brothers ex best friend, is that weird?
- Question: How do you resolve issues with a competitive friend?
- Question: Why do people with strict parents tend to act differently outside of school?
- Question: I'm scared of my best friend??
- Question: Is this a form of child abuse?
- Question: Should I censor nudity in my college film project?
- Question: My friends say I never talk about myself/share and this causes us to lack conversation in our friendship. How do I do this?
- Question: How can I convince my mom to let me quit?
- Question: I sent an email and the person replied, but the message body is empty?
- Question: Lied to me? Ignoring me?
- Question: How do I act normal in this situation?
- Question: How come my classmates are still mean to me, but not my friend?
- Question: Should we invite our so called friend to our outing?
- Question: Should I Ignore This Guy?
- Question: I don't know how to talk about myself?
- Question: My friend vandalised my car?!?
- Question: My kik app was deleted by my friend as a joke and all of my conversations/contacts are now gone?!?!?!?!?
- Question: How to get friends?
- Question: Is it okay to hang with a friend at their house out in the middle of nowhere?
- Question: Is it weird to say hi to your friends parents in public?
- Question: What to I do about this?
- Question: I think my friends hate me?? Why are they acting so weird?
- Question: Emotional friend in love. What did I do?
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| Question: I have a weed-related dilemma. Help? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 05:24 PM PDT So I started smoking weed about two months ago. A friend I met at college introduced me to it and he told me if I ever wanted any, that I should let him know. Essentially, he'll become my supplier. For the last two months, we've been smoking weed almost every day together, obviously once we've finished coursework etc. Now that college has finished, I want to be able to continue smoking weed. I would contact my friend, or 'supplier', but now he expects to smoke the weed I buy, with me. Now, don't get me wrong, I enjoy smoking with him, but I would like to be able to sit in my room, by myself, getting high. Has anyone got any tips? |
| Question: Is it stupid my friend unfriended me on Facebook for this reason? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 05:22 PM PDT I'm not a muslim and neither are any parts of my family but I am friends with my mom on facebook and my mom is friends with a muslim family as well that I friended some of them to because I know them. A friend of mine was wondering where all these mutual muslim friends were coming from in his recommended list and unfriended me for it. |
| Question: 18 year old makes me feel scared and threatened? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 05:22 PM PDT This kid just graduated high school and he s 18. I go to the skatepark a lot. And he s always there. And most of my friends hang out with him. I didn t know he had a problem with me until yesterday. I went to go sit down with my friends. And the 18 year old kept saying go away go away. I ignore him and sit down anyways. I ask does anyone have a skate tool he stands up and yells did you not ******* hear me. Get the **** away. And slaps my bolts I had for my skateboard out my hand. I walk Away and he comes up to me and tells me and my other friends. You guys talking **** huh. We tell him no. He then says if I ever hear your ******* talking ****. He then eyes us out. And leaves. But like I hate how he s trying to act tough to a bunch of freshmans. |
| Question: What do you do with a back stabber traitor? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 05:17 PM PDT |
| Question: My friend's boyfriend is mad? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 05:01 PM PDT So... this is basically what happened. My friend posted a picture of her on instagram and I commented that her boyfriend didn't like the post yet, where is he. I didn't say his name because both of them told me to keep it low key. I had a code name for him and my friend and I had a very long conversation about him in the Instagram comment section of her post. I thought it was subtle. He texted me a few hours later saying "why the **** would you talk about me" because his friends started sending him screenshots of the conversation. And I DO agree that maybe we shouldn't have talked about him, but he told me to delete the comments in a VERY rude way. Either way, I took the situation calmly and deleted all my comments. He told me "he's not mad" even though he basically yelled at me. Please note we do not know each other. We know each other maybe 2 percent out of 100. I told him I feel bad and I apologized and told him I won't do it in the future. I feel so bad and angry that I'm SHAKING right now. I texted my friend about the whole situation, but she isn't responding. I feel like crap, but I'm also very angry at him cause he had the nerve to yell at me and lash out and tell me off rudely to delete the comments. I do understand his point and why he is angry, but he shouldn't take it out on me. I don't know what to do... I'm scared, I feel bad although I apologized and deleted everything... |
| Question: Ok, how to unfriend someone annoying? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 04:59 PM PDT PlpOk, so this kid "Bob" (wont use real name) is seriously annoying me. He acts different, haves a really high voice and he keeps touching me. He keeps following me, asking to be my friend when he is only just the new kid. Everytime we have a group assignment or its recess, he wants to hang out with me. I have more friends then him, and when ever I say no he throws a 3rd grade fit. He keeps telling me to stick up for him. He keep saying that people keep bullying him but that because people told him to stay away from them and he continued. So I told him to leave me alone, and the next day he not only bothered me but grabbed my hand and pulled me with over to a corner in front of everyone. He is trying to ruin my school rep. His mom is a staff at the school to. I found out we are both going to the summer camp and he continues to embarrass me! How to I tell him to go away? |
| Question: What to do in the summer? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 04:55 PM PDT Instead of just staying home every day on the computer playing games and watching TV. Its also the summer. I am super introverted with lack of social skills and cognitive skills.What is there to do in the summer when you have rarely anybody to hang out with? No gf or friends because of this. One thing that's in my mind is working out but i quit my gym membership a month ago due to my social anxiety so i just bought dumbbells to workout at home. Another thing is going to school to study my community college career major which is I.T. HELP? Any suggestions to do something FUN in the summer? Give a whole list of things. I am 20 years old almost 21. |
| Question: Why do i feel so guilty about a made up story i told people? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 04:45 PM PDT Alright, i as a person hate attention, so i did not do this because im an attention seeker About 6 months ago one of my friends straight up asked me infront of about 10 other friends (some of which i barely knew at the time) if i had any embarrasing sex stories. (I dont have ANY sex stories as of yet let alone embarrasing ones). Im not an ugly guy or even an awkward guy, so it wouldnt be obvious that ive never had sex. But instead of saying no, i came up with a story involving craigslist, which everyone brought, i always felt too bas to admit that it wasnt true, as i feel they will see me in a different way. Now, 6 months later i still havent told anyone its fake and feel really guilty, what do you think i should do? |
| Question: Why do i feel like my grandma hates me? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 04:43 PM PDT is it bc she old now?? or bc she cars about me or what? i didnt see her for 4 years.. and its really awkward.. she compares me to my older cousin who is a dr and is skinny, tall, pretty.. she says "your cousin has really long legs, tall" "shes so smart" "everyone loves her" and to me "you have no facial expressions" "you are too quiet" "you have no friends so you are unfortunate" and she kinda.. bullys me? she thinks i cant speak korean and im really good at it so she says something and later says "you dont even know what i said right?" and.. idk what to say to that bc im better at korean then english bc most of my friends are korean and cant speak enlgih but im just really shy so i dont really talk.. she also compares me to my younger cousin "jsut go.. your cousin is so energectic and you dont even react" and when i told her what i wanted to do in the future (which is design) she stareted telling me stories about how my granpa and my ancestors were alllllll drs and that they were alll smart.. so i should study hard and think about being a dr.. she didnt reall seem happy.. she barely complements me.. and when i first saw her, she seemed dissapointed about how i grew... i guess im ugly.. |
| Question: Is it embarrassing that i'm 21 and my Mom is my best friend? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 04:41 PM PDT we go shopping and out for drinks together.. she is my favorite person to hangout with! |
| Question: How hard is it to be friends with your crush? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 04:30 PM PDT I imagine if you have major social anxiety it can be very hard due to fear of offending the person by what you say or how you look and feeling stricken by your physical desire for them and that detracting from just having regular conversation about topics. I also imagine if your crush is dating someone else than being friend with them can feel difficult unless you are a low maintenance person who likes to do stuff alone and can handle large periods of time without your friend around and not letting your jealousy allow you to feel a sense of betrayal since being friends with them and picking their brain on stuff gives you much satisfaction without being romantically involved. |
| Question: Guys Is He Interested? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 04:06 PM PDT He's been nice to me, asked to send me study materials to help for my exam, caught him staring, texted me with random excuses(like did my grandma make it upstairs ok? like call your grandma lol) then asked to go out for sushi after my exam. HIs grandma and I live in the same apts and he comes here 3 days a week, a year ago I got impatient and called him out on beating around the bush and said a guy w/ a gf couldn't be interested in me, he said he was being friendly and has a gf he's happy with. But the secret stares and the coming around, started dressing nicely since the fight could it mean something else? Also before we got into a fight, He asked one day when giving me gym advice "dont you have a bf to teach you all this?"He asked one day when giving me gym advice "dont you have a bf to teach you all this?" |
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| Question: How to gain confidence? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 03:47 PM PDT I am a 22 yr old male. I'm currently at University, going to graduate within a year. Lately I have been thinking about girls a whole lot. I never have had a girlfriend, never dated and am still a virgin. I want to experience something new and obviously want to experience a relationship. Since I don't have experience, I don't know how to approach girls. Some of them are intimidating and it's just hard for me to go up to them. I'm a little shy, but I'm coming out of my shell. If I see a girl that I like, how do o go up to her? Also is it weird to just go up to a girl you don't know? I'll appreciate any tips you have. |
| Question: My friend's boyfriend is mad? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 03:45 PM PDT So... this is basically what happened. My friend posted a picture of her on instagram and I commented that her boyfriend didn't like the post yet, where is he. I didn't say his name because both of them told me to keep it low key. I had a code name for him and my friend and I had a very long conversation about him. I thought it was subtle. He texted me a few hours later saying "why the **** would you talk about me" because his friends started sending him screenshots of the conversation. And I DO agree that maybe we shouldn't have talked about him, but he told me to delete the comments in a VERY rude way. Either way, I took the situation calmly and deleted all my comments. He told me "he's not mad" even though he basically yelled at me. Please note we do not know each other. We know each other maybe 2 percent out of 100. I told him I feel bad and I apologized and told him I won't do it in the future. I feel so bad and angry that I'm SHAKING right now. I texted my friend about the whole situation, but she isn't responding. I feel like crap, but I'm also very angry at him cause he had the nerve to yell at me and lash out and tell me off rudely to delete the comments. I do understand his point and why he is angry, but he shouldn't take it out on me. I don't know what to do... I'm scared, I feel bad although I apologized and deleted everything... |
| Question: If a girl does this kind of stuff? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 03:42 PM PDT when I was walking with my friend I saw the girl I liked there so I looked at her & then I looked away & i looked away so then later when she walked past us I looked down & she said hi but i didn't say hi my friend did so then later I saw her looking at me I should of said hi |
| Posted: 24 Jun 2016 03:34 PM PDT I'm 18 male out of high school decent good looking guy the reason i have no friends and social life is because well i'm out of high school and not in college yet and my hs friends are gone i'm literally my life is inside the apartment playing videogames etc... How do i make friends? Where do i go to meet friends and single girls ? Because i want some sex my hormones demand it? I am WASTING MY YOUTH . And also People say online to join clubs etc or book stores and your hobbies so do i just go talk and approach people what do i say??? And really what i want is friends but my main one is sex with a girl thats why i use friends |
| Question: 18 year old messing with me and im 15? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 03:32 PM PDT This kid just graduated high school and he s 18. I go to the skatepark a lot. And he s always there. And most of my friends hang out with him. I didn t know he had a problem with me until yesterday. I went to go sit down with my friends. And the 18 year old kept saying go away go away. I ignore him and sit down anyways. I ask does anyone have a skate tool he stands up and yells did you not ******* hear me. Get the **** away. And slaps my bolts I had for my skateboard out my hand. I walk Away and he comes up to me and tells me and my other friends. You guys talking **** huh. We tell him no. He then eyes us out. And leaves. But like I hate how he s trying to act tough to a bunch of freshmans. Who just turned sophomores. Anything I can do? |
| Question: Friend wants to meet a guy she met online? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 03:25 PM PDT so my friend asked me to go to the mall with her at some point, and then a couple hours later told me she just got a bf and that he wants to join us. i didnt have a problem with that, but then she told me that he randomly messaged her on ig and they started texting through some app about 2 weeks ago. she never videochatted with him or even spoke on the phone. im a bit worried about this because she could be getting catfished by some creep. i dont want her to go alone, but then again i dont really wanna go either bc its kinda dangerous even though its in a public setting anything can happen. we are only 17 too so its not like we are adults. idk she doesnt think that its a fake and she says she likes him a lot. is there anything i can do here? i was thinking about getting a pic of him and searching it into google but idk. should i just go along with this? what do you guys think? |
| Question: What to do about fake friends? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 03:22 PM PDT |
| Question: HOW CAN I STOP BEING SO AWKWARD ?!? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 03:20 PM PDT I'm 15 and I've never had a friendship what wasn't awkward. I don't know what's wrong with me. I feel like a freak. I don't hug my friends, I don't tell them I love them and I don't get personal with them. I would love to but there's something stopping me and I hate it. I feel scared to call friends cause I feel that if they don't pick up, they're ignoring me cause I'm annoying. I don't get why but my brain just makes up crazy assumptions. I barely hang out with friends because I know I'll be awkward. I'm sick of it. how can I just get rid of the awkwardness? it's holding me back from creating amazing memories with my friends. please help me. |
| Question: Maria you think that you laugh at me,funny how much i laugh at you fat loser? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 03:10 PM PDT |
| Question: I don't really like my friends...? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 03:01 PM PDT I dont like my friends anymore i only hangout with them 1-2 times a week BECAUSE i don't like the feeling of having NO friends and being lonely... can anyone relate? my freiends literally annoy me and its not like i can go make a whole new friend circle not asking for advice just asking if anyone relates? |
| Question: How/should I keep in touch with my friends? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 02:59 PM PDT So I have three really close friends and I am going to be at Music camp for the next two weeks and I was on vacation last week. I want to keep in touch with my friends but I don't think they want to keep in touch with me. I'm the one who calls and who texts mostly and they don't want to skype. Phone conversations are typically shorter than they are when we hang out every other day and we don't have as much to talk about. One of my close friends is spending most of the summer at my other close friends house and I feel like I'm missing out on a lot. My other friend I have no trouble with, but she doesn't have a phone so we can't talk as much. Do I keep in touch with them or not, and if so how Im in highschool and I have social anxiety |
| Question: Should I change the date of my birthday party or change the plan? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 02:51 PM PDT My birthday is in the 4th of July, which sounds great, but it s actually a downer. I originally planned to go out to lunch with two of my closest friends. Since my friends and I ate all still "kids," we can t really make our own decisions. I was going to follow my original plan, but I have more than too good/close friends and would love to have their company on my birthday. I asked my parents if I can have a pool party instead of going out for lunch. I don t usually have my parties on my birthday, but this year my parents insisted on doing so. I sent out the invites and so far, the only two people who are available are the ones that I planned on having lunch with. What should I do? The people that are unavailable have asked me to change the date, but I feel like it s too late for that (especially since I already booked the pavilion at our pool.) Thanks for your advice in advance! |
| Question: How do people make new friends? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 02:49 PM PDT I'm only in my mid-twenties, but people don't make friends the way they used to a few years ago. Nobody wants to talk to anyone, everyone seems suspicious of each other. People are buried in their phones, and if you can peel their attention away for even a minute, they can't hold a conversation. So how do people make friends? |
| Posted: 24 Jun 2016 02:28 PM PDT All because I got penetrated by one of my gay guy friends and then told my friends about how I loved it. I showed everyone the camera when I filmed it with a meta-camera. The camera was right there! It's just a prank, bro. It's just comedy. It's f*cking funny. That's why it's okay! I'm sure they'll know it was a prank STD if my medical results are positive. |
| Question: Is my best friend being an jerk or am I in the wrong? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 02:17 PM PDT Hi I need help. I have a best friend who I ve known for about 8 years. But recently he has been saying kinda hurtful things and when I bring it up he kinda blames me for it. Can any of you give me some advice on who is in the wrong. Thank you. Here is the most recent conversation that we had today over Facebook Messenger: http://robotsvsdinosaurs.tumblr.com/post/146420973207/this-is-what-happens-when-i-try-to-help-out-my |
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| Question: What to do with a friend who sucks at texting? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 02:08 PM PDT We made plans to hang out tonight 4-5 days ago. We said we would get dinner and go to this festival. I texted her at like 11 this morning saying to meet me at 6 tonight. All day no answer. I tried calling a few times and no answer. I left my brothers to come home and get ready at 430 and planned to leave at 530. Its now 5 and she finally repliesd saying 6 was too soon and im pretty sure she doesn't want to hangout til much later. Im annoyed cause this isnt the . first time its taken her hours to respond and then at the last minute she has to postpone for a few hours and im left waiting. |
| Question: My life is not worth living anymore? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 01:50 PM PDT I'm 18 year male. I have no friends with who I can go out and at least drink a coffee. I have no girlfriend, and I never had one, everytime I meet a girl, we get close, and just when I think "She's mine", something happens and we don't talk anymore.... My father died a few weeks ago.. He wasn't really a good dad btw, he was a drunkard who I sometimes wanted him to really die, but I wasn't really happy when he actually did..... I can't workout anymore, cause of my heart problem, and those fu*king doctors say "it's nothing to worry about", I can't fu*king take this anymore, what ever I do, it goes fu*king wrong, nothing good has ever happened in my entire, I'm no one, I don't have anyone I can tell him this, I'm fu*king lonely, I wonder how to spend every day of my fu*king miserable life......... Is this life worth living? |
| Question: Will I change after HS? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 01:35 PM PDT I graduated HS yesterday and yeah I'm relieved I am moving on but also have regret and scared for my future. I had like 10 people sign my yearbook so you can see I was a loner in HS. I try to be positive about myself but it gets to me how I never really had close friends in HS and just hanged out more with people outside my school or my family. I never got girls or went to a HS party. I try to do activities outside of school but still struggle with social skills and being confident. I was looking forward to college earlierbrhisbyear and now I am looking forward for it now. Can I change at being a little more social and confident in myself. I still want to be humble and queit but not like I was in HS. I |
| Question: Some advice for guns? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 01:32 PM PDT So I put my rifle in a bird cage since it was going away from home and doing dangerous things to people. It is really upset with me, so upset that it won't even touch it's water or food! What do I do? I'm really worried. |
| Posted: 24 Jun 2016 01:28 PM PDT Long story short,she was an immigrant from a third world country..Her husband married her in "arranged marraige"..brought her here and later she discovered,he had an affair..went to divorce....and now staying here .. She works part-time in my company...Recently,she met this another immigrant guy from her country and they hit off...I was initially happy for her but later i learnt that he convinced her to sleep with 3 of his friends... Worst part is that she considers this to be rebelling against her traditional parents and her cheating husband that she doesn't understand she's being taken advantage by a creep... I want her to get married again with a good man before she loses her youth and not sleeping around..She doesn't have much skills and the only source of income is her alimony and the part-time money she gets... She can't go back to her own country if her relatives know what she's doing here...She's too sweet and innocent a girl that It would break my heart if something bad happens to her |
| Question: Does This Guy Secretly Like Me? How Can I find out? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 01:21 PM PDT He's been nice to me, asked to send me study materials to help for my exam, caught him staring, texted me with random excuses(like did my grandma make it upstairs ok? like call your grandma lol) then asked to go out for sushi after my exam. HIs grandma and I live in the same apts and he comes here 3 days a week, a year ago I got impatient and called him out on beating around the bush and said a guy w/ a gf couldn't be interested in me, he said he was being friendly and has a gf he's happy with. But the secret stares and the coming around, started dressing nicely since the fight could it mean something else? Also before we got into a fight, He asked one day when giving me gym advice "dont you have a bf to teach you all this?"He asked one day when giving me gym advice "dont you have a bf to teach you all this?" |
| Question: I might like my brothers ex best friend, is that weird? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 01:01 PM PDT My brother and let's say Jason became best friends in Kindergarten. He lived close to my house and over the summer we always swam in his pool. I never found it weird that i would always invite myself over and he didn't care either. We went to the beach, always hung out and carpooled until 8th grade when they stopped being friends because Jason was having family issues and took his anger out on my brother. He was mean to him and made him sad, but after a year apart they don't talk but they are on ok terms. It seems that Jason grew a few inches in a year, thinned out and...got hotter. I never liked him when they were friends but, would it be weird if I had a crush on him now, after knowing him for 9 years? |
| Question: How do you resolve issues with a competitive friend? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 12:52 PM PDT I have a very close friend who I love dearly. In many ways our relationship is very healthy. I consider us to be very similar in terms of attractiveness and general interests. Perhaps this is where the issue lies. There are times when she explicitly comments on her beauty and specifically comments on having wonderful physical features that I am a little insecure about or lack all together. There are other times in group settings where she plays up her knowledge of music by acting like she knows more than me. How do I address these concerns without losing my friend? |
| Question: Why do people with strict parents tend to act differently outside of school? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 12:42 PM PDT It seems to me that some people I know (most of them are in high school) who have strict parents turn out to do the bad stuff. Like drinking and going to parties with their friends. Based on what they told me, their parents allow them to do these things as long they're "okay". Why do they feel the need to act this way? Any ideas? I hope this make sense, lol. |
| Question: I'm scared of my best friend?? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 12:36 PM PDT So basically I'm scared of one of my best friends that I've known since I was 3. She's always been the boss and the 'popular' one. I think I might annoy her because she sometimes gives me this dirty look. She's never said anything mean to me face to face and I haven't been told she's been speaking about me behind my back which she does to everyone btw. I kind of feel like her personal slave for walking home and to school. We have a good laugh and we speak basically everyday. But somehow I'm still scared of her. P.s I have anxiety but it's starting to reduce as I told my friends I have it. Please help me, thanks |
| Question: Is this a form of child abuse? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 12:31 PM PDT Ok so I'm 13. My parents are really strict and don't let me do anything. For example I can't go to birthday parties, have friends come over to my birthday parties, go to the park, can't go to my friends house(despite the fact that she's literally less then 2 minutes away by walking), go to the movies, go to a sleepover, have a sleepover, and if my friend does come over we have to stay in the driveway. So I usally just go on my phone, and my parents get mad because I'm on my phone all day but what do they expect me to do?! I get that they're trying to protect me but this is taking it way to far. Isn't this like social isolation or something like that? |
| Question: Should I censor nudity in my college film project? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 12:29 PM PDT I'm in a college class for film making, and for our project right now, we 'have' to do a film that features nudity of some sort. Have is in parenthesis because students can opt out if they feel uncomfortable with the project. I don't like the alternative project offered, so I'm stuck with the film with nudity. Since you only have to be naked on screen for at least 15 seconds, I've decided the scene will be myself simply waking up, stripping for a shower, toweling myself off afterwards, and getting dressed. My college professor is super cool, so he gives us the option to present our film in front of the class for extra credit. I messed up on my last project, so I really want to make up those points I lost. So with the super long introduction out of the way, how much nudity should I show? There's no restraints, so I could go full frontal for everyone to see, I could do clever camera placement so you can't see anything but you can easily tell I'm naked. I could also easily put objects in front of the camera that cleverly cover any genitalia. Should I ask classmates what they're doing? I've held back asking them about it because I could see why they might be uncomfortable with someone asking them how naked they're gonna be with their project lol. I'm comfortable with anything, if it means my classmates have to see my penis on screen for all of the points possible, I'm willing to do it, so overall, what would you do from a film making perspective and a student perspective? |
| Posted: 24 Jun 2016 12:24 PM PDT |
| Question: How can I convince my mom to let me quit? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 12:06 PM PDT Okay so it s June 24th right now and I have color guard band camp the last week in July as the first week in August. I thought I wanted to do it but now I realize I don t want to waste my summer at 15 on that. Also, it s going to be super hot in the area I live in. The people on the guard don t like me that much either. I have one friend in it and some are nice but the captain is extremely mean and my mom knows this. I really want to quit like these two twins did so they could do dance. I really want to do cross country because it interests me more and I have more friends doing it. My mom had already payed one deposit but I think I can get a refund and if not I could just pay her the $70 back. We re talking this is an outdoor practice from 8-7 every day for two weeks straight in 90+ weather without many breaks and I m not that good anyways so it s not like it will hurt the team. I just need to convince my mom? Any ideas on what I could say to her? I know she doesn t want me to quit because it ll teach me I can quit things but I really don t want it bringing me gpa down either plus my stress level going up:( also, how should I bring this up to my band director? (She s also in charge of color guard) Thanks! P.s- I m also kinda worried if the other girls will start rumors about me and pick on me if I quit but it s my life so at the point I honestly don t care. Thanks! |
| Question: I sent an email and the person replied, but the message body is empty? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 11:49 AM PDT Does anyone know what happened? |
| Question: Lied to me? Ignoring me? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 11:43 AM PDT My female friend and I have always been very close. I have always been there for her with everything, but nothing more than a friend, and she knows I truly care about her. She just started ignoring me out of the blue, and I asked her why and what was wrong. It took her a day to answer back saying she wasn't ignoring me but that she just hasn't been talking to other people. Thing is, I tasked another female friend to just talk to her, and she responded instantly. She's posting on social media, and so on, but barely responds to me, ignores my messages until the day after or the end of the day. I feel like she just can't say she wants to stop being friends to my face. I care about her, and want her in my life, but what would you do with a friend like that? I |
| Question: How do I act normal in this situation? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 11:42 AM PDT It was the day before my sister's birthday, so she had a sleepover with a few friends in the basement and my friend asked me to record their conversations, so I was typing down the weird things they said, it had been a few hours and I was sitting on the stairs and suddenly one of her friends walks up the stairs and sees me. I run for my life, and then I'm in my room and I fall asleep. My mom walks in when I wake up and tells me, "Your sister told me that you were sitting on the stairs at 4 AM." Then I get yelled at. What should I do when my sister tells my whole family tonight at dinner? (I know she will, she's that type of person.) |
| Question: How come my classmates are still mean to me, but not my friend? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 11:41 AM PDT So I recently moved to a new high school in San Francisco. I am from California, but moved to San Francisco with my family. Now there was this girl from Canada who recently moved to the same school as me. But they seemed more interested in her, but not me. Why is that? |
| Question: Should we invite our so called friend to our outing? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 11:39 AM PDT Ok so we've known this girl since childhood and she's changed so much but not for the better. She acts like a brat and her mom is a *****. My best friend and I planned a lunch outing for tomorrow and somehow this girl found out about it. We dont know since neither of us told her and she texted me and asked me if she can join us since she hasn't seen us in a long time. We dont know what to say to her and we don't want any drama. I don't want to be mean to her because then she'll get upset and her mom will lash out at us. My friend said it doesn't matter what her mom thinks. What should we tell this girl and should we invite her? My best friend told me, "Just tell her maybe next time and tell her that my family invited me." |
| Question: Should I Ignore This Guy? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 11:37 AM PDT He's been nice to me, asked to send me study materials to help for my exam, caught him staring, texted me with random excuses(like did my grandma make it upstairs ok? like call your grandma lol) then asked to go out for sushi after my exam. HIs grandma and I live in the same apts and he comes here 3 days a week, a year ago I got impatient and called him out on beating around the bush and said a guy w/ a gf couldn't be interested in me, he said he was being friendly and has a gf he's happy with. But the secret stares and the coming around, started dressing nicely since the fight could it mean something else? Also before we got into a fight, He asked one day when giving me gym advice "dont you have a bf to teach you all this?"He asked one day when giving me gym advice "dont you have a bf to teach you all this?" |
| Question: I don't know how to talk about myself? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 11:34 AM PDT |
| Question: My friend vandalised my car?!? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 11:02 AM PDT Ok so my friend got in a fight with these guys in a parking lot and she got beat up. (I wasn't there) The guys damaged her car pretty bad by hitting it with sledgehammer. She told me if I could lend her some money and I told her I didn't have any money. She got really mad and said "do you know how it feels to get your car busted!!!". Then she got off the car and she grabbed a huge rock and slammed the front window. I turned on the car and left her behind because she was dangerous to be around.. do you guys think what she did was right and what should I do to her? |
| Posted: 24 Jun 2016 11:01 AM PDT I mean seriously what the actual ****? All of my contacts are gone...I had so many important messages. Why did this happen? I already know theres basically no chance in hell of me getting them back but why did they get deleted? is it because I was logged in when the app got deleted? |
| Posted: 24 Jun 2016 11:00 AM PDT |
| Question: Is it okay to hang with a friend at their house out in the middle of nowhere? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 10:56 AM PDT |
| Question: Is it weird to say hi to your friends parents in public? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 10:55 AM PDT I'm going to a fundraiser at my old school tomorrow to help raise funds for a project they are working on. I know some of my old friends' (I've lost touch with most of them) parents might be there helping. Would it be considered weird or rude if I said "Hello Mr/s.soandso" or just said hi or should I just wave? Or do neither and ignore them? |
| Question: What to I do about this? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 10:41 AM PDT I'm 14 There was a girl in my class and I helped her with a few assignments and her homework. She was the teachers favorite and she was super shy. I never really talked to her or anything unless I was forced to. Her mom was one of those annoying soccer moms who try to be friends with all the kids. She would volunteer in the class. Somehow she knew my name and she would treat me like I was mentally disabled or something. I tried to become friends with this girl named ally and I found out that the other girls mom had told her mom over text that my best friend and I had mental problems and were lesbians?!I'm not against lesbians or gays but I'm certainly straight and so is my best friend. We both have had boyfriends! Ally's mom stood up for us. In 7th grade ally and us stopped talking. Ally became friends with the girl and now they both are popular and give me the death stare. Whenever I get expensive clothes like them they comment on it and tell me I've changed. she ignored me all year and talked to me like I was out of her league and stupid. So did ally. Aparantely the girl also tells people that I bit her on the arm in 6th grade still. All of her friends randomly hate me and treat me like I'm retarded. I don't even hang out with any of them or know any of them. It really hurts my feelings because the parents also are treating me like this. I'm 14, the same age as them. I'm in honors classes and I don't understand why they treat me like I'm 9. |
| Question: I think my friends hate me?? Why are they acting so weird? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 10:37 AM PDT So my friends have always hung out without me sometimes which i guess im used to by now. But i finally made plans with them and then the friend who was having everyone over texted us saying she doesnt think it can happen because she has a stomach ache. Granted, she says its so bad she can barely move but this is EIGHT HOURS BEFORE OUR PLANS! And shes already cancelled?? Its SOOO frustrating |
| Question: Emotional friend in love. What did I do? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 10:26 AM PDT My best friend Jackie painted this canvas painting, a final project for her art class. However some guys destroyed it. Jackie was being bullied by some douchebag hitting on her. He even made her cry. She refused them, pissed them off, and as payback the guy massacred her painting. Needless to say Jackie got depressed and trashed it, giving up entirely. I felt so bad for her that I dug the painting out and did my best to piece it together. I'm no artist, did the best I could, and gave it back. Jackie ended up getting a passing grade at least, and she was happy again. But then later things got emotional! Jackie takes me aside blushing like crazy then starts saying what I did was the sweetest thing ever to her. And then how lucky she is to be friends. Before I know it Jackie hugs me and gives me a super emotional kiss (I'm male just so you know). It came out of nowhere. Now she's like being super affectionate and doesn't want to leave my side. I don't get it. What happened? I wanted to help, but I can't be a boyfriend for her! |
| Question: How can I avoid this person trying to take advantage of my kindness ? Posted: 24 Jun 2016 10:26 AM PDT I started a six week class two weeks ago. I sat next to a woman who seemed friendly at first. However, gradually I noticed that she was being rather nosey. I gave her short answers or vague answers. Recently she was asking me where I was from. Normal enough. I told her what area I was from but then she inquired about what area in particular and started rounding off specific areas. It isn't a big area and I thought it was kind of weird. I recall telling her once about the details of a test that we would all be eventually taking. But after that I noticed that she would ask for help a lot in class because for some she had a hard time paying attention. Actually she talked too much. Her notebook, quite frankly, was a mess and I finally told her to ask the teacher for help. Around this time she started asking me to do things like because I was sitting closer to a wall socket, she asked me once to plug in her phone charger. I told her she was being lazy but agreed to help. Then another day she was asking me if she could give herself medication in the classroom. I told her I don't think anyone would care. When she was finished she flipped through her notebook while talking to someone next to her and asked me to place all seven to ten bottles of perscription pills into a plastic bag for her. |
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