She's moving for college soon and said she lost feelings but when I asked her she said that she wouldn't do long distance unless it was perfect from the start. I guess I just feel like I ruined that opportunity with stuff from even before the mess up that I admitted , Cause she said that was the "old you". Like even about the stuff before the mess up. She told me from the start that she didn't believe in long distance but still. I feel like I ruined the opportunity with even stuff from before the fight. Cause she said "that was the old you so it doesn't matter" so I feel like it was my fault that it wasn't near perfection from the start even before the fight

I'm asking how to get over her body and looks. In my mind she has the best butt ever. I can't stop thinking this way for some reason. I never pressured her into sex and it never happened and I defiantly wasn't dating her for that. But it bothers me now. I got counseling for the personality part of it. She broke up with me 2 months ago btw.

dude named Micah, which I met. He is a bit older than me, and he was a tour guide at a boat tour of the Everglades. The first second I saw him stepping out from an office room, I felt love at first site. He was so dreamy. His hair was so smooth and his body was really muscular. He also has really good tattoos on his arms. When he introduced himself and explained all the rules, I stared at his private area the whole time. When me and the people stepped on the boat, I sat next to the driver seat, where Micah sat. He actually sat next to me and I had the best orgasm ever. I kept staring at his hunky face and I put hand on my vaginal area. The whole entire boat tour, people were looking at the swamps of the Everglades, while I was looking at his face, butt, and penis. He didn't notice, though. When the hour long boat your ended, I followed him to the office and he asked what I was doing there. "You're hot" I replied. I told him the hotel I was staying and room number. He told me that I need to leave and went to a room. I ran bang on the door but my family was waiting for me. All night, I kept dreaming that he was raping me. I tried to looked at the hotels phone book but it his name wasn't there. I convinced my mom to take me back to that place and convince Micah to go home to Indiana with me, but he declined. I told him that he can sleep with me on the bed and he will be happy every night. I told mom that I'm going to stay in Florida until I die so I can stay with Micah forever. My mom said we had to leave, so I did. I'm back in Indiana right now and I felt really depressed. I cut my self while thinking of him. I got into a hunger strike until mom will take me back to Florida and date him. The other day, I actually tried to run away and go to Florida to see him. There was this day I called the boat tour company and asked Micah's information but they won't let me. To this day, people hate me, they think I'm weird but I still can't get over it. I want him to love me U I'm really suicidal right now because I really want to meet him again. Mom already book a trip to New York but I tried to convince her that we should go to Florida again So I can date Micah. This is really driving me crazy. I have a **** tons of picture I took of him and they are hanging on my wall, and all the pictures covered my walls. I a, going insane and I want to commit suicide because I can't see him anymore. I don't want to date anyone else because ppl in Indiana are stupid and ugly!

Ive been kind of wondering about this since yesterday. I usually go to this church on friday nights thats really close to my place. about 2 blocks away, kind of 4 since i have to walk around so i can cross at streetlights. Anyways, it was raining a little bit when I left so i took an umbrella with me, i shouldve taken another one cause the sticks in them can fall apart but i thought it was okay since i had put them back together. It started to thunder and then it was getting really windy and raining harder, the wind started to break my umbrella apart and i was getting all wet. I tried to just hold it over my head so i wouldnt get wet. then when i was holding on to it and i was about a block away all of a sudden I see this guy coming over to me and just hands me an umbrella. Just out of the blue. I thanked him for it and gave him mine and told him if he wanted to he could put the sticks back and use it. I have never seen this guy before and probably never will again. It just happened so fast. It took me by surprise too but ive wondered if i ran into a guy that was just being nice or into a person that was really an angel. I did keep the umbrella too since it works better anyways and it makes a nice souvenier. so who did i really run into? any ideas? it just seemed so unusual. it did stop raining on my walk back . Anyone ever have this happen to them? I mightve encountered one other times as well. like when i fell in the ice and someone helped me up.

Ok so me and this girl started out perfect for eachother, we got along so well at first. We couldn't stay broken up for more than 5 minutes seriously. As the relationship progressed her flaws started to leak through and she showed the manipulative, lying, insecure, accusing female she could be. But I love her and didn't want to lose her. The thing that confuses me the most is that when we break up & are reluctant to get back together, we get along better than when we're in a relationship. She becomes so sweet & loving like when we first started dating & she just looks better even though she dresses the same where's the same make up. Why is all this? Whenever we're working to get back together it feels like it did when we first started dating, and it feels amazing but why though? We have been together for a year & a half if it helps any.

My boyfriend often pressures me into having sex when I really don't want to. He tries t make me feel guilty by saying things while referring to me in the third person such as "Deja doesn't want me" and "Deja thinks I'm gross otherwise she would have sex with me" - and it is just he and I in the room. Is it wrong for me to think that it is unfair and even rude of him to do this?

My gf is always lying to me about everything. She lied about getting tested for stds. She lied about how many people she's been with. She told me that 3 years ago her ex kidnapped her and raped her. Then she came out and told me that was a lie. Then she told me that between the ages of 6 and 12 her older brother raped her over 1000 times while her mom took pictures and her other brother watched, I grew up with these people so I flipped on them. Then after that she told me that she made it all up. She let me believe this for a few weeks before she told me the truth. Then she told me that her mom beats her, which turned out to be a lie because she admitted to it. Her aunt was very I'll the other night so my gf went to visit her. She came back and said her aunt is gone and she witnessed death that night... 2 days later her aunt died. She told me that she didn't realize that she lied about that.. She literally has lied about everything she told me so far... What do I do??? I want to be with her but I don't know what to do about all the lying

I'm a 24 year old female. Ive been in a relationship for five years and we have two children together. He has cheated and had another baby but I moved on from that and we continued our relationship. Now he's just acting like a complete asshole as if I wasn't there for him when no one wasn't . This hurts so bad and I can't deal with it emotionally.

Im a loner I need love, no one understands me. I feel like stabbing myself so bad. I need a girlfriend. Im not attractive. Why me?!?! Im ******* tired. I need HELP!!!!!!! Guess ill go cut myself

A little over a year ago during sophomore year of high school I got kicked out of my house. I moved in with my then girlfriend who was also the same age as me. We were both 16, 17 now. Her dad never wanted me to stay there I feel like but her mom always seemed to have a soft spot for me and she let me stay there. For reasons I don't want to discuss I made her brother and dad very mad about a month ago. They said some hurtful things to me and I ended up leaving. My dad let me come back home. I told my gf I still wanted to be with her but it's not healthy for me to live there. She said she couldn't do it if I'm not living with her anymore. I ignored her for about a. Week. She blew my phone up and finally I started to miss her. We've been broken up about a month. I've tried begging her to come back with no avail. She will return my calls and texts but says she can't be with me cause of everything that has happened. I was her first love, the first time she had sex and everything. We lived together as teenagers and I dedicated my life to her. I'm going through so much pain right now that she won't hangout with me or anything and I have nobody to talk to. I kind of gave up my previous life when I was with her. I'm confused on why she won't take me back though, she always almost annoyed me when we were together cause she smothered me with love and gave me no space. Idk why now everything's changed. I miss her

If it ends up in the bedroom how do I have sex with her without crushing her? I'm like three times her size.

First off. I'm 22 and 7 inches long by 6 girth. My girlfriend said that im the biggest she's ever had and the best she's ever had. But she always tells me how much better all of her ex's were in bed than me. All the times she's told me those things we weren't fighting. She gave me a list of all the guys she's been with in order from biggest to smallest and I was in the middle of the list, which is fine and all. But then she started going in detail telling me why all of her ex's were better than me. Saying that they were more rough. More violent. Saying that they were huge asf. She said she loves very large object violently ******* her as painful as possible. She said she wanted to guess my size. We've been together for 6 months now. And she guessed that I was 4.5 inches long and told me that 4.5 is huge then she'll say that I'm huge and that she was just kidding... Is she doing this just to piss me off? Or does she actually feel like I'm not good in bed? Been practicing since I was 11. This is the first time I've felt like this. What you guys think??

There was this group of college aged brats who were walking down the street. I thought the heavier set girl was pretty, so I began having a lovely conversation with her. Suddenly her friend began to insult me. She called me a 3/10 and said some other rude things. I finally quit. I said: "Look. You're just jealous that I was hitting on your friend and not you, ugly b*tch." Then comes Sambo. Her black friend comes rushing at me and screams like a hyena: "Why would you say that to a woman?!?!" He got all up in my face and I looked him dead in the eye and told him to throw a punch. He eventually got tired and walked away....like the puss he was. p.s.=== I am black too, but this dude was the kind of brother who simps and panders to white women, even when they have no respect for him. I'm just glad he didn't force me to knock his teeth out.

My crush and I grew up together. He doesn't know I like him, and I have no idea how he feels because he is so inconsistent. It's like he's two different people, the guy that blushes in my presence and goes out of his way to defend, give a smile to, flirt with, confide things to, and hold me. And then there's the guy that doesn't even look at me as if I'm a stranger, seems to consider me less valuable than his friends at school, make me feel like he thinks Im stupid and needy for caring so much, wont go anywhere near me let alone hug me, and lies to or insults me. I never know what guy I'm going to get, and it hurts because I get used to the good guy and then don't know what I did wrong to get the bad guy. I can't even force myself to talk to him anymore, I know I can't compete with the school friends. I feel guilty, because he says his other friends at school accept both sides of him. I want to be accepting, but because I like him, I guess I'm extra sensitive. Why does he act like this?

So i was up on whisper texting a bunch of guys. but the thing is that i went to sleep maybe around 3 or 2:30am then i woke up around 9 today. i scroll through my messages and see that "i supposedly texted them" but it wasnt me i dont think. my step mom comes in and checks on my baby sister since she sleeps with me. i saw messages like when the guy asked how old are you it said "16" but im 15

Today one of the girls might have noticed, cause she was standing next to me, and I was daydreaming about touching her sweet creamy ***. But I think she noticed, I dont know .... I was daydreaming about touching her sweet creamy butt (as s) god dam it yahoo answers,,,, dont block my speech...

Alright Yahoo, need some help with this. I like a girl. We haven't spoken for quite a while, like 10-11 months. Since moving to college we've been separated, timetables and friendship groups etc, and we were never *that* close so don't have each other's number and she doesn't use social media often. I fell for her, just being in lessons, she had an aura about her, attractive and intelligent. Sometimes we'd flirt and we'd have a laugh, sometimes I'd be a nervous shell. Depended on the day and scenario. So everytime I've thought "ask her out go on do it", I've always had a few doubts and I've bottled it every time. But now... I'm a bit more confident. All I need to do is be confident, I'm not the best looking guy, or the tallest but I can guarantee I'd make her happier than anyone else. I'm on very limited time to make a move, so it's just showing that to her, how do I go about it? Thank you

Last night I was looking at who my boyfriend of 9 months follows on Instagram and I saw this one account where all this girl does is pose in her bras and thongs, and sometimes even naked. But she will put emojis over her nipples and crotch area. I was kind of pissed off that he'd be following an account like that when he's dating me. It's kind of perverted, don't you think? I haven't said anything to him about it, and I don't know if I should. Do you think I should? What do I even say? I don't think it's right for him to be following an account like that

Or after telling them to send nude pica and they dont?

I called for a break in my LDR and he agreed. He said he would want to keep in touch a little during this time. I have texted a few times to say hello and he is not responding. The reason I asked for a break is because of his lack of communication recently. He just called and said he was angry that I asked for a break and was seeing my messages but not responding but that he loves me and wanted to give me the space I asked for. We patched things up but I still feel confused about him. Why would a grown man say he wants to stay in touch and then ignore me as punishment for something we both agreed on?

At first sorry for my English. So, I'm 14 years old girl and I have 18 years old boyfriend. It may seem that I'm too child to love someone, and I probably agreed it until I fell in love. I'm not that ordinary teenager that falls in love for someone who is popular or something like that, I've met him accidentally and no matter how much I try I can't describe it all to you. The problem is that he lives in another city, which is not too far away from me, but I need reason to go there. My parents are too strict, they love me just because I'm their daughter and I would rather have them hating me for who I am as a person, then only seeing their daughter in me. I don't know how will they react on that. They are too strict to letting me even go out from home. So I need some advice, tell them or not, how to tell them and so one :') thank you ♥

I work with this girl who Almost always sits in the same spot everytime when I see her on lunchbreak and she always gets to the lunchroom before me. I came in early one day and during lunch I saw her walk into the lunchroom and I can tell that she looked at me and then sat in the table right infront of me

He says I am an abusive girlfriend. I admit I have lied and cheated on him (online, not with real life guys) I lie and I hide things and he says I play games with him and manipulate him. I've never physically hurt him. How do I stop being abusive?

Last night me and my girlfriend were talking and I innocently asked her her fantasy and she said she couldn`t say but after I asked her for like half an hour,she said her fantasy is to make me her slave. She wants to tie me up, put me in a cage and other things I can`t mention. What should I do????

So there is this guy that I am interested in. We had a class together,r and ever since then, have been talking. He would always come up to me in class, or in the halls, and offer to help me. He would also stare when I walked by him, and we d exchange clances across the room. When I started texting him, he asked about when I was leaving, and for how long. Then I finally just said that we should hang out, and he agreed with sure! He then kept the conversation going, and we started to snapchat. He again asked when I was leaving, and when I asked about our "hangout" he s said he wasn t sure but sometime close to a date, because he is out of the country. He then said he would text me about it. My question is is he into me, or is he Moore into being friends.

We got into an argument last Sunday because I got upset with him because he wasn't texting me back. He told me "Stfu... I'm at work... We're busy and I'm tired. Stop texting me please." I agreed to stop texting him. I must've really made him mad because he never tells me to stfu unless we're playing because we play like that, but he was serious this time... I could tell. He's been grouchy, busy and tired lately because of work and I don't like it. He's overworking himself to get his on place. Anyways, I let things cool off and I reached out to him Wednesday because I wanted to apologize for my behavior. I sent him a long, sincere apology and he read it and didn't reply. We haven't talked since Sunday and I miss him so much. I just wanna talk to him :(. We get in a lot of arguments, but he's never gone this long without talking to me. What do I do?

A coworker and I started talking and he has mentioned that he first had a crush on me but now he likes me and that if he was single, we would be dating. Is it possible for a married man to like someone other than his wife? Or is he just saying that to get me into bed?

If a girl you used to flirt with doesn't defriend you from facebook (the only way to communicate each other) once you tell her you started dating someone else. Would you believe she's being needy, like waiting for you or something?

My boyfriend of 2 years (we're both almost 24) have been dating seriously--he actually wants to ask me to marry him after he gets out of college in December & gets a good job. Then we want to try to get married sometime mid- or later next year. Lately we've been talking a lot about how we feel physically toward each other. We've never really talked all that much about it,for as long as we have been. But last night he said that if we do it before we get married, he promised to always be faithful, devoted, & loving toward me from that time forward. Personally I'm one of those girls who wants to wait for marriage; not only to avoid the risks but to keep sex as enjoyable & passionate as possible. It's not only a religious thing. It's a personal thing. And we've talked about that since the beginning of our relationship. So I'm wondering why he'd say he would be devoted & loving & faithful to me? I figured that would sort of be a given & not necessary to say. He's never been one to push me into anything I wasn't ready/willing to do & he's never been one of those people to tell me what I want to hear just to get what he wants. Clearly,/8'ce we've been together for 2 years without having sex . What should I do? I definitely want to keep my promise to myself and (knowing he's watching) reassure him that I don't ever go back on my word, no matter what. Even though it may be difficult at times. He respects me--we took a long time to even work up to the comparatively innocent things we do now (making out, etc.), and he loves me for who I am. Thank you for your advice and input! :)

My mom is mentally ill she's been acting do crazy from stealing lying and she's been breaking up my family I'm only 16 I like in the u.s and I literally don't know what to do everyone just tells me u can't help her if she doesn't want it or wait till u can move out but I wanna help her she used to be nice but she's been using drugs most her life and now its really changing her

There's a girl I used to go to High school with about 3 years ago or more. I would see her in the hall and she would always stare at me. well Ive had her on Facebook for a year and we have never ever talked. I really like this girl, What should I say????? Im scared to be creepy or random. Any help

So my sister was having an affair with this guy on facebook..initially she hid it from us but we caught her and instead of confronting her we decided to confront the boy on facebook...he said that he respected us and only wanted to marry my sis but he said that he will come after he completes his studies and he has alot of other girls in his friendlist...so we talked about it with my sister and she told us many weird things about him that she herself did not consider weird...first of all he had asked my sis to make him incharge of her facebook account like he chose the password, profile pic and profile name for her like he was her dad and he blocked many of her male classmates on fb...she also told us that he suffers from depression and when I myself read his chat with my sis on messenger I found him to be very manipulative....I talked to him posing as my sis on messenger...later my sis told him this and he blocked all of us...but in reality my sis had planned this with him he had'nt actually blocked her he only gave us this impression to fool us and she is still flirting with him and he clearly has some sinister motives as he is secretly having an affair with her he is clearly going to gang rape her or dump her he does'nt want to marry her...but no one can reason with my sis...first of all she will deny having any relations with him..what should we do? we can't report this matter to the police...police here is corrupt

When i text her she takes forever to respond or she won't respond at all. I called her once she didn't answer or connected me after. She is a server at our job and sometimes she will work a double. I call her baby sometimes, she lets me put my arm around her waist, we hug sometimes, nice long hugs, I kissed her once on her cheek. I asked her out and she said she doesn't want a commitment. I told her, just one day with me if you want and that's all. The other day she said hi to me, we didn't hug, a few hours later she said what to me idk maybe she was mad about something. She tired to hid when she was walking in my direction. Some other guy said he was going to beat me up if I continued to talk to her. That has been on my mind since. She isn't dating anyone she told me and her best friend told me she isn't dating anyone. Her best friend told me not to be nervous when talking to her and if I don't try to build "this" up then I will be mad when she is dating someone else. I do not want to annoy her. What should I do?

How do I know if a certain person has it? Without having to ask for it, of course

I just finished my freshman year in college, now going into my sophomore year. I m a preachers daughter and I ve always been careful about how I act and represent myself around other people. I ve never been in a relationship and never been in love. Sure I ve had a few "hookups" here and there but they all resulted in pain, neglect, or abuse. But last night my best friend and We went to a bonfire and one thing led to another..I got drunk when I told myself I wouldn t. And I had sex with a guy that was there..when I told myself I wouldn t. I later found out that he wasn t wearing protection and I was too drunk to know if anything serious happened. (Also it s my first time so I don t know what to expect). After it all ended we fell asleep and when I woke up he was gone. So now I just feel used and guilty and unworthy. especially since my dads a minister, I m worried what might happen if he found out, or if I of all people get pregnant. I didn t want this And I dont want it now, but it s too late. I can t seem to stay encouraged or positive but how can I when I ve done something so horrible to myself. I ve been used..

First off I am in a relationship and have been for 7 years now. Have been faithful the whole time. So anyway, I went to Vegas this weekend with a couple buddies. Saturday we decided to go to a pool party. We met a huge group and everyone was drinking having a good. There was a girl there I thought was cute but was not obsessing over really. I noticed her through out the day. I maybe had a tiny crush on this stranger but nothing out of the ordinary when seeing someone you re attracted to. After awhile eventually we crossed paths. When she walked by we stared each other in the eyes. Some way Some how I had the courage to tell her I had been crushing on her all day. When I said that she stopped and got really close to me. We got real touchy feely and the moment turned from fun to intense eye to eye contact real quick. Her friend came out of no where and split us up because she has a bf. I never saw her again after that. I have no info on anyone I was there with, no names, no nothing. Ever since arriving back home I have not stopped thinking about this girl. A week straight 24/7. Her face body attitude voice is stuck in my head constantly. Its making me sad. Im really not the type to ask questions about these things. But I cant even get work done at home Bc of it. Never felt like this about someone. Am I in love with this girl or was a lustful moment in Vegas that will fade eventually? I really want it to stop bc theres no way of finding her. Anyone else ever had this feeling?

I'm seeing this guy well kinda. It's complicated, but we have feelings for each other and we tell each other we love each other and stuff, but I guess it's not a commited relationship. I guess I can describe it as an open relationship until further notice. The only problem was the distance between us. We live in 2 different states that are very far apart. We met online through a mutual friend. I met a guy that lives closer to me. I never lied to him about it. I told him as soon as it happened and he understood completely. Ultimately in the future I want to be with him though, we just need to be closer together. I told him it's fine if he wants to talk to other people too, but I wanted him to tell me and not lie about it. Recently we've been talking about me possibly moving to where he is for college and us living together afterwards. He told me he wanted us to live together, but yesterday I found out he has another girlfriend that he met on the same site. On the site we met on you can make avatars. He has some pictures of mines and his avatar together on that website and on Facebook. I even talked to his mom before. Our mutual friend obviously knows nothing about this other girl. I'm not really upset that he's talking to another girl since I told him it's fine, but I'm confused as to why he'd lie about it especially after our recent conversations. Also, if you're wondering, I never lied to either guy about the other. They always knew what was going on.

I talked to this cancer man through message. he was interested about my life and was polite. after weeks, I sent him a message again,but he ignored. what does this mean? tips and advice would help.

He told me that he had a crush on me and then after we started talking for a while, he eventually started liking me -- my personality, my smile, everything. But he s married! Is that even possible?