So I have this crush on this guy. Last year we texted for a while and we did truth or dare game and it said who is ur crush? He said some other girls name and I said that he was my crush. He knew but he still kept texting me and when it was homecoming, I got the nerve to ask him to the dance. He said yes but my mom grounded me after because she said that I was stupid to ask him first and that the guy should always ask girls first. So then I couldn't go but then shd let me go two days before the dance and that when he asked me to the dance. Well he asked me through text message. So after the dance we still texted and talked a bit at school. But then after new years we stopped. And I got a new phone and lost his number. He still likes all my pics on Instagram and sometimes he would comment on them. And when it was valentines day he said "happy valentines day" through Instagram. And that's it. He knows I like him. I'm pretty sure I scared him off so that's why he stopped but I never knew why. What should I do? I want to keep talking to him because he is funny and cute. He is not a Playboy like other guys at my school and stuff. He is a good and nice and funny and sweet guy and i like his personality and so that's why I like him. What should I do? Does he like me back?

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My ex "made" her block me on like every thing. So I can t txt her. So I ask my other friend to tell her to txt me. And she said "No". So should I get over her? What should I do? I really miss her. We was great friends! I just don t know what I should do. Someone please help. I need advice on what I should do.

After a very hard marriage gone wrong, I began dating one of my friends. He was, as they all seem to be, the most amazing person and lover upfront. Months passed and things bloomed. Well, so I thought. We had a falling out and went 4 days without speaking. I reached out, we went to dinner and mended things which allowed for us to come back together stronger and more in love and appreciative. I proceeded with my life and love for this man and asked him to move in with me. Upon the transition of moving, my daughter had his phone and a dating site filtered in. I asked him about it and he told me it was before my time. I accepted this answer and carried on with trust. A few days later, more dating stuff filtered in and I felt something was up with this. I checked it out sure enough, it was all very recent. I obviously freaked out and cried and was hysterical because it had been made while we were together. He claimed they were from when we were separated those 4 days and he only did it because he thought we were officially done. He said he was in love with me & devastated that he attempted to reach out & my friends got involved and told him to jump in a lake. He said he didn't know how else to handle himself but to move on and had his own suspicions of my honesty those few days. I logged into his stuff and saw he was telling the truth. I cant help but be so very offended though. How do I handle this? Is it really a big deal he did this or should i let it go and move on with him?

i.e. should I somehow publicly defend myself/explain my innocence and/or explain how i was maliciously smeared by at least 2 people....and all the jerks that choose to believe rumors and judge/gossip i might add.

Ok so my friend and his gf pretty much paired up me and this girl and my friend told me she thinks I'm cute and the feeling is mutual so basically me and her have been texting since yesterday night and I'm just wondering how often through out the day should I be texting her? Or should I maybe not even text her everyday?

So before we started going out she told me that this guy was her **** buddy and they would have sex often ,, recently another friend contacted her to pick him up in LA and she posted who want to come with me to la to get him and her ex **** buddy said me and now he s going and it s not clear if anyone else is going on the trip too besides them two , am I wrong for not wanting her to go ? If not please explain to her why

There s this woman at work I work with and I noticed she s doing/saying a lot of the same stuff I do. Usually Ill say thank you like a lot. She started saying that. I will crack some wise *** jokes. She started doing it.

I just don't know how he has Asperger. No offense.

Like is it the place that owns wherever the event is or the person who directs the event?

I asked because my girlfriend is 16 and i'm 18 and she wanted to do it through skype with me.

I have known this leo man for over 14 years. About (6 months ago) we got a little bit more serious. I with against my better judgment. Due to the they are womanizers...... We talked everyday on during work breaks and lunches. We met up literally everyday after work. I wish I could upload all the loving texts, he use to send me. About a month ago things changed and I found out he had been talking to another woman. Instead of crying over spilled milk. I simply walked away, for 2 weeks there was no communication from either end. Guess who blowing my phone up? "Good morning" "What are doing?" "Why haven't I heard from you?" "Do you wanna see me? Is he missing what he had? Should I continue to ignore? Can someone please help me understand the way a leo man mind operate.

This is my second question about our company director, he came in for a visit today ( much awaited visited) so we have been organizing, cleaning and getting things around the office nice and clean. He went into our archives or filling room and made a comment that kind of upset a couple of people. About two days ago we filled all of our files in boxes and put tags on them, but we used glue to keep them from falling off. So when our director saw that he, was tickled by that, he kept saying how the tags were "erect" and all looked so nice. He kept laughing and asked me hat type of crazy glue we used to keep them from "falling down" and I their "erected" position. So for about 15/20 minutes he and our department manager just laughed at that. And he said he wanted to take pictures to show to his boss our VP of division, saying that he will just love it. But some of my cowers were offended by his comments, some had worked 15 to 17 hours that day to get those files organized . It's a lot of hard work. So what do you all think about this.

So my boyfriend recently got in a fight with his brother and his family and he has anger issues and I m the only one that can make him happy so His phone just died and I want him to open up his phone to a cute paragraph from lol so I really need to cheer him up but I am terrible at paragraphs so I just need help lol

i always hear people/guys talking about eyes and always here about blue eyes or big brown innocent eyes and such but like ive never heard anything about green eyes.. :(

Ok weird but I need help. I'm really antisocial, I'm bad at making friends bht when I have them I'm committed. All my best friends have boyfriends and they keep telling me to get one as if I can go to the store and buy one. They want to double date and such. Does anyone have tips on just how to even start to meet someone to possibly become my boyfriend? Haha I sound so childish oh no

I have complimented girls on Instagram and in person! Every girl that I have complimented in person always says stuff like "your so sweet" or " that so nice thank you" stuff like that. Then on Instagram I have complimented some random girls through direct message from other schools in my area, and some of them have sometimes said back to me like "your so sweet" stuff like that! Then there was some girls that read my messages and either just didn't respond or some just blocked me! So for those girls that have not responded or blocked me, what are possible reasons for those things?

I do love him but I haven't told him because I don't want to freak him out. It's been enough time that it's not weird or too soon. I really love him, but he's hesitant to love or say it in high school because he thinks it's too young. Today we were hanging out and talking about something and he said "and that's just one of the reasons why I love you." I said "wait, you said you love me" and smiled and he said "oh, no I don't" super quickly. He talks about the future and us in the long term and I can tell that he cares about me really deeply, but I don't know why he won't say it. Does he mean it if it slipped out so naturally? What's going on?

Why is this such a common go to? like i get it but i don't. Just because i don't trust him doesn't mean i don't want to be with him. I want to try to trust him but i don't know how. He goes out with his friends and brothers and it upsets me IF I don't go with him to.. i guess make sure he stays true. How do i try to work in trusting him? please understand i do not mind him going out as long as i go too. I can be as quiet as a mouse too i just want to see and hear more than anything. He tells me i need to trust him but when he goes out if i do, he gets mad at me for going out while he's out. Breaking up is not my go to.

There's a girl i thought i had a lot in common and we do but I'm no her type except now that i have been getting to know other women now she's interested. Some are into the thrill of a chase I'm not one of them. I don't play games. Iike women not girls and I refuse to be anybody else's second choice that's what cucks do. And if I did start seeing her wouldn't this be unfair to the women who genuinely liked me in that way from the start? I mean i would never say a girl wasn't my type and then turn around on some other **** down the line. It seems to me i should disregard her and just go for the ones who actually like me. Am i wrong?

I am 16, really close with my mom, but never told her I kissed a guy. She knows about the guy, but I never told her I kissed him. The guy was bad news and you can read about him here. https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20160616193629AA5somT How do I explain this to my mom?

So there s this guy and I ve known him since 6th grade and I ve liked him and he liked me but I moved schools and I can t get over him should I tell him I lstill ike him?

How do I start a conversation with a girl I like without being too forward?

I've been talking to this guy for the past few weeks. Last week he finally asked if I would like to get dinner or lunch sometime this week. I told him yes, and he asked what days. I said that Wednesday or Thursday would be good days for me and he said that those days worked for him too. Then on Tuesday, I texted him "So dinner Thursday?" He never responded. It is Thursday night and he still never responded. I know he has his phone because he posts snapchat stories. What gives? Why has he all of a sudden disappeared? Also, why would he even make plans if he wasn't going to follow through?

Backstory: we are a low income family, we have a 10 year age gap, she has 3 kids. This is my first real relationship I quit smoking for a week but I kinda started up again. We have been fight almost everyday about the same stuff again and again and other things. I help with what I can bill wise among other things I m about to pick up a 2nd job hopefully, she works 2 jobs right now. She took me into her house because I was living in a camper, and has been supporting me with housing and food a few little thing here and there. I have done very few things for myself since we have been together and I do more things for her and her daughters then I do for myself. I have been smoking for a few years now I was smoking when we got together and for most of our relationship now. I quit a week ago but I smoked again today, and I want to keep smoking. I have rules about my smoking 1: I don t smoke around kids. 2: I don t smoke around non smokers if I can help it. 3: I do everything I can to not smell like cigarettes. I want to compromise with my GF about my smoking but I m afraid if I bring it up she ll end the relationship. The subject of us splitting up during our arguments had come up on her end and my end but neither one of us wants it too end. We both have been under a lot of stress lately, which contributed to me smoking again. I don t want to quit unless I absolutely have to and if it will cost us our relationship, but I wanT us to be happy,What can I do, what can I say?

my girlfriend is staying the night and she broke one of my collectible toys from 1967 and I kinda flipped out, but I didn t hurt her and she was crying and I don t know what to do...

My best friend has anorexia. I m really worried about him. He s absolutely the best thing that ever happened to me.. We ve known each other for a little more than four years. He s the most gorgeous boy I have ever laid my eyes on. He has black hair with bright blue eyes that make you just melt. I love him to pieces and I try to constantly tell him how amazing he is ( not just his looks. Mostly his personality ) I ve never met anyone like him. I have admitted to having a crush on him and he has admitted to the feelings as well, so that adds on to me being worried about him. He s skinny enough as it is and I understand that a boy that age is going through stuff (he s 15 ) but I just want to know how to help him. Everytime I mention it he says he doesn t need help. I should also mention that we ve only been texting, we live far away from each other so we just talk over kik and other stuff like that. ( I know I m not being catfished. ) I know this is long but I just want to make sure nothing happens to him.. I really love him.

They keep me cages up. It's just now summer and they told me I have to be home at 4 everyday. I have really good grades but it's like they don't trust me. I want to start being sneaky and start sneaking out. Any advice on how not to get caught and how to keep secrets?! Also should I start doing things like this or not? I feel like it's my only option

I m going into 8th grade and turning 14 soon. I ve never had a boyfriend or my first kiss. I m a bit shy depending on the person but when someone doesn t intimidate me I m quite outgoing and a very fun. I know a lot of boys find me attractive because I occasionally get boys flirting with me and some stares too. However it never goes further than that. I ve held crushes so long and I ve tried so hard to get close to the boys I ve liked but NOTHING. Any boys that ever show interest in me don t hold onto it and in the next week they have a new girlfriend. Idk if it s because I m an advanced student. I mean im not a nerd. I just have good morals and I don t want to do all the stupid stuff kids in my school do. I like boys who are like me. Boys who are popular but detached. Intelligent boys that see the world in a different way. im not ugly I promise before you jump to conclusion. All my friends have had their first boyfriend and kiss. I feel so left out. I m a very romantic person and just want a bf who will be my best friend and that I can do everything with. Please tell me why I have no luck and give me some tips too.

Everytime the question or argument of "i don't want my boyfriend going out with his friends" (or vice versa) comes up, a lot of people say, "well hanging out with other people is healthy". How? wouldn't that just give them a connection to someone else that they're only supposed to feel for you?

My ex-gf and I recently broke up because of long distance. It was a sad thing where the distance was just too much and the future too uncertain to continue, but we still admit to still loving each other and we didn't have a big fight/epic ending or anything. Any advice for moving on from this type of situation? I can see how it would be a lot easier if the feelings were dead, but they're not for either of us.

From the start, our relationship was rocky but he decided to take a big step and he moved to my city to be with me. BIG MISTAKE! Anyway, we would always argue when we were in a long distance relationship and now that he and i live in the same city, we still argue. Nothing's changed. I don't trust him because he's lied and cheated on me in the past and he has serious emotional attachment issues when it comes to me. A while back, he got physical with me because i said that i wanted to break up with him. He restrained me and grabbed my wrists. He threatened suicide and went to the hospital. Still i forgave him and only if he would agree to go to counseling. He's been going to counselling but hasn't been taking the medicine so nothing is working. Yesterday, he commented on a girl's picture and i found it disrespectful so i said, i've had enough and i said i'm done! He again threatened to kill himself and had to go the hospital because his sugar went up. This relationship isn't healthy and i want to stay broken up with him. He doesn't need to be in a relationship right now and i might be just as mentally unstable as he is for having put up with him for so long. This man has hurt me over and over and yet i still forgive him. How to stay broken up and not contact him????

I'm 17 years old and I like black girls they are the only girls I really like... I don't know exactly how to meet them maybe social networks but I don't know how that works with actually meeting them in person... I'm 17 but I do online school so I don't go to an actual public school. So it's hard. Trying to find black girls who actually like white guys... For example i was talking to this girl on call of duty black ops 2 long story short, we exchanged facebooks and we're looking at each other photos and she didn't know that I was white she thought I was black so she said '' I like to stay in my own race'' so it sort of hurt my feeling but wtf it's on call of duty. But I always remembered that. I just want to know how to hook up with a black girl. Someone plz help

I am drawing something big and special for my boyfriend and our upcoming anniversary. Should I put his name (Angel) in the middle of all it, or I love you?

Hus birthday party is tomorrow and I have no idea what to wear! I'm a girl btw. I need advice!

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i have like her for many years and she the only one i like it been so many years since i saw her i have forgotten her but i saw her again and i pretend i dont know her i pretend because i dont want old feeling to come back i pretend because i am afraid of falling in love again am i wrong to do this i am only trying to avoid her deep down in my heart i still have some feeling for her but i know that we can never work out :( what do you guys think??

I was just thinking about it and how much of a douche he was. Like I met him and then the next weekend invited him over. He snapchatted me "I love you" the day before I invited him over (I invited more than just him). He called me crying about it. He was like "promise you will hug me tomorrow?" and I said sure. We walked to my friend's house, and I walk upstairs to her room to charge my phone. He follows me, and once we get up there, he says "let's get this over with" and he starts kissing me. I laugh in awkward situations, and I started laughing in the middle of it. He then said "come on" and pull me to him to kiss me more. But that entire day he was so rude to everyone. Also, before the whole kiss thing earlier that day, we get in line for snowballs I didn't have money, so he gave me like five dollars, and then, when we got out of line, I gave him the money back, and he insisted I keep it, so I did, but after the kiss, he was like I want it back now like now I kind of feel like a prostitute or something. He put his arm around my waist and even when I jolted out of the position, he still kept trying to do it. The entire day, he was being so rude to my friends. Also, at the end of the day, I text him like I am not in a place to date, and he called me later crying. He would always call or snapchat me because his parents read his texts, and that made me so uncomfortable. He would always want to call me or snapchat me while doing homework(I need to write more but the word limit) He would always call me and snapchat me while doing homework, and I would explain to him I was doing that, and he would start crying being like you don't respect me, and I was like you aren't respecting me. He also blamed all his problems on me, and also, made me solve them. He told me all this stuff of people making fun of him at school, and how he had a therapist, but one time when he was like "oh yea being my girlfriend you should" I was like we aren't dating, (to be continued in next update) I was like we aren't dating and he was like "no one loves me" and I was like your parents must love you to send you to the most expensive high school in the entire city but he continued with it, and (I told my parents about this don't worry) he was all like "so if I die you won't care" and I said "I would" and he kept typing (this is over snapchat message) "you wouldn't" and I keep typing "I would" and he tells this story (which I think is fake) about his friends (to be continued in next update) He tells me this story where his friends broke up with their girlfriends and no one loved them so they killed themselves. Like I don't know and one time when I fell asleep early one night I didn't even open his snapchat message and he wrote me all these messages like "you don't love me" now he is blocked on snapchat because just not responding wouldn't work, and I decline all of his calls. We were both 15 (me sophomore him freshmen). I just dont want to think of this as my fist kiss... And I dont want to say this story when people ask me about my first kiss Oh yea and he is always like "it went all downhill since the kiss" and I am always like "no you were so rude that day" and he is still like "the kiss the kiss is the problem"

So I met this girl in school. She s in a relationship. They ve been together for 9yrs I think. Everything about her is just alluring. We ve had one very long conversation where we talked about a bunch of things. For some reason, I have deep feelings for her. She has a beautiful spirit and auroa. Now I ve never told her how i feel because I want to respect her relationship, but I just keep thinking about her constantly. Ahouldbi keep this to myself or tell her? I don t like having "what if" feelings. But I really am attracted to her and I love the conversation we had. What do I do? If it matters she s a Leo and I m a pisces.

Trying to surprise my boyfriend.

I went to a restaurant to get some golden potatoes and I had the CUTEST guy I had ever seen wait on me. He had the cutest smile and the prettiest eyes. He was so kind and had such a funny, cool personality. He is the kind of guy you would want as a friend. I have a weird feeling that I NEED to see him again. What do I do? I do not live in the state but I feel like it is meant to be.

A new employee today met our director during an office visit (it was the second time she met him). He looked at her up and down and asked her if she was wearing the fitted, body hugging dress to impress our department manager ( a male manager) who she met for the first time. The associate was very taken aback and looked offended. She was dressed per dress code, than he commented to the department manager about her different hairstyle, how on her first day her hairstyle was different. So what do you all think, should she feel offended or it was an honest feedback . Please let me know.

So I like this guy who's my friends cousin. He lives across the country, and is 5 years older than me exactly.. I really like him, and I got his snapchat and we kind of talk, but nothing meaningful. I always snap him first and sometimes he leaves me on open, but sometimes he replies. He probably doesn't like me as he was making fun of me when he was here but... Anyways, we have a time zone difference of 3 hours so that could contribute to him leaving me on open and such. I want to get to know him but it's hard because of the time difference and how we hardly really know each other. Yes I'm young (14) and he's a lot older, but I'm homeschooled and everyone I know is either 1. Related to me 2. older by like 8+ years and other such things that make it impossible. How do I talk to him and should I? I've had crushes in the past, but this time... I really really like this guy... Does he not have any interest in me? Thanks

please be honest, im not gonna get offended what so ever. I just want to know what people think.

We met on-line 3 years ago. We hit it off but both decided we should remain platonic friends only since he is recovering alcoholic. It's worked out well. We talk about everything. You name it. He always says I'm helping him through his battles, but I feel like he rescued me too. Having never met in person he finally asked me to go to his church last month. I did. It was nice but he had to go to an AA meeting following so I didn't see him for 2 more weeks. We met for lunch and the entire day was so awkward. I felt like it was a struggle to get us to talk to each other. He seemed like a lost puppy and I felt like I couldn't be myself. What did I do wrong? How do we get past this awkwardness?

so me and my ex broke up 5 months ago and we are still friends but we dont talk or hang out as much mainly because i was the one that was hurt by the break up seeing as he said he didn't develop deeper feelings for me, but the last few times we have hung out hes been flirtatious and touchy feely, when we were a couple he was like that and would play footsie with me and feed me like couples do and tickle me, and 3 weeks ago he came over to watch movies and we sat on the couch and the whole time all he did was tickle me, and play footsie and be touchy feely, and when we ate he would give me bites of his food by feeding me, these are all things we did as a couple and i would think that after anyone breaks up with someone that those things would stop, but hes still doing them, i even asked him why he was playing footsie with me and he just smiled and continued to do it, is it because hes comfortable with me or is there something else? we have an amazing connection and friendship so it just makes me wonder if its just him being comfortable or if its something more. i really want to say something to him about it but im afraid of pushing him away, any thoughts?

We are both 16 and are planning on having sex tomarrow night so I want to make it really sexy for her because she is always so sexy for me. I was thinking of maybe going out for a nice dinner first and coming home and playing some music and after we are done maybe watch a movie and then go to sleep, but I mean idk what music i should play or what kind of movie we should watch. Im never good with specifics like that. Im really anal about this because I want to give her a really nice night with me that she will always remember ;)

Alright so I went to my friends house for a sleepover and I met his sister, and the whole time she was really close to me. I could tell she liked me, later that night we watched a movie and for some reason she started to cuddle with me, which was weird cause we had just met, but whatever. After I had left a week later I sent a friend request on fb she denied it and then a week later she sent one to me, but I started to notice something weird, I found out she had blocked me from fb chat. Why would someone get that close to me, that I just met and then refuse to even talk afterwards over fb or something. This whole scenario is just weird and unheard of to me. Is she just shy or what, what is your take on it