Marriage & Divorce: Question: Do black guys have to be "exceptional" in order for white girls to consider dating them? |
- Question: Do black guys have to be "exceptional" in order for white girls to consider dating them?
- Question: Is this child custody possible? Has it happened before?
- Question: My Husband has a HUGE feet fetish and watches feet fetish videos online, what do I do? Does feet videos count as porn?
- Question: Do I have to tell the father of my child that I'm pregnant?
- Question: Wife says I don't talk to her anymore. I say we don't connect physically anymore. Normal marriage issues for parents with toddlers?
- Question: My fiancé has solicited craigslist prostitute in the past?
- Question: If you marry the same person in 2 different county's at different time but divorce the first marriage does the second marriage still valid.?
- Question: Is it ok to tell my husband that his best friend can t come over anymore?
- Question: Is sex better during marriage or if you're not married?
- Question: Married going on 2 years. can i still file a annulment?
- Question: I HAVE DIVORCE, my wife agree to pay her off half house,[house do not have mortgage] can my wife after divorce discharge,,,?
- Question: What to do when husband wont help with kids through a separation?
- Question: What if a child is born legally under a marriage but is biologically the lovers child ?
- Question: Does he still like me??
- Question: What happens to children born under marriage if the woman was unfaithful?
- Question: Why do some people so afraid of divorce? That person was a complete stranger just some time ago?
- Question: Should I set better boundaries with my ex husband?
- Question: My girlfriend is physco about her cats?
- Question: My wife cheated in me with my son from another marriage i cant even believe it was should i do?
- Question: I'm a stepdad of two kids and my wife I'm struggling to have enough to provide have any man out there been in this position what did you do?
- Question: I want to get married in the future but I'm worried my wife will cheat on me. Does it happen?
- Question: I'm seriously considering a divorce?
- Question: Is it weird my ex wife doesn't mind sharing drinks with her ex husband and his dad?
- Question: I am married with kids, but I fell in love with someone else. How can I tell my husband that I want divorce without hurting him?
- Question: Recommend my husband and I some spanking impliments?
- Question: Should I set better boundaries with my ex husband?
- Question: What exactly does this mean?
- Question: Is it rude that my ex husband and his family eats and drinks stuff in thats in my fridge/?
- Question: What does "having faith" mean and what does it have to do with marriage or self esteem?
- Question: My fiancé has solicited craigslist prostitute in the past?
- Question: I'm an emotionally needy husband. My wife is emotionally distant. How do I stop being so needy since she won't/can't change?
- Question: I don t like when my husband touches my private areas. It turns me off. How do I get him to stop and to touch me sensually other places?
- Question: Why might it be unhealthy to do whatever it takes to make your spouse think you're a good person?
- Question: What you think about interracial marriage?
- Question: What would you do if you had a family with the love of your life but later found your soul mate?
- Question: How do I get over my ex husband? How do coparent with him cordially since we have kids together?
- Question: Can child support that's in arrears be deducted from a new spouse's income?
- Question: For those of you who are divorced, when did you begin to realize that it was a mistake to marry your ex-spouse?
- Question: Did my husband cheat?
- Question: Why is hubby soooo grumpy in the morning?
- Question: My husband spends all of our money and I can't get him to stop?
- Question: I don't know what to do, I have a beautiful incredible wife that I love but the other day a girl that I dated for 4 years?
- Question: Intervention for narcissist husband a good idea?
- Question: My marriage requires me to stop being so emotionally attached to people outside my family. How do I do that?
- Question: Might get laid off at the end of the year. Have 2 kids and a wife. I feel like I am a failure. Was making good money What would a wife think?
- Question: Confused about my separation?
- Question: Are the men urged/ forced into marriage?
- Question: My husband blows cigarette smoke in my face when he s mad. I walk away and he follows me, even outside. Is what he s doing illegal?
- Question: My partner wants to do couples counseling and do it with my personal Therapist?
- Question: Me and my husband are fighting really bad...HELP!!!!!��?
- Question: Why would your husband same time every year want to split and then he has another woman then wants back?
- Question: How can I find out if my husband has a private number?
- Question: Is this verbal abuse?
- Question: Do you and your spouse have a lot in common?
- Question: Ladies, would you like your husband to take you to a male strip bar?
| Question: Do black guys have to be "exceptional" in order for white girls to consider dating them? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 09:38 PM PDT For example do they have to be athletes, celebrities, hold white collar jobs, or have a lot of money? |
| Question: Is this child custody possible? Has it happened before? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 09:04 PM PDT So a dad and mom have a kid, divorce, kid goes with mom, mom gets bf, mom and step dad divorce, step dad takes kid, step dad gets gf, step dad and step mom divorce, step mom takes son, step mom meets new man, new man is the real dad, they divorce and real dad takes the kid, after this they live happily ever after with the kid hating everyone. Has this happened before or is at least possible? And to add a little twist, dad remarries mom. |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2016 07:49 PM PDT Ok so the question is pretty much self-explanatory but I ve been with my Hubby for 3 years. I Love Him so so much, and the only one I put in front of my Hubby is God. He is also a Christian, but yet ever since he was 6years old He has watched porn; however after meeting me he stopped the hardcore and only watched feet fetish vids. I don t know what to do, I feel like he s being disloyal, but I love him I don t want to leave..... |
| Question: Do I have to tell the father of my child that I'm pregnant? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 07:06 PM PDT Okay so this is a bit tricky. I was married to guy x for almost a year, dated for six years. We we trying to have a baby for three years, but it never happened. I have now asked him for a divorce and am with someone else. I just found out I'm pregnant and with the timeline, it would have to be my husband's... Guy y, the guy I'm currently seeing, is willing to support us and the baby and sign the birth certificate. The reason I'm kind of worried about telling guy x is because I believe with the divorce and the fact I'm basically the most horrible person in the world to them, they'll try convincing him to take custody of the child. I don't want that to happen. At all. So my question is, do I HAVE to by law tell him that I'm pregnant? |
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| Question: My fiancé has solicited craigslist prostitute in the past? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 04:39 PM PDT My fiancé has solicited craigslist prostitute My fiancé and I are currently engaged and have been together for 3 years. Previous to me he was in a marriage that was very unhappy and married for 4 years (no kids). He is 32 and I am 25. From what I gathered, it was an unhappy marriage on both parties He recently gave me his old iphone to use to play music. He reset most of the phone. But his email was still linked and worked in WIFI. I was using it a week or two ago and he got an email (looked like spam) to an email address is did not recognize. So when I clicked on it, there were all these messages back and forth with craigslist prostitutes, that were dated to when he was married, (before we were together) not sure if he ever executed. But it honestly made me sick to my stomach. He has never given me any issues with trust, and did not use the email while we were together. We own a house together and about to get married next year. I just see a different person now. At the end of his divorce (when the emails were dated) he did tell me it was the hardest and most depressing time of his life. But is this a red flag, men who see prostitutes? What if we go through a rough patch. Is that what he is going to do? |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2016 04:03 PM PDT I married my x husband twice, in 2 different county's divorced him on the first marriage, but not the second marriage does that mean we are still married? |
| Question: Is it ok to tell my husband that his best friend can t come over anymore? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 03:23 PM PDT His friend is an alcoholic, and the two of them get blazing drunk together. This friend already has a restraining order against him from an exgirlfriend that he stalked and threatened. The last time he was at our house, he threatened to drive drunk if I didn t take him to buy more beer. I should have just called the police, but hindsight s 20/20. I have a 4 year old and 6 year old, and I think I have the right to demand to keep that influence away from my children. I told my husband to go over to his friend s house and do whatever he wants. I m not thrilled about him doing that, but he s an adult and I m not saying he can t hang out with his friend. I just don t want him here around my kids. Am I being unfair? |
| Question: Is sex better during marriage or if you're not married? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 02:17 PM PDT For example you could still be with your spouse but you have sex anyways. Would it be better during marriage or just in a relationship or anything? |
| Question: Married going on 2 years. can i still file a annulment? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 02:06 PM PDT |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2016 01:33 PM PDT ok can my wife after divorce discharge ask for alimony or els?? so she leaving house with 2 kids and we agreeo pay her of with line of credit,, thank you I live in illinois |
| Question: What to do when husband wont help with kids through a separation? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 01:26 PM PDT |
| Question: What if a child is born legally under a marriage but is biologically the lovers child ? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 01:12 PM PDT Im in the state of georgia .. Theres this woman who had a child she was married they "seperated" so she went on and had another relationship she got pregnant but later her new affair found out that she was still seeing her legal husband so, now he wants to give up parental rights .. Do you think its easier for the biological father to give up parental rights since she is legally married ? .. I know its a mess bare with me and help ! XD |
| Question: Does he still like me?? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 12:33 PM PDT me and a guy both 14 have been talking for the past 8 days on snapchat he told someone i was hot and that he would date me and i told someone i was talking to him and they said " did he send pics of himself" and i said ya and they said "omg thats so good he never sends pics of his face to people"and he told me i was cute and at school he acted really awkward when he saw me. and suddenly he got really busy bc i saw from social media and he stopped snapping me as much and he would open it and then answer like 5 hours later. (I'm guessing bc he was busy).he's really popular so he's always hanging out with his friends and we talked about a lot of things and towards the end i said we should hangout sometime and he said ok sure and that was it. its been 3 days since then and since we've talked. but its also summer vacation now so is he just busy?he seemed so intrested and i really like him. should i text him or wait for him to text me or does he not like me? idk why he wouldn't bc he acts like he does. I'm new to this dating thing so everything he does make me feel like he's loosing intrested lol thanks! oh and not to mention he watches my snapchat story and is on instagram |
| Question: What happens to children born under marriage if the woman was unfaithful? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 12:32 PM PDT The baby that was born was not her husbands child it was her lovers but the baby was still born while they were legally married also while she was with her lover she was "seperated" from her husband but jept sleeping with both of them and god only knows how many more men .. What happens with the child legally?? .. |
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| Question: Should I set better boundaries with my ex husband? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 12:25 PM PDT My ex husband and I share kids. He is happy with coming over to my place to see them and lives 3 minutes from my house. When he is at my place he watches tv eats and drinks what's in my fridge and makes himself at home. Sometimes he will have meals with us. I'm getting annoyed by this because I would like to move on with my life however the kids love their dad and I don't want them to have two homes anyways. What should i do? |
| Question: My girlfriend is physco about her cats? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 12:20 PM PDT She doesn't let people pick them up to hold them. She says that we do not own the cats and that they are their own bodies and we do not have the right to pick them up and " interfere with their peace." And that we can only interact with them when they want to interact with us. That we shouldn't force interaction with them. That its rude and belittles them. The cats really love her though and they always follow her. Strange but is she wrong, is she being rid oculus. They are our pets. Not humans. |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2016 11:50 AM PDT Ok we were married for 10 years after i was divorced with my first wife. I work but not that much. I earn pretty decent amount of money about 6 figures. Ok i have to two kids with my first wife one is 23 and other is 11 . I met my second wife and we got married. Ok fast forward i started noticing my son was coming over alot but I thought he was there cuz u know im his father but that wasn t the case i came home from one day earlier so i could surprise my wife on here birthday but i saw the were having sex on my couch. I got so mad it wasn t even funny. Ah i forgot i had son with the second wife and he 1 years old. I found out they were sleeping with each other almost 2 years and the baby might not be mine. But it tirns out its mine so i was little bit happy. So i ask her why she cheated she said she couldnt get satisfaction with me. Saying i was small and to quick.i told her 20 minutes isn t enough she said no. She she loves me but my son is better in bed. I got so furious i kicked out of the house . I dont know what i should do divorce and cut ties with my son or forgive and forget which i know i cant do plz give me advice also she said she wont stop having sex with my son but she wants to stay with me too sge said she loves both of us and can t choose |
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| Question: I'm seriously considering a divorce? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 11:28 AM PDT Let me start by saying my life is now miserable and I honestly have had enough of my wife and her sh*t. I made the biggest mistake of my life in waiting until marriage to have sex. I regret waiting so much. Our short marriage (6 months) has turned into a ball of sh*t and I wish I had never got married. I was not a virgin (my wife was) before this and it took me everything not to leave her because I knew it'd be a disaster from the start. But I stuck it out like a dumbass 😡 So we wait 2 years and we get married. The first night she wouldn't even take off her clothes, she says she's nervous. I'm furious. Over the course of the next 4 months i have tried so much to make it as pleasurable as possible for my wife but she won't even let me touch her. She says she's still scared. I have broken in 1 virgin in my life and it was my ex girlfriend. But I just couldn't do it again. I've had more than enough of her bullsh*t. (She's still a Virgini) We've had so many arguments over this that I just can't take it anymore. I'm done, Time to divorce? |
| Question: Is it weird my ex wife doesn't mind sharing drinks with her ex husband and his dad? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 11:14 AM PDT Is it weird that I don't mind sharing drinks with my ex husband and his dad? Sometimes him and his dad will come over to my place to visit with his kids and take drinks out of my fridge that are not theirs and drink out of them put them back. I got one out and started drinking out of it and my boyfriend said it was gross. Is that weird? |
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| Question: Recommend my husband and I some spanking impliments? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 10:49 AM PDT We are recently married and have been just using hand spanking, hubby wants to get several implements. |
| Question: Should I set better boundaries with my ex husband? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 10:41 AM PDT My ex husband cannot be alone around our kids because of legal issues he has pending which are disturbing. To see the kids he comes over to my place and hangs out there on my couch, watches tv, and eats and drinks the food in my fridge. I've started dating and this had made this very uncomfortable however I do not want my kids to have two homes. What should I do? |
| Question: What exactly does this mean? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 10:39 AM PDT Just curious my cousin posted this online. I don't know what's going on or what was said but she hasn't talked to anyone on our side of the family for the past month. I think something was said that may have really insulted her but I'm not sure what exactly was said and by whom. Her Facebook Post "Just because your family doesn't believe in your dreams, does not mean you aren't choosing the right path in your life. Blood does not make you family, loyalty does. I cannot stress that enough." What does this quote mean? |
| Question: Is it rude that my ex husband and his family eats and drinks stuff in thats in my fridge/? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 10:33 AM PDT My ex husband and his father come over to my place to see our kids. Without asking they will go into my fridge and help themselves to snacks or drinks. My boyfriend pays for a lot of the stuff thats in my fridge even though he doesn't live there he's nice so he will buy stuff for me and the kids sometimes or himself. My ex husband and his family never bring anything over for themselves to eat or drink and always use my stuff or stuff my boyfriend has bought and don't replace it. Is this rude? |
| Question: What does "having faith" mean and what does it have to do with marriage or self esteem? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 10:18 AM PDT |
| Question: My fiancé has solicited craigslist prostitute in the past? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 10:00 AM PDT My fiancé has solicited craigslist prostitute My fiancé and I are currently engaged and have been together for 3 years. Previous to me he was in a marriage that was very unhappy and married for 4 years (no kids). He is 32 and I am 25. From what I gathered, it was an unhappy marriage on both parties He recently gave me his old iphone to use to play music. He reset most of the phone. But his email was still linked and worked in WIFI. I was using it a week or two ago and he got an email (looked like spam) to an email address is did not recognize. So when I clicked on it, there were all these messages back and forth with craigslist prostitutes, that were dated to when he was married, (before we were together) not sure if he ever executed. But it honestly made me sick to my stomach. He has never given me any issues with trust, and did not use the email while we were together. We own a house together and about to get married next year. I just see a different person now. At the end of his divorce (when the emails were dated) he did tell me it was the hardest and most depressing time of his life. But is this a red flag, men who see prostitutes? What if we go through a rough patch. Is that what he is going to do? Thank you for the answers. The messages were all sent at 3 am all on the same night. no exchange of phone numbers or solid plans to meet up. But im still not writing it off and will have to talk to him |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2016 08:38 AM PDT To make things clear, my wife hasn't called me needy in over 3 years, I just know that I am one. This is a flaw in my character and I have never known how to overcome it. |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2016 08:27 AM PDT He doesn t listen when I tell him over and over for eleven years what I don t like and what I do like. He just does what his impulses tell him to. I d prefer answers from married men who have overcome this or professionals. |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2016 08:24 AM PDT I thought that it was common practice to want your spouse to have a high regard and opinion of you, but the more I talk to people on here, it sounds like the desire to be liked or admired by your spouse is a tool of oppression, not a tool of connection. Why is that? Or are those who feel this is unhealthy wrong? What is the truth? |
| Question: What you think about interracial marriage? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 08:10 AM PDT I am an Indian guy born in USA, I am 22, I just want to know your perspective on interracial marriage. Honestly I can see myself marrying out of my race. Problem with Indian marriages is that they are arranged marriage, but I don't want that. Just want to know your perspective, thanks. |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2016 08:06 AM PDT I would assume it d be the hardest thing ever. I m trying to figure out how that would go. Assume I find a man that I love and I have children with him. BUT, later on in life I come across my soul mate. & the way my soul mate feels about me is the way my husband feels about me but now that I ve found my soul mate I can t control the inevitable feeling that I m meant to be with them. Mind you, I have a family with my husband and we both were believably in love with each other. What do you do now that you know your soul mate exists and you actually found them but you have a life outside of them that you can t/don t want to leave? Do I leave my husband? Do I stay with him knowing I found my soul mate and I ll never feel the same again? Do I figure out how to co-parent and leave with my soul mate? What do you do? |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2016 07:59 AM PDT Ex husband left 4 yrs ago. He has a new girlfriend that he has been with for almost 2 yrs and that he brings around constantly. My children like her and I see that he is happy with her and does more things with her than he ever did with me, even smiling and taking pictures or going to concerts! Stuff he never did with me... It kind of makes me feel like it s not fair that I got the crappie relationship (the cheating, constant arguments, bringing me down) I dont want to be bitter or angry anymore. I want to be happy and not care what he does in his relationship. I want to be able to coparent with this man since we have kids together and we are going to have to interact for their sake. |
| Question: Can child support that's in arrears be deducted from a new spouse's income? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 07:50 AM PDT |
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| Question: Did my husband cheat? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 06:53 AM PDT |
| Question: Why is hubby soooo grumpy in the morning? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 06:45 AM PDT Every single morning before work, he finds one thing or another to be mad about, and he is really mean and snappy about it. Sometimes it's the stupidest thing, like not being able to find a matching pair of socks. i avoid him at all costs in the morning. But in the evening, and on weekends he's totally fine, wants to spend family time, will cook and clean and cuddle and is a delight. When I bring it up he totally denies it, like, has no idea what I'm talking about. Does anyone else know someone like this, or are you like this? Can you help me understand? It's so weird! |
| Question: My husband spends all of our money and I can't get him to stop? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 06:29 AM PDT I knew it was bad, but I didn't think it was this bad. So, my husband and I make the same amount of money together, and we have a baby coming soon so I'm trying to save up. I decided to calculate our total spending through our bank account, and my totals were pretty shocking. I spent $90 on myself for the month (most of it was baby stuff!). My husband? He spent $1,300 this month. He spends his money on everything under the sun, along with adderal, fast food, the bar, so much beer (omg so much beer) clothes, etc. He got a $150 pair of glasses with protective anti-glare... for 20/25 vision. Meanwhile, I haven't gotten new glasses in more than a year because I'm trying to save money. I'm really trying to figure out how to talk to him to spend less. He's making it so we barely have enough to save every month. I'd appreciate any suggestions besides "go to marriage counseling" because we can't afford it because he spends so much!! I have tried sitting him down and talking about it, but he won't listen. I've tried yelling at him, but he just gets angry and spends more. All of our bills come out of this one account, so splitting bank accounts would just be a nightmare for us. Thanks y'all. I just opened a new account for myself that I don't plan on telling my husband about (my mom's suggestion). Every month, I'll keep adding to it as my own "emergency" fund in case things get too sour. I actually just found a credit card I never knew about that he's been using... he's got about $700 worth of debt on it from the past couple of months... none of which I knew about |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2016 06:24 AM PDT 12 years ago in High School got in contact with me and sent me a friend request on Facebook. I talked to her a little bit and she is married and has kids but I realized how much I miss her. I am not going to cheat on my wife or anything and have no idea if she got those same feelings about me but i feel kind of guilty about it. |
| Question: Intervention for narcissist husband a good idea? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 05:20 AM PDT About a month ago my husband pulled the ultimate narcissist move by plotting and actually executing his plan to leave me for his "soul mate", accomplice, "other woman", and mistress. He has admitted to being selfish and doing what he feels is right. To make a long story short his family is very disappointed in him as I am pregnant with his child and we have a two year old. He is acknowledging his selfishness and is proud of his decision to abandon his marriage and children for a woman from his past that he briefly dated and who lives in another state. He feels as though he missed an opportunity with her in the past and wanted to pursue this lost love. His family and I recognize he is a narcissist and they want to meet with him, myself, and some other family members in attempts to intervene and convince him of his wrong and hurtful ways. Is this even a good idea? Honestly I feel it will be reopening wounds in my heart that are still healing and coping with his decision but his family is strongly against divorce for any reason. I have agreed to be present during the intervention out of kindness and familial support, but that is all I am willing to do. I can't put myself back in that position to be hurt again? Should I even still go? I don't want to be hurt again because no one that is a true narcissist will ever change in a month's time... Thank you all for your answers so far! I do want to make it clear that I have already decided to divorce him and am currently filing. I know there is no way to trust him again. I respect his family's decision to try to help and I made it clear to them that there is really no way to reconcile. They believe that because children are involved we should make it work but I have conveyed that it would be worse for my children to see me go back with such a person and continue to be a doormat for him. |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2016 05:11 AM PDT I'm not even sure why I am seeking emotional attachment outside of my marriage in the first place. I theorize it is because my wife is emotionally self sufficient and I'm so emotionally needy, but I could be wrong. The thing is, I care so much about the people I encounter. If I like a person, I don't want to see or hear them suffer, because I am the type of person who tries to save people. But I have to stop doing that because it turns out I'm not that good at it. I only saved my wife by marrying her and sharing my life with her to help build her up, but everyone else was a complete failure. Kelley, Jen, Lori, Heather, Autumn, Madison, Sara, Amanda..... Actually, writing them all down like this makes me realize they are all women I try to help... And almost of them play the victim and "I'm oppressed" card... But why do I care so much? I can't think of any men I try to help, so why do I try to help women so badly? Disney Princess syndrome? Nevermind that, how do I stop having emotional sob stories and suffering (or perceived suffering) distract me from my marriage and family? Bonus question: How can I force myself to not care what people think of me, when deep down I care more than any other man I've met? |
| Posted: 23 Jun 2016 04:19 AM PDT Had plans to buy a bigger home, planning trips and putting the kids in school. Also I was very happy with my job. Starting all over sucks and to keep up with bills I will need to same paying job As you can tell I'm stressed. I kind of told my wife some what that there is a chance I will be laid off. But as a man I feel as I failed her. Thoughts |
| Question: Confused about my separation? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 03:09 AM PDT I have been separated from my husband for about 4 months now. We were living together two months even after we separated. Of course there was casual mentioning of counselling etc., but nothing solid was ever done or discussed. Two months ago, I moved to a new place (far away from the place we both lived in) and my husband threw me a go-away party. At that party, someone kissed me (of course, knowing I am separated). It was not something that was planned, but unfortunately, it happened. My husband found out and he was furious. But now he wants to consider reconciliation. At the same time, the other guy is interested too. I am really confused. I like both of them. Of course, with the husband I have history and with the other guy, I am happy too. Also, since the talk of the reconciliation, there has been no move from my husband's part. (His friends are taking him out every night to get drunk to forget the whole thing. That was one of the main reasons why we separated- that he spends more time partying than with me.) I have an idea he is waiting for a few months before making an attempt to get back together. (I don't think that is a good idea, but I should respect his decision to take time to get over the kissing event.) At the same time, I am very much in touch with the other guy too, who is being very supportive. What should I do? |
| Question: Are the men urged/ forced into marriage? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 03:03 AM PDT In my country,a woman who slept with man ,without having any comitment,csn force him to marry by e.g.becoming pregnant.having a child,the man generaly marries,but not all.for men,this doesn t look outrageous.Do they like this kind of atitude?worse then witchcraft.there is also situation of boys letting girls over 23 pregnant in order to ocupy this girls..to have benefits.. |
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| Question: My partner wants to do couples counseling and do it with my personal Therapist? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 01:10 AM PDT I am more than willing to start couples counseling But my partner wants to do it with my personal therapist. Is this a good idea? I don t want to do that because it s my safe space and it s the only place I feel like I can open up completely in, I want to go to a new therapist for it but my partner says that would be a waste of time and doesn t understand at all where I m coming from . So does anyone have experience with this? What is the community s advice for this? And is my partner being insensitive? |
| Question: Me and my husband are fighting really bad...HELP!!!!!��? Posted: 23 Jun 2016 01:03 AM PDT Me and him have been arguing for a week now over simple things. He thinks I don't trust him but I do. I think he's a jerk sometimes because he will make something out of nothing. I love him so so much and I want us to work things out. Any advice (from men or women)? |
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| Question: How can I find out if my husband has a private number? Posted: 22 Jun 2016 10:30 PM PDT |
| Question: Is this verbal abuse? Posted: 22 Jun 2016 07:30 PM PDT Say for instance a man asked his wife to pick him up from somewhere near his work. The wife knows how to get to the work but not the place he asked her to pick him up from. So she gets lost and it s dark, meanwhile she called the husband and told him she s lost and doesn t know where she s going the husbands keeps giving her vague directions like keep going straight or turn once you see this (instead of street names). She still can t find him and so he calls her again and ask where she is and she tells him I m still lost and I don t know where I m going. He then proceeds to call her names "you useless ******* ****" "you re dumb" "can t even follow simple directions" meanwhile she s still driving and trying to figure out where to go. Once she finally finds him he takes over the car and speeds home all the while still calling her names. Then once they get home the man throws a fit, slamming doors, throws keys and still calling his wife names. She begins to cry because she s hurt that her husband would say that. Is this a sign of abuse and what should she do? |
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