To whete it effects her personality and feelings inside.

how do I encourage my husband to be more comfortable with me when he is (well is seems to me) grossed out by stuff… I try to use my tongue while kissing, and [he] absolutely won't use his. I have stopped because it makes me feel rejected when he does that, but I really would like to be more intimate that way I am feeling frustrated because I want more, but don't know how to communicate with my shy husband. And will I have to keep asking? I also feel frustrated because of the stereotype of the way men should be in my mind and he is not that, i e he does not pursue me aggressively in a sexual manner which is what I want/expect. I feel like I am doing all the work. nt my husband to be more comfortable with me in bed. when he is (well is seems to me) grossed out by stuff… I try to use my tongue while kissing, and [he] absolutely won't use his. I have stopped because it makes me feel rejected when he does that, but I really would like to be more intimate that way.

Okay,  so I'm a 37 year old man living in Chicago, married, but totally alone. My wife is not interested in anything but her career and I'm so bored. I have tried everything with her and she cries and begs me to stay whenever I tell her I'm bored, but nothing changes. We haven't had sex in a year and I dream about romantic encounters with strangers. Not sex, just romantic kisses, etc. I'm at the point where I just want another unhappily married woman to snuggle with.

I am a Mom with 3 children. I'm dating a man with 3 of his own. We met shortly after his wife left, and have been an exclusive couple for more than a year. Our kids get along great, and we spend 3-4 days a week as a family. I have very much taken on the role of wife and stepmom. I go to PTO meetings, parent teacher conferences, take them shopping and to school. So we've created this family unit, but the hard reality for me to swallow is that I don't think we'll ever be a family. I don't think we'll ever live in the same house. I will always be split between two house holds, trying to be enough for all. I don't think this is sustainable for me...physically or emotionally. I don't want to lose the relationship, but I'm concerned if I pull back, that it will damage it irreparably. How does one step back if they have overstepped or gone too far in a relationship without losing it?

My vow renewal is coming up in a month. I am not going to lie, I have cheated on my wife three times, two being long-term affairs. I want to move on but we have a toddler son together and I do not want to give him up or affect my son's childhood growing up with divorced parents.  My wife and I have been together for almost a decade - I think I am too comfortable to leave but I am not happy.  I want to say I "love" her, but if I really did, I wouldn't have cheated on her so many times right? I guess I am just not "in-love" with her anymore. Her and I constantly argue and she is always so insecure. She has the right to be but she has been insecure even before the cheating started.  What should I do?  I have told her that I am only with her for our some when we argue. She thinks I said it out of spite, but to be honest, there is truth behind it.

My wife and I live in Arizona. Do we need 2 wills or would a living trust be better? Currently all our assets is in both our names.

I had a sore back in the small of the back, but after price negotiations fell apart, some how I payed $150 to give the massage therapist a massage.

My 23 year old daughter recently got her license, finally. Now she s in the market for her first car. She s been saving her money and I've been helping her look. I found a few cars on Craigslist for her but last night I came across one that a little less in price but it s a 5 speed stick shift. I text my daughter to see if she d want to learn how to drive one. I know how to drive a stick and owned a manual shift car for several years. That was several cars ago and long before I met my wife. When I mentioned to my wife last night about possibly teaching my daughter how to drive a stick, if she decided to purchase this car, she got all upset. She was like, "you daughter just learned how to drive an automatic so why would you want her to learn to drive a stick? Plus, you haven t even taught me how to drive one." We don t have a stick in the house right now and I don t know anyone with one who would let me borrow it just to teach my wife how to drive a stick. And why would I? Her car isn t a stick. My SUV isn t a stick. We don t know anyone with one. She feels that I need to teach her how to drive a stick just because I may teach my daughter to drive one, that s if she buys the car I showed her. This will be my daughter s car and there s probably a 100% chance my wife will never sit behind the wheel so why is she so adamant about me teaching her how to drive one. My wife has always had this thought that I have to do for her first before I do for anyone else.

He is what they call an alcoholic. He got help but she did not support him when he got back from rehab as she wanted him to be automatically perfectly normal and did not get the "mental illness" part of alcoholism. She is a heavy social drinker herself. Meanwhile, she is divorcing him after 21 years of marriage and thus he is drinking again. My Mom's family now despises his wife for the evil she has caused. The couple has two kids, one in high school and one in college, and they are now scarred by being from a broken home the family says. The son in college is in a specialized college as he is Autistic and so that makes the family breakup even harder. At the same time the family is celebrating the departure of uncle's wife as she has never been popular. His first wife (mother of his older son) they liked and that divorce they supported the ex saying the uncle was a bad guy cause of his temper. That marriage was also much shorter at five years. So is this aunt a bad person for the crime of divorce or is it a private matter like I feel and nothing we should judge either one for?

She had her first child when she was 23. She's 47 now. 

I already asked this question but I think I should give more details. We've been together 8 months. Never had sex. He has 2 kids. Lives at home with his wife and I'm obviously a secret. Says SHE cheated on him multiple times and that is why they are not together. However does not call me when he is in his home and only does when he is out. Is extremely possessive and jealous of me even though it's technically a long distance relationship because he lives in another city. Tells me how unhappy he is and has every intention of leaving her but it's trying to do it the best way for the small children. Says he has not been intimate with his wife for over a year. Has no pictures of her on his Instagram (which i follow from a fake account and he had it private) Says the sleep in seperate rooms and are barely at home at the same time because she works nights and he works days. Is there anyyy chance this might be true? The only thing iv ever seen was his wife commenting on his public Facebook profile picture heart emojis. I am single and have no children. Says he wants to marry me and to just be patient with him. I don't know how the divorce process goes and in my head he told me he was going to divorce her before even meeting me. I don't want to be the reason for their break up but because it failed on its own. I guess I just want honest opinons. Thank you. Also should be noted he plans on visiting end of this month and staying in my house.

1. Smokes weed all day long 2. Has constant mood swings and gets angry at me 3. No car, no job, lives with parents at 40 4. Gets Social security disability but most of that money goes to weed and dept owned by credit cards 5. Has a whole host of mental and physical issues  6. Always plays the victim and feels entitled 7. A really bad back seat driver 8. We have very bad communication and the same issues never seem to get solved 9. Her tone of voice gives me anxiety 10. We can't be in the same room for too long without arguing over something 11. Never excepts responsibility for anything and always blames me  12 Very disagreeable and indifferent  13 Both my parents and most of my friends want me to end it 14. We can't do hardly anything physical because of her pains. So we sit at home most of the time and she just smokes

My wife and I have been married for a few months and she keeps going to her parents place every few days. Sometimes she goes there at night to watch movies (even when her folks are fast asleep. When I ask her if she wants to stay and watch movies here with me, she says that it's better at her parents place. Sometimes she will leave our house at midnight and stay out till 3am or won't come home at all. For the record. I know without a doubt what she is telling me is true. But.. I find it weird that my wife randomly wants to go to her parents place at odd times off the night. I'm not stopping her from seeing her parents (but I'm sure she can do it at a more reasonable time,.. maybe even when they are awake haha. I'd just like to go to bed with my wife at the end of the day.  Am I in the wrong here? Or have I got reason to be a little weird about it.

I'm 27 I met this girl who's 31. She seems like a great girl. She has a PhD already, she teaches at a local university, and seems fairly stable. She has no kids and was never engaged or married. She told me in her early 20's she had a really hard time career wise and struggled a lot. She was focused on school and a career and that's why she never married.  I told my mom about her and my mom warned me to be very leery of women in their 30's who have never been married because often times there is a reason no man has married them yet and they come with a lot more baggage and issues. She thinks I should find someone closer to my age. (Early to Mid 20's)  Is there any truth to this? Should I stop talking to her? Should I look for women 25-28? Am I better off? 

Please, before anyone starts talking sh** and judging - know that this situation is very dysfunctional and f***ed up (I know, I m a sh**y person). I feel so heart-broken and I don t know why. They are already married, so nothing really changes besides having a big "celebration" for it. I feel so sad to the point where I feel like throwing up and I m just trying to hold myself together but their wedding is in a couple days and I don t know how to cope. I met this person from a location I used to work at, he worked across the street. We clicked instantly and he told me he was single at the time. I caught the feels, and we started talking more. Move forward 8 months later, I found out he was married. Mind you we ve hooked up millions of times (almost 5/7 days a week) already and have said I love you s. When I asked him why he s cheating on his wife, he said that BACK THEN, he and her already broke up but only stayed with her because he got her pregnant when they were younger and he felt the need to take responsibility and marry her and have told her many times he s basically staying for their daughter. Their daughter is 4, so I supposed they married roughly 5 years ago and it was a city hall wedding. Something about him, I cannot seem to leave. I know I m a sh**y person for staying even after I found out, you don t need to remind me. When asked why he doesn t just leave instead of lying constantly to wife, he said that he s mainly worried about custody of daughter, and not having the support of HIS side of the family (he doesn t have any family in the state) and all the drama that comes along with a divorce. Now, they are having another wedding. He said mainly because all her friends are getting married and she s jealous and wants to have the real wedding experience. He has SAID (could be sweet-talk), that he said doesn t know why he s going through with it and that his situation is sad when I asked if he s excited/nervous.