what should i do as a muslim ? Honor

I hope her life ends in tragedy.

A friend of mine I've known for years recently revealed to me that he and his wife have only had sex once in the last 3 months. That's any kind of sex at all. He reckons on average he jacks off at least once a day and will even do it in bed next to his mrs without her batting an eye, helping or escalating things to sex. They've been together like 5 years and only married for 2. It sounds wrong to me but he just says that's marriage. Is it though?

My mother in law recently passed away, when she was sick she made my husband promise to take care of my father in law. The problem is my father in law is such a horrible toxic person, however my husband is so kind hearted, he will not break the promise he made his dying mother nor will he stand up to his father. In turn now I have to listen to my husband, vent about him, and my father is law is making my husband miserable. I am not sure how is step in, causing the least amount of problems as possible. Example: I was in the hospital, having surgery my husband was with me, at the same time my father in law had an appointment with his cardiologist. Now every day he calls my husband telling him how worthless he is because he was not a good son he was not there for him. He told him over and over he needed to be with me, but still takes it from his dad. I told him to just hang up but he won't he feels he breaking that promise to his mom.

I know the movie was very long and shouldn't have won an Oscar since it seemed rather useless. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=eyUmEBwZdhc Rose was arranged to marry Cal. I'm discussing this because it reminds me of my husband (whom my parents arranged for me to marry) and in-laws mocking and abusing my taste and gifts in languages (and art) after they caught me using language learning websites and apps, practicing and speaking multiple languages, and displaying my artworks online. The only difference between my husband's taste in languages and art and mine is that I have some while my husband does not have any as well as talent. Well, my parents, relatives, and other people have mocked me for it as well, not just my husband and his parents. Anyway, did Rose deserve to be mocked for such interests, according to online ultra-conservatives?

My husband makes me very angry at times. Some of them small some of them big things. One example, he put the duster on the kitchen table, It drove me absolutely crazy because duster is a dirty item and it has no place on kitchen table. He is a very health oriented person, then he does this! But why am I so angry with that.

My friend has been with his girlfriend for 15 years now they have no children together. She has a male friend they are very close she would go help him fix up their new apartment he is planning to move in then hang out afterwards. She would sneak off to help him but leave her phone at home to charge. Despite having suspicions about them sleeping together this past weekend they had a problem with her sister who lives next door so they went to the bar for a drink. He was there she brought him drinks because he usually buys her drinks or cigarettes whenever she stops by the bar they play darts together or sit in the far corner at the bar in deep conversation drinking. He went home she called him to ask permission to sleep over his house and he said Yes? Also this is not a troll question but what would possess him to let his girlfriend sleep over another man's house and not care especially if he thinks something is going on between them? They both work full-time and only can see each other on the weekends. What would you call a man who let's his girlfriend sleep over another man's house?

A wife left her husband (who was 12 years older than her)for another man after he gave her a great life such as security, a home in a great city, and set her up in a business. She never had to work as he paid for everything.... would that knock a mans confidence? They have 3 kids together.

My boyfriend wants to open a joint bank account with me. He is separated from his ex (they did not legally separate) but still married. Do my assets get lumped in with his during the divorce or would it only be that account since his name would be on it?

My relative married an engineer after she graduated college. He has good job and money, yet I was shocked that she feels sad and very down since he went to a much better college than her. I don't understand, like why isn't she happy she married a man with a good job?

I'm a woman and my first boyfriend from 30 years ago who I met some months ago again, won't introduce me to his wife, although we're very friendly and he's introducing me to friends and family.... What's up with that?

My fiancé's and I have been together 2 years . His previous Girlfriend and him were together for 5 years (no kids together ). The ex is still very close with both his sisters and cousin . They see each other weekly. I'm feeling annoyed by this and it gives me anxiety. The reason it gives me anxiety is that both sisters and the cousin have kids, for family gatherings and birthdays, I'm constantly anxious the ex will be there since she is close with my fiancé family. I know I can't tell them to stop the relationship with her, but I can't help but feel upset about this. The one sister already knows I dislike it, but does not care. I feel like they should have some respect for me as their brothers soon to be Wife. We will be married May next year .

As in, a matter of months. Were they cheating or are men this weak and disrespectful? Years ago people were in mourning for at least a year.

So let me start this by stating the obvious: I KNOW HE IS MARRIED. I am recently divorced. We have never hung out outside of work. Well, I did start to crush on him (it's been a year since he's been working here) and I knew I needed to put that in check. Well, he would routinely ask me to come to his very private office for lunch DAILY. And we even talked once about crossing lines, but acknowledged it was in bad moral conscious. Well, I put space between us and stopped going to his office. But he's started this pattern of ignoring me whenever I don't come to his office. He'll walk right by my office and speak to others in front of me. It's more comical than anything. But why would he care if I'm hanging out with him anyway, since we both know we aren't crossing any lines? I feel like he uses me as a security blanket ONLY here at work. And to be honest--because I did want MORE than a work buddy---I also distanced myself from him to respect his marriage. At one point earlier on when we first met, he would hug and touch my hands---so I know he liked me more than just a friend.

I had mine young. I was open about it. I never once met a women who said it was a "deal breaker", so I felt no need to hide it. My wife would not have given me a second look if I had children. She was very happy to know I had it. I was wondering if other men had vasectomies without telling. I did not hide mine. My wife and I are over 50. The issue is far "off the table" with us.

This is my 3rd marriage and his 2nd we are both in our 50s. Husband says is done because we have financial helped out my family 5 times in those 4 years. Not same family members but different ones. My husband said after the 3rd time we need to not do this anymore. Well now after total of 5 times he has said that cant keep doing it and that my family treats like a emergency piggy bank. Also since I cant seem to say no to them maybe its best we divorce.

My parents aren't operated yet, but my mom is currently making plans for it. She told me and my sisters recently and said she is saving money for them to live in separate places until my dad sorts his **** out, and will divorce him if he doesn't. I am 18 and grew up watching their relationship, and it isn't always the healthiest, so I can totally understand why she's doing it, and I totally support it. But I can't help but notice that it's really changing how I see relationships. I find myself more closed off emotionally, and cynical about relationships. Although I know my thinking isn't good, and I know why it's happening im not sure how to prevent it? Is there anything I can do?

I need your advice on how should I be acting and feeling towards my husband. I apologize for a very long story. This incident happened almost 4 months ago as a result of him getting pissed of me not paying half of his son's apartment that would probably by $500-600 per month. I kicked his son from the house few weeks prior to that due to a fight triggered by him not listening and not doing anything at the house, don't wanna be told, etc because i'm not his mother. My husband got his son a room. His son's mother move to the room but doesn't wanna pay. I was sent by my new workplace to a different state for 1 week then my husband bring his son back. When i got home I was quite, he knows I was disappointed. The next day they were both gone he texted we are looking for apartment and said "you're paying half, right". My reply was "no" I work so hard for my money" That Sunday,our 5 yo son was eating in the dining table. I cannot remember how it started. All I can remember is that him with all his hand and face gestures screaming at me "You're a *****!" "you are just so ugly ******* *****". Ugly, ugly ******* *****!" "I don't know how you became so ugly!" He pointed to my hair in a bun "Look at your hair, I don't like that! " I don't want to be married with you anymore" I'm divorcing you!" He previously called me names such as monster, most horrible person, crazy, Evil person as far as I can remember-that took me several months to get back with him but this is the worst ever.

She got offended with that. Doesn't anyone else agree? We are both working and trying to keep a roof over our heads, we cannot constantly be in each other's face. 30 minutes on the weekday should be acceptable. every two weeks we have ONE day where we spend the entire day together but that's only once every two weeks because we both work a lot and hardly ever have the same off day. I work 12 hour days sometimes and after work I'm extremely tired that is why i suggested only 30 minutes on the week day. I noticed that she's started to hold conversations more with her male friends. I hope she's not about to start any emotional cheating. I hate when women want to emotionally cheat because they are not getting enough attention. We cannot afford to be in each other's face 24/7 we would be homeless. especially with the rising cost of EVERYTHING.

Maried 7 years, together 10. when I met her she was just 18.Tought my wife angel, before marege asked about her life before me, she didnt tell nothing, she was angel. We have 3 kids, she is good mother, good wife. But I find out she had 7 sex partners from 16 to 18 years old... and she slept with her boyfriend on party and in 10 minutes with his best friend in another room, boyfriend was IN ANOTHER ROOM. Mabe for someone it all sounds stupid, BUT for me cant watch on her already one month. Dont want sex with her any more.... =( heart is pomping, want cry... What doyou guys think ?