we were best friends for 10 years and we got in an argument november 2017 and haven't talked since and i found out she moved this year and goes to a new school. i want to reach out and so i followed her on tumblr (the one she had when we were friends, idk if she still uses it) and my tumblr has my name so i'm hoping she'll message me asking if we can be friends again or follow me back at least but nothing! it's been 30 minutes and she hasn't done anything. i'm scared she'll block

So i had a best friend for 10 years from elementary to 9th grade and in november 2017 we got in an argument and stopped being friends and we haven't had contact since and i found out this year she moved away and doesn't go to my school anymore as of this year so i decided to reach out and follow her on the tumblr she used when we were friends (idk if she still uses it) and i followed it to try to get her attention so she'll message me if she wants to be friends again and she never messaged me and hasn't followed back either. i did this 30 minutes ago and she hasn't messaged or followed back and i'm sure she knows it's me bc my name is in the tumblr i followed her on

i'm a 15 year old boy. most guys at my age sound like guys but my voice is high. i sound like i'm 12 or like i'm a girl. why is that? will my voice get deeper?

were still in the same friend group of like 6 people, but she's now like besties with another girl from our group. what rly irritates me is that she has talked bad about everyone in our group saying she "hates them", including her new "best friend". I dont rly know what I did to her, lately shes been so rude to me and she tries to subtly put me down in many situations. if im like why r u being mean shes like damn chill im just joking. I cry a lot because I miss our friendship and I always feel left out now. they invite me to "group hangouts" and im there, but I always feel left out. like they'll all be talking in a circle and im awkwardly outside and trying to squeeze in and see whats happening, and after a while I just give up. my old best friend tells her new bff everything, and when they talk about stuff that happens in her life in front of me I have no idea what they're talking about and it makes me even more sad that she doesn't tell me anything now. idek what to do I just want to go to college and leave all this **** from high school behind. I dont even have other close friends in high school I can hang with

I know I already asked this but I left something out of my last question. I am a 27 year old female and I have a friend that's 59 and me and her were hanging out and I had makeup on and she pretty much told me that I looked sexy with my makeup on. Do you think that's weird that she said that?

I am a 27 year old female and I was hanging out with my friend that's 59 and I had makeup on and she said that makeup looked sexy. Do you think that's weird that she said that?

I'm a high school freshman, and I don't have many friends. There's specific acquaintances/friends I want to become closer with (close enough to hangout outside of school) but I don't know how to do it. I don't know what to say to them or approach them. How can I?

im still a high school senior but I'm going off to college abroad next year and im worried about fitting in and making friends. the friends I have today I have known since a very long time I am not used to being alone and making fresh close friends.

So me and my best friend who've I've known for 11years all of a sudden had a falling out. I know it is my fault because throughout the years he's been there for me. He's bought me food when I had none, saved my life once, and stood up for me. In return, I've lied to him so many times that I don't even remember what half of them are. I threw him under the bus many times because I was too much of a frikin coward to stand up for myself. But what was the number one thing I did was that I treated him like that because I thought he can take my pain. Use him like a punching bag. Cussed him out here and there. I was a bully to him. What's ironic was that throughout my whole life I was a victim of bullying and I guess I became the bully. Despite all of this, he still stuck with me because he believed that I can change. Now I can't stand to look at that person in the mirror. Every time I see my reflection, I want to break it so that it reminds me of the disgusting and broken person that truly reflects me. I regret everything that I've done to my best friend. He was the one and only friend that I've had and we've been through so much. I've been bullied for throughout all of my school years because of my aspergers, with people calling me retarded. Now I want to stop bullies and help people who will not become a person like me. So my question is, is it too late for me to change? Everyday I look in the mirror and am disgusted. Should I call him or just leave him be? I feel like my own pain should be my own friend. Or maybe even worse. I've been feeling so guilty now that lately I feel my mind is shattered and now I've been living with depression for years because of all the things I've done to him. I still want him to be my friend but I would understand if he doesn't want to anymore. I want to call him up and say how sorry I was a friend to him but I feel like he'll just ignore my call. Maybe depression and alcohol should be my only friend?

So me and my best friend who've I've known for 11years all of a sudden had a falling out. I know it is my fault because throughout the years he's been there for me. He's bought me food when I had none, saved my life once, and stood up for me. In return, I've lied to him so many times that I don't even remember what half of them are. I threw him under the bus many times because I was too much of a frikin coward to stand up for myself. But what was the number one thing I did was that I treated him like that because I thought he can take my pain. Use him like a punching bag. Cussed him out here and there. I was a bully to him. What's ironic was that throughout my whole life I was a victim of bullying and I guess I became the bully. Despite all of this, he still stuck with me because he believed that I can change. Now I can't stand to look at that person in the mirror. Every time I see my reflection, I want to break it so that it reminds me of the disgusting and broken person that truly reflects me. I regret everything that I've done to my best friend. He was the one and only friend that I've had and we've been through so much. I've been bullied for throughout all of my school years because of my aspergers, with people calling me retarded. Now I want to stop bullies and help people who will not become a person like me. So my question is, is it too late for me to change? Everyday I look in the mirror and am disgusted. Should I call him or just leave him be?

I met this guy on Facebook in a group we live 5 hours away from each other. I live in Michigan and he's in Illinois. He's been texting me every day and he told me he feels like we have a connection. He said he would pay for me to come see him. Or either he would drive to where I am. I am sexually attracted to him. And I would like to have sex with him but just once. But what does he mean when he says he thinks we connect? No, I'm not slow, are you? No, it's not stupid and he's not a rapist of sex offender please keep your b*llshit to yourself if you aren't actually going to answer the question.

so lately i feel like my friend has been really obsessed with social media. its kind of like all she ever talks about now. she'll be texting me how she got over 10k views on tiktok every week. at first it was like woah thats cool but now its just annoying. i know this sounds really dumb but its really getting on my nerves. shes the kind of person who likes to seem really cool on the internet. she says its an escape from reality. and i get that because im guilty of using it as an escape as well. but shes just gotten too caught up in it and its like she strives to be internet famous.

I met this guy on Facebook in a group we live 5 hours away from each other. I live in Michigan and he's in Illinois. He's been texting me every day and he told me he feels like we have a connection. He said he would pay for me to come see him. Or either he would drive to where I am. I am sexually attracted to him. And I would like to have sex with him but just once. But what does he mean when he says he thinks we connect? I never said we were in a relationship you can't read.

I live in an apartment with a dude and his gf. We all get along pretty well, but they both arent very good people due to reasons I'm not getting into. Anyway. I buy a 50 dollar bag for my dog and put it in a bug box. The gf has a dog too, and I noticed my dog food was disappearing quicker then usual. It might just be me, but it seems like it. Anyway, I woke of this morning, and heard one of them walk downstairs (were my dog food is) and I heard dighing around in some dog food I assume was mine, and than I heard it go in a dish, and than they walked back up stairs and went back in their room. Are they really that cheap to buy their own dog food? I dont know, but I'm pretty sure they are using mine, and its pissing me off.

I'm a high school freshman, and I don't have many friends. There's specific acquaintances/friends I want to become closer with (close enough to hangout outside of school) but I don't know how to do it. I don't know what to say to them or approach them. How can I?

On September 18th me and my friend will have been friends for 3 years And next Wednesday I'm going to text her that 3 years ago today we became and I have texted her the other 2 years before that on the day we became friends so is that weird for me to do that every year? She doesn't mind that I text her that though but I was just wondering if it was weird. Sorry I didn't know how to word this

I am not the person to be insecurely, I'm kinda weird (not to be "I'm so quirky," I mean the outgoing willing to be yourself with your friends and stuff). And I am usually confident with myself but I have found little things people say to be bothering me. Like, someone asked a friend of mine what she weighed and it was a few pounds less than me and I was immediately feeling insecure even though we're both small. I was gonna let my friend borrow pants but she said "they'd might not fit, I think my hips are bigger than yours." Again, I was insecure. Little things people say keep bothering me and i have no idea how to make that stop? If anyone could give any advice that's would be great! I'm feeling less and less good about my body type and I wish I were more curvy or athletic or strong or something but I'm just a twig lol.. it doesn't look good either insecure* not insecurely haha

In school I had to enter a class room to take pictures for year book. There was someone in that class room I was avoiding to see at all costs. I remember walking with my friends and we ended up taking pictures of that same person. I remember I was trembling, and my heart was racing. I don't even remember what we were talking about. Right after I got out of the class room I haven't remembered what exactly happened

They are sitting together every morning before school, and at lunch, but I dont want to join in case they want to be alone so instead I pretend that I want to be alone. The problem is I really want to sit with them, but dont want to disturb them. Im 16 btw

I have this super hot best friend , and I'm kinda average compared to her , so whenever we go out and hang out with other people or people we've just met , all the attention will be on her , Asking her questions and stuff, taking pics of her (photographers) ,and I'm just sitting there awkwardly , so I really want to know what you should do in those situations?

Hello. I have been trying to contain my emotions, but now it's just getting to me. My brother has so, so so much more than me. I'm not talking about things, which he has more of. I'm talking about lifestyle here. He just has (gasp!) a real social life. Like going out to parties and having sleepovers. And all I have in regards to that is school and sleeping. Maybe one friend, who isn't available all the time. And then there's the driving, which you absolutely need where I live. I won't be able to due to my vision impairment, even though literally everyone has a listener, and he has 20/20. He also gets away with much more because of his sense of humor, and gets to do anything on the weekends as a freshman in high school, while I have to sit at home and work. Oh, and I actually just found out that my parents might be letting him fly alone, all the way to New York for 2 days to spend with his friends. I'm just so lonely and thinking there may be no hope until I (might) move out in a few years. Please help. Thanks.

Okay so I'm going to try my best to explain this. I really appreciate advice on this. So basically a few years ago I met a girl on an online forum. We became very close friends and started talking daily. I was very lonely at the time and she was the only person to really care for me and help me. No one had ever cared for me as much as she did. After some time I fell in love with her. Unfortunately she already had a boyfriend before we met so we just stayed friends. Because of my insecurity I would sometimes cuss at her and call her names. It hurt her but she would always forgive me. Over time we became even closer. We talked to each other every single day, all day. Sadly I was abusive sometimes. One day she left me. I had to plead for months and eventually she came back. Said she couldn't handle the abuse anymore but forgave me. After that the next few years my abuse only got worse. I would constantly abuse her for hours. Even made death threats to her. She always promised me she'd never leave me and be with me for life. But one day she told me not to contact her anymore or she'll call the police on me. Since that day she has never contacted me again. After that I also found out she had a Instagram where she started making new friends and uploading pics of herself. (Not enough space so I have to write the rest here) I know I acted wrong. I'm not justifying that. But I can't change the past. Today I no longer act the way I used to. I really love her and it hurts me she left me and is with other people now after everything we've been through together. She has not contacted me for years since she left and will block me if I try. Honestly do you think she did the right thing? Who is wrong in this situation?

Okay so I made a really good friend last year because they were in 2 of my classes and we had this group. The other two people in the group, I have a class with this year but I don t have a class with my really good friend. It s been 3 weeks, and we still see each other during passing period but our conversations can t last long since we have to get to class. I don t want to lose the friendship but I don t know what to do...

I feel like no matter what I do, I always look younger and "innocent". I have a baby face and no one takes me seriously, everyone just treats me like a joke and subconsciously perceives me as being younger so they don't want to be my friend and don't have any interest in me. They basically write me off and already have preconceived ideas about me just because of my face. It honestly sucks, I hate having a baby face. I wish I had a chiseled jawline but instead have fat cheeks. It's so ugly and embarrassing. I wish I just looked my age like everyone else.

So a few months back I got caught up in some stuff with my parents they went through my phone and everything and saw stuff about parties, etc. basically a lot of it happened with my really close friend and since me and said friend had a falling out for a while not long before that my mom just decided that I wasn't allowed to be around her anymore. I do understand where she was coming from but also now me and that friend are very close again and I would like to be able to have her over again etc. I've been debating bringing the friend up to my mom again but I don't know how to approach my mom about it so basically I need advice on how to try and reintroduce that friend to my mom.