Last night, I said something out of line because she was staring at me while I was crying in a movie and I told her to stop looking at me. I apologized to her and said that I didn't like being stared at when I'm crying and she said didn't even respond. She kept texting me angry messages talking about how I'm ungrateful and how I'm paying for what I did and called me names, but I already apologized. I didn't text her back because I'm trying to give her space and when I told her that I already apologized, she says "whatever" and that I didn't mean what I said. What should I do?

im 21 and my dad said to me today I love your mother but I would love to leave her. then said he was joking but he looked so serious. I told my sister this and we don't know what approach to take. please help.

I personally love blonde hair and I ask my dad which hair color you like the most he said black. My aunt she always dye her hair brown, I ask why not blonde? She said she doesn't like blonde. I said SOME people. Not all

I have been getting put down by my sister for not buying her kids birthday cards and presents. Her kids are 18, 15, 10. I am always broke and She still expects me to buy them something. I would rather spend time with them than give them a silly gift that don't mean anything. It's my nephews 18th today and my sister is calling me selfish and an embarrassment for not giving him money at least. I don't get on with her much anyways but I only hear from her when it's her kids birthdays or xmas time. That's not how i show my affection by tossing money about and buying gifts. My time with you in person should be more valuable. So i am in the wrong for stopping the celebration of birthdays? or am I doing the right thing and doing what makes me happy?. Thanks

The son only lives 8 miles away and they have a good family relationship otherwise.

So I had a feud with my biological father because I finally confronted him about neglecting me all the time as a kid, and it turned into a huge fight with his family members because some of them took his side in the issue. Well long story short, I told one of my cousins from his side of the family that I was coming to town, but I told him not to tell anyone. He agreed not to. When I visited and we took pics, he kept asking me not to put them on social media. He seemed super scared and said he doesn't want to make it seem like he's taking sides. I got a little shocked because I wondered why he was so apprehensive about me posting the pics because he's the one who kept telling me no one even cares about the issue anymore and people rarely discuss it.

my mom thinks being beautiful attract rich men but these days men like educated and successful women like themselves. Im female, for example if im successful I like to marry successful. So do men prefer rich women or beautiful women?

Something happened with me and a family member. My mom keeps saying that molesting means something went up a hole. The person grabbed my boob and grabbed my butt (I was under 10) they was touching my butt and their thumb went between my buttcheeks. Was I molested or 'playfully touched'?

This happens every morning , but he acts nicer during the later hours f the day. He purposely stepped on my sore toe so I would push him on the ground out of anger. Leaving is not an option because my local minister told me not to leave or doing anything that would tear apart our family.

I'd rather not work right now. I go to college 2 days a week. I don't live an expensive life. I just ask for a little money weekly for lunch at college, bus money, weed (it's legal), beer, clothes (this is rare, like once every 3 months), razors, barbers, shower things (just general hygiene things), and maybe every couple months I see a game or something else I really want. My dad works very long hours and he's always been happy to pay for things. From 18 he's never asked me to work like some of my friends parents. He has nothing else to spend his money on - no siblings, wife is dead, he doesn't care about expensive things. I don't understand why he's suddenly become a goblin hoarding his money. I haven't had a birthday. I've been 20 for 5 months now. Just out of the blue he said I should get a job for at least a couple days a week and start buying some of my own things. He said he'll still pay bills and groceries but it would be good for me to pay for some of my own extras. I would prefer not to. I didn't make a fuss when he said this to me. I thought he's forget or just not mention it again but this morning he asked if I've been looking for a job. I should've said the truth NO, but I lied and said I've been looking. I don't see why I need a job. What's happening to him? I don't want to be an adult. I'm happy with the way things are. I like to not have a job.

She wants to live a lavish lifestyle but doesn't want to put in the work for it. What's her deal? She works as an associate at jcpenny and barely makes any money and I have to give her lunch money. I work at coca cola corportation and it's decent money but we have a big house in a fancy neighborhood and tons of bills, if she had a good paying job I wouldn't be so stressed out about all these bills piling up. She's so break that she has to do garage sales once a week. Me and others have told her why not just apply to get a better job. I think the problem is she's not motivated enough. On her off days she doesn't wake up until 12 pm and she literally watches tv from 12 pm until 12 am. She sits in the same spot and watches tv all day long. She talks about motivating our 3 kids but she can't even motivate herself. She always talks about how she wants us to travel to los Vegas and Miami and all these places, I told her get a better paying job because I can't afford all of this alone. She said she's been working forever and it's time for her retirement. She's 49. If I was a doctor or lawyer or rich then she could stay at home everyday but I'm not, even though she's barely bringing in enough money anyways. I have to pay most all the bills and even the groceries.

he thinks she's so nice and good girl. I know she has had sex with her secret boyfriend. meanwhile I'm treated like devil son with him always checking up on me. I got caught drinking once and that became the new narrative, that suddenly I couldn't be trusted and do bad things. ONE THING I DO AND IT GIVE ME BAD REPUTATION AND RULES WHILE SHE SLUTS AROUND IN THE SHADOWS

My parents baby sit my 18 month old niece every Thursday for 5 hours, and just to be able to do this they're working 9 hours 4 days a a week (with 90 minutes travel time) and just 4 hours on Thursday. This is affecting my mum so badly, she loves being with her grand daughter and looks forward to Thursday's. But she's always tired, she's become 6,000 times more pessimistic than she was before, she's always tired and will become erratically angry within 3 seconds...for no reason! A lot of times she even says bitchy things completely out of the blue. I believe this is all because she's stressed out and working too much. How do I tell my brother? Or should I ?

Every Thursday I'm forced to go to my dads house until Sunday.I feel very upset because I'm 14 now and I want to go and do things with my friends.I personally feel that going to his house for 4 days just to do nothing is boring.My mom acts like she's to scared to say anything to him.I don't want to spend my full weekend at his house.But my mom want say anything and i'm a kid.Also it's like he's ungrateful for who I am.Every once in a while he finds something little and gets mad at me for it(the mad parents get when they know their teen is on drugs).But see he gets so mad for little reasons and it's horrible I rarely do anything and when I do its little but he gets mad like I did something big.You know I could be on drugs, pregnant, smoking, or worse putting my life in danger but I don't.

My younger sister is 14 and started smoking. She told me if i tell Mom, she'll beat me up. Think I should say something but afraid to get hurt. What do you suggest?

Alright so I got a new stepmom a couple years ago however we didn't really get close until a couple months ago. Anyway one day she saw my underwear sticking out and said I should pull my shirt down, I didn't listen so a couple minutes later she took the liberty of giving me a wedgie(I was wearing briefs) and she started cracking up especially since I was wearing tighty whities. Now she gives me a couple a week especially if they're sticking out. I don't mind them and I know she's just playing around when she does it, it's just a little embarrassing. Does anyone else's mom or stepmom do this or am I just a nerd lol?

I recently had to defend myself from my father. It all started when my parent's money mysteriously started disappearing and barely had enough to feed the children they made. I ended up having to feed the kids and pay the rent all by myself. I had to dig in my savings and then I finally hit that point of being broke. I was looking for another job and happened to check an email. I noticed something strange my email told me someone was accessing my email from a particular phone.... which my father owned. So I told him about it and he ignored it so I changed my password. It was 3 am we were all sleeping in the car since we were homeless and I woke up and he was on the phone trying to access it only to find out my password was changed. He demanded to see my bank account balance and i refused because that is weird so he pointed a 357 revolver at me and threatened me. So I walked away and ubered to work with the limited amount of money I had. My assignment ended a week later . I got had last check left. My father apologized and me and my family were all in the car and i bought everyone food they needed money for gas and I couldn't. He stopped in traffic and actually got out the car and I did too to protect myself and he attacked me and had me in a chokehold and everyone saw . Ever since I never went back to them now I'm on the streets. Back to the original question what should I do for my siblings ? One brother and two sisters . One 13 and the others in elementary.

I woke up in someone's womb and now I'm here with you guys.

Most people even make a little avatar that looks like their real life self. The location map shows streets, places, symbols, etc. My daughter says she doesn't add strangers on it, but people she knows can be a real danger too. She is able to see which location other children from her school are currently at. For example, she's shown me which kids are likely at home, at school, or skipping a class even if they shouldn't. Other people can do the same to her.

2 reported problems have been reported to my former manager whereas the doer did not know that I left that job. When my brother went to reveal my personal information to the formar boss ( as he used to be a snitch ) the manager revealed the 2 problems to him then he gossiping them to my family without letting me know about what he has done and what knew, but I sensed from my old sister when she is talking to me in anger about the 2 problems ( but with hints as she was not clear because she did not want me to know too ) I sensed she thinks that I know what i have done with that doer who reported the problems to my old boss thinking i still working there, but i do not know anything, I just remembered I made two mistakes but there were old mistakes i have done 2 years ago, however i surly know it is the 2 old mistakes through the hints my sister revealed to me when she was angry talking to me, now my brother reveal it to my family and I noticed they have changed towards me completely, besides my stupid brother revive that two mistakes and looks like he admitted those pictures belong to me because he lives at the same home although no one else knows these pictures belong to me or not. What do you think should I do? Now the doer who reported to my old boss maybe certain now that pictuers belong to me thanks to my gossiping brother. Do I look like in a problem?

I have an adult daughter that has been cruel to everyone she has been close to...me, her brother, cousins, aunts, uncles....even her husband has said he "cant' believe he lays his head down next to her"...I had to cut off all ties to her as I age. She, like her older brother was raised with love, good home, mom and dad her loved her...this is what blows my mind, her brother is a loving, loyal man to all around him. My heart breaks over the other.

So I'm black, my dad side of the family are lawyers, military men like my dad, and some of them have their own mechanic shops. My mom on the other side is a mixture of teachers but also have cousins in gangs. I think this is the reason my mom and Dad split. My dad was married to a black Puerto Rican women until he passed away 3 years ago and I have two younger siblings on that side. My mom has been single but is dating someone. So any ways I have a girlfriend her mom is Filipino of Spanish, Japanese ancestry and Native Filipino. Her dad mother is Irish/German and her dad is Mexican of Spanish and northern native Mexican tribe. My girlfriend aswell as their brothers look Italian. So they're not black. My girlfriend met my cousins on my mom side and she didn't like how they were with her. I didn't like how they were with her. I was actually quite embarrassed. My moms side of the family is calling my girlfriend and her family a racist and calling me a sell out. If my brother would be alive he would not have tolerate this ****. I'm upset that my mom is getting brainwashed by her sisters about me turning my back on the family.

how is that possible? A daughter and her father also being brother and sister ??

So it sounds stupid and I'm NOT trolling but my younger sister abuses me every chance she gets. I'm 22 and she's 16 but she's also 20 lbs heavier than I and a lot taller. I'm a runner and she's a wrestler. Big difference in body type. Every chance she gets she punches me, tackles me and chokes me out. She's not playing around either. She always has an intention of hurting me. One day she choked me out real bad where I could breath and felt like my trachea broke And my dad laughed. No one ever stops her from hurting me. Last night in a small quarrel between my sister and I, my dad hit me and then gave her permission to hit me. What do I do? I know moving out seems easy but I'm also in a bit of a rut with college debt and my job. I've talked to both my parents but they laugh at me or ignore me when I mention how I'm hurt by the physical pain and abuse my sister brings me....

My dad married a much younger woman. I am 18 and my step mom Liz is just 5 years older than I am. She is a great mom and I just adore her. Dad loves to dance but Lis did not know how to dance. She ask me to teach her so she could surprise dad by asking him to go dancing with her. I would practice dancing with her when I got home from school until dad got home from work. It took a while but she became a good dancer. She surprised dad by taking him to a dance and he really enjoyed it. When the got home from the dance, dad told me how pleased he was I taught Liz to dance. He said they had a great time dancing that evening. Liz said I owe you big time for teaching me to dance. It gave your dad so much pleasure. She said "What can I teach you to do that you will really enjoy"? Any suggestions on what I can tell her she can teach me to do?