I just got back from school and my sister is always home. She can t drive and the only car we have is being used by my mom at work. I looked everywhere and can t find my sister anywhere. She graduated a year ago so she s always home. All the doors are locked and i can t find her anywhere. should i be worried or am i just being paranoid?

I'm a freshman in high school. Three long years away from being 18. And I absolutely despise living at home. It's to the point where I cry everyday when I come home from school. I have to share a room so I don't get any privacy. I sleep on an too small and bad quality futon that's giving me back problems while my two other siblings have queen sized beds. My parents never let me go anywhere and they're constantly controlling who I'm friends with. They let my other siblings do whatever they want. They don't even ask where they are going when they leave!! And my sister is only a year older than me. I'm absolutely miserable at home and want to at least stay at a friends house for a while but like I said they don't allow me to do anything no matter how miserable I am. What do I do about all this???

to other 20 year olds as well, if I could get a job I would but no one will hire me through no fault of my own.

My sister goes to an art class on Mondays there's anew.guy there she has a crush on. She said she couldn't stop staring at him she stared at him all day she couldn't take her eyes off him. She's really shy especially around guys she's not good at making friends. She said she sat beside him at lunch today she felt really nervous. She said he's so cute she's excited to go back next week and see him she wants to tell him she likes him maybe ask him out but like I said she's super shy. How can she tell him she likes him ? How can I help her ? My sister hates coffee. She said he seems shy too he was really quite he also seemed kind of depressed. She wants to find a way to cheer him up. She said all he did was mostly listen to his music all day

thinks he's entitled, is passive-aggressive always slamming doors, cupboards. when we have family get togethers he thinks everyone admires him and makes loud sigh sounds or slamming his cup down kind of like an attention disorder. It's pathetic and my dad doesn't do anything about expect complain or stays silent and doesn't care at all. Should I even bother to care to talk sense to my dad? He's fragile in the topic and acts like he's the victim?? I don't get it, he raised him! I basically raised myself and glad I move away cause it seems my dad likes having someone be so helplessly dependant on him his whole life

my sister in law to be my doghters godmother but I have changed my mind she is always wanting to come over and I feel uncomfortable when shes around with my boyfriend most of my family doesn't really talk to her and I feel like I made a mistake by asking her to be the godmother can I still change that and pick nre godparents or is it to late because I asked her already .. ps.. the babtisum hasn't been done yet ...

Her mother plays favorites which is the aunts reason for hating her as the aunt is not one of the favored ones.

He is an awful man.

I am a 24-year-old man in grad. school. I stay at home to save money. My parents master bedroom is right next to our kitchen. My mom sometimes dresses up in front of me when I am using the kitchen. One time she only had her underwear and no bra on and her back was turned against me when she knew I was eating in the kitchen and I could see her. Sometimes she will dress up, when I am using the fridge. Is this an accident and she likely does not notice it? Perhaps it is just for fun to get her esteem up? Thoughts?

My mom expects me to be so self confident an love myself while I'm always around her and other influences that are body shaming themselves. What should I do?

okay soooo long story short. my mom is stealing my cat i had for years. she got his microchip under her name. is there any possible way i can change it to ky onformation woth me being the name of the owner wothout alerting her? like is there a way i can do it in secret? i have proof he was mine and was always mine. photo proof and person witness to prove he s my cat but i always lived with my mother. i m just recently this happened and im planning to move out and this is how she is retaliating.

I have a cousin and he is 35. He has a job, he makes money but he still live with his parents. All the money he makes go to cars and new phones. The problem is that he always complains about everything and he makes my aunt's life pretty miserable. He always curses at her, punches the walls, scream every time somebody is noisy and wakes him up... I mean, that is not okay! He is old enough to go live in his own house. I can't stand seeing my aunt like this. She looks tired. What can she do about it? This isn't normal, is it?

He lies like this all the time and I am mad. I can't go now cause he promised he would in January and now changed his mind. Grace: He actually criticizes me for being too honest.

I always miss out cause my parents always say no.

so I have been lonely my entire life no friend or anything, and it's because i'm socially awkward and don't like the way people always treat like I am an alien and wired. but my parents did love me mostly my mom she always supported me and I couldn't even change myself to be a little cleaner and organized so that she doesn't have to clean up after me every time i make something or cook or my room every week, and I also keep losing items which is embarrassing and it really bothers her even if she doesn't show it. and then there's my dad which is a whole other story, soooooo... my dad was raised under very outdated circumstances, his parent way of encouraging him to be better was to belittle him and call him names so he be forced to change himself and he think it has worked pretty well for him(yeah he is a narcissist). other thing is his father was never there for him when he needed so he always had to rely on himself and which he didn't like. okay now he always belittle my called me shame an embarrassment I had kliensfilter syndrome so I grew breasts as a kid, which he always made fun of called me a girl(he thinks of it as an insult) and even encouraged me to become a prostitute if I couldn't find work in the future. oh yeah and he beat me almost every day. other thing is he blamed me for being insecured and unconfident, he always said HOW ARE YOU MY SON I AM BETTER THAN EVERYONE AT EVERY THING BLAH BLAH.... (my poit is he was both physically and emotionally abusive) all that said he did have a lot of good qualities he always provided and protected me (maybe a bit too much, he was overprotective) I never had anything less than anyone of my peers and kids around my age if not more, he did buy me the best car as soon as i got my driving license and taught me a lot of the things i know like driving and mechanics( he was a car mechanic and one hell of a driver). but the problem is I know he did it because he thought after all this abuse I would try and become better, but it didn't work on me it just made me awkward and shy and introverted. but i know he didn't know any better he did every last bit of that for me and I never stood up to him, I just conserved all that abuse and hate till last week so now after 26 years of silence last week i took it all out on him now that he's week and old all in on place and I did everything I shouldn't have done, I insulted him belittled him called him names blamed him for everything that I didn't like about myself until his ego couldn't take it anymore and he tried to physically attack me, so I broke him completely by beating him. now I don't know what that makes me? he wasn't the worst dad but i needed to stand up to him but I think I over did it

I'm a 22 year old woman and my husband is 25. He had a terrible car accident six months ago which led him to a severe brain injury. He needs me to take him to the bathroom, wash him, brush his hair and his teeth and so on. The only thing he can do independently is to go for a walk in the garden, paint a few flowers with a pencil and sit on the toilet. He has lost the ability to speak. I love him with all my heart, but I feel overwhelmed. Sometimes in the middle of the night he screams and cries and I suddenly wake up, then he sticks to me and doesn't let me go anywhere and I have to sing for him for hours to make him sleep again. He has become a helpless child. Our families support us a lot (both financially and emotionally). I've hired a nurse to help me take care of my husband. But with all these things, I feel frustrated. I DO love him, but I'm tired, yet I don't find it fair to just isolate him from his house and the ones whom he loves. The doctors say that there's not much chance for his recovery. Draw*

Let me start by saying, I care for her, I love her but her spending habits are way to much for me to think about having a future. We ve been together for 8 months now, she spends money every day, she got 8k back on her taxes and has blown 6k in 90 days. She eats out literally every single day lunch and dinner, has spend all her money on make up, clothes, trips and just random items she doesn t need. She has a enough make up for 50 people. I am 43 she is 35 and I want someone who is responsible. She has been driving with a revoked license for 3 years she said, needs to pay fines to get her license in order. She feels like that is a lesser priority than the things she buys. She wants a house but i m afraid to with her because she spends more than she makes. When her tax money is gone that s it, she only makes $9.50 ph so she will be broke again. Is it wrong to not to be with someone because of this? She talks about getting a joint bank account when we get married but I m scared to because of the way she spends money. She has not gone a day this week without spending $100+ dollars on stuff/things. I work my *** off at my job and save and only buy things when I need them. She refuses to listen about her spending habits and tells me she can spend her money the way she wants, I agree but it s irresponsible. HELP! :)

So i'm moving this year and when I go into my new school I'll be entering as a sophomore. The school I currently go to is my whole world. It's perfect for me and gives me so much potential. I don't, at all, wanna go to a new school and even thinking about it makes my anxiety really high. And I know for sure my mom is moving so I don't rlly have a choice :/

In 2017, my father and I got rlly close and were like best friends and he was my hero. I didn't want anything but to be with him. Towards mid 2018 I started to lose connection because I was focused on my friends and school life. As of now I avoid him. He always says something about my sexuality and just does ignorant things. (I'm a 15 year old boy btw)

I am 16 years old and I live with my mom, dad, my sister, and my brother. All of them have really bad phone addictions, they are on Instagram all day, or just on the internet all day. I can't even talk to them without them using their phones, my sister is 11 and my brother is 10, it's sad how they have phone addictions at such a young age. I can't even talk to my parents anymore, they don't listen to what I say, my siblings barely get out of the house, especially since we are homeschooled. I make an effort to get out and ride bikes with friends or do other fun stuff outside. My mom doesn't work, she just stays inside on her phone on facebook. My dad works but when he gets home he just uses his phone. What should I do about this? I told them to get off but they never listen to me. I am about to have a breakdown.

My parents are divorced and I love both of them. My mom got remarried and I've never liked my stepdad but I guess its what she wanted. I don't like talking to him and don't like who my mom is around him. On the other hand I love my actual dad and I love talking to him and he gives the best advice (my mom gives terrible basic advice). I just really don't like my stepdad and I was wondering if a part of my hate for my stepdad could be that my actual dad is already amazing and don't want someone to "replace him"?

Why don't homeless people realize this? Just go and buy a house if you're homeless omg why are they so stupid

He is arrogant, deceptive, a liar, and extremely ignorant.

They ruined my life by banning me from my loved ones growing up and now those loved ones ban me. I am a shameful person cause of my parents.

I just moved back into my mothers house, because she lives in a large house, and its difficult for her to maintain herself, and my previous living arrangements were a nightmare. I no longer have a job, but have around 5 grand saved. I'm still trying to live cheap. I'm paying rent, but I buy 2 cereal boxes, that last me a couple days. I leave them down in the kitchen cupboard instead of storing them in my room, so it looks like I'm contributing. Well, my mom goes, and grabs a box, and lays in her bed, and eats them. She has made me dinner every night since I moved back though (3 days ago), so maybe her eating my cereal is justified.

So my mom has a work time over 9pm-2pm,sleeping,and then 9 again.When i wake up she either isn't home or she's asleep,and i can't make noise or cook or she'll wake up and get mad at me.I'm under 18,not even 16 tbh,and she does this.Then she says theres plenty of food,even though in the fridge it's either 4 month old veg or condiments like sauces or something.No actual food i can cook.And in the freezer,everything is frozen solid and/or somehow rotten.Or when im asleep she buys fast food and leaves it out for me and my older siblings and by the time im awake and go to get some its all gone.What do i do?Im currently hungry rn and shes sleeping but i dont want to make noise.Im contemplating on going to the store a few blocks down to get some food with my money.

Today I went to visit my old house and my mother's purse had some money in it but I was to afraid of taking even a few coins out of there.

So I'm an 18 year old in high school. I am supposed to graduate in May. But I can't graduate because I owe my school 230 dollars for all the clubs I participated in the past 4 years. I actually owe $200 but there's something called a senior fee. Anyways I am running out of time. I can't find a job that will hire me because of the no experience b.s and I don't know how to earn money online consistently enough to have $230 in 2 months. My mom doesn't even know and I can't ask my mom because she honestly won't pay a dime and probably yell at me. I can't ask anyone honestly because I'm to embarrassed and ashamed to. I don't even drive lol. Some nights I can't sleep and I cry because this stress is eating me alive. When the day of graduation comes around and everyone hears that I won't be walking on stage because I'm broke, I will put a bullet in my head. I'd be to embarrassed and ashamed to live another second. I'm not asking anyone for money, but please help me find a way to make some. And some advice would help maybe idk. I just need some ideas. I searched everything I can on the Internet and I'm just praying and hoping that someone smarter than me can give me the answers I need.

If it weren't for my 12 year old son I wouldn't have anything to do with my parents, but he loves them and I know it's important for him to see them during the summer. We moved cross country 5 years ago and my parents have come out only once to see him. One time he flew back alone which I won't do again and the last time we (husband, kiddo, and I) flew back as a family. My son misses his grandparents but I'm tired of my parents being irresponsible with their money and then being on the hook for airfare because I know it'll break my son's heart if he doesn't see them. Should I just deal with always being financially responsible to facilitate the visits or should I tell me son that they could make better decisions and come out here to see him? I'm really trying to do what's best for him, but it's a long nasty history with my parents. Edit- Sorry, I didn't make my issue very clear. Not only do I have to pay for my son's airfare I have to pay for theirs as well. Since they won't travel without each other I have to pay for their 2 round trip tickets here to get him, my son's round trip ticket, and their 2 round trip tickets to return him a few weeks later. I'm on the hook for *5* round trip tickets just for my son to see them every summer.

Their home is safe and both kids are meeting their basic daily needs. It's the lack of morals and boundaries that is making her kids endanger themselves. They are both lying, sneaking out and picking fights with older people who have assaulted them. Both children are under 13 years old, they aren't teens yet. It is abnormal to show this amount of delinquency at a young age. I'm concerned about their safety, since they're interacting with people who can endanger them, and their actions are putting them at risk as well. Something serious can happen and their Mom cannot always stop it. Based on observation, it's usually her children who tells Mom what to do and they'll scream, yell and swear.

I m thirteen years old and the oldest sibling of two. I am very interested about hosting an exchange student, and to add I ve always wanted an older sibling and I feel they d be the older sibling I never had. However, my family is struggling a bit with money right now and as of this moment, I don t think they d be very on board.

So I'll keep this short. My parents have been separated before but now they have decided to divorce. We moved to Colorado about a year and a half ago and it's been nothing but awful for me. I was diagnosed with situational depression because of the move from oregon to Colorado and i ended up doing my junior year online this year because school was just too much for me, it was the only time I really ever hated school. I've had my job for about a year now, which I really love. But I want my senior year to be fun before I go off to college and I know my school back in oregon will do that for me. But I also know I've burned a couple bridges back in oregon too. My mom and my brother are staying here in Colorado, but my dad has given me the choice to either stay in colorado or go back to oregon. What should i do? I don't want to be miserable for my last year of High school but I also don't want to leave 2/3rds of my family behind. I also love playing water polo and seriously have considered playing it in college and it is only offered in oregon and not in colorado. I'll also have to play it next year if I have any chance at all to play it in college. I have to have an answer by tomorrow morning. Any advice?

The bully's parents use her "autism" as an excuse for her bullying. The girl is homeschooled but my daughter attends regular school, so I can't complain to the school district. However, we are neighbors so they see each other often. The girl has beaten my child, spread false rumours, encouraged her to kill herself, and even caused some physical injuries.

Help, I don't know what to do...I'm 32 and I live with my parents. I do have full-time job and make around 2800-3200 monthly depending if I work overtime or not. I do have a boyfriend but it's not quite serious yet. I'm taking online classes so I can finally finish my bachelors in December. I do have 19000 car loan that I shouldn't have in the first place but I wanted a new car. I do help out with the bills because my mother is the only one working and my dad is getting social security but it's not enough for everything. My mother is very supporting but my dad is something else. He is very controlling and questions my every move. I do help around the house with cooking and cleaning, etc. I'm afraid to move out because I won't be able to help out them out with the bills and pretty soon my poor mother won't be able to work and then who's going to help them. My dad wants me to pay ALL the bills of the house with the exception of the car insurance. I do have roughly 18k saved up in savings and 25k in a 401k.

my mom and i are not having a great relationship.

Me and my girlfriend are having our 3rd baby in July I never thought I have to worry about having kids until after what happened to her cousin. Her cousin passed away last month was 14 weeks pregnant with her second baby her son had just turned 3. I never thought having kids was a bad thing until all this happened she just posted the week before she died the baby was healthy and everything was fine. She caught the flu the next week also had a sever heart condition like my girlfriend does then the next week she was gone. Her heart stopped on the way to the hospital they were unable to save her and her baby. Me and my girlfriend have 2 kids our daughter is 8 our youngest daughter just turned 4. I'm really scared to have more kids with her especially our son who will be here in July we been trying to the last 3 years to have a boy now that we're having one it kind of scares me. I don't know what to think or to do right now. I'm not leaving her we're getting married next weekend. Should I be worried ?