im 16 and i know this is pretty sad but like i hate it when people touch me. even with my family and friends. it just makes me so uncomfortable when people touch me and hug me and stuff but i dont want to tell them because that would be mean. but why am i like this? i feel really bad about it. ive always been like this

I would say that thing is at least 10 inches. Lol

I was at the hair salon. While the stylist was doing my hair, he randomly talked about stressors that will cause lack of hair care (i.e. having kids).....and then he added "first marriage though before kids".

hello I need help, I want to suck, I hate my life, I hate everything, well 2 years ago my father lost his vision, before losing his vision he was a violent person he beat my mother and me, verbally mistreated my sister, my mother and me, I never did anything out of fear, then he lost his vision and adopted a charismatic attitude and started making jokes, this bothered me because he did it to give pity and help him, since he could not stand on his own same as not having vision, this is just what happens with my father, then I have a sister who once broke my arm with a kick after an argument, I was 11 years old and she was 15 years old, besides being very envious , always wants me to go badly to others, just like my mother who is toxic and I feel that she forgot everything that my father did to her since she treats him like an angel, I feel like I m just alone in my house, empty with nobody that supports me, I do not have friends or anything since I have invitations to leave But the depression wins me, thank you and I hope you help me any word or suggestion.

one night stand aren't you scared she might be crazy or maybe they have bipolar or schizophrenia ?

I may be moving from a large metropolitan area - partially by circumstances, partially by hesitant choice - to a smaller city. I know if this goes through it will be a very difficult adjustment being accustomed to plenty of public transportation/no car, more job opportunities, progressive culture, more choice regarding everything, etc. It s a decent reason prompting my move (mainly being closer to family/support system), but I also feel like I m giving so much up that prompted my original move in the first place. For anyone who s made this adjustment (or a similar one), how did you cope? Or contrarily, if you backed out, what prompted it? Note: I'm single, without kids. So mobility is definitely there.

My sister just called telling me my cousin and her family will be flying in for a visit. My cousin contacts my sister, but not me, even though I texted her several times last year when her state was having flooding out of worry, but she never made contact with me after that, and didn't contact me for several years before my texts, even though I sent greeting cards. When I didn't sound happy about her visit, telling my sister she never contacts me, and I asked my sister if she knew if they are coming to my home and where they are staying she got very angry. My sister said angrily, "maybe she doesn't contact you because she's very busy, has a sick stepchild, etc, etc, I never said they wanted to stay with you, if you are lucky they won't call you, why can't you be happy that they are coming, etc. etc." I'm very upset about the situation and my sister's anger, I need to know if they plan to visit because my place is a mess right now due to the holidays, my property needs to be spruced up, both my elderly mom and I are disabled, so I would need to hire help since they are coming in a few days. Do I hire someone to clean whether they visit my home or not? Should I be upset at my sister, and if so, what do I tell her?

Ho già fatto questa domanda ma non credo di essermi espressa bene.Un'anno fa ho conosciuto questo ragazzo più grande di me di 8 anni,dopo esserci visti un paio di volte non ci siamo visti più. Quest'estate mi ha ricontattata e io,siccome mi piaceva ero contentissima.Dopo che ci siamo sentiti per parecchi giorni,quasi un mese abbiamo deciso di vederci e l'abbiamo fatto,dopodiché ci siamo visti ancora e l'abbiamo fatto altre due volte,quando parliamo continua a dirmi di essere sua,a me piace(credo che lui l'abbia capito ma per ora ha detto che non ha intenzioni serie)soprattutto i suoi modi di fare,ogni tanto mi invia canzoni da farmi ascoltare.E ogni volta che lo facciamo mi coccola sempre,mi fa pensare che a me ci tiene e che forse vuole farsi desiderare un po' troppo

I have been with my boyfriend for several years. We come from different backgrounds. My only language is English while he speaks both English and Nepali. Anytime we are with his friends they all speak in Nepali (even if they are fluent in English). I feel very left out. He will translate here and there if I ask but not always. He gets kind of mad and will say "if they ask me something small like pass the salt do I need to translate that too?!" I have tried to learn a little Nepali but it has been difficult. I have asked for him to try and speak English so I am able to understand at least half of the convo. He refuses to do this because his friends will think it is weird. Same situation if we are talking to his family via. He says he doesn't understand why I have a problem with he and his friends/family speaking another language if I'm there. Anyone been in this situation? Do I have a right to feel upset?

It's honestly sickening. Some people are calling their fathers daddy and then turn around and call their significant others "daddy" that's disturbing. I'm disgusted with society.

Hello all, This is going to be a long "question" so thank for taking time to read it. I have been dating my s/o for over 3 years now. He is originally from India and I am from the US. We live in the US. The time has come to take our relationship to the next step. We would like to move in together/get engaged with in the next year. I have to be completely honest I feel so much anxiety about this instead of excitement (which I think I should feel). I just have always had an off feeling in my gut about moving forward. He treats me wonderful and we get along very well. I'm in my late 20s, he's in his 30s. Both work full time and are financially stable. Potential issues for me: he moved his mom in with him recently. She is very nice and from what I can tell she likes me, but she does not speak English (I don't speak their language). There is the option of finding her an apartment to give us a little privacy, but she is completely dependent on my bf. We will be needing to support her financially as well as taking her where she needs to go. Language barrier. When my bf is with his friends or talking to his family they always speak their native language (even if they speak English). This makes me feel somewhat excluded. For instance, we have gone to dinner with some of his friends (who all spoke English) but spoke their language the entire time. Any advice is welcome. About to run out of characters. Can't shake off gut feeling.

How do you think he will react? We are both over 35. What about if I say "I like you a lot"

I met my current bf 5 years ago. Right after i stopped being friends with my bestfriend because i realized she wasnt a true friend. So idk if she knew about me and him or not but a year after me and him stop talking she started messing around with him he didnt know me and her use to be friends. Now almsot 3 years later me and him is dating and he told me all the women he previous messed around with and i was like wait i know her thats my old bestfriend and he told me that she was talking junk about me saying im ugly and things and im like wow. So she now has a baby thats 10 months looks nothing like her looks like him. She shows no father in the picture and im left wandeeing if its his. He the one that told me that his friend said the baby look like him. He said he doesnt know hes not sure. I asked when did you have sex with her he said around dec 2016/ jan 2017. I beileve she had her baby around march april or even may idk. But does it add up ? Should i stay if so ? I have a kid of my own when me and him wasnt dating during the 3 year separation.

So I went out with this girl I like at work. I don't know if it was a petty date (or even a date if you call that), or what? But she asked if anyone wanted to go hangout with her. Well, Nobody replied, so I said, "I'll go." Well, she never followed through, until recently (it's been two months now since we were planning to hangout). I don't know if I was a rebound? Because another female coworker said that she went out with a guy, but she wasn't sure if it was a date (not sure how long ago that was)? So maybe she initially liked that guy first? Or she's exploring her options? Anyways, I didn't like her at first, but after we spent time together, I caught feelings for her. Now, I can't imagine without being apart of her life... We went to the store, then the movies as we first planned. We then went bowling together because we didn't want to say goodbye just yet. She ended up hurting her arm the next day, and I apologized heavily for that, but she found it annoying that I was worrying. Anyways, we were driving back to her place in my car. I really wanted to tell her how I felt, but before I knew it. She said "goodbye" to me, and left. She also didn't say much on the way there, so I was hesitant. Anyways, I asked this girl who's my friend on what happened? And she thinks she was just nervous... I'm having doubts because she never texts back much. It's always five word texts. And twice, after that. I ask if she wanted to go spend time together. The first time was through text, and she didn't come because she fell asleep. The second time was in person. I asked her during work if she wasn't doing anything for New Year's Eve, to go spend time with me. She said she was thinking of seeing her family, but since her family lives far, she said "Okay (to my invitation). I really don't want to drive over there." While smiling. But she ended up going.... She has also started talking less to me, too... So should I just give up on her? I'm having withdrawals from the thought of not trying with her. Like now that I like her, I can't imagine life without her.

Suppose you are attracted to a guy that you see in public place (eg: food hall), who do you think need to approach? Is it the Guy or YOU? And why..... Only for adult girls above 25 years old...

My boyfriend's female friend was taking her jacket off, and said, "it's hot in here," and he goes, "damn right you are." He said it was just a joke, but it make me feel really weirded out. I asked him to not call his female friends "hot", even if it's in a joking manner, because I find it to be disrespectful, and he became really defensive, and told me that he would not stop because it's his "natural way of joking around." It's really weird to me and I don't know if I am wrong for being uncomfortable even though he says they are "jokes"

Me and my boyfriend were at his friends house for New Years party. I was leaving after staying for an hour and my boyfriend was staying for much longer, however he was like do you want me to drop you off and I said it's upto him, he initially said he was a bit drunk and didn't want to drop me. Why ?

Avoidance of loneliness mechanism?

My ex expects me to stay with him when he does't want marriage, doesn't want kids and doesn't even want to live together. He likes his own space too much. How can he expect anyone to be happy with that. I don't know if I want kids, but I would like to live with the person I'm seeing. If the relationship is never going to progress, what's the point. He is 35. Does he expect us to live separate lives, meeting for dates forever more lol. He has no faith in relationships and wants his own space. Well isn't that almost like being a bachelor for the rest of your life. Except he is not a player and very shy. We have been seeing each other on and off for 3 years.

I have the weirdest relationship with him. The first time I saw him I couldn't take my eyes off of him. He was so tall, self confident, cute with his sad eyes and this sovietic kind of attitude. And then there's me, my head reaches his shoulder, I'm shy, tomboy, awkward and I write and daydream all the time. At first he was really tough with me, he called me 'hey you! Come help me' while setting tables or doing reparation works. When I answered back that this was not so polite, he told me 'I am like this, and I did not misrespected you'. He's a new neighbour so I see him often. One day a guy hit me with a firecracker. He got mad. He was so worried about me and lost his temper, shouted and punched the guy after I was sent to ER. I remember crying and asking for my mom and he looking so sympathetic and was trying to make me calm down although he was so nervous himself. After that he always asks about my hand. This summer he had a shocked face when he saw me with a dress, and asked me 'is that you? Where are you going with that? Whos getting married?'. Like he was not used that the girl he would talk about football and matches could wear a dress. So he has these sarcastic jokes, harsh ways of calling me and when I'm at my worst he comes to help. Why is he so? Once I told him I always wanted a bigger brother like him and he blushed and said he wanted to have a little sister like me. Then there was an awkward silence and he said he had to go. Why is he like this?