Family: Question: I have no peace in my home with my mother being here?

Question: I have no peace in my home with my mother being here?

Posted: 02 Jan 2019 02:13 PM PST

I actually want her to move out ny house and figure out her own way in life. Me and my sister paid off her home back in October and she ended up selling it. I need my space from her because me and my sister stayed with her for 2 years until she got up on her feet. Nothing has improved for her or her in the last 2-3 years. She has no income - nothing from disability. Everytime I say something to ger its feedback esp in my house. I AM TIRED OF HER LIVING WITH ME.

Question: Is this **** right?

Posted: 02 Jan 2019 02:01 PM PST

My mom is 42 yrs old .. im 20 w/ my 2yr old son , my brother 22 , my brother-in-law 18 , & 2 little sisters ages 18 & 13. We all live in one house . My mom doesnt work and makes me , older brother & brother-in-law pay rent $100 each , pay bills $86 each & pay her truck loan.. i also pay $50 for her to watch my son while i work and $60 a month so my bf can stay with me on the weekends. I also have gotten out 4 loans out for her ... Now is this ****** up . Or is it just me????

Question: What would you do if all your life your mom told you she doesn't need you?

Posted: 02 Jan 2019 01:55 PM PST

All my life my mom has had insecurities about men. And every since I was old enough to understand shes told me she'll never need or rely on me. But she finds people that are willing to wait on her and do things for her including my friends when I was younger, my sisters bf's. and church members. Shes elderly now and still does the same thing. But all my life when we have an argument or disagreement she brings these people up and tells me she doesnt need me because she has them, including now. So, I got use to it and I dont help her as much as people think I should and they think Im just being a bad son and she plays into that. Till this day she'll say "I dont need you" or something to that affect. Im at the point where I want nothing more to do with her. What should I do? And shes the type that says cold things but behaves like nothing happens and doesnt even know what youre talking about. Shes done that forever. Her zodiac is Scorpio and I already have an idea how they are but Im at my wits end. Whats worse is that Im expected to take care of her by others since shes elderly.

Question: Do you think my parents talk about me behind my back?

Posted: 02 Jan 2019 01:51 PM PST

I'm a 27 year old guy and I'm 5'5 and 175 pounds. When I moved back home in 2012, I was 115 pounds. My weight has just felt out of control after I battled an eating disorder for years. I'm trying so hard to get back under 120 pounds again. I just worry that my parents talk about how fat I got since I wasn't always this fat. I feel like they look at me as a failure. They're fat and my brother is almost 100 pounds heavier than me. But I wanted to be the really skinny son. I feel like they constantly talk about my weight behind my back and it makes me want to die because I'm a piece of **** who couldn't even stay relatively thin.

Question: My father lied about me not being able to move to nyc because my uncles moved upstairs what should I do?

Posted: 02 Jan 2019 01:09 PM PST

Okay so if you look at my previous questions i was talking about how that I'm planning to move back to nyc next month because of job opportunities and high pay and stuff and that I was gonna move back in with my grandma and brother and help out with bills and grocery's and I already have a job waiting for me there. Anyways I told my mom that I wanted to move back to nyc and she said she's not gonna stop me from doing what I want and I was gonna tell my father but my father called me yesterday saying that I can't move in with my grandma because the space is taken and there's no where else to live. He said that my uncle moved back in. Then my father told me that he's not allowing me to move in back to nyc not gonna happen even after I told him I'm Adult and I get to make my own decisions. I'm 21 years old and he still doesn't allow me to do what I want. Anyway the whole thing seemed fishy because my uncles now lives with his girlfriend so why would he wanna move back to my grandmas so I called him and asked him about it and he said he was never planning on moving back with my grandma. So my dad lied to me to make me think that there isn't any space so that I won't move back and he's pretty much preventing me from going after my goals and dreams and being happy. What should I do in this situation? Should I move in my grandmas without my dad knowing? Btw my grandma told me I'm always welcome to come back and my grandma is my moms mom not my dads!

Question: Discovering my aunt late?

Posted: 02 Jan 2019 12:02 PM PST

My father doesn't come home very often. But when he does he sometimes invites me to go to my aunt. I have met her like 3 times in my whole life and I don't see her as a family member sadly. Mostly because I've already grown up and got this image of who my family is printed inside my head. So it's weird being around somebody you never knew in your childhood, when in reality that person is a close relative to you. Especcialy if she's from a whole different culture. I've grown up in a Dutch culture, when she was born and raised in a Turkish culture. They have different norms, food, language and such. What to do?

Question: I wish I was dead?

Posted: 02 Jan 2019 10:58 AM PST

Don't say don't do it, I have 0 friends, no family members message me or hardly ever anyway, I only talk to 3 grandparents, 1 auntie but rarely, 2 siblings but hardly ever and parents but only because I live with them. No one wants me in their life, I'm ugly, I get told by my own family, I get treated like sh*t by everyone for no reason, I did used to be popular, talk to family all the time, I've had boyfriends too but I've lost everyone, everything, I have no one, I just want to die. No one wants me in their life, I only have pets to live for. My own parents can't stand me, I have no GCSEs because I failed them all and got U grades, I have barely any job experience, no one will hire me, I'm not conventionally pretty so people treat me badly and I can't get jobs, I just want to f**king die, I've prayed but they don't get answered, I pray to die all the time but if there is a God I'm being ignored, I have no future, no money, nothing. How do I kill myself?oh and before any horrible c*nt tries saying people have it worse or people are dying who want to live, I would be very happy to get cancer, I wish I would do I could die.

Question: I hate being the only kid that lives in my house?

Posted: 02 Jan 2019 10:56 AM PST

Im an 18 year old dude and i hate being the only kid in my house because i get blamed and yelled at for everything. Every small little thing is my fault and even when i try to distance myself from my parents by going outside and enjoying my life my mother is paranoid all the time and wont let me go anywhere. I dont know how much longer i can be caged up in my own house and its really pissing me off. And the reason why im the only kid in the house is b/c my half brother left b/c of how toxic my mom is. Idk what to do im in university i just want to graduate and leave. Any advice

Question: My daughter does not like wearing panties. What to do?

Posted: 02 Jan 2019 10:34 AM PST

She is 9 years old and has never worn panties. I do not know what to do ... I do not want to see my daughter growing up without wearing panties I already forced her to wear her panties by force but she took them to the bathroom and took off her panties and pretended she was wearing them.

Question: Inlaws insult my husbands clothes ?

Posted: 02 Jan 2019 09:58 AM PST

He doesn't have terrible clothes . He doesn't buy what they buy but he wears muscle shirts , shorts and sometimes a T-shirt and they can't stand it . If we go visit before church ,he has on jeans and a T-shirt his mother and brother say "you're wearing that ?? I don't get it ? Why does it bother them so much ? He likes what he likes? Should I say something or stay out of it . My husband doesn't seem to care bc he continues to wear what he wants . It just drives me nuts bc it's every visit and his brother does it the most

Question: Necesito ayuda!?

Posted: 02 Jan 2019 09:18 AM PST

Question: My mom won't let me use deodorant, what should I do?

Posted: 02 Jan 2019 08:01 AM PST

I'm 13, almost 14 now, and my mom won't let me use deodorant. I haven't been properly diagnosed, but I think I have anxiety because I almost always feel stressed or anxious, like something bad is about to happen. Sometimes I get panic attacks for no reason, my muscles are really tense, my hands and feet are almost always ice cold, and I get this hollow feeling in my chest. When I lay down, I can sometimes literally hear my heart beating and sometimes feel out of breath. Anyways, I get nervous sweats a lot, and sometimes I sweat for no reason but I feel on edge or jittery. My mom doesn't let me use deodorant (I'm south asian and there's no real word for deodorant in the language she usually speaks) and she always says stuff about chemicals and cancer. I have sweat so much too the point were I have sweat stains near the armpit areas of my shirt and kids at my school have made fun of me for it. If I'm in PE I always get the stains. She's the most Indian person ever and if I try to talk to her about it I get yelled at about how I'm ungrateful. I sweat so much and sometimes it smells. My parents will tell me that I stink and need to take a shower, and sometimes I do more than twice a day, I still sweat. She used to be the same way with my older brother, but my dad got annoyed and bought him some. I can't ask my friends for help because I just moved schools this year and they don't know me well. What should I do?

Question: Do you have your own room?

Posted: 02 Jan 2019 07:02 AM PST

Question: What do you like to do when you are alone in your home?

Posted: 02 Jan 2019 06:59 AM PST

Question: I have never met my mom?

Posted: 02 Jan 2019 06:46 AM PST

When my mom gave birth to me she left me with my dad ever since, i do have a mother figure in my life ( one of my dad's good friends and also my grandma ) but i would really like to meet my real mom but do not want to hurt the lady i see as a motherly figure ( Although i know she will not have a problem ) how can i reach out to my mom?

Question: Never met my mom?

Posted: 02 Jan 2019 06:42 AM PST

My mom fell pregnant with me and when she gave birth to me she left me too my dad.. i am 17 now, my dad never really talks about her much when I ask, i have a motherly figure per say one of my dad's really good friends, but i really would like too meet my mom but at the same time not hurt the women I see as a mother figure

Question: My mother shouts at me every morning. Help?

Posted: 02 Jan 2019 06:07 AM PST

My 67 year old mother shouts at me every morning to get up calls me a slacker and tells me i do everything wrong and that i wont ever amount to anything in my life because im a lazy piece of sh*t. i dont have the money to move out right now but today i got so mad i hit her, I cant deal with it anymore help. By the way i have anxiety and depression and left my last job because of that

Question: My mother is making me feel guilty for moving away (F, 21)?

Posted: 02 Jan 2019 05:34 AM PST

Okay so I'll start with a couple details on my situation; I am 21 years and been dating my boyfriend for 5 years now. We met in Canada but he couldn't stay because his visa got denied. He was born in Germany so it was an option for us to move there. We did long distance while I was still in school and in university. After one year of uni, we decided that it's best for us if I move to him to Germany. My mother was never supportive of this decision but she couldn't force me to stay. It seemed at first that she accepted it almost every day I wake up with 100 messages from her saying that I never loved her anyway, that it was selfish of me to move and that I am stupid that I left her for a guy. She makes me feel like a horrible person and I find myself crying because of it all the time. We skype every day and talk all the time. I also just got back from visiting her 2 months ago. Am I really that horrible for just wanting to live my life? What should I do to make her finally accept it?

Question: Am i wrong or keep moving on?

Posted: 02 Jan 2019 04:44 AM PST

Single young parent of two. Its January and i physically left their dad around August. (Mentally then physically) he had became so toxic to me and his own people. Whenever he gets mad be prepare for a fight. He didnt want to do anything School or Job. Thank god i have a support system on my side. From Aug to Nov , the only thing that had me be around him and keep up with him was a vehicle in my name(SOLVED AND OUT THE WAY) In Oct i had my final straw and cut completely ties with him after he put his hands on me. Also did couple unforgettable things to me in that car ride. I feel completely guilty of keeping the kids away from him but i feel safer. Hes now carless and just in the streets cause his people dont want him in.(Harassed me of taking him in, my people doesnt like him) . He texts me of how bad hes going through it and how he has nobody and all. It hurts cause that my BD and dad of my kids. But during these 5 years, he proved me nothingggg. This problems has been so heavy in my head i dont know who to talk to. Am i wrong for not responding, lending a hand or anything ?

Question: My parents are control freaks!?

Posted: 02 Jan 2019 03:39 AM PST

I moved back in with my parents after my divorce, to get on my feet I have a 7 and 12 year old. They try to control my kids and act like the parents. they even keep my oldest sons dad away from him. They always say my son doesn't have to go out with me and he has a choice, they even try to threaten me with court and custody of my oldest son. I believe its pretty sick how they treat me. They think that my 12 year old is their son, they tell me I cannot take him out and I should not make him do something he doesn't want to do, they also with hold court ordered visits with my oldest sons father. I HAVE custody not my parents. they also gave my son permission to go out with my sister who smokes pot constantly even after I told them no that I don't want him around her. I have full legal custody, my parents never took me to court or have any rights to my kids. I believe my parents are just trying to take control of my kids.

Question: Thinking of cutting out sister and dad out of my life?

Posted: 02 Jan 2019 02:18 AM PST

I don't have the best relationship with my dad and sister. I'm a 19 year old female and honesty I'm done with their s***. Thinking of cutting out them from my life. Need advice.

Question: How can I deal with my dad?v?

Posted: 02 Jan 2019 12:47 AM PST

My dad is always picking fights with me and causing unnecessary drama. He yells at me whenever I do something even the slightest bit wrong and yells at me to grow up when I'm laughing at something I find funny or even when I'm doing nothing at all. If I'm busy he will come to me and start yelling at me to do something he wants me to do first. Even during normal conversations he finds something to pick a fight about and I've really reached a point where I'm fed up with constantly being yelled at for no apparent reason.

Question: How can I truly love myself and boost my self esteem?Help!?

Posted: 02 Jan 2019 12:31 AM PST

I don't consider myself beautiful but I think I'm just average but the people always put me down. I'm sometimes jealous of my mom because she so gorgeous and people think we are sisters and complements her. I'm a Muslim girl and when Muslim men tries marry a girl they always go for the most beautiful one. This makes me think I will always be alone...right now I'm not going to marry anyone until I get my degree and job.. but when my mother was in my age or younger ...men would always wanted her. I remember a time when I heard a strange lady was staring at my mother while I was not there but heard the whole conversation...strange lady asked my mother "why does your daughter doesn't look like you?" In other words why doesn't she look beautiful as you. My mom just laughed and explain that my dad isn't good looking...I was really shocked and it really hurted my feelings and this kept happening to me and people/ family members only say nice things to me in front my face but talk **** behind my back....my mom always compares me with my "pretty" cousins and she says went they turn 18 they will definitely get married right away because how beautiful they are and I not sure pretty but average .. basically my dad doesnt isn't the best looking but he likes pretty women and racist/ bitter to the ones are ugly. And he feels lucky to have a pretty wife (physically). The thing is my parents aren't bad people they always spoil me and love me but sometimes they are just too much

Question: Help my Stepmom is mad because my Dad got me a gym membership for Christmas. Does she have a right to be mad?

Posted: 02 Jan 2019 12:24 AM PST

I am 16 and overweight when my dad asksd me what I wanted for Christmas I told him a gym membership. My stepmom is angry and said that my dad is sending md the wrong message. She didn t believe me what I told that I wanted a gym membership. Yesterday my dad and i went the gym and it upset my stepmom. Now she wants to take me to the gym and monitor me. She doesn t want me working out with my dad because I am girl. I don t want to work out with my stepmom. My dad thinks we all should workout together.

Question: Que opinan sobre el dicho?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 10:27 PM PST

Español

Question: My father was a bad student and flunked out of college in 87. Does he have the right to discipline me for school work when he was worse?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 08:16 PM PST

My father was what they call a loser.

Question: How do I react when my Dad tells me something and I know he is lying to me?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 08:15 PM PST

He told me he would let me know when he has his family over this month for a late Christmas. I know he is lying because he is having them over with some friends of his next Saturday and he will not be telling me then cause it is just for his generation (invite even said, "No kids please"). He never will have them over twice in a month and it likely will be several years before he has them over again. So how do I act when my Dad says something that I know is one of his lies? He lies to me frequently and to anyone related to him. He is a very disloyal family member and was negligent to his elders. Matt---My Dad is too arrogant to have an honest conversation like that. He is an arrogant liar.

Question: Can you be an adult and sill go out with your mom?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 08:12 PM PST

Question: My parents set my uncle up with his messy girlfriend after his divorce. Do his kids have the right to resent us for this?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 08:12 PM PST

He is divorced so not cheating but his girlfriend is a really bad person.

Question: Why reasons might there be as to why my parents lie to me a lot?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 08:11 PM PST

They also lie about me

Question: My Dad is a very ignorant person by choice. Does this make him a bad person?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 08:09 PM PST

For example he believes mental illness is a choice.

Question: I feel lost and stuck in my life right now. What do I do?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 07:06 PM PST

I am a 21 year old women . I grew up in Georgia for 11 years so since I was 9 years old. I have lived in New York from born to 9. Moving to Georgia was rough since I lived with my grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins and my dad . Living in Georgia with my mom siblings and stepdad . So my point is that now I'm 21 and don't have a actual job. I babysat for a year and was paid $30 a day. I have applied for jobs ever since I graduated high school but nothing popped up and this is while I lived in Georgia. I still reside in Georgia but I've come to New York and have been here for a month now. I am here with my grandma. I have been applying for jobs while I am here but nothing really seems to come out. I'm not really sure what to do . I have my drivers license from Georgia and am willing to stay to work in New York if anything pops up. My mom doesn't seem to be ok with my decision and my dad he lives in New York so I don't know what he thinks honestly he seems to be ok with it. What should I do?

Question: How to deal with difficult family members?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 07:01 PM PST

I have a hard time dealing with a few of my family members because they don't respect my boundaries, and treat me as if I am obligated to suit their needs. Sometimes I feel unappreciated and like I am not adequate enough. I try to assert myself when I have to since I am an adult (22 years old). I feel that they are still stuck in the mindset that I am 12 but nothing could be no further from the truth. I also feel that when I state my opinion I am talked down to or condescended. My grandmother and father are especially are this way but my mom is a little more understanding. I am currently looking to move out and find a job since I will be graduating with my B.A. in the spring and I can't wait to leave! I feel like I am consistently controlled and I am confused as if they have pure motives because I feel they give things just as control mechanisms. I feel that if I don't agree or live up to "their expectations of me" they think of me as a pariah or pond-scum. I am so sick of living up to their expectations that I want to defy the expectations. I also notice since I defy them and have my own perspective an will it threatens them and they do stuff to undermine me as a way of manipulation. I am so sick of the accusations, the criticism, the gossip, and the so-called "building you up."

Question: What should I do?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 06:57 PM PST

My adult daughter refuses to take care of her baby and expects me to do it. She sleeps in and ignores her baby forcing me to get up and take care of it. Sfe also parties every weekend and is rude to her family. She expects me to stay home on the weekends and care for her baby. Help

Question: Family reunion?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 06:40 PM PST

Do you ever go to family reunion? Do you know all of them? Or just stay within your immediate family?

Question: This man keeps coming at our house, almost every night, he got siblings and parents?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 06:38 PM PST

My nephew has half siblings too... but he doesn't talk to them. Or go try to find them. And this man keeps coming at our house, to watch my nephew plays Xbox. And they are in their 20's. I really don't understand. Why we have family... My mother keeps telling me that I need family. Okay I got family, but they don't talk to me. They rather talk to friends.

Question: Can I move with my grandmother at 17 to another state without my parents permission?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 06:27 PM PST

My parents live in absolute filth. Animal waste, cockroaches, even dead animals like rats. They're cleaning for the first time to prepare for my baby brother but even the animal waste isn't cleaned up, and they won't keep it up. We almost never interact and my mom didn't raise me either. I was raised by my grandma until about 6 months ago. I want to move back to Oregon with her in November when I'm 17. I can't stand another two years with them. How likely is it I can get emancipated? Or leave by myself (I have a car and I'll have $9000 by that time). They don't act like they truly care about me, but they say they do and won't let me leave.

Question: Why do people rather talk to people on the phone, than to talk to someone at the house?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 06:15 PM PST

I wanted to say something. But my mother is on the phone. I have to wait a longggggg time to say something to my mother. I remember when I was at the hotel with my mother and cousin. My cousin gets angry with me when I was talking to my mother. I don't understand why people bother to have family, when you don't talk to your daughter or son... why is it so important to talk to friends or cousin or so on?

Question: How to find a median?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 05:56 PM PST

Me and my husband bought a house in PA a year ago. We live in New York at a house my in laws own, so we basically are paying the bills and taxes rent free When we first bought a house I was excited to move in even when thought of having a family. We now have a 4 mon th old daughter and i changed my mind when it comes to moving out there. My family is so close and I realizd I dont want to live 2 hours away from them. I want my daughter to be close to her family and see them often. But now my husband is insisting on moving out there and i dont know what to do. Please any suggestions would be apreciated. Thank you.

Question: My father does all he can to keep me away from the extended family even though I am 29. How do I work through this and be in the family?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 05:29 PM PST

My Dad has deep seated hatred for some of the family. Yet, I like the family. How do I get so I am able to be in the extended family despite my Dad doing all he can to keep me away?

Question: I hate my Dad. I regret this and feel bad hating him but I do. How do I stop hating him so much?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 05:27 PM PST

I hate him because he puts up roadblocks in me having relationships in the family and he also lies habitually. He even has criticized me before for being honest and not sneaky like he is. My father only does this to family. He will honest and well respected when around non-family.

Question: Upper Class? Or Upper Middle?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 05:26 PM PST

I've always wondered whether my family fits into the upper middle class or the upper class. My dad is a surgeon and although I don't know the exact amount he makes, I know that he at least brings in $350,000+ a year after taxes. My mom hasn't worked since my brother and I were born and was able to stay home with us. We live in a big house that's worth $1.4 million or so. We also drive pretty nice cars. My dad has a newer Mercedes and my mom drives a newer luxury SUV by Acura. My brother and I are both in college and my parents are paying sticker price tuition since we do not qualify for financial aid. My parents give both me and my brother money and fund our debit cards. I wear nice clothes such as J.Crew, Vineyard Vines, Ralph Lauren, and Tommy Hilfiger. I like to consider myself preppy and we have a membership at a country club to golf and dine. I've never had a job before except for volunteer work. I'm just curious, are we considered to be in the upper class or upper middle? My dad says we're upper middle, but my friends constantly tell me how jealous they are of my lifestyle which seems kind of crazy. I know I'm lucky, but I also know how hard my parents have worked and saved. Thanks for your comments.

Question: How can I deal with my dad when he gets drunk?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 05:17 PM PST

My parents are still together, and usually my family of 4 (including me) gets along well! Unfortunately, when my parents fight, my dad often gets drunk before dinner. I'm not yet old enough to drink, and both me and my sibling live at home. I always feel quite stressed, even scared when he gets drunk, and I try to avoid him as much as possible. I feel awful for not helping or talking to him, but I don't know what to do! What can I do or say to help him or my mom and sibling when my dad gets so drunk?

Question: I’m 14 and I work very hard for my money. I had $525 saved.?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 04:47 PM PST

Today my mom caught my dad going through my wallet. I didn't think anything of it at the time, however I now have $425. What should I do? He absolutely denies that this happened.

Question: Why does my twin sister keep sabotaging me & wrecking my family , hometown , & state?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 04:28 PM PST

My family used to love me. Then when I was 8 years old , everyone fell in love with my twin , & she has been meancing my life ever since. I do want a home , family , children , etc. But with all the favouritism towards her getting and keeping a career , college , dating , or even respect from others or money is near impossible for me. I do look for work. I do try to keep a job , but her and her family bribed , blame , or try to dictate my bosses to kick me out of work , out of spite. Help me?

Question: The love my dad has for me is not genuine?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 04:23 PM PST

I'm 19 and I love my dad so much but I feel like the love he has for me is not genuine. I'm in university, I didn't get a scholarship and he pays for my course have older siblings who are really smart with who did amazing in school got a scholarship when they were my age and my dad treats them like he's kids. The reason why I say he treats them like he's kids is because never once has my dad and I had a conversation. We talk to each other like we're stranger. When I come to watch tv with him, he sees me and walks out of the room. The only time he treats me like he's kid is when i achieve something amazing like scoring an A+, graduating from HS. Other than that he treats me like some stranger. I've always felt I've had to earn he's love by archiving something great like my siblings. I apply for the bursary scheme every semester to save money and make him.proud but he couldn't give two cents about it. He dosent ask what I'm studying. I was suppose to be a boy but I turned out to be a girl. I feel like he does things for me because it's he's responsibility. I don't think he does it because be loves me. In HS he has never given me advice in anything or said he's proud of me he never came to a school event I was participating in, he was either out drinking or in a business trip. When it comes to his grandkids who are now in HS, he goes to their events and gives them advice and he just loves them. I love my dad so much but I just want he's love more than anything. What do I do?

Question: My boyfriend has been sending messages to my 13 year old sister...?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 04:22 PM PST

We have known each other about 12 years, been together 1, and he moved in to my home with my mum, dad & sister about 6 months ago. On his phone on his snapchat, I have found messages between him and my sister, sent whilst I'm away on night shifts. Nothing explicit is sent but he tells her that he's naked a lot. There's one point when she comes to give him a biscuit in real life, he then messages that he was naked whilst she was in here. Just makes me feel super uncomfortable, what should I do? He's tried to hide that he sent them by removing the conversation from his main page on snapchat but I found them.

Question: I had to write this question three times, I hope it was worth my sanity,.?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 04:15 PM PST

Basically, My family is the most toxic, unhealthy, mentally distraught group of idiots I know. Here s their own personalized portfolios of every reason I want to wipe them clean off this earth. My mother:tells me I should give up or stop dreaming because she doen;t think I belong anywhere in this world other than home (I m only 14 wtf?) She juxtaposes all my mistakes to my future plans like a detective thumbtacks the tracks of a serial killer. For example, when I say that I want to work hard and own a nice apartment she says I ll never leave the house because I ll never pass ninth grade. Stop dreaming, kiddo. My father: Ain t nothing wrong with him but he s a doormat who won t stand up to anybody and always waits until it s too late to intervene and causes more problems to start with. My Brother: -calls me by the following names: *****,****,slut,whore,**********, etc. -tells me I should get raped because I m worthless -touches me in some unsavory places and hits me like a punching bag. that s it, I don t have freedom and am forced to stay under their roof and eat their unhealthy garbage. I honestly want to call child services, is this even legal, dude? So that s all folks, what do you guys think of the portrait of my American family. *That's *doesn't * Here's *I'm *I'll *He's *won't *ain't sorry for the spellcheck, I had to type this on the side panel, it's kinda like when a doctor has to give a prostate exam, typing this paragraph felt like tying shoes in a sweaty plastic bag blindfolded.

Question: How to talk her into the truth?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 04:00 PM PST

My brother was dating and having sex with this girl when she became pregnant. Turns out, she had been cheating on my brother with another guy who already has several kids. She kept my brother up-to-date regarding the progress of her baby, but when the baby was born, the mom CLAIMED my brother wasn't the father (she's dating the other guy). However, when I see photos of the baby (who is about 9-10 months now), I can't help but think she looks SO much like how my brother did when he was a baby/toddler. Our mom passed away a couple months ago and she had no grandchildren at the time and I mentioned to the baby's mom that I wish her daughter had been my mom's first grandchild. She changed the subject and stopped talking to me. How do I talk this girl into telling the truth or providing proof of a DNA/paternity test? I personally think she just lied and said her boyfriend is the father because she is with him and she wanted her daughter to have all those siblings. He wanted the baby to be his because he was told as a young child that conceiving a child may never be possible, but this baby looks SOOOOO much like him.

Question: How do I keep my own child safe at family functions but not end up having to watch a dozen young kids?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 03:59 PM PST

I'm about 5 months pregnant and have a two year old. My son is one of about 10 grandkids on my husbands side. When everyone gets together, I end up being the only one to supervise all of the kids (ages 2 to 6) while the rest of the parents drink and socialize. If their kids listened to me I wouldn't mind as much, but the kids are wild and their parents don't even acknowledge that I'm stuck doing this work every time. I'm frankly not sure who they think is keeping their kids from killing one another!! How do I politely get out of doing this while also keeping my own child safe/allowing him to spend time with his cousins? I'm getting very resentful about it and want to avoid functions.

Question: Is it wrong to marry a 2nd cousin (the girl's father is her fiancee's half 1st cousin)?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 03:43 PM PST

In other words, the boy's mom and the girl's grandfather are half sister and brother.

Question: How to losse weight ?

Posted: 01 Jan 2019 02:29 PM PST

My sister is wanting to lose some weight she weighs 178 she's 26 years old. She said her goal is to loose weight by this time next year maybe this summer. She has mental disabilities and health issues so she can't drive so she can't go to the gym she does have a treadmill she can run on. Also she and her husband get out and walk around a lot but not in the winter because of her asthma and health problems she can't be outside in the snow and in the cold. Sometimes she can be out on 50 and 60 degree days. What's the best way for her to loose weight ?