This girl and I had an amicable breakup after dating for a little less than a month. She's way out of my league and always has guys hitting on her. However, I made the adult decision and broke up with her because she and I have different religions though I still have feelings for her. The first two weeks after the breakup we had no communication though we were both clearly stalking each other's social media and liking posts (we deleted pictures of each other). Her friends and I were still on talking terms and there appeared to be no conflict. She initiated the first contact. This led me to think she was over the breakup and I asked to get lunch. We had lunch for over 1.5hr. She wore the perfume I picked for her and started telling me about how she was using my advice in life choices. She also told me about recent cravings for food she used to hate and how she was having dreams about having babies. This led me to believe that she was trying to talk to me again because she was pregnant (had a lot of unprotected sex) and got too nervous to tell me. I started to worry that she would do something rash like get an abortion without telling me (she said she would get one if she got pregnant before graduating). So I asked her and she became furious. She started to subtweet me and I deleted all social media because of this. Anyway, now her friends go out of their way to show how pissed they are with me and I don't understand why. Was asking if she was pregnant really that bad?

I love the debate club at high school but i got kicked out for beating up a guy that gave my sister who goes to that school to a black eye how can i stop feeling so pissed about this? I allready tried theres no waybto get back in

That she wonders how different it would all be if we were still together? We dated it was love always we slept together a lot well we slept together when I was with her cousin and she was with this other guy, once we all went out and we were both there before the other and I kissed her, she replied "ew" but didn't wipe her lips, she just stared at me we hanged out one day just us too and she told me "i wonder how good you are" then we slept together we were secretly sleeping together almost every other day, then things got bad between her and her ex he said something about her dad and she ended it there and I left her cousin since there was cheating from both me and her so we met at her place and kissed and I said nothing can stop us now and we celebrated with unprotected sex but she never got pregnant then after many month of happiness the flame died out we were constantly arguing things just were not the same anymore one day after a terrible argument she slapped me and told me "get out! Get the f*** out! I never want to see you again" after I said some bad things I talked to her last night and I said I'm sorry for messing things up it's good we broke because I didn't deserve her she replied "i wonder how different it would all be if we would have still been together" what did it mean?

I met a guy on an app when I was 15. "Hgkdbjsuf! Stupid girl tisk tisk!" Yeah, I know. Are you done now? Learned my lesson. Happy? I hate relationships and can't form emotional connections with others. Moving on. We had mutual friends so it wasn't like he was a total stranger. He was 17. Anyway when he met me in person he seemed very Unexcited. He led me to his car with his arm around me which was weird bc he acted so uninterested. He started kissing me immediately in the car. He begged me about 10x to go to his house and I said no. He pulled out his penis,I offered to blow him and did. I then told him I had to go. When I tried to get up out of the car he grabbed my hair, pulled me back and pushed my head down. This happened about 3 more times. When I said I had to go he just smiled at me. Then I said I wasn't in the mood and he got on top of me, started touching my boobs and vag and asked if I was in the mood then. Eventually I pushed him off me and he seemed genuinely surprised. He then cancelled plans we had made previously to hang out later. Recently he tried talking to my friend and when she asked him about me he didn't say anything.

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So recently I asked a question about if my crush likes me back. And someone said that what I had said they did ment that they liked me but I wanna know why? Why does he like me? Here are the reasons why I didn't think anybody would like me for; (1) my thighs are pretty big (2) I have a little bit of acne all over my face (3) I'm a little over weight I'm 162.7 with big love handles big thighs and hips and I got a double chin (4) I'm extremely socially awkward in public (5) I'm not pretty (6) I don't wear makeup and never paint my. Ails of due my hair (7) I never talk to anyone including him (8) I have NO rhythms when I walk I'm literally walking like a stiff stick I'm just soooooo ugly and fat I don't know why he likes me I mean, what about all those actual gorgeous girls out there? I mean come on! Anyways thank u for helping my I'm sorry if I was a waste of your time I appreciate your guys's help and thank you again!

I have absolutely no luck finding any guy at school or work who'd want to date me, and it depresses me because I'd really love to have a boyfriend. I know I'm not the most attractive girl by any means, but I'd still like to have someone of my own. What can I do to find a guy? I'm too nervous to go online because I'm afraid that if I met someone on there, he'd think I was ugly in person.

Im talking to this girl online and 3 of my friends are telling me she's too pretty to speak to me or that she wouldn't be talking to a guy online. She sent me this photo on snapchat which seems real to me. I've been talking to her for about a month and we've spoken in the phone before but have yet to FaceTime. Anyways what should I do? Does she seem real ?

While my friend and I was sitting. My crush came and my friend asked his SC & he asked her number. They text each other daily. But then yesterday he asked if I was single or not to my friend because I was talking on the phone. And he even came out of the room that we were on to see where I was at. I was sitting in the corridor talking on my phone and when I saw someone and looked he went inside a room. What is he upto? Does he likes my friend or does he likes me may be?

My friend has really bad grammar but just help me out is that a good thing ? " she's ight " :/ like does that mean I'm ugly ? Or

My girlfriend is supposed to be moving home next week, she has been looking forward to this for 7 months now. We're supposed to get a puppy next week too. However, I'm considering telling her to live elsewhere. She has been more than faithful and good to me, though some of her behaviors bother me. She's also totally obsessed with me. Her Facebook is nothing but pics of us. Unfortunately, that doesn't stop other guys from hitting on her. She loves the attention. They give her money, like $20's and stuff and she thinks it's just great. I think it's disrespectful towards our relationship. Why wouldn't she shut them down and explain she doesn't need that stuff? It's like they're buying her. And she loves it. It makes me resent her when dudes hit on her and she acts giddy. Like I almost don't want her to come home. We never even have sex anymore.

The guy I'm talking to and i aren't even dating but like, i'm not a hoe that talks to 10 different guys at the sime time, and i'm a stupid ***** because i literally keep talking to him but whatever. i honestly really like him and we talk out the problems so now everything is good. i really like him but the whole point is that we are not dating. and we know we can never meet. so. this one guy that i used to like at my school texted me and we've been texting a little bit but not flirting or anything like that because i like the guy i met from kik.. i really liked this one guy but the whole reason i quit crushing on him is because i met that guy on kik. so then, today he came over and we played around wiht my dog and we just chilled and smoked weed and drank a little and literally napped the rest of the time and before he left, he asked me out... he was totally sober and not high so he really meant it. so i told him i need time to think and he respects that but i truly don't know what to do.. i really like the guy from kik but this guy i in real life and i can actually hug him and kiss him and touch him but the guy from kik is too much of a pvssy to ask me out.. please help guys!! who should i date and who should i drop..?

I'm 23 & in a wheelchair moving from SC to Ohio right? So I made sure I enjoyed every sunny or warm day outside in front the apartment building for a couple hours. The times of me being out there chilling and the mail coming was different every day. I've only flattered her, made her laugh & got a hug out her but now it's too cold to catch her. How should I go about getting her? Leave a sticky note on my mailbox? Find her on Facebook? Wait in the hall?

Im 14 and have gotten my period. It probably is haram for me to hug guys my age and older but i just wanted to confirm.

I dug up my old bikini that I would never dare wear in public anymore because I got fat. But I want to wear something sexy for when my boyfriend comes over tomorrow night. Would he be turned on or turned off if I only wore this when we hung out? He can't seen me without my clothes yet, but we've cuddled a lot. https://s23.postimg.org/nsrbatxuj/bikini_too_fat.jpg

Especially if the sucking results in a hickey?

so here is this girl who is so interested in marriage, she is my crush we see each other everyday, pretty sure she likes me she told me, she only date me if i also want to marry i love her to death and completely infatuted with her, i want to be with her so badly, but i have fear of marriage. i hate marriage, if i tell her that she probebly would never go out with me what should i do ?? my plan is to give her lots of pleasurable attention, affection and beautiful moments and then leave her and have beautiful memory for life rather then ruining her life by marrying her she is bored as hell, why not give her love/romance ?? Update: we arent american, we both moved to america few years back. we both from same country, asian country. marriage and family means alot in our culture

When my boyfriend and I have sex I'm never into it cause I don't feel much, he took my virginity and he's an amazing guy but I always have this little thought to cheat on him just for better sex, what do I do?

So, I'm smart and kinda funnyish. I hang out with guys who all have GFs, and I am lacking. There are a couple girls I'm into, but I don't know if any of hem like me. Help?!?!

So me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 months and we've had our ups and downs. I love her to death and I pray that she feels the same way but recently she's become a lot more distant. She doesn't text back like she used too and she hides her cell phone when I'm around her. So I decided to ask her for her phone one day to take a picture, she gave it too me but as soon as I went to her messages to send it to myself she jumped on top of me and wouldn't let me see her phone anymore. She claims she and her girl bestfriend were talking about something I didn't need to see but I'm not sure what to think honestly... could she be cheating? Could something be up? What questions should I ask her?

I told her I'd overdosed via instagram IM and I asked her to tell my friends. Her parents then got the police to come round to my house and tell me not to contact her anymore. She won't even talk to me now, and if I try and talk to her she ignores me and tells the police

There's this guy I've been talking to ... he said something " alright cause you are lowkey my baby 😘" And I was like really? And he said " yesss you may not be my girl but your MY girl" what does this mean? He calls me baby and everything like if I was his girlfriend but I don't understand

I've barely talked to her in real life but I decided to send her a message saying a simple "hey" around 2 hours ago (10:20pm). She read the message but didn't respond. Anything I should say or do?

why do guys like it when a girl is sporty and hot?

Even if they are in love are they tempted by sexy women?

I've been going out with this guy for about a month now but it seems like all he wants is sex. I'm 19 and he's 28. At first we were fine, for a week we didn't do anything but kiss then he started touching me and it led to sex every other day to now every time he comes over he always wants me to touch him and stuff. Last week I got real drunk with him and I woke up to us having sex, he said I wanted him too and he was a little drunk so he did. I don't know if he's just in it for sex or not. He does buy me stuff when I need it and takes me to places that I need to go. We've been on a few dates. I just don't know if I should trust him.

I've tired POF but it seems like plenty of crazies.

My first/only girlfriend I dated for about a year and a broke up with me about a week ago. (We started dating when we were 16. I'm now 18) I honestly can't think of a time in my life I've felt more like sh*t than I do now. I had really strong feelings for her, and they just got stronger over time. I'm not sure if I was in love, but if I wasn't it was pretty close. I think I might have been thought. I feel like an idiot for letting myself get so attached to her. For the longest time I thought we were going to be together for the rest of our lives. I thought she was the one. I feel like a total loser for letting myself believe that. She told me she broke up with me because we were "going separate paths" after high school. I feel like that's total BS. We had planned on applying to the same colleges or colleges near to each other. I didn't feel like we were going different paths. I told her to tell me the truth but she wouldn't say anything else. I wish she would at least tell me the real reason why she's breaking up with me. I'm angry that she's not giving our relationship more of a shot. I felt like we had a great thing going. I felt like it was something worth working for. I guess she didn't feel the same and maybe I was an idiot for feeling differently. She could have at least had the decency of telling me the real reason why she broke up with me. I feel like a year and a half of a relationship at least deserves that. Since she broke up with me (click link to read more) I feel like it's clear that I was the one who cared most about our relationship, and I was a fool for believing she cared just as much as me. I'm not someone who cries much. I think I cried maybe five or so times between the age of twelve to eighteen. I have cried about every day since she broke up with me. The part that I feel dumbest about is there's still a yearning I have that she'll give me a call, tell me it was a huge mistake, and that we need to stay together. I want us to experience college together. I want us to get married, have kids, and grow old together. I want her to see that it can happen and that this relationship is something really worth having. I feel so stupid for having that hope. I know the chances are about a million to one, and the dumbest I feel is that there's a part of me that's still holding on to the "one" chance. There's a part of me that feels like I'll never find anyone as pretty, fun, smart, or amazing as her. I feel like I have no hope of finding love like I had with her. I'm so angry for letting myself get so attached, but I feel like I'll never find anyone like her again. I've never done this breakup thing before and I feel like total garbage. How can I recover from this and move on with my life? How long does it take to recover? What do I need to do? Is it possible that I can ever find anyone like her again? I'm a guy BTW if that makes a difference. It was a heterosexual relationship. For the record I'm not ready to start a new relationship anytime soon. When I talked about the future I was talking very long term. There's no way I'm emotionally ready to be dating anyone else right now.

I'm an 18 year old male and I've come to realize I do this pretty much every single day, and it's almost always with women... wether I be walking around at the grocery store, the mall, or whatever, I always find myself randomly locking eyes with someone for a second or two and it makes me feel awkward. I even do this EVERY SINGLE DAY at school with the same girl I've never talked to before when we walk by each other. I have no idea if that means anything but I do think she's really pretty but I'm terrified to speak to her. But why do I do this? It just seems to be happening more and more.

I'm a junior and my friend wants to have sex but the thing is that she's had sex before and with guys that have big *****. She told me the guys that she had sex with and how big they were. My dick is 5'5 and the guys she's had sex with before are like 7-8 inches I feel like Imma be ******* embarrassed is she sees my dick. So do you think that she would care about my size?

Her feet Then her belly Then her sides Then her butt Then her armpits Thighs Boobs Whatever who cares. That's just an idea of how ticklish she really is. Anyways. At home she usually wears her underwear with a tank top while she is at home with her pink ankle socks. Kate usually hangs out with me and stuff watches tv with me and stuff and I think it's time to have a little fun and tickle her. Sorry this is so long but any cool suggestions. She has never been tickled over a minute and stuff so I wanna tickle her for a long playful time. And just tickle her wth what I said she wears. Any ideas on how to tie her up and tickle her. And what to tickle with

We've been together for almost a month and it usually gets really quiet when we're together because she doesn't know what to say and sometimes I don't know what to say, though we talk all the time through text messages. We are incredibly happy together and have no thoughts about splitting due to this issue, and she says I'm helping her out with it, but sometimes I feel like there's a lot more I could do. When we hang out I usually go to her house and we cuddle on the couch and play games together, and sometimes we go out to eat, but talking has always something we never do much and I could really use tips on how I can help her out with her SAD.

So I ve had a crush on this woman since I met her early in college when her and her roommate were dorm storming. We have always been good friends, and I ve told her I liked her and was shot down 3 times. By now it was summer break. Fast forward to now. Still like her, but accepted it wasn t going to happen. Her and her best friend, who I am also good friends with, came down to party with a few of my friends. We ve all partied together once before, and her best friend ended up making out with my best friend awhile back. This didn t bother me because I had no interest in her. On this night, the best friend told me that she was here to do things with one of my other friends, and the girl I have a crush on was there for yet another one of my best friends. Neither ended up showing up. Fast forward and I take them both to where they can sleep. My crush passes out immediately. The other girl and I end up making out, and then realizing we shouldn t be doing this, so we stop. She then reveals that my crush might actually like me. Tells me I m my crush s "fallback". Now my crush is mad at me, which I understand, but how do I fix this?!?! More or less, am I the one in the wrong?

We've been dating for a couple years, and I just don't feel happy or interested in the relationship anymore. The only thing is, he has severe depression, has dropped out of school, and claims to hate everything about his life except for me. He's not a bad guy and there aren't any serious problems in our relationship besides me not being interested anymore, so I'd feel terrible and selfish if I just left him and he did something to hurt himself. :( Any suggestions?

When he was around 10, he had an incident where he lost his eye. He hasn't gone into detail yet because we've only dated a month. I really like this guy and it really have changed anything. I still find him fun to be around, sweet, and attractive! Now for the issue here. He's very very self conscious about it. Normally he is okay, but he doesn't want my parents to find out. He refuses to wear a prosthetic eye so he covers his hair over it and uses a patch sometimes. (You'd think he'd look like a pirate but he doesn't...anyways!) so this weekend he is meeting my parents and he is crazy nervous about it and I'm not sure what to do. Knowing my parents, they'll judge him right when they see him with the hair in his face and if he has a patch they won't connect to why it is there so we would have to explain and he hates going through explaining it. I mean he hasn't even explained it all to me yet! I'm worried that my parents won't like him because of this minor detail that means nothing I still really like him and I don't want this to change anything. But knowing them, they'll try to persuade me to break it off, at least at first. They'd insult him and I really don't want to see that. What can we do??

My boyfriend of a year and a half has just informed me that he is not happy with his life. Everything he is saying just sounds like a mid life crisis and he's only 25. We've been on the rocks trying to work some things out for a while, having a bunch of massive outside problems putting strain on our relationship since about 2 months in. We got together quick, I just got out of a relationship and he just got out of a marriage. We knew each other for a long time, since hs and re connected 6 years later. I was vulnerable and so was he, he had just gotten out of the military and been deployed as infantry 3 times and came back to a divorce from a loveless marriage. I knew he needed time, and I needed time but he insisted I'm what he wanted , what he always wanted since hs and I fell for him. We were getting serious quickly, and I began aform of birth control that lasts 3 years. It killed my libido and affected my already erratic moods . We've dealt with a car accident, a lost job, him having full time school and work , and him supporting me all within the first 4 months of us being together. He got a job in another state and I decided to throw caution in the wind and go with him, leaving behind friends and some family. We got a too expensive apartment and we're constantly struggling. But we managed to stay together because we loved each other and wanted it to work.

There's this girl who I have had a crush on abc I've thought that she was a "bad girl" but I'm beginning to think she's not. We hung out the other day and she told me that she was really hurt. There is this little boy who she babysits that she absolutely adores and idolizes. She was out at a restaurant with a couple of her girlfriends a few weekends ago and she saw him and his parents. The thing is, she smoked cigarettes and had just smoked one with her friend when they came back in and saw him. He ran over and gave her a big hug and kiss and everything and she said when they got done talking she overheard him telling his parents that she smelled funny and they told him she was a smoker and to never pick up the habit. She was also wearing a shirt that showed off a little bit of her midriff and her hip tattoo was showing and she felt embarrassed that they saw it. She told me that she feels so humiliated and such a bad person. Because of this, she threw away her cigarettes and tried to quit smoking. She said she has not had a cigarette in three weeks and the cravings have gotten unbearable she she desperately wants one. What do you think about her? Is she a good girl?

So my best friend is dating one of my ex's friends, so she sent me a conversation between her boyfriend and my ex. Why she thought this was a good idea, I'm not sure. But anyways, my ex said "I really want a girlfriend". So my friend's boyfriend replied with my name like it was a hilarious joke. Then my ex said "shut up", and her bf said "lol". Then my ex responded with "I need someone hot". So basically that means I'm not hot right lol. He broke up with me obviously, and now I truly think it's because I got ugly/fat. He used to have a huge crush on me, and thought I was absolutely gorgeous. We only dated for five months, so how could I have got ugly so fast? I just feel really disgusting. I've always been so self conscious about my looks and weight and my "best friend' knows this. Not to mention, the person she's dating now is also one of my exes. I mean I told her not to date him, but she did and anyways and forgave her because i didn't want to be "immature". But guys still tell me now that I'm beautiful, so why would my ex find me ugly now? I swear I'm not shallow lol, the only looks I care about are my own and I really put myself down sometimes. I don't even know what I'm asking haha but can I get some advice or input please about this whole situation? Thanks! :)

I am an extremely emotional person and when I get infuriated, I have mixed feelings and I end up crying and saying things that shouldn't be said. But with my friends, the always do the classics like "I would ignore them" or "it's fine" And also they do stuff like this "what's wrong?" But while they say it they laugh or smirk and they're like "she's mad" or "she's triggered". I literally ant help it. And they've never seen me cry. I want to tell them everything and stuff but if I cry, I feel like they will make fun of me or do the "it's fine". I don't know what to do.

He's 22 I'm 17, he's not an fboy and he's literally the sweetest most passionate about life guy. He was wayyyy flirtier before he found out I'm so young :(

Ok so I'm a sophmore in high school and my guidance counseler went to come get me and talk about why I've been sad recently, so we passed a class my crush was win and when I passed by she looked up at me. We've talked before and she laughs at my jokes, but does she care about me? And she knows I'm having trouble

Today for instance at work I had to interact with a woman & she was mentioning something about some jeans & than said you wouldnt know about it because "you're little". I don t think she meant to be mean or anything but deep inside I was really pissed off about it since what grown man wants to be called little like they re a little kid or something. Than the other day as well an old lady mentioned my height because she was asking something to me about big & tall clothes at the store I work at than she said something similar like "look at you what would you know about that at your size anyway". Same with her where she didn't intentionally mean to be mean but what shorter guy wants to hear these things by women? Than I also constantly hear women talking about how tall their kids are in conversations with others at times or pointing out that someone is tall. It s just annoying & makes me feel like I ll never stand a chance with a woman since they all would think I'm too short. I m only 5 6" so that's pretty short for a guy & it sometimes bothers me since online dating showed me as well how much women prefer taller guys.

Ok so where to start.. I'm 15. My girl friend is also 15. I can confidently say I love her. Not puppy love or anything like that. Dont give me crap about it either because that's beside the point. My girlfriend met this guy online about a year ago, he's 19 and lives 13 hrs away, and started and internet relationship with him [we weren't dating at this point]. Her mom found out and told her to end it. So she ended the romance, but kept talking to him. We became more than friend through the last few months and here we are now. But she confessed she still loves him, still romantically texts him, and can't decide between us which one she will be with. He hasnt/isnt going to college nor doing anything with his life besides drink booze and play video games, and I'm afraid that could screw her over in a lot if ways, based on my family's past being like that and uh... the less said about that the better . Every one I asked says I should just break up with her, but I don't think I could bring myself to do it. It sounds childish and stupid I know. But I need advice from the internet because every one I know is useless.