I work at a boutique, and this Muslim couple came in to the store when I saw the lady with her hijab I knew right away that she would look for something in specific but her her husband spoke me to me right away telling me that she needed a long jacket and I showed her all the jackets we have and she liked one of them it was really long and she was smiling because she really liked it and she tried on but her husband said no because it had slits on the sides I felt bad for her because apparently she wanted that jacket, it happened a couple times with other Muslim couples the husband apparently decides what their wives should wear and I respect that but maybe those women don't want that but they prolly have no choice.

So a few weeks back my wife had to go over to her bosses house and talk about work stuff...after words she said hay you should grab my breast and send it to your hubby..she knows i like her and so does my wife and my wife is ok with that..i know her boss has fake breasts and have been told before that women with fake breasts like to have them tuched,but idk about that..any ways my wife just laughed it off because she was nervous it was the first time you've been over at her bosses house but the fact Still Remains that her boss wanted to send it

I'm putting this in marriage because I didn't get any replies on singles/dating. Also, older people might have more experience/know what to do. My first/only girlfriend I dated for about a year and a broke up with me about a week ago. (We started dating when we were 16. I'm now 18) I honestly can't think of a time in my life I've felt more like sh*t than I do now. I had really strong feelings for her, and they just got stronger over time. I'm not sure if I was in love, but if I wasn't it was pretty close. I think I might have been thought. I feel like an idiot for letting myself get so attached to her. For the longest time I thought we were going to be together for the rest of our lives. I thought she was the one. I feel like a total loser for letting myself believe that. She told me she broke up with me because we were "going separate paths" after high school. I feel like that's total BS. We had planned on applying to the same colleges or colleges near to each other. I didn't feel like we were going different paths. I told her to tell me the truth but she wouldn't say anything else. I wish she would at least tell me the real reason why she's breaking up with me. I'm angry that she's not giving our relationship more of a shot. I felt like we had a great thing going. I felt like it was something worth working for. I guess she didn't feel the same and maybe I was an idiot for feeling differently. (click link to read more) She could have at least had the decency of telling me the real reason why she broke up with me. I feel like a year and a half of a relationship at least deserves that. Since she broke up with me. I feel like it's clear that I was the one who cared most about our relationship, and I was a fool for believing she cared just as much as me. I'm not someone who cries much. I think I cried maybe five or so times between the age of twelve to eighteen. I have cried about every day since she broke up with me. The part that I feel dumbest about is there's still a yearning I have that she'll give me a call, tell me it was a huge mistake, and that we need to stay together. I want us to experience college together. I want us to get married, have kids, and grow old together. I want her to see that it can happen and that this relationship is something really worth having. I feel so stupid for having that hope. I know the chances are about a million to one, and the dumbest I feel is that there's a part of me that's still holding on to the "one" chance. There's a part of me that feels like I'll never find anyone as pretty, fun, smart, or amazing as her. I feel like I have no hope of finding love like I had with her. I'm so angry for letting myself get so attached, but I feel like I'll never find anyone like her again. I've never done this breakup thing before and I feel like total garbage. How can I recover from this and move on with my life? How long does it take to recover? What do I need to do? Is it possible that I can ever find anyone like her again? I'm a guy BTW if that makes a difference. It was a heterosexual relationship. For the record I'm not ready to start a new relationship anytime soon. When I talked about the future I was talking very long term. There's no way I'm emotionally ready to be dating anyone else right now.

My boyfriend of a year and a half has just informed me that he is not happy with his life. Everything he is saying just sounds like a mid life crisis and he s only 25. We ve been on the rocks trying to work some things out for a while, having a bunch of massive outside problems putting strain on our relationship since about 2 months in. We got together quick, I just got out of a relationship and he just got out of a marriage. We knew each other for a long time, since hs and re connected 6 years later. I was vulnerable and so was he, he had just gotten out of the military and been deployed as infantry 3 times and came back to a divorce from a loveless marriage. I knew he needed time, and I needed time but he insisted I m what he wanted , what he always wanted since hs and I fell for him.

I think is pretty cool that you can have so many wives I mean the stuff you do is evil shīť but the women part is cool. Explain me how it works?

For example me and this chock started talking and she told me she was separated but not divorce. I told her we can talk but I don't want to get close to you until you show me the divorce papers and age said it's all good. What is she really saying?

a. Independence is dangerous for women. b. Women are unhappy in marriage. c. Loneliness is a necessary aspect of life. d. Women are safe and secure within marriage these seem sexist, except for C.

I just found an inappropriate text message my husband (of 3 yrs) sent my 25 yr old daughter. (his step daughter) It made her uncomfortable. He said she was sexy and if he didn't love me he would date her and take in her and her kids. He was drunk when he did this and has never done anything like this before other than to nick name her hottie. Which always made me feel uneasy. He's always been a gentleman around my adult kids but is an asshole when he drinks. This is unacceptable to me and I am considering leaving the marriage. I feel he has crossed the line.

Ok, so he purchased a designer bag that I had my eye on for $233 on eBay. I wanted it because it is only $96 ON THE DESIGNER'S WEBSITE. I guess he thought that I would want it regardless of the price tag... But the price tag makes me sick to my stomach! The only reason I wanted it was because it was such a good deal. I am a couponer and a savy saver. I can't stand when stores spend $10 to manufacture an item and then turn around and sell it for $1,000. How will I be able to actually enjoy this gift if every time I look at it, I remember how bad he got taken advantage of? The difference in price could've easily bought many gifts for our children. How do I talk to him about this without hurting his feelings? This IS NOT what Christmas is supposed to feel like. I hate the whole idea of gift giving anyway. It's not what Christmas is all about. Please Help!!!

What is it with females and the need to prevent their husbands from seeing his family?

Or would it matter more whether or not they were just sleeping around? It doesn't make intimacy between the husband and wife less valuable, does it? Do men still prefer to marry virgins-even if they're not virgins themselves?

I know a lot of married people, both man and woman, cheat on their spouse and I believe that there are a lot of reasons for that but the most common ones would be the lack of affection, appreciation, boredom in bedroom, etc. I would appreciate it if I could get the answer from some married man. Do you think it's possible for a husband to truly fall in love with another woman or would it only be for sex, adventure, etc.? Do you believe that a married man can actually have real feelings towards such a woman or, even if he leaves his current wives to be with this other woman, will he eventually do the same to her? Thank you for your opinions.

Ok I'm not trying to move in with my boyfriend so soon in the first place we've only been dating since august ( 4 months) but he took it that way anyways I'm 22(Cancer woman) and still live at home & he's 31 (Virgo man) and lives alone with his dogs in a big house of his own I've met his whole family he spent the whole thanksgiving week with me he invited my family over for thanksgiving dinner at his house and now I know his whole family and they approve of me ! Anyways last night my mom found out about my raunchy YouTube channel and went crazy threatening to kick me out and I told him about it and joked saying if she did I'll sleep in his backyard and he didn't take it as a joke at all and said " if you think your gonna live here if they kick you off your wrong that's absolutely not happening!" I was shocked & speechless since he cleared out a spot in his bathroom for me bought me body wash & lotion so I could shower at his house and he was bragging to his WHOLE FAMILY about me just last week & I asked him if he sees a future with me he was like "hell yea why wouldn't I?!" Anyways I'm completely confused should I just leave ?!? MY GOAL IS MARRIAGE!

I don't mean living together before marriage, I personally believe that is wrong. I mean is there a way to decide if you want marriage or not, before you even date around? A way to look inward at yourself and truly see if marriage is something you really want in life?

I'm going to be filing a modification in March and the court will need proof, not hear-say and PI's are expensive.

You feel bad for the person you are dating because they are financially struggling so you pay for them the majority of the time when you go out and even have paid for their kid a time or two but then find out they are going out to eat pretty regularly without you and don't have a problem paying for it.

Me and my fiancée are looking to tie then knot early in 2017. She's decided not to take my last name but instead have a double barrel name. The thing is she's currently doing her a levels and we think changing her name would mess things up and just be confusing for her and the exam board so the question is would she have to change her name right after getting married or could we leave it for a year or 2?

So say I love my wife, I'd die for her, and I love being married to her. I love having sex with her too. But sometimes I like to try other things. Think of it like a rap song. Say you have a favorite rapper. Now even though he's your favorite rapper and the best rapper you've ever found, wouldn't it get boring to only listen to that one rapper, and not listen to any other rappers out there? The world has so many fine young rappers, so why can't I be listening to them as well? My favorite rapper will always be my favorite, but he can't expect me to not enjoy other rappers as well. I will always come back to my favorite rapper at the end of the day, but don't you think I should be experiencing all of the hot, fresh young rappers out there? And I'll admit, there some very, very nasty rappers out there who I would like to enjoy as well!

My husband has recently come to discover who I was in a previous relationship with and it has pissed him off because, 1) who it was with and, 2) the fact that I didn't tell him. My ex and I were engaged and I always felt he was my great love, he is a pretty desired guy but just like it started, it ended. Our reasons for breaking up are private and I was destroyed when it ended but we are both married now and happy. I rarely see my ex but my husband knows him a little through work and he respected him for his work. My friend from back home was visiting and she let it slip who he was and my husbands reaction was not what I was expecting. Now he keeps pushing for more details and why I didn't let him now and making it seem I don't trust him enough to share things. My reasons for not disclosing who my ex was, was that I felt it wasn't important to our relationship and I really didn't want to open up old wounds that I struggled to close and I'm afraid if I go into details about that part of my life it could ruin my marriage, My ex had a powerful effect on me at the time and I am scared it would happen again. Am I in the wrong here?

Me and my wife have a 5 year old son and we both work. I never suspected anything until i saw a text from this man and it read "I made a reservation recklessly. This Saturday, 3 o'clock, at the this Hotel. I will be waiting for you. I miss you." I love my wife and i do not want to lose her i do not know what to do, should i go to the hotel and confront them? She never really used to take care of herself that much but recently she has been grooming herself a bit more, she puts on dresses and does her makeup every now and then. I had not really payed that much attention to it until now. My wife always picks up our child from school and makes dinner for us so i never thought she would do something like this. I think i will confront them tomorrow

Just wondering what are the chances of being gay OR just wanting a threesome.

What age did u get married, im 23 and almsot done with collge bachelors in marketing, i feel like ever since i was young ive wanted to be done with college and then marry. But its seems different now a days

I caught my husband cheating on me when I overheard him talking to another woman on his phone. So I decided to take it from him and throw it away, because I was truly disgusted, was this okay?

I've also now decided to ignore him as I feel he's taking advantage of my kindness.. What should I do and act?

Yesterday was my wifes birthday and I sent her flowers to her office. She threw a fit because they were not the flowers she was expecting. Really? First of all, i just sent her a big flower arrangement 2 weeks ago for our wedding anniversary. I didnt want to spend allot of money on these flowers because i am throwing her a suprise party this weekend. Plus I booked her a 3.5 hour massage and bought her a diamond necklace. She doesn't know that because its a suprise. The point I am trying to make is, isnt it the thought that counts? Just knowing I love her she be good enough? I think. But apparently it is not. I didnt know she didnt like those paticular flowers, i really didnt. Now we are in a big argument because I should know her by now. (married 8 yrs). I have never not liked anything she has given me, not ever. Its from her and thats all i care about but she doesnt see it like that. Now I am going to have to apologize for something that I dont think I should apologize for. She has never appreciated anything about me. I just don't know what to do.

my husband thinks i do not appreciate him. he says i am ungrateful for all that he does for me and our family. i am grateful and maybe i dont exactly show show him but that is because i feel like he doesnt appreciate me. i am a stay at home mom and i do everything! I am mom and dad, I am maid, I am cook, I am electrician, I am carpenter (yes, I am serious!). At the end of the day he doesnt show me he appreciates all that I do. I no two wrongs dont make a right but appreciation is errand as well as given. this is becoming a huge battle in our house and we are on the verge of splitting up because of this. i dont want to split up I just want some respect.

She keeps saying that I'm cheating. All the time. She keeps harrassing a woman I work with. The supposed ''mistress''. I'm getting tired of her bullshit and I'm seriously considering divorce. You think that's an overreaction?

Kobe Bryant and his wife have been together for 15 years now, and they've just welcomed their third beautiful baby girl. Their romance has survived far longer than most celebrity couples, and they owe it all to anal rape. What else could be the explanation? Should we all try this to save our marriages? Don't our children deserve for us to at least research that correlation between a**ss rape and marital bliss?

I am 35 and got married close to a year ago. This first year has been a very adjustment for me. My wife and I (although were friends for 9 years) married pretty quickly. I went from the typical independent bachelor to a domesticated husband within 3 months. Before I was married I only cared about keeping myself in shape and working long hours to make money. Ever since my marriage, I now have no desire to work out (but still do 1-2 per week) because the hunt is over and I no longer have an intense drive at work to make more money. Its like I have nothing to look forward to now. Neither of us want children for at least 3-5 more years. I have become anti-social because I feel like my life lacks adventure and I have nothing exciting to talk about.

I know, I know. This is my last time asking this question. I went through my fiancees phone. I have an ex wife too so its not an insecurity with me I just wanted to know the truth of their relationship before we get married next year. Me and my ex wife had a horrible divorce but we are cordial to each other and no unresolved feelings. We respect each other and work with each other. But it doesn't seem that way with her. She texts her ex (who is already married) every single day but he barely texts her back. She will send almost 10 messages to him a day about their 4 year old son. I read that he told her she was texting too much, and she got mad and told him that since he is backing away she wont send anything with their son. I dont know this man only met him once but he pays 500 in child support, never late on his payment, and from what it seems a pretty good father. Then she criticizes him through text he ignores it and then she asked him for a favor he ignored that too. He lives 4 hours away and asked for a $50.00 reduction in support so he can get his son more she said no yet she gets mad at him when he says he doesnt have the money that week to drive over 100miles to pick him up. We are getting married in 3 months. Do you think she still has unresolved issues?

I have been married almost 7 years--we are extremely happy in our marriage, but we hardly ever get to see each other. My husband works for a company that was recently bought out by another company. Every since this new company took over my husband is never home. I work days and he works evenings. We hardly ever get to see each other more or less spend anytime alone (oh yeah--my 2 children live with us--11 and 9). He is suppose to be off on weekends, but lately he isn't even getting that off. When he comes home @ 12 am--I am asleep. I work 8-4. He leaves for work at 1:30 p.m. Does anyone have suggestions about how to cope with this situations. We are truly in love and there are no problems in our marriage except this and no we would never cheat with someone else. NOT AN OPTION!!! Please no sexual remarks!!!

Is that normal. He works nights. hardly rings during the night only if he needs something like food..or one of his clothes washing. he sleeps all day till 5pm wakes up eats hardly talks, phone always ringing speaking to his male friends, sits in the same room watches tv and if I speak he says..shhhh let me watch this? it's interesting. Even if he has a day off he is wrapped up in the tv no conversation hardly ever texts me, if he is out with mates he will never ring, if Im out he never calls me even once to see how I am or how baby is. Plus side really nice dad, and never argues but never talks to me. I want someone to talk to, share the day with im always encouraging some sort of conversation..how boring life is getting with him. other peoples partners are always ringing and texting them.

If wife questions husband about his past, is it any of her business? Does he have to tell her or can he tell her "its none of your business?"

I'm 25 years old and married. My husband, our best couple friends, and myself, are going to take a 2 week romantic trip spending a week in Paris and a week in Madrid. We are going together so that we can cut costs by renting 2 bedroom apartments, staying longer, cooking in, etc. This is our first big romantic trip since our honeymoon, we are away from work, etc, so we definately plan to be intimate a good bit. The problem is privacy. In France, our bedroom is a loft bedroom that is visually out of sight (a loft) but is open air to the rest of the apartment (so no sound protection). Madrid is better (a normal bedroom) but in a tiny, old building that I'm sure has pretty thin walls. I'm naturally fairly loud. I obvi will try to watch myself, and wont go breaking sound barriers, but it also isnt easy to be TOTALLY focused on not making sounds (when you are naturally loud) while also relaxing... I don't "necessarily" care if they hear (I mean, we are all married, and all obvi have sex), though it isn't ideal. But I'm not really sure what the social norms are. To what lengths do we need to go to hide it? HOW do we hide it? Never really traveled with another couple before...... And this isnt really optional. We can't afford this trip if we don't split housing

I am a 21 year old female, married to a 27 year old male. We have been married for 2 years with no kids. I consider myself a pretty attractive woman. I have a pair of 34DD size breasts so they're huge! I have a nice big butt and a flat stomach. I'm a dancer so very athletic and in shape. I have always LOVED sex. Not a crazy Nympho, but it's rare that I ever don't want to have sex. For the 1st year of marriage, he was always right on track, we'd have sex 2-3 times a day, anywhere we wanted, we were spontaneous and passionate! Well, just in the past 3-4 months I've noticed that he's been holding out more. He now can go days, sometimes even a week without trying to have sex with me. Before I used to not wanna have sex on my period but he'd be all like "I don't care I want you" and now, if I'm on my period and I wanna have sex, he says "Ew, no you're on your period and it's gross and bloody and I can smell the blood..." But he used to do it all the time with no problem, why all of the sudden the change? I'm mainly asking this, because this morning, we woke up and I told him I wanted to have sex, and I played with his P**** and rubbed it and everything. And he was all like "nah, I don't feel like it, don't want to, I gotta get ready for work" So I was like "OK, fine I guess". 5 minutes later, I'm washing the dishes, and he's in the shower masturbating!! I heard him so I went in there and was like "what the hell?!, I just offered sex to you 5 minutes ago and you said you didn't want to and now you're in the friggen shower doing it yourself?" I was SO pissed off, I got in my car and left. Before I did, he said that I interrupted him and that he just didn't want to when I asked, but all of the sudden he gets hard and horny in the shower? What crap! What kind of male would rather use his hand than feel it in a warm, wet v*****? I've also noticed that, whenever we're watching TV or a movie, I'll offer him sex and he says he just wants to relax, and he's tired and just took a shower, so he doesn't want to get sweaty and have to take a nother, blah, blah, blah, and he'll turn me down. But then a attractive girl comes on the TV, either cleavage or she's in her bra and undies or theres a sexual scene or innuendo, and all of the sudden he starts taking my clothes off and want to have sex when he just turned me down earlier. What's up with that? I have more cleavage than any of those girls on TV... I know he has a new job where he has to wake up @3am, and he works 10 hours shifts, and he is tired and exhausted from work, and he stands up all day. I understand that part. But, cmon, he's still a male, and a fairly young one too! We don't have kids, I'm not unattractive, we've only been married 2 years and we've never had a problem in this area. I know it's not a medical thing, and I know he's not having an affair. But it's just worrying me, and makes me feel like I'm not worthy or good enough. I feel rejected. I mean, it's odd to me, cause look at the facts...and I've NEVER EVER had a guy turn me down for sex...and he's my husband...there are guys jealous of him cause he's married to a woman that looks like I do and wants to have sex all the time...any wise advice? Preferably from another married man who has a male's perspective on this, and experience?....

Wife went out with work friends after work which is fine. However I was at home taking care of sick children. I told her I wish you would have told me because I feel taken advantage of. She then turns it on me and suggests I'm saying she's cheating. Then it was a downward spiral. Not sure what do to as we haven't talked in a day

It came up as a "funny discussion" among our friends yesterday and because I walked into the other room when I was asked my husband keeps pushing for me to tell him. I haven't slept with many people but I don't feel it's anybody business and I don't like the idea of it causing a weirdness between us. How can I get him to drop it?

Before i got married, my wife and I had a fallout. Before getting married i cheated on her and she forgave me so quickly. Only to findout she wentout with a guy more than once when we broke up for 6 months. She says she didnt do anything (sex, makingout,ect). But before we got married she told me nothing about this even if inasked her repeatedly. I foundout she wentout out with some guy only sonshe can admit what she done. I dont believe she "just went out" without doing something else. I need peoples opinions on what you think. I have my own conclusions but she denies it. Just like she denied going out, i feel like i need to show her evidence so she can admit it. Remeber, i had to findoit she went out multiple time with the same guy. Eventhough she denied it. So what makes me think something else didnt happen. Well anyways thanks for the answers guys.

I used his spare phone which has phone recorder for recording office work. Me and My mother were calling him names and using all kind of swear words for hour long calls day in and day out. An example - Mother asked - "So has he come from office". I replied "Loser came from office and went to his room directly. His face was swelling with anger so I did not ask him to eat anything"

Is it wrong that I want to spy on my husband, hes been getting angry a lot. Sometimes it feels like hes trying to start fights. He walks off whenever he talks to anyone or start pacing but complain his knee was hurting, just only starts hurting when hes on the phone. He is always on his phone, but will leave it laying around so either hes doing something and confident theres no evidence left or something. I actually have tried looking and theres nothing. Ive tried so many times to talk to him but he just gets angry and its uncontrollable where he will slam things down, around. Walk off and sit for a while then come back like i never said anything and act all happy and it not just me, hes been getting snappy at the kids a lot more than what he has ever did. So im trying to decide whether or not i should put a spy software on his phone the one where i dont have to touch it. My gut says somethings up but i dont know what. There has also been a past affair from 2 yrs ago which last for 3months and a bit months and so technically in the end March nxt yr will 2yrs from it finished is only after he left for her then he realised the grass aint greener on the other side. The things he is doing are similar. Im not sure if its guilt from that as this is around the it started 2 yrs ago.

My wife was watching a show on History about Pearl Harbor she's upset because there was a young man on there not much younger than her that was killed on that morning he said he wasn't even suppose to be there but he was. He also said that his wife had a newborn daughter who he was suppose to meet at Christmas for the first time but he never did. That part made her worry. Me and her are having a baby girl in May she's worried something will happen to me. This kind of thing happened to one of her friends a few years ago one of her friends fiancé was a soldier and was killed for an unknown reason one month before his son was born. She wouldn't know what to do if that happened to me she'd feel bad if our kid never got to meet me. She's still watching the show she can't get to sleep. She feels scared she's starting to cry she can't sleep. How can I help her feel better ? What should I say to her ?

I came home from work and she was fingering herself on the bed. What should I do? Should I beat her up?

My husband has gone out a couple times with his old drinking buddy and both times he came back with a weird smell on his breath which smells a lot like alcohol. When I asked him about it the first time he said that it was because of the alcohol the dentist put on his teeth. This second time he didn t have an answer and he said he didn t know. My husband and I quit drinking because it was becoming a problem. I want to trust him but it doesn t add up. Any advice?

We were playing this game and a question came up and he was asked if he'd leave me and our son for a celebrity/model and he said yes (it really wasn't a joke he was serious). I am very mad and don't know how to talk to him

If they divorce, one could easily just take all the money and haul a*s.

Wife makes under $25k as a Teacher's Assistant. Husband was making over $100k until he was laid off back in August. 2 kids are currently being put through college. Bills to pay.... Husband has been laid off since August, just filed for unemployment now. How does this affect the marriage?