Why is it that girls can't take what they dish out. They ignore your text messages, but you see them make time to talk with everyone else. But they get pissed off when you ignore them.back.

hola tengo una pregunta resulta que hace como tres meses una chava me empezo a mandar mensajes por facebook pero yo no le hacia mucho caso, posteriormente pasamos a escribirnos diario por whatsapp y fue cuando elle ma empezo a interesar, despues me invito a salir y por cuestiones de trabajo no pude asistir asi que le propuse una nueva fecha y acepto me la pase muy bien y creo que ella tambien se reia de todo lo que decia asi que la invite a sulir nuevamente y acepto fuimos los dos al cine y me la pase muy bien con ella, y creo que ella tambien por que me escribio al dia siguiente y hacia bromas de lo que habla pasado, salimos por tercera vez y es cuando pensaba decirle que fuera mi novia pero me entro pánico y no lo hice ahora estoy decidido a decirle pero le e propuesto 2 citas nuevas pero me pone pretextos que no puede y cosas así creo que me tarde en decirle que me gusta y ahora no sé qué hacer

Ok, I have been dealing with an out of control teenage girl for several years now. She has been in and out of juvenile facilities for the past 2 years. She comes home, and starts her stuff again, fails a drug test, and they place her in a new facility. Six months ago, she came for a home visit and stole $2,000 from me. She gave it to a "friend" to "hold" for her for when she gets out. After 2 months, I started visiting her again and talking to her twice a week. Thanksgiving made it 6 months since her last home visit. The facility talked me into allowing her home for another visit. During that time, she hit my adult son with a telephone, and tried to stab him with a fork, and flipped the dinner table over ruining all the food. I have a seizure disorder, and this behavior threw me into two back to back seizures. She knows how to trigger them, and uses the recovery time,of about 5 hours to be unsupervised. I have now discovered my handgun missing. She was the only one who could have taken it, and I assume, like the money, she passed it to someone else while I was recovering. This is far more serious than the money. I reported it stolen, and police are checking pawn shops. But, I am still being told I can't turn away from her. She will be 18 in 4 months. And I have had it with her.

I am finding it hard to cope with how I won't get a bachelors until the age of 25 because I kept changing my mind while I know people that are either getting it at age 22 or 23. I am basically getting an associates degree in 4 years (I basically wasted my first 2 years in college). I also regret cancelling my admissions to a UC when I was out of highschool. Basically, I feel I was better than this.. I feel sad that I am performing below my expectations in terms of where I am at in life. I was a good student and I just feel like my life wasn't supposed to turn out this way. I'm pretty sad right now. Can anyone relate?

This may sound selfish, but I am so disappointed in the friends that I have. They are not the type of friends to throw you birthday surprises, or the type you can call anytime you really need to talk. Heck, most times it takes weeks for them to reply to text messages. My best friend recently came out and even before then, she has never behaved like a best friend. She now spends all day and night with her girlfriend, who is a mutual friend and who I am sure doesn't really like me. I get a bit jealous when I see other best friends doing so much for each other.. I mean, did you ever feel this way about your friends?

What are some examples of preying kn other people or things?

You corrected her 5 min ago? Parents left and he's just staring silently

My husband and I are contemplating separation and divorce and it has been a long dying relationship. At this point we are still "together" and only immediate family and friends have any clue what's going on. I am an overachiever and planner, so I fired up my old dating profile and updated a few things prematurely. (single status and everything) I did not realize it was visible. I later realized it was up and I was getting likes and views. I have an older coworker and friend who apparently matched with me and viewed my profile. I disabled my profile as soon as I realized it was visible. My question is this: Should I mention anything to this coworker and let them know I was not trying to cheat on my husband and there are other circumstances, or should I let sleeping dogs lie? Edit: He is much older and he did not contact me either. I just noticed he had viewed me due to having a high match %. I was only up for 18 hours. He also does not seem like the kind to gossip. Hope this clarifies.

I been dating my fiancé for 2 years now. We live together. He is raising his granddaughter who also lives with us. His ex girlfriend help with the grand daughter for the first 8 years of the child's life. The ex has seen the child on 3 time in the last 9 years and now she pops up not only gay but as a man. She wants a relationship with the child. My fiancé keeps saying to her you need to call Michelle she loves you, you need to go spend time with her. This little girl came time and said she is uncomfortable being around her because she's not the same person. She is now on punishment because she do sent want to have anything to do with my fiancé ex.. I'm pissed because I feel like this child is being forced to deal with a person who's a stranger now to her and it's not fair that she's on punishment for not wanting to spen time with the ex.. If I voice my opinion then I'm being jealous. I'm not jealous I am concern on how this is going to effect this child. What should I do?

My old boss and I liked each other. Unfortunately he is married. During the time we worked together he would avoid me at times but then would come back and flirt with me. I knew he liked me by the way he treated me, stood near me etc. On his last few days when I came close he would look at me then walk away. He would also avoid me. On his last day he made me feel special by giving me a very friendly hug. My friend told me that during that week as well he would look at me across from across the room etc. Also others noticed he liked me too. A few days ago he came in just to say hi but was alone. Je wasn't with his wife or kids. During that time he avoided his eye contact and avoided me completely unless we were around someone. So my question is do guys avoid women they like sometimes? And yes I know he's married and any nasty l, vile answers I will report abd block you.

But that he loves me and will not love anybody else. He doesn't want me to leave him we have been together 2 years and I have been asking him what he will do for the longest . When he finally told me the truth (what he would do ) he said he didn't want to tell me because he know I would try to leave . And I said well it's not fair to me . To stay because I love you but you are not sure and most likely oh will marry for your family . I am torn . I know no one knows the future but he has already said to me we will never get married or live together with me. I am a carribean born female by the way and he is a Bengali born male both living in the USA and his parents do no know any English . I am torn Any thoughts ?

Like my cousin was a big Hillary Clinton supporter and she has been super annoying recently. Is it okay to tell my boyfriend to whip it out and slap her right across the face with it to shut her up?

Every time I screw up, my mom, a Baby Boomer. Lectures me, tells my age back to me, then compared me to her friends that have adult children with spouses, children, and jobs. They don't have the obstacle or adversity the last 5 years I had, which is why next year Ohio is getting a tax code change and references for work from public schools changed, so they stop stereotyping former students to get kick backs and tax breaks and more people can get hired here in The USA. But how do I get my mom to get better and more respectful, understanding, and caring advice instead of making me feel abashed, defeated, and giving me low self- esteem. Any ideas or help?

Last summer I was at my sorority and the frat down the street was throwing a party and our whole House was invited. All the girls were getting ready but I was hesitant about it, but with enough asking I went. (back to the point) we got there I stayed with my friend (lets call her Bailey) she led me around because she had been there before. Bailey and I were really close and usually when we went to events I would stay sober or soberish and be the house 'watchdog'. But she told me to 'drink up' because she would be the 'watchdog' tonight. I had a couple drink met this guy in the frat. We started talking then he asked me if he wanted to make out in his room. I said yes to this day I still don't know why what did I think would happen. We got there and we madeout for a while but then he started to tug in on my shirt. I said no but he was so drunk he didn't hear. Then I lost my virginity to a boy who probably didn't even know my name. I woke up around 7:00 and found Bailey sleeping on a couch. She told me the whole sorority was looking for me. She asked me were I was and I told her I hung out with 'this guy'. And i left it at that. We walked back to the house. After that I saw him at the library, streaking down the street, at the local corner store but we never talked, and I want to press charges but I have nobody to stand by me. I haven't talked to my mother since I left for college after a big fight. And heck I have so much college loans I cant get a lawyer . What will I do.

Anyways, she was caught with me in a mall by her friends. She told them that I'm a nobody. She joked that she's taking me out for charity shopping for my kids (which I have none). I was pretty offended by what she said. When I confronted her about it, she told me dhe had to keep her secret or this will blow over. I stopped seeing her but she's constantly showing up at my work. She's literally stalking me. Cops are not an option. He's married to one.

There was a guy that we used to talk before and flirted a little bit. But we never had relationships because I never liked he's sisters in school, they seem mean to me. They invited me to come to their wedding. I am curious to know who is he getting married to? should I go there or would I be too uncomfortable there?

Im 20, and a biological male, and ive never truly had a relationship, cause i just feel super weird and uncomfortable when im in one. Its almost as if im embarressed to be in one, like ok im interested and both men and women, and ive tried relationships with both, but i just cant. I dont like all the mushy gushy, hugs and kisses and cuddles, and i HATE sex of any kind. Absolutely hate it. I dont know, the thought of being close with someone just makes me uncomfortable, and its like im embarressed to be known as someones partner or something. Is there any idea what this is about? Like im ok with this, im fine being single and celibate my whole life, im just curious if any else has ever experienced this.

Parents left and he's just staring silently

My next door apartment used to say hi to me and we would talk but after that's night I tried saying hi to Him and he didn't want to talk to me for that I ashamed I let my anger out on my moms boyfriend who I hit but no signs I apologized all the anger was cause he doesn't work or help my mom. I am so ashamed and feel guilty for that, my apartments has all but been quiet and peaceful I feel like I'm a monster

I'm 28 and 3 years ago this coworker was touchy/flirty with me but it didn't go any further because she was and still is married. We came back into contact on FB. I wished her a happy 31st BD and she been messaging me ever since she sayin shes stressed out and as a joke i offered her a massage and surprisingly she said yeah when can I come over I said 8 but then you would have to be nude with just a towel though She quickly responded yeah that's how i get massaged so see ya tonight I'm shocked she took the offer. This is in my best interest because she really HOT and up til now was a fantasy but do I have a shot? Is she looking for more should I make the first move or should I let her during the massage? I'm just surprised how quickly she agreed to being nude I mean girls if your married/have a bf would you accept this kind of offer for just a massage?

My old boss came into my job the other day just to say hello. When he worked with me he had a crush on me and o him. He never mentioned his wife and anytime he did he rolled his eyes or changed the subject. Weird thing was hr wasn't with his wife or kids. When be left he told me he would see me again. When he was there he tried avoiding me too. And when he was around me he barely looked at me. He did however give me the look he usually gave me. He was talking about his new job but never mentioned his wife. a lot of time he did avoid me even when he worked there. So what do you think he was doing? p.s any harsh or disgusting answers and you will be reported or blocked

So this guy I used to love, who acted like he didn't reciprocate my feelings, called me out of the blue after 4 years. He left a 7 second blank voicemail. I texted him and asked if he meant to call me. He said "Hey, sorry, must have been a mistake. Hope all is well!" Do you think he meant to call me after all this time, or did he just butt dial me? Why would he keep my number after four years anyways?

My cousin borrowed my aspirin. I gave him the bottle and when he returned it the blue pill that I had stored in the bottle is not there. Yesterday I asked him, he said it was left at work. Today my cousin says pill is gone he thinks he may have thrown it. How should I handle this situation?

mum was married to true narcissist.she divorced my father (a very respectable man and wonderful father they divorced due to simple reasons) shortly after she divorced him, she married a new man. In a gist, my mother and I moved back and forth from his house more than 15 times. My mum and her former husband recently divorced and we are living on our own and going in primarily the right direction. I know he is out of our lives now, but while they were together he was very abusive towards my mum in more ways than imaginable. I used to call the cops, but they never did more than observe the situation and leave thinking we were a crazy family. I want to get over this but I feel worried and at night I have paranoia for no good reason. I always feel like I need to be on the look out. In the middle of the night if I wake up I have to jump out of bed and search the house and look out the window. I am scared of the man my mum chose to marry and I just want to protect my family. Truly I don't see him doing anything but that doesn't subside my anxiety. You might say I need to visit a therapist, but I live in a remote place and I don't want to tell my mum I need to see a therapist. I sleep with my television on because as I try to fall asleep I think about horrible memories and if I listen to the voices on the tv it gives me some ease. Please, just some advice? Also, I know once I'm in college I'll be better but I will always worry about my mom.

She is really hurtful to me by her bitterness so I am not that close but it is still my Mom and I am not glad she is dying or anything even if some of my stress goes away. She has Ovarian Cancer and will die in the next month or two.

I could just start over when I get there.

I'm only on day 2 and I'm so happy my wife is gone. We are seperated because she needs counseling really bad but I've been cleaning, working, playing xbox, and just enjoying myself and it's wonderful not having tension and being upset at her for her procrastination by not taking care of the house when I'm gone. It's the way I left it when I walked out and I don't have to deal with her cry baby attitude. Im enjoying my freedom. At first I was worried about losing her but I see and feel how my inner self is filled with spirit. God it feels so good. From the sound of it I should just call it quits right?!