Friends: Question: Should I go back to my hometown high school or no? |
- Question: Should I go back to my hometown high school or no?
- Question: Should I tell this girl that she stinks like fish?
- Question: I Lost My Friend. How Do I Get Her Back?
- Question: Online friend treats me like a pet?
- Question: What did his comment mean?
- Question: Help with friends?
- Question: Is 47 old?
- Question: My friends left me... ?
- Question: Is my best friend a jerk?
- Question: I am 16 and went to a friends house for the weekend, I left a note telling my parents. Can the people I m staying with get in trouble?
- Question: Why don't kids these days like their own race? (Dating)?
- Question: What's everybody's snapchat though?!?
- Question: Is it ok to ignore a housemate who has been rude to you several times?
- Question: A roommate took a **** on my friend in a doorroom and handcuffed him with toy handcuffs then left and when my friend got loose and called?
- Question: My friends didn't care on my birthday. Advice?
- Question: How to deal with my family and be able to hang out with friends?
- Question: Does this mean my friend is developing romantic feelings for me?
- Question: So, I'm in a good friend group and stuff, but I feel like my friends r sidelining me on purpose. they always ignore me. And I feel used...��?
- Question: Are people deep down jealous of other people who are somewhat happy? Please help!!��?
- Question: Hello. I need advice about how to deal with my best friend's jealous partner, who is coming between our friendship. What would you do?
- Question: Problem with BFF?
- Question: Can someone please explain this concept to me? I don't understand how this works?
- Question: Are some Penpals catfish?
- Question: Should i go stay with a friend for awhile?
- Question: Why does my guy friend call me sl** or h** in the hallways?
- Question: Hi! How do I convince one of my best friends not to smoke weed?
- Question: My friend concerns me?
- Question: I introduce my friend to something then they think they know more than me about it?
- Question: I want a best friend..:(?
- Question: Why are me and my best friend drifting apart :(?
- Question: How do you tell someone that you don't want to be friends?
- Question: Is my friend a bad friend?
- Question: Am I mean?
- Question: Is this a compliment or an insult?
- Question: Which friend should I choose? (sounds horrible, I'm sorry!)?
- Question: My 13 year old has no friends?
- Question: What could it mean when your ex voluntarily styles your hair with a comb/hands?
- Question: Would you change your name if it was????????????
- Question: My friends got a bad grade. How can I help them?
- Question: Kinda sad about what my friend says about me?
- Question: Maybe I'm just OCD? but my friend lives in filth.?
- Question: I'm losing all my friends?
- Question: I messed up and got with one of my friends ex's, what should I do?
- Question: So if I'm in the "friend zone" I should ignore her or???
- Question: What to do about this situation, people are against me when I haven't done anything?
- Question: Should I reach out to her?
- Question: So freaking disappointed!?
- Question: I'm getting tired of speaking to my friend on the phone?
- Question: Is there a whatsapp group I can get in?
- Question: I let a friend put his car in my name now all the parking tickets come to me how do I fix this?
- Question: Should i be mad at my friend for not wishing me a Happy Birthday?
- Question: How to keep bad things you do a secret??!!?
- Question: I hate having a December birthday?
- Question: What makes people don't wanna talk to you at school?
- Question: This is affecting me emotionally and I don't know what to do anymore. Please help?
- Question: For the girls here in H.S. or college, have you ever?
- Question: Why doesn't anyone know how to be a good friend?
- Question: Do people judge you on the amount of followers you have on Instagram?
- Question: Why do my older brothers and cousins get protective of me and I am a guy?
- Question: Me and my friend both have a very quick temper?
| Question: Should I go back to my hometown high school or no? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 05:57 PM PST So last year I was suspended the first time was only 5 days and then I was suspended a second time and since my principal I guess liked me he suspended me again instead of expulsion. So since then I started doing online school instead. Now I'm allowed to come back for the start of second semester but I'm not sure if I should. My grades are pretty much the same either way. Online is a lot more convenient since I don't have to get up as early but I also have like no social life with online. At least with actual school I had people to hang out with who lived around me. And I really really miss that. The only problem is now I'll have a reputation there. I'm not exactly sure if the people at that school are going to take me getting suspended twice as wow she's a bad *** or wow what a dumb ***... People there are pretty stuck up and snobby so I'm assuming the former. I'm more of the bad girl type tho so if it is the former than I don't mind that type of reputation. I'll also have to make all new friends because I'm for sure not being friends with the people I was before. At least most of them. They betrayed me and I'm a very loyal person so I'm not interested in even looking at those people who betrayed me. Anyways, I don't know what to do. My mom told me that it's my decision. She doesn't mind either one. So, what should I do? What are your opinions, advice? Thanks. I'm a junior btw so I'd start second semester there and then continue in to my senior year and then graduate. |
| Question: Should I tell this girl that she stinks like fish? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 05:34 PM PST She thinks we are friends but I hate her and she realllyyy stinks like mouldy, off fish! I'd want someone to tell me I stink, but should I tell her?? If so how do you tell someone that they stink so bad you can't be around them?? |
| Question: I Lost My Friend. How Do I Get Her Back? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 05:31 PM PST I'm 17 and in college and have a close friend who goes to the same school. We haven't really talked for a while but have remained close. Today, an idiot, who I thought was a friend of mine, told her that I wanted to do something inappropriate with her (Which I swear to God, I did not say) and now she has unfriended and blocked me on FB. I'm afraid that she resents me now. I'm crying and wishing I was dead. Is there any way I can get her beck as a friend? Would really appreciate some feedback from fellow Christians as well. Thanks. |
| Question: Online friend treats me like a pet? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 04:59 PM PST It's annoying. He's older than me by a couple of years. He acts like a big baby. He treats me like a little kid. When texting he literally says *pets* I'm not your child. It's gets of my freaking nerves. What should I do? *It gets on my freaking nerves Uhh autocorrect problems :/ |
| Question: What did his comment mean? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 04:48 PM PST For some weird reason, my prof brought up the topic of polyamourous when my classmate and I were chatting with him. After he finished the topic, he made a comment about me to my classmate, "it was too much information for her". What did he mean? I was just listening? |
| Posted: 02 Dec 2016 04:45 PM PST Hi friends, thanks for taking time to hopefully comment advice. Anyways here is the deal. I have 2 friends I care about, but I don't think they care about me. I consider one of them my best friend, for example we went of camping trips together, that kind of thing, I have known him for 2 years, we will call him friend 1. My second friend, I met this summer, btw 2016. My problem is I always have to ask to hang out, and I don't see them separately because I go to a different school. They literally never ask to hang out. Today my second friend was like, meet me at the mall and then let's go to my house after. I said ok but he never got back to me on it. In fact he wouldn't even respond to the seen snap chats I sent. What should I do?are they really my friends? They hung out with another dude I don't know at my second friends house, this was common for the three of us to do, and when I saw the picture, I felt jealous and replaced. I'm kind of hurt because they are my only real friends, I of course could get other friends but I don't want to. What does this mean? Am I over thinking it? I'm a 13 year old boy, 8th grade. Bye and thanks. |
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| Question: My friends left me... ? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 04:08 PM PST I'm a Freshman in college and I started to look for roommates to stay with me over the summer and take summer classes and also live together in the fall.. I asked my best friend and this other girl and they were both cool with it. I've never had a best friend like her before because people usually leave me because I have some mental health issues.. So randomly this other girl asked if she can join and we said it was okay.. But then she didn't want me to live with them anymore so they kicked me out.. I don't know what to do.. I have no other friends and I feel betrayed.. They say they want to be friends still but I have a gut feeling it's over. I've been even more depressed now to the point where i'm not leaving my room because I have no one to talk to.. What should I do.. |
| Question: Is my best friend a jerk? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 04:03 PM PST My friend and I have been friends for 6 years now and I just feel like i'm hanging around her just to be in a group. Lets call her A. A and I have gotten into fights and normal things teenage girls argue about. For some reason A always tends to bring up things from the past and she always finds a way to bring my self esteem down more. She calls me ugly and not to sound conceited, but I know i'm not ugly.. I asked her why she called me ugly and she said she was joking but the word ugly is coming from her way too often... I want to say YOUR ATTITUDE IS UGLY. I always want to bring up my point or whenever i try to tell her how she hurt my feelings she always ends up digging up dirt about something I did. She is overly honest like "you look horrible today" or "that is one huge pimple there" and etc when I already know. Sometimes shes like ''remember the time this happened..you were a horrible friend" when clearly there are 2 sides of a story, but whenever i want to say mine she either argues or says "HOW ARE YOU GOING TO TELL ME WHAT I DID" I feel as if she is rude ,but she does not realize it. we have had some good times in the past she told me im going to hell |
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| Question: Why don't kids these days like their own race? (Dating)? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 03:37 PM PST Preferably the ones brought up in the western world. I see it all the time. Today I overheard this conversation in class. Boy: What do you think of ________ Bianca: I don't like Asian guy. I like blondes Boy: So you like Martin Jones Bianca: YUCK. No Boy 2: I don't like Asians either Boy 2: I like Arabs I used to be like them. But now, honestly, I don't want my kids to be a result of loss of culture. But that was the past me. to be honest I don't think I want a boyfriend or to get married anymore In summary, does anyone know why so many kids brought up in a multicultural environment not like people of their own ethnic group- attraction-wise? |
| Question: What's everybody's snapchat though?!? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 03:26 PM PST |
| Question: Is it ok to ignore a housemate who has been rude to you several times? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 03:21 PM PST |
| Posted: 02 Dec 2016 03:19 PM PST When my friend called 911 they told him they couldn't do anything to the roomate and then they left when the roommate returned we beat the hell out of him and he pressed charges and we had to spend a day in jail. What should I do? |
| Question: My friends didn't care on my birthday. Advice? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 03:03 PM PST There's five girls. One of their birthdays is coming up. And they're making her a book, everyone has to write a page. They even bought stuff for it I thought about my birthday. It was months ago, during exams. I didn't get to see or tell them because we don't all have the same subjects. When my friend Kirsty found out it was my birthday during the exams she said, "was it your birthday? Happy birthday." Then the other girl says "it was her birthday? No one cared!" She said with a laugh, thinking i didn't hear. And here she is being the - let's say leader in making Molly, the quiet one a birthday present. It sort of hurts.... I don't want to tell them how I feel. I don't want to look weak |
| Question: How to deal with my family and be able to hang out with friends? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 03:00 PM PST I am a freshman in highschool already and people already have their go to best friend. I don t, I went to a different middle school than all of the kids. I could develop better friendships with the new friends I made but it would be easier if I would hang out with them. I am a bit socially awkward. I don t know how to arrange a time or ask someone to hang out. I feel like I ll sound weird. I have been asked to hang out but I usually decline because 1) I don t have a ride back home 2) I have three younger siblings the oldest being 10 years old and I don t know if they re able to stay alone for an hour or two without causing chaos. 3) I don t know what to do while hanging out. 4) My mom doesn t let me hang out because of the kids and I don t know what to do. I want to have a social life but with my family it s hard. Please give advise. Thank you. |
| Question: Does this mean my friend is developing romantic feelings for me? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 02:59 PM PST At work one of my co workers and I became good friends. I was friends with her bf at the time, then me and her became good friends and to this day we still are. Her bf isn't in the picture anymore but she is not happily married with 2 kids. Me and her text often we talk about everything personal, she tells me she's bored in her marriage.Me and her have never hook up or anything. Does this mean she's looking to mess around? |
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| Question: Are people deep down jealous of other people who are somewhat happy? Please help!!��? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 02:28 PM PST Like is that why they are so mean or have hate against that person. If the person says that she didn't like you because "you think that your all that & that you get into people's business". Even tho you have never talked to her once in your life.. does that mean that she is secretly envious or jelouse of you? Is that why this girl dosn't like me? She always laughs too with her Mexican friends and love talking gossip she always spreads fake rumors to other people whenever she can../: |
| Posted: 02 Dec 2016 02:23 PM PST I've known my closest childhood friend for 25 years. Our friendship seems to have weathered everything - until his latest relationship. (I am a woman, he is a gay man.) His partner was really excited to meet me when they first got together 3 years ago. It never ended up happening because we live far apart. Over the years, his partner has become increasingly possessive of him and seems really averse to his friends and family. I've never met him, they now live together and he keeps coming up with excuses not to meet me or spend time w/ me. We are supposed to meet up this holiday because we'll both be in the same state and were going to go to a theme park, then instead of joining us for the day he said he wants to do a spa day, maybe meeting up with us for dinner. The problem is the theme park is $100+ and it would require me leaving like 5 hours early to accommodate him/this and given all the other times this sort of thing has happened, I'm not really keen on altering my vacation day schedule like this to suit his very picky requests and so far, unkind treatment. He seems to be intentionally trying to be difficult and is exhibiting a lot of jealous, insecure, and controlling behavior towards my friend. (The partner is 50 years old.) I feel bad for my friend who is a people pleaser and wants to keep us both happy, but isn't exactly realistic about the relationship and seems to cater to his partner's every demand, even when it is illogical, irrational, or rude. What should I do? |
| Posted: 02 Dec 2016 02:20 PM PST He is one of my BFF-s, or I thought he was. We met when we were kids, and we quickly became best friends. We went on vacations together, we hung out together, visited each other frequently, went out together, worked together. He was quiet and I helped him in any way that I could. But with time, things started to change and I don't know why. He started acting strange around me, since he got his gf. That was not a problem for me, because it's normal for people in relationship to be together all the time, that's the point of being in relationship in the first place. He teased me sometimes, but I thought that that was friendly teasing. Later he started avoiding me completely. Then recently, I heard from another source that he said that I am not his best friend or any kind of friend because I'm educated (I went to college, and he went only to high school). When we talked last time, everything was ok. I mean wtf is that? I'm really good with people, it's totally confusing. I thought that I knew him very good, but I was wrong. My family thinks that I should stop trying to repair our friendship, but I don't know if I want to give up, because we were friends since childhood. What do you think about this? What should I do? Should I stop trying? Sorry for long answer. |
| Question: Can someone please explain this concept to me? I don't understand how this works? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 02:12 PM PST My crush accepted my friend Facebook request. They never met but he knows of her because I talk to her about him. He only accept people that he knows. If he doesn't want to be Facebook friends with someone he would decline it. After my crush accepted the request her and I was still fighting and had drama over the same thing before he accepted it. She was making stuff up about him to make him look bad. She refused to talk about him. Every time my other friends accepted her request there's no drama no fighting she never told me she refuse to talk about my other friends. So why would she refuse to talk about my crush who she never met when he accepted her request? What is the difference between my other friends accepting her request (no fighting, drama) and my crush accepting her request (drama and fighting)? Is she mentally craZy? |
| Question: Are some Penpals catfish? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 02:10 PM PST recently I have been visiting this penpall website https://penpals.phk.at/ And there is a lot of attractive girls who have my age. I want to email them. But I think they might be catfish profiles. Has anyone try emailing people from that website? |
| Question: Should i go stay with a friend for awhile? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 02:06 PM PST Hi so my life isnt really going so well right now. i have major problems with my stepmother and dad and i cant really take it anymore. im pretty much fed up with it right now and i think its best that we take some time from each other whether its temporarily or permanently. I spoke to my school counselor and i have her permission to leave and my social workers also know about my situation. I plan on staying at a friends for a couple of days (yes her mother already knows my situation because she is in touch with my counselor) until my social workers can put me in a proper foster home or until they can figure out whats best for everyone. i have 2 brothers and i dont think there gonna take them away too because they are better of with my "parents". so i was wondering if i leave will they take my brothers away too? and also is it the best thing to leave right now? and please if u could give me tips on what to take with me and how should i leave like should i tell them that im taking a break or should i write a letter? please answer ASAP because im planning on leaving tonight |
| Question: Why does my guy friend call me sl** or h** in the hallways? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 02:03 PM PST It's not in a bullying type of way. |
| Question: Hi! How do I convince one of my best friends not to smoke weed? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 01:59 PM PST Hello, my friend has been smoking a lot lately and I know it's not good. We're only on our first year in high school and I don't want her to set herself up for failure by doing this. I don't know what to do and I'm really worried. So I was wondering how to convince my friend not to smoke weed? |
| Question: My friend concerns me? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 01:50 PM PST So my friend has claimed ( I don't believe him but even making this up is deranged) that he did injured his brother purposely. He has also done some weird things and has a fascination with disgusting and upsetting things. He also claimed he put bees in the locker of a boy who bothered him but after I condemned that action, he retracted his statement and said he looked to his values an couldn't do it. I So my friend has claimed ( I don't believe him but even making this up is deranged) that he did injured his brother purposely. He has also done some weird things and has a fascination with disgusting and upsetting things. He also claimed that he put bees into the locker of a boy who bothered him but when expressed shock he retracted and said that he looked to his values and couldn't do it. I don't know if he really did it. I have been distancing myself from him. What do you think I should do? He makes me really uncomfortable and I am worried about associating with someone who conducts himself this way. I just feel bad shout distancing myself but I see no other viable option. What do you think? I thank you for your responses. |
| Question: I introduce my friend to something then they think they know more than me about it? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 01:36 PM PST Like I'll show them a video game or a band, and then they'll be condescending and feel like they have more knowledge than me on the subject even though IM the one who introduced it to them. Kinda annoying. Is that normal? And am I being oversensitive by getting kinda annoyed by it? |
| Question: I want a best friend..:(? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 01:28 PM PST This might sound so stupid but I really want a best friend. I have a group of friends that I've known for a long time and none of them ask me to hangout with them but each of them have other friends and their own best friend and it seems like I'm no ones best friend and I just feel alone..I am never the first person that they talk about their problems to, I just want a friend that I can talk about all my problems too and doesn't judge me yanno lol I honestly don't know what's wrong me.. |
| Question: Why are me and my best friend drifting apart :(? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 01:24 PM PST |
| Question: How do you tell someone that you don't want to be friends? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 01:20 PM PST My friend constantly shares my secrets and puts me down. She's a terrible friend. How do I tell her that we can't be friends anymore without being mean or making her cry? |
| Question: Is my friend a bad friend? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 01:15 PM PST Okay well so I got an assigned seat on the bus where I have to sit in the front. Then my friend tells her mom and her brother and then they laugh at me and I was like how is that funny? And then she changed the subject is she a bad friend? |
| Posted: 02 Dec 2016 01:10 PM PST I feel really bad. I made a friend about a month ago. Technically she's an online friend, but she goes to my old school and started texting me because I'm friends with some of her friends. It was nice at first because she is a sweet person, but she always has something negative to say. She only ever talks about herself and how sad she is. I get so frustrated because I've tried to help her out and I send her paragraphs of advice and nice stuff. She's constantly complaining about her life and how she looks and just everything tbh. I tried to get her to ask her parents for help and I've given her other advice, but she ignores everything I say and continues to talk about sad things 24/7. I feel so mean because I don't like talking to her anymore. She's so nice and I get people need to vent sometimes, but all she talks about is sad things 24/7 and then ignores whatever I say. Any advice? |
| Question: Is this a compliment or an insult? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 01:05 PM PST I am the only girl in my High School AP Physics class. My classmates are my friends and we like to gather at my home and jointly do on our homework. It is a very hard class with lots of homework. Some of the problems we have a hard time solving. One of my classmates said let's ask you mom Jill for help. He did and mom instantly came up with the answer. They did this several times and mom always came up with the answer. This was amazing to my classmates. One of them said to me "How is it possible that your mom is so beautiful and so smart? That does not compute". Is that a compliment for my mom or an insult to all women? YOUR OPINION PLEASE. |
| Question: Which friend should I choose? (sounds horrible, I'm sorry!)? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 01:02 PM PST So, this may sound weird to ask, but I have two tickets that I got for free to this really popular event, which is tomorrow. There's a friend, let's call her Kacey, and I was supposed to meet with her today, but she cancelled at the last minute (like always), because she's "sick". But when I offered to take her to the event, she said she hadn t really been that sick and was all better. I also know that she was at a club yesterday, and obviously didn t flake on that. So basically, Kacey flakes based on the "value" of the event. I have another friend, I'll call her April, who s dying to go to the event, and never flakes on anything. She s also the better friend, but I already promised the ticket to Kacey. So should I tell Kacey that I m annoyed and give her ticket to April, or just go with Kacey anyways? I'd love some advice! XOXO, Rose |
| Question: My 13 year old has no friends? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 01:02 PM PST She doesn t text anyone except famil and doesn t have any contacts except for family. On instagram she hasn t texted anyone for 4months. And hasn t been invited to birthdays or just to hang out. She spends most of her time watching YouTube and playing video games. Should I be worried |
| Question: What could it mean when your ex voluntarily styles your hair with a comb/hands? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 12:44 PM PST She's a girl and I am a guy. |
| Question: Would you change your name if it was???????????? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 12:43 PM PST IKAN FARTAALOT Is this the worst name you ever heard of? |
| Question: My friends got a bad grade. How can I help them? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 12:42 PM PST I'm in 8th grade and we just got our interim. I got all A's but my friends got bad grades in math and french class. What are some ways I can make them feel better, and help them get at least a passing grade, but preferably higher. I am really good at math so should I help them or something? |
| Question: Kinda sad about what my friend says about me? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 12:39 PM PST All of the sudden this year, my friend started being really rude to me. She always calls me ugly and rich and a spoiled brat. It literally pushes my self esteem down so much and I usually end up crying about it when I think about it because I know I'm ugly and her saying it makes it worse. I've always wanted to be pretty and it makes me feel even worse when she says this to me. She even tells my other friend about it behind my back. Not only does she call me ugly but she also as I said earlier calls me a rich spoiled brat that's annoying, definitely not pretty, and she always tries to criticize me on the littlest things that aren't even important. She tries to take my stuff and pull my hair and hit me and she always makes it seem like I'm a terrible and ugly person. She always tries to do an impression of me and make my voice sound weird and she never says thank you when I give her a gift. When I give her a gift, she always says,"I like the gift that (other person's name) gave me better than this. She says my handwriting sucks even when hers isn't the best either. I'm fed up with this girl! What should I do? |
| Question: Maybe I'm just OCD? but my friend lives in filth.? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 11:57 AM PST I'm 16 and he is 16. He lives at home with his older sister (in college) and single mother. (works a lot). they have 2 large labs one is 15 years old and the other is 9. both dogs dump hair everywhere. he plays hours and hours of world of Warcraft and league of legends without any thought to ever clean his room. the entire house has dust, dog hair and immeasurable amounts of clutter. he isn't a very clean person in general. and is in the realm where most would say he i overweight. the kitchen is full of crap and old food that you can even see the counters. the garage ( a two car has about 10 shelves filled with paint cans, food, boxes, and other mounds of crap. the house smells and its gotten to the point that one time i actually cleaned his room while he helped a little. what should i do? should i just let it be? its unhygienic and disgusting he doesn't directly seem like he is depressed i forgot to add that his dad tho is present in his life is dealing with cancer that the moment.its a touchy situation that he tries to avoid. he procrastinates to the extreme.i do this online/ blended learning school where you can fall behind very easily if you just procrastinate. he is currently 30 days behind in Spanish and goes home to play video games 7-8 hours a day. he has a gaming problem but it seems like every time i say lets go out an do somthing it turns into him explaining that he dosnt have any money to do anything and just saying that he wants to just stay home and play games i think he may need to get a job..... it will give him some time away from the video games and more money for activities |
| Question: I'm losing all my friends? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 11:25 AM PST I'm a freshman and I've lost almost all my friends. I made a new friend in the beginning of the year and we use to talk a lot but now she barely wants to talk to me. Whenever I ask her to hangout she says she has other plans or she doesn't feel like it. Every one seems to be in a group and I'm just an outcast. I sit alone during lunch time and doesn't have anyone to talk to. I'm getting really depressed lately and my life at home is just really messy. Anyone have any advice on how to get over it and feeling so sad? |
| Question: I messed up and got with one of my friends ex's, what should I do? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 10:32 AM PST It's a bit of a long story so I'll try condense it. I used to really like this guy last year and we used to flirt and get a lot, then he got a girlfriend and I was heartbroken but got over it. Me and this girl became really good friends and got really close. She then moved out the country and she broke up with him for that and he was very controlling and jealous, she hates him completely but me and her are still friends. I'm pretty lonely when it comes to guys and this guy but me just seem to always get on really well and one night we got drunk and got. It didn't mean to happen he just gave me a lot of attention and we're generally good mates as it is, there's just a bit of a sexual connection again now he's single. Anyway we got a bit closer and it happened a couple more times. I really wanted to tell the girl but when I went to she started talking about him and how she hates him and how life in england now sucks and her depression was getting worse, I couldn't face telling her after all that and I know I should've I was just scared. Someones now told her and she hates me, telling me to go f*ck myself and calling me a snake. I know I messed up and I apologised so much and took responsibility but I don't what to do cause I feel terrible. Should I let her cool off and then message her or wait for her to message me? I've never done anything like this and I feel really bad. Any advice? guy and me* |
| Question: So if I'm in the "friend zone" I should ignore her or??? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 10:24 AM PST She wouldn't add me on Facebook and then stopped texting me. But goes out of her way to talk to me and touch especially when I keep to myself or try to keep to myself? I'm confused? |
| Question: What to do about this situation, people are against me when I haven't done anything? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 09:54 AM PST I have former neighbors that continue to follow me were ever I move just to spread malicious gossip about me. They have been saying that I am stupid and that I am a hypocrite and a racist which I am not. The problem is my cousin knows these former neighbors. My cousin and I don't get along and she has told them private conversations and private secrets that I told her when we got along. Such as I went to a psychic and she told me I needed a cleansing which I didn't believe. I moved in my recent neighborhood about a year ago and everyone starts laughing at me and calling me stupid because these former neighbors have told them to start a fight with me. I don't know what to do because everywhere I move they are going to know where I live because of my cousin. I love my aunt and I have told her about my cousin but she doesn't believe her daughter could do this to me. My cousin will know where I move because my mom talks to my aunt everyday and she is family, I couldn't keep my address away from her. People in the neighborhood always making negative comments without even knowing me just because of my former neighbors gossip and the conversations I have had with my cousin before. I was laid off my job in June and when I told my aunt about it , my cousin told my former neighbors making my recent neighbors now I didn't have a job and now they make comments at me like get a job. I am tired of people making comments or knowing about my life. What should I do? |
| Question: Should I reach out to her? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 09:50 AM PST I've had a best friend throughout middle school and most of high school. Throughout the last few years, it's been pretty clear to us that we were going down separate paths, but we still managed to stay friends. But then about a month ago, she just stopped talking to me. I don't know what I did to upset her and quite honestly I can't think of anything. She just stopped answering my texts, calls, snapchats... I stopped trying to reach out to her a few weeks ago, but we still see each other in school. We have 1 lunch together and it's just the two of us. I think it just came to a head when we just sat there the entire lunch instead of talking to each other like we used to. I just wish she would tell me why. If she doesn't want to be friends anymore I would wish she'd tell me. Should I reach out to her again, asking what I did wrong, or just leave it? |
| Question: So freaking disappointed!? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 09:50 AM PST It might be tough to type this but I guess I'll try. Hi my name is Samantha and I go to a school that I'm not gonna say but let's just say the mascot is a bulldog. Btw my school is a performing arts school. Our school theater program made it to the last round in this huge competition. This is a BIG deal. Almost EVERYONE is going. However, the final competition is two hours away from here and it's at 9:00 A.M. All of cool kids are going to a hotel the night before but my grandparents are taking me the day of. I have to wake up super early on a freaking Sunday because of this then. There is an opportunity for a hotel but they don't want to take it. I gotta hurry though because we would have to leave soon if we stay in the hotel. I'm about to go into depression about this because I was going to talk to my crush and get his number tonight. So, what can I do to persuade them or cheer myself up? |
| Question: I'm getting tired of speaking to my friend on the phone? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 09:40 AM PST Sometimes he doesn't respond to my text or something and he will call me back instead a few hours later, or the next day. He made a habbit of it and I hate speaking on the phone. But if I told him that he would for sure think i'm making an excuse or think i'm strange. I'm getting sick of him keep calling me, I don't like talking on the phone it's awkward I just wanna chill out. But instead I have the chore to ring him back. Any ideas? sounds like a stupid question but I honestly don't know what to do it's getting really boring now. |
| Question: Is there a whatsapp group I can get in? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 09:23 AM PST |
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| Question: Should i be mad at my friend for not wishing me a Happy Birthday? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 08:58 AM PST ..or just let it go? I know i wished them a Happy Birthday. *friends.. and i consider them good friends. Thank you :) but my Birthday was actually two days ago They did know because they get the Birthday notification on Facebook |
| Question: How to keep bad things you do a secret??!!? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 08:36 AM PST Smoking drug dealing stealing anything because I don't want my cousins to find out because they snitch to my parents but not on other people only me!!!!! |
| Question: I hate having a December birthday? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 08:32 AM PST My birthday is the 28th and I can't find ONE day this whole month when my friends aren't busy. My parents are even telling me to cancel my party since everyone is staying somewhere for winter break and I can't do anything till at least the 16th because it's time for finals and I'm too busy with school now, then after that seems like everyone leaves the state or is busy with Christmas stuff. This has happened every year. I only have 4 close enough friends to invite and they all have packed schedules. People always forget my birthday too because they are so caught up in holiday madness up until New Years. My friend once got me a two month late bday present, and not to mention joint Christmas- birthday presents. Anyone know the struggle? What should I do, should I celebrate in January? |
| Question: What makes people don't wanna talk to you at school? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 08:02 AM PST i mean i really can't understand what's the matter ? i am a girl and i'm 15 ( i have absolutely no friends at school). people just don't wanna talk to me. like , do i look like a serial killer.. do i smell?? idk. can anyone give me tips for making friends? i'd be a really good friend. |
| Question: This is affecting me emotionally and I don't know what to do anymore. Please help? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 07:53 AM PST I have former neighbors that continue to follow me were ever I move just to spread malicious gossip about me. They have been saying that I am stupid and that I am a hypocrite and a racist which I am not. The problem is my cousin knows these former neighbors. My cousin and I don't get along and she has told them private conversations and private secrets that I told her when we got along. Such as I went to a psychic and she told me I needed a cleansing which I didn't believe. I moved in my recent neighborhood about a year ago and everyone starts laughing at me and calling me stupid because these former neighbors have told them to start a fight with me. I don't know what to do because everywhere I move they are going to know where I live because of my cousin. I love my aunt and I have told her about my cousin but she doesn't believe her daughter could do this to me. My cousin will know where I move because my mom talks to my aunt everyday and she is family, I couldn't keep my address away from her. People in the neighborhood always making negative comments without even knowing me just because of my former neighbors gossip and the conversations I have had with my cousin before. I was laid off my job in June and when I told my aunt about it , my cousin told my former neighbors making my recent neighbors now I didn't have a job and now they make comments at me like get a job. I am tired of people making comments or knowing about my life. What should I do? |
| Question: For the girls here in H.S. or college, have you ever? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 07:47 AM PST There's this 1 guy at our school who bragged a lot that if any girl tried to slap him he'd block her hand. He acts like a total player. But now twice he's gotten slapped by really cute girls he's tried his game on. They just all smooth hang out the right hand smack, he freezes and he gets slapped and then they smirk at him. It's pissing him off that he can't block it after he swore he could. Have you ever known a guy like that, and what happened to him if he ever got tested by girls like this guy has? |
| Question: Why doesn't anyone know how to be a good friend? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 07:43 AM PST Every time I try to make a new friend I feel like I'm the only one who's giving in the relationship. Like I ask them how their day went and I actually listen and talk them through their feelings and give them advice if they ask for it. But if I ever have a problem that I need to talk about or if I need a shoulder to cry on its always "aw, that sucks" and then either the subject goes back to them or they get busy and have to leave. This isn't just one person, this happens every time I try to make friends but we can never be real friends because I feel disrespected. I always go the extra mile first and they always seem appreciative, so why can't they treat me with the same care and respect? Why don't more people understand what being a good friend entails? |
| Question: Do people judge you on the amount of followers you have on Instagram? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 07:43 AM PST I have like 210 followers and I feel like that's pretty low. I've seen lots of my classmates Instagram accounts and they have like mostly 1k and over. I am starting a new school and I don't think I'm gonna tell my future friends I have Instagram because of my low amount and they might judge. Will people lose interest in being friends with me because of my low amount? I feel like they might see it as "no one follows her so why should we?" Or "no one follows her so forget her she a loner" |
| Question: Why do my older brothers and cousins get protective of me and I am a guy? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 07:33 AM PST I am a guy and the youngest in my family and I have two older brothers and one older brother with autism and I have cousins who are my age but are older than me by a few months. Well when I was 8 I had two life threatening surgeries and my cousins and older brothers helped take care of me and ever since then they have been overprotective of me. Like for example when my brother with autism tries to bully me my brother older than him protects me. Then when ever I fail a class or disrespect my parents, my older brothers get on my case. Then one time when we had thanksgiving in San Diego, one of my cousins would talk about girls and my other cousin Aaron would tell me to cover my ears, I just ignored him. Then one time I wanted to date this girl that was in my older brothers class but my brother told me no, now he had a girlfriend at the time and he didnt like the girl I wanted to go out with. Why do they act like that with me? |
| Question: Me and my friend both have a very quick temper? Posted: 02 Dec 2016 06:37 AM PST I just became friends with someone about two weeks ago. Everything seemed fine at first, until I noticed that they snap VERY easily, and can go into bouts of anger or sadness over one word. They are very passive-aggressive when in that state, and that is fine. The issue is, I am the same way internally. I usually will not lash out on someone unless it is well-deserved however. Not nearly as much as she lashes out on others. I am finding it hard to cope with this issue when we both can be offset by the smallest, meaningless thing. I really enjoy their presence and friendship, however I don't know how I can deal with this. I also feel as if she is mildly emotionally abusive, however I am not sure if it is because she reminds me of my emotionally abusive ex-boyfriend or not. For example: I will say something, whatever it may be, and it has the possibility to trigger her into a rage of anger. It could be as simple as an opinion on a certain genre of music. She'll be passive aggressive, sending one word answers when I try to explain myself. Then, when I'm sad because she lashed out, she will be quick to comfort me and tell me I deserve the world, but without acknowledging she was the one that hurt me. Sometimes in cases like that, an apology or "I realize I messed up" would be nice. Any insight would be very helpful. I'm just not sure what to do. Is it healthy to continue this friendship? |
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