Marriage & Divorce: Question: Marriage: could you live with a drama queen, are any of you married to one(girl or boy)? |
- Question: Marriage: could you live with a drama queen, are any of you married to one(girl or boy)?
- Question: Are women really free? As in do you have to pay at the end of your life?
- Question: My husband just told me he trusts his best friend over me. finally he admitted he had trust issues. Been married 15 yrs. wtf?
- Question: Calling all married women! How do you feel about your husband using their fingers while doing oral, and playing with your pussy before sex?
- Question: Custody rules?
- Question: What is the mature way in dealing with a mother-in-law?
- Question: How can I tell my husband that since I was little I liked women more then men and I been cheating on him with women and I only married him?
- Question: Where do I go from here?
- Question: I slept with my boss and I'm married.?
- Question: How does a female judge a potential marriage partner to be "out-of-her-league?"?
- Question: If my fiancée and I buy a house together, should it be passed to me if he dies?
- Question: How can I change a support order to go directly to my child?
- Question: Does divorce harm children in a lot more ways that the parents realize?
- Question: Im thinking about charging to sit at my wedding?
- Question: There is marriage and there is something called divorce. Why do they insist on staying in unhappy marriages?
- Question: My wife is driving me crazy! Starting to resent her..please help?
- Question: Married Women! Do you ever cut off sex? Why or Why not? Also, do you ever view sex as a want and not important for a good marriage?
- Question: One foreign pregnant woman is kicked out by her husband.?
- Question: Can you be married in a country and at the same time get married with someone else in the united states?
- Question: Why do husband get mad when I question him about where a outs ?
- Question: I want to runaway from my family is this normal or selfish?
- Question: Why can't I just be ok with this?!?
- Question: Husband gives me the silent treatment over stupid things... what should I do? The silence lasts about 7 days...?
- Question: It's become an unhealthy obsession?
- Question: Why does a married man WANT his mistress so BADLY sexually? But he does NOT want his wife???
- Question: How to talk to my husband?
- Question: I'm so discouraged in my marriage any advice?
- Question: Am I about to make a really BAD decision or do you think this could do some good in my marriage if I do this?
- Question: Do animals feel shame? I laughed at my dog when he ate the donuts off the counter and the wife yelled at him. he hid head as if embarrassed?
- Question: How can I convince him to get rid of this dog?
- Question: My husband has a very dominant personality and I am submissive to him. If we are happy this way why do people try to say it's bad?
- Question: Women does it turn you on when your husband is pisseive and jealous sexually? Regardless if it's considered by western standard 2 be abuse?
- Question: What's the difference between love marriage or arrange marriage?
- Question: I have a major issue with my relationship iv been with two people my wife has had way more how do I make it to where we can mess around?
- Question: DH doesn't understand how important my family is to me? Help?
- Question: If my wife is choosing to live by her emotions and fears, what should I be doing to balancing the relationship out?
- Question: Is it better for the Wife to make the living for the house hold or the man?
- Question: My wife cheated on me last year gave me a free pass should I use it or should I not iv only been with two people kinda want the experience?
- Question: Marrying a musical theater major when I am going to be a psychologist? Can it work?
- Question: Do you check call logs of your spouse?
- Question: Does my husband think I am stupid? Because he thinks I can't see the way he looks at my son's girlfriend?
- Question: Should I meet my ex-wife in Colombia for her vacation?
- Question: Is it possible for marriage to give you the same, if not more freedom than a single life?
- Question: What's the best kind of marriage?
- Question: So i am like a cindarella in reverse?
- Question: Hi I need some answers please so I am happily married and love my wife but I find her best friend sexualy attractive what should I do?
- Question: I found this in my husband's cell phone. Should I be worried?
- Question: Can anyone give me a real and valid reason to get married?
- Question: Child Molestation Case?(a lawyers input would be appreciated)?
- Question: Newly married...should I consider divorce?
| Question: Marriage: could you live with a drama queen, are any of you married to one(girl or boy)? Posted: 07 Oct 2015 09:00 PM PDT |
| Question: Are women really free? As in do you have to pay at the end of your life? Posted: 07 Oct 2015 08:54 PM PDT |
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| Posted: 07 Oct 2015 08:26 PM PDT So I'm 17, I know I'm young to have a kid but I dont care. I love my daughter. Anyways, my boyfriend agreed to give me full custody of our daughter until we get married. (There's a lot of things going on with his parents being unreasonable jerks and not letting him see his daughter but I'm not going to go into it) anyways, he's agreed to give me full custody to keep our daughter away from his parents, (they wont allow him to see me or her) you'd understand if you knew them. Can anyone tell me how we do that and what happens after? He signs custody to me and once we're married I give it back to him? We're scheduled with a lawyer but I'd like an idea on what to expect. |
| Question: What is the mature way in dealing with a mother-in-law? Posted: 07 Oct 2015 08:05 PM PDT We live in an apartment complex.We re not allowed to have pets. My husband agreed to take in my mother-in-law s dog for awhile. My landlord came by to deal with a neighbor.He heard her loud barking, saw her in the window, saw the cable we hook her up to. He didn t mention anything to me. I call up my in-laws and politely asked them to come get the dog. They never did come by to get her. My mother-in-law won t talk to me and blocked me from Facebook and I don t know why. I feel she s acting immature. Should I abous her at all costs or go with my husband when we go visit his family? |
| Posted: 07 Oct 2015 07:55 PM PDT because my family wont accept that im really lesbian and I married him to please my family I don't even like to have sex with him it don't turn me on |
| Question: Where do I go from here? Posted: 07 Oct 2015 07:09 PM PDT 4 months ago I left my wife because she was an abusive alcoholic and I was finally fed up with her empty promises. I felt like I made the right decision and I do not take it back. The transition has been extremely difficult financially. I rent a bedroom in a house owned by a couple, and I sold my car last week in order to relieve some of the financial stress of a car payment. I thought it would be okay, because I was driving a company vehicle for work. Today I was fired for not meeting their quota, and the business has slowed. they gave me a severance package that may cover my rent for two months. So now here I am, no wife, no job, no car, no savings because I left everything to her, and no family within 500 miles. What's my next move? Dare I say, I may be out of moves. |
| Question: I slept with my boss and I'm married.? Posted: 07 Oct 2015 06:25 PM PDT I don't know what to do. We started out as close friends, but it's progressed to something more than that - romance. This isn't the first time we've been intimate. We also performed oral on each other, but I don't consider that sex or cheating. A few nights ago he forced himself onto me, and I don't think it's my fault. How can I tell my hubby this? |
| Question: How does a female judge a potential marriage partner to be "out-of-her-league?"? Posted: 07 Oct 2015 06:14 PM PDT what makes her believe she is "too good" for the likes of him? |
| Question: If my fiancée and I buy a house together, should it be passed to me if he dies? Posted: 07 Oct 2015 06:03 PM PDT He has an adult son from a previous relationship, he also has NO assets or RRSPs that he is bringing into the relationship, his parents are consigning for him and helping with his share of down payment, and I am contributing money for down payment from a property I owned with my ex. I earn more money than he does and have better credit. My question is: is it fair to feel that if he dies I should get to keep the house? He is 15 years older than me, I'm 28 he's 42. I'm worried that when I'm 60/65 and he passed away, I will be forced to sell my property to buy his son out of his inheritance. My fiancé is a good man, but he made some bad decisions and got into drugs but has been sober 10 years, never done much for a career though. I just feel that any future I work towards with him I should be able to keep when he passes. If he wants to leave his son something he should purchase a good life insurance policy. Our home should pass to me when he dies... I paid into it. I will have worked for it my whole life and probably support him into his own retirement. Is it fair for me to feel this way? |
| Question: How can I change a support order to go directly to my child? Posted: 07 Oct 2015 05:24 PM PDT my son is 18 and a full time student. I still pay support to his mother but he is no longer living at home. how can I change support so that the money goes directly to him so that he can pay his expenses |
| Question: Does divorce harm children in a lot more ways that the parents realize? Posted: 07 Oct 2015 05:04 PM PDT |
| Question: Im thinking about charging to sit at my wedding? Posted: 07 Oct 2015 04:40 PM PDT A small charge, only like $20 a person and $15 a kid for the buffet |
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| Question: My wife is driving me crazy! Starting to resent her..please help? Posted: 07 Oct 2015 03:28 PM PDT I love my wife to death but lately she has been driving me crazy. She complains when I work late. I own a car restoration shop and we are behind on getting the cars out so I've been putting extra hours in. Well, I've been trying to. My wife constantly calls me asking "when are you gonna come home!" Or threatens me with "if you come home late I'm not making dinner" she's in med school and needs me to be at home so that I can help her study. By helping her study I mean she just wants me to be in the room with her. She says knowing that I'm right by helps her concentrate.. She's also been demanding sex every single day. Even when I'm tired from a long days work and I just want to relax, she will have a fit if I don't give it to her. People have asked me "how is that a problem?" Well it's a problem when I'm seriously tired and I just want to have a full day of rest! She calls me during work about 10x/day. Sometimes just to hear my voice. Yeah sounds sweet but not when I'm having to constantly take a phone break at work! I've lashed out at her and told her she's selfish and shouldn't constantly depend on me for everything. We end up in a big argument every time and sometimes she gets so angry she hits me. I haven't hit her back of course but god do I want to. She's driving me insane and I'm starting to feel resentment towards her. Then she makes me feel bad by crying and tells me she's just so stressed with med school and needs my support. What do I do? I love her dearly.. |
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| Question: One foreign pregnant woman is kicked out by her husband.? Posted: 07 Oct 2015 02:51 PM PDT Now she stay with me temporarily. These are all with proven evidence. 1.he took her check money lying it would be used for rental deposit. But he insisted she should stay with his parents which she really really hate living with. 2.he warned...he and his american family will take all right of her baby and unborn one if she doesn't live with them. 3.she has money for several month motel. But her husband warned social service will take her kids from her if she doesn't have stable house.. She can pay deposit for rental..it is her husband who is afraid of leaving his mom. 4.he rejects kids' dual nationality leaving racial slur or diacrimination based on race and nationality. 5.she is forces to follow their religion. |
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| Question: Why do husband get mad when I question him about where a outs ? Posted: 07 Oct 2015 12:57 PM PDT |
| Question: I want to runaway from my family is this normal or selfish? Posted: 07 Oct 2015 12:21 PM PDT I feel like running away from my kids and husband I have no existence outside of my home n kids not one friend no family no nothing I do nothing but care for 7 people I am exhausted alone and I feel soo much guilt for feeling this way I'm with my kids everyday all day husbands gone all week is this normal to feel this way is it selfish ? |
| Question: Why can't I just be ok with this?!? Posted: 07 Oct 2015 12:07 PM PDT I lived in NJ as a child & was bullied & abused very very badly. When my family moved 16 hours away, I thought I'd never have to come back to NJ. 2 years ago, my husband got a job in NJ & decided to take it. We bought a house & moved here. Being here has been so hard for me. I have been unable to find "full time" work & due to where we are located there are NO resources to meet new people. My husband & I are both working 2 jobs (mine are part time) just to get by. Since he works so much, often times I'm alone in the house. I feel VERY isolated & alone. I cry on a daily basis & I miss my family terribly. I'm reminded of my past abuse constantly being here. I've tried to discuss this with my husband & he can't understand why it's so hard for me to call this "home" Every month almost, I "escape" I'll take a weekend in PA or I'll go out to Vegas or home to my family its this constant need to escape. Because we are struggling financially, taking "once a month mini vacations" is really putting a strain on our relationship. He becomes angry due to the cost but I do it because I NEED something to look forward to. I need to escape!! Please help Any suggestions would be great |
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| Question: It's become an unhealthy obsession? Posted: 07 Oct 2015 10:06 AM PDT My husband & I are struggling financially after I lost my job. I sit for hours & hours at a time applying for jobs. When I'm at my part time job & there is down time, all I do Is apply for jobs! It's gotten to the point I can't focus on my part time job because im so concerned about finding full time work. It's literally ALL I do! My husband is concerned & said its not healthy for me to be strictly focused on finding a job. It's become an "obsession" it's kinda scary. I'm not sure if this is normal It's effecting my relationship with my husband Any advice?? |
| Posted: 07 Oct 2015 09:52 AM PDT NO he does NOT ALWAYS SLEEP WITH HIS WIFE. The wife may not want to have sex anymore. She may be too old. Too tired. Have lost interest. Be too busy. A million reasons. This leaves an in for the mistress. She does take care of his sexual needs. His WIFE oftentimes DOES NOT. So not all cheaters are alike! |
| Question: How to talk to my husband? Posted: 07 Oct 2015 08:12 AM PDT 2 years ago, my husband & I relocated from Birmingham AL to NJ for his job. The cost of living here is VERY high & my husband has had to take on a 2nd job just to keep our house. I've struggled with finding full time work. I now work for a department store part time. Most days are spent alone in my house with the dogs. I have no family in the area aside from my husband, as far as meeting folks is concerned we live in an area that doesn't offer a lot for 20's & 30's. We also have no children at the moment. I try really hard to like NJ & look at it as home but I'm so depressed. I'm very homesick & I miss my family. When I try to discuss with my husband relocating back to Birmingham, he refuses telling me he's happy with his jobs & is content. We are SCARPING by. If we had children, we wouldn't be able to afford it. Any advice at all? My sister is telling me to Lea e my husband as he seems unconcerned with my well being. Help! Any advice?? |
| Question: I'm so discouraged in my marriage any advice? Posted: 07 Oct 2015 07:40 AM PDT My husband & I have been married 10 years. 2 years ago we relocated from Birmingham AL to NJ for my husbands new job. The cost of living here is crazy! We own a home & have had to rent out a bedroom as well as my husband is now working 2 jobs just so we can afford our 3 bedroom home. I've been unable to find full time work & I'm now working part time at a department store. Most days are spent alone with the dogs in the house. I've tried to network but where we are located most "meetup" events etc are 1-2 hours drive. I have no family here aside from my husband. To make matters worse for 8 years we've been trying to conceive with 5 miscarriages & no luck. In being told to consider adoption as I'm now 36 years old. I'm trying so very hard to "like" NJ & call it "home" but I get so homesick I feel this urge to run away. Im trying but with no family, hardly seeing my husband & being alone it's getting to me. Also, as I age with no children I find myself more & more depressed. Any advice? My husband refuses to move back to Alabama or look for a better paying job. He said he loves the company and is finally happy & asks why I can't accept that & that it's not about how much money you make. But, it is if we can hardly pay our bills!!! HELP?!! Any advice??? |
| Posted: 07 Oct 2015 06:54 AM PDT My wife and I are tied at the hip. We sleep in the same bed, we wake up together, we drive to work together, we work at the same place, we drive home together, we eat together, we parent our kids together, we do our chores together, we do our hobbies together, and we sleep (in the bed) together (no sex). That entire routine I just belched out is a daily thing and never changes. It's predictable, it's certain, and it has NO room for variance. It seems like it would be peaceful and cozy, but it isn't; it's boring, limits growth, and this is NOTHING like I imagined it to be working the same hours together... So, everyone says that I can't change my wife (which is true). She is who she is. And who that is (today anyways) is a woman who rapidly thinks "What if", makes decisions based on these scenarios, and cannot be a team player because we don't agree on what is "reality" since her "reality" is based on assumptions conjured up in her mind that she's INCAPABLE of scrutinizing (and if you criticize her thinking it's World War 3). So I was thinking about forcing her to do things without me. Shake up the routine. I already wake up alone. Now I am thinking of driving alone, letting her parent the kids without me, doing my hobbies alone, and doing more chores alone. I was also thinking about transitioning from a "follower" role to a "leader" role (whether she likes it or not) since I'm not making decisions emotionally. But is all this a bad idea on my part? Should I rock the boat? |
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| Question: How can I convince him to get rid of this dog? Posted: 07 Oct 2015 06:26 AM PDT This dog just does not like me. He loves my husband and my kids love him but I can't handle having him. I already have 1 son who tries my patience every now and then and I have an infant and I'm the one left alone with them all while my husband works. This dog constantly likes the bark at nothing and I tell him to stop and he challenges me and ends up biting me and wakes up the kids. This dog has drawn blood from me several times. I try to tell my husband this so many times that I want him out and he says we can get him training but then he tries to train the dog himself but ends up spoiling him every now and then not even listening to me. We cant even afford obedience training. Earlier I was letting him out and when I put him down he lunged and growled at me and I ended up reacting and kicked him. Then my husband got mad at me for it. I dodnt even do anything! I was just an instant reaction. I dont evwn know what to do anymore. He started saying he'll find a place for him but I know he doesnt mean it. He's not even trying to get rid of him. I dont even know what to do anymore. It hets to the point where I think about leaving him but in reality I don't want to. I know I'll be miserable without him. |
| Posted: 07 Oct 2015 06:20 AM PDT I believe gender roles are biological. I love how protective my husband is of my heart and my well being. He loves how I take care of him. What is wrong with this? We have a great family and no adverse outcomes? |
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| Question: What's the difference between love marriage or arrange marriage? Posted: 07 Oct 2015 05:46 AM PDT |
| Posted: 07 Oct 2015 04:39 AM PDT With different people but still stay inlove |
| Question: DH doesn't understand how important my family is to me? Help? Posted: 07 Oct 2015 04:08 AM PDT I don't have anyone to talk to about this where I'm at. My DH is wonderful, attentive, affectionate, loving, good provider, etc.. I moved halfway across the country to be with him. I've done my best to a devoted wife and get along with his family because I know family is important. I understand that living so far from my own family it cost money to travel. But my Dh will not travel with me to visit my family even when we have the money. I've only gone back 3 times in years and he only went once at marriage and didn't even get to know my family. He tells me that he doesn't feel the need to get to know them because of the distance. I've talked with him about how it was important to me for him to accompany me to a family event like a sibling wedding and all I got was a barrage of excuses then an outright no..I'm trying my hardest to let it go but I'm hurt and resentful because what's important to me should be important to him right? Is this something that would cause a divorce? Like I said we get along great but this is a serious part of my life and I chose him over my family now I feel like I realize how important my family is also..so confused! |
| Posted: 07 Oct 2015 03:40 AM PDT Almost every decision my wife makes without me is an emotional one. If she doesn't dominate everyone to be productive against their will then there's a lot of jumping to conclusions... So, I've been the IDIOT giving in to this chaos for the 14 years we've been together, but clearly this isn't working. I'm ready to try something new, but what? Is my role to take charge and not let her emotional reasoning be the basis of our life? Or am I to remove myself from the situation as much as possible and let her be emotionally chaotic towards the kids since "women raise kids, not men"? I'm just trying to figure out what to do, she refuses to discuss it with me as it goes in one ear and out the other... Her emotions are based on her BROKEN beliefs, and she knows they are broken because a therapist told her she had broken beliefs (which made her quit therapy and choose to never go again - she refuses to accept her faults and flaws). So if her beliefs are broken, and we both know that, does she deserve to be head of the household? There's no way to be a team with her since it is her way or the highway, she NEEDS to be the law and order to feel happy with herself, so talking to her and helping her see the consequences of her actions I'd a waste of time. Either I force her into submission or I am forced into submission, that's how this works because she REFUSES to compromise since compromising could lead to imperfect resolutions(since she believes her way is the right way) Any ideas? |
| Question: Is it better for the Wife to make the living for the house hold or the man? Posted: 07 Oct 2015 03:07 AM PDT I made the money but I sure wished it was the other way around and was able to run around with a pocket full of money I did not have to work for.....I wonder before long I wouldn't be rolling in out of the house so fat I can't walk. |
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| Question: Marrying a musical theater major when I am going to be a psychologist? Can it work? Posted: 07 Oct 2015 01:50 AM PDT In the midst of his crazy audition and rehearsal and performance schedules, and possible tours, and life being crazy as it without being in musical theater, could we have a successful marriage and have kids and all if I am working such a 9-5 job and him a constantly changing on? |
| Question: Do you check call logs of your spouse? Posted: 07 Oct 2015 01:11 AM PDT |
| Posted: 07 Oct 2015 01:02 AM PDT Okay, so does my husband think I am stupid? Because honestly if he's thinking of my son's girlfriend in a sexual manner I will not be happy. He will stare into her eyes for over two minutes straight. The poor girl eventually looks away, red in the face!!!! Furthermore, I have noticed that oftentimes he compliments her to the degree that it's become a flirt, not a friendly gesture. Does he really think I am going to sit and watch him flirt with her because he is bored? He gets enough intimate time with me so I don't know what his issues. Also this girl is sensitive, has her own father issues which she always mentions, so I have discerned that she enjoys my hubby flirting with her which makes me even more angry. Surely this is not all in my head? The way those two look at each other is quite possibly worrying. He also bought her a bag from Germany, me makeup and my son a soccer ball. She bought him an expensive shirt for his birthday. He always says she is the best cook, she is the most clever, beautiful, etc. in front of me!!! I think this is beyond crazy.......... Any advice? |
| Question: Should I meet my ex-wife in Colombia for her vacation? Posted: 07 Oct 2015 12:52 AM PDT Moving to Colombia to learn Spanish and work online for 1 year. Been divorced for two years. We re on good terms, but I m still bitter about things. She s been using the divorce settlement money I had to give her to be unemployed and travel! She s very beautiful, we re very comfortable with each other, and it s a guarantee for some romance. I could be missing out on new opportunities for a couple of weeks, and it will feel weird... Like wtf am I doing? We got divorced for a reason. I don t think there would be drama, but it s like taking a step back in life for 2 weeks. Colombia is supposed to be a way of moving on. We both agree that we will never get back together. I think secretly she wants to though. What would you do? |
| Question: Is it possible for marriage to give you the same, if not more freedom than a single life? Posted: 07 Oct 2015 12:36 AM PDT People always tell me that you can't "do anything" once you're married, and that marriage is really expensive. I personally think this is a very pessimistic, limited view of marriage. They never really give reasons why, but they say all freedom is taken away. I'll admit; I'm 19, single, and not considering marriage for a while. I want to be married one day, but I want to fully become my own person first. I probably just don't understand because I'm not married. However, I currently live a very simple life, and I plan on living a minimalistic lifestyle in the future, including my married life. I want to travel, to live adventurously. But many people think this just simply isn't possible unless you're single. My thinking is, if I'm already able to live my life the way I want to while I'm single, if I meet someone with the same goals, what's so expensive about marriage that we couldn't? If we had a very simple life and were frugal, I think with two incomes as opposed to one, it could almost help us achieve our goals faster. Personally, I think it's all about priorities. I'm not a person that cares about material things. Hence why I'm so willing to live with next to nothing so I can travel, live debt-free, etc. But, I'm ignorant and young. I don't know the added expense of marriage. Can someone enlighten me? Is marriage expensive and completely restricting or is it really just about keeping priorities? I would want both of us to work if possible (extra income) and have no children. |
| Question: What's the best kind of marriage? Posted: 07 Oct 2015 12:16 AM PDT |
| Question: So i am like a cindarella in reverse? Posted: 06 Oct 2015 11:51 PM PDT I was married to a rich guy (with prenupt agrnt), getting my way towards establishing my career but i relied a lot on him during the marriage and now, i work several low-paid jobs, have low credit score to get a house. where to live after the divorce? |
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| Question: I found this in my husband's cell phone. Should I be worried? Posted: 06 Oct 2015 11:11 PM PDT I saw that in one of the social media, he's in a group with bunch of friends and they exchange porno pictures and videos. My husband never posted anything in this group, just casual talking with his friends. But one of the guy in the group keeps sending nude pictures and like porno videos. Also I noticed that on my husband's Instagram, there is a search history related to a porn star and porn profiles. I really don't know how to react. Is this normal? or should I be worried? Should I confront him? Pls help. Thank you. |
| Question: Can anyone give me a real and valid reason to get married? Posted: 06 Oct 2015 11:10 PM PDT Like, all it is is getting a piece of paper that says "you belong to this person, and they belong to you". I'm seriously wondering why people do it. And please don't reply with, "it's showing the world and your significant other that you love them and are showing true commitment" blah blah blah, I know all that stuff, I've heard it before. I've always wanted to be married, but lately I've been wondering what the point is, there are SOO many couples who are essentially married in every way, except they don't have a marriage certificate |
| Question: Child Molestation Case?(a lawyers input would be appreciated)? Posted: 06 Oct 2015 10:02 PM PDT I am 20 years old. I Slept with a married man last year. He told his wife and daughter that we were together but they both begged him to work it out and we pretended to end things. Then he left her in March to be with me. And she flipped out, naturally of course. And his daughter flipped out. His daughter and him had a tight bond. Well we eventually broke up and I moved down to Arizona in April for a couple months because of family dynamics. We still talked behind her back. And when she found out in May she texted me and told me to stay away from her husband or I am going to be in a rude awakening. The next day I got a phone call from the Sheriff dept. In WA. He asked me if I sexually assaulted his daughter, informed that his wife and daughter went to the police with a complaint on child molest against me. Saying I touched her inappropriately on three different occasions. I told him I had slept with her husband and she was upset I'm still with him he said it was the daughter also making the claims and I just said she wants her father to stay with her mother. well I'm going back up to Washington at the end of the month, and he moved out and filed for a divorce today and she went crazy and said I'll rot in jail. Said their daughter is going to take me to court and testify on stand that I moltested her. am I really going to be arrested once I get home for an accusation? She was molested as a child and she knows it's the one way to keep her husband. What is going to happen? |
| Question: Newly married...should I consider divorce? Posted: 06 Oct 2015 09:51 PM PDT Married for 4 months. We are in our early 50s. Husband has sole custody of 13 year old son. His son has no friends, is demanding, spoiled and needy. Always has to be touching, caressing and cuddling husband. Husband is his best friend so his son doesn't want him alone with me for too long. His son is disrespectful to me and when we are all together, I am treated like an outsider. Husband and I can't spend the night together on a weekend without his son texting him to get up (over and over), beginning at 6:00am and coming into the bedroom, even diving into the bed if I get up to use the restroom. We live in separate homes due to leases that end soon. I work full time, husband works sporadically and hangs out with his son eating, napping and binge watching TV most days. I work 50 hour weeks and make a lot more money than husband. I believe in saving and budgeting, husband spends on trips and fun for him and his kids. I have a son, Junior in high school. He is with me every other week. He works part time, is involved in sports and was inducted into the National Honors Society for academics and leadership. Husband and I have not had sex since we got married! Now, due to medication for high blood pressure and diabetes he says he can NEVER have sex. I don't see us living together, I can't stomach being around husband and his son (and their physical "cuddling and caressing" like lovers), Husband was VERY different before marriage. Can this marriage possibly work? |
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