I'm a 17 year old girl and I don't like babies? They're loud, messy, dumb, and they scare me because you could just shake it and it would die. My mom thinks I'm a freak because I don't think they're cute, I also told her I never want kids. She's all, "SOMEDAY YOU WILL BE MARRIED AND YOU WILL GET PREGNANT, YOU'LL WANT BABIES, I NEED GRANDKIDS, YOU'LL REGRET NOT HAVING KIDS." This pisses me off a lot because my sister is mentally ill, and my mom worries to death about her getting pregnant, because she knows it would be bad. Having a baby absolutely terrifies me, my worst fear is becoming pregnant and being forced to have a baby and take care of it. Then it will grow up and I'll still need to be a mom. I'd rather adopt like a 10 year old or something, or a bunch of puppies. I'm a very academic person, I want to study and become a scientist. I want a fulfilling career not a family? I don't know if this has anything to do with me being the youngest, and never dealing with babies, or what. Also the process of being pregnant scares me.

I'm doing a thing at a school paper where i get to interview people in the LGBT-A community and being part of the L community, I can't answer these. I guess you can probably do it where you might pretend someone is interviewing you, asking you questions about that. Maybe something like, "why do you support gays?" or something

I live in basically in the middle of Michigan. Any suggestions would be awesome! Thanks!

So I'm a freshman in high school..I've always .been a bigger guy not over weight,but more heavily muscled. And so many guys that don't know me talk so much **** behind my back...like Oh he's a p**** or he's a little bit*** and I don't understand.. I make friends easily, I'm not cocky, I'm not over confident,and don't talk **** about other people. But I go by if you start crap with me I'm damn well gonna end it IF necessary..so me being a bigger guy could that be part of the reason why they talk about me? Are they jealous or something? I just don't get it and it's really stressful and irratiting. What do you guys think?

so I know that a purity ring is normally associated with religion and staying a virgin until marriage and a promise ring is like a pre-engagement ring but I've heard of one kinda like these that dads normally give to their daughters as a promise to stay stay a virgin like when the girl gets a boyfriend and I always though they were called either promise or purity rings but apparently not and I'm wondering what they're called. If you have any ideas then please contribute :) thanks!

I work in an office, and constantly have to hear my male coworker, we'll call Jim, talk about his nagging, obese fiancé. She's 5'1 and weighs 220lbs. I usually don't pry, but the way she treats him his downright cruel. And I think it stems from the fact that she's an insecure, disgusting pig. 1. They both work but she doesn't pay the rent. He claims she "has other expenses". Like what exactly? She doesn't have loans, and she actually drives on her own car. She has three jobs! He's so broke he can't afford his own health insurance, but he allows her to have three jobs and not pay any expenses?? 2. She constantly embarrasses him in public, according to him. She makes sarcastic comments and is clingy. When she finally made a visit to the office, I told her right to her face that I thought she was a horrible human being. That she had no right to make her own fiancé not have health insurance and pay her bills while she got to hoard her own income. She turned red in the face, yelled at me to mind my own business and then Jim told me to knock it off. Why are fat girls like this? I'm not talking skinny girls who have identity issues. I'm talking majorly obese and plump women who seem to have this need to be the worst possible anchor to their man. They always say skinny girls are stuck up. I beg to differ. Fat women have a lot of explaining to do.

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So my boyfriend and I have been together 6 year we have a three year old and I'm 6 moths pregnate with our second child. So I looked on the Google history and found he was watching things on YouTube about hookers, prostutes and then to make it worse he yelped a local strip club in aneiheim and before that he yelped best prostutes in aneiheim. He's been staying in aneiheim working will I stay in hemet at his moms with the kids. I asked him about the situation he said he was looking up the stuff on YouTube because he didn't want porn to show up on his sis history. As far as looking up about prostutes in aneiheim he said his boss and him went to home depo and well they were there they saw a bunch of prostutes at the hotel nearby and his boss told him how there always getting busted. I then asked so we're trying to get a prostutes or thinking about it he told me no he was just curious same with the strip club. I short of believe him but don't know if I'm being stupid and blind because I love him. Any advice what do u guys think his intention was honestly. I feel resentful towards him and don't want to be loyal to him now. Will these feelings of resentment pass?

I have 2 questions with this : 1. because im uncircumsised i have been moving along with the foreskin covering the head glans untill my 15th year, where i could retract the skin. I can retract it a bit easier now, but the problem is that i have a very sensitive head. Would it be smart to put on the condom before sex WITHOUT retracting the foreskin? I don't want to feel it burn 2. If you put on a condom without retracting (the foreskin still over the glans) will the condom break more easily?

I mute my phone in the evening and sometimes forget to unmute it in the morning. If it happens that my girlfriend texts me and i don't hear it, she would then call many times and complain how i forgot to unmute my phone again. If i tell her that i don't think of it and therefore forgot it, then she starts freaking out asking me how comes i don't forget to turn on my pc and check things on it and complains how the reason i forget to unmute my phone is because she is not one of my priorities and either way people i talk to i have them on my pc. Is it a big dea if i forget to unmute my phone? I mean i would reply to her eventually when i look at my phone, or do i have to reply within minutes?

-Léanlo todo por favor de antemano gracias por la atención y ayuda- Creo que me gusta por que pienso demasiado en ella hoy soñé que me le declaraba y le robaba un beso después desperté. Le tengo mucha confianza ella ya sabe que me gusta las chicas y me sigue tratando igual solo que a veces me agarra de la mano o me abraza y pues me alegra pero no se si le guste aun que no lo creo mucho por que tiene novio y también se abrazan pero no solo a el, es muy cariñosa con sus amigos osea los abraza y eso, pero su novio la abraza a ella o le agarra la mano a ella, no ella a el pero puede que solo sea tímida con el, eh pensado en decirle que me gusta aunque me diga que no pero su novio es mi amigo y no creo que este bien pero es la primera vez que me siento así, si esta muy cerca o me abraza o algo me da un no se que XD pero incluso empece a hacer ejercicio ya que estoy u poco pasada del peso pero después pienso que ella quiere a alguien mas y no lo hago pero sigo por que me quiero ver mejor. Honestamente no se que debería hacer por que no se si me gusta en realidad o solo es pasajero por que antes me gustaba ella pero me dejo de gustar por un tiempo pero ahora me volvió a gustar pero mas. Honestamente no se que me pasa o que debería de hacer si decirle que me gusta, me quiero declarar pero no quiero que le diga a su novio o algo ya que es mi amigo y se moleste o ella se incomode cuando este conmigo. Se que es algo largo pero si lo leyeron todo gracias y quisiera que me ayudaran. PD: soy mujer Pd 2: También me abraza o agarra de la mano a veces mucho, también me ah pedido salir las dos solas pero a veces me pongo nerviosa al estar con ella sola y le digo que no puedo aunque quiera T-T ,y a veces me confunde por que me trata como a su novio pero quizás lo pienso demasiado y solo me ve como una amiga.

I DESPERATELY need to get in contact with someone and I only know their first and last name. I'm not actually sure what state they're even in, at the moment. How the hell can I get in contact with this person? Please! I desperately need help :( Best answer will get a lot of stars thank you so much.

My birthday is tomorrow and i'm kind of sad because most people that i grow up with have they're kids already..i'm inlove and want that too..even thou i have no job or anything right now but am in school for 1 more year..Is this bad that i don't have kids? should rush and get knocked up now? help?

My company branch recently absorbed another branch, and we had roughly 20 new people join our office. Because of the people, some of us are now forced to share a desk. I am sharing a desk with a rather large man (not necessarily fat, just a large build), and he seems to be taking over my work space. He brings more and more things from home, spreads all his work stuff out, and I'm now relegated to a small corner. I've complained to my manager, but he says I have to learn to be accommodating and put the company first. Needless to say, he got angry that I had the nerve to question his work-space decisions. My desk-mate does more than just taking over my spot. He makes me get him coffee and fetch his lunch from the break room. If I don't, he says he's gonna tell our manager that I complain about sharing a desk. He knows I'm already on thin ice with my manager. What can I do in this situation? I can't quit my job, because I make pretty good money and likely won't find anything close. I have virtually no room to work, and am whipping-boy for this new employee, with no support from management. I'm really hoping for some help!

Couple months ago me and my boyfriend at the time wanted to fool around. But the only thing that happened was we sat in the tub together, naked, and I gave him a hand job. That was all that happened. First I didn't think anything of it, because of the nature we did it. But now I've missed my period for two months. I'm exhausted all the time, I feel sick, though haven't thrown up yet. I cramp as though I am having my period but I am not. Could I possibly be pregnant?

For example, there's a guy at my college who, since the first time we walked by each other, he stared at me, locked eyes. Then for the next few times it happened again and again. Then he started to nod at me when we passed each other, then the next time he smiled at me. We've never spoken and I can tell he is the quiet type. What do you guys think?

tbh I kinda like him touching and sucking my breasts omg WTF DO I DO??

I have a friend who put her kids father on child support, she hasn't heard from in months. Do you think he stopped caring about the kids? Or he's upset about the child support and is avoiding the mother?

Ok, so my old coworker who is 34 and married and I, a 22 year old single woman, have been chit chatting the last few days. Nothing serious, just mainly talk on the phone for a few minutes out of the day. Saturday, we went out to eat. It was suppose to be as friends. But we talked for an hour before we ever ordered and then we ate off each others plate and he paid for my dinner. After I asked him not to. We never ran out of things to talk about and the only reason we left each other was because his wife called. So, here's the deal with his wife, she was 6 months pregnant when they got married..so I wonder if he married her, only because she got pregnant. But since Saturday, we've talked on the phone ever other day, if not every day, only if for a few minutes. I just needed a friend, as I lost my job Friday. And he was one of the only ones who knew. But I am starting to really like him, and I feel so guilty, because he's married. Why does a 34 year old man want to talk to me?!

Daddy comes home and stretches with me on his world class stretching program, then he proceeds to perform insertion...how can I avoid this?

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ok last night my boyfriend claimed that some fake profile on Facebook found his Skype information and started calling him non stop and begging him to show her his d!ck 30 times and he didnt know how to block the b!sh so he played with his d!ck on camera for her for 30 seconds to shut her up then she started threatening to hack his bank account and send his recorded video to all his family members on Facebook then he deleted his Facebook and he claims he felt really bad so thats why he told me he said I'm his first love and that he's only in love with me and he's sorry he'll never show his d!ck to another girl I'm trying to forget about it but i find it so stupid and disgusting he basically virtually cheated on me and we've been dating for almost a year WTF SHOULD I DO? HE CLAIMS HE WANTS TO MARRY ME BE WITH ME FOREVER AND WANTS TO HAVE HIS KIDS SHOULD I JUST FORGET ABOUT THIS OR NAH???

Okay. So my birthday is coming up soon. I need help with birthday party ideas, but there is one problem. I only want my boyfriend there. All my friends pretty much turned on me. I really don't trust them no more and don't really talk to them. Me and my boyfriend have been dating 2 years and he's been with me more then any of my "friends." My mother said that it was fine, but was wondering what I wanted to do. I really don't know because I want to have fun, but also want him to have fun as well. So any ideas of what we could do? Sorry if I am asking to much.

My cousin and I both go to the same high school. She lives right across the street from me and she has a nice car, a 2015 Jeep Grand Cherokee. Her car is so comfy! But what I don't get is why she gives me rides. She is 16 and I am 14. She is such a sweet girl! We do our homework together, if I don't understand a problem, she will explain it to me! that's how sweet she is! What I don't get is why does she give me rides to school?

I'm 14 and so is this girl and homecoming is in about 12 days and I need someone to go with. There's this girl that I sit next to in one class and I really never suspected that she liked me mostly because I was never really interested. Until yesterday I was just sitting there and her best friend just says " (Her Name) likes (My Name)" and then she starts like reaching across the desks like trying to stop her friend and says that she doesn't "know who (my name) is" which doesn't really make sense considering she knew damn well who I was. So then started to pay better attention today and I noticed she's like one of those really social and bubbly people when she's around everyone else. But, then when she's around me she doesn't really say much she just sits there and pretends like she's doing something. And then on occasion I can look out the corner of my eye and see her low key staring at me but I can literally only see for a second before she looks away. And then on top of that she always goes out of her way to get up and adjust her pants when she's sure I'm looking and she always gets in like a awkward position to get stuff out of her book bag to make sure I can see her ***. I'm not 100 percent sure if she likes me because like half of the signals point towards her liking me and the other half are just signs she's pissed at me for some reason even though I've really never done or said much to her.

I am 39 years of age, with a BA and Masters in Business an only can make ends meat. I teach part time and in loads of student debt that I am behind many months. Cannot afford anything, always broke, asking family for some "loose" change just to eat or pay a bill. I work in San Diego but even live in Tijuana, Mexico because of cheaper rent. I feel like a failure. I have a great girlfriend who is understanding but eventually feel that all women will want a man who can "provide" and pay the bills without living pay check to pay check. I know I sound like a whiner, I guess I just need the suggestions of others. Thank you My friends

I'd be leaving myself with money to live on for my husband and I but I'd just never be able to have nice shampoo etc!! His budget pays the bills and holidays... I buy the food Instead of getting finest, the best, special selection, waitrose ethical shops, I've started going to Aldi and lidl and wilkinson and pound shops I figure I was trying to be a princess all the time all bling Now I'm not

Is this more likely a poor reflection on: (A) the daughter-in-law -OR- (B) the daughter-in-law's sister

I known this girl I like for year now about 6 months in of us talking I ask her do she want to be more than friends she said no I m not ready to be in a relationship I said ok and never I ask her again or brought anything up about it until now everything was fine about 2 weeks I help her get her drive license so she can get a car because I ve been helping her get around when she needed so when I brought her home after she got it we said good bye like any other time i call her a week later because we haven t talk sense then but she did answer the phone and she said she was in the shower so I was like oh if you was in the shower i could have wait and you just call me back when you had the time and she said I know but I been kinda distance to everyone so had to answer so I sad you ok we can talker later but we never did so I went to see her at her church the fallowing Sunday I didn t see her so sat next to her mom after it was over she start talking to her mom about something and I she was up set because she walk right out of church not speaking to me I couldn t fine her so I text her is she mad at me she never respond after that I call couple times and left a voicemail to see is everything s ok butt still noinght so is this my fault or she really need some space

Hi, I'm Zino. I'm thirteen. My English teacher stares at me in class and calls my writing beautiful and perfect. It's only the beginning of the school year and I haven't written anything for him yet. This is my first year at this school as well. He's in his 40's, he's married, and he also has these tiny glasses that squeeze his face. He glares at me and does this disgusting smirk and he's usually on my mind the entire day. I'm simply the teachers pet but in a strange way. I have him for 4 classes, so there's no way to get him the hell away from me! How do I deal with this him or make this menace leave me alone?

I am in an on and off relationship with a girl I truly love. That is one thing I am sure of. The one thing that have ruined us is how abusive I have got lately. Physically. Mentally and Verbally. I hit her. Every day. Drag her. Push her. Throw her. Strangle her. Tell her that I dont care if she dies right here. I have some serious temper issues. But she stays quiet. Listens. Hugs me. Still meets me. Care about me. While all I give her is pain. Sheer pain. And all I am left is with this unimaginable amount of guilt. I cant let her go. Cant leave her. She wants to stay too but not with this version of me. She wants to spend her whole life with me. The thing is I have real temper issues lately and that is because of how messed up I am because of the never ending problems in our relationship. There is no trust left. Hell lot of insecurities. She doesnt want to meet me or spend time with me in person. Not after this abusive thinng but from the start. She can't just tell her friends that she has to go see me. She cant sneak out from them. And that has been the problem from the very first day. How she has prioritized things so wrongly. And I know nothing she does justifies me even abusing her verbally, let alone physically. Today I kinda broke her phone. Its so messed up. Please respond with realistic advises. Leaving her isnt an option. Not for her too i guess. We have tried to end it for like more than 5 months but failed miserably and want to make this workout. Thank you.

llevo casi 3 años con mi novio y se un poco de la tecnologia y por medio de una programa tuve acceso a su computadora y su celular y se que se ha acostado con mas de 5 mujeres en todo este tiempo que llevamos juntos yo nunca le he sido infiel pero me pregunto debe serlo tambien contestenme por favor !!

What kind of 35 year old man abandons his wife and son, for a ratchet ghetto hoe with six children with six different baby dads. He lives with this lady and helps raise her kids. But abandon me and his son, he doesnt even call no nothing to see how his son is.