My sister started middle school last year; a boy Alex started to tell others she stares at him. She does stare. He may have told some, "so she must like me" but it's false. A nosy girl told her she thinks she stares at him too & then talked to her about it. A group of girls walked up to her to ask her why. Altho she tried to keep her eyes off him, he still told others. His bff Jeff asked her why she looks at him. Alex yelled at her not to look at him even when she had her back to him. When she & another kid inadvertently caught each others eyes once, he scowled & growled "Don't look at me!" A girl she was friendly w/ said, "Mary, Alex doesn't like you 'cuz you stare at him!" Alex laughed at her mishaps. Once when Jeff & a girl Abby were sitting near her, Abby leaned towards him & said quietly, "Alex wants Mary to stop staring at him" & then Abby giggled; after that, Jeff said Ew! to Mary. Mary saw Alex say something to a boy while looking at her from far away. Another boy said once "Don't look at me" when working in groups. Mom insists it's a disagreement & that there's nothing wrong with Alex telling others she stares at him, told Mary she's bothering Alex, & told Mary to befriend Jeff. Dad thought they're bf/gf. Abby blurted out, "We KNOW you like Alex!" & wouldn't believe Mary otherwise. Mom assured her *He'll stop eventually* but Mary knew that'd never happen. Mary told her counselor about Alex. I saw her cry talking to mom after school once after he yelled at her while another girl she was friendly w/ was standing btw them & having a smug smile. After she answered someone's question, Alex imitated her. Alex & Jeff are in her class AGAIN this year. When Alex & Ron were standing next to each other, he whispered to Ron. Then Ron yelled at her, "Don't look at me!" Then Alex giggled. After Alex whispered to Sean while looking at her, Sean & his bff threw tiny paper balls at her in class; mom suggests it's because Mary was talking to herself. Jeff told Mary once, "Alex told me to tell you…you're ugly." When Alex saw her mishap, he laughed looking at Sean & then Sean started to laugh. When passing each other in the hall once, Alex was like to her, "Freak." When Mary accidentally touched Alex's sleeve once, he complained to Sean; Sean said Ew! After Alex shouted in the hall from far away when kids were near him "Mary! Stop staring at me!" she saw 1 of them laughing. Mom whined to Mary that she should've been friendlier & has said, "The kids are doing you a favor." She doesn't know if she can handle another year with Alex. Would this be bullying or just occasional [unkind] behavior? Or has he just been venting?

I met this amazing woman about a year and a half ago. Her and I are super compatible and Have gotten very close. One problem though, she has a boyfriend. I have respected there relationship while Ive gotten close with her as a friend. Then they broke up. This was my moment so I really tried to show her how much she meant to me. I decided to give her some time though to recover before I went in for steal. But they got back together. I then started the process to get over her and this time I wasnt seeing her as much. Well she stepped back into my life about 4 months ago and weve gotten closer again. This time Im starting to think Im falling in love her because I constantly care for her well being and I cant get her out of my head. But her boyfriend is still around. If she broke up with him once before is it likely she will do it again? Did I miss my chance with this woman when they broke? Is there any way her and I could ever be together?

What is your perspective on a boyfriend in their 30's having frequent comments about other women in general? Examples: -Commenting about hot actresses -Making a noise of appreciation every time they see a photo of a hot girl showing skin -pointing out another woman as "that pretty girl" when they want you to look at her tattoo -Bringing up exes out of context; as in talking about how much you drool right before you fall asleep and the boyfriend says you don't drool as much as his exes did and he always thought the excessive drool was "cute." -Pictures of hot naked women on phone background Basically, what are your expectations with these types of things in your own relationship? For the guys, what is your perspective on men or yourself doing this? NOT looking for advice, just looking for outlook Thanks!

I didn't know his family but he was the only actual relationship I had. After that I drank heavily and had a brief fling with a much older man who ended up assaulted me. I am 24 and am so angry at the world, I feel like caring about others is a weakness. I worry I won't be able to function in a relationship again. Am I broken ?

There was this girl I had a crush on back in high school and I just found her on Facebook and she asked who I was I said I went to school with you. Then I told her my name and then she left me on read what does this mean could she be scared to talk to me or what ?

when I was at the store this guy in the isle next to me kept looking over at me and when I would look back he wouldn't break eye contact at all... so I looked away first and from the corner of my eye I could see him still staring this happened a couple of times and when I moved to a different part of the store he looked around and once he saw me he came to the same part I was in why wouldn't he look away?

I'm 22 and a kissless virgin who has never dated .The fact that I'm a virgin doesn't really bother me but I think I do want to have my first kiss and at least date in my youth. I won't be young forever. I'm a shy person and I don't like to socialize so the way things are going, it doesn't seem like I would be dating any time soon.

We've been "talking" for last 4 months and we've talked every single day. we work together so it's easy to see him daily. We've gone out to eat, watch movies, get coffee (no physical intimacy tho) After 4 months of doing so, I got the courage to let him know how i felt. he said he likes me too but don't know how much and he wants me to give him some time. I asked him if he wanted to go eat and agreed but then he cancelled on me saying work really took a toll out of him. I personally think, if a man really likes a girl he'll go out of his way to spend time or even make time for her. He didn't do that. So I stopped talking to him or atleast I stopped taking the initiative to see him or message him. 3 weeks later, he becomes a bit more initiative saying he wants to go grab coffee or hang out with me but he still hasn't given the day and time. (lil background info: he doesnt have dating experience) i dont know if i should keep waiting and be patient. The more I take a step away from him, more he comes at me but I feel like if I take another step back then I will not be wanting to date him anymore. It's getting tiring. I feel pathetic when I get ready to see him and it doesn't happen nor I stare at the cellphone for his reply which takes 1-2 hr) he has been cancelling our meetups about 3 times and I just got tired of planning (i do the planning btw because he always saying coming up with plans of what to do is very difficult for him and wants me to plan it all) and being cancelled. idk.... im just tired but i can see he's trying but its meeting my very low expectation. that is reason why im here on yahoo answers.

I have just bent over and put my fingers inside and it feels really big? All I can feel is the ring around the entrance and then when I go in it's just like a big open space ... surely that can't be normal 

I'm an 18 year old high school senior guy and I like girls, I've lost my virginity, I'm average looking, a normal person, and I talk to/text a decent amount of girls daily but I've only once really felt like I genuinely liked them and wanted to date then and that was when I was like 13 in middle school. Is it normal to feel like this? None of my friends relate, I can't find anything online, and it just confuses me how people my age can get into relationships so freely

I get tired dragging myself to do everything. I don't enjoy doing anything and my life is so dull. I don't want to be like this.

I would like the perspective of white women about this. Many non-white men consider (either overtly or discreetly) that marrying a white woman is a symbol of status and success. How does this make you feel? Flattered? Objectified? Does it boost your self-esteem?

Any help is appreciated I got into a relationship around 4-5 months ago, and my mother has started behaving odd with me. She gets furious whenever I spend too much time with my boyfriend. I thought it was maybe because she felt lonely, but doesn't complain when I am out of the house with other friends. I work out a system where I have scheduled days with my boyfriend twice a week, and every now and then he gets a third day. My mother has said that if he gets a third day, that he then owes her a day, or if he comes to see me for an hour, that he then owes her an hour. When I told my mother my boyfriend wanted to go to church with me, she got very upset and said I better not dare go with him instead of her, or that she'll kick me out. I don't know what the heck to do and try to survive this until I move out this summer. Can someone give me any advise? She has gotten so bad with me to the point where I had to get on antidepressants. little note, yes I am over 18, I turn 20 in a couple months. she is the only family I have in the states, and I don't know if maybe that is why she acts the way she does

We stopped at a gas station and she said see that guy. IHeartRadio was a short black guy maybe 5'6. I said yes and she said he has the biggest cock. Why would she say that? She hooked up with him a few times several years before we met. But since then I get really turned on thinking about it and want to ask for details

Woman do you have a hard time showing off your sexiest body parts to your guy? I want to learn how to hold my phone but I can't really show off my *** and its so hard to hold it right, I have dropped it several times, should i just give up showing my *** to my crush?

I found this girl I used to have a crush on back in high school on facebook she said I don't remember who you are what's your name and then I told her my name and then she left me on read what does this mean

My boyfriend is 19 years old, 5'8 and his weight is 137 lbs while I'm 20, 5'7 and weigh 143. No girlfriend wants to weigh more than her boyfriend which making me insecure but my boyfriend said he didn't love me for my looks and would even still love me if I was in a wheelchair and told me to eat cause he doesn't mind extra meat on me at all and she will love me no matter what Should I be worried? Should I weigh less for a girl?

I had a crush on one of my friends (for context we're both girls) and we became really close, my friends said it was that cliche where everyone except the two people know they're head over heels, but she's a year younger than me so we were separated for a year because I went to freshman year of high school while she was in 8th grade and she just started ignoring my texts when I tried to stay in touch and now that we're at the same high school she isn't flat out ignoring me but she isn't acting like we used to be close either... every time I think I'm over her I catch her looking at me like she maybe still wants to be my friend or more and I just can't get over her! (Sorry for the wall of text)

This girl I haven't seen in years suddenly wants to date me be friends with me be there for me wtf is she on something

I'll just try to keep this simple. My boyfriend and I are both 18 (I turn 19 v soon) totally in love with each other.. we've already had so much experiences together and made it through so many problems. I don't feel we will break up anytime soon. I know we are both wanting a future together.. we are wanting to get married, (we already live together) but we want our own place, and have children. But the thing is... my anxiety makes me feel like our future won't happen since we're 18 and those events happen in our 20s I'm just scared and I get worried thinking like what if? How do you think I could resolve this by assuring myself?? And my parents did just divorce recently too they were together 40 years so I feel like their splitting has made me believe in love a lot less because I was like wow my parents stay together and make it work but :/ how should I figure this out? Thanks:)

I met a guy at a school party and we talked for a bit few months ago. Now whenever he sees me at school he always says hi and he tried to talk to me once about school work. He is always well aware if I am around him. He also talked to me last week, and I was surprised that he remembered my name since we last met was few months ago and we only talked for a bit. Yesterday, I was at the library reading and when I looked up I noticed he was looking at me, so he waved and smiled and I waved back. He has not asked me out, is he trying to be nice /friendly?

ok what would u do if u found girl worker on your husbands phone . i deleted it. he complains to me about it. grrr . my husband is 41 girl workr is 24.

I slept with my ex five days ago. I still love him. Our relationship was a mess, he never trusted me and I took an emotional beating because of it. I was always faithful, but we couldn't take the fighting anymore and we ended things. I told him after seeing him last that I needed to draw myself back because if were not together I can't let myself fall back into those feelings again. He said he understood and stopped talking to me..... I ended up sleeping with an old friend yesterday. I did it to get over my ex, it was casual and I thought it would help me move on. My ex knows and he's acting as if I cheated on him. I just want some input here.... do you think it was wrong for me to sleep with someone else?

So I'm in high school, and 2 years ago there was this guy and he was my best friend. I told him everything and so did he, we talked every day like we were just super close we just had this crazy connection that everyone could see. Eventually I realized I had feelings for him but I didn't wanna say anything because it could ruin our friendship and I wasn't sure if he felt the same way. He also seemed to be flirting with my girl best friend so I thought he might like her. But finally I got the nerve to tell him how I felt and not only did he feel the same way but his feelings for me seemed to be a lot stronger than mine. He said he liked me for basically our entire friendship and that he might even be in love with me. I told him I wasn't sure if i felt the same because I didn't know what love feels like and he got so hurt so he went and did stuff with my bff. He didn't have any feelings for her at all and he was just looking for a way to hurt me back. When I found out he panicked and blocked me so we went 2 years without speaking. he didn't really seem to miss me so I assumed that he just didn't care about what happened or about what we lost but recently he reached out and told me that he's sorry and that he still loves me and that he was in a bad place mentally then, but he's spent the past 2 years trying to get better so that he would deserve to have me in his life. I thought I was over him but now ik that I'm not and I might even love him. Should I give him another chance?

I am single and he has shown me that he is interested in me as well. But I've told him that I'm not attracted to younger men, which is true but out of the blue I would really like to see if this would go anywhere. We flirt all the time but I haven't told him I have feelings for him. What should I do?

How was your day today??? just let it all out.... me , well I'm super tired!!! just want to relax ...

So my friend Kelsey, I've known her for almost two years but within the last month or two she has started doing things I have seen her do with her ex girlfriends like playing with my hair or resting her head on my shoulder.We usually hangout together with a few of our friends and she would sit next to any of them but not me and now she sits next to me if the seat is open and will move so she's facing me or our legs touch. She's also somewhat quiet and doesn't really like talking about her feelings (romantic or non-romantic) .

Let me start off with saying I am extremely shy and no good at reading people. There is this guy at work that I have started to like and he's really nice. We haven't really talked much because we work in a factory and the dept we work in is so big they broke it up in to zones. He is the lead of zone 5 and I was the lead of zone 1. Last week I got moved to being the lead of zone 6. He talks to me a little more now that I'm in the zone next to him. The first day I was in that zone he was checking on my 2 to 3 times an hour sometimes going out of his way to do so. Now that I have been in the zone a few days he's kinda slowed down on that some but he still checks on me. Now as far as the talking right now it's been more so about work but some about outside of work. We are both busy so we don't get to talk a lot. The problem is I tried to add him on Facebook and he won't add me. I know that he doesn't hate me or anything. Any ideas on how to find out if he sees me as just a coworker or possibly something more without letting him know I like him

So the other day I was shopping in Walmart. I grabbed the items I needed and headed to the self checkout as I always do. As I finished I walked past this girl sitting on the bench and walked out the door. I didn't think much of the girl at the time. I walked across the Walmart parking lot to the Mc Donalds to get something eat. I was sitting down eating my food. When I saw the girl that was sitting on the bench with a tray of food in hand. She was about to sit at the table right next to me, but I gave her a weird look. The only reason I looked at her that way is because I just saw her and I thought she followed me but I cant confirm that. There were plenty of other tables to sit at. So I don't see why she chose the one right next me. I am wondering if she followed me or this just could be a mere concidence ?

She walked by me and poked my back with a pen. It was not the pointy end. I turned around and she smiled at me. Plus she keeps asking me every week if I have any plans for the weekend. I don't.

I really enjoy thinking of kissing and hugging her, there's more that are unsaid, but I love my girlfriend to death, but I have these thoughts that say mean things in my head that I don't want to say, and that I know aren't true, why does this happen to me?

I'm almost 21 and a Virgin.

He says he's not texting me during the day because she works with his supervisor lately and can't be on his phone. Then when he goes home, he takes a nap, works out then goes to bed. It will be the second d weekend I haven't seen him. He lives far from me and only drives down during the weekend. I can't tell anymore if he's lying or maybe even cheating. He swears he's not. But idk anymore. I just hate living like this.

I'm a white guy who is very attracted to latina women. I don't speak Spanish and want to find a place to go where I can find a sexy latina women. I'm interested in a sexual encounter and not with a hooker

We do lots of different things at school 

So a boy in my class keeps copying me like ill do this baby voice when im sad and act little a baby "little space" and he does it too now. Last year in science I would call our male teacher ma'am on purpose and now in science, he calls our female teacher sir. there are more, what does this mean?

So my boyfriend has asked me before who I've slept with and I told him. He's be with 10-15 and it kinda bothers me, is this something I should be concerned with? Is it appropriate for me to ask him who since he's asked me?

There was this girl I had a crush on back in high school and I just found her get on Facebook and she asked who I was I said I went to school with you and then I told her my name and then she left me on read what does this mean could she be scared to talk to me?

This what happened we had to, work in groups in my math class. I have work with the same people for half of the semster, there this girl who dose not talk a lot only a little,but for some reason dose not talk to me i have,not done anything to this person. So today she talk a little to the other people but not, to me so i started writing done the notes that i ,missed then that girl was telling the rest of the group that she was tired.Then she put her head down on the table,I notice her looking at my face and eyes i notice from the corner of my eye. So what is the problem with this girl,dose she ilke me or hates me .

I'm a virgin dating someone with a sexual past. Everything is perfect except my thoughts of her with her previous partners are driving me crazy. I'm waiting for marriage to have sex and have always thought I'd have a partner who I'd be able to experience all the firsts of sex together and it deeply saddens me that I won't be able to have this special bond with her. I under no circumstances want to give her up over this and am planning on marrying her, but I'm really struggling to come to terms with this. She's had consistent sex with a long term partner as well as casual sex with other men. She's been very open about this and it seems she's experimented quite a bit and done virtually everything which makes it harder for me to try and make our sex life special one day. I'm scared this will affect us in the future if I'm unable to accept her past. I don't think our relationship will go the distance if I remain in my current state of mind. Any advice on how to deal with this and how to move on indefinitely?

I'm 23 years old, he's 37. He lives in FL I live in NY. We met when I was going to school in FL and we were inseparable. He however lives with his 3 sisters, brother, nephew, nephews girlfriend, mom and dad. He has no car and a job that he works 4 hours a week. No one in his family has a solid job, they live in a 2 bedroom apartment with scattered mattresses thoughout the apartment and no one has their own mattress. When I go visit I pay for my own hotel and our food because he does not have the money to pay for anything. I love him so much but he is controlling and expects me to do everything for him. He even will call me randomly and demand I give him money for Ubers. How am I in this situation. What can I do? It's hard to let go because I am so deeply in love. It should also be noted he refuses to come visit me in NY because he is scared of planes so it's always me making the trip down there to see him.