i am 20 almost 21 who enjoys bonding with people the same age as me but i would like to know how i can meet and bond with people my own age who are 20 and almost 21 like me does anyone know

My sister is in 6th grade. She has Aspergers & has no friends. A few months ago, a boy started telling everyone that she stares at him and has been doing it ever since. She found it annoying, maybe even upsetting whenever people asked her why; she's pretty sure that they won't take "I don't know" or "I don't mean to" for an answer. Altho she does stare, she's been trying to keep her eyes off him but he still keeps going around, telling everyone. He has yelled at her not to look at him, even when she didn't know he was there. When she & another kid inadvertently caught each other's eyes in class once, he scowled at her & said angrily, "Don't look at me!" A girl she was friendly with said to her once, "Lauren, Adam doesn't like you 'cuz you stare at him!" Even a teacher complained to her in private that that her grade is going down fast. Adam laughs at her whenever he sees something embarrassing happen to her. He even has mimicked her & so has his best friend. His friend laughed at her when he saw her picking up her books after falling on the floor. Another girl has jeered, "We KNOW you like Adam!" & refused to believe my sister when she asserted she doesn't. After I saw her crying on the couch after school, I asked her what was wrong; she explained an incident to me. Our mom insists that my sister is bothering him & that she should've been friendlier in the first place. Is this boy encouraging others to socially exclude her? Is my younger sister being bullied in school?

I ve never been an overly big fan of conversing with peers, or having freinds. For some reason though people will get mad at me. They will get so mad sometimes that they yell at me. They say things like "Why cant you be f-ing freindly?!?" Etc. All I do is mind my own business and try to avoid bothering others. Is this inappropriate?

ps. I have no social media

So after school and i had a small hand bag I think that's what it's called and I had coke and cookies and I was struggling and my zip bag was falling off of me I felt so uncomfortable but these 2 nice ppl asked me "do you need help" and I said "no I'm ok"but the girl said "u need help" so he helped me with my stuff. After my mom picked me up I felt so bad that they helped me and I was embarrassed also because my family always told me "u were raised bad u need help with everything" which makes me feel bad. But why do I feel so bad what's the cause of this?

They are very dark spirited. They don't think like celebrities do nowadays. They have a Nazi mind. When you talk to a 1980s singer they will get angry and say 'what is this inferior scum doing trying to talk to someone like me?' They will take their finger and hit the block button or will throw their nose up at you. If the 1980s singer is a woman, she would be devoid of hormones. She would look at a guy and keep her head on her shoulders. She would act towards him as other guys and not melt and flirt with him like celebs do today. These 1980s singers, they talk in a bitter, BALANTANT WAY. If you say anything about Christianity to a 1980s singer they will hiss. To deal with a 1980s singer would be to deal with absolutes. You have to be through with them with consequences

A few weeks ago, my best guy friend and I went out with a bunch of our friends and he was flirting with me for most of the night and being super touchy/feely. I ended up going home early and the next day, found out that he hooked up with one of my friends who literally said she wasn't into him (LOL). I didn't find out from him though and he didn't know that I knew about them until yesterday! Last night, I was hanging out with him and made a joke like "Are you sure your girlfriend won't get mad at me?" He was like "What? My girlfriend?" I said "Yeah, Lauren.." he goes "Really? My girlfriend? Uh no, stop." I started laughing and then he said "Yeah, it's because you won't do anything with me so..." Umm was that hinting that he's into me?! Help me be less confused abt this!! Thanks.

I have this coworker I'm getting really fed up with. When we work together late at night during closing shifts, he'll put in his headphones and not talk to anyone, he'll only half-*** wash dishes, and he frequently can go from super jokey and funny to grumpy and souring the mood of everyone around him really quickly. Recently, I noticed that my apron had gotten suddenly dirty with a lot of sharpie marks. I keep sharpies in my apron pocket for my job like all of my coworkers do, but I'm particularly tidy and keep my aprons nice and clean. I thought I had just gotten careless, but now I'll have to order new aprons because they're too permanently dirty to continue to wear to work. Turns out, another coworker of mine told me last night that this other 'problem' coworker had actually switched his very dirty apron with my nice, clean one when I wasn't working one day and specifically told her not to tell me. Now, I get that this is kind of like a "don't cry over spilled milk" situation, but it's rather all of his other actions in addition to this that are pissing me off. I was about to go out and spend my money on new aprons, when really he couldn't be bothered to keep his own clean and/or buy himself new ones and just stole mine instead. I wouldn't have had a problem with him borrowing it if he'd asked, but the fact that he specifically did it behind my back AND told my other coworker not tell me struck me the wrong way and I don't feel like I can trust him anymore. Thoughts? I want to emphasize: I'm not so much mad at my apron having stains on it now as I am that he essentially was being shady about it and tried to go behind my back and conceal it from me. Couldn't he have just asked? It's the meaning behind it and the fact that I feel I can't trust him anymore that bothers me--not necessarily the dirty aprons.

This guy and I met up for sex (I met him a few years ago where works and he and I are only friends) but before we actually had sex we hung out. We went to the movies, to the arcade and out to eat. Then we went back to the hotel and had sex. I actually enjoyed his company regardless of the sex. I just liked being with him in general. I told him I had fun and he said he did too. I wish I could tell him how I really feel but I'm afraid. (Initially, he asked me to hang out with him he never mentioned anything about sex. First, he asked me to go bowling with him but I didn't go with him. Then he asked me to meet him at the Opera. I didn't go there with him either instead, I asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits. And he said yes because he had always been into me.)

So my friends stepdad asked if he could drive us around for prom and she said yes. At first I wasn't creeped out, I mean it was weird but whatever. But as I've thought about it, it just seems weirder. He is really concerned about our dresses and making sure they're in pristine condition. He's renting a car based on that. My other friend asked if my friends mom could drive us instead but she said that he was really looking forward to it and would be disappointed if he couldn't. So what do you do eh? I've known the guy for years and he's always kinda made me uncomfortable because he's a little off. He's all for doing anything my friend wants and going where my friend wants. Even takes her on vacations just the two of them. I know my dad wouldn't do that, he'd take the whole family. But I also wonder if he's trying to hard because of my friends bad relationship with her real dad who lost custody then moved states. So what do you think? Am I reading too far into this or is the guy actually weird? I might also add that he's planning on sitting in the parking lot for three hours waiting for us to be done with prom.

This guy and I met up for sex (I met him a few years ago where works and he and I are only friends) but before we actually had sex we hung out. We went to the movies, to the arcade and out to eat. Then we went back to the hotel and had sex. I actually enjoyed his company regardless of the sex. I just liked being with him in general. I told him I had fun and he said he did too. I wish I could tell him how I really feel but I'm afraid. I do talk to another guy he lives in another state but it's just a fling. We meet up every now and then. Initially, he had asked me to hang out with him. He never mentioned anything about sex.

This guy and I met up for sex (I met him a few years ago where works and he and I are only friends) but before we actually had sex we hung out. We went to the movies, to the arcade and out to eat. Then we went back to the hotel and had sex. I actually enjoyed his company regardless of the sex. I just liked being with him in general. I told him I had fun and he said he did too. I wish I could tell him how I really feel but I'm afraid. I do talk to another guy he lives in another state but it's just a fling. We meet up every now and then.

I don't know what to do about this guy? Edit There is this guy who works at a store not too far from me. I had been seeing him at the store for the past couple of years. My mom and I would always talk to him when we would see him. Last year he finally asked me for my number three months went by and he called me. When he first called me he asked me if I wanted to hang out with him. He asked me to go bowling I didn't go. Then he asked me to go with him to the opera I didn't go there with him. Instead, I asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits. He said yes and that he had always been into me. So we talked via Facebook for a year and we finally met up last month. We met up at a hotel and he could tell I was nervous. So he asked me if I wanted to go out first before we had sex. So we went out to eat, to the movies and to the arcade. Then we came back to the hotel and had sex. I actually enjoyed his company though regardless of the sex. I just liked being with him we laughed a lot and talked. I told him that I had fun with him and he said he did too. I actually like him and that wasn't supposed to happen. I do talk to another guy though who lives out of state. It's just a fling he and I meet up for sex every now and then. Did you read the part where I said I am having a fling with another guy?

There is this guy who works at a store not too far from me. I had been seeing him at the store for the past couple of years. My mom and I would always talk to him when we would see him. Last year he finally asked me for my number three months went by and he called me. When he first called me he asked me if I wanted to hang out with him. He asked me to go bowling I didn't go. Then he asked me to go with him to the opera I didn't go there with him. Instead, I asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits. He said yes and that he had always been into me. So we talked via Facebook for a year and we finally met up last month. We met up at a hotel and he could tell I was nervous. So he asked me if I wanted to go out first before we had sex. So we went out to eat, to the movies and to the arcade. Then we came back to the hotel and had sex. I actually enjoyed his company though regardless of the sex. I just liked being with him we laughed a lot and talked. I told him that I had fun with him and he said he did too. I actually like him and that wasn't supposed to happen. This is why I didn't want to hang out with him. I just wanted to have sex and that's it. So now I don't know what to do I don't like him because of sex I actually like him. I can't tell him how I feel because we are only friends. I do talk to another guy though who lives out of state. It's just a fling he and I meet up for sex every now and then. With the other guy I feel like I can trust him and he's like family to me. *the guy I have the fling with is like family*

I'm friends with this guy and sometimes my mom talks to him when she goes shopping. He works at this around the corner. He makes music and she likes the kind of music he makes. I told him that I thought she likes him and he said he likes her too. *I do not mean like as in a romantic way*

I´m wondering if her parents are actually as strict as she says they are or if she is just making excuses not to hangout. And it´s not like we haven´t hung out before. I always invite her to do things with me. and 8/10 times she always ends up not going or saying that she has too much homework. (She is an IB kid and does have a lot of homework. I get that she is busy and has to respect rules. But it feels like she´s kind of making excuses not to hangout with me. And maybe its just me overthinking it. but I wanna invite her to do things but I always know that it´s gonna end up with her saying no. And she is really good at being there for me and she always has my back. and when we do hangout we have fun. We´ve been friends for 3 years now. And I love being her friend. and I know I need to talk to her about it but i dont want our friendship to end. How do I bring up my frustration without having a fight break out. I am a hardcore christian and she has gone to both of the youth groups i go to. And she always says she wants to go back. But recently I went on a youth retreat and god changed me up there and I´ve been very vocal about my faith. and she has never criticised me.

I have had a really bad friendship break up a couple of weeks ago. And I just can't stop dreaming of them, thinking about them and all I want to do is talk to them and say sorry, and reconnect, but they have made it clear that they don't want to speak with me but they do ask others about how I'm doing. I don't know what to do.

She sprained her ankle and was feeling better until I almost ran her over with my buggy because I was so happy to see something I was looking all over the store for. Then I ran into her again because I was in a hurry and the aisle on the other side was blocked. Then I almost ran into her again I forgot she can't move out of my way and I really needed a coffee stirrer. She is annoyed with me and doesn't want to go anywhere with me. I am kind of the reason she sprained her ankle because she was running away from em because I yelling at her because she didn't want to talk about this woman she is no longer friends with because the woman was drugging her friends drinks when they would go out. She said I need to watch what I am doing but I can't because I am very nervous and I think I might be menopausal.

He's promised me he wouldn't and he'll stop but he keeps doing it, I'm very worried for him, I don't know what to do, I've had many talks with him and we are very close, but he won't stop... I don't know what to do, he has friends who do it who I think are a bad influence on him, they give him the chewing tobacco, they also have been telling him to stop talking to me, we are best of best friends, we are very very close, and I'm getting nervous, please help

I was talking to this guy online. He bailed on me before we could even actually meet so I told him off and didn't speak to him. For weeks he kept viewing my stories on Snapchat and Instagram and commenting on photos of my son, I ignored him. Two weeks ago he messaged me on Snapchat and I replied really vague. He said that his "back hurts from trying to carry on the conversation" so I replied " my stomach hurts from you trying to make an effort so he blocked me on Snapchat and Instagram. Last night at 2 am he sends me a message saying "hi cutie" I just replied "hi" and he blocked me 😂😂 I have to admit it's funny but it's getting really annoying. I don't want much to do with him anymore because I haven't met him and I wasted my time with him. But he keeps popping up on my social media like a clown and blocks me before I can tell him to go away.

so basically we were hanging out at his house and he has his new ipad mini 5, and i really want one! i'm obsessed with them and want to date one i'm so obsessed!!! when he went downstairs, i tried to take it and walk home with it and he somehow saw me and ran up up to me and asked who's ipad that is and i ran away and he chased me screaming at me and i told him it's mine go AWAY and leave me alone and he grabbed it from me so i grabbed it back and smashed it on the floor and it cracked

There's an ex friend who betrayed and caused me a lot of pain two years ago due to her lying and being sneaky. She fake apologized. She immediately changed personality and seems to thrive(became very happy/bubbly/flirtatious overnight) from my pain, which she makes very obvious. She has me blocked on IG, but not FB. She has a untruthful public video obviously directed at me on her FB page. It bothers me because she set me up & double crossed me and is STILL playing victim. Her FB Page is now set up with many pictures of her & our mutual friends from high school and at the very top that public video obviously directed at me. That would publicly suggest I'm wrong, yet SHE'S the one who fake apologized in private . Our mutual friends know the truth but still affiliates with her, while hiding their boyfriends. I can't expect them to take sides, but it makes me weary of them all. Should I block her on FB or is that immature? Sn: Im happy she has transformed into someone who loves herself more, but I feel like it happened from she stabbing me. It seems like she needed/needs to put me down to pull herself up.

I have a great life now. A loving husband who's my best friend, terrific friends. But a couple of ago I got super close to some people after my bff died. They all turned against me and it still hurts.

So my online friend always says he doesnt know what to talk ab w/ me, what should I do bc every time we have a 1 on 1 convo (after our mutal friend leavs) he just stays quiet -- but when i have a 1 on 1 convo w our mutual friend and he joins he complains and says he feels like a third-wheel. tf am i supposed to do? Oh yea and he likes to start conversations in my dms and then say "get outta my dms" but whenever we talk (like type) in the discord server we met on hes fine, and whenever theres at least 1 other person its normal/in the server general vc even if no ones there.

Advice on how to deal with poor school project members. Recently have been assigned a project consisting of three people one month ago and project is due in a week. We exchanged phone numbers and set up a document to all work on the project. Outside of greeting and setting up the document the other 2 group members have been non contributors. Group member one I haven't heard from in 3 weeks. It's a big lecture hall so idk who this person is. I say okay maybe they'll come around eventually. Here really comes the icing on the cake to top it all off though. The group chat we have going on Group member 2 responds yesterday (3 weeks after project date and 1 week till due date keep in mind)"I'm not ready yet. I've got a lot of things going on" What does that mean? I am completely lost because no one has even said a word in the group chat in three weeks. Then out of the blue group member 2 gives an excuse why he can't do the project. It would be it'd be okay if someone said something to the kid but the kid makes excuse out of left field, right? Any advice on how to deal with this

My friend and I, for April Fools, pretended that we were together and texted ppl that we were together. We were planning on telling everyone at 11:59pm. I text my friend, let's call him X. I tell X that me and my friends r dating . X starts asking all these questions like when did he ask you out? How did he ask u out? Etc. I responded a little vaguely cause it was a prank and I wasn't about to make up an entire story. About an hour later he sends me this long *** paragraph of how I could 1) be lying to him and that everyone knew how this was gonna happen 2) we could actually be dating and I was just tryna gloat or 3) we were dating and thought this was the best way to announce. He was really mad and I didn't know why. When I saw the paragraph I was really surprised cause I didn't think he was the kind of person to get mad over an April Fools prank especially because he always jokes around and stuff. Anyways, I discussed with my friend about this and we decided it was best if we ended our prank as we didn't want any more people to get mad. However, even know I still tho I think he overacted. Did he or did my friend and I just go to far ?

He want me to go to an amusment park with him and his friends but i am 30 years old and all his friends are 18-20 years old. Wouldn't it be weird to hang out with them like wouldn't people just stare and think im weird or something?

I used to laugh until my stomach hurt, cry laughing at little things. Made friends easily made lasting connections in a week or two of knowing someone. I felt happy. Now away from my friends and family it's like I've lost my identity. I never laugh at stupid probably not funny things. I haven't cried from laughing or anything like that. I'm shy I'm reserved. I feel awkward approaching people and making friends with them. How can I get back to what I used to be like? I don't feel particularly depressed or anything it's just I want to be funny again!

So I really want to know how to make my mom like one of my friends.. and yes she is REALLY disrespectful, and a bad kid and a bad student, but I mean she's not a bad friend. So how do I make my mom like her?

3 months ago myself, my boyfriend, and 3 other friends moved into a 3 bedroom apartment. (5 people) My boyfriend and I share a room, another couple share a room, and the remaining has his own room. The girlfriend of the other couple brought a puppy home and we told her we weren t allowed to have pets (by our lease agreement) she lied and said she was just fostering it. 2 weeks later she said she was keeping it, asked our landlord and he said no. She then decided she was moving out in order to keep the puppy. Only 3 people signed the lease, she was not one of them. The other 2 roommates said she doesn t have to pay rent (even though legally she d have to if she signed the lease) and they told my boyfriend and I that we have to split the cost of her portion of rent. Her boyfriend and BROTHER told her she doesn t have to pay. I believe she should still pay her portion since we all agreed to this 16 month lease, or her boyfriend and brother should be responsible for cover her portion. Am I being unfair to think this?