I am a female in my 20s and I do have a boyfriend. But lately I have been seeing all of my female friends or classmates from high school (give or take a year or so older or younger than me) getting engaged, getting married, or having children. I feel jealous and depressed because I want to feel loved just as much as those other young women do. I someday want children (after marriage) and I want to get married someday. All of these women are getting married young and I am not. Lately it has been affecting my self esteem and It makes me feel bad about myself. I am 21 and feel ready for greater responsibilities while these women are starting at ages 18 to 23. How can I not be jealous?

I am catholic and had a civil marriage. A year into my marriage, my ex spouse committed domestic abuse, malicious wounding, and more towards my daughter and I. He was found guilty, is serving time in prison, and due to the severity of the situation, there's a protective order against him for my daughter and I. We are now divorced. Fast forward 5 years, I'm now engaged and would like to get married in the church. Does the process of annulment consider the domestic abuse and the protective order against my ex husband?

My parents just got divorced and my dad is about to move out. I will be switching houses at the end of every week. What should I bring when I switch? I'm so scared and confused.

I'm looking for a little bit of clarification here. My ex husband and I were married for 13 years from 2002 to 2015. We divorced in 2015, it's coming up on four years now. I was a SAHM during our marriage. I stayed home, took care of our house, the kids and was a good wife. My husband filed for divorce in March of 2014. Our divorce was final in May 2015. We did have a slight dramatic custody battle. Our children are 15, 13 and 11. He is in upper level management for a Fortune 500 company. He pays child support every month and is a good father to our kids. I was receiving alimony until I remarried my current husband (we married in March of 2018). I still do not work, I stay at home. My husband seems very frustrated with this because we live in NYC and our rent is quite the bit of money (along with five kids as I have three daughters and he has two daughters as well who are my stepkids). He wants me to work, even part time to help with the bills. I am looking for work but I am not interested in working very much. He is not as successful as my ex husband but he has done just ok. Well here is the thing. My ex husband is dating a black woman from Brooklyn (we are all from Queens). She works for NYPD as a lieutenant. My kids like her. She was a single mom with two kids before meeting my ex husband. What makes me surprised is that I would have never thought he would date such a career oriented woman. I thought he preferred submissive women who wanted to be homemakers.

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My little boy will keep me company and his job would be to make me feel pretty.

So my wife left the marriage unexpectedly back in September and either told guys we were separated or she didn't tell them we were married at all, Her favorite line she told everyone was that I put my hands on her when I didn't and come to find out she moved in with a crazy guy and his brother we had to save her from. So end of October thru until the end of November she wanted to try again because she felt bad..but we got into a argument because some guy called her phone at 3am told her to come over and I was venting about it so she got mad and told me to go and she called the police and put on a show because I wouldn't leave just because that's what she wants...... So come to find out she moved back in with the crazy guy and his brother again this time she went into a full on relationship but told me she won't feeling him when we met up in October but their back on a relationship she doing things for him that she should've done for me this whole time and it's only been a month since and she act like she's in love with him.... But the problem now is I am viewed as the worst husband ever I don't know what she tells people but if I was to try to talk to her she would ignore me or call my family saying I'm threatening her and then get her friends to call my phone saying don't call her back because they will call the cops but all I said was karma is a b And also she has court on the 15th for stealing 1500 from her job this is like her 4th offense. she also hangs with my family

I was just wondering if any men ever been married to a woman but lived a secret double homosexual life on the side. what did your wives do when you came out of the closet did they stay and attend marriage counseling or leave?

My husband doesnt really like my parents, but primarily my father. My parents can be annoying and have been on the verge of divorce for some time - but they do try to make the best of it. Since my husband knows everything - my family gossips and he has seen some if their "actions" and "consequences" first had - so he has already made some judgement on them. He does care for my mom and LOVES my siblings (which is good because I love my siblings and they are a big part of my life). Well my parents came up to me and told me that my husband has been acting different lately - before he was more talkative and interactive (btw, we have been together for 7 years and married for 1 year) and now he barely talks to them and seems distant. My dad wanted to know if there was some underlying feelings that my husband had of him since he feels he is the main one being ignored. So I told him that my husband has just been feeling overwhelmed and has a lot on his mind - when really my husband cannot stand him. So I'm not sure what to do. Obviously my dad WANTS to amend their relationship and to hopefully remove any animosity between them. Should I tell my husband how my dad feels and see if maybe they can talk? Should I ignore it? It hurts me that my husband is not too close to my parents because it does affect the holidays and family events because he doesnt want to participate sometimes. Idk what to do. Any advice would be helpful. P.S- he doesnt have a good relationship with his family too.

My sister have black hair and her husband have brown hair ! Her husband had brown hair at 17 years old ! Their daughter dont look like on the face at her father nor at the face of her mother ! My mother told me January 2017 they had sex life zero and her husband couldent have sex ! Also my sister flirted with several men at her work and June 2017 she rubbed the butt of her colleague and she flirted with him ! Also she got pregnant September 2017 ! We dont have relatives blondes in my family nor the family of the husband of my sister ! Also she flirted with women at her work and she had a crush on her client !

My husband is dark but the black guy was a light black. I am light with blond hair and blue eyes. What are the chances he will notice if it is the other guys. I am 7 months pregnant so starting to get worried.

They have been divorced over ten years But she does this behind my back and everyone else's back too Need I remind you that the ex husband has felonies for drugs I really love this girl but it's tearing me up inside Please help

my husband and I separated 2 months ago. During that time I developed a close relationship with my boss (he was my support - talking, texting, eating out), but nothing romantic happened. Last week i returned to my house where my husband lives (now trying to see if i give him a second chance). Now my boss has been ignoring me. We had 2 events and he does not even come close to me. How to i approach him? We have shared a lot of personal stuff with each other and i have been checking his mail during Christmas break.

Whether she's on her period or she has other plans already or she's just not feeling well. If you ask to meet up with her for sex and she declines, do you feel like you've lost your power over her for the night? If not then how do you feel?

I am considering divorcing my husband. I don't want to drag him or our 3 children through Court to establish child support. My idea is for him to provide a signed and notarized affidavit agreeing to 1000 a month. I feel this is reasonable for 3 kids and that its actually the bare minimum. Thoughts?

My wife screams my name whenever we have sex. Why does she do this ? Is it normal ?

We have only dated for 2 months and I can tell that he is very emotionally reserved. We were in bed the other day, just talking and I asked about his ex wife. He said: "She was a beautiful person, inside and out. She meant well but we married too young. She had a lot of growing up to do and at the time I felt that I had to sacrifice too much off myself for her happiness. I know I hurt her a lot when we divorced and I do hope she finds happiness and I wish her nothing but luck and lots of love in life. But you move on. And I have learned that you can not be together with someone and forget yourself in the us. So that's what I'm doing now. Focusing on me." Sometimes I get the feeling that he regrets divorcing her. He rarely speaks off her. But I also feel like I can not push too much because we are not there yet. How do I know if a divorcee is ready to actually move on for real?

I did the mirror test, telling myself I love how my vagina looks, but I really don't. during my high school years I was always ashamed of it. all the girls were so proud of theirs.

Im in love, and i care about them But My significant other physically and emotionally abuses me, lies, cheats on me, and takes complete advantage of me. I clean, cook, do laundry, pay most of the bills, and lend them money they say theyll pay back but never do. They lie to me all the time, They have cheated before, and i tried to break it off by avoiding them and leaving a note, but they managed to get to me, and it all fell apart, and i forgave. It happened again. I found out that all the nights they were going out at night to "take care of a friend's dogs", they were actually going on dates and sleeping with other people. I tried to break it off again by isolating myself and building my case. I got it together, and marched into my home ready to tell them, it was over, and that i was leaving. They cried, and begged, and told me some insane explanations that made my head do flips, but i persisted, They grabbed me, and told me they wouldnt let me leave, and then they took my phone and keys when i threatened to call the police. I said i would walk to the police station if i had to, And they pushed me down on the bed, and started kissing me and making love to me. I couldnt stop it. I was afraid, and crying, and i loved them and i couldnt stop it. By the end, i told them i would give things another shot, and im back to square one. Theyve been really sweet to me lately, but thats how it always goes. It will get bad again. It always does. How do i get out. I need help.

So I have 4 boys and they go every other weekend with their father age range is 5 to 11.. 3 of them have cell phones... so the fathers issue is that they don;t answered him when he text them.. so his punishment is that he will only pick up the boys that do answer his text which is only 2 of them..

I m 28, married since 2 years ! its too personal but i want to ask people what should i do. my wife has issue. whenever we have sex she got Yeast infection. we check more than 20 different doctors and every one says all good. gave medicine and it stop but once we have sex it happen again ! in this 2 years we just had maybe 30 times sex. i love my wife ! but sometimes i got wrong thought in my mind about to have sex with other women. again stop my self but again this kind of wrong thoughts comes to mind. Please help what should i do ? P.S we went many many hospitals and change doctors and indeed we tried all different condoms brands, and always care about cleanness --- still same issue ! so we don t have sex as normal people have :(

I have been with my wife for 10 years...I'm not addicted to abuse. Last year I had to call the police because she was getting angry and wanted an AVO. She has to see a psychologist. Tonight was bad. An argument started over her accusing me of cheating whilst she was pregnant. She just wont stop. Accuses me of having sex with a classmate that I contacted occasionally to talk about our studies. I did my best to try and reassure her. But she lashed out and hit my back (we were in bed). Then proceeded to say the f.... do I think I am and that I only stay married to her for the property (in fact I stay hoping for her to change and for our son). Told me to go and f...the classmate etc. I stay because we have a very young son and because i genuinely love her. Honestly, I miss the feeling of kissing. Er haven't done so for nearly 2 years and she vows that she will never kiss me again. So I've resigned myself to never knowing what that feels like ever again. Should I tell her to pack her stuff and get out? I rely on her parents to come from China and look after our son. He is only 8 months old... I am worried because her patents leave in the morning. Concerned about escalating violence. My son is safely with my parents until my 1 month holiday starts. Note that she has been violent and verbally/physically abusive for years. I have a restraining order that protects myself and my son. I keep documented proof and recordings. I know she will probably get my son. She acts friendly to my parents and wants the family to look good but behind closed doors she abused me. It is Jeckyl and Hyde. It depends on her mood. Some days she is acting nice and talks about travels together. Other days she is upset and lashes out at me. I just don't understand why she doesn't want to move forward and have a happy marriage with me. She is convinced that whilst she was pregnant that I was having sex with that classmate (because we didn't have sex for months). Edit: I wasn't having sex with my wife whilst she was pregnant. I stayed by her side despite her massive mood swings that involved breaking things, hitting me etc. I made do and tried to support her and work hard for the family. Even when she would say f...you and when I said it sets a bad example for our son, she didn't listen. No we aren't seeing a marriage counsellor. O have not flirted with other women during our marriage. I have not imagined others. I have remained faithful. And I told her last night that it doesnt matter what she thinks because at least God and I know that I'm pure and have only been worth one woman all my life. Last thing I said before sleeping was that this is the thanks I get for sticking by her side for 10 years. I get to miss out on happiness and real intimacy. That's a huge sacrifice. Lifelong sacrifice of what it feels like to be kissed. I will never ever know that feeling ever again :( Meanwhile I can scrape together money to try and be happy with material things and my own achievements. I sacrifice intimacy and a true love partner for the sake of honouring my commitment to the marriage. I dont know how much longer that will last before I get fed up and go searching for the friendship of another woman. I think I wont last more than another 12 months. This year I will see if she will honour the commitment to travel abroad with me. If not, she can go to a nice country alone with girlfriends again and I will look at the separation and divorce process. She can keep all the property and pay for child support. I will keep the one we live in. I think there are other women out there who love men despite them having children from previous marriages.

We went to see the Christmas lights last week I proposed to her there then a few weeks later on New Years we got married after being together 2 years. Why did she cry when I proposed ?