my wife and I have been married for 6 yrs(together for 9). at the very beginning, there were some trust issues that I made complete amends with. Things have been going great until last week. she happened to see that there were some messages in my FB messenger. the messages were completely innocent and in no way, shape or form, am I cheating on her. I have no intentions on meeting up with them. most of them are friends I grew up with or old high school friends. my wife doesn't see it that way. she says I have no business talking to them, even though I am upfront about my marital situation. I am a very outgoing person and I love to catch up with old friends. I see nothing wrong with that. my password to my phone has always been the same but I was bothered that my wife went through my phone. while I do realize my past is what it is, I made a promise and I have honored. so what I did was that I changed my password with the intention of changing it back once I knew she tried to go through it. she said that was a red flag and she basically said that was it, it's over, I am done this time, ect….this happened on Saturday and we have barely spoke. I have remained calm through it all. does she have a right to act this way or is she being overly dramatic? any advice will help. thank you.

My fiancé and I have been together for over a year. He has 2 kids from his ex wife. They have pictures of them together on Facebook from years ago. I talked to him about it and he said he honestly hasn't looked back at them. He said he definitely doesn't have any feelings for her because she cheated on him numerous of times. I told him it was his decision to keep or delete the pics. I didn't want to force him to delete them because I would feel controlling of the situation. I told him I trust him. We both get along with the ex wife because of the kids. Did I make the right decision by saying it was up to him because I trust him?

I know everyone has feelings they can't control but I've witnessed women doing this a lot. Even when they post quotes, They are usually scrambled lol it's pretty sad Do you believe it's best for them to leave? Do you think a relationship/marriage is for them? What if the cycle continues?

I think a married man I first became aquainted with 22 years ago has been stalking me since march. I believe 15 yeaes ago when I was in college they were stalking me at school at the time. There has been a lot of confloct with people close to this person over the years. We spoke maybe a few words and never been intimate. I tried writing to them asking what they were doing the same time and place as me to silence and the stalking has continued. I feel it's escalating to a point where I really feel fearful and am not interested in any kind of relationship with a married man. They have a lot of money and influence so retaliation could be a real possibility. How can I peaceful and this?

I love my husband DEARLY. So much. My best friend. My husband is a self employed contractor, it gives us the freedom to move where we please. I'm going to keep as much of my information as private as possible. Long story short, my husbands family lives in one place, my family lives in another place 800 miles away. Before we got married, my husband said we could move to the place my family lived for the summer months. We got married and the next summer rolls around, never left. I let it go and the next summer rolls around, never left. I'm scared that next summer is going to be the same. I don't like where I live. I hate it, I'm miserable here and I feel like I'm married to a man child. His parents have full control over him and he's 30. I love him but I want to go home. I miss my hometown and I feel lied to, like there was empty promises. I don't want to leave him, but this place isn't doing us any good or helping us grow at all. Am I being selfish?

I'm absolutely unhappy with my penis size. I'm depressed. I hate my penis size, I'm embarrassed and ashamed. I've had sex a few times; with my past girlfriend and a few other girls, and NOT ONCE did any of my experiences go well because I was too nervous about my penis size-because it is small. I'm a 6 foot, athletic and well built guy in college who has a freaking 5 inch penis. It's not thick either it's pretty skinny. I am very depressed and cannot accept it and continue life and move on. It's stopping me and I don't see the point to do anything if I can't even enjoy good sex. I read all the forums and stuff saying oh 5 is average and what not but all I hear are girls saying bigger is better and smaller is boring and you can hardly feel it. I read it, and ALL the girls I know-friends and encounters say the same-ALL OF THEM. So this whole bull that size doesn't matter and it's how you use it is bs because size does matter and girls want a bigger one. It's more fun for them. I don't see how my small penis could be fun or enjoyable. And people always say only shallow women leave guys for penis size, but if you're boyfriend had a small one would you accept that and be with him till you die knowing that's the biggest you'll get? I don''t think so. It does make sense; sexual need is important to everyone and if a small penis can't provide than what's the point? I don't understand how to move on. I can't. I am so depressed and sad I can't focus on my life.

My wife just told me a story that when she was a young girl (4 or 5) that she had an older friend or cousin (I forget which but I think friend) that encouraged her to give him head. He was only a year or two older than her so no ejaculation but apparently it was a thing. She eventually had urges to do this with other boys and even had arrousal during class. At least this is how the story goes anyways, which I'm angry I just found out about (she claims she told me before but I wouldn't remembered this story). As a result of her young promiscuity she was shamed, condemned, and punished for her sexual urges. She was denied therapy, denied counseling, and denied acceptance; her parents treated it like it was a deadly sin and made her feel terrible for having these urges. Now she has no urges at all. She hasn't for the 17 years I've been with her. She refuses do go to therapy to talk about her childhood and she refuses to see a sex therapist to just override it, so I just want to know what can she do to get over this the hard way since that's the way she wants to go? I want a sex life with her but she refuses to have sex with me; she let's me have sex with her, but she rarely joins in and does work back.

What do you think of older women in their 30s who are married with kids posting lots of selfies of themselves in sexy outfits or bragging about their designer purse or outfit? I think this is ok if you are in your teens but am I the only one who thinks it's disturbing to see married women do this?

I have a 10 year old stepson. My husband is the primary parent. My husband and his ex were a "casual" fling and never had an official relationship. They are compete opposites and both are guilty for not putting differences aside of their son. With that said, my SS obviously loves them both and I help him make a Christmas present for his Mom every year. I've been in his life since he was 2. One year we made a blanket, another we did pottery. We've done cookies, a couple years ago we did an ornament with their picture on it. We usually come up with ideas together. But this year, his nearing teenage indifference is kicking in. He said he wants to do something for his Mom, but shrugs when I ask what. I thought of a movie date, but my husband doesn't want a dollar amount that she can see attached to it. (He said she'll complain that her child support paid for it.) So it needs to be homemade. Do you have any ideas of a homemade idea that a 10 year old could do for his Mom? My husband said to forget it since he isn't taking initiative. But SS did say he wanted to do it and I feel it's important to encourage this one act of goodwill that we have between the houses. Any ideas for a homemade gift?

i have shared custody of my son with equal times of him at both parents...my son is 12 years old and my ex new complaint is my brother has a mental illness and my son is not safe being around him..i currently live with my parents in a huge house he has his own room etc and is very happy...my brother is a college graduate and has no history of mental illness. the reason my ex brought this up last minute is to basically get me to move out from my parents and if i dont then my son is not safe being here..we already had a family study few days ago of my son speaking to someone from the court about this issue of mental...i was in court 2 days ago and the report said that my son is very happy and has no issues with his uncle whatsoever...but now my crazy ex is saying that my child was coached by his grandmother, grandfather etc to not say anything negative about his uncle!!! so she asked the judge for a GUARDIAN AD LITEM...so now her main tool to use to decrease my time with him is to use the child as a WEAPON to eventually get him stressed out and say something that is not true to the GAL...I dont want my son honestly to deal with no GAL and just have him focus on his youth and school but my ex is constantly asking for one thinking she will fool the system and eventually decrease my visitation..she dont give a **** about putting him in the center of all this to gain some advantage...my brother is also mad that she has brought him and defamed his name with this mental illness .

Please note: this boy is not HIS grandson, but his exwife s grandson from her previous marriage. For almost a year until this day, he is spending EVERY weekend with us, while his parents are at home do their own things, and there is nothing wrong with their home situation or lack of support system Update: teenager, I tried to set rules, but I ended up doing everything myself. I have a very demanding day job that involves working at home on the weekend while doing all the regular house chores

We usually go together every January but he got a new job starting in the new year. So, he rescheduled the trip to December. Problem with December is that I can't go cause work won't allow us to take vacation in December because of the holiday season. He just got there yesterday and I am already starting to worry and panic. When he arrived, he got in touch at midnight. He said he was chatting with his mom for a long while having just arrived. Called me to say hi for a few minutes. Then he said he had to get ready for bed. And would text good night. An hour went by. It was past 1 and I did not hear from him. I was tired and texted good night. About 15 min later, he replied, saying sorry he did not respond sooner. He was waiting for his mom to go to sleep. Right away, I thought he was texting the woman he has on the side down there, to tell her he is back in town, and to arrange play dates with her. I am here without him. I don't run off with other men while he's gone. It is only 2 weeks. I can contain myself til he gets home. Can a man do this? Can he keep it in his pants for 2 weeks? Anyone have advice on how I can cope while he is gone? He has not cheated on me before (to my knowledge) but he did cheat on an ex wife with a woman for 5 years. He says he loves me and would never do that to me. But he is a friendly and flirty type. What should I do? Please, no stupid answers. If you have a heart, you will see how agonizing this is for me. I love this man. :(

All my friends parents are divorced and they get presents and money and i think it seems fun because you get more attention too

looking at my panties , stuff like that. But when the truth came out, it was my husband who was cheating, using the IM cheating as a rouse. I finally left my husband, but still think of him each and every day, this was 4 years ago. since then Ive put on weight and got real depressed. he married one of his girl friends.

I dont wanna be unfaithful- BUT i dont trust my husband and there may come a day when this vibrator just ain't doing it 4 me anymore- i want a dick again! but because i just have to have trust and feelings with someone i just dont want his i go looking for another one!

Ladies who forget easily and have to be talked to like 4 year olds. That is genuinely me.