Family: Question: In love with an aunt who is only related by marriage? |
- Question: In love with an aunt who is only related by marriage?
- Question: How do I ask my parents to help pay for me to go to school?
- Question: Suicidal loser?
- Question: Was this girl and her mom trying to manipulate me?
- Question: If child support ends at 19 then why can parents kick you out at age 18 then.?
- Question: I'm hated and rejected should I kill myself?
- Question: Why did my dad freak out about the length of the spaghetti noodles?
- Question: My grandma has dementia, she lives alone. She can t drive. My parents sold her car. My grandma was okay with this, now my brother stole it.?
- Question: Mil boundaries?
- Question: I need some advice about my 21 year old daughter?
- Question: Why are beggars so picky and ungrateful?
- Question: My parents stole 150$ dollars from me?
- Question: My friend is mad at me for something that s not my fault?
- Question: I hate my sister. Does this make me a bad person?
- Question: Should I say anything?
- Question: Is this true about underage drinking??
- Question: Why am I like this?
- Question: Is my Mom wrong to give my brother food when he is a drug addict?
- Question: An uncle is having a party and my family is not invited. How do I know if it was a family party and we're excluded vs. just his friends?
- Question: I'm 24 years old and my parents still shout at me for swearing?
- Question: Parents are Using MY Work Paycheque For Holiday Shopping?
- Question: How can I help my husband through his grief?
- Question: How to deal with a clingy mother in high school?
- Question: My step daughter is making bad choices! Any advice!?
- Question: How do I convince my parents to hire a maid?
- Question: My mom makes me do extra homework?
- Question: Do other black do the same?
- Question: Is this just me or ?
- Question: My step daughter always listens to my son?
- Question: A teenager is anyone between age 14-17?
- Question: I’m 18 & moving 40min away to college. How to tell my parents I’m moving out? (sorry about grammar. needed to make it all fit)?
- Question: My dad caught me lip syncing lol?
- Question: I ghosted this guy for 3 days. My friend convinced me to message him and tell him the truth and end it. Should I do that?
- Question: How to kick someone out your house lol?
- Question: Muslim girl in love with a christian boy with parents not accepting help?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: My husband uses his dog for disciplining our kids. What do I do?
- Question: Does my dad still have to pay child support?
- Question: My parents won’t let me go on a field trip to Washington D.C. how do I make them let me?
- Question: Careless grandma that wants attention after 20 years - yes or no?
- Question: My Mom's uncle tried to drown his nephew in a pool years ago. Should he have gone to jail even though he did not actually kill the nephew?
- Question: My uncle is verbally abusive to his wife. Could he be arrested for this even though he has only once been violent and not to her?
- Question: My Dad is a failure of a human being with no love for his children. How do I act if our Mom makes us see the scumbag on Christmas?
- Question: Is it Strange that I(18) don't "know" my sister(38)?
- Question: Advice if you’ve got it on parent related issues?
- Question: I'm really depressed?
- Question: Can a therapist treat 2 children from the same family (brother and sister) with back to back sessions.?
- Question: How to deal with cousins jealous of your academic success and career?
- Question: My Dad is a bad, mean, and arrogant man. How do I overcome the disappointment he has caused me?
- Question: Do you think he has an std?
Question: In love with an aunt who is only related by marriage? Posted: 02 Dec 2018 02:43 PM PST i was bored thinking what if someone was in love with their aunt but since the aunt is only related by marriage and not blood at all, is it wrong if they were crushing on the aunt or in love with her? lol weird question i know haha |
Question: How do I ask my parents to help pay for me to go to school? Posted: 02 Dec 2018 02:34 PM PST I'm 23, and just now ready to go, I'd most likely start at community college. A difficult part is that my step dad makes the vast majority of the income, while my mom couldn't even afford to live BY HERSELF with her job, and I don't expect any help from my step dad. Can I maybe get grants from the government (United States, Texas)? I just want and need to do something real with my life, not working minimum wage as an adult. I get absolutely no encouragement from my family, but life has proved it's true difficulty to me, which has finally motivated me to be ready to go. I can't perform very well in grocery/fast food/retail (I think I might have a learning disability) but even as a career those jobs would not allow financial independence. I was ready to kill myself before I seriously considered the school option (I don't qualify for the military due to medical reasons, I already talked to a recruiter) so school may be my last chance at life before I give up on life. Or move to California to be a welfare bum, but everyone would rather me kill myself than leech off taxpayers, I'd only do that as a last resort right before suicide. I'm sick of being a no life f***ing loser, and my step dad has severe anger issues and gets abusive sometimes, so I need to get away from that as well. I'm thinking maybe web design, computer programming, or accounting. I don't care about getting into debt anymore, as being debt free doesn't matter to me if I'm chronically unemployed anyway, but the schools still require some upfront payment so I need to be able to pay for it... |
Posted: 02 Dec 2018 02:02 PM PST Adult guy 31. Have faults and flaws. Trying to do good things. Trying to work this restaurant job. I feel like an idiot at work. Feel nobody wants me there. I don't have family support. They don't believe in me. They criticize and blame me at any attempt.They are controlling. Sad hates me so bad. He sometimes randomly talk to me, other times there is strong tension. If I disagree or defend myself it's an issue. He had surgery and he us really moody. But he is always moody. If he ask me to do something I do it. I also so things he dont, ask me to do. I asked him about cutting my hair. I didn't expect him to. It was, somewhat a conversation starter. He told mom I about it. She is always blaming me and criticizing me as dad does. I can't do or say anything without it being an issue. I generally keep to myself, and that is an issue. He only care about my sister. No matter what I do I am blamed and hated. I try and be confidence but that's hard. I don't trust anybody, I am hated by everybody. I can be really nice and be hated no matter what I do. I'm just some worthless, loser that everybody hates |
Question: Was this girl and her mom trying to manipulate me? Posted: 02 Dec 2018 01:41 PM PST I went to Marseille and was in an airbnb, when I met this girl who (within 20 minutes of knowing her) decided we had an instant connection and invited me to basically stay with her and her mother who had recently moved from Morocco. Now that time has gone on, I realize they may have been attempting to steal/manipulate me. First off, the girl was incredibly narcissistic and was not concerned with anything that did not revolve around her, and rarely listened to or remembered anything I had to say. She would order me around without thought, and though she would listen and understand when I wanted to go off on my own, her and her mother were constantly calling and wanting to know where I was. This could have been out of concern, however, there was a moment where I couldn't find my bank card, and when I asked both of them where it was, they said they didn't know. I asked them this knowing it was in her mother's bag. When they desperately needed money for rent, the mother would ask me where my bank card was and pretended I didn't know. I know it seems obvious... but if you could meet them.... they were SO nice to me, despite the narcissism and ordering around and all that. Really nice to me. They practically treated me like family. If they were manipulating me, that would make them straight up psychopathic, because they really seemed like they loved me a lot. What do you think? |
Question: If child support ends at 19 then why can parents kick you out at age 18 then.? Posted: 02 Dec 2018 12:45 PM PST |
Question: I'm hated and rejected should I kill myself? Posted: 02 Dec 2018 12:14 PM PST I'm an adult guy 31. Have faults and flaws. But try and be hateful. Dad hates me, he hates acknowledging the good things I do. But have no issue acknowledging the negative. I do work around the house. Have been unemployed but working at a restaurant. I Don't have support. Parents only care about my sister. Sister only speaks if she want something. Dad speaks sometimes, but sometimes he doesn't. We could be talking, and he act as if he hates me with the negative energy. If he ask me to do something I do it. I can't disagree or defend myself, without being the bad person. When around him i feel tension. |
Question: Why did my dad freak out about the length of the spaghetti noodles? Posted: 02 Dec 2018 12:07 PM PST He's one of these people who thinks there is only one way to do anything. When he makes spaghetti he breaks the noodles 4 times to fit in the pot. Well he went to see his girlfriend yesterday and I made spaghetti for myself not for him because he wasn't there. I bought all the ingredients therefore me making spaghetti had nothing to do with him. So I didn't break the noodles just to see what it was like. I had a little left over when he came home he got the rest of it and when he realized that I didn't break the noodles he had a complete breakdown. I thought he was joking at first but then I remembered that he doesn't ever joke about anything. He was fine when he got home and seemed to be in a good mood but the noodles set him off big time. I don't understand how something so unimportant can make someone go from a good mood a angry in seconds. I just don't get it. |
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Posted: 02 Dec 2018 10:47 AM PST My fiance s mother shows up unannounced, lets herself in (whether we re home or not), and even took my key when I was gone for 1 night. She helps a lot with our 9 month old son, but I don t think that means she s exempt from exercising common courtesy. My fiance says that I m being petty and unappreciative of all her help. I m on the brink of leaving the relationship. Am I being petty and unappreciative? |
Question: I need some advice about my 21 year old daughter? Posted: 02 Dec 2018 10:41 AM PST My husband and I have a 21 year old daughter. She lives with her boyfriend and found out she is pregnant. She is a heavy smoker 2 packs of Newport100's a day and her boyfriend also smokes 2 packs of Marlboro Red's a day. I told her I would like her to try and cut back or quit smoking now that she is pregnant and she said she will not cut back or try to quit. Her boyfriend said he will not cut back either. My husband and I need some advice this will be our fist grandchild and we want him or her to be born healthy. My daughter also said after her baby is born she and her boyfriend will keep smoking around him or her. |
Question: Why are beggars so picky and ungrateful? Posted: 02 Dec 2018 10:03 AM PST My mom is always asking for food because she's hungry(that's what she claims ). But when I look in the fridge and freezer she has more food than I do. When I mention it she says that she doesn't want to eat it or doesn't want to cook it. Occasionally I decide to be nice and offer her a grilled cheese sandwich, hotdogs, and ramen noodles because that's all I can spare but she gets angry and says "I don't want no damn noodles" I tell her that's literally all I have to eat and she starts cussing me out and threatening to kicked out of the house. Before we go grocery shopping I tell her that she should get the foods that she's asking me for and she says she doesn't eat that kind of stuff but later on she begs me for it. |
Question: My parents stole 150$ dollars from me? Posted: 02 Dec 2018 09:42 AM PST So I recently turned 13, and I have been living with my moms side of my family, because my cousin moved into my house and I got forced to sleep on the floor. after a few months of this going on, my mom noticed and I lived with her and my step dad full time. at my dads side they play favorites pretty heavily, my step mom yells at me non stop and makes me feel like a piece of **** whenever she can, my dad is somewhat fine, but he overreacts and grabs me or one of my brother by the neck and throws us whenever he is mad. as bad of parents as they are (don't say they are good parents, or are using good parenting skills unless you have proper reasoning to go along with it) they had the guts to not only not get me anything for my birthday, but steal all the money I got for my birthday. now I know 150$ isn't a lot, but when it comes to finance, they are ****. Because of this, I do not want to suffer because someone who ive almost cut ties with, got fired from his job because he was a dick to everyone at his work, and is too lazy to get a new job. anyone know how I can get this money back? |
Question: My friend is mad at me for something that s not my fault? Posted: 02 Dec 2018 09:19 AM PST my friend s favorite artist is travis scott, so I agreed to go to his concert with her. We agreed on a set of tickets kinda far back that were about $50 (already pretty expensive for me). without telling me, she sold the tickets and bought more expensive ones near the front (for like $100). When she told me I was surprised that she did without asking me, but I figured since it was her favorite artist I didn t mind paying extra so we could sit closer. For the past three weeks I ve been telling her I can t ask my parents without having a ride(or else it would be an automatic no from them),and she wanted me to uber all the way to Detroit and lie about it to my parents.So today I finally asked my parents if I could go to the concert.Like every time I ask to go to a concert, they asked me to play some of his music to see if they approve. I had forseen this and I asked my friend which songs of his would be appropriate to show my parents. I played the song she suggested, and it was an immediate no from my parents.She was mad at me because I can t go to the concert, but its not my fault that my parents said no. She said I was being dumb because I didn t play the clean version.But my dad looked up the song himself so I didn t know that the explicit version was playing.She s upset because now the concert is three days away, and that no one is gonna want to pay $100for a ticket, but its her fault for not arranging a ride so I couldn t ask sooner and for buying the more expensive tickets also she thinks the whole reason my dad said no was because a couple swear words, but he's let me go to concerts with swearing before, but it's because he disagrees with the whole concept of the songs (doing drugs, sleeping around etc) I like Travis's music and I think it's really catchy and I'm sad I don't get to go to the concert, but I'm even more sad that she's mad at me when I don't think she has a right to be |
Question: I hate my sister. Does this make me a bad person? Posted: 02 Dec 2018 08:59 AM PST My Mom hates her sister also and my Dad loved his elders but neglected them terribly. So this runs in the family. |
Question: Should I say anything? Posted: 02 Dec 2018 08:56 AM PST Ok me and my brother never really got a long tell recently but my mom always tried getting me to see the good in him it's always him just paying for stuff really but money doesn't buy relationships I wanted to tell her for awhile but instead I kind of just let her say it anyway in my head I think we can't force to get a long if it happens it happens if not I don't care I don't think she realizes we been getting a long recently and I sometimes wonder if she tries to make him see the good in me at all not that it would change anything like I said money doesn't buy relationships not for us anyway or should I just keep leave it be? |
Question: Is this true about underage drinking?? Posted: 02 Dec 2018 08:56 AM PST My dad let my cousin (15) try vodka and said that is was actually legal because he was with an adult. He ended up getting super drunk and I had to help take care of him because my dad was drunk too. He still maintains that in the US a child can drink with an adult present as long as they are in private even though his parents have no idea. Is that true??? |
Posted: 02 Dec 2018 08:52 AM PST I have 5 siblings and 3 parents, I'm 4th child and our lives are always unpredictable. I don't talk much, I don't dance, I don't sing, I don't really have that much opinions about things and sometimes I realize that I'm heartless. My 3 older siblings live in a different country and normally when you see your siblings coming home after 3 or 4 years, you're supposed to be happy and you should hug them and miss them...I don't feel anything when they come or when they say they miss me, I just say "me too". Or when we watch a sad movie and everyone or sometimes the whole cinema is crying, I can't cry...there are no tears. The last time I cried for a movie was when a girl lost her cool and just started crying like crazy, like she couldn't take it anymore and no one could calm her down. I feel judged in my family, not literally, I don't know how to explain it...I'm scared of doing something wrong because it will disappoint my family. I feel like they don't listen to me when I speak unless I hug them or talk when no one is around. When I'm out the house, I'm different...I talk, I socialize and I was able to find my own friends and I'm at the top of my class in kung fu. I do have a boyfriend, but it's been long distance for 3 years, but the moments that I was with him were the best moments of my life...my parents don't like him that much and that is why they don't let us be alone together...but we really love each other and never left the other in the dark. what is wrong? |
Question: Is my Mom wrong to give my brother food when he is a drug addict? Posted: 02 Dec 2018 08:42 AM PST She refuses to give him cash anymore but she regularly gives him food now. |
Posted: 02 Dec 2018 08:42 AM PST If it is his and his wife's friends then missing it is no big deal at all. If it is his other siblings, kids, and his siblings' kids with my immediate family the only group excluded then I am devastated. It is a Christmas party on December 22nd. Sometimes my branch of the family is excluded cause of issues my parents have, at the same time I would never invite myself obviously. This is my Mom's brother and I have 15 1st cousins. If they are all there and my brother and I are not then I will be devastated. If the party is just his immediate family and their friends then I could care less. I hate the holidays cause my family is sometimes excluded cause of who my parents are. How do I know if it was a family party and we're excluded vs. just his friends without directly asking where I'd come across as fishing for an invitation. Anonymous: It is a worry I have all year long but I recently learned there is a party, no idea if it is a family party or not. His step-son mentioned it when I saw him at a funeral reception asked if he was living with his Mom and step-father still. Cause of my parents' issues I hadn't seen the step-son since this time last year. |
Question: I'm 24 years old and my parents still shout at me for swearing? Posted: 02 Dec 2018 08:15 AM PST Am I too old to be shouted at by my parents for swearing? |
Question: Parents are Using MY Work Paycheque For Holiday Shopping? Posted: 02 Dec 2018 08:08 AM PST My parents ran out of their money so now theyre taking my paycheque money and using it to go shopping for Christmas. I'm not OK with this and I tried asking for them to pay me after Christmas and they said "No". What should I do? |
Question: How can I help my husband through his grief? Posted: 02 Dec 2018 06:42 AM PST My husband's mother died of cancer when he was 24 or 25, about ten years ago, well before I even met him. He never really talked about her much, but I know it affected him deeply. Recently, his grandfather (his mother's father) passed (old age) and while he was doing all right for a while, he's recently been spiraling into a depressive state that he finally admitted to me was because he had been thinking about his mom and how he wish he had tried to know her better when she was alive. All I could really do was hug him. I don't know how to help him because he's a very private person and bottles a lot up. Part of it is because he's Japanese and was raised with the social stigma that you have to get over your mental issues yourself. I don't think it's helpful to force him to talk but I feel very helpless because he won't talk with me about personal issues unless i get fed up and either yell or cry about my frustrations, which feels very selfish if I'm honest. |
Question: How to deal with a clingy mother in high school? Posted: 02 Dec 2018 06:25 AM PST so i'm 18 years old and a senior in high school. i have a boyfriend of 2 years that has his own apartment and i often visit him for long periods of time on the weekends because school weeks are too busy for me. whenever i leave the house to see him my mom always says how much she misses me, and i'm gone too much, and she does everything in her power to get us to hang out over at my house. but the thing is, we have NO privacy in our house. i share a room with my sister and my mom makes us keep the door open because it's a "rule for when boys are over". but she's aware that we are behind a "closed door" at his place so i really don't see the issue, especially since we are legally two adults. i don't want to get into specific examples, but she acts like she misses me so much when i'm gone that it's started to feel like obsession. she cries all the time about it to me and has these mood swings. i thought it might be menopause but i asked my friends and they said that their mothers don't behave this way, or to that extent. i love her, but the more she pushes for me to be around her, the farther away i want to be from her. she makes me hate being at home in general. i just need some advice, please. i don't know how to talk to her without making her cry. |
Question: My step daughter is making bad choices! Any advice!? Posted: 02 Dec 2018 05:58 AM PST Both my wife and myself live with my 20 year old step daughter! She quit college away from home to move back with the promise she would go back to school this summer! Now she says she doesn't know what she wants to do! She work's part time for a minimum wage paying job and the rest of the time she is partying with a bad crowd who drinks and smokes pot! All minors! Sometimes she does not even come home! Whenever anyone tries to talk to her, she starts shouting and starts having a tantrum, saying we treat her like a child! I am getting her a much better paying job and now she tell's me she can't pass a drug test! I am so angry at her! I snapped at her this weekend and now she is going to stay with her father this week! She acts like a little brat! She is getting out of control! She has no respect for her mother and I am just about ready to lay my cards down with her! Give her an altermadem! Don't get me wrong, she is a good kid and I love her very much! It just hurts me ! |
Question: How do I convince my parents to hire a maid? Posted: 02 Dec 2018 05:06 AM PST I need someone to help with the chores, help me with homework, and do the yardwork. I'm a 14 yo male |
Question: My mom makes me do extra homework? Posted: 02 Dec 2018 05:01 AM PST I'm in AP Macro. I have a 97 average, higher than all the other students. Every week, we need to read a couple chapters in our textbook, watch some of the teacher's lecture videos, and maybe prepare for a quiz. Well last year I got a 3 in AP Physics 1. She wants me to succeed, so she gives me extra homework. I have to do the problems in the back of the book, and watch online videos and do their practice exercises. She's Asian, and this is over the limit. Everyone else in my class just does the required homework and is done. How do I get her to STOP GIVING ME EXTRA HOMEWORK? THIS MAKES ME HATE HER! |
Question: Do other black do the same? Posted: 02 Dec 2018 04:33 AM PST When the census bureau comes around and those letters start to show up were you also trained to lie on them? Like I'm a 25 black guy and own a 5br 3br 3 car garage half million dollar house , drive a masarati coup and make a decent amount of money even though I only have a hs diploma but when the census comes around I say that I am below poverty, no hs and pretty much cookie cutter make less than 20k a year . Do you guys do the same when it comes around that way the left hand never finds out what the right hand is doing ??? Ya know what I mean ? |
Question: Is this just me or ? Posted: 02 Dec 2018 04:20 AM PST |
Question: My step daughter always listens to my son? Posted: 02 Dec 2018 02:39 AM PST well i am glad that my 13 yr old step daughter and19 year old son get along....but my step daughter is really headstrong!! she will never listen to her mom or me even if we are stern or angry...she always gets her way with us. but she will always listen to my son. such a simple instance is this...a few days back we were at the dinner table i was asking her to eat her veges and she was not ready to have them instead she sat there ignoring me and drinking her juice...that moment my son came in and he had heard us and he said ," sam, ur not getting up until u clean ur plate" she just looked at him and ate everything immediately without complaining...this was not the only time there are a lot of other instances!! even when we put restrictions on her she wont listen to us but when my son says she follows....moreover she goes and tells him her marks even if they are bad even when she knows he will be More mad than me or her mom....i don't understand this relationship of theirs its hardly been a year since they know each other..... once thought maybe my son is abusing her emotionally or blackmailing so i confronted him about it and we had a long talk but that's nt the case....why do they behave this way? |
Question: A teenager is anyone between age 14-17? Posted: 02 Dec 2018 01:41 AM PST |
Posted: 02 Dec 2018 12:34 AM PST I drive 70mi every day to&from college. Boyfriend goes to same college so my parents let him stay some weeks in Aug&Sept to make it easier. Since I got my job in June my parents have been askin for money¬ payin back. When he stayed with us he saw what they do&it pissed him off. He told me to just tell them No but I never stood up for myself b/c I was tryin to help my 7yr/old brother. Boyfriend had been stayin like 3 weeks when my dad said that it had been too long but I could go stay at his house so it wouldnt be too hard still. We tried that for 2 weeks&it wasnt bad but one day my dad said that I need to stop spendin so much time with my boyfriend. I was upset&confused but I said Okay. My boyfriend was pissed off&posted on Facebook about how my dad bums off me&doesnt treat me with respect. He didnt put names but it was still disrespectful. When my dad saw it he told me that I couldnt see him anymore. So Ive been sneakin around&lyin about where Im goin. My boyfriend&I get a lot of money from college so we've been talkin about gettin an apartment&lettin my friend movein with us to help with rent&stuff. Now were goin to have the apartment by the end of the week&I dont know how to tell my parents Im movin out. I hope since my friend will be livin with us that it won't be too much of a fuss but Im not sure. Livin in their house has left me depressed. I need to tell them that Im movin out without them shuttin me out. Theyre goin to need me to watch my 7yr/old brother sometimes |
Question: My dad caught me lip syncing lol? Posted: 01 Dec 2018 11:14 PM PST So it's like midnight right now and I was lip syncing to songs with my headphones in while looking at my reflection in my screen. I was doing it for a while until I turned around and saw my dad just watching me and dying of laughter. I guess my music was pretty loud because I had no idea he was there. So I freaked out and he started laughing even more. He just left and was still laughing as he left my room to go tell my mom. I'm sooo embarrassed right now and am cringing so hard. I have no idea how long he was watching me. How the heck do I face him in the morning?? |
Posted: 01 Dec 2018 10:09 PM PST I ignored him for 3 days, at this point is it still best to message him back? He only messaged me once and that was it so I feel it's not that big of a deal since he's not trying to text me a million times. We only knew each other for a week btw |
Question: How to kick someone out your house lol? Posted: 01 Dec 2018 10:07 PM PST Hey guys, so I need some help. Recently, my mom has invited her friend to our house, and she stays downstairs. She has been at our house every day for over 6+ hours, and it is really annoying. I'm not able to go downstairs because I wear boxers around the house (who doesnt), so if I want to eat something, I got to just wait. Because I gotta keep my boxers on for DDD. I'm okay with people staying at our house, my sister and I invite our friends occasionally. But, she has been staying for what I feel like far too long, and I do not want this to be a normal thing because it is uncomfortable for my sister and I to have a stranger in the house every day. This person also is a vegan and wants a TV show and to be a nutritionist, I do not know if she even is qualified for that, but whatever. I am severely annoyed that she does not even attempt to get a small apartment, I am pretty sure she is jobless and although has a degree of some sort, wont even get a job at McDonalds to at least make some money. When she's around, my mom uses a fake personality. My mom is very rude to my sister and I, and has lowered our self esteems ever since I passed third grade. My mom is another story though. Anyways, when my mom makes food, she just shouts at us if we don't come down, but does not do this when we're alone. I hate it, and I want to just put this out that well, I want her to try atleast to get a freelance job and make atleast some money. I hate word limits, I have more to say but cant. |
Question: Muslim girl in love with a christian boy with parents not accepting help? Posted: 01 Dec 2018 10:06 PM PST Ive known this boy for years, We have beem best friends for years and have fallen for eachother so much. Hes the most loving and caring person that has been there for me through everything that my own parents havent. I come from a strict muslim family but with divorced parents but live with my dad. The boy is a devoted christian but respects and loves islam. My parents dont want me around him just because hes a christian boy. Just because of that. I cant talk to them without them screaming at me and acting as im a bad person that has brought shame to the family. The boy is very innocent and im scared what my dad would do if I even tried having him meet him. Ive already met his family and they are so loving and welcoming! His mom always checks up on me and wishes she can meet my family but they wont let me love. They want their ideal muslim boy.They even tried to have me meet this boy they thought was so wonderful until we found out he is a very bad person. I know I was born into islam but evsn since I was little ive been so open to other religons and love christians more than I love my own people ! Ive been scared to convert because i know how my parents will just have a heart attack. Honest to god , I love my religon and respect and love all religons but I reallt really love this boy and did not expect it. Its hard to just now follow my parents orders and run off with him because we are not married yet and his parents would still want to meet mime first so we are trapped :( |
Posted: 01 Dec 2018 09:49 PM PST Hi, i'm a 18 year old freshman in a community college and I was wondering how to handle this situation. I recently got financial aid from my school. My family isn't wealthy, but we aren't dirt poor either. I got $3,000 in financial aid from my school, and my parents decided to take about $2,300 from it. They said I had two choices, give them the money or that I would pay rent and bills and do my own laundry and all that stuff. There basically was no choice as that's all the money I had so I would be giving it to them anyways, so I gave it to them. They let me keep $500, and then they told me if I would be able to pay $300 for the internet and electricity bill. They said they would pay me back the next week so I said yes. Then they never paid me back. So I kept $200 which I used for food. If I try to tell them that they haven't paid me back, they'll use their old excuse about how I have a place to stay and food so they're paying me back that way. I want to transfer to a university in 2 years and don't want to be a broke college student, so i'd like to save up and be prepared so when I transfer, i'm not eating ramen noodles everyday. I get another $3,000 in financial aid in January and was wondering how should I go about telling them that I need to save it for later? I don't mind paying bills here but I don't have a job so I don't have a steady income. If I did have money I wouldn't even be living here anymore. Thanks in advance. |
Question: My husband uses his dog for disciplining our kids. What do I do? Posted: 01 Dec 2018 09:48 PM PST My husband and I are separate atm (going on 4 months) but we each alternate weeks with the kids to keep the peace. Lately, my 12, 15 and 17y/o have been showing up with scratches, bruises and marks saying they are from their dad's dog (he's a doberman). At first I thought the dog.was just being aggressive with the kids but when i asked why they dont just tell their dad, they say he's the one that tells the dog to attack them. They described instances like chores not being done, late for meal times, not ready for school and staying up to late at things that get the Brock set on them. My husband says Brockmis sweet and has trained him well, that he would never do any real damage to the kids and that this method works for him. Then guilt tripped me about telling him how to run his household. I dont mean to step on his toes but I really disagree with his method and worry that his dog might go too far and actually hurt one of my babies. Am I out of line, should I drop this or what should I do??? |
Question: Does my dad still have to pay child support? Posted: 01 Dec 2018 09:28 PM PST My dad has been paying child support for years now for me and my sis.my sister is 21 now so she's off of it. We live with our mom.if I decided to go live with my grandparents .will the court decide he keeps his money. |
Question: My parents won’t let me go on a field trip to Washington D.C. how do I make them let me? Posted: 01 Dec 2018 07:36 PM PST I'm in 8th grade and there is gonna be a field trip to Washington D.C. soon, it's a 2 day field trip we will stay there for 2 days and it's $1500 dollars but my parents won't pay what what should I do my friends are going and I want to also go how do I what should I tell them to let me go I want to go please what should I say |
Question: Careless grandma that wants attention after 20 years - yes or no? Posted: 01 Dec 2018 06:59 PM PST My in-laws have NEVER been in our family lives. Never cared about their son since he got married (they accepted me fine and organised the whole wedding against our will, but ok we let them do it). Never bothered calling, dropping in, coming over for a holiday or just on the way somewhere... Met grandkids (accidentally bumped into us at the shops) three times - they are now 18 and 16 years old. Grandma sent them Birthday cards for a few years and small gifts valued at not more than $10 max! That was it! They live on a property about an hour drive from us. Neither of the in-laws works. They have a farm where workers are employed to do most of the jobs and travel overseas in off season. They're quite wealthy really. We struggled for many years to get on our feet, build a house and get kids through school. We did it. Without their help EVER! My hubby kept inviting them over and offering to pick them up and drop them off back home, but they were t interested. Now kids are growing up. In-laws got divorced and mother is living alone. She recently called my hubby and said it'd be lovely to meet as OUR CHILDREN NO LONGER NEED OUR CONSTANT ATTENTION and we can leave them somewhere. I was furious! Hubby too. We didn't go so she called again upping us for ignoring her invite. OMG! After 20 years of ignoring all of us this woman means nothing to me! How would you handle this? |
Posted: 01 Dec 2018 06:49 PM PST I am not sure if the attempted drowning was meant to tease him or if it was because the nephew was hyper and moody and the uncle got mad. Either way he never went to jail for trying to kill his nephew and the family carried on like nothing happened. This man abused his own kids and was the worst racist who ever lived. In his later years he has softened since his rotten 1st wife died. She was evil. I have met him a few times at reunions but mostly just know of him through the horror stories. He died last year. |
Posted: 01 Dec 2018 06:44 PM PST Only violence was when he broke stuff in the house with his 1st wife. |
Posted: 01 Dec 2018 06:41 PM PST I went away for Thanksgiving so I wouldn't have to see the rotten man but won;t be so lucky at Christmas since I don't want to be alone for the holiday. Our toxic father causes us to not be able to see the extended family as they all see through to his true colors. He is an evil liar. |
Question: Is it Strange that I(18) don't "know" my sister(38)? Posted: 01 Dec 2018 06:36 PM PST My parents were kind of old when they had me (around 50s) and my sister was 20 at the time. She has a family now, lives about 2 hrs away and might as well be a stranger to me. Sometimes she'll send me chain messages on facebook or random pinterest pins, idk if that's her way of trying to build a bond but to be the only siblings either of us have we act more like strangers who happen to bump into each other a few times. She does have a daughter, 5 mo. older than me, so bc of the age gap and that she could technically be my mother too, should I consider our relationship "healthy/normal" or should we be trying to grow closer? She also visits my mother maybe once a yr if that, so I never see her physically either. People teased my mom a lot for "starting all over again" and "getting caught in the changes" since she was a little too old to have me, so while my sister is a mother, she's very much so not my mother. She has 4 of her own kids, so idk if this affects how she sees me (her oldest is 5 mo. older, then 16, 13 and 2) |
Question: Advice if you’ve got it on parent related issues? Posted: 01 Dec 2018 06:23 PM PST so my mother and I never really got along the greatest but we're having some issues and I don't know what to do. i still live with my mom because I'm 17 but anyways i work at a grocery store and she often asks me to buy stuff for her and normally I do, out of pocket even though she has a whole *** job. this past time I asked her if she could give me some money for it and this is what she says "Ok nevermind Avery. I will transfer YOUR money back as is. Do not pick up the things I asked for I will take care of it myself!! U should really think about this conversation & the way u have handled it! I'm done talking with u" I only have another year I need to put up with this but idk what to do. This was almost two days ago and she is still not talking to me or my brother. Sometimes I think she is bipolar and idk how to react |
Question: I'm really depressed? Posted: 01 Dec 2018 05:38 PM PST I was born a micro preemie, with a 90 percent chance of being blind. My right eye unfortunately did not make it, leaving me with, thankfully one eye. I have been struggling with my vision for years. I have been trying to make it, but now it's getting depressing. I will never be able to drive. I am fifteen, and everyone else is getting their permits. They are talking about it in front of me. They don't know. I also have two projects to do. I have nothing else. I don't get to see concerts, or go out with friends, or anything. I am stuck at home, all weekend, every weekend, working. From the time I get up, tp the time I go to bed. No video games, no playing outside, nothing. are up. Work. Sleep. Repeat. I just need help. My dad has recommended a psychologist, but I don't know if that will help. Thank you to anyone who can help me. Just to clarify, Wake up. Work. Sleep. Repeat. Sorry about the typo. I'm not blind. I can read anything, and see almost as well as "normal peopl" What I don't have though is a social life. I can't play games, or do anything else for leisure except work. I go to a private school, but everyone else seems to be doing fun things, and the worst part is that they post on Snapchat and Instagram about how much fun they're having. I think the only thing I'm allowed to do on weekends is work, while my brother who is two years younger, aged 14 can do whatever he wants. |
Posted: 01 Dec 2018 05:25 PM PST Can a therapist treat 2 children from the same family (brother and sister) with back to back sessions and have have the sisters boyfriend (who is also a patient) go to sessions with the sister who are both 16? |
Question: How to deal with cousins jealous of your academic success and career? Posted: 01 Dec 2018 05:07 PM PST I just don't get why my family members on my mom's side don't like my mom or anyone of us. They are also successful so i just don't understand the jealousy. What can I do to bring them closer to us? |
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Question: Do you think he has an std? Posted: 01 Dec 2018 03:31 PM PST My younger cousin was a nerd growing up until puberty finished and he started going to the gym. Hes like the family's version of James Bond always traveling always dressed to impress and I always see him with gorgeous women in pictures on social media. But after almost 20 years of this... do you think he has a std? |
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