Last week my husband said he wants a divorce and that i should move on and be with someone. Now that i have stop calling him as much and just been working and taking care of home. He calls me to see what im doing and where i am. He sleep next to me and ask for sex. He tells me that he dont want me to find someone else. And then the next minute he say he still want to seperate. Tonight i worked some over time and he called my phone asking me why I wasnt home. Can someone explain what is his case.I am confused. When i approach him about fixing our marriage he put on this super man persona and say he doesn't know he just dont know etc.

My husband randomly starts stupid fights. we can be having a good time just sitting here with our son, then out of no where, he starts an argument. Tonight, for example, I was making my 10month old laugh.. it was a pure whole heartily laugh. I was tickling his back and working my way up to the top Of his head and he loved it ! Wouldn't stop laughing. I did it about 4 Times. Then, when I was done I went to hug my husband and it was fine for about 2 minutes.. then BAM, he says don't keep making him laugh that much like you was doing. I said why not ? He said "when I laugh that much I get a bad headache from it." All I said was he's fine. Then he flipped like listen to what the f**k I'm saying, you never listen to me blah blah. All from me making my son laugh. Question is.. is making a baby laugh to much no good? This may be a stupid question, however I'm also sick of him starting pointless fights randomly 😐

I've been married 2 years. Been together for 10. I cook dinner for my wife all the time. Its just normal for us. Never once have I talked about it with others or shared it on Facebook. I see posts on Facebook where someone will post something along the lines of "my husband cooked dinner today! I am so spoiled and blessed to be with this man." Then about 30+ comments saying he deserves brownie points, he's amazing, she the luckiest woman in the world just because he cooked dinner one time. Do men not cook? I just figure it's 2017. Men and women should be sharing responsibilities.

I feel bad but I am getting really jealous of my mother-in-law and I don't know how to handle the situation. She knows that on weekdays me and my husband only have one hour together due to I work days and he works nights, she calls eveyday right at 6p, the start of our hour, and if he does not answer or tells her he will call her back, she says to him " you don't wanna talk your mom that dying of cancer, you never know the cancer may kill me tonight." I am getting a little sick of it, other then the weekend, I not got any time with him in 2 weeks due to this, and I just seeking assistance in handling this.

He was communicating with this woman for a couple of weeks. In the texts, he would compliment her looks, personality, and intelligence. They would speak about their day & I found out he had been into her for more than a year, but for some reason nothing happened between the two until a few months ago. She did not know about me. She later found out & told him she does have feelings for him but wouldn't want to be with him. He said he really likes her and would want to keep talking, but she said to leave her alone. They haven't spoken to each other for months, but I know they bumped into each other a week ago. Long story short, he was just staring at her, ignored her, then got moody. He told me that he didn't mean those things he told her and that she didn't mean anything to him. He just did it for female attention because he was at a low point. If he really wanted her, he would have been with her since early on in their conversations & left me, he said. I believed him and many people and in other forums have told me and other women, that men can lie like that to the "other woman" to get sex or attention, but that their wives/gf's are who they go home to and actually love and want to be with. 1. Was she meaningless as he said and loves me? 2. His reaction to seeing her again; is it because he despises her or because he's hurt because he has feelings for her and is not with her? 3. Does it seem like he'd rather be with her? He seems content with me

Me and my wife have been married 11 years we have 3 kids 2 are mine from a previous marriage and a relationship. She got pregnant last year but had a miscarriage due to having an IUD. She was very upset she still is even a year later also our youngest son who will be 8 next week he was really disappointed. He's wanting a brother or a sister so badly. My two kids are older one is 26 he's moved out he lives with his fiance now the other one is 22 he still lives at home he has a job so he's hardly home anymore. Should we have another baby ? She's 25 I'm 44

I'm 21 single and cant see myself ever getting married. Being legally obligated to another human is a scary thought, also I like my freedom. It seems most end up getting married though. should I accept my fate of being a bachelor forever?

My husband hides his phone and puts it down when I face him. He leaves his phone out a lot and lets me use it for calling, flashlight, etc. I'm confused? Help? Men??? (I know he watches porn (idc) and has old pics of his ex and stuff..)

wondering if women do so by maybe deciding not to get married to the person or divorce. I swear knowing one who if anything was cheated on by her ex soon to be husband or husband but still wears a diamond ring like ring but isn't with anyone atm either to be the case of being engaged..

Its alright that they do that... no hate ofc but it's weird seeing how most white girls would rather date outside their race than within their race. So what are they reason they generally prefer other races?

I am married to a wonderful man who I love deeply and unconditionally. He's told me that the thing he loves most about me is how unwavering my love for him is; that no matter what life throws at us, he can always count on my love to be the same. This means a lot to me, but unfortunately I can't say the same about him. My husband's love and the quality of our communication is ever-changing based completely on his mood. When he's happy and healthy, he loves me wildly. His sexual appetite is through the roof and he showers me with compliments. When he's tired, conversation needs to be dragged out of him. When he's in pain (he has back problems) he hardly speaks to me, doesn't want to be around me. It all changes in a flash too and it has nothing to do with me - it's all based on how he's feeling. I've spoken to him about this before. I told him that it upsets me that I can love him unconditionally regardless and show him the same affection whether I've just had the best day of my life or the absolute worst day of my life, but he can't do the same. It hurts that I'm always at his mercy; sometimes no matter what I do it's not good enough if he's in pain or tired or feeling down about himself. He has the comfort in knowing I will always be here for him but I have to worry that he's going to push me away anytime life gives us lemons. I love him so I want to make this work. How do I deal with being at the mercy of his mood? Any advice is appreciated.

I am good looking and slim. Due to religious and cultural reasons I never had sex and waited for marriage. But marriage never happened. How can i keep calm. I feel i am going mental. Please help who are similar situation like me.

My wife is very secretive of her phone and hides it from me. She didn't use to do this until about a year ago. She'll deliberately hide it on top of the fridge, under towels, or in other odd places so I don't see it even though I don't go looking for it. Whenever she gets a text she'll turn her body or go in another room. She changed her password to her phone as well. She is not secretive of her other possessions like her computer. She also leaves sometimes at 8:00 pm to go to the "gym" or gets up at 2 am to go "watch TV" in the other room. I have confronted her about it multiple times and she still just says she doesn't want me to see it. I let it go b/c I don't want to seem insecure or exacerbate problems. She is caring and loving and we get along well and I don't think she is cheating. I told her I think we should be transparent with each other especially since we're married but it has not worked.

We live together. I love her a lot but am not thinking 20 years from now like she alwaya is or shes stuck on her bad ex from years ago and gets really insucure, negative, deoressing, and high strung. Financially we are a team hut idk.. I habe plans abd ambitions. Shes not as motivated as I am with go grab life attitude. So I just want to focus on life right now and taje it for what it is...shes really pressuring me and constantky questioning my love, and if I will leave. She wants to he lovey dovey 24/7 too and it gets boring. "Accept me for me" thing and live like a slob. So thats the negative part. The positive is she loves me unconditionally and accepts me for me. Shes acting like marry me or dont waste my time but then says she cant live without me. Idk. I might want kids someday. I just want to enjoy christmas. I even rejected a new computer because my kom wants me to move back in and does not approve of this relationship. I rejected a brand new computer and am now questioning my situation. My mom and family were verbally abusive and physically to me so I got away. Any advice? I might marry my gf later on but not out of desperation or a comfort zone.

I've already filled a parenting plan of my own giving the father generous visitation in his home 4 days a week. That isn't enough for him. The baby is only 3 months old and im breastfeeding. She's been doing very well but the father yells at me saying that me feeding the baby isn't a good reason for him to not have her whenever he wants. I've been beyond nice to him and he treats me like I'm absolute garbage. He skips child support payments claiming he doesn't owe me anything. Is it possible for him to just get joint custody and I get some physical custody and keep it to visitation? He also spends time with druggies and refuses to work a job that's more than 2 days a week. What are the odds of me getting sole physical custody in wv?

The woman is pregnant and wants to keep the child. She is quite young so I don't understand why she would want to keep it. I told her I refused to help her raise that baby because I already have a kid with my wife. She wants me to leave my wife and move her into my home so we could raise the baby together. I told her she was absolutely insane for even thinking of something like that. I'm in a no-win situation here. What can I do?

How much contact is OK? I don't want to bother her while she is staying at her parents, but I miss her and if it were up to me, I would keep her on the phone 24/7

Let's say you are long distance would you move to be closer to her ? And let's say you don't like the place where she lives at all, would you still move ?

My husband has always had this idea that sex feels better for women than men and it bothers him to the point where sex has been a thorn in our 10 year marriage. I make sure he is satisfied and give him anything he asks for but it doesnt seem to solve his issue. I am at my wits-end and dont know what to tell him or how to help him anymore. Is this a common issue or is he being somewhat of a brat?

My husband gets off work at 5:00 pm, and always comes straight home and is usually here by around 5:45 depending on traffic, but where i live, right now its 1:25 am and he still isnt here yet, and i have called his phone like 20 times and it rings for the full 30 seconds and then goes to voicemail, and he ALWAYS answers his phone, he isnt mad at me or the kids, he has our only car too, which i doubt is broke down on the side of the road considering its a 2012 Subaru Legacy with like 60k or so miles on it so not a car that should break, im really worried should i call the police? Id like to say hes probably at a friends house or something but he has no friends and, he texts and drives ALOT so im afraid he crashed. Am i paranoid? Should i call the cops? Please dont call me a troll im not trolling im just really really worried that something bad happened this is so un-like him. Thanks for any thoughts.

I work alot of hours and make decent money but with her spending habits we are broke all the time.

What can I do? Should I text him?

He wants one ASAP and for the past month we were actually trying. But the more I think about bringing a child into the picture the more I'm realizing how lazy (everything in life is a hassle unless its playing video games. Literally can't even take care of his own cat. Only cares about sports and sitting on his butt) and immature he is (works at a grocery store and thinks i need to appreciate him more for spending an extra 15 minutes at work shopping for our dinner a few times a week. Wtf. Never does anything helpful because he "works all week" and every second not working he needs to be relaxing. Uhh huh? ) How do I explain that he needs to grow up a lot more before we keep doing this?? He's going to FLIP OUT.

Does my husband really love me? He would always stand against me, disrespect me infron of others, and hangout with our enemies. For example, I m little chubby and when people make fun of the way I look he would join their coversation and laugh about me. BUT, if i tried to talk about someone infront of him he would get mad and make a huge deal. Another example is when I tell him not to let my step mothet in he would ignore me and let her in. And when I ask him why he s doing all that , he said that I m seen things.

It was six months ago or so. Me and my now wife were staying in her car at a homeless shelter. It was a pretty social place so we were there all the time. At one point a guy named dusty had gotten out of jail and came by. He knew my fiance and came to see her. He showed obvious interest in her and I knew what he wanted. So a week or so in of him stopping by just to see her she asked me to stay at my mom's that night. This wasn't uncommon because I sometimes couldn't sleep in her car and I would sleep there. The next night me, my fiance, and our friend mark were sitting out back playing cards. He had just come from a nearby bar and was tipsy. But he was a respectful person and I've seen him drink before. But this time he made about four sexual comments to my fiance. One was, "so you like to spread your legs," of course my fiance seemed nervous and avoiding the comments, and I didn't think much of it because he was like a father to her. I had a pit in my stomach that she cheated on me a few times, but that time in particular I was very suspicious since mark livd in his car there too. Sometimes she was urge me for sex and make sure we were trying for a child and I started to think she was doing it as a just in case she got pregnant from someone else. I'm just looking for an opinion since I have this pit in my stomach, and a growing fear she would cheat on me if given the chance Thanks in advance.

We always fight about his family. They are controlling and tells him what to do . they feel like they got to be involved In every little thing he does and at times it gets annoying. I don't want to seem like I'm being dramatic but just recently his dad debated that he starts picking him up from work everyday because he lost his car.me n my husband lives 30 minutes away I just find it ridiculous that he had to travel 3o mins to his dad job then to his dad house then another 30 mins from his house to ours. Sometimes if I have something planned with my husband I have to wait to do it with gim because ge has to get his dad. He still see nothing wrong because our plans get done its just I dont like the fact I have to revolve my plans around his father work schedule am I being misunderstanding? Or wrong?

My husband and I are torn between which home to purchase. They are both new construction houses. House #1 is closer to our parents and more convenient to shopping/restaurants/major highways but the town overall isn't the greatest. My parents would be less than 5 minutes away and my mom would be available occasionally to help with the kids. The lot is smaller (0.35 acre) with some trees. House #2 is in a more upscale area with more young families with little kids for our kids to play with but is farther away from everything (20-25 mins from my parents and shopping). The second home is a great price and a better financial investment as the area is on the upswing. The lot is larger (0.5 acre) with no trees. We are planning on sending to private school regardless of which home. What do you think is the better buy? Thanks!

We live in a small town about 25 miles from a major city. I work as an accountant at a manufacturing plant about 2 miles away. We are expecting a baby in April, after which my wife will be a SAHM, at least for a little while. My work schedule is an irregular Noon-10 PM Monday-Thursday, and 12-5 on Friday. Pay is good, but the benefits are outstanding. My work schedule also allows me to get stuff done in the AM, go to the gym, etc. before the workday. It also gets me off at 4 on Fridays, requires little overtime work, and it's only a 5 minute commute. My wife wants me to get a job that has more regular 8-5 hours. Most of those jobs are in the city, which is more than an hour commute each way every day. Benefits also wouldn't be as good, vacation time more meager, and such jobs require much more frequent overtime. Thus, I'd be home by 7:30 on a GOOD day, 9 on a bad day. I'd be spending an additional 10-12 hours each week commuting, and an average of 5-7 working. That's nearly 20 hrs per week more time. AND I'd have to leave the house by 6:30 AM, so no time in the mornings to get stuff done. How do I convince her that switching jobs would not be a good idea for ANY of us. Not just for myself, but also for her. Also, some of these jobs require frequent travel, which means not only will I not be home until 10:15 PM, I may not be home at all, and that may be the case for several weeks out of the year, sometimes with little time to prepare. My wife's family lives less than 10 miles away. Her mom retired years ago, and her sister is a SAHM (but the child is now in school), so she will have help within reach.