Friends: Question: How do I balance my boyfriend with my bff? |
- Question: How do I balance my boyfriend with my bff?
- Question: My friends says I give everyone the vibe that they're beneath me?
- Question: What does it mean when my bf says yes ma'am?
- Question: ...i don’t know what to say to my old friend. help?
- Question: I feel like a loser, please help????
- Question: Should I forgive my bully?
- Question: Why do some hate me before liking me?
- Question: My friend died in Iraq 12 days ago and I feel kinda guilty. Any advice?
- Question: How to leave a supportive message for a guy freind whose been broken up lately?
- Question: Is it ok to follow her?
- Question: How to deal with bullying?
- Question: Why do people hate me for getting good grades ?
- Question: How should I respond to this?
- Question: What should me and my friend do/?
- Question: Is calling someone an idiot a joke?
- Question: Do you think my best friend may be feeling the same way I am?? Or what do you think this means? Advice?? Thank you!!?
- Question: I like my friend's best friend?
- Question: "Okay so there's this girl...I'm confused....help me!!"?
- Question: This girl at school hates me and I don't know why?
- Question: This girl I like made the basketball team I'm happy for her but I didn't make the team I'm mad?
- Question: What does it mean when someone keeps staring and smiling at you?
- Question: Best friend with sick husband acting cold and distant. What should I do?
- Question: What can do? I want to change my situation but how?
- Question: Deferred Adjudication, successfully completed everything a few years ago. Got two years of school left, what fields should i steer towards?
- Question: Is it rude to ignore girls that give you attention ?
- Question: My best guy friend likes me as more than friends....?
- Question: How to be friendly?
- Question: How do I become friends with everyone?
- Question: My friends made me feel embarrassed about going vegetarian, what should I do? Should I just ignore them?
- Question: Is this girl trolling my friend?
- Question: Can you hang out when you are tired? Please tell me. In the case of lover and a close friends and an ordinary friends.?
- Question: I knocked my best friend out and gave him a black eye?
- Question: I knocked out one of my best friends and gave him a black eye.?
- Question: Taking my girl best friend to Hawaii?
- Question: How should I behave with him?
- Question: Is it cause of me following them?
- Question: How is it possible to PM a person on face book and that person is not added as a friend yet?
- Question: How do I deal with a spoilt "friend"?
- Question: I love him so much! I hate see him go? We are not talking/seeing each other. What should I think? Do?
- Question: How to deal with a friend who talks over you all the time?
- Question: My best friends dad hit on me what should I do?
- Question: How come when I'm popping is the only time they see me?
- Question: My friend found out I lied about something..?
- Question: Am I unreasonable? it’s snowing outside & my bf/housemate is at home with a car, she will pick her bf from the bar at midnight but not me?
- Question: Im being bullied at school?
- Question: Can anyone give me some life advice?
- Question: Should I end my friendship?
- Question: Why do some people have such an aversion to reality?
- Question: How do I go about this?
- Question: Another quiestion, what can i do?
- Question: I am being called an snitch?
- Question: What was the most memorable thing a patient has said while drifting into sleep under anesthesia?
- Question: Group project and not getting my fair share? Please help me?
- Question: My friends are embarassed to be around me?
- Question: Should I create a support group chat? If so, what should I say in a post to recruit people?
- Question: I am having major friend group trouble...?
- Question: What should you do when your brother is talking bad about your best friend?
- Question: What’s a funny response to this?
| Question: How do I balance my boyfriend with my bff? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 05:47 PM PST I used to live with my bff and then my boyfriend s house burnt down. Then he moved in with us. Then after about a year, my bff quit her job she hated but then had a hard time finding a new job. So she went broke and she moved out and moved into her parents house. So now it s just me and him. I feel like ever since, balancing time with both of them has been a nightmare. Me and him are super busy through the week (his 2 jobs and my job plus school) and so the weekends are my only time to see him and/or my friends (plus clean my house). Every Friday and sunday night I eat with my friends and boyfriend. So how do I balance my week? Saturday is my only real time with anyone alone. And Sunday mornings. |
| Question: My friends says I give everyone the vibe that they're beneath me? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 05:39 PM PST Background information: I'm 20 years old, a junior in college, transferring to a top state school in a month. That fact is relevant because I feel like it is a major factor in this situation. I've been told by people that I'm a pretty humble person, and I feel like I'm nice to everybody. My friend however told me that I send out vibes that I'm better than everybody. I have no idea what she's talking about. I realize how old I am and how immature all of this sounds. I just care what people think about me and this is really bothering me. I asked her why she thinks that and she said it's just the vibe I give off. So how am I supposed to fix it if she gave me nothing solid, you know? Frustrates the heck out of me. Part of me feels like it's because I'm going to a prestigious school in a month, where as she dropped out of college and works at kwik trip. What do you guys think? Is it wrong to be sending out "vibes that I'm better"? |
| Question: What does it mean when my bf says yes ma'am? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 05:36 PM PST |
| Question: ...i don’t know what to say to my old friend. help? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 05:01 PM PST i have been wanting to message my friend (who's not really a friend anymore) after i just found out she is officially dating someone new. i'm happy for her and i want to see if she's doing well. however, considering i forgot to unfollow her from instagram... (kind of creepy, but i forget things a lot) and it's kind of my fault we grew apart (i got amad at her for some petty reason and just avoided her, and we had a few fights after that) i don't want to come off as creepy & weird... how should i message her? maybe through a friend of both of ours? should i just be straight up? it's hasnt been years since we talked, but i really need a friend to talk to : even it's for one minute. perhaps you can help me write a letter or something of the sorts...? |
| Question: I feel like a loser, please help???? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 04:44 PM PST My name is Austin and I'm 21, there's a guy who is kind of a friend. We used to go to school together and whenever he sees me he always talks to me. But today I saw him at the gym and he was with his friends but he didnt even say anything to me. We walked right past me and I felt like a complete loser. Any advice please??????? I have a lot of anxiety soo this is really bothering me :( |
| Question: Should I forgive my bully? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 04:40 PM PST I'm in 8th grade and this one kid has been bullying me since sixth grade. He just started to leave me alone. Some people keep saying I'm being stuck up for not forgiving him, telling me people make mistakes, etc. He would spread rumors of my being lesbian, try to hit me, call me hoe, slut, etc., even say he was going to kill me and a bunch of other crap. The school did nothing, so my "friends" think it wasn't that bad. Should I forgive him? |
| Question: Why do some hate me before liking me? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 04:28 PM PST PPL always hate me or rude to me before even getting to know me. After getting to know me they are nice to me. But why would someone be rude to someone they dont know or never seen before getting to know them??? |
| Question: My friend died in Iraq 12 days ago and I feel kinda guilty. Any advice? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 03:01 PM PST My friend died 12 days ago in Iraq. He was 20 years old. He died on a monday. That same day,not knowing yet about him obviously I went to my friend Sarah's birthday party. I had so much fun and basically half of my graduating class was there. I graduated high school last year and after graduation my friend decided he wanted to serve America and become a soldier. Before he left we all gathered him and I wanted to tell him I loved him but since I was kinda ashamed to tell it in front of everyone else I didn't. I thought he would come back. My point is that I feel kinda guilty about not telling him and I also feel kinda guilty that while I was having fun he was giving his life so that we can all live free. God it's so weird to think he's not coming back. Any advice? |
| Question: How to leave a supportive message for a guy freind whose been broken up lately? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 02:45 PM PST Hello everyone I ve got a guy friend for this very long time. I loved him once. I still love him but in a very different way. Not romamtically any more. His heart has been broken lately. He looks sad. That makes me really sad too but I went totaly blank when he was telling me he has broken up and couln t really say much to emphasize with him. I like to be supportive. I like to offer my help. I thought to leave him a message and tell him I m there if he ever wants to talk to some one. Still I don t want to talk in a way as if I am trying to use this situation for my benefits because I m not. I also don t want him to feel vulnerable and I don t want to invade his privacy. I wonder how should I choose the right words in the message. Any help would be appriciated. Thank you. |
| Question: Is it ok to follow her? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 02:07 PM PST so theres this girl in my video editing class who i follow both her accounts on instagram and one is her main one the other is one that is just her second account. so the first post on her second account says to give her a follow to get to know her and how to trust her that the people who follow wont regret it and im following her so is it a good idea to follow her we are also not friends at all |
| Question: How to deal with bullying? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 01:40 PM PST Ok, first things first, I left school two years ago and I'm now nineteen. I have had a great time during school however my cousin and my friends did not get along with this certain group and after leaving school, I thought I'd never see them again but they've been causing trouble for no reason and I'm so infuriated that I want to beat the absolute crap out of all of them (I'm twice the size as all of them, they're all pretty skinny). Very recently, these group of friends made an offensive meme about me, my cousins and my friends and making fun of my son who is only a few months old. We never did anything, they're just that bored with their lives that they've decided to cause trouble with us again. They all take drugs and I'm not sure if any of them have jobs (so I can't really get them fired) and the main guy who made the memes has been saying stuff about my girlfriend and me. I really don't know what to do. I messaged one of them and got told to f*** off. Should I go to the cops because they're not directly saying these things to me but someone heard and saw what they were doing and told me. My girlfriend said they're lowlifes and I should ignore it but how can I ignore this? Any solutions? |
| Question: Why do people hate me for getting good grades ? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 01:38 PM PST I'm 15. I have the best grade in my school. People hate me FOR THIS. They humiliate me, put me down, treat me like ****. Some loudly say that I have no life, and all I do is study(which is not true) They openly lie that I have no friends. One guy calls me a moron, ugly or whatever. I've never done anything bad to them. One guy has been bullying me for 9 years straight. I still help him(out of free will) in tests and have gotten him many As. I help many of them, they still treat me like ****. There are a couple of girls that treat me very good. Guys mostly hate me, except neutral ones. That's not jealousy. That is genuine hate. |
| Question: How should I respond to this? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 01:08 PM PST I had a friend for many years, then in 2010 she stopped all communication. I was thinking of her early in 2016, called her and we had a pleasant chat about generic topics. A few times in the weeks following I made several attempts for lunch, but she was noncommittal and coldly saidthat she'd call me and never did. We exchanged Christmas cards that year and that was it. Today I received a Christmas card and that she 'still' wanted to get together. I was baffled. Should I wait till she calls me as I've made 1/2 a dozen attempts in 2 years. Thanks. |
| Question: What should me and my friend do/? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 01:06 PM PST me and my friend are bored at home and we need to do something but have limited options. We live in the middle of nowhere and neither of us have a license. We don't have any food or movies or a working tv or craft stuff so it's pretty hard to do fun stuff. Please no one say 'have a deep conversation' because we've already had every single deep conversation you can possibly think of. we're girls if that helps? |
| Question: Is calling someone an idiot a joke? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 12:49 PM PST When I was on Wattpad, this girl called me an idiot, and my friend thought it was funny. She said she was only joking. But that really hurt my feelings. |
| Posted: 09 Dec 2017 12:20 PM PST So my best friend and I have a very close friendship. We say that we're soul mates because we're very close and have a strong connection. Lately, I've been feeling a little more "love" than just a best friend towards her. Now, we're both straight, and I wouldn't even want to label myself because I'm still confused. But, I don't like or find any attraction to any other girls, but my best friend. So, the other day I decided to tell her. She said she wasn't weirded out and all and if she was gay we would already being dating by now. She'll sometimes say she wishes I was a guy but then if I was the love wouldn't be how it is now. She'll joke and say well maybe who knows, but since I've been developing a little crush on her I take it literal. She said she never cuddles with anyone like that or compliments anyone like that. She will lay on me and say I'm the cutest thing ever. A few months back I did ask to kiss her and she said well are you and it was just a quick peck but we haven't again. We again have a really close friendship and love eachother deeply, but idk what to do because she didn't disagree with what I said, I think it's maybe we both have a little crush on how much we love eachother? And there is a physical attraction on both ends. Any advice?! Thank you!! |
| Question: I like my friend's best friend? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 11:46 AM PST I just moved to college and made some friends. One friend, let's call her Sarah, has this HOT best friend, let's call him Harry. Harry goes to a different university but is coming down to visit and I want to engage in conversation with him. I would ask him to hang out, but Sarah is the jealous kind. She would be very angry with me if I do that as I am taking all the time from her best friend and her. And one of my her other best friends, lets call him Matt, who goes to my university has a crush on mine and Sarah's friends, let's call her Bella. Sarah is pissed that Matt is always pissed with Matt as he always hangs out with Bella, someone he just met, rather than her best friend, from high school. But i really want to talk to him. Harry is coming soon and I do not know what I should do. Suggestions? 5th line- Sarah is always pissed with Matt* |
| Question: "Okay so there's this girl...I'm confused....help me!!"? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 11:39 AM PST "Okay so there's this girl who is kind of my friend - Before you get any funny ideas, I'll have to put forth that this is exactly what I don't quite understand - and she's kind of my friend because she's sometimes very very nice to me, but she sometimes just plainly and simply ignores me and is just very blatantly an asshole. And she sometimes texts for help and sometimes seems quite concerned for me. She has a reputation for shop-lifting things. What the heck (I really wanted to use the other one) is wrong with this female-ting (I wanted to use the other one again)? I'm confused af, help me!!" P.S. She has a reputation for stealing make-up products, wearing a lot of low cut shirts (maybe thats relevant okay? Don't start pouncing at me for being judgy, I have befallen terror these past few moons, I have to judge to find my problem and stab it in the eye), and shop-lifting in general. She hurts herself too |
| Question: This girl at school hates me and I don't know why? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 11:18 AM PST Okay, so I am in band with this girl at my school, I have never really talked to her but I followed her on instagram since her account was public. A few days later, I found that she blocked me. I have no idea why. She narrows her eyes and gives dirty looks every time I walk by, and her friend who is in band also does not like me. I have never done anything to her. I am honestly more bothered by not knowing why she hates me than the fact that she hates me. I see myself as a good person who tries to be friends with new people she meets. Or at least I try to be nice. I have not given her any valid reason to hate me, at least not that I know of. Anyways, sorry for the rant. Does anyone know of any possible reasons as to why she hates me so much? She is very nice to everyone else and everyone thinks she is so sweet. She is this way to everyone but me. |
| Posted: 09 Dec 2017 11:13 AM PST I like but she keep doing the same stuff that I do sit alone and been a quiet person every time I listen to music she listen to music but when I don't she don't she live by me I want to be her friend and talk to her more |
| Question: What does it mean when someone keeps staring and smiling at you? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 10:58 AM PST People keep doing it to me and its creepy (im a girl) |
| Question: Best friend with sick husband acting cold and distant. What should I do? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 10:41 AM PST My best friend's husband was recently diagnosed with cancer. He is doing fine and should survive, but obviously it's a very hard situation for both of them. She is acting cold and distant. Intellectually, I understand. But emotionally, it hurts. Any thoughts or advice? |
| Question: What can do? I want to change my situation but how? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 10:37 AM PST I am sad because nobody is nice to me. It is hard for me now to choose what job to take. One is seasonal job where I will be alone and it working hard but my problem is that I am afraid to go alone because on my every job people bullied me. I know that I go to work and not making friends but in every social community so as work too people create groups and friends, and when nobody wants to talk to you and when they do it is mean and bullying than it is hard to work and survive each day. The other option I got is to go to work with my sister, but I am not sure that we will get along because she is jealous of me and completes with me. She wants to better than me. For it would be easier to work with her than with strangers but she is also bullying me and have jealous scenes. I am scared and sad because I always have those stupid problems that influence my job and no matter how nice I am to my coworkers every time they bullied me. I don't know how to solve this problem. |
| Posted: 09 Dec 2017 10:36 AM PST At 21 years old, got charged w/ felony evading with a motor vehicle. Two years later, i completed everything successfully two years early. In a couple years I can apply for non disclosure. I run a business right now thats doing okay. Though I want to finish school since Im half way there. Thinking of computer science, and software developer security clearance ? |
| Question: Is it rude to ignore girls that give you attention ? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 10:31 AM PST Sometimes girls say "hellooo" to me in a slow,flirty voice. Many girls glance/stare at me. Some smile and fix their hair when walking by me. I was once walking home. 4-5 girls yelled at me from across the street "hey boy", before that they were talking and one said"look at that guy". A couple days ago, a very good looking girl walked by me smiling and looking at me, but all I did was look down and walk by like a moron. I never respond to them. Even those girls that yelled at me from across the street, said in the end "why aren't you answering ? :(" In a sad-ish voice. Is it rude that I ignore them ? Do they find me attractive(i'm pretty sure they do) Should I respond ? Only reason I don't respond, is because i'm shy.. (i'm 14yrs old. All of them are about as old as I am) Again... I don't know them and it happens on the street. I'm not saying that I don't like their attention, I enjoy it and those girls are very good looking... I'm completely straight. |
| Question: My best guy friend likes me as more than friends....? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 09:38 AM PST I started being friends with him in the beginning of the school year, and we've basically become inseparable ever since. Yesterday he confessed that he liked me as more but "can see that we're incompatible and it wouldn't work" I like him too. I don't want a relationship right now, and even if I did there's a major issue. My friend has liked him for three years. Being w him would ruin not only my friendship with him but also my friendship w her. But I fear that he won't want to stay friends after confessing,.. so I'll loose him anyway. What can I do? |
| Posted: 09 Dec 2017 09:37 AM PST I wanna be friends with everyone. I wanna know everyone. But how can I do this when I'm so shy and I think I have selective mutism..I just wanna be able to be friends with everyone, like even just make fri nds with people at the bus stop.. |
| Question: How do I become friends with everyone? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 09:31 AM PST I feel like a loner and I have literally 3 close friends but I wanna be friends with everyone. Like I don't mean fake friends but real friends. Like how can I seem approachable, start convos with people and stuff? I'm tired of feeling so alone... |
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| Question: Is this girl trolling my friend? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 08:24 AM PST He is the one who wears black suit |
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| Question: I knocked my best friend out and gave him a black eye? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 07:57 AM PST So last night me and one of my closest friend decided to go out one last night before finals (mainly to destress) and so we had a great night and the night was coming to an end to the point where it was about 5 of us in a room at 3 in the morning. We were all mostly sobered up at this point except for my friend who was still pretty drunk. We were talking about something and out of nowhere he bites me in the chest. It hurt like hell and I said don't bite me again and he did. Now I'm generally someone who doesn't try to start anything if there's no reason to but for some reason him biting pissed me off again. I realize he was drunk so I shouldn't have been so quick to get angry but I stuck my hand out and said touch me again and I will smash your face in. He looked at me and just kept mocking by making like dont mind if i do faces so I said thats what I thought you stupid p**** and turned around to walk out and he came up and bit my shoulder. I turned around fast and punched him as hard as I could in his right eye and clocked him out. Everyone in the room got so mad at me for punching him but the dude was literally instigating the whole thing. I basically let him get away with biting me twice. Now I kind of want to talk to him and apologize for what I did to his face but af the same time I don't want to apologize for punching him. What should I do because despite that little incident, this dude is one of my closest friends and I don't want that to end. |
| Question: I knocked out one of my best friends and gave him a black eye.? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 07:55 AM PST |
| Question: Taking my girl best friend to Hawaii? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 07:34 AM PST I've known this girl for a few years. She's 19 almost 20 & I'm 27. I work for an airline & for a gift I gave her my primary friend spot on my flight benefits. I figured it was ambitious but she's hardly ever left town, let alone traveled. I thought it'd be a different, exciting, far from run-of-the-mill present. She surprised me a little & jumped at it...she chose Hawaii as her first trip. My dad was with the airlines so flying is how I got around but this will be her first. I know she's gonna love it. And...yeah, I love her. I'm pretty sure she's less than oblivious to that, I haven't exactly been subtle. She's pretty excited about it & has upped the flirting. I imagine her being down for it is half the battle? I'm definitely not gonna force anything...I love her. But just her & I in Hawaii, a girl's at least thought about walking on the beach & such? The dynamic of all that & romantic progressions? |
| Question: How should I behave with him? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 06:09 AM PST So there is this guy that Is/was a good friend who i know is a complete fvckboy but yeah it isn't something he hid from me. We got intimate with each other a couple of times but went pretty far the last time. But there were no feelings involved from both sides. But like, after last time, neither of us have reached out to each other. He hasn't called or texted me and neither have i. And i feel hurt because it's like he got what he wanted and he's done with me and that he doesn't give a fvck about me as a friend. Like, he doesn't even want to pretend that way. And the same thing doesn't apply to me since i didn't text him either. Not because I'm a girl. It's because i was never the one to text first, it's been like that for years. I know he's doing pretty well and he views my stories on Snapchat and he knows i view his stuff but yeah it's like we're strangers now. So how should i behave if he does reach out to me after all this time? I want to stand ny ground but i don't want to sound too hurt about it. |
| Question: Is it cause of me following them? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 05:41 AM PST so i have followed these twin sisters and their friends from my video editing class on instagram and they really havent been posting anything since i followed them so it is because of me following them and should i unfollow them |
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| Question: How do I deal with a spoilt "friend"? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 04:22 AM PST |
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| Question: How to deal with a friend who talks over you all the time? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 03:23 AM PST i got a friend who constantly interrupts me when i try to speak. he makes it impossible for me to talk. he never listens. how can i deal with him? |
| Question: My best friends dad hit on me what should I do? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 02:46 AM PST I know this is a weird question but I'm not sure what to do. My best friend invited me to go to her uncles because her family was drinking and having fun. My best friends dad started texting me and was like come over it would be so much fun we all love you and how he loves me so much and just creepy things and what time will I be arriving and just all this stuff. I thought it was kind of strange but I brushed it off and figured he was just drunk. I arrive and start taking shots and dancing with her little cousins just having fun. Her dad kept waving me to come outside but I kept ignoring it and because I started getting pretty uncomfortable with that I thought that was creepy and weird. He then stands by me in the kitchen and grabbed my butt like hard. It was so weird and it took me by surprise even her little cousin saw and gave the strangest look. I followed my best friend to the bathroom and I told her what happened and she freaked out. I decided to leave because I was so incredibly creeped out. Now I feel like not even wanting to hangout with my best friend or see her because I'm just so incredibly creeped out and I don't think it will be the same when her and I hang out and I just feel so awful. I've had experiences in the past with older guys sexually assaulting me so it brought back some really bad vibes and now I just don't know what I should do. I'm 18 and this man is like 50. Should I continue to hangout with my best friend or should I wait a while? |
| Question: How come when I'm popping is the only time they see me? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 02:25 AM PST |
| Question: My friend found out I lied about something..? Posted: 09 Dec 2017 01:06 AM PST It's not really something ruin my life but I'm someone who is feels easily guilty when something isn't really a big deal. Basically, my friend (A) told me something that friend B told her. Little did I know the little tale she told her wasn't meant to be said to me and was something that was meant to be kept secret as it was very important. Since I wasn't aware of that, I didn't take it as a huge secret but also, it wasn't like I was going to go around telling a bunch of people what happened. It was just a day in class and pow the story came up in a convo between me and another friend (C). I just told her what happened in little detail but also mentioned that maybe she shouldn't rly tell anyone just because I also didn't know the severity of this story. I knew friend C wouldn't go around telling anyone but she did end up talking to friend B about the situation but left my name out. Today friend A called me asking if I told anyone bc friend B told her not to tell anyone else it'll spread, I said no (totally forgetting that I had told friend C) then called me later saying that I lied and I apologized and explained how I didn't know that this was such a big deal for friend B. But at the same time friend A told me when she wasn't supposed to either. Idk I just feel super guilty putting friend A in this situation. Should I feel like this is all my fault |
| Posted: 09 Dec 2017 12:10 AM PST Took me 1hr 40 to get a train/walk home when she's sat doing nothing. But stays up til midnight to go get this new boyfriend from a bar. We get on ok but we fell out once because I asked her to give my boyfriend a ride to the train station. So confused is this hateful? |
| Question: Im being bullied at school? Posted: 08 Dec 2017 11:31 PM PST Theres this guy at my school, and we used to be really good friends until he got sent to alternative school and lost contact. A school year later, he came back to school even worse. He did let me know his parents are scared of him, it was really off topic lol. Im not the only person he harasses, its really weird. It's like at times he can be really nice, but at other times he would talk really inappropriately to me.. He bothers me a lot to just get laughs from people. He would discriminate my race saying "I hate *******" and would throw things at my face, hes flicked me off before, kicked me, bodyshamed me, pushed me, and break my school supplies. A few days ago a group of friends and i had a arm wrestling contest but he came along bashing one of my friends, calling him "weak" and "a failed abortion". I dont know what to do about this because people make excuses for him. I would let my teachers know but i feel like the more i tell on him the more he would mess with me. What should i do? |
| Question: Can anyone give me some life advice? Posted: 08 Dec 2017 11:12 PM PST All my friend are getting married and having kids. My old buddies are getting busy and I feel like I'm being left behind. I'm 27 and I have a career I am a veterinarian. My life is pretty set. I don't want to get married and I don't want to settle down. I feel lost. My best friends or my close group of friends are too busy. Back then we use to go the bar or play video games all night. We go out partying and having a great guy time. We go fishing, play football, go paint balling. But now most of my friend are married and have their own life. I don't want to grow up. I don't know can anyone give me some advice? |
| Question: Should I end my friendship? Posted: 08 Dec 2017 11:00 PM PST My friend and I have been best friends for almost 3 years now. I have been noticing that she is very controlling and possessive of me. She would sometimes get mad at me for talking to other people or hanging out with them. Also, she sometimes forces me to hang out with her even though I don't want to. Shes also always reminding me that i shouldn't have other bestfriends besides her, she is very clingy and i don't like it. However, I dont know whether to end my friendship with her because she has very little amount of friends and I would feel sorry for her if she spent the rest of highschool alone. And another thing to reconsider is that were in the same psychology class and we sit beside each other. so if I decided to cut ties with her, it would be really awkward. |
| Question: Why do some people have such an aversion to reality? Posted: 08 Dec 2017 10:14 PM PST I'm friends with this gay dude who ALWAYS puts this dramatic flair in recalling every situation he's ever been in. I've called him on this a few times and he always went into hardcore denial mode Anyway, I'm friends with a local DJ who he had a major crush on. I decided to invite him my house when this guy (gay friend) would be there. I set up a camera to record the interaction that I knew would be a big, fat, nothingburger. I made a beer run to the store across the street while they waited. I knew exactly what would happen:They would make small talk for a few minutes until I came back and that was what happened. But of course the minute DJ left, gay dude is giving me the skinny about how hewas all over him, etc. So I busted him, let him know I had the whole room recorded, and it was like I had just robbed his house or something. He couldn't believe how I "violated" him. I didn't do anything other than show him that what he claimed to have happened didn't happen...and by no means am I picking on gay people here. Most of my other gay friends thought that sh-t was hilarious (this dude has a bit of a rep). It just makes more sense when I point that out. I just don't get why some people feel the need to put an extra dramatic spin on every dumb, stupid, meaningless encounter. |
| Question: How do I go about this? Posted: 08 Dec 2017 10:06 PM PST I was living in California with my friend and her grandma who fostered me and I had a $500 check from my previous job which she cashed herself and said she would give it to me but kept making excuses... Problems occurred with their family and they couldn't take care of me and I was sent back to AZ where I previously lived, unexpectedly. She had my Phone and my cash and she said " I will send it out this week" 3 months later she keeps prolonging it with different excuses and finally about 2 weeks ago she said her friend sent it out since they werent at home for the past few weeks. Now I still havent received it and I Honestly dont know if it was sent. Im tired of waiting for my stuff and its not fair. What do you think I can do about it? |
| Question: Another quiestion, what can i do? Posted: 08 Dec 2017 09:59 PM PST My gf is changing so much. I met her for about 1 year and a half i tjought that time was enough. At first she was all sweet, she was oje of those people who would understand of what you say and stuff all that until i met her bestfriend. I though her bestfriend was gonna be those nice people but no. I can be honest my gf always made dumb decisions, she smoked bc her friends wanted to, she wastes her time to help her best friend with her homework and she ends up not doing it, dates people she doesn't even like, and at the end she always comes at me saying sorry i was right. Her bestfriend always tryn to make her drink, hang out with other guys and stuff. Im tryna make mom know that my gf is a nice girl but funny thing is that one day mom caught them ditch school. I feel like my own gf doest even trust me, i feel like she trusts her bff more than me, ive been talking to her for more time than her bff. I ask my gf if shes okay, if she need help or something but she says she okay until her bff comes she all whispering in her ear and ends up all sad like idk what to do here i always see like she puts her bff first than me. And if i say something bad about jer bff she gets all mad |
| Question: I am being called an snitch? Posted: 08 Dec 2017 09:17 PM PST The other day i was jumped and beaten by 3 people and they fractured my jaw. 1 of them used to be my friend and is friends with my other friends. After i was jumped I told the police what happend and because of that they were arrested and now everyone calls me a snitch and hates me. I had no choice but to tell. What should do? |
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| Question: Group project and not getting my fair share? Please help me? Posted: 08 Dec 2017 07:59 PM PST I am unfortunately in a group project with two very demanding and controlling "leaders" per se. Those who like to say okay everyone you do this and you do that. I usually like it where it's every one deciding what to do...and listening to what everyone has to say. Any way I am in a group of 4, 3 of them are basically deciding what to do and practically ignoring me. EVerything I have to say, want, or think we should do. I'm ignored. They are all the same major, while I am a different one than all of them, so maybe we are just different. But what really upset me, is the stuff they wrote for our first part the "narrative" we got a 6.5/10...a D. This class has very minimal points so that brought my grade to a B+. This is honestly an easy A class and they literally are ruining my grade. Presentation is next week and again this chick is demanding this and that. And I hate it. I changed my slide to its own color & font, and she literally changed it back to the way it was. I dont understand? My slide, my themes/color?? Please tell me what to do or what you recommend. Thanks. |
| Question: My friends are embarassed to be around me? Posted: 08 Dec 2017 07:44 PM PST Some of my friends hate being seen around me and even hide themselves because im not too pretty. They are really nice to me but when its time to partner up, they dont want to be my partner. My one friend didnt have a partner and asked me to be her partner but she told me not to speak or look at her and told me to move over a little. She put her hood over her head and layed her head on the desk. When i dont have a partner they help me find one but dont want me to be theirs. and this isnt just in class but in public |
| Posted: 08 Dec 2017 07:13 PM PST I've been thinking A LOT lately about how everyone lives different lives, and sometimes they go through tough times, and they don't have anyone to listen to them. I want to create a group chat (either on SnapChat or Facebook) where people can communicate and talk about their feelings/challenges/struggles and actually have someone to listen to them, but they would also have to be willing to listen to others. I thought about just putting a message out there gaining interest, such as on my SnapChat story or something, and my friends said they'd screenshotnit and pass the message along as well. Would creating this be a good idea? Does anyone have any other ideas? What would be a good thing to post to get people to want to join the chat? |
| Question: I am having major friend group trouble...? Posted: 08 Dec 2017 06:14 PM PST I had many friends when I transitioned from my middle school to highschool, but I can't seem to find the right group. Everyone is changing a little bit and it's annoying because they weren't like they were in middle school. I met a new group of friends, while keeping my old ones, and they were very on and off. Two girls really hated me and they kept kicking me out of group chats. I also had them and a gay guy kick one of my friends out of the friend group entirely because he was "annoying." The friend group is generally a huge pile of drama and I want to leave (already said I'm leaving.) I don't know what to do, I don't want to just excommunicate these people, but I think transitioning back to my old friends would be for the better, considering the fact that the people in the new group used to be cool, and then I found out a couple were into paganism and atheism as well as one being gay (not against homosexuality, it just doesn't provide me with a good social status. What should I do? h |
| Question: What should you do when your brother is talking bad about your best friend? Posted: 08 Dec 2017 06:03 PM PST I'm not sure why, but my brother keeps telling me that I shouldn't trust my best friend. Note that my brother has only met him twice, and has apparently been able to "figure out" that he can't be trusted. I know my friend very well, and I have seen him at his best and his worst. I'm just not sure how to let my brother know that he can be trusted and make him believe me. Any thoughts? |
| Question: What’s a funny response to this? Posted: 08 Dec 2017 06:03 PM PST 2 beautiful couple had posted their photo and he post a comment saying when I'm with people I'm only remembering u and when I'm with u i don't remember anyone ,, so basically I'm jealous and I want to post a funny mean kinda comment just for fun |
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