She has been acting strange lately, this is the third time she's cried after sex I asked her and she dismisses me saying 'You would never understand!' WTF is going on? How do you tackle this?

Select one: a. Approximately half of African American couples divorce compared to two-thirds of White couples. b. Approximately two-thirds of African American couples divorce compared to one-third of White couples. c. Approximately a quarter of African American couples divorce compared to one-half of White couples. d. Approximately one-third of African American couples divorce compared to one-half of White couples.

My best friend and I had a falling out about a month ago. I lied to her about something big, and never told her my husband didn t want us hanging out. My husband wrote her a nasty email and all was revealed. The last thing she ever told me as a friend was that she was getting divorced. We still work together so I hear things from co-workers, but we don t speak. I still care a lot about her and I want to be there for her during this difficult life transition. Is there anything I can do to help or know someone cares while still respecting her wishes for me to never speak to her again?

I have a bachelors degree and she has a master's degree. She earns 25 percent more than I do. I really love her in my heart but she doesn't have feelings for me. She says that she wants someone who is more educated and financially well off than me. Couldn't forget her since I had built lots of love in my heart and it really hurts. I am feeling very unfortunate and humiliated that I happen to be less educated than her. I didn't really analyze all this education and monetary stuff before falling in love. Do you think I should first look for someone less educated and financially below me before falling in love because it almost feels to me that women put money and status first and love/affection comes later.

My best friend died unexpectedly She lived in a home that her mother left to her and her brother. She got married two years ago her husband was never added to the deed and recently my friend Had an active Protection from Abuse (PFA) on him in which she dropped only a month before she died .. He was not currently living in the home but I know they were doing some counseling through their church & their pastor to try to work on their marriage…. Her husband was collecting his social security at his mothers address, and food Stamps. He is on adult probation & uses his Mothers address for that as well. He has nothing in his name at his wife's residence. His mother & him are trying to claim the home... does he have any rights to the house ? She has an adult son (her only child ) but NOT his son that is currently in the air force. we live in Pennsylvania a commonwealth state. Please advise ..this home is directly across the street from me and if he moves in to look at him daily will sicken me…

Like a big one. $2,000.

I'm on business overseas from April 1st - July 1st. I miss my kids terribly and I've been feeling very depressed. I have 8 year old and a 9 month old. I've never had to be away on business like this and hopefully never will have to be ever again. I just feel horrible. I am trying to immerse myself in my work. Any other advice? Thanks.

Me and my wife have been separated for 4 months. We have 3 girls 11,3,and 18month old. We have had a lot of contact because are 2 girls are so little. She live in a apartment and I'm in a house 5 minutes away. We do 50/50 on time with the girls. She picks up the girls after work and brings them to my house and she here for 30 minutes and then leaves. That Monday and Tuesday night's. Now on her days w,t,f she always calls or texts me to come to her apartment for dinner with the girl "she says" or help here move around stuff or help out with bath time, get the girls ready for bed and excetra. Sometimes its to come have a drink with her after the girls go to bed. I do these thing ever time. Some times its talk about she wants me to go out and have fun with other women. She told me just the other night that shes has many thought about getting back together but she think that she hold this over my head. She ask me  how to move forward now between me and her. i don't know if that's as a couple or friend. And asked me to attended church with her. And to taking the girls too. I'm getting confused on what way to go with my though because if I say anything about doing something together (dinner or comedy show) or ask her to come over for drinks its that I'm trying to get back together. But we can spend time together on her terms. We have been sexual a couple different times but is always at her houses. When i ask it's no. I not getting it and would like some input.

I work 3rd shift 4 days a week and have 3 off. During my days off, my wife spends almost ALL her time on her phone playing a game. Yes, it s actually a game. I see it all the time. I do my best to be a good husband and make her happy in every way I can, but it just seems like she would rather spend time on her game then with me. Am I losing her?

We ve been married for 1 year and been dating for 6 months before marriage. No kids. The issue is that my wife is stay at home and is working on breaking into her dream career which is writing. Being the sole bread winner and working 9 to 5, I come home tired. However, my wife expects to me take turns cooking and cleaning. Most days I come home and the dishes are not done. I want to support her in her endeavours, but I expect her to handle the cooking/cleaning since she is at home. She doesn t agree and wants to split house chores 50/50, is this fair?. How can I convince her to take ownership?

After more than a month my husband was owed 100.00 dollars for a car he fixed for 400.00. He owed hi. Still the hundred ghat was his work after parts. So thi suppossed friend did not come and pay. And is a usual stifer..so t hen he piad after i c as lled and when my husband new he told me dont ever get involded in my work, ever. I A M A HOUSE WIFE..why does he treat me like nobody sometimes..and he recoverd after alcoholic..so many years of bad trwatment..and i helped him r es cover.

First time marriage for the women. Why?

Me and my husband have been married for 2 weeks. We have a daughter who is also 2 weeks old. Already he loves sex he wants it every night. I don't want it I want to sleep. I want to take a break from it for a while. Sometimes he forces me to do it. Why does he love it so much ? How can I talk to him about it ?

I asked a question earlier but no answers

I found out that my best friend is throwing me a surprise baby shower tonight..she has my husband and family in on it too. Should I tell anyone I know or try out my acting skills.

For the past month a close friend of me and my wife's, along with her two kids has been staying with us until she can get enough money for her own place. Around midnight when I went out for a smoke, I saw her sleeping on the couch with her pajama shirt rolled up and her bare behind just sitting there. I didn't take my smoke as the salivating beast trying to claw its way out my skin had me feeling like a mid summers night. When I went back to sleep, I had a dream that she and I were having sex all over the couch. My phone rang on the floor and my wife's name showed up. We both looked at it and then we went back to having sex on the couch like we didn't care in the slightest. This morning I've been trying to avoid both as I walk around even now with an everlasting erection. I know it's wrong and even as I feel shamed, I still entertain thoughts of trying to get my wife out the house so I can seduce our guest. I know better than to act on those feelings tho. I'm just so heated by the sight of her body that sex is at the forefront of my mind. Can that dream and these thoughts be considered cheating, even tho I never intend to act on them?

Me and my wife have been separated for 4 months. She asked me the other day if I wanted to start attending church with her. I've never been real religious person but have question my thoughts on that over the last six months. She started attending church after we decided to get a divorce. We do have 3 kids together and they have not been to the church with her. I love and miss my wife and I think she's in the same boat we haven't talked about our divorce much. We have 11 year old or three year old in an 18 month old so we do talk a lot because our two girls are little. She's told me she's thought about get back together but she's afraid she'll hold it over my head. I would reconcile but I don't want to hold over my head for the rest of my life. Is this some kind of way to asking me to go to church to help us come together? Will the church even help us or will the religion open are eyes? I don't know ask for help and answers please.

This girl at work brags so much about her fiance but he's all the way in another state. She gets annoying mean it's good to know she happy and all but does she really have to keep bragging?

My ex husband and I share a 7 year old son together. I have since remarried. Sometimes my ex will come over to my house when my husband is not there and hang out to spend time with his son even though he has his own house. My ex husband also has a key to our place and sometimes our conversations will end up being about other things (my marriage, my husband etc) My ex husband also will call at certain times to speak to his son on days he does not have him, like while we are having dinner. MY husband told me he is growing tired of this and thinks my ex is being invasive and needs to start taking his son instead. Is my ex husband being invasive?

I was in the shower - enjoying myself - and the door burst open with my wife and her sister. My wife says, "See..." pointing down t me. At that moment, both of them burst out laughing and left downstairs. I'm no sitting in our bedroom and unsure what to do. Any advice?

There's this guy (he is 48 am 32) that always compliments my hair every single time he sees me and sometimes it's a compliment he throws at me at the end of our conversation. Normally it's " that hair color really suits you" or " Looks good long like that, never cut it " I haven't done anything new to my hair it's been blonde and long for a while. He doesn't seem gay. We do work together at the same office building. Lately he throws in "babe" when he talks to me. He started working at the office around the same time as me, about 6 months ago. He use to just be polite; but now he seems a bit more bold. Does he seem interested or is he just being friendly ? He is an extrovert type so am not sure what to make of it. Do men continue complimenting women if they aren't interested ?

Iam a home maker having 2 kids.. mine was a inter religion marraige.... my hbby has cheated me once .. BT I had forgiven him.. but now he is cheating me again. I cnt take his affairs anymore.. I get suffocated... where r I ask to clarify . He jst say nothing like that as I think. BT I hav enough evidence. . What shall I do?? Pls hlp me out

She isn't on bed rest but she likes to watch tv in the bedroom instead of the living room. She's 22 weeks! Although she does get up off and on to the bathroom and kitchen. She heard from somebody that you can get those things but I told her you have to have a bad head cold or something.

I've been in a relationship for about six years now with a man who had joint custody of his children I would say within a year we ended up with sole custody of the kids. I began driving them to and from every supervised visit once and twice a week with their mother. Also driving them to and from therapy over the years as well as the activities that they were signed up for each and every year. I honestly believed it would be no longer than a month before their mother get her act together. The mother has gotten progressively worse which in turn makes the young girl defiant constantly dishonest not to mention she has ADD and ADHD due to her moms drug abuse she's dishonest because her mom is constantly lying to her on the visits. Her brother has asbergers, is an emotional kid and you can tell that this is tearing it apart. The bottom line is we're about six years into this relationship I'm watching his kids day in and day out 4 to 5 days per week and then I picked up a part-time job here and there on the weekends I get a little bit of child support that's owed to me in arrears from son that I have in college. I feel like I'm being used and taken advantage of and please tell me if I'm wrong my husband expects me to contribute every dime that I get to the household. then he nickels and dimes me to death if I go to the store for anything I get a text message within five minutes asking me what I spent $38 at big lots for. I feel like I've become trapped in their world I'm now medicated on antidepressants and anti-Anxiety. I work very hard here I keep this house clean laundry done I take care of these kids for years I just feel so unappreciated and he keeps telling me he feels the same way?? I just need to know is it time to MoveOn? When I met him I had three jobs and my son was grown. I made a lot of money I drove a Cadillac and had no debt. Now I'm in bankruptcy and don't even have a decent car to drive.

Because I find her becoming more and more comfortable every day and not caring about her husbands needs at all. So should I start asking for things in return?

HE has kids, you do not, who ends up doing all the work...3 friends of mine are going through this right now, one of the woman just left the marriage....anyone else going through this?

I have never gone through my wifes phone before and we have been married three years and together for five. I went through her phone the other day because I had a weird feeling and she didnt catch me I told her about it. I found she had been texting a male friend of hers talking about our problems and bad mouthing me. I confronted her and she kicked me out of the house and said it was a privacy invasion. She also went on a trip to see this male friend of hers without inviting me while we were having problemsWas this justified?

My girlfriend and I have been together for a year. She has a son who is 8 from her previous marriage. I understand that her so comes first and I never expected to be first however I feel she also puts her ex husband, her mother, her in laws and her best male friend before me. Her husband comes over to her house and hangs out in order to spend time with his son even though he has his own place and all he does is play videos games and sit on her couch when he is there. I also caught her talking about our relationship problems to a male friend of hers behind my back. What should I do about this?

I'm really sick of this I talk to her about divorce she says fine with her I don't want to lose half of my retirement. I'm going to ask her if she just let me see woman on the side I will move into another room be like a room mate. I'm concerned if we do that then later divorce she will say I cheated on her.

I'm Ethel and I'm a moral Tea Party Christian supporting our new Christian president Donald Trump. I want to do everything I can do to ensure that gay marriages are stopped and illegal once again. I've started a signature drive and also am going door to door with our local church to get others to join our cause to stop gay marriages, but want to know what else we can do?! I wrote a letter to our holy President Trump to ask him to stop the gay marriages as well.

We watched Documentary about atomic bomb for Hiroshima. We got into a huge fight because my husband tried to convince me that there was not a nuclear bomb dropped. It was a huge firebomb. I felt really hurt by that. I think telling me Japanese `No nuke was dropped` is much hurt than `It was right things to do` I really didn't want to discuss about it was a nuclear weapon or firebomb but he kept trying convince and I really got sick of it. Now I don't even wanna see him. I never blamed why America did it and I always think it was a war and wishing never happens something like those terrible things in the world. But as a Japanese, American husband say it was not a nuclear bomb dropped in Hiroshima is not acceptable. Is this `Ni nuke` thing a common in America?