So I am getting married in a couple weeks and want to get a Brazilian wax, my husband to be and I are both virgins so he s never seen me naked before. Is no hair a turn on or should I leave some down there?

So my parents are divorcing, my dad has been lying to the court saying he has no land in mexico that has worth to it bit didnt say anything about it in court. So, a long time ago, his brother had an affair with his niece and one day, his wife got really sick and went with my mom and they were going to a palm reader, but he overheard there conversation. Later that day, he called my mom telling her to not go because the reader will tell his wife he cheated on her, so they didnt. And up to this day, he is a president of land in mexico and has charge over my dads land. My mom asked him if he send those documents over, but he denied denied and denied, obviously lying. So my mom threatened to expose his marriage by telling his wife if he didnt send over the title. Is this illegal?

It seems like most people are getting married in their mid to late 30's and having kids in their late 30's these days. Why? And also why do people look down on you if you get married while in your early to mid 20's and have kids in your mid 20s? My wife and I got married when I was 24 and she was 23. And we had kids when I was 25 and she was 24. I am financially well off and so is she. I own my own consulting company and she is a school teacher. We couldn't be happier having kids now. We own our own home and life is great.

We are moving to a new house and I just bought him a new sleep number bed and I have to sleep next to him ! He thinks it's perfectly fine and screams at me when I tell him to bathe and he thinks I am horrible for it .

Particularly those who have been married for 15 years or more. Do you give your husband oral sex? I don't mean as part of regular sex/foreplay. I mean, just a bj and that's it. If so, how often. I'm not asking because I'm a pervert. I mean, I am a pervert, but that's not why I'm asking. I'm just curious about what is common in most long term marriages. My marriage is great in most ways. We get along well and have great sex. But she just isn't interested in oral, either giving or receiving.

I have to leave shortly to go pick up my husband up at work. I am at home now in my bare feet and since I am not getting out of the car and we are coming straight home only going to be gone for about half a hour I am going to drive in my bare feet and not bring my shoes. I drive in my bare feet all the time because I don't like to wear shoes if I don't have to and I don't need shoes to drive my car since I am not going in anyplace.

I have been very unhappy in my marriage for the last couple of years. We don't get alone and there is no connection or caring in our relationship. I sometimes think about just being alone with my kids and God will decide but I am afraid of taking that step? Do you regret divorce the person you once married? Where you able to find love after that? I dream about the day I will be happy again

Ok so, my parents are seperated but are still married. My mom is cheating on my dad, even when they were together she cheated on him. Im with my mom right now but i want to go to live with my dad. Mom keeps forcing me to stay with her and she is raising her voice at me at times, amd is even fussing at me for no reason. I need help and i dont know what to do. My parents have been seperated for 6 months now and still havent divorced. Please give me advice.

He hasn't paid hardly ever... She's almost 15 and he's paid maybe 3500 over the years. Never a big amount at one time (except the year he was married and they filed taxes together) he's not really involved either. Here and there when ever it's super convenient for him. Now his family is very involved but not really financially. And they Don't really inquire about how we manage to pay anything. I feel like it's time people face the issue and know that we need help. The older she gets the more expensive she is. I'm only asking that he help with a bill of hers. Phone, braces, school lunch... Anything. Is going to his mom a bad idea?

I just wanted tk start off by saying that I apologize if I come off as needy or bratty, but please understand that I used to have to fight for attention as a kid because my mom would spend so much time with my younger sister with ADHD so I ve kind of been made to be an attention-seeker. I am 13 years old and my mother has just recently remarried an old ex husband, way before my dad. I liked this guy in the beginning when he was a really funny and playful guy. We wouldn t see him that often due to his constant work trips to other parts of the states and even outside the country. A few months after they began seeing each other again, they engaged. I was so delightful that my mom was happy once more, but I had found a dark side to my step-dad-to-be. He was an alcoholic. Like a real alcoholic. I knew that they would figure it out and get married and possibly move in together but that s when I started to feel weird about it all. I felt like me and my mom didn t talk unless I asked her something, which was very unlike us (we usually come up with corny but funny movie lines to add after we said something hilarious). We just simply forgot about each other. I am simply devastated. I still love her new husband, but I m starting to have second thoughts. She also used to hate walks and anything outdoors and would only do them with me, but she does them with him now. What do I do?? (We had talked about if him moving in was a good idea due to his alcoholism.)

Just wondering my new wife will not entertain the idea or talk about it. She had other lovers and I am wondering if she tried and disliked it, but she won't say I think she did

We're not engaged QUITE yet, but I plan to change that late this month. We will probably get married in a year's time, but that's still TBD. I know too many people who've divorced, and it was a NIGHTMARE....even the most cordial divorces were a nightmare. And it's not like they knew they were going to get divorced when they got married....so I want to be prepared. So I want to have a pre-nup signed. IF we should divorce later on, it would make things WAYYY easier and WAYYY less messy. And if we don't divorce....then so much the better! It'll be a non-issue! What's the best way to bring this up?

I started dating at a late age. I went on my first date at age 22 and was raped on that date. Shortly after, I met and married my first husband. I met him in October, we were married and marriage ended in December the same year, and I was pregnant. I know that was stupid. I never shed a tear. My second marriage was almost 2 years later. I was with him on and off for 4 years. I have two children by him. During our marriage, he cheated on me and physically abused me. I left for good when he raised his hand to hit me when i had our 3 week old daughter in my arms. Again, I never shed a tear. For 12 years after, I focused on my job and my kids. Almost 6 years ago, I met another man that I stayed with for 3 years. He was mentally abusive, and I got away from him almost 3 years ago, and several months later, I started dating a friend that I knew while with the previous ex. He ended up cheating on me, and I broke up with him 4 months ago. I don't miss these men. I liked them when I was with them, but when I waled away, I never looked back. I see other women who fall head over heels for guys. They get this rush I have never experienced. And when it ends, they are devastated. Screaming and crying like their life is over. I am glad I don't experience that part, but I would love to feel that "falling in love" feeling. The curl your toes, leave you walking on air feeling. What is wrong with me? an addition: when i was cheated on, it didn't hurt. When my husband cheated on me, I was not hurt or angry, not was I hurt and angry with my ex boyfriend. I just said that if he wanted her, he could have her, and i walked away. This tells me, I didnt love them. seems i need to clarify some details. first husband i married 3 weeks after meeting when i was not in a good frame of mind. Second husband I met a year later..dated for a year, then married. When I left him, 12 years went by when I didn't see any men cause I didnt trust them. 3rd guy, i didnt marry, but moved in with a year after I met him and was with him 3 years. 4th and last guy i was with was someone I knew for 2 years before we dated. I dated him 2 years. in 46 years, i was with 4 guys.

My boyfriend of 6 months dumped me by blocking me on his phone. We were practically living together. He said I was being rude by texting instead of calling about issues. Said he didn't know why I was getting mad. That he wasn't doing anything wrong. He is not legally divorced and I had issues about it. He said he will get a divorce. However he asked me to remove my clothes from his home so his estranged wife wouldn't see them. I texted that it sounded like he didn't want me anymore. If he wanted to go back to his life before me of sleeping around and staying married that it was a useless existence. That's when he blocked me. He said I was being conditional but he was being unconditional. However he sent me back my stuff when I got mad at him. Now he's blocked me on his phone. If he really loved me wouldn't he not be acting this way? Isn't he being cruel and abusive? Is he acting this way cuz he really had no intention of getting a divorce and I called him out on it?

Our son is almost 2 months old and my husband asked when are you going back to work? I used to work at a daycare i love working with kids but I left that job wasn't getting paid enough so I stared working with my mom she has a home daycare. That was during my pregnancy if I felt sick she would give me more brakes she also had an assistant. So the job was not so heavy but what I want to do is work in a preschool. Right now my mom calls me if she needs me if her assistant can't come or is sick, but it's not everyday. I do want to go back to work but I dont want to rush into a job I wont like. I have submitted an application to the school district and looking around. We live with my father in law and down stairs lives his sisster and family. They all work and I don't I feel weird and my husband always ask, what can I do? I don't want people thinking I'm lazy I just want to finds the right job and our son is barely 2 months old any advice don't know what to do? I'm the one who cares for the baby but I need a job everyone keeps asking when you going back to work with your mom but right now she does not have many kids there all school age and only like 3 stay during the day so she does not need two people. And plus I want another job any advice

My husband and I just found out that his uncle and my aunt were once a fling and they since then got back together. If they got married, would my husband count as both my spouse and my cousin? I know it's a silly question, but my husband won't stop pestering me to find out.

My boyfriend is allergic to cats and he has a dog. However I really want my kids to have a kitten and Im thinking about getting a cat. Id like my boyfriend to marry me and be a step parent to my kids but Im afraid getting a cat will make him not want to move in since he is allergic and has a dog thats doesnt like cats but I rely want a cat anyways. Should I just get the cat anyways?

I read these blogs and see the angst. I had a terrible marriage my wife changed as soon as we married, I tried to understand but it was impossible. After two years without sex I folded and took a lover. My wife wasn't interested in me at all until we were caught after nine happy monthsThen she turned on the waterworks saying 'How could you do this to me?' The emotion was staggering now yet before there was none Why do they get upset when they know the marriage is dead? And they killed it?

Please don't answer if you didn't marry someone you know would cheat.

I feel kind of sad right now. I want to give my husband a hug but I don't want to cry in front of him I feel embarrassed when I do that. Is it ok to cry ?

I want get married and have kids but I'm worried cause most marriages in U.S end in divorce specially if you're black!

A mother leaves her daughter (who is 15) home alone for weeks at a time while she leaves the state to visit her boyfriend? There is no one else at home besides her older brother (who is 17) who is rarely home either.

I already have appointments and tasks I have to complete. She was obviously aggravated and several hours later texted me a picture of her shopping with the kids saying, 'we went to the grocery store but forgot to get what you asked for, lol'. Then she has proceeded into silent treatment. Do I proceed like nothing is wrong or straight up ignore her back? What gives? **My appointments and tasks are things that i've had to put off when she has scheduled things for me on previous off days. She stays at home and I work and have very little time to get a haircut, get my oil changed, see a money manager, etc. Day off is tomorrow

The combination of stress in her job and finding out I may not be able to get her pregnant naturally is making her think about going home. Actually she never told me she bought a plane ticket back to China for 10 days. I explained I wanted to come with her and will miss her. She said there was no need and that sometimes people just need some time to themselves. That set off alarm bells. Married couples don't just disappear on their spouses like that. So I scooped in her phone and found out some Chinese guy is from that city. The chat history is deleted. I'm considering my options right now. I'm seeing a lawyer tomorrow for legal advice. The flight is in 4 weeks time. I have befriended him online under the guise of her colleague. I plan to check if he knows she is coming to his city. I confirmed that her cousin lives in that city. And messaged a mate offering to pay a full holiday to him to check up on my wife. The flight is in one month. What actions should I take? Call the agent and cancel it? Sabotage her passport? Talk to her strongly and get her to back down? Confront her about the guy if I get more evidence of chat logs etc?

Her husband gets into a car wreck and falls into a coma and becomes a vegetable. She eventually leaves him for another man and leaves the country. She leaves him in the hospital in his state and starts a new life with her new man in another country and forgets about her husband. When he dies she doesn't even want to go to his funeral but her family gives her a hard time so she goes. She collects the money from his will and doesn't share it with her kids who are struggling and spends it all on herself and her new man. She also sues her ex husbands former employer to get even more insurance money even though she abandoned him. Is she a bad wife/mother? Her kids no longer speak to her and her relationship with her new man never worked out.Is this justified?

Had a terrible year with my wife of 11 years. Moods anger and no sex for 5 months, I am a caring kind guy tried everything to make her happy but nothing worked medical, therapy etc Quite down and met a lovely divorced woman at work, we hooked up for some great sex and fun Raised my spirits till I got caught and now guess what? It's ALL my fault! Is it fvck my fault!

A husband asks a wife for an open relationship, and the wife agrees. The wife gets mad when she learns her husband has slept with someone. Who is in the wrong?

He doesn't want to put forth the effort of saving anything or planning. We've never even gone a "real" vacation anywhere out of the state. A couple times I saved up by myself to go to a waterpark a few hours away with the kids. husband acted like I was dragging him along..wouldn't help with driving or packing the car..i paid for everything out of my pocket.. yet he sure enjoyed playing at the water park and eating out meals and stuff. then when it comes to drive home or something he acts like I'm the one that wanted to put this together so I shouldn't be bothering him. I find it really childish and off putting of course, but I'm starting to think about the future and how i would like to save up again to go somewhere or do something someday. If he expresses disinterest in it.. do I just go myself? i know he will end up pouting later about it

Statistically most marriages don't last. Even if they do, doesn't necessarily mean the couple still love each other. Even if they do, if one of them were to pass on, its just a matter of time before the other person falls in love with someone else and moves on. So is eternal love really a thing?

I was married to this guy who my family was against the marriage. At the end we got married and we were happy then i fell pregnant. He was happy to be a dad. Then i had our baby and the truth about him came out. He didnt cheated on me anything like that. He didnt told me that hes was responsible for supporting my former friend who broke off my mutual friend. When my mutual friend told me that he did this to be with me. I had the baby about 8 days and told me when i had c section. When i confronted hubby and he really remorse. I choose to move out, now i stay at my parent. He want to see our daughter ? I am so mad with him, he texts and call me . Even send a sorry flowers. Pls help me before I do anything stupid. I love him ... help me no abusive comments

My wife has crazy hormones which makes her yell, be insulting, and overall unbearable to deal with that those moments. Very much a different person. I can be understanding and empathize with her if she's having a hard day, but it's extremely hard to support her when I'm getting name called and she's irrationally upset at me for nothing. Any other guys have a solution to dealing with your wife's hormones? I've been reading articles on what to do and most just say, deal with it. Be nice. Be supportive. And that's it. Seems pretty messed up that guys just get to be treated like crap once a month and the free pass is that it's hormones.

Must be hormones I think can't keep my hands off my husband! ( he's not complaining) does it stay that way after the birth?

Her idea of wanting time to herself involved booking a 10 day trip back to her home country China. She just came home again after booking the trip. I questioned why she keeps doing that every year. We never go on holidays together. I asked her if she wants to get away from me and she said no. That she just needs some time to herself. What the hell is going on? I always believed if a woman was doing that to their partner, they weren't serious about being married. Anyone want to shed light on this? Because I can't imagine having holidays without her. The only good to come out of this, is that I have time to ask her why she feels she doesn't want to share with me. Also, we have fought a lot. I'm having second thoughts about staying with her for much longer. It's not exactly an overly exciting marriage. We don't do anything together anyway.

I have cheated on my wife 11 times on dating sites, never met any of the women just talked to them. Now my wife is having mixed feelings on if she should divorce me or give me another chance. She wakes up some days loving me then some days she wants a divorce. We are heading out of town this week and she said she was going with her friend to look at apartments. Should she leave me ? Cheated before we got married on the dating sites then stopped then started back up again.

Let's say we have two totally different people: different socio-economical background, different religion, political viewpoints, ethnicities, nationalities, same education and intelligence but totally different musical/film interests and totally different looks, what chances do they have of being attracted to each other? e.g the one is very conservative, upper middle class, rich, likes parties and social events, good education, likes pop, trance music, glamour and yachting, also has an office job is very tall and always dressed in style. The girl on the other hand, is atheist, anarhist, hippie, socialist, alternative, bohemian, is a feminist, very intelligent, doesn't like partying, wearing makeup and social events, like indie, grooving music, and alternative turism, camping, is much shorter.. what chances do these two people have of ever being attracted to each other? I'm curious to know

desperate to get me & my two children away from their father. I am 27 years old, a mother of two and afraid for my life. I live in a rural town in Illinois, with a population of 500. I have been in a mentally and physically abusive relationship with my children's father for 5 years. We are not married. He refused to allow me to work or go to school to improve myself. He is the Breadwinner in our relationship, I rely soley on his income to care for our kids. I do have a small amount stashed away, but I am desperate to break free from him. My family has discarded me..I have no friends. I havent spoke to any of my family members in 3 years...they all ignore me, because I had children by this man. I am planning to leave him and go to a homeless shelter for our safety...but what state would be suitable? Who would take us in? I am at the point of desperation. My two girls witness me being abused and it hurts them. I do believe their father may end up killing me. What shall I do?? Please give me some advice.

Of the OPPOSITE SEX? If not, why? What makes it different than a coworker of the same sex in things like getting lunch or a drink after work?

I had this gut feeling was wrong with my husband because he never ignores my texts or calls. He went to his moms and they went out partying with his moms bf sister. He met some girl at the sisters house and someone gave him some type of pill to get him high and he was drinking and kissed this random chick. Few second kiss and after he immediately felt sick to his stomach because he has always said he would never cheat under any circumstances. I have done my fair share of talking/texting guys (those are long stories, mostly because it was an intense situation and I was highly depressed no excuses) (deployment killed us) Anyway my husband made me promise that I d forgive which I am, but it is honestly still hurting me so much. I m very self conscious as it is. This has only brought that up a thousand times worse especially since I have gotten home. Every time we pass the area that I know it happened I cringe at just the thought. It is eating me up and he doesn t want to talk about it because he already feels so disgusted at himself. Idk what to do. I ve vented to his mom about it and she didn t give much insight she just listened. She did say the girl is definitely not prettier than me not skinnier and that he pretty much had his beer goggles on but I m still extremely hurt. I m mostly trying to figure out how to move past this and how to heal myself from trying to blame myself. I know this wasn t my fault but I just feel like I have done something wrong.

Hey guys. So my husband is always watching porn. By always I mean daily, almost every chance he gets. It really bothers me that my husband does this, and just the thought of him getting it up for other women daily makes me uncomfortable. I have told him this multiple times and he says that hes going to nevee stop watching porn regardless of what I think! I've told him it hurts me, when he does this and makes me uncomfortable but he doesn't care. A few months back, I also caught him on craigslist in the personals section looking for sex!!! When I asked him he claimed that he just wanted to see naked women's pictures so thats why he did it! He said he never contacted any of them, just was looking at women on ads. It makes me very uncomfortable that he does these things, and I am really starting to wonder what I should do or say? Thank you

I have a lovely wife quiet and shy, she's happy. I have had a string of affairs for 22 years, I am happy My girlfriends were happy, two were married and were unhappy till I met them, now they are happy I have spread love and happiness everywhere ( my penis played a big part) so what is the problem? It's natural and good! You should try it!

She don t want him around the baby just money . This cheating lasted awhile where he spent money n left his kids to hang with her n hers. Do you ever get over this

so like- my husbando won't show me his pp no matter how many times i ask. i've tried to make bargains telling him i'd show stuff if he did and it never worked!! :( our marrige is fallingt apart! help!

I was wondering if you ever regretted getting married young. My boyfriend and I have been planning to get married, and he'll be 19 this month, and I will be 20 in July. Plus, what advice would you give to us? We've been together for 3 years on the 11th of April.

I had this gut feeling was wrong with my husband because he never ignores my texts or calls. He went to his moms and they went out partying with his moms bf sister. He met some girl at the sisters house and someone gave him some type of pill to get him high and he was drinking and kissed this random chick. Few second kiss and after he immediately felt sick to his stomach because he has always said he would never cheat under any circumstances. I have done my fair share of talking/texting guys (those are long stories, mostly because it was an intense situation and I was highly depressed no excuses) (deployment killed us) Anyway my husband made me promise that I d forgive which I am, but it is honestly still hurting me so much. I m very self conscious as it is. This has only brought that up a thousand times worse especially since I have gotten home. Every time we pass the area that I know it happened I cringe at just the thought. It is eating me up and he doesn t want to talk about it because he already feels so disgusted at himself. Idk what to do. I ve vented to his mom about it and she didn t give much insight she just listened. She did say the girl is definitely not prettier than me not skinnier and that he pretty much had his beer goggles on but I m still extremely hurt. I m mostly trying to figure out how to move past this and how to heal myself from trying to blame myself. I know this wasn t my fault but I just feel like I have done something wrong.

This relationship is getting boring