Friends: Question: What do you think of all of this? |
- Question: What do you think of all of this?
- Question: How can I comfort my friend ?
- Question: Best friend killed himself?
- Question: I'm 26 and I'm sad.?
- Question: Everyone gossips and shuns me since my mom told them 5 years ago that i had a lot of partners back in my early 20's. What do i do?
- Question: What word can you discribe this person?
- Question: How long will it be before syaia drop bombs on America?
- Question: Why don't boys talk to me?
- Question: I called a 6 year old a fu##ing bas #@rd because he tripped me up and I went skidding alone the grass , do I have anger issues ?
- Question: What does it mean when you cry over your guy best friend leaving and not being around anymore?
- Question: Anxiety in Werimg make up?
- Question: Is it possible to have a soft spot not in a romantic way for a friend as long as you have known them even if you have other friends ?
- Question: How do I say no to a friend after I already said yes...?
- Question: My best friend is giving me the silent treatment and i don't know what to do...pls help!?
- Question: Are tornadoes, ghosts, zombies, and serial killer's real?? pls answer 10 points!!!?
- Question: Should i go on the school trip or should i not?
- Question: How to stop feeling bad and how to stop thinking about this?
- Question: My friend likes me ?
- Question: Are my friends using me to their advantage?
- Question: How to help someone's that is stressed out?
- Question: My first year of Highschool is coming up pretty soon... but I'm antisocial?
- Question: Why do girls cry for no reason ?
- Question: Please help friends/family problem?
- Question: My roommate damaged my headphones?
- Question: Missing someone is making me depressed?
- Question: Dimitra i am sorry for the bad i done to you but in near future your disaster comes.........?
- Question: Dimitra i will be million times better than you so stfu?
- Question: Birthday friend acting childish and selfish. How to handle him?
- Question: My friend is a meanie poo?
- Question: Is she NOT trustworthy? Or do I have trust problems....?
- Question: I've moved states a lot and because of that I'm always the new kid and always being excluded or bullied. I've began to isolate myself?
- Question: My friend never give people props to their idea, because she makes it her own.?
- Question: What is wrong with my BEST friend?
- Question: I'm gonna be meeting a friend that I haven't seen in years. What should we talk about?
- Question: Is This A Good or Bad Friendship?
- Question: Should I ignore my "best friend"?
- Question: I'm broke and my friend doesn't get it?
- Question: My friends boyfriend kissed me?
- Question: Best friend doesn't care about how I feel?
- Question: I've lost all my friends, what do i do ?
- Question: Guy hesitates to leave at the end of the night?
- Question: Im so bored what do i do?
- Question: Wherever I go other women kick my ***.They dont include me in their cliques and make me leave.Why?
- Question: Should I join basketball and volleyball next year?
- Question: Will the Syrian attack harm the bromance between Putin and Assad?
- Question: Are my friends really my friends?
- Question: Why did he friendzone me?
- Question: I tried distancing myself from my friend and she didn't notice (or she didn't care), what does this mean?
- Question: Why is my friend acting like this? How do I fix it? (Please help me!)?
- Question: My sisters friend was sent to Rehab Center and he got beaten really bad.?
- Question: My friends don't want to hang out?
- Question: Will sorry reminds people what I've done?
- Question: Is it inappropriate to hug a girl?
- Question: How to talk about my problems with friends?
- Question: Advice about a friendship ending?
- Question: COULD YOU ANSWER THIS?
- Question: Should I end a 10 year friendship?
- Question: How to deal with a friend who only talks about her problems?
- Question: Where did the saying love your enemies come from? Why should we do good to those that don't do good to us?
- Question: What to say if you ask someone what's their name and they say " i don't have a name" just because they don't like you ?
| Question: What do you think of all of this? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 05:41 PM PDT I went over my friend Gloria's house to bake with her. When we got done we sat in the living room and visited Her daughter Sara is seven and was not behaving so Dad did a strange thing. First Sara got swatted a half dozen times on her bottom (over her dress while standing). When she kept being naughty he called her over and placed her across his lap with her dress raised. He asked her if she needs a spanking which duh what was it that she just got? He exposed his daughters white underpants to the guest which was ME. What do you think of him doing this? What does he mean by "a spanking"? |
| Question: How can I comfort my friend ? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 05:24 PM PDT My friend is feeling scared because him and his partner are having a baby soon with their surrogate mother. He's really upset he wishes he wasn't having a kid. He doesn't know how to talk to his partner about it he doesn't seem worried. I don't know what made him so upset. He drinks a lot he's also on drugs he says stuff he shouldn't say so I don't think he meant it. He was sitting on his couch crying. He doesn't like talking about what's bothering him. He said grown men shouldn't cry he tries not to cry around me or his partner. I don't think I ever seen a man cry. I don't think he was drunk he sounded very upset. How can I comfort him ? |
| Question: Best friend killed himself? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 04:51 PM PDT My best friend killed himself and as the months pass, I miss him more and become more remorseful that I didn't do more to help him. We were tight and we both knew life could be tough, but I thought we were in the fight together. Daily activities and exercise routines I do (he was my workout partner) constantly remind me of all the good memories we had. I don't understand why he killed himself, but it makes me feel ill to think about it. I don't know who to talk to about this, and am wondering if I should see a grief counselor. |
| Question: I'm 26 and I'm sad.? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 04:50 PM PDT I'm soo lost in life its not even funny anymore. I've faced my fears and still continue to do so.. I've tried attacking my interests head on and with over the 5 years of exploring have been even more lost than what I currently was. I'm a lonely guy and have always been even as a freshmen in high school. The interesting part about all of this is I want friends more than ever and although I try to make friends we meet Once and I hear nothing back from them ever again after our meet.I was abused as a child and as I got. Older I was bullied not only from plp at school but my own family. I have a lot of trust issues and I don't let plp in easy. I was raised by my aunts friend she was basically my mom, and she passed away. A lot of plp I cared about and trusted either died or stop talking to me. I don't know what love is and I want to be loved just as bad as I want to love others. I'm not happy. I am in school now but pharmacy tech is not really something I enjoy. |
| Posted: 08 Apr 2017 04:37 PM PDT btw she lied about my number. i'd told her her it wasn't a huge # like such and such. she told everyone it was. in reality it was way way less. |
| Question: What word can you discribe this person? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 04:30 PM PDT I have 2 different story. Different question. I have always want to know whats the word to discribe these situations becausr i see it all of the time When a person act like a jurk to you, but you dont respond and people are defending you. The jurk tells people you need to defend yourself. One day you finally explode on him. Then the jurk tells people thats the reason he treats you that way and the you do this all of the time. the jurk alway making fun of you while you are working. Others ask him to stop but he says hes only joking. You dont say anything but a day comes when you explode. Then the jurk start nitpicking at everything you do trying to prove to everyone that he made fun of you because you mess up all the time. |
| Question: How long will it be before syaia drop bombs on America? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 04:20 PM PDT Going to another country and telling them what they can and cannot do it's like you going to a person's house and telling them what they can and cannot do. The same way you wouldn't want nobody telling you what to do in your own home is the same way other countries don't want nosy-*** Petty American telling them what they can do and their home. I also find it funny that we are constantly fighting somebody else's War but I never see anybody coming to help us when other countries are hurting us for example 911 I don't remember any other country coming to help us and fight our battle |
| Question: Why don't boys talk to me? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 04:07 PM PDT i'm 15 years old. if i had to be honest, i would say that i'm pretty good looking i guess. i am pretty shy but around my friends i am very outgoing and they say that i'm very funny and pretty (even though i don't always believe them lol). but i've never had a guy friend my entire life. it just seems like boys try to avoid me. i'm not slutty at all but i am really nice. i will admit that i don't really put myself out there around guys but i'd rather have them come to me if they really want to be my friend. i know that sounds counter-productive lol. maybe they're scared or they just don't want to be friends? i was just wondering if anyone has been through a similar situation or knows why that happens. thanks:) |
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| Question: Anxiety in Werimg make up? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 03:26 PM PDT I am 18. I like make up. Andbi want to wear it and show people I am also cute, besides a man with boobs. I've been categorised as a man multiple amount of times, called out to do arm wrestles, picked for football as first in teams and generally you can give me a gold medal in having balls. I've been called out, i accepted it and built on that cuz ist kinda came about and people were smiling so I went with it, saying its what I want, even though I didn't know this possible after effect. Ive made everyone believe with my Martin Freeman reactions that i do not want to wear make up. Its rodiculous and pointless and i dont want it. Keep in mind this was from the very start when the usual yping girl tween starts getting questioned abput make up. Now I am a bit bigger, bit older, the verge of adulthood, and known and expected to be daring and rough. A guy. I want to wear a damn smoky eye and bold red lipstick with the secret make up I've been gathering, but skipping the part of 'damn what happened?!?!?', by both family and ball friends. Especially friends.all that whist wanting to enter a room like "what up! I am here!" crave the idea of it, yet I am paralised by the reality. So internet! My wise, good pal centred with self diagnosis, memes and anime amvs. What have you to tell me? |
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| Question: How do I say no to a friend after I already said yes...? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 02:43 PM PDT My friend asked to stay in my house after a party next week and without thinking I said yes. But I forgot that she is drinking alcohol and planning to get drunk at this party and I'm scared when my mom collects us to drive us home she will know my friend is drunk (she probably will know as she really knows these things). I'm not drinking as we're only 14 and I personally think I am too young, but everyone else my age drinks. I'm afraid if my friend is caught by my mom my mom will think I am too. I don't want to tell my friend the truth about why I don't want her to stay because she can be really persuasive and I'll eventually feel really bad and let her. How do I tell her now she can't stay after I told her she could? (I need excuses) |
| Question: My best friend is giving me the silent treatment and i don't know what to do...pls help!? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 02:43 PM PDT so for a few days now, my friend had been giving me the silent treatment. it started because we both applied to get into this medical program and i got accepted and she didn't. i understand it meant a lot to her and she's upset, however why are u gonna cut me off because of it. the last text she sent me was "don't f***ing say anything i don't need your pity. congrats on getting in. i didn't respond to that because was obviously mad but at school we didn't really talk and it was just so awkward. she's been leaving me on read on snapchat and her behavior just seems extremely childish too me. we are in highschool. what should i do?? |
| Question: Are tornadoes, ghosts, zombies, and serial killer's real?? pls answer 10 points!!!? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 02:32 PM PDT 1. Are Tornadoes in Storms real? 2. Are ghosts real? 3. Are zombies real? 4. Are Serial Killer's real? 5. Are Earthquakes real? 6. Were Dinosaurs real? 7. Are burps/farts real? 8. Are Unicorn's real? 9. Are Witches real? 10. Are sidasd's real PLS ANSWER 100000000! POINTS |
| Question: Should i go on the school trip or should i not? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 02:24 PM PDT Im freshman and i go to a private school.I know this doesnt matter but i wanted to point out because its a private school it means there arent many kids who go to this school.We are like 15 people per class.Anyway my school is organising a 5 day trip in Budapest and Vien.I'd love to go but the problem is most of the kids arent going because some of them will be busy preparing for competitions others cant afford etc.Im a shy girl and cant make friends easily unless someone approaches to me first.I dont have many friends i got like 4 and none of them are going except for 1 who is unsure.The others who are going do not talk with me because we dont get on very well we are like totally opposites so i cant be with them because they dont allow other people in their group.Should i just go alone and spend the trip all alone?We will be staying in a hotel and you will be put with another kid in the room.I dont even know who that is going to be i just hope it wont be one of those with who i dont get along.Please help i should decide by monday which means i have 1 day left to think.I really want to go should i just ignore the fact that my friends arent coming and try to have a good time alone.Im scared if the teacher will give us free time for lets say shopping in malls and i'd be all alone and might get lost? Thanks in advance. |
| Question: How to stop feeling bad and how to stop thinking about this? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 01:54 PM PDT So yesterday in class I was trying to get my friends attention so I threw a gum wrapper at him, but I missed and hit a girl next to him, I apologized but she didn't respond. But I feel absolutely terrible, I don't know if she hates me or not. So do you think she forgave me? |
| Question: My friend likes me ? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 01:44 PM PDT My friend has a huge crush on me. She fallows me around everyday she always wants to hug me. Whenever we watch a scary movie she hugs me really tight and doesn't let go. I don't know how to tell her that I'm gay also I'm married. She doesn't leave me alone. I don't think my husband likes it. What should I do about this ? |
| Question: Are my friends using me to their advantage? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 01:10 PM PDT I tend to overthink a lot... I've worked hard throughout my middle school (I actually listened in class). My average tends to be a 94-95 this year (not to brag). My friends, on the other hand, procrastinate on their work and ALWAYS asks me for help. Their English isn't the best and so they ask me to EDIT their essays and projects. They'd sometimes ask me to help with math homework. Any assignments, they always look at me. One project was to draw what their names mean. Guess what? I'm sorta artistic. My friends immediately came to me because they couldn't draw. The teacher even said that "it's okay if you can't draw, JUST TRY YOUR BEST." I didn't help them since it was an INDIVIDUAL project. I'd be doing the whole project for them. I would have to draw and they would have to COLOR it. (Not to be rude, but they're idiots, I have to help them EVERY TIME.) When I do projects, guess who does all of the work? I do - because I have high expectations. I can't trust them to do work that'll keep my grades up. They copy my worksheets EVERY TIME. I feel like they're too lazy and too dependent. It's like they're piling their work on mine. But I guess I need some help from them too (like they remind me what to do and stuff). I guess I don't see them as friends... if I break the friendship with them now, I won't have anyone to partner up with projects and I'll be alone. I guess you can say that I'm using them (cruel, but I'm guessing that they're using me too). |
| Question: How to help someone's that is stressed out? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 01:02 PM PDT A friend of mine is really stressed out, so she has been getting mental breakdowns. She told me it's about her family (she told me she hates her family), and I don't want to get into her business and told her she doesn't have to tell me if she isn't comfortable telling me about it. I just want to be there and support her. How am I supposed to handle this situation? |
| Question: My first year of Highschool is coming up pretty soon... but I'm antisocial? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 12:45 PM PDT In elementary school, I was quiet and shy. Of course, people got the wrong idea of me (that I hate everyone - since I don't talk - and listen to music stereotype). Trust me, I make every conversation awkward. When they do speak to me (of course, I get startled) I'll stutter. I don't want that to happen again in highschool, and I don't want someone to comment "Oh just try to be more confident... blah blah blah" It's harder than you think. I try to go out of my comfort zone and then immediately retreat back like a fool. |
| Question: Why do girls cry for no reason ? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 12:45 PM PDT My friend is always crying. She always wants me to hug her she tries to talk to me about it but she can't. I hate it when girls cry it's annoying that's why I'm gay because I hate girls. I couldn't stand bein with one especially if they do nothing but cry. I do like her as a friend but she cries almost every day at everything. I don't get why girls do this. I know a lot of girls who are cry babies. Why do girls cry for no reason or over something stupid ? |
| Question: Please help friends/family problem? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 12:00 PM PDT Ok so my dad works all the time and I only get to see him on the weekends other times I go to my moms house well my dad wants to go to the movies to see boss baby yeah I'm 15 sound lame but it's gonna be a good time with my dad and my friend is having people over for her birthday and she's been getting mad bc every time she asked to hang out I say I'm going someonewhere with my dad then she will be like you were with him last weekend well it's not my fault they are devorced and if I don't have out with you ur gonna be mad it's annoying bc she doesn't understand ok well anyway should I cancel my dads plans to go hang with her Ive been distancing my self from her bc she try's to control me and I look bad bc yesterday I went to my other friends birthday whag should I do my dad won't be mad but I feel bad I want to go to her birthday but idk |
| Question: My roommate damaged my headphones? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 11:33 AM PDT He s been borrowing my headphones the whole freaking year and I realized this morning the wire is all messed up thanks to him. He s also very sarcastic as he says things like did you run to Europe today? He repeats things I ve already said and asks me dumb questions like is there meat in meatloaf. He also lost his wallet and my other roommate had to pay for his expenses. He lied to him about not having money to pay for his license, student ID etc. so he had to pay close to 200 dollars and hasn't gotten paid back. He borrowed 20 from me for forgetting his wallet when we went out to eat and hasn't paid me back either. We've both asked several times. God he pisses me off. What do you think of my roommate? I don t know about you, but I think he s an asswipe. |
| Question: Missing someone is making me depressed? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 11:26 AM PDT For the longest time I've been In a bad mood, almost 2 months ago my bestfriend got into an argument with me. She told me she didn't want to ever talk to me. She has me blocked, but ever since then I've been down and treating people really bad. ( because the person I care about the most walked away so why should I care about the others) . I've never had anyone care about me the way she did not even family, I feel so down. can somebody give me some advice please, I really need it !!! |
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| Question: Dimitra i will be million times better than you so stfu? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 11:15 AM PDT |
| Question: Birthday friend acting childish and selfish. How to handle him? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 11:14 AM PDT We had plans hanging out Saturday night and Sunday for his birthday. He has been my platonic guy friend for years now. So, he called me last night at 5am in the morning to see if i would come out immediately for his friday night (saturday morning after party. He was pretty messed up when he called me but was being very demanding and threatening to end our friendship if i don't do this. Thing is....it was 5am.....geez. I was planning on hanging out with him tonight. Because i wouldn't hang out for this friday night after party, he got upset and hung up on me. Thing is, this weekend is for several friends birthday parties (its our friend group they all know each other). So I'm still going, but this guy really upset me by acting like this. How should i handle him tonight? |
| Question: My friend is a meanie poo? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 10:53 AM PDT She is so mean. I will tell u what she did. I stole her phone because she doesn't deserve and she actually got angry and told on me! Isn't that so mean? And guess what... I WAS PUNISHED. I asked her to give me her phone if o give her a REAL piece of rare white A4 paper. But she refused?! Why would she do that. She doesn't let me know her password to her phone. Once I was reading her texts, not a bad thing AND SHE GOT MAD! She is meanie meanie meanie. And she's a copycat. She had an iPhone 6 so I got an iPhone 6 and now I'm telling everyone she copied me! She copied me by smiling. She copied me by getting glasses and having black hair. She copied me by downloading whatsapp. She even copied my room! I painted my walls blue and she painted hers pink. I got a uniform and she wears THE SAME UNIFORM. Ugh I hate her. I smashed her pretty mug she got from her dead father and she cried. Like wth?? |
| Question: Is she NOT trustworthy? Or do I have trust problems....? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 10:30 AM PDT I have been seeing a sweet & gorgeous girl in my geology class in college for about 2 months. We've been texting everyday & hanging out every week. We made out every time we hungout outside of school. We are not "officially dating" but as you can tell, we're almost there. There is a very strong connection between us. There are only 2 girls & 13 guys in the class. Shes a VERY friendly person to begin with. But Ive noticed shes been talking ALOT to a few other guys in the class...mainly 2 or 3 of the more attractive looking men. Who knows, maybe she gave them her number too. Not going to lie, its upsetting me to the point where i dont even wanna text/talk to her anymore. And i cant get her jealous because I have no other girl to flirt with. (The other girl in the class is married with a kid). I dont want to tell her that I dont like her laughing/flirting with them because itll be a major turn off & red flag. And I dont want to totally stop talking to her because she is by far the coolest girl I ever met. What should I do? |
| Posted: 08 Apr 2017 10:19 AM PDT I don't know what to do anymore. I'm kind of quiet until I get to know people and people never bother talking to me much. I don't want to sound conceited, but I know its because I'm more physically attractive than other people. And I pretend to be more quiet and confident than I really am. People always bully me and exclude me, but just recently I moved to a different state and I'm here to stay. I used to be able to isolate myself for a year until we moved again... Now I can't do that. I'm not sure what to do |
| Question: My friend never give people props to their idea, because she makes it her own.? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 10:09 AM PDT I have a friend I've been friends with for many many years. She's thoughtful and generous, but there's this one thing in her personality that drives me nuts. I'll have an idea and present it to her, telling her this is what I'm gonna do, but then she starts announcing it to people like it was her idea. She doesn't just do this to me, I noticed she does that to other people. I guess what i'm asking is, have you had someone like that in your life, and how did you deal with it? |
| Question: What is wrong with my BEST friend? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 10:06 AM PDT So my bff is acting like a total *****. When we were little she said she hated slutty girls and would never hang out with them but now most of her friends are like that and she's starting to act like them. We are both females but I didn't change but she has like she is girly-ish and I'm an emo tomboy girl so yeah. Whenever I say something she will always try to disagree even when I'm right and doesn't like to accused of being wrong and if I say something she doesn't like she gets this "shut the f up" face. She thinks I'm super weak and says she will kill me but I have slapped her hard before and she doesn't even hurt me. Also she wants to be the center of attention and I hate and always tells people's secrets that why half the time i have to lie to her because I will never tell my secrets. Sometimes I want to kill her so badly I tell to leave me alone and she still doesn't I even block for phone number but she gets so angry about. Please give me honest answers and if you have nothing to say don't say it. |
| Question: I'm gonna be meeting a friend that I haven't seen in years. What should we talk about? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 10:06 AM PDT Just to clarify, this is someone I was friends with in High School. We haven't seen each other in about 4 years, but we occasionally talk on Facebook. We both realised that we still live in the same area, so I said we should meet up. I just don't know where to start with the conversation. |
| Question: Is This A Good or Bad Friendship? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 09:43 AM PDT A little more than a year ago, I met a girl on YouTube who replied to a comment I made about Christina Aguilera's Dirrty song. From then on, we started talking regularly. As time went on, we became genuine, solid friends, and we still are. We've learned so much about each other, we've told each other secrets that we wouldn't admit to others, and we have a lot in common. There've been times where we would fight and insult and/or yell at each other viciously in the heat of the moment, but we always come around and apologize to each other, thus strengthening our bond. Even though we've never met in person, we really want to someday (I live in Maryland, she lives in California). Our most recent fight happened on Wednesday night, and in the convo I said I had to go to bed. She's usually pretty good at understanding when I say that, but this was one of the few times she didn't understand. I got frustrated because I ended up to say it 3 times, she asked me if I was on drugs, and she insulted me. Then I insulted her back by telling her to **** off and stop being needy, and that she meant nothing to me anymore. Then after that, she said that I went too far with my insults, and that she's not sure if she can trust me anymore. Then last night we tried to resolve our conflict. She admitted she was wrong for insulting me the way she did, but she also admitted she was hurt by my insults, and that it would take her a while to fully trust me again. Is this friendship healthy or toxic? |
| Question: Should I ignore my "best friend"? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 08:37 AM PDT My best friend has lied to me on multiple occasions. He keeps joking about ending our friendship. He says rude things and calls it a joke. I honestly feel like he doesn't even care about my feelings because I've cried in front of him and all he did was laugh and say he would call me back when I was done crying instead of actually comforting me. And now I'm done with it. I still want to be his friend, but I need a break from him. I want to give him a taste of what it would be like without me in his life. So I'm thinking I could: 1) hang out with my girls and post it everywhere so he knows I'm still having fun 2) Only contact him to say, "Sorry I'm hanging out with other friends right now." I'm sick of him treating me badly! I want him to know his place because he always thinks he's all that and he's not. It's the weekend too, so it's the perfect time to hang out with other people or say I'm busy. He thinks he's my only friend and all my fun depends on him. Well it doesn't and I'm sick of him thinking that. If you have any more ideas let me know please. Also what are some thing I could go do with my other friends that maybe you would be jealous of if you didn't get invited? |
| Question: I'm broke and my friend doesn't get it? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 08:24 AM PDT I've been friends with her for 3 years now and We connect on so many things and I love her family and she loves mine. The problem is she comes from a very wealthy family and my family is struggling from pay check to pay check. I don't make a lot at the moment and even if I did the money would go to things we need around the house like new furniture and groceries and so on...I have priorities. I also save a lot. Once a year I'll go on a huge shopping spree with some of the money I've saved. But again that's once a year. My friend knows about my financial problems but she ignorant. Whenever she wants to hang out she wants to go out until one day I finally told her 'I don't have money and I've been lying to you that I can't go out with you because I don't have it so stop asking me to go out' I just lost it because I'd drop so many hints. Like oh I'm busy, I'm on a budget, I'm trying to cut down on spending and she'd just keep asking. What frustrated me the most is that I really did want to hang out but I didn't want to spend money. Now we're both graduating college and she wants to match dresses which again I cannot afford. I wasn't even planning on going to graduation because I don't care for it. Now the nice thing about her is that she'll offer to pay. And I have said yes once. But it makes me feel like such a loser having her constantly pay for things for me. So I still avoid going out with her. I want to pay for myself or I don't want to go at all. I don't know what to do. |
| Question: My friends boyfriend kissed me? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 08:23 AM PDT My friends boyfriend kissed me and i liked it. He's been flirting with me for a while and all of a sudden he kissed me. He said he was going to break up with is girlfriend so we can be together. I really like him but I don't want to hurt my friend. She really likes him. I don't want to ruin our friendship but I also really like him. |
| Question: Best friend doesn't care about how I feel? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 08:15 AM PDT Earlier this week I had a problem with my best friend. Some girl called me and "stalker-*** *****" because I was still sitting in my car after my mom picked me up. My friend happened to catch it on snapchat and sent it to me asking why I was still there. I played it in the car as we were driving away and my mom heard it. So she contacted the girls mom telling her what happened. Overall the girl lied to her mom, and the mom believed her and not a grown adult. Then when we tried to get evidence she called me that, we texted my best friend. He continuously said, "DONT TELL HER MOM SHE CALLED YOU THAT. SHE WILL GET IN TROUBLE" then said to tell her mom that she was talking about a suspected "stalker who knows where she lives". Which my friend was lying to me about. He then called me "uncool" when I said I wasn't going to lie. After the whole thing happend I called him on FaceTime. He saw me crying, I asked him to tell the truth. But he still lied to me about her calling me a that. And at this point I was only upset about him lying. A day later while we were talking on the phone he even said he felt bad for her. But yet his own best friend was crying on the phone about it. And I even told him I was upset the next day. Also, today I cried, because he joked about ending our friendship, I was being cocky in a video game. I stopped playing with him because I was crying. And all he said was, "K well I'm going call you back when you-" then I ended the call and he didn't text me. |
| Question: I've lost all my friends, what do i do ? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 08:05 AM PDT so lets just off with this boy, who apparently liked me, and he said he loved me, but i guess not.when i told him i didn't like him back really and things felt rushed, he jus ignored me. and he didnt say anything. so, he's gone, and i think he's mad. then next my bestfreind. or should i say my ex best friend, i don't know. she replaced me. like i was nothing, so things have been going on and i was telling her and all she replied with was 'omg' and i got kinda annoyed right? so i was like 'just omg ? " then she sarcastically said sorry in a rude way and then i found out she was with her other friend. so i asked if she was mad and all she said was "bye" i didn't do anything ? its just that she had another person there to replace me she didn't care if she lost me? so. now, my other friend, the one i got in a fight with , so she was trying to help me apparently ? with the situation and being rude she would say " he doesnly like you. get over it. get over him like all the boys do to you" so i was hurt. then she said " you're helpless.your old friend , he told me that he sopped talking to you because you're to hard to help. I've tried helping you but you wont listen so you've lost me. " and i was confused. am i really that helpless?? and then she said " its not my fault you get inspired to be suicidal whenever you watch a suicide show" like really??? I've told you about wanting to kill myself so many times. i don't know. i don't have anyone. that all happened in one night.help me |
| Question: Guy hesitates to leave at the end of the night? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 06:58 AM PDT Hey everyone! I'm confused if this guy actually is interested cause he hasn't shown many signs (hasn't asked me out, etc) but he very obviously hesitated to leave at the end of the night and turned around at the doorway and was staring at me while I was with a friend. I turned and stared back and then he looked away and left. But he doesn't seem shy in general? We were all at a friend's house and he is a coworker. |
| Question: Im so bored what do i do? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 06:48 AM PDT So im really i woke up at around 1pm bored ive done 150 press ups 100 sit ups a few pull ups lifted my dumbbells a lot watched bassiclly every anime there ever was watched all the new movies which ar hd in gomovies played basketball im not allowed the xbox since my grades fell my computer is broken and even after all that im still bored whaaat doooo iiiii diooooo? i didnt mean i watched all anime and movies in one day obviousley Btw im irish not amrican |
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| Question: Should I join basketball and volleyball next year? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 06:35 AM PDT So,this school year is coming to an end and while my dad and I were waiting in the doctor's office, I asked him why he never lets me do anything with my friends and he says that it's not safe in our town, they live far away (even though my friends don't live far away), It's not in our culture to go to people's houses (We're Hindus), that I'm not old enough and he'll let me in high school etc. Then he suggested joining sports next year (since this school year is coming to an end) and I've never joined a sport/club before, I'm in middle school.I want to join basketball and volleyball but I barely even know how to play and I'm horrible at them. Also, I don't want to make a fool out of myself infront of everyone and I'm really nervous about playing infront of other people like a game against another team. I want to but I just don't know how to play. Please answer, I would really appreciate it. |
| Question: Will the Syrian attack harm the bromance between Putin and Assad? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 06:08 AM PDT |
| Question: Are my friends really my friends? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 05:57 AM PDT I'm 17 and i go to high school (first year). And in the last couple couple months i feel like i don't have "friends" even though i do. I feel like my friends don't care about me outside of school. They never invite me to anything so i'm home 90 percent of the time. Even though it's nice to spend time home alone, it's also really frustrating to not go out with friends outside. For example a few days ago my friends who i always hang out with at school were talking about how they went bowling like a month ago, but they haven't even told me about it (they were talking with another guy and I was listening in the discussion). I was laughing along and pretended to not be bothered, but in reality i am. And it's not just these friends, it's been like this for like 2 years. I've had more then 30 friends at school and I've never hung out with any of them. Even people who I knew and talked with, i lost contact with them because it just seems that they don't care. Sorry if question all over the place or confusing but tbh i'm confused myself. |
| Question: Why did he friendzone me? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 04:46 AM PDT I have been spending a lot of time together with this guy for a few months. When we hang out together we have a great time and he is always laughing and smiling in my company. I asked him recently what he felt about me and he went very flustered and started stuttering and repeating himself. He went very embarrassed and said that he enjoys spending time with me and wants to continue hanging out with me. He also said that at one point he was thinking 'should I kiss her' But then he said 'i hope you still want to hang out with me after tonight' Why did he friendzone me after he said he wanted to kiss me? |
| Posted: 08 Apr 2017 04:36 AM PDT You know how sometimes you got to distance yourself from people and if they care about you, they'll notice? I tried that with one of my friends and she just went on with life, not even asking me what's wrong or what changed. I think she's using me but there's literally nothing to use me for. Maybe except the fact that I drive and she doesn't but she doesn't ask me for rides. Finally, about 2 weeks after avoiding her, all she did was say, "I miss you"... which was a load of crap. Anyways, I wanna talk to her and see if I did something wrong. But sometimes people just aren't friends. I simply don't know which one it is. I need to have a strong argument so she can understand clearly and I don't know how to explain the whole "distancing myself from her" thing and what I learned from it. |
| Question: Why is my friend acting like this? How do I fix it? (Please help me!)? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 03:58 AM PDT Both of us are college students but I am a senior and she is a sophomore. I asked a close friend of mine out to the movies and she rejected me. Of course, i moved on shortly afterwards. Since then, though, every time we talk it isn't super awkward but her body language has changed and i need some help in translating it. She is smiling and nodding to the things I say, but she is seems nervous and looking like she is trying to avoid making too much eye contact with me during conversation. Her tone of voice doesn't change and, when I sent her photos over my phone of a museum I went to over spring break, she replied back saying how great the photos looked [even though they are kind of average] and she was glad that I had a fun spring break [even though I never said I had a great time]. She also included a smiley face at the end of it. She also seemed angry to see me at a coffee shop one day and moved to a different part of the coffee shop. As I mentioned before, I am really confused as to what she is trying to convey and could use some help trying to figure it out. I want to help but I don't know what to do. Thanks in advance for the answers. If you have a question you would like help with, leave a link to the question along with your answer and I will answer it to the best of my abilities. |
| Question: My sisters friend was sent to Rehab Center and he got beaten really bad.? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 03:32 AM PDT |
| Question: My friends don't want to hang out? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 02:17 AM PDT Okay so I'm a 15 year old guy and I have 5 good friends (we are a group of 6 who always hang out). We always hang out in school but never outside or after school. I often ask them if they want to hang out, go eat lunch, or anything like that but they either don't answer it at all or they say something like "I don't know". We have a chat group together and yesterday I asked if they wanted to hang out or do something during spring break and now, after 30 hours the only thing someone has said is LITERALLY "gayyy". Are they all loners? I know they like me because they laugh at my jokes and ask me for help in school and I know that they don't hang out behind my back or something like that. So what the heck is wrong? Why are they so boring and is there something I can do about it?? |
| Question: Will sorry reminds people what I've done? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 01:54 AM PDT I've said something that offended my friend few days ago. I didn't apologize on the spot because he was so upset and angry. If I go and apologize now, will I remind him about the incident and therefore get mad again? |
| Question: Is it inappropriate to hug a girl? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 01:24 AM PDT I'm a 14yo boy. Yesterday, I was strolling around the back of the gym during recess and saw that one of my classmates (a girl) was crying. Mind you, we speak rarely. She's in the popular circle, whereas and I'm just a quiet (and a little antisocial) kid. I asked her what had happened. She said that it was nothing. Then I started to feel really sorry for her as she's really pretty and is usually always laughing and I hate seeing people cry. Then I did something stupid. I hugged her and asked her again. She didn't hug back, but she didn't push me away. Apparently she had a big fight with her friend in another class. I did my best to comfort her and I think it worked. She was her happy self and I think I noticed her looking at me twice and for the first time in my life, a girl said bye to me at the end of the day. But now I feel super awkward and embarrassed. I've never hugged a girl before. Was it inappropriate and will I get into trouble? And is there a chance her parents will yell at me or something if this gets out? |
| Question: How to talk about my problems with friends? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 12:46 AM PDT People i need some piece of advice! Today i was sad, and a friend of mine asked me if i wanted to talk about my problems. I really wanted to say yes and to tell her whats going on, but i didn't know how to explain my problem or how to start talking about it, so i said no, that i was just fine. I really want to talk with her about it, but i dont know how. How can i talk with her about my problems? |
| Question: Advice about a friendship ending? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 12:37 AM PDT Basically me and this girl have been friends since 6 grade i am now 19. She basically started acting shady around me trying to top everything that i will have or say she started lying and things the whole situation seemed like jealousy to me. She deleted me from social media after i put something about me getting my degree soon, and she posted on her page that people shouldn't brag about how their life is going. That's when I realized she really is jealous. It hurts because shes been my friend for so long, how do i fet over this |
| Question: COULD YOU ANSWER THIS? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 12:37 AM PDT Ok so I have been sober from weed for more than 3 years and 3 months today while my close friends are still using it and other drugs aswell every now and then. I have noticed that once Ive gotten clean we dont really get along as good as we did once we were all stoned or drunk. Are your friends really friends if you only can have a good time if you are drunk or High. Or should I get some new friends? Btw these two friends are also twins And they are Aquarius and im a cancer. |
| Question: Should I end a 10 year friendship? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 12:31 AM PDT I've had this friend for 10 years and I've been wanting to end the friendship for a few years but I'm not sure how. She's always been super clingy, she's a freeloader, she messes up my things, she annoys me, she doesn't care about my problems, and she takes me for granted by ditching me to hangout with people who are mean to her and also never appreciates me when I support her and am patient with her and buy her things (which she has never paid me back for once). I put in more effort to the friendship than she does and I'm just kind of sick of this dead weight. It's hard to stop talking to her because I have a group chat with her and another friend who I still like. Plus she's friends with my family and I see her in school. I've tried talking to her about this stuff a couple times before to see if she will improve, but she just doesn't listen. I don't know how to go about this. Has anyone ever done this before? How? Thanks. |
| Question: How to deal with a friend who only talks about her problems? Posted: 08 Apr 2017 12:27 AM PDT So I have this childhood friend, now we live in different countries and talk mostly via txt, who just talks about her problems. She is in love with this guy for 2 years and obviously he doesn't like her but she doesn't admit it. Every time I tell her I think you don't see the reality, she doesn't like when I tell her the truth, just wants me to agree with her. All she says, is "I said, he said.... " and txts 24 hours a day. I got real major problems in my life now and she never asks me how I'm doing, even if I tell her something about myself she won't respond back for a day, otherwise she texts 24/7 about how bad she feels. Today I tried to change the subject and wanted to tell her about this guy I've dated (and I don't date lots of people), she just ignored what I said and moved on with her same story. If she wasn't a childhood friend I would definitely not be friends with her. I feel like all I gain from the friendship is her negativity, and headache because I get mad that she doesn't notice anything happening around her. How should I deal with the situation????? |
| Posted: 07 Apr 2017 11:46 PM PDT Anybody that tells me to love my enemies is an enemy to me. A person must reep what they sow. I only want to do good to those that do good to me. |
| Posted: 07 Apr 2017 11:22 PM PDT okay so people at my school whenever i try to meet some people there was this one kid when i asked what was his name he said "I don't have a name". are there any combacks or anything to say if that happens to me again ? |
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