I made an evite for my 14th birthday party (It's just a sleepover, and I only invited my 5 closest friends not like inviting the whole class to Chuck-E-Cheese) and I took a screenshot and sent it to my friends individually (I don't think one of them will go and I don't want it to be awkward for them but they don't really answer any of my texts so maybe I should talk to them at school instead.) and it's been hours and none of them have responded. I know they've seen it for a fact. I'm a tad depressed and have mild anxiety so this is freaking me out. What should I do? Wait, say somthing? Ugh.

I just did that. I had to take my friend home so since I did not get out of my car I drove barefoot and did not bring my shoes. I did not need shoes to drive my car for 20 minutes since I did not go in anyplace.

My best friend has very bad autism and special needs. She wants to spend time with me all the time and she played me and my friend off against each other by asking me if she could come down on the train to see me, I said no because of the situation I'm in. She then went and asked my friend and told her I said it was ok. She wanted to meet her so she could meet me. I don't know how to react to this? It's something a kid would do, should I forgive her?

I want to break up our friendship but she was really depresed last year and wanted to kill herself and I don't know how to do this

I had known this girl for six months but I recently decided to end our friendship. She started flirting with me once we got to know each other and suggested on multiple occasions that we hookup but I turned it down since I wanted something long term. She has been hurt by her three previous boyfriends and has been single for over two years so I did not mind staying her friend but she kept changing her mind almost every week about what she really wanted and it was starting to get annoying. A few weeks back she claimed that she always saw me as a friend after I turned down her latest request of sleeping with her. She has had fwb in the past and it never worked out and she always blamed the guys for it. Not to mention that i personally did not feel comfortable eventually dating someone who was willing to put herself out there so easily. For this and other reasons I ended our friendship and she apologized for what happened after initially blaming me. She says she does not know how to act around guys and does not know what she was doing, an excuse I still don't buy into. She still wants to stay friends after all that but I don't know what to do anymore. I have always felt like she has not been completely honest with me and hasnt put as much effort into our friendship but at the same time I do kind of care about her still. She suffers from anxiety and depression due to a rough childhood and i can tell she is really upset over what happened. She asked me to consider us remaining friends which is why I don't know what to do

About 2 months ago i hooked up with one of my closest guy friends. We're in the same friend group so all our friends know now. Ive only seen him like twice since it happened but both times we were really awkward and tense. How can i avoid this? Im starting school on monday so were gonna have to see each other everyday and avoiding him is impossible because were in the same friend group. How can i try to be less awkward or make everything less tense? Hes one of my best friends and i dont want to mess up the friendship because of something so stupid.

Ever since I was little I have always a 'loner'. I prefer my own company. Making friends was different (it still is. I only have a few friends). I don't how to to start conversations (they how to start first. Most of the time it ends it awkward silence). I get easily annoyed and emotional (if someone doesn't understand what I mean then I can start crying. If they say something a can get emotional). I hate myself because I don't know what's wrong with me. Doctors say I'm just depressed, but it doesn't feel right. It's difficult to explain. Can someone help? I'm 22 years old.

Hey guys so, on thursday i bunked off school and went to the shisha lounge and then to the mall because we had stupid tests i didnt prepare for and they wont even effect my final result...and i feel really bad? like i betrayed my parents? am i a bad person

Okay so at school yesterday we had an assembly, and as we were leaving I was with a couple friends and there was someone in front of me who looked like a friend of mine, I pushed him and he turned around, it wasn t my friend it was someone who was in an old class I had with him but i m sure they don t know my name. I felt so bad about it afterwards but I didn t apologize then, I just walked off because I was embarrassed. I get anxiety frequently and this just took over me and I actually left school because I got so paranoid he would tell security about it and I would get suspended. I ve pushed my friends before as a joke, nothing malicious and that s what happened after the assembly except it was the wrong person. It s been a day since this has happened and I still can t stop thinking about it. I ve never been in trouble before, I m a junior by the way. I looked this kid up on facebook and wrote a message that I m debating on sending, I m scared that he might tell security anyways. "Hey, I just wanted to say I m really sorry about yesterday after the pep assembly, I thought you were someone else when I pushed you (I do that to my friends as a joke and I mistook you for one of my friends, you looked like them from behind) I didn t mean anything by it but I feel awful. I m really sorry." My friend said he probably doesn t remember it but I still feel bad and this just feels like the right thing to do. Any advice?

This is going to sound stupid, but a couple years ago I was out at the mall with some friends and one of the friends mom. So we went to Sephora. Now I'm a really straight-laced person, and I'm a complete goody two-shoes. But for some reason, I really wanted this makeup thing. I put it in my pocket when I was sure nobody was looking (I'm sure they had cameras, but I was young) But I felt so guilty that I pulled it out of my pocket and made sure to let people know I accidentally put it in my pocket, and joked about it. I feel so guilty though. I never even took the thing, but I still feel super bad about it. I'm not sure why. Any tips about how to get over this guilt? Thanks :)

My best friend was in love with me. I really really liked him,but just as friends. One night he caught me having sex at our town park with a man. I was 17 at that time,he was 18. This happened about some days before our high school graduation in 2004. We weren't together so I had the right to do that. He was hurt however and just ran away. I tried to talk to him at school in the days afterwards but he would just ignore me. He joined the marines that summer and died in action in Iraq in the winter of 2005 at the age of 19. Now after 10 years that he left this world I still get sad that we ended our friendship because of that and that I will never be able to fix it. I was thinking about going to lay flowers to his grave but I don't know if I can.Reading "PFC US MARINE CORPS-OPERATION IRAQI FREEDOM" makes it harder to accept because he had his had his whole life ahead. Plus I was not cheating on him but I just miss him during this time of year and to know the way he died makes me cry loud. Should I just visit his grave? on a side note I am a mommy right now and I love my family more than anything in the world,but everytime someone mentions him or when I think about him from time to time I can't help but feel guilty about it

There's a group of students (5-7) of them that I've gotten to know over the past year because we were placed in a group to do assignments together. We are 2nd year students...this group thing only happened this year and we still work together, we really get along, laugh and enjoy every assignment we do. Last year I would just see them around but not talk to them. I don't know if its appropriate to add them on instagram or even Facebook. Two are guys and the rest are girls. I only have friend intentions with the guys, nothing more.

I'm 21, and sort of got recruited to entertain two 17-year-olds once in a while. They're both great girls and a lot of fun to hang out with. I know they aren't that much younger than me, but it's young enough that I'm not really sure what to do with them. They're looking to me to be like the cool big sister and give them alcohol or whatever, but as my boyfriend and I own our home, we can't afford to take any chances. What can I do that's safe and legal with them that's a little more exciting than hanging out with their parents? update: we're on a budget here

Does she need space to calm down?? im a dude and my besfriend was a girl fir the past 4 years, We were so close. i even paid for her daughters swimming classes. but 3 weeks ago ago we had an argument, in my home Because she thought i lied to her about something. soo I softly held her because I didn't want her to leave, because she was crying and she was gonna drive. she later told me she was abused in the past and she said I crossed the line when I touched her. she blocked me from everything, Soo I sent her a really long apology letter to her house with roses. .... but This Wednesday the police came to my house that I need to just leave her alone because she's had enough. ( She did not tell police I touched her) but I cant stop thinking about the situation, I know she contacted police but will she ever talj to me again?? does she need time to calm down?

I'm a 17 year-old high-school student from Eastern Europe (Romania). And I've had a pretty troubled childhood. My father abandoned me when I was a kid, my mom and dad separated when I was 3. My older brother's lived in the US my entire life and I only met him once. My sister and I rarely talk to each other, and she lives in another part of town. Growing up with my mother and grandma alone was very sad for me, and really left its toll on me. I had a dad, brother and sister yet they were never there. Now, my family and I are getting along but the scars are still there. Anyway, I've had lots of problems trying to fit in at school ever since first grade. My classmates regularly mocked me and bullied me. I changed schools back in 5th grade. That didn't help either. My new classmates saw me as weak, and continued bullying me. I had little to no friends I could talk to or have fun with. It was the time when I regularly got very angry at them and just wanted to leave them alone. It was also the time when I started picking up fights with them - I just wanted them to leave me alone. And they never did. Eventually, high school came about. And fitting in...it wasn't easy. The guys here started making fun of me. It was very difficult for me to make friends. They even played with my feelings by making me fall in love with a girl just because they told her to flirt with me once just because they wanted to make fun of me. (part 1) And I fell for their stupid joke I ended up getting rejected brutally, and due to that and getting bullied even more, I started developing suicidal feelings. I just couldn't handle it. Then came tenth grade. A new girl came into our class, and she was being nice to everyone. Anyway, due to the aforementioned reasons, I ended up cutting myself out of despair. After countless meetings with the head teacher and the school counselor, I thought I had fixed things, but I hadn't. (part 2) Anyway, the new girl and I were assigned on the same two-person team on an English project. I was the isolated friendless weirdo, yet we bonded and got along really well. She even gave me tips on how to deal with my problems, including my former crush. And she was always there for me - she was pretty supportive. After we presented the English project, she went in and hugged me. Back then it felt like she was the sister I never had (keep in mind that me and my real sister rarely talk) (part 3) Back then it felt like she was the sister i never had (keep in mind that me and my actual sister rarely talk). I had not expected that. But I was happy inside. That was the moment I started having feelings for her. Skip ahead to 11th grade, and I ended up falling in love with her. For real. It was a really deep feeling, and I know we were getting along really well. But of course, I had to make a mess of things. I think I was attaching myself to her too much, and I was being annoying. (part 4) I was acting really really shy around her, and I was overall really scared to even talk to her - a problem I hadn't had earlier - when her and I were getting along well. And so I asked a guy for tips on how to approach her. And that guy seemed trustworthy, like a good friend. But hell no, that wasn't the case.Following some of his tips, she ended up getting more and more distanced from me. Last week, he told me that I have no chance with her and that she thinks I'm an annoying idiot. (part 5) That really hurt me. And now, I'm also really afraid of losing my father to cancer. Over the last week I've been extremely stressed. Two days ago was the last straw. I had apologized to her the previous day for being such a weirdo, and she said that I shouldn't worry about that and that she's not mad. However, 2 days ago, that guy told me that she didn't like the apology (he was there when I apologized to her) and that I've really only made her more angry. That was when my rage broke. (part 6) My anger deep inside all burst out at once. I then punched my head out of frustration around 50 times and started yelling chaotically during class, and I came home with a really red forehead. I feel like it's my fault for all of this. It's me and my stupidity that have turned her from one of my best (and only) friends that I really got along well with to a person that hates me a lot. And no, I haven't told her I like her. I really hate myself for all that. (part 7 - only 2-3 more parts to go) Not to mention that my social life is still one big pile of **** and that I'm worrying a lot about potentially losing my dad....I just want to die...it's too much for me to handle. To add insult to injury, I've only just found out today that her and the guy who was "helping" me are now a couple. I feel like being stabbed in the back. No real friends that I can rely on, a divided family, having the girl I love hate me. I just don't know what to do any longer. I just want to die... (part 8) I don't see any hope in life. I've ruined everything and I'm a worthless bastard. Please someone just help me.... I don't know what to do anymore. (final part. Thanks for taking your time to read it all)

I'm sooo sad. I'm depressed. I'm at the verge of breaking down crying. I took everything in my life for granted and I regret that so much. I took my best friends for granted. Now I have none. I'm always all by myself at school. It's terrible I just wanna run away and hide. I took my younger cousin for granted too. I would always be like she's so annoying when she would always ask people for me and would look for me. She would always be so excited to see me. I was her favorite person. Now She has other friends and kind of pushed me away too. I took my sister for granted too. She used to live at home till she got married recently and moved away. I miss her so much. I barely see her. I wish I would've appreciated her more. I want her to live at home again. And my mom changed too I feel like she misses her a little so she's always kind of bored and doesn't talk much at home. I'm so depressed. I wanna turn back time. I wanna be happy again. I used to be the happiest person. Now I'm just always serious and sad. Will this feeling ever go away.!! Can someone please cheer me up??

No matter what grade the freshmen are (depending on the school system, not all schools in Canada have grades 9-12 high schools), the seniors hate the youngest grade. My school is a grades 8-12 school and I'm in grade 9 now so they kind of take it a big easier on me. Last year was horrible. Even when my dad was in high school, they were mean! He told me that his school had this thing on the first day of school where they prank the freshmen by doing things like whip creaming the lockers of freshmen, directing them to the wrong locations, and making them think that they're invited to hang out so they can just have a group of 17-18 year olds prank on an 8th grader. The whip cream thing is gone now since the principals from different schools came together and decided to ban it because it went too far. Nowadays, they just smirk at the younger grades and talk to them in a babyish voice using terms like: sweetie, honey, dear, etc. with a little sarcasm. When I was in 7th grade, we were going to a concert at the local high school and the teacher told us to come to school early. Back then I was clueless about high school and I forgot the date of when we're taking a trip to the high school so I asked my guy friend's older sister who was a senior at the school at that time on Facebook. I expected a serious response but she replied with something like, "aww sweetie it's on Monday LOL". Then she acted shocked when i actually wore makeup at the time. Then she was like i'm in 7th grade and too young to wear makeup?? She kept typing in a childish way as if she was making fun of me.

Recently my guy friend has been going through my phone and looking at my photos my calendar it is my messages everything and then he came across my calendar for my period. So I was shocked the other day when he said oh yeah you're supposed to be on your. Today I was shocked and asked him how he knew he said he remembered from two weeks ago. I know that he's not gay but why is he so concerned. Because two days after that he asked me was I so my. I said yes he asked me if it hurt I said yes and yeah is that normal or am I just overthinking things

So I'm a freshman in high school and on the first day of school I met this girl named marissa and she was sweet and we became friends, then we started hanging out and so on... then we became best friends we hung out with eachother everyday. We would have little fights there and there but we always fixed it. As time passed we met this other girl named Leslie and she also became our best friend so it was us 3 all hanging out all the time. Hanging out every weekend etc. Then couple months after we kind of started to argue a lot more over stupid things. Me and marissa my best friend were the ones always arguing and leslie always took marissa side so when I left them I was left alone. After that all its been is arguing and arguing every day and months pass and we still argue every day. So then she started hanging out with leslie and leaving me out. She told me it's because we always are arguing and whenever she's with me it's just arguing but with leslie she's having fun and laughing. So days have passed and we don't talk we don't text and I miss how things used to be. Now I feel like they talk bad about me and I miss my old friends. U think that marissa misses me? You think that she will end up coming back. Maybe we needed a break from eachother because we would hang out everyday. I really miss my best friends now... what should I do? You think my best friend will come back after time? Advice please thanks.

I've told him a thousand times to leave my stuff alone. I can't get the smell of poop off of it and I've washed it 4 times already.

my gf has nice t*ts and a great azz.. my dad rools whenever she comes over, mom has flat chest and old lady butt. lol..why cant my dad get his own girl to drool over?

i know for a fact that they didnt.

I'm scared, I'm honestly scared. I've already wasted so much time. I'm 25 years old and my 20s and halfway done. As of now I: - Am still a virgin. I went to an all boys' high school, had no game with girls in college, and it expanded to no game afterwards. - Still live with my parents. I work in a low paying job. No reason to quit and find another job because I am attempting to start another business on the side. - Have limited travel experience. I've only been out of the country twice. - Don't have a lot of friends. The friends I did have in college moved away or my social circle disintegrated. I feel as if I'm drowning. I know I can't stay in my home state any longer. I'm saving up to move out. I'm saving up to get this business going. My friends are getting engaged and married, travelling, moving to other places... I just feel as if I'm slowly dying. I just want to...be free from all of this anxiety, all of this apprehension. It just seems like it's too heavy of a weight to bear. Can anyone offer me some advice? Please.

A coworker of mine is incredibly intelligent, charismatic, humorous and kind. He is known by everyone, from the janitors to the president of our firm who likes him quite a bit. He is great friends with a man I have known since high school, but he rarely hangs around people often if at all. Once, he confessed to me in private that he actually dislikes people and wants nothing to do with them. It actually sent chills down my spine. It wasn't like he committed a murder, but just the way he proclaimed it with a smile on his face made me want to take a step back. I've known other affable and good-natured people who have professed this same sentiment. I can agree that we all need alone time to some degree, and have experienced our own individual set backs and disappointments from humanity, but I certainly don't project these experiences onto the human race in its entirety, and I am not even a self-proclaimed humanist. Has anyone known anyone like this? Why is it that if they dislike human beings as much as they proclaim, they still maintain a facade as if they do to such a degree in comparison to your average person?

I have ADD. I make the effort to talk to people in class. I text people and ask in person if they would like to hang out over the weekend. But everyone I contact is usually busy. No one asks me to hang out with them on weekends. No one asks me to get lunch or dinner together. Ever since high school I have always been left out. College is the same. I have a small group of close friends in my home town. But it has been impossible to find my group in college. I have learned to enjoy being alone but being alone all the time is not fun. I have 4 jobs now to keep me busy.

I know, it's a weird thing but anyway here we go... So, I have two great friends from school and we decided to go out together for a movie and stuff but my parents are acting a bit weird. Being a little orthodox they think that they might end up framing me for something or it will deviate me from my studies and whatnot. But in reality, they are really nice gals. So, how do I somehow convince them to let me go out with them? Please help. It needs to be very convincing and I'm not the lying to the parents type.

Where I live I meet two kinds of women, The first type of woman I meet dresses classy, however they usually belong to a church clique, they hang with a crowd that snubs, makes fun of or bullies people over the way they look, talk and act. They seem to have friends that dresses the same, talks the same way and acts the same way and don't like variety in her group of friends, and don't like different. They tend to have the likeliness to bully or twist words and manipulate or get into a intellectual argument with you. They tend to have control issues and have outburst of anger without any empathy. The second type of woman I meet dresses between average to trashy, most of them will fist fight you over anything, they tend to carry a 'take nothing off of nobody attitude' they're down to earth per say, but they have this consistency about getting into trouble with the law, they are all circled around drugs, gangs and violence. What should I do?

I know the first thought is "they're not interested". BUT they're pretty eager to talk to me and say they really enjoy having me as a friend but... ALL our conversations go down like: 1: Hey 2: Hi 1: What are you doing? 2: Watching YouTube 1: Okay This is over the internet, as if that wasn't obvious. It just feels rude to call them out on it... But it's so annoying. Conversations continue to the next topic constantly but this person doesn't have any effort at all. I try to change topic but they just respond, and then they say "okay" to my next statement. Gahhh

I was texting my female friend when I guess I said something that hurt her feelings... which doesn't happen very often. I tried to fix it, she said it kinda helped but not really. I wasn't sure what to say, so I didnt say anything back. Then the next day she texted me saying "ok I'm over it" and never brought it up again. Is that a good sign?

I'm 18 and on spring break for college. My mom won't let me stay at home by myself she's making me stay with my bestfriend but I have to leave my car at my grandmas house, my grandma gives me a curfew if 10 and I have to ask her every where that I go. I just think this is ridiculous because I'm 18. Not to mention my best friend is in high school and she plays sports so I'll be in her house alone until 5 with no car. I made plans with my friends and I can't do any of this because I have no way to get to he car. How do I talk to my mom?

I know this is kind of a creepy coincidence. I was with this girl in a buddy program when she was in grade 2 where we got partnered up with someone younger or older. She's about to turn 15 now. I met her at my college when she was there waiting for her cousin who's a guy that's also a freshman like me. I'm an 18 year old girl and I lost contact with her for 6-7 years. Her stories seem to fit what she told me when she was younger and she even said she went to the elementary school where we both attended so many years ago. She was slightly familiar when I first saw her and I guess she thought the same thing too? Because we came up to each other the first time we saw each other. I don't want to scare her or think I'm a stalker, especially if she doesn't remember me at all. She seems to be a good friend and a good person to get to know. Should I tell her?

Ok so my friend has really bad self esteem issues. I swear she thinks she's the ugliest thing and she's really not she's actually pretty and no matter how much I tell that child she's pretty and she's not fat she STILL won't listen to me. Honestly before it didn't bother me but now it's really getting on my nerves. Sometimes I wonder if she really thinks she's ugly or she's just an attention seeker. Idk either way and I know I'm sounding like a terrible friend but good lord everytime she calls herself ugly or fat I just ignore her. Im a high spirited person and I know I'm not perfect but I'm happy with the way I am and I've been through WAY more crap in my life than her. I'm not kidding. So now that I've ranted, what do I do with her. She's mad at me cuz she thinks I don't care about her but it's really because she's bringing me down more and more lately so I just kinda stop talking.. Idk it makes me feel bad as a friend but still.. Should I just tell her why I've been distant and ignoring her... Idk I feel like she's gonna be more upset with me but I'm sorry I probably sound like a brat but she's killing me...

im a dude and my besfriend was a girl fir the past 4 years, We were so close. i even paid for her daughters swimming classes. but 3 weeks ago ago we had an argument, in my home Because she thought i lied to her about something. soo I softly held her because I didn't want her to leave, because she was crying and she was gonna drive. she later told me she was abused in the past and she said I crossed the line when I touched her. she blocked me from everything, Soo I sent her a really long apology letter to her house with roses. .... but This Wednesday the police came to my house that I need to just leave her alone because she's had enough. ( She did not tell police I touched her) but I cant stop thinking about the situation, I know she contacted police but will she ever talj to me again?? does she need time to calm down?

We were supposed to go to another friend's birthday party today but her grandmother died yesterday so she wan't sure if she could come. I asked her if she was coming to my party next week and she told me she'll let me know once she figures out whats going on this week. So i said okay. This morning I texted her if we were still having brunch after her class because instead of going to my friend's party today she is going to the mall so I thought maybe I could still meet her before she heads there. She tells me she didn't go to school today and is trying to sleep which is understandable. So I just texted her "k". so after that text which was really random to me she texts me "lmao im not going to your party" and I asked her why and if i should reschedule it. She said it was because I was being rude and she didn't wanna deal with me right now. Which I thought was so uncalled for considering I only asked her a simple question. I think she is being so rude I just responded okay after that. She was so calm about everything yesterday and now this morning she is mad. I don't understand why she is upset with me. What I also found really weird is when she told me she died, she sent me a picture of a dead bird on the street with the caption "lol is this a sign?" which leads me to believe she wasn't close with her if she was making jokes like that.

I just got home from taking my younger sister to her friends house. Since it was warm out and I did not go in anyplace and came right back home I drove in my bare feet and did not bring my shoes.

Im 14 and 4'9. My younger sister is much taller than me 5'3 and all my friends and cousins too. I feel like because of my hormone I am short because I have hormone imbalance. This really sucks since my best friends are so tall including all my close friends. Don't even get started with milk cuz they ain't work and I eat very well..

I'm on a trip for national orchestra contest. Nobody really dislikes me in the group but my one friend is pretty much the only one who hangs out with me the whole time. He's pretty dumb but he wants to get with this girl in my orchestra. She is really annoying and so is her friend and I just don't like hanging out with them. There are these girls that I hung out with at state contest who I like hanging out with but one of them is gone for a race and the other is just hanging out with an all girl group. I don't know what to do because I don't really have anyone to go with and I went to hang out with my friend but I hate the people we are hanging out with. What should I do?

I am 13 (a girl) and my friends exclude me out of school. They created 2 group chats with me in them so that made me feel good until I found out they have like a million more where in one of them they tried to kick me out of their squad. I confronted them so now it's better but they never ask me to come over except for like one of them. I invited one of them over so I hope that helps. What do I do cause they say "ily" on my posts, but is it fake? If so what do I do besides finding new friends.

im a 21 year old guy, and the only true friend I ever had was a girl. we helped each other with Money, work amd school..... But 3 weeks ago we had a heated argument and I held her because I didn't want her driving while crying. she later told me she was abused in the past and she said I crossed the line when I touched her. she blocked me from everything, Soo I sent her a heartfelt apology to her house with flowers. . later on Wednesday police came to my house that I need to just leave her alone because she's had enough. ( She did not tell police I touched her) but I cant stop thinking about the situation, would she ever talk to me down the road???? Does she need space? ? any advice please

People and even some of my own friends at school make fun of me cos of my ethnicity. They call me rag head, terrorist, curry head, paki and sometimes they say 'hey don't blow up taliban' and it really puts me down cos I'm the only coloured person in my year and I feel like an putsider

My father died. 3 days ago over a heart attack I been suffering. Because I cant handle it. The. Funeral is in 7 days. And. I cant. Think. Straight I havent slept all day.. I been avoiding alot of people lately.today my best friend came me to acuessing me for something I didn t do I told him we can t talk right now because of my father.. and she just said please stop talking to me and I will do the same.. shes in her 40s I really cant understand. Why she won t understand this..then she started saying I have. Prpblems. I go to university from. 8am til 5pm and work on weekends from 6am til 2pm. While she just stays at home and is always drinking..

hi everyone.where i can talk to american people in general topics?i mean i am looking for a group on app messenger like whatsapp,telegram or chat room?

Ok so I started junior high school in September and i was the only one from my elementary school who went to this one so I left all my old friends behind. But I've made some new friends, a group of 5, and their all really nice except for this one girl. I feel like she has a problem with me as she is always making out to my other friends that I am a mean person and spreading rumours round about me. She is also the only girl in my form so I have to sit next to her and she just goes on her ipad all the time and doesn't even talk to me unless it has run out of charge or something. My other friends know what she is like and don't like how she treats me but still choose to hang out with her and be her friend. And whenever someone is mean to her she makes a big fuss of it and starts crying and tells loads of teachers and try's to get people on her side. So I'm kinda over being upset and trying to get her to like me now and I want to try and seek revenge on her. I don't want her to know it was me cos that would make things worse but i want to kinda ruin her life and get her kicked out from the friendship group. Has anyone got any ideas what I could do. Oh and please don't say u shouldn't get revenge on her cos I'm gonna anyway.

My best friend just texted me that her grandma died so that our plans for the evening were cancelled. We re not exactly the type of people who are great at expressing emotion nor sharing emotional stories. We have more of a type of friendship where it s absolutely always fun and majority of the time, emotions are put aside in order to forget and move on. Now that this has come up, my extreme lack of experience with the subject has made me absolutely useless. She s my best friend so I have to do something and I don t see her until this coming Monday, in two days time. I can t leave it till then so do I call her? What do I say? Please help.

Today my best friend and I who is basically my sister were biking and theirs was so water covering the trail from flooding and I told her maybe we should turn back than I changed me mind and said well we ve gone this far so we should just keep going. And she went first with her bike and the current washed her off the trail she was knee deep in the water with her bike and electronics being washed away (the electronics were in the bike basket and the bike hadn t fall) and she told me to come help but in the heat of the moment I panicked so I climbed the side of the mountain to help and she yelled at me for not getting it the water to help her and after she got out she left me their and went away and ever since then (it is still the same day) she blocked me on social media and said we are done and that I am a terrible friend!! WHAT DO I DO TO GET HER BACK SND SHOW HER IM SORRY BECuse she hates me right now.

So I am very popular at school, but it wasn't until the other day that I had an ephiany of sorts, of just how horrible of a person me and my friends are. So, so you get an idea of how mean I am I'll tell you how that day went. Before School: Starbucks, with my gal friends, and we laughed at some boy who spilled his drink 1st: I flirted with nerd boys, so they would my power point for me (oh yeah that class is computers) 2nd: Nothing to mean, i just laughed and gossiped with my friends(science) 3rd: French class, I selpt 4th: gossiped, threw paper at some nerd, and fflirted my way to an A Lunch: We gossiped, got in trouble for causing to much trouble in the cafeteria, my friend his lunch tray at the dorks table, and my other friend, he stole a guys binder 5th: We played a trivia game and I got so pissed when I got 4th place I took off my shoe and threw it at one of the boys who beat me(geography) 6th: We watched a movie, then my friends and i did the thing where you see how big a guys dick is by measuring the distance from their length from their thumb to forfinger. Then we talked about how hot the guys in the movie were(Reading 7th: We laughed talked threw things, gossiped, and messed with this boy who was well, lame After school: my friends and I bullied, and pushed around this poor girl in the bathroom. After we lest the bathroom, I had my ephiany How do I become a btter person while still staying at the top of the social food chain? Also I am 14 8th grade and a girl at lunch i meant to type, my guy friend, he threw his lunch tray at the dorks table, while it still had food on it, plus some other stuff i don't want to know what it was

omg. Criticize me all you want I deserve it. Just help. It's 12:53 so there's no way I can fix this. I had an accelerated reader project assigned in December and it was due today. At 12. It's 12:54. Omg!!! I had to get 20 points... I have 0!! Which doesn't make sense cause I took two tests so I should have a few at least. But my teacher might give me a detention and I totally deserve it but my parents won't let this slide. I had so much time. I have a heart problem so I've been in and out of the hospital and I've had drama between my mom and my stepdad we're planning to leave him. Besides the point. The question is what do I tell my strict, angry teacher? I'm probably just gonna own up to it and tell her what happened.

My good, close friend of mine and I share secrets (like normal teens) and personal info over texts. Her parents have suddenly just started going through her text records, and I m terrified. These records contain me COMING OUT to her (I m still in the closet with everyone but her), talking of my ex-crush, and me cussing (I m not allowed to curse). I m terrified. I don t want her mom to tell my parents. As far as I know, she hasn t done any of that, but i really don t trust her. I don t know what to do and I m really scared. What should I do?

For a while now my friends always been upset and trying to get me to stop asking her to role play and to do other stuff. But the problem is is that she doesnt want to do anything except watch this stupid documentary or movie. It really pisses me off inside since I was friends with her for five years and now we can t even have a two minute conversation without her wanting to watch a show or program. Or play some stupid online game like Animal Jam. This is really upsetting me and I d like to figure out some way to keep this friendship between us. Please help! Also by the way I don't hate video games but she refuses to do anything but Animal Jam which only one of us can play. Either that or watch that stupid documentary. By the way she used to love rp but now she "doesn't like it anymore and can't do it".

Hi. So, I have always found myself i situations where I would feel the need to end friendships due to the things my ex-friends would say/do to me because they felt threatened by my "energy". I have only had 1 friend, who I've been friends with for years that I've never had an major problems with. Same with my partners, my partners always seem to be completely and extremely controlling/possessive. I am a very very nice and loving person, sometimes too kind and caring that it gives people the desire to walk all over me. I'm having a hard time believing that ALL of these people are jealous of me even though all of their actions prove it. I don't really think too highly of myself so thats probably why I have a hard time believing this many people could be jealous of little ole me. But when you are someone like me who literally does nothing but support people....why do people always end up finding reasons to hate me? I have attached pictures of me here not to be complimented but because I want to know if my looks are a good enough reason. Thanks. ( http://imgur.com/a/rLjiF )

So...I feel trapped in my life right now...it's not a bad life...I have a loving family and max my dog but besides that ...I don't get out I'm 17 and I'm lonely. I live on a lake far out and I can't drive( not my choice every time I ask or bring it up they laugh it off) and I have no friends...I did but the school kicked me out and my friends stopped talking to me...If I didn't have my PS4 I would not have anyone to talk to and woulda probably killed myself long ago ...but soon when I turn 18 my dad told me he's not paying for internet and my phone I mean I wouldn't care but I can't talk to people during the day bc I have no friends I hate my life.. I'm not ugly but when I talk to a girl they ignore me or block me so yea..there's a lot I have to say but no one will read this far but if you are ..why not end it now or soon right? What's after life has to be better then this.. right?