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- Question: Can anyone relate to this?
- Question: How to make new friends?
- Question: Social Anxiety at a party?
- Question: I have no friends sinced i have changed schools please help?
- Question: No Knickers Challenge?
- Question: Why do I feel I always need a friend?
- Question: My best friend of 7+ years just confessed feelings for me?
- Question: If i tell my friend i spent the night at some guys house does it make it seem like im screwing him ?
- Question: How can you reunite with someone you were never close to and did not see for 3 years?
- Question: Am I in love with my same-sex friend?
- Question: M here in a new city for my studies , i really feel alone?
- Question: Should I tell my sister to stop doing this?
- Question: I wish I had a female best friend. Where are the cool girls at?:)there are so many jealous, mean, bitchy, competitive onesLol. who agrees?
- Question: Question on what to do?
- Question: Whats going on now?? :(?
- Question: Why are my friends jealous of me?
- Question: Son has no social life, what to do?
- Question: I don't care about my friends anymore...?
- Question: How do I get someone to become my #1 best friend on snapchat QUICKLY?
- Question: How do I politely tell me Asian friend I am not comfortable getting in his car? Thank you.?
- Question: Should I talk to my 14 year old friend that this is inappropriate for her?
- Question: HELP PLEASE!!! MY PARENTS NEVER GAVE ME PRIVACY!!!!!?
- Question: I don't have any friends, is that bad?
- Question: What's this girls problem?
- Question: FRIEND IS TURNING 20 IN 2 DAYS WHAT TO HER HER AS A PRESENT??
- Question: Overly clingy friend?
- Question: What to say/do to a classmate who masturbated on me along with caressing me?
- Question: Only 3 people came to my party?
- Question: Isolate Myself or Reach Out?
- Question: I have a friend who continues to drinking and wont stop. she refuses to go back to Kaiser in patient. How can i help her?
- Question: How do I make friends?
- Question: First time doing weed... Should I do it?
- Question: Should I call it quits with this friend?
- Question: Will she get mad at me if I kiss her on the lipsr?
- Question: I'm not sure what to write in a store bought card for my friend. I want to something short. Any ideas?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: Is the friendship ending?
- Question: Roommate problems : am i overreacting or should i be mad?
- Question: I hate my best friend?
- Question: How do I get rid of or deal with the SUPER annoying wannabes??
- Question: No one wished me a happy birthday on Facebook?
- Question: Would you refer your best friend, who means a lot to you, "like a brother" or "A brother"?
- Question: Dimitra you are out of luck my sweety?
- Question: Back in middle school everyone made fun of me for being bad at skateboarding but everyone is terrible at it too so why did they.?
- Question: Does everybody hate me?
- Question: My friends are using me... Help!?
- Question: Could a guy wear these VS sweatpants?
- Question: What could it mean when your ex voluntarily styles your hair with a comb and her hands?
- Question: Should i say yas, or nothing at all?
- Question: How does this "friend" sound?
- Question: Is refusing to accept an apology a sign of immaturity?
- Question: Do you that no I embarrassed myself ?
- Question: Is crying really this embarrassing?
- Question: My cousin completely betrayed me.. What do I do?
- Question: Is it sad that I feel happier at SCHOOL with NO FRIENDS than at home with my family?
- Question: Pressured to Start A Family?
- Question: What do I do if im the third wheel???(check details)?
- Question: How do I tell my friend he's boring to hangout with without sounding rude?
| Question: Can anyone relate to this? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 05:52 PM PST So I'm fortunate enough to have a really big house, including a huge *** pool. I also happen to go to a pretty middle- lower class school. Whenever I have had friends over they always make a big deal over how big my house is and its really embarrassing/annoying. They also always call me rich at school when I'm really not rich. I eventually just stopped having people over to my house except for a few close friends who aren't ***** about it everytime they come over. I just want nothing more then to have people over and not be afraid of being made fun of and stuff but I know that won't ever happen. My 15th birthday is also coming up and I've always wanted to just have a big party at my house, but of course I know people will be people and call me rich and be jealous and stuff. Can anyone relate? |
| Question: How to make new friends? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 05:46 PM PST Ok so obviously this what a pretty stupid title to the question, bc it's not really what I mean. When I was in middle school I was in smart classes and all my other friends were in normal classes. I made friends in my classes but most were guys bc to be honest the girls were ******* ugly. I still talked to my friends in normal classes, but not the friends they made bc I never saw them so it was awkward. Now I'm a sophomore in high school, and I still have friends but they're mostly guys bc all the attractive girls are in none of my classes, but all my friends talk to them. So it's really awkward for me when those girls have their sweet 16 parties or whatever and I'm the only one of my friends not there. How do I not let this affect me, or how do I become friends with those girls now that most people already have a "set" group of friends. By the way, I have snapchat streaks with some of them but I don't talk to them outside of that |
| Question: Social Anxiety at a party? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 05:37 PM PST so I'm going to a big house party tonight, and I'm super super super anxious. ALL the popular people at my school are going, and I'm not friends with any of them. also, none of my friends are going, so idk what to do. please please please give me good advice. i feel like I'm gonna throw up |
| Question: I have no friends sinced i have changed schools please help? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 05:28 PM PST I have not made any friends sinced I moved to a new school. I am almost 13 year old girl and I have no idea what I am doing wrong. The problem is that I am kind of shy but if you get to know me I am very outgoing, sympathetic, kind, and would always be there for you. I am becoming depressed because I feel very alone. I do not think I will ever get a boyfriend if I can not even make any friends. Please help me I am desperate for advice. I can not take this sadness anymore. |
| Question: No Knickers Challenge? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 05:00 PM PST So me and my friends go to a private high school where there is a uniform (we have to wear skirts). So my group of friends and I wanted to dare each other to go commando for a day. We made up some challenges to keep things interesting (help me figure out ways to keep covered) Rules (exceptions) 1. Sheer to waist tights are allowed, opaque not allowed. 2. Of course go commando Challenges: 1. Go up stairs with somebody behind you 2. Sit down on the floor and get up 3. Only allowed to hold skirt down with one hand (It's very gusty in my area) So what's the best way to do this and keeping myself covered while laughing at my friend's faces in horror? |
| Question: Why do I feel I always need a friend? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 04:52 PM PST I have 3 amazing friends at school but when i go to sports (which isn't at my school) its harder for me. And I have friends at sports, but not best best friends. And I feel like without a best best friend I'm not happy. Is this normal? |
| Question: My best friend of 7+ years just confessed feelings for me? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 04:39 PM PST Hey, I don't know exactly how to feel about this... I've known him since high school and first year of college, and he has recently sent me a video message saying that he had feelings for me (along with other things he's been meaning to tell me which were personal). You see, I've always had a type of sibling love for him. I never expected or saw us becoming anything else. I talked to my mom about it and she told me to just tell him "let's just see where this takes us" or somewhere along the lines of that. I still feel kind of strange about it though... which is why I came here. I just want to hear some similar stories... or maybe even what else to say to him... or anything you think that'd be helpful in my situation. I haven't had a proper boyfriend before (I'm 19) and I'm just scared that this will change our friendship. I love him as a friend too much to just have things get all awkward, y'know? This just feels so weird... and I absolutely hate the way my stomach feels... It's not as if I am trying to be mean.. it just feels... foreign. I don't know if that makes sense at all. Thanks so much for your help, all. :) |
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| Question: How can you reunite with someone you were never close to and did not see for 3 years? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 04:33 PM PST ..without being awkward and weird? |
| Question: Am I in love with my same-sex friend? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 04:32 PM PST Ok so first off, I'm a 14 year old girl and I identify as heteroromantic asexual. I'm pretty attractive and boys like me. I want a boyfriend to hug and kiss and cuddle and just act romantically with and I think boys are cute. I have no sex drive and cannot get aroused or be sexually attracted to anyone. I am not attracted to girls and the idea of myself kissing another girl disgusts me. I can think they're pretty but I don't want to date them. However, there is this one female friend of mine who's starting to make me question. She's a couple years older than me, and we met through a mutual guy friend. She's very sweet and funny and pretty too. I love her a lot and she reminds me of my lost guy friend who I also love a lot. One time when we were sitting down with our mutual friend, I leaned my head on her shoulder and I liked doing it. I didn't get off or anything, but I liked the feeling of her warmth. I often want to hug her or cuddle with her, but I never want to kiss her. I want her to be safe and happy. Lately she hasn't been too social so we've just been talking on instagram. I miss her and worry about her a lot and I get a rush of relief and happiness anytime she responds to me or sees my messages. Recently, I'm pretty sure I actually blushed thinking of her! Though I have pretty pale skin, I've never actually known if I've blushed before, but I think I did since my cheeks feel like I might've. Am I in love with her or do I just love her a lot platonically? |
| Question: M here in a new city for my studies , i really feel alone? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 04:28 PM PST , but when i meet new ppl or some of them come to talk with me i just try to keep them away from me , it's like no one in good enough even tho to be my friend ! sometimes i feel depressed, lonely and sad ... other times i feel like m good and that i don't need anyone in my life ! what would u give me as advice ? |
| Question: Should I tell my sister to stop doing this? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 04:16 PM PST I am a 19 year old guy with a 14 year old sister Lisa that I really like. I am VERY protective of her. My buddies like to hang out at my house and they also like Lisa a lot. Lisa has a lot of homework and she often ask my buddies to help her with her homework. They are happy to help as they enjoy helping her. Since they have started helping her, her grades are much better. Lisa is a very affectionate person so after her homework is finished she thanks the guys for their help, hugs them and sometimes gives them a kiss. THEY LOVE IT. It is not a romantic thing with her. It is just her way of saying thank you. My buddies just like being kissed by a beautiful girl. Now when they come over, the first thing they ask is does Lisa need help with her homework. They act like they are just helping their adopted little sister. I have told my buddies over and over that Lisa is NOT FLIRTING WITH THEM. Even so, I am afraid my buddies will get the wrong idea of Lisa's intentions. Do you think they will? Should I tell her to stop the hugging and kissing? |
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| Question: Question on what to do? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 03:57 PM PST Some friends from work asked me to go hang out and drink at one of their place. One of my friends whom i known for like 5 years asked me to go to play pool. I would really like to go meet new people with co workers but if i tell him i have plans i feel like i need to invite him. Not saying i dont want him to go its just everytime he tags along he only hangs out with me. Plus i dont like asking people if more people can come because if i were in that situation i would probably say no. What should i do? |
| Question: Whats going on now?? :(? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 03:52 PM PST had a friend for a few years, She got angry with me 1 month ago because she told me a deep secret and she thought I made fun of her when I didn't. She told me not to talk to her anymore and she blocked my phone number. last month I even sent her a letter to her house to ask for forgiveness and she did not answer me .... last Saturday was her 20th birthday, and I sent her a message from a friend's phone And she said "Thank you" but today I tried speaking to her today But nothing. is she still not ready to talk to me yet??? |
| Question: Why are my friends jealous of me? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 03:51 PM PST Why do strangers treat me nicer than my friends.. My friends are jealous because im handsome |
| Question: Son has no social life, what to do? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 03:47 PM PST My son is a freshman in high school but never hangs out with friends outside of school. He's on the school JV basketball team, trains MMA about 2 hours everyday, gets really good grades, and is a good looking kid but never hangs out with friends. He talks about his "friends" at school but never arranges anything with them and is never invited to parties or anything. I'm really concerned about him not having a social life. Every weekend he never goes out and just reads books and plays videogames. How do I get him to have a social life? Son has Instagram and Snapchat but just watches other people have fun on it. It really worries me seeing him just scrolling down his feed seeing other people have fun. |
| Question: I don't care about my friends anymore...? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 03:38 PM PST In high school, my best friend ditched me for popularity, and I really got hurt by this. I'm over it now, it took me awhile to really forgive her, but I did. I feel like this event triggered me to become who I am now. So we're 3 best friends. This year, I got into a program where I had to prioritize school, &we had to see each other less, but I still tried my best to be there for them. We couldn't see each other for 3 months. A week ago, my 1st friend told me that she felt I was indifferent about not seeing her. I have another friend. 2 weeks ago, I got "betrayed", by this other friend. We planned a sleepover us 3, but she cancelled an hour prior meeting time to be with a guy, who's she's been seeing for 2 weeks. I don't want to blame her. It's not really her fault. She chose a "guy" over our friendship and I got hurt by it. It really isn't a big deal. I'm not mad at her. I'm just hurt because I realized that our point of views of our friendship weren't the same. I was always there for her. When she was going through depression, I always made sure to be there for her. I told her that I wanted to keep my distance, so I could just get over this "hurt". I was okay with this "distance". I wasn't rly sad by it. Yesturday, my 1st friend told me that my 2nd friend cried over me. And then I thought I was heartless for not caring about my friends. I don't miss my friends anymore, I don't have that "sincerity" to be there for my friends anymore. I'm wondering what to do? |
| Question: How do I get someone to become my #1 best friend on snapchat QUICKLY? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 03:31 PM PST My boyfriend was my #1 but he opened my snapchat and didn't answer and then throughout the day as I was snap chatting my streaks someone else became my #1 best friend. How do I fix it? |
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| Question: Should I talk to my 14 year old friend that this is inappropriate for her? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 02:25 PM PST This girl is only 14 and she's obsessed with being popular and asked me how to lose weight, get a bigger butt, and impress boys at school. She's been bullied to the point where she was depressed about two years or more ago. I refused to encourage her about how she could lose some weight because I didn't want her parents to think what kind of things I'm teaching her and I don't think it's healthy for kids who are growing to care too much about weight loss and other things. I want to explain to her why she doesn't need to be popular and why she doesn't need to lose weight or even get a big butt. I sometimes wonder if it's because I worry about my body image myself because I have a modeling career and am already 20. I don't want to start sounding like an adult who doesn't understand and tells her what to do but I feel the need that someone needs to talk to her about this - her parents are always busy working and nobody else has had this talk. I remember when I was her age my parents didn't like me being obsessed with clothes and fashion and I got mad at them and gave them quite a hard time whenever they didn't let me buy clothes that showed too much. I don't want her to get angry at me and point out that there are fashion magazines of me in provocative clothes and that I'm hypocritical either :/ should I talk to her about the difference for an adult to dress or pose provocatively if they have a job that requires if but a kid doing it is different? She and her parents aren't close and she doesn't see them very often. My concern is that since her parents aren't around, she can basically do anything she wants and her friends might try to pressure her into something. |
| Question: HELP PLEASE!!! MY PARENTS NEVER GAVE ME PRIVACY!!!!!? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 02:12 PM PST We live in a really small house, so everything you say or do is always mo nitored by someone. And it annoys the ever living **** out of me that I can't message my friends without panicking that my parents saw and will confront me about my message, or that I cant cry silently in the corner because someone is always watching. Hell I cant even use the computer properly because if I leave it once in open, somebody will snoop again on my browser history. Please help me I am just 15 years old and I really feel like a **** right now |
| Question: I don't have any friends, is that bad? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 02:09 PM PST All of the friendships I've had have ended badly, I've been stabbed in the back and lied to so much to the point that It's hard to open up to anyone or trust someone at all. I just graduated and am starting college in January, will also start working that month, but the thing is, everyone has told me that "you can't live this life lone, you need friends, you should socialize more, you should go to parties, be part of the group, etc" but none of that appeals to me, honestly, I'm perfectly fine the way I am, but is it wrong? I just don't like parties, I don't drink, am not into the music they are into, and I couldn't care less who is dating who. Maybe I'm asexual? I don't know, but all that keeps my mind occupied is dance, music and some movies/games. I basically live in my own world, but don't let anyone in. I've found that I always have this relaxed, positive mood when I'm alone, but when I used to go to school, someone would insult me for no reason, ask me why I'm always so quiet, wonder why I read so much like it's a bad thing, mom will make my good mood drop to rock bottom because she will start complaining about the smallest thing. I enjoy some people's company, but to an extent. Am I wrong? or is it just the world that wants me to act like everyone else does? so I can have this fake feeling of achievent with meaningless conversations and doing things I don't like to fit in and please everyone else |
| Question: What's this girls problem? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 01:52 PM PST What's this girls problem with me? This girl who is friends with my friend often gives me cold vibes for what seems like no reason. I've never done or said anything to offend her so I don't know why she should dislike me - my friend once commented on my new hair cut and said to her 'doesn't Amy's hair look really nice?' And she didn't even turn round to look at me and then agreed with my friend and when she did she refused to look at me - One time I went to a party and I wanted to get another drink and she said to me sarcastically 'yeah you'll have to go over and talk to the boys Amy!' and her friend laughed - I once messaged her asking if she wanted to hang out as friends and she read my message and ever replied. The next day I saw her in college and she looked really shocked to see me - She likes everyone else's posts and pictures on Facebook except mine. She never wishes me happy birthday or messages me - When she sees me in the corridor, she looks me up and down in a disapproving way What's her problem with me? |
| Question: FRIEND IS TURNING 20 IN 2 DAYS WHAT TO HER HER AS A PRESENT?? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 01:46 PM PST She likes make up, but its expensive and I don't know what kind or brand she likes or uses, I don't use make up at all. I'd rather not buy that! IMPORTANT: She comes from a conservative family, so no concert, or things that a Westerner does like going to parties and or bars. My budget is low as I am a college student!! I don't know what else to get her. What would you like? No alcohol, |
| Question: Overly clingy friend? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 01:45 PM PST I have a friend that I've known since 3rd grade, and over the years we've grown pretty close. She's shy, quiet, and doesn't have any friends other than me. Since I'm the only friend she has, she stays with me whenever possible. I have lunch period with her, and we sit together every day. The one day I sat with another friend, she started crying and wouldn't talk to me all day. I tried consoling her, but nothing worked. She's very emotional and when she has these breakdowns I'm usually the one who has to calm her down. She recently got her first phone and we exchanged numbers and added each other on Skype. Ever since then, she's been wanting to Skype every day and constantly texts me about it. I know it's cruel, but I find myself ignoring her because she constantly wants to talk to me. When I say constantly, I mean that she wants me to stay up all night with her and Skype all weekend without hanging up. During weekends, I just want time off from electronics to be with my family. This girl, and I don't blame her for thinking this since we spend so much time together, assumes I'm her best friend and my parents assume the same thing. I don't mind spending time with her, but she doesn't understand that I don't want to talk with her 24/7. I know how heartbroken she would be if I told her any of this, she'd be completely alone and I'd never wish that on anybody. Any advice on how to stay friends, but make her understand I don't want to constantly be with her? |
| Question: What to say/do to a classmate who masturbated on me along with caressing me? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 01:27 PM PST Earlier yesterday, a guy masturbated on me. It was incredibly awkward because I am only in middle school. He felt himself during the class presentation and kept staring at my breasts. He then scooted closer and attempted to overlap our legs. I moved away, and he proceeded to run his hand from my pencil skirt to my foot, which he grabbed and continued to stroke. This has happened before and as I said, I am in middle school. The teacher was not there for the event. I think I need to talk to him but Im not sure how to or what to tell him. |
| Question: Only 3 people came to my party? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 01:24 PM PST I planned a birthday party, and invited 13 people. 6 people said they could come, then on the day of the party 3 people tell me they can't come after they told me they would come. And my moms blaming me for this happening, saying that I don't talk to people, making me feel worse. What can I do to make the party fun and myself happier about this situation? |
| Question: Isolate Myself or Reach Out? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 01:23 PM PST You may/may not know that I have parents who suck, to put it mildly. My friends act kind but when it comes to what a real friend should do, they dump me. No boyfriend. (I'm female 14). My best friend (he is a boy) is on the other side of the world. I have nobody to talk to except online. I'm a loner. So should I isolate myself from the world and bury myself in technology, which I love so much, or reach out? PS, isolating myself hurts a lot less. |
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| Question: How do I make friends? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 01:03 PM PST I'm 22 with no friends. I do have people that I txt sometimes. But no one that I actually "hangout with" on a regular basis. I worked nights for the past 3 years and that effected me a lot because I would sleep in all day usually and I had no motivation at all to do anything. Well I quit my job a couple days ago and currently am not working. I got another job working 1st shift but I'm waiting on them to call me to see when my starting date is. I hate not having anyone to hangout with and it really just sucks honestly because I have been getting crazy anxiety lately and I think a big part of it is because I spend most of my time alone inside not doing anything. |
| Question: First time doing weed... Should I do it? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 12:54 PM PST Next weekend I'm going to a small party which will have weed. All of us are a sophomore in HS, and we are new to this (my friend got 12 grams from his brother) and are going to use a bong to do it. We are all a bit intimidated and most of us are (hoping) we aren't going to do much after this first use. We are also concerned how long it will last because we don't want to go home to our parents high. Advice? |
| Question: Should I call it quits with this friend? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 12:29 PM PST I m just very annoyed with this person. They are just completely stagnant in life and lazy frankly. This person is failing out of school, doesn t have a job, and always complaining about these things. I try to help the man get their life together but they refuse to do anything but play the victim and come up with a million excuses as to how neither of those things are their fault. It s gotten to the point where all this person does is complain about how terrible everything is and how the world is out to get them. It s bringing me down too and I want to be optimistic. |
| Question: Will she get mad at me if I kiss her on the lipsr? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 12:17 PM PST I mean nothing fancy,let's just say there is like one of your closest friends who just out of the blue kisses you on the lips and that's it.Do you think she will get mad at me? (Assuming that she like me but not like that) We're 18 |
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| Posted: 03 Dec 2016 11:40 AM PST Okay, I know this sounds very silly and stupid, but here it goes. Next week, my teacher, my classmates and I are invited to a musical show. The theatre is a bit out of town and even though my teacher has not given us that much information about it yet, i'm assuming that we will have to find way by ourselves. The thing is that I just don't want to go there alone by myself, and I know that if I ask my classmates whether I can join and go with them, they will come up with an excuse and talk their way out of it. I don't have that many friends and I know that they will make fun of me and see me as a loner if I turn up by myself. So therefore i am considering ditching it and staying at home instead, well for these silly reasons |
| Question: Is the friendship ending? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 11:40 AM PST I have a friend that I have known for about 11 years. Recently we became roommates and it has changed the dynamics of our friendship. The only time we hang out is around the house (we used to go clubbing, play basketball etc.). Could the roommate situation be ending our friendship? |
| Question: Roommate problems : am i overreacting or should i be mad? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 11:20 AM PST at my dorm, my roommates ( 3 other people ) and i share a common room but we each have our own bedrooms. i usually come out earlier since i wake up earlier and then one of my roommates ( let's say tiffany ) comes out around the same time since we wake up early. well today i stayed in my room for a little longer so the other roommates came out before me. one of my other roommates asked tiffany where i was. tiffany said she had no idea and she didn't really care. so, i heard that. i didn't say anything but i thought it was kind of rude. what would she have kept saying if i didn't come out in the next five minutes ?? am i overreacting or not? i appreciate all of the help. |
| Question: I hate my best friend? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 10:56 AM PST I ve known my best friend for around 9 years now and we re in 8th grade now but she s really getting on my nerves. She is bi I recently discovered though I suspected it for awhile now, and I know she would never have an interest in me cause she s one of my best friends and I know her so I don t want to hear all of that crap. But along with that she s been acting weird lately, and some of it has been happening for awhile but showing more now. First of all she s been trying to make all my friends like her more, such as I met this kid in 7th and he didn t have any friends yet so I hung out with him for a long time, after I left for one day I came back to my best friend hanging with him and that was okay, except for that I know she does this with every one of my friends and acts different around them than around me. She also tries to make me jealous like when a guy liked me and she knew I knew and I used to like him, she would say all this stuff about how he s her partner or about how much they text and all that. She brags about everything and tries to make me feel sorry for her by saying that she s less important than everyone else so why should she do this or that or whatever and I have to comfort her every time even though I know she s faking. There s so much more I d like to say but no one will read this if I do so. What s happening?! |
| Question: How do I get rid of or deal with the SUPER annoying wannabes?? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 10:48 AM PST I'll just have to explain this in the world's most simple and basic ways possible. There are these two girls from a social clique called the wannabes who really wants to be in my friend group. Most people (but not all) from my group is either a Fashionista, Dancer, Artist, or all combined. In this group, I am sort of the leader/ most important one. I know by calling them wannabes is mean, but it is REALLY, and I mean REALLYYYYYYYYYY true. They want to hang out with us. They tried to be fashionable (emphasize TRIED. Again, mean but true). They tried to sketch like a pro (tried). They tried to show us a few moves during a school dance (AGAIN, she TRIED… It did not work out for her). And, every time I'm sitting next to one of them or both of them in art class, she/they just has/have to do the gigantic artistic strokes that all famous artists do. She did lots of other things too. First it was ok for them to do that, but now it's driving me and my friends NUTS. We must avoid them now, since once my friend tried to get them to back off by using some profanity. What should I do? I feel like they're EVERYWHERE! |
| Question: No one wished me a happy birthday on Facebook? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 10:31 AM PST It's funny because in high school I literally had 20 friends who I considered close, and at least 200 other people who I was friendly with. That's a lot, and I was definitely blessed to have that strong of a support system. Now, though, I have no one. I didn't really make friends in college. I had two friends last year, which was enough I suppose. All of my friends from back home stopped talking to me. I still talked to three of them, but only when I called. They never reached out. Luckily, there was always my birthday. The wonderful thing about Facebook is that when you have as many Facebook friends as I do, even if less that 10 percent wish you a happy birthday on your wall, you can still get 70 or so posts. And for one day, I actually feel like I have friends. I guess I took it for granted before, but its such a basic thing that everyone does for everyone else. It's just Facebook etiquette--and it takes two seconds. I guess I've never felt so invisible before. I have over 1,000 Facebook friends. None of them wished me a happy birthday. Not even my half brother or my cousins. No one. How should I feel? I knew I didn't have close friends, but I still thought at least SOMEONE would say something. Is it petty to be sad about this? I feel like I don't exist to other people. |
| Question: Would you refer your best friend, who means a lot to you, "like a brother" or "A brother"? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 10:17 AM PST Having such close bond and still saying that they are just like your brother or They really are Your brother no matter we don't share bloods? |
| Question: Dimitra you are out of luck my sweety? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 10:16 AM PST out of luck for years...... poor dimitra.... |
| Posted: 03 Dec 2016 10:14 AM PST What made them think they had a right to bully me when they had nothing to say for them selves because in reality everyone else in the world is terrible at skateboarding too. |
| Question: Does everybody hate me? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 10:01 AM PST My roommate lend me his bike so that he can ride with his friends on another bike, my crush said that the way I talk is very irritating, my best friend always try to make me jealous, my junior said that my clothing didn't suitable for people like me, my neighbor laugh with his friends about me whenever I pass by, my other friends always say that they are busy when we are planning for hangout, but always hangout without me, my teacher never give me motivation whenever I failed on something, not like other student, my partner for a project make a secret jerk face towards me and I actually see that..... but, why? |
| Question: My friends are using me... Help!? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 09:54 AM PST My "friends" have been ignoring me and leaving me out a lot lately... I feel like the only time they pay attention to what I have to say is if they r trying to get me to let them copy off my assignments. I feel like they use me to upgrade their reputation. I come up with stuff and then they take credit for it. I've told them that I don't really like it, but they continue. They all swear too much and I really think swearing is a bit of a fill in word when u can't think of another way to describe something, showing that your vocabulary is limited. I don't want people to think that of me. I would have left them already but I don't want to be mean. They also do this to one other person in the friend group. We have a larger friend group, and they always interrupt me. I feel like me and that one person have to stick together. If we leave the friend group I think we might be targets, Help me!!! |
| Question: Could a guy wear these VS sweatpants? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 09:51 AM PST They're like so comfortable but they say "PINK " on the legs. |
| Question: What could it mean when your ex voluntarily styles your hair with a comb and her hands? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 09:34 AM PST She's a girl and I am a guy. |
| Question: Should i say yas, or nothing at all? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 09:34 AM PST Okay, so I posted a picture on my instagram fan account and I wrote the caption as "my cat demands all of my attention", and someone commented "I am your cat". I was thinking about replying with "yas", or would it be better to just not reply at all? |
| Question: How does this "friend" sound? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 09:31 AM PST We are both masters students. I'm 24 and she's 41. She is just so into being my friend. She doesn't have a car and likes for me or others to give her rides to her bus stop. She also seems kind of nosy and wanted me to help her get a job at a former place I worked at. |
| Question: Is refusing to accept an apology a sign of immaturity? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 09:08 AM PST |
| Question: Do you that no I embarrassed myself ? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 09:06 AM PST I was talking to my aunt about college and how I'm scared I'm not doing well, she said "Silly girl, your professor says you're the greatest role model in his class" aside from the conversation subject, why did she call me silly girl? Did I make myself look bad? |
| Question: Is crying really this embarrassing? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 08:56 AM PST I'm a senior and the cheerleading captain in high school. I was at a Friday night game and I hurt myself when I was doing advanced cheerleading moves. I felt a lot of pain all over my body so I started to cry and everyone saw it. Kids and especially freshmen kept shouting that the captain is crying over there and soon they started saying how we should've gotten a cheerleading captain who doesn't cry in games. I told them that generally I don't cry and most people don't either but the reason why I cried was I hurt myself and I felt like fainting so I got scared and didn't even care how many people there were at the time. They just laughed and said says the girl on the bleachers who has tears on her cheeks (which I actually did have at the time). One upperclassman just told the freshmen that I've cried before before they came here which made things worse. Is it really such a big deal? It was hard not to cry at the time and someone told me they thought it was shameful because I'm a senior. |
| Question: My cousin completely betrayed me.. What do I do? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 08:48 AM PST So my cousin just recently started coming to my school this year, and it was fun for the most part. But yesterday night we argued and he told me that my "friends" talk about me. I asked who and he will not tell me because he is too scared about them coming at him. He chose them over me, and I have been asking for quite some time now. As a child of god, I wanted to forgive him but he can't even imagine how hurt I am by this so he continued to be petty and argue with me. I finally had enough then I blocked him on instagram and told him not to talk to me again. I even told him that I will not let the "friends" know that I know about this, but he still wont tell me. I can't trust anybody at this point. I don't know who is real so I cannot talk to anybody. I am crushed right now and feel like I have nobody. I have dealt with betrayal by fake friends in the past, but when its by blood, it hurts even more. Especially since you don't even know who to trust. |
| Question: Is it sad that I feel happier at SCHOOL with NO FRIENDS than at home with my family? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 08:39 AM PST I'm super shy and have social anxiety so I have 0 friends at school. Well I have 2 but believe me they have about 30 other friends each and it's so hard because it looks like I only have 2 friends, which is true and imbarasing. I hate school because of that and I hide in the bathrooms because I have no to talk to. But when I come home, it's ok until my dad gets home. He has like metal problems, but he denies it and he needs help but if anyone tells him, even my MOM, he gets angry and is like scary. So we gave up and telling him. He iso also a drinker and he keeps saying he will stop but he didn't and he gets drunk a lot and is so mean to my whole family and is mentally abusive, if that's what u call it. My family is so dysfunctional and I just wish it wasn't. I was cutting my arm and leg two days ago. Why can't I just have a normal life??? |
| Question: Pressured to Start A Family? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 08:32 AM PST I don't understand why so many people, in America at least, have to pressure everyone into getting married and having kids. I'm just a teenager, but My family and friends are shocked and say it's depressing when I say I'm not planning on having kids when I grow up. The thing is I'm gay and I can't tell most of them that cause they're homophobic, so I say I just don't want the responsibility and financial pressures of kids, which they don't understand. I just don't get why so many of the most douchie and irresponsible people plan on having kids, they aren't fit to be parents at all, at least I recognize that about myself, but these people don't. Of course some people will be perfectly good parents and I'm not bothered by them having kids, but a lot of these people I know just start these makeshift families when they're in really crappy situations(financial,social,etc.), then hate their kids, then try to pressure everyone else into having a family. Maybe I'm looking too far ahead, but I just don't understand why so many of these people who are unpleasant and irresponsible want to drain their freedom and money be parents of kids they end up hating. Where does all this come from? I could understand religion possibly, but most of these people I know are irreligious, so I don't think that's it |
| Question: What do I do if im the third wheel???(check details)? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 08:27 AM PST Ever since the first grade, ive been friends with a girl named(call her Mary.)She was always my only friend, and i was hers. But by grade five I found out i was going to a gifted school, and she was moving to another school, so we were both not going to be at the same school. We remained friends, and I am proud of that, but she has other friends, I'm not jealous t's just that she ALWAYS talks about them. To this day, she's still m y best friend/only friend. So on to the story. So we hadn't talked for almost a month becasue we both has some things going on in our lives, we wanted to hang out to let off some steam and have a good time and see a movie. When I called her two days before she let me know that she has a sleepover with her pother friend from dance (call her Kate). So I was fine with Kate being over her house, t was normal by then. But the next day when we were going to go out for the movie. I walked into the car and I saw Kate with her, and they were laughing. At first was mad, because I thought it was just going to be Mary and I. Five minutes of being pushed to the side while they wrestled, I let it go, and told myself that I wouldn't let her ruin my night. Later on we got to the movie, and I was mad (the entire time they were talking about how fun their sleepover was, and how much they knew each other.) This story is kind of not a big deal but im mad because i was having really bad issues at school, and needed my best friend, and she invited Kate. What do I do? What do I do if im the third wheel???(check details) I also tried to talk to her but it made it awkward What do I do if im the third wheel???(check details)? I AM DESPERATE |
| Question: How do I tell my friend he's boring to hangout with without sounding rude? Posted: 03 Dec 2016 08:20 AM PST We've been doing the same thing sense out late teens. Sit around, watch youtube videos, and smoke weed. I liked doing that stuff till up about a year ago. I just have different interests now. Like playing basket ball, hiking, and just being active. I know he thinks I like doin what we've always done and that's not his fault as I've expressed no interest in what I listed above. I've been making up excuses to avoid hanging out with him for the past couple weekends wich I know made him a little angry. I know he doesn't enjoy doing the things I listed but I know he will come along just to salvage our friendship. I dread the weekend because I know he's gonna want to hangout out. I'm just not sure if I should tell him this now because he just lost his job and I would imagine he's pretty sensitive right now. What should I do? |
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