Marriage & Divorce: Question: Why shou you marry someone who looks sexy while disappointed? |
- Question: Why shou you marry someone who looks sexy while disappointed?
- Question: Husband left me at 9 months pregnant?
- Question: Is there any way I can decide which school I go to in a divorce?
- Question: Can an abusive relationship become healthy through things like therapy and couseling?
- Question: Am I just going through a phase or what? Im so confused!?
- Question: Is there any real way to mend an abusive relationship?
- Question: Why does cutting a guy off work?
- Question: Should I get a divorce?
- Question: My girlfriend of 6 months(previously 2 years) just broke up with me over text, i think, i dont know what to do need advice?
- Question: If you filed a divorce from spouse and find out he has millions of dollars can you still ask for alimony. We ve been married for 12 years.?
- Question: Can I bury my mom s ashes without consent from her ex husband?
- Question: Why do people think it is "not okay" if a man proposes to a woman over the phone? What's not okay? I'm a female and I really don't get it?
- Question: Feeling so guilty! How do I get my husband to talk to me again? What would you do?
- Question: For people who are against same sex marriage, why do you believe this?
- Question: Husband wont eat at table with family?
- Question: My wife left me. She s the love of my life. How can I help her to love me again? How can I make our marriage work out?
- Question: Who comes first in a man's life daughter or wife?
- Question: Is love just a natural thing that just occurs when two people meet?
- Question: Why is it a bad idea to randomly fall in love with someone and then marry them?
- Question: I am going to leave my husband but am more sad about losing my dog than him.?
- Question: Would I seriously make my fiancee look like a hooker by asking her to wear this?
- Question: I'm tired of being the obedient wife?
- Question: Is it rude to be on Skype late at night with a friend while my wife is asleep?
- Question: How do I convince my wife that I do not want to have any more children? We have two, and I'm done. She insists we need to have one more.?
- Question: Is divorce a difficult process in New York City?
- Question: My Mom And wife are arguing all the time, my wife tries her best to please but my mom won t change her attitude. plz help?
- Question: My husband likes 2D women better?
- Question: My wife and i tried the hotwife fantasy and it ended bad.?
- Question: Married women, do you still enjoy your marriage?
- Question: Would younger guys be put off dating a single mum ?
- Question: Is it possible to love my husband but want to have sex with someone else?
- Question: I am a married for about 10 years. I am in love with another woman. What would you do if you were me?
- Question: Caught my wife cheating with several men, help?
- Question: Why can't Americans make a marriage work?
- Question: Been married 28 years recently my wife has lost her sex drive what can i do to get it back?
- Question: Maiden name reinstated after divorce. Do I have to use it?
- Question: My wife originally had this account under her name , how do I replace it with my name. she has come down with Alzheimer's?
- Question: Are people not allowed to forget?
- Question: How is it a lack of commitment if married men choose to not wear wedding ring?
- Question: Is drug addiction a reason for divorce?
- Question: How do ideal with my husband and in laws?
- Question: If I know that my wife is cheating, should I contact the police to get custody of my children as soon as possible? or who do i call?
- Question: Men can always "put a ring on it". But after they are thoroughly bored, they can always take the ring off. So what is the point of marriage?
- Question: If your spouse left you because you cheated , would chop off a finger to prove your remorse at your spouse's request?
- Question: Single dad help custody/ visitation?
- Question: Does a "successful marriage" require passion? Or can the lack of passion still lead to "success"?
- Question: Teacher student marriage?
- Question: Why doesn't he wanna get married?
- Question: Closing JOINT BANK ACCOUNT before Divorce?
- Question: Is it considered domestic violence if your significant other grabs/yanks arm and yells at you in front of people?
- Question: Who should pay for these student loans?
- Question: How should I react to this?
- Question: If the truth about married life is that there are NO absolutes, and everything is relative, isn't marriage counseling pointless?
- Question: Do you believe marriage has absolute rules that everyone should follow, or is it relative but not the same for everyone? Which is right?
- Question: Hi, my wife is 3 months pregnant and she says she doesnt want to be with me anymore.?
- Question: Ladies, if your husband does not want you to get a massage from a guy are you ok with that?
- Question: Why did my husband shout at me?
- Question: Newlywed trouble. Any advice is helpful at this point.?
- Question: Can a husband ask his wife if he can watch pornographic material?
- Question: Would you give in to ultimatum to save marriage?
| Question: Why shou you marry someone who looks sexy while disappointed? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 09:24 PM PDT explain please |
| Question: Husband left me at 9 months pregnant? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 09:21 PM PDT Mr and my husband had a big falling out today. I feel emotionally unstable and alone. I don't have anybody to go to or talk to. I'm supposed to give birth in a week and I don't know what to do. He said he's filing for divorce. He said he doesn't care whether I live or die. He blocked my number. He through all our pictures away in the house. He took my wedding rings and left. I feel really suicidal and hopeless. Idk what to do :, ( |
| Question: Is there any way I can decide which school I go to in a divorce? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 09:08 PM PDT I m 13 and my parents are divorced. Me and my mom don t exactly get along (I m not going to go into too much detail but it s really bad) and I m starting to have suicidal thoughts because I feel trapped. I want to go to school where my dad lives (1 county over) do I have a say in where I go? Is there anyway I can go to school where I want? (I live in California) |
| Question: Can an abusive relationship become healthy through things like therapy and couseling? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 08:34 PM PDT |
| Question: Am I just going through a phase or what? Im so confused!? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 08:26 PM PDT I am a 30 yr old woman who has been married from the age of 17. I feel as if I am not in love with my husband anymore. He is an awesome man and a great father but I feel like that spark is gone. He works a lot and I pretty much do everything alone with my kids. When I say "lets do this or go there" he always says "yall go, im tired". I feel like if im already doing everything alone I might as well be single. The routine is getting to me and he doesnt try to spark it up. I dont want to rush into saying "ok..im done" and then regret it. But, how do you fall in love with someone again if they dont think anything is wrong. Yes I have communicated it to him many timrs and his answer is "well, I have to work to pay the bills." Btw..I do work full time too. Is this just a phase or am I just not in love anymore? . I know that happens all the time in marriages :/ |
| Question: Is there any real way to mend an abusive relationship? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 07:56 PM PDT I have been with my husband for 2 1/2 years. We have always butted heads. One things I noticed a while back is he says the worst things to you that hurt deep when he is upset. And he always blames his behavior on me or something else. Yesterday after an argument about him needing to go to bed. I tried to keep him off the computer and TV and he responded with pushing me, which he has done before. But when I got mad and got a little violent by pushing him he pinned me on the bed and put his arm in my neck and yelled at me. Then he left off when he realized I couldn t breath and squeezed the crap out of my arms and yelled at me more. Right after though I of course had a panic attack and he flipped a switch and consoled me... I just want to know if there is any coming back from this... I kinda feel like this is all a bad dream. |
| Question: Why does cutting a guy off work? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 07:54 PM PDT My question is why does it work for women to cut a guy off? For example, your an is not showing you any attention so you distance yourself and you dont let him touch and cuddle you and suddenly he cant get enough of you and he is super drawn to you. Why is that? why does that work? |
| Question: Should I get a divorce? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 07:49 PM PDT My husband and I have been married for a little over two years now. We have both had previous marriages and really messy divorces. He owns a major company and for the last year I have worked for him. My mother in law is his accountant. She controls everything in his life, business,personal, everything, until lately, when my business decisions started making more money and he started listening to me more. Needless to say this has led to numerous cat fights and to make it worse we live right across the street from her. He is 40. Now this being said, I knew all of these facts before we got married as we were friends way before. His mother however has become to much to bare. So much so that now all we do is fight. This has been going on for the last few months. Help suggestions |
| Posted: 01 Oct 2015 07:36 PM PDT So i will describe my situation in a nut shell hoping any of you can assess along with me. So yesterday my girlfriend(F21) of 6 months broke up with me yesterday through text ( i think). The message read "Since you wanted to get back to your studies instead of making us good, putting us last you dont have to pay no mind to me, were done here" Ever since then all my messages have gone unanswered and all the phone calls unreturned, i think she blocked me. Now this is what happened, she overreacted with me afterchanging her contact info on my phones caller ID (Queen) and changed it to her real name. I only did this because a week before she had changed mines to just my last name when it was previously babe. I dont know why but that bothered me. but i didnt overreact. she was upset because we hadnt talked for a week. I tried telling her she was overreacting over the name change and that it wasn't a reason to think i didnt love her. When she saw it, i was driving and she told me to take her home after coming from the beach. It was dark and late and i knew she hadnt eaten anything, so despite her telling me to take her home, i got her food from a local taco stand to feed her appetite, i knew she was hungry, i took her home after and then made me feel unwelcomed. I left and after that shes been acting different. i tried talking her about the situation yesterday but she was beginning to frustrate me so i told her i was going back to studying. Should i just move on, this is seriously detrimental to any relationship, not to mention childish and immature. I love her but she doesn't seem to take it into consideration and simply thinking for herself. I can't emphasize enough how much ive tried my best to show her, meanwhile shes not as affectionate, lacks communication (ive tried every form of communication(and some times even cold towards me. She says she loves me, but i just don't know anymore. |
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| Question: Can I bury my mom s ashes without consent from her ex husband? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 06:48 PM PDT My mom passed away 5 years ago. She was married to her second husband at the tone of her death, who wanted nothing to do with me or my siblings. She passed away from suicide. Her marriage was extremely abusive and he had threatened more than once to hurt her kids if she left him. He was also having an affair at the time of her death and she found out about it. He was remarried 2 months after her death. My mom was cremated, and the ashes went to her husband. Almost 4 years later, we finally got her she s back, after he lied several times about already spreading them. None of us speak to him. We all want a place for her to rest in peace that we can go visit. Can we bury her ashes without having his consent since her ashes are now in our possession? PLEASE NO RUDE COMMENTS OR JUDGEMENT ON SUICIDE. KEEP IT TO YOURSELF IF IT S NEGATIVE. |
| Posted: 01 Oct 2015 06:37 PM PDT And then also, the man doesn't have a wedding ring, either. But that's just it, who needs a ring? It's ridiculous! I don't even wear rings. I hate the way they feel on my finger. It's irritating and constricting. Makes me just wanna shake shake shake my hand and shake the damn thing off. Am I missing something here?? |
| Question: Feeling so guilty! How do I get my husband to talk to me again? What would you do? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 06:19 PM PDT Earlier, I was driving my husband's car, and the driver in front of me hit a big tire piece on the road, and I couldn't get out of the way in time, and ended up hitting it also, and it slammed into the bottom of the car. The car still drove fine and I thought it was okay, until I saw it afterwards and saw the front. The undercarriage is hanging down and looks split. I immediately called my husband to tell him, and when he saw it, he was so pissed. Not only is the bottom damaged and screws have come loose, but the fog light was knocked loose also and broken. I apologized and tried to explain to him that it was an accident. There were cars on either side of me, and the tire came at me so fast I had no time to get out of the way; he didn't want to hear it. So I called our insurance company and put in a claim, & it was determined that I am not at fault, and that it was an unavoidable incident. Insurance is going to pay for the car to be fixed, minus the deductible, which i've already told him i'll pay,& set him up with rental. They can get him an appointment as early as tomorrow. I told my husband and he had no response. I asked if he wanted the claim number so that he can schedule an appointment with the place of his choice, and he won't even take the claim number. It's complete silence. I get it I truly do, I messed up. But I guess i'm wondering what now? Keep apologizing or let him cool down? Should I go ahead and arrange an appointment or let him handle it? And he just left the house. I do understand it's his car...his pride and joy and i'd probably be angry too but i'm doing what I can to make this right. In the four years we've been married and years before when we were dating, i've never had any type of accident in his car..... |
| Question: For people who are against same sex marriage, why do you believe this? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 06:02 PM PDT I m not trying to start a flame war or anything i just want to know your side if the issue. To me it doesn t effect me at all if a gay couple gets married so i don t see why i should really be against it. as far as religious reasons yes i believe it s a sin but it s not me getting the marriage and i don t have to if i don t want to. so where do you stand on this topic? again just wanting a nice and friendly debate as possible to understand the other side. thank you. |
| Question: Husband wont eat at table with family? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 05:41 PM PDT My husband is a truck driver and works long hours. I usually have food prepared by the time he comes home. The kids and I sit at the kitchen table like normal people. My husband grabs his plate and goes and sits at the couch. I have repeatedly asked him to stop this behavior and he says he wants his "me time" in front of the tv. I asked his mom if his dad acted like this and she said, never. They always ate together at the table or bar area. Why might he do this? |
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| Question: Who comes first in a man's life daughter or wife? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 05:05 PM PDT |
| Question: Is love just a natural thing that just occurs when two people meet? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 04:54 PM PDT How do you know they're the one? Like...how did you and your husband/wife get together? Sorry...if my question sounds confusing. |
| Question: Why is it a bad idea to randomly fall in love with someone and then marry them? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 04:26 PM PDT Isn't that a purer form of love? If you just agree that no matter what, you will just support this person. The same way that you love your own kid? How is this any different than finding someone that you're compatible with and then making yourself "grow" to love them? When you find someone compatible to you and then "grow" to love them, you're also in a sense randomly loving that person, because they're not forget, except that they're more compatible. I guess, what I'm saying is that to some extent most people have to make themselves love someone. |
| Question: I am going to leave my husband but am more sad about losing my dog than him.? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 04:17 PM PDT Has anyone else left their spouse but been more upset about losing than dog than their significant other? |
| Question: Would I seriously make my fiancee look like a hooker by asking her to wear this? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 03:52 PM PDT I am getting married soon and I asked my fiancee to wear a chinese cheongsam dress for our wedding reception. I found a youtube video of a beauty pageant in china and one of the contestant wore something that I really like. The contestant was wearing a blue floor length chinese cheongsam dress with some 6 or 7 inch heels and some chinese hairpins. The contestant in the video is not the one in the front row and she is the one in the second row and is the third person from the right. My friends told me that I am gonna make her look like a hooker by asking her to wear this. They said these shoes are so trashy and will not go well with the dress. I don't get why they think that because I think these shoes are worn in a classy way. Would I seriously make her look like a hooker by asking her to wear what this girl is wearing in this video ? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aXwhx28mjlU |
| Question: I'm tired of being the obedient wife? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 03:49 PM PDT I feel like I don't have any control of anything. My husband even controls our finances and gives me guilt trip when I voice out I want a job. I sacrificed everything for his convenience but after 10+ years, it's getting to me now. I turn 40 next year and I don't have a career. My depression is affecting my kids happiness too. I don't want to spend time with them anymore. |
| Question: Is it rude to be on Skype late at night with a friend while my wife is asleep? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 02:43 PM PDT My wife has to get up early every morning to get to work and she hates getting disturbed while sleeping. I have a friend that lives overseas so we are in different time zones when he calls. When we are on skype I'm in bed with my wife. |
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| Question: Is divorce a difficult process in New York City? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 02:29 PM PDT I have been separated from my spouse for close to ten years and I have moved on and want to make it legal and get divorced. Does anyone know the divorce process in NYC? |
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| Question: My husband likes 2D women better? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 02:07 PM PDT Okay so, my husband is 24 and I'm 20. We both enjoy anime and Japanese video games and I can also appreciate the art and how some of the characters look. The problem I'm facing now is my husband only recently admitted he likes anime, whereas I've always been open about it. He has been playing a lot of visual novel anime games, better known as "Dating Sims". He stays up all night playing these games, in these games you have sex with the female characters at the end of the conquest. On another note, last night I was in bed and he was on his computer in our room and he thought I was asleep, I shuffled over and looked at the screen. I didn't have my glasses but I could tell he was looking at pictures, he noticed me looking and quickly clicked away and closed the tab. I'm pretty sure it was porn, more than likely hentai... We don't have sex and he says he doesn't care about having sex. Then why is he so obsessed with these games? He also told me he likes 2D women over real women. He said this to me, his wife...I got upset and he got mad at me for getting upset. He's on his computer 24/7 and we have no relationship anymore. I want to have sex, just not with him anymore...I can't say I really want anyone else though either. I want the guy I started dating, not this person he's become... |
| Question: My wife and i tried the hotwife fantasy and it ended bad.? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 02:06 PM PDT My wife and i have been married for 7 years. for the past year i have had the hotwife fantasy. i started texting and showing her captions pictures of the life style. She eventually liked the idea and agreed to try it. But only if i really wanted too. So i asked her to have sex with a guy she knew. She agreed but before she left to his house she cried and said i cant do it! well i tried giving up the fantasy for awhile after seeing her cry and not want to do another guy, but the fantasy came back. I figured maybe if we just actually did it, i would get over it....Not so much. She didn t want to try it again so i told her to please do it for me. She agreed and slept with him. At first i felt a rush and loved it but the next two days after i was devastated. i got mad and yelled at her, I we almost ended our marriage it was so bad. I tried to repress the hotwife fantasy so i would never let it happen again but it still comes back! I don t know what to do. Even after all the fighting, all the drama, and me becoming depressed, i still want her to do it :/ Do i just embrace the fantasy or do everything i can to not be into it anymore? |
| Question: Married women, do you still enjoy your marriage? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 02:04 PM PDT Im 41, and have been married to my husband for 15 years, we have 2 kids together (11 and 8). Im asking this question because i feel weird saying i still enjoy being married to my man. I have friends who are always complaining and are miserable in their marriage but im not. My husband and I both work, and have our own hobbies, so we dont really get bored, every weekend we are always doing something together (hes actually made it a rule that we have to). I work from morning to evening (kids sometimes stay home alone or are dropped off at mothers, but my husband is usually home early so they only stay home alone for an hour or two) and we make time to talk to each other every night. SO i guess we have good communication and thats why it works for us. Also sex isnt as frequent as it used to be but we still get it on every week at least once or twice (mostly weekends). any other women who feels the same as me? |
| Question: Would younger guys be put off dating a single mum ? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 01:29 PM PDT have a tinder date and not if I should tll him straight away. |
| Question: Is it possible to love my husband but want to have sex with someone else? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 12:49 PM PDT I'm married and I love my husband but lately I've been craving and wanting to have sex with another person. I don't have feelings for him and neither does he for me. He has a girlfriend. But there is this undeniable attraction that we both know is there and can't seem to shake off. I don't know what to do. I fantasize having sex with him and he says he does too. |
| Posted: 01 Oct 2015 12:30 PM PDT I think just because I am married, that does not mean that I have to stay in an unhappy marriage in which I am not satisfied emotionally and sexually. |
| Question: Caught my wife cheating with several men, help? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 12:23 PM PDT |
| Question: Why can't Americans make a marriage work? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 12:02 PM PDT Why do they divorce so much? I am afraid of dating an American now because almost every single adult that I have met in the U.S. has gotten divorced at least once before. If they aren't divorced yet, they will most likely get divorced some time in the future. Why can't Americans make a marriage work? I don't understand. |
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| Question: Maiden name reinstated after divorce. Do I have to use it? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 11:18 AM PDT I m currently disabled in the process of applying for IHSS. My case worker called me and stated that he could not run the assessment because my name in the medi-cal system is Jane Eyre (Maiden) while my name everywhere else (Medicare ,license, social security card)is Jane Doe. I recently divorced and the divorce papers state that my name has been reinstated to Jane Eyre but, due to my severe illness, I cannot (physically) change my name back to Jane Eyre. It would be easier to contact medi-cal and change that name to Jane Doe since it is the only place that has Jane Eyre on file. I really need the IHSS services but I m wondering if this is illegal or would cause any problems down the road. After all, my social security card shows me as Jane Doe, so wouldn t I want all my names to match that? |
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| Question: Are people not allowed to forget? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 10:59 AM PDT My husband seems to be a tyrant when it comes to certain things and he treats me like a child. We have a washer and dryer in our house but he hardly does the laundry. Some days I'll start a load of laundry and forget to put them in the dryer. A day or two will go by and when he notices the damp clothes in the washer he fusses and yells saying that in the summer months our sunroom tends to get hot and the clothes may mold and mildew in the heat thus possibly ruining the washer. It's not often that I do it. Some days I'll start a load then go to bed and by the next morning I forget and go to work. Several days later when I'm looking for a particular piece of clothing I'll remember I washed it. Today my husband is at home and I guess he's doing some cleaning and he sends me a text to ask when did I do laundry. That's when I realized I forgot a load of linen I started a few days ago. I told him I'd take care of it and his reply was, "NO, I'LL TAKE CARE OF IT!!!" The last time we had this argument he banned me from using the washer and dryer saying that he invested a lot of money into them for me to destroy them. He said we'd talk when I get home and I told him no we wouldn't. Is a person now allowed to forget? He says people who start something like laundry don't usually forget for 2 or 3 days. |
| Question: How is it a lack of commitment if married men choose to not wear wedding ring? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 10:52 AM PDT Today a woman told me that if a married man doesn't wear his wedding rings are immature and lack commitment. How? I mean taking it off for work reason makes sense. And sometimes even forgetting to wear them is understandable. . Just found an article by Sarah Symonds who has the same opinion as the woman I spoke with... http://www.walesonline.co.uk/lifestyle/lifestyle-opinion/sarah-symonds-men-who-dont-6687882 They are both retards. |
| Question: Is drug addiction a reason for divorce? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 10:49 AM PDT My friend has a family of 4, her husband is a drug addict. Her daughter is 7 and son is 16. She has been married 20 years and the pass 6 years have been full of pills and now heroin who knows what else. She is preparing to leave but is still holding off and I don't know how else to help her. She is a Christian and believes when u say your vows you van not break them. However he is putting there family thru grief and dangers and no longer cares. |
| Question: How do ideal with my husband and in laws? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 10:37 AM PDT In our home lives me,my daughter and husband in a one bedroom apartment. So my husbands mom called him yesterday to let him know she was sending her spouse (Stepdad) to our home to stay because hes coming to work in our state butthey live out of state. And my husband said it was fine but didn't take me in consideration. I feel so uncomfortable because sometimes my husbands not home all day and i feel weird the fact im going to be having someone living in our living room and me having no space? How do i deal? |
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| Posted: 01 Oct 2015 10:32 AM PDT What's this obsession of ladies wanting their men to put a ring on it. You can force a man to buy a ring, but you can't force him to stay with you until death if his heart is simply not there. So then what's the point of the marriage ritual, other than that you get to showcase an expensive ring and an expensive dress? If one of you (or both of you) get thoroughly bored with your partner, you'll get a divorce a couple of years later, find someone new, at which time you may get to do your showcase all over again... I just don't get it. It sounds all so SILLY, what people do... |
| Posted: 01 Oct 2015 10:28 AM PDT If you were truly remorseful and that's what it took to get them back ? How about a toe ? |
| Question: Single dad help custody/ visitation? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 09:50 AM PDT So I had been living with the mother of my child for almost two years now my son is a year and nine months we had a fight and she took him to her parents house which is like an hour away what can I do we separated and she will not let my son come with me? |
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| Question: Teacher student marriage? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 08:57 AM PDT i love my teacher who is 34 yr old and i am 25 yr old. we even dont talked anything about our relation .our relation is only related to studies and nothing else. we love each other and he proposed me for marriage and i am willing .he send proposal through his friend.I even dont want to live without him but my parents asked me that there will be problems in our relation because he was my teacher and i will not be that much open and frank with him .please help me .can anyone tell me that what type of problems i will face if he will be my partner.he is single and me too. |
| Question: Why doesn't he wanna get married? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 08:23 AM PDT I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and lived with him a little less then that. We have arguments like all couples but nothing we haven't been able to over come. I'm.ready for marriage and he just keeps telling me I will marry you but not now. In my head it just makes me think we when, why not, we already doing the marriage thing what's the difference.And in my.heart it's breaking. Why doesn't the man I love want to marry me? What's wrong with me? Is this normal? I no.longer want to be living like this. Playing the part. It's not what I want.nor deserve. Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free kinda thing. And one more question. Is it wrong of.me if I walk out of a 2 year relationship just cause he isn't ready to mArry me? |
| Question: Closing JOINT BANK ACCOUNT before Divorce? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 08:04 AM PDT I want to close my joint bank account with my spouse before divorce. If I close it, will I have to face any legal trouble? |
| Posted: 01 Oct 2015 07:55 AM PDT My husband has done this three times already. I get frightened when he loses his temper. Not sure if I should get out of this marriage or stay and get him some psychological help. |
| Question: Who should pay for these student loans? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 07:47 AM PDT A few years after we were first married, my wife decided to go back to school. She never asked me anything about it, i.e. should she do it, can we afford it? etc. etc. She took out loans in her name and didn't ask me for anything. She started a 2 year program, and she would be able to get a job for about $50K when done. She flunked out two years in a row and racked up $30K in school loans. Now were 4 years later from when she first started. Presumably, if she would have passed, she would have a job by now so she could work and pay the loans. She didn't work. After tons of my complaining, she got a job for $8/hr working about 15-20hr/wk. She is regularly late on her bills, and cant pay the student loan about every third month. She pays it out of my accounts. I have told her to stop. She wont stop. I don't think its my responsibility to pay her student loans, which I wasn't involved with the decision, I didn't flunk, and she could get a higher paying job and work more hours. She refuses and says because I'm husband I should pay them. I just don't think its right. My wife regularly over spends without consulting me first and then makes me pay the bills. There have even been instances when I have said no and she goes ahead and buys the stuff anyway. In one case it was for $7000. In my opinion if one person makes the debt without consulting the other, it is their debt to pay. My wife is the one that always wanted separate finances because she "Wont be controlled by a man". So she is basically saying she can buy whatever she wants and if she overspends I have to pay it. I'm sorry this is not a healthy pattern and ethically, I shouldn't have to pay just because were married. I understand the loan companies point of view. |
| Question: How should I react to this? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 07:09 AM PDT "Hey hun I forgot to tell you that the house has more than one owner" my husband made a lot of bad choices in his life and then reveals them to me, after we got married and then tells me that he thinks it would be best if I just left him. how would you react? |
| Posted: 01 Oct 2015 06:57 AM PDT Wouldn't marriage counseling then be you and your spouse conforming to an authority figure's belief (grounded on equal parts academia bias and personal bias) of what marriage should be (creating absolutes in a relative world)? Is that why it works - because it takes away other "options" and creates a false absolute that both people can believe in and make it work? Is that why everyone who seeks marriage counseling are people who can't create absolutes (rules or truths of life) with their spouse since they believe something different than you (unwilling to compromise on beliefs and conform/change)? |
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| Question: Hi, my wife is 3 months pregnant and she says she doesnt want to be with me anymore.? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 04:31 AM PDT We have alot of history together. We ve had many problems throughout our relationship. She has cheateddy on me many times with different men, once even during our marriage l. She says it s because we ve never been close but I have always givenice her my all. She has resentment towards me and i to her for what she s done to me but I still love her more than anything in the world. Now she is three months pregnant and she brings up so many things from the past, she complains that I ve never taken her on a trip somewhere and I ve have in the past told her I would but haven t been able to because I pay most of the bills. She s convince I don t love or care for her because of this and also she tries to control everything I do down to my haircut and Beard style and gets upset and says I don t care because I don t do everything she wants. She has tried to leave me many times in our relationship over the years but has stayed with me. Now it seems worse. She won t kiss me because she says my mustache bothers her but then one night out of the week she ll want to hug me in bed but by that time it s so different to me I don t always oblige her. Also I ve found out she has chlamydia which I know came from one of the men she slept with and that causes further resentment. So long story short she wants to divorce me and I m wondering if this is magnified by her hormones or is this really her talking. I m afriad, I love her and don t want to lose her and I want our family to be together. |
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| Question: Why did my husband shout at me? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 03:17 AM PDT We were on our way to work at the tattoo shop we own.we were stuck in traffic when I said I really had to go for a poo,he shouted at me for being gross. |
| Question: Newlywed trouble. Any advice is helpful at this point.? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 02:38 AM PDT My husband and I are newlyweds and within these first few months of marriage, we've been going through a tough time financially and emotionally. I understand my husband is stressed out from work and everything going on and I can't help but feel selfish because I've been feeling neglected by him. We haven't had much conversation and when we do, half the time we argue. He doesn't even touch or kiss me lately so I've stopped trying to get any affection from him. Whenever I did try to initiate some sort of intimacy he would just yell at me to leave him alone, so I did just that. What can I do to change things? |
| Question: Can a husband ask his wife if he can watch pornographic material? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 12:32 AM PDT If the husband has done everything in his power to restore the spark, but the wife simply doesn't seem interested. Is there a way where husband can ask his wife if he can watch porn? Or is she going to get insecured like a child? she refused counseling. Why would I waste my time on taking her on dates when she is never interested? I've tried and tried EVERYTHING to get that fatso on the same page when it comes to our relationship. Her constant rejections are getting on my nerves and making me think of divorce. But when children are involved, this makes things harder. Before putting all the blame on me, read the details very carefully before answering. Try to picture our life in your shoes first. |
| Question: Would you give in to ultimatum to save marriage? Posted: 30 Sep 2015 11:09 PM PDT I have been trying to be good with wife but when everything seems to be going good it all goes south. We have 2 children together which we pretty much had super young. I gave up a good opportunity to relocate within my company 5 yrs ago. I am 30 yrs old and no longer desire to have kids to focus on my career a bit more since my company is offering all trainings and schooling paid by them. I already told her no more and she said she would only put up with me if I give in and give her another baby. I care about her but I just can't do it to please her and I know I will end up resenting her. Who has divorced over something like this? |
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