So my friend and I have punishments for a bet but we can t seem to come up with the actual bet. Please don t make anything too inappropriate because we are both still in middle school. Thanks

Well I guess a friend started a rumor about me that wasnt true and everyone believes it but like a few people dont. I dont know what to do. I let school early because i didn't want to deal with it. It made things worse people were agreeing with her and then started more rumors. I honestly don't know what to do they wont even say it to my face or talk to me about it. I just don't understand why they would do this... I didn't do anh of the things they said i was. Advice?

This week there has been 3 fights. I saw two of them. The first one this kid hit one of my friends 5 times and my friend hit him once in the eye and the kid sat down and cried. The other one my friend pushed my other friend down and tried to kick him but he tripped him and got on top of him and hit him in the nose. We are in middle school.

I was hanging out with my bestfriend, and afterwards when I was dropping him home, he invited me inside. When we walked in, his younger brother was on the couch making out with my bestfriends girlfriend! After that, my friend went absolutely ballistic! He began yelling, and then struck his bro in the face, then continued yelling. His little bro just kept saying, "I'm sorry" "I'm sorry", but it seemed like that made it worse. My friend then fully attacked his brother, punching him repeatedly, blood was pouring from his face. Myself AND his girlfriend tried to pull him off, but he wouldn't budge. He is a big guy. Finally his little brother got loose and bolted for the front door. It has now been 2 hours since all of thise occurred. The girlfriend left after his brother, and I have managed to calm down my friend. But he is still distraught, and I cannot get in contact with his brother, who was seriously injured. What should I do!?

A couple of my friends and I want to start a band. The only thing is, my friend who wants to be the bassist doesn't have a lot of money to buy a bass. How can we find one that isn't too expensive?

A few weeks ago, I had asked my friend to go apple-picking with me for my birthday, and she said that she definitely could. We would be going this Sunday. Her birthday is 2 days before mine and I thought it would be a good idea to hang out the day after her birthday and the day before mine. Today she said that her brother wants to take her somewhere for her birthday on Sunday, even though she has plans with me. Is this okay to do to someone? I mean, I know its family and all, but I don't think its fair to do that to someone you had already made plans with weeks ago, ya know? And the worst part is that I am a sitting duck, waiting for her brother to actually say he's gonna take her somewhere, and so far he isn't sure

Is that a bad idea? I don't want to give the friend a false signal. It's the only way I can get close to the girl is by talking to her friend.

Hello I am Annie. I am in 6th grade. I hate tit! This is due to the fact that I am extremely matchure and no one else is. My school went on this stupid thing in the forest because we are studying earth science. Me and my air buddies (I have 23 air buddies plush animals) Don't like outside!! We get really mad! They speak to me. Well I'm not expossed to bring my air buddies to school so for the feild trip I stuffed them in my crotch to hide them. I only did 3 and they're small. When we got into the woods on the hiking trail, my teacher ( I'm gona call her ms. ***** *** ) told us to partner up. I had to be with this stupid girl names Sharon who doesn't even watch air buddies. When Sharon and I were finally alone, she started doing the asinement but I didnot becuase it was for babies. She told me I should do my work (really rudily) so I told her to **** off (I know 5 cuss words and I'm only 11). Then she left to find the teacher and while she was gone, it was my time to shine. I saw a pair of 8th graders and began to throw my air buddies at them as a fun prank! The 6ith graders never do fun things like that becuase they r imatchure. They 8 graders couldn't see me and one said "what the hell" so I told the teacher imeditely and she got mad and told me not to throw my air buddies bc she's asked 7 times but that's a lie she's asked 3 at most! And I had good resons every time! Why did she treat me like this? How dose this tie into puberty?

For most of my life I have been pretty shy but have had 4-5 close friendships. Each friend I make I put effort into that friendship and do everything I can for them, from being there when they are crying out hurting to just hanging out when they have nothing better to do. In the end they all end up getting tired of me and just stop talking to me. They end up finding someone better and just completely ignore me. Most do it subtly by sending sorry uninterested texts and cancelling on plans last minute. I'm not dumb and I usually take the hint that they don't want to be bothered with my friendship anymore. Why is it though, that they suddenly grow tired of me. That they get tired of someone who literally does everything for them? Why am I not good enough for anyone? I understand I can be annoying at times but do can everyone? Will this every change or if there no hope? Should I stop caring/loving people so strongly?

Greetings, I am debating whether or not I should drive my brother in law's Lamborghini Huracan that he is letting me borrow for a day to my high school. I live in a fairly safe neighborhood but am afraid of what others will think of me or what they'll do. I just thought it would be cool to show my friends. Thanks in advance.

My friend and her family has high expectations for her grades so she's taking all AP classes and she has A's in all her classes but one. Her parents won't let her do anything lke go to homecoming or to football games and she's really upset because she sais she's "digging herself a bigger hole". i have normal classes and three A's and three B's. is it really that important to have all A's? Btw were freshmans

So there is a kid, one year older than me. This morning(I missed the bus) a friend who also rides that bus said that this kid was claiming he was going to slip something a someone's drink to numb them. On the way home, other kids were asking this kid questions about if he did it, if they caught him, etc. Scary thing is, he was answering. He said he didn't do, he was caught with the stuff and it was taken by a teacher. Thing is, I am afraid if I do something to anger this kid, he will try to do something like he was planning to me. Other than this incident, he has talked about how he would kill his younger cousin(long and painfully), claimed he was sadistic, and encouraged all the other kids to be Nazis(and Communists) I don't know what to do. I want to avoid him, but he sits in random places on the bus, even if someone he doesn't like is there. What should I do?

I'm a junior, and I know this shouldn't matter because I have two years left and I shouldn't care what people think; but I do. I have around 6 people I can actually call "friends" and out of those 6 people, I hang out with probably two outside of school (SOMETIMES). Can't help but feel that my teenage years are going to waste. People in my grade have dozens of friends, always going to parties, adventures, etc. I wouldn't mind being friends with 6 adventurous people, but my friends are so boring. They never want to do anything fun, let alone do ANYTHING. That's hell for someone like me who always wants to be making memories. I just can't take another two years of this. My life is wasting away. When am I ever gonna be this young and free with few responsibilities again? It's driving me insane.

she s a friend of a friend, and kind of my friend too. It s SO annoying. At first I was okay with it (about a year ago when snapchat came out), now a year has passed and she snapchats EVERYTHING. I put stuff on my STORY. That way people can view it... Or not. But it s THEIR choice. With her sending it directly to me, it s like I am FORCED to watch it. It s the dumbest stuff. Most of it are snaps of her drinks/pasta/dinners/lunches/buying a new table, shirt, purse, etc. she even sent me (several times) snaps of her in the bathroom with the Caption, "pooping." I think she thinks it s funny, but seriously?! Way too much information. It s actually made me like her less as a person cuz it s like there is absolutely no privacy. Why does she do this? And when we used to hang out, she would ALWAYS have to post pics of us hanging out on Instagram. (She still does this to this day with new friends). She needed like 50 pictures each time we would go out. Not to be mean, but she is pretty unattractive. So it s not like she s snapping pics posting them knowing she s hot. Does she have some sort of mental disorder where she needs constant attention? It got to the point last week I didn t even open 15 of her snaps over the course of three days. Just let them sit unopened in my inbox. Then I felt bad and opened them. Anyways she s my brothers girlfriend, is it mean to block her from snap hat?

At first, I was really excited for school, not for the work I have to do but the fact I can see my friends everyday. I'm in eighth grade (13) and none of my friends are in my class. I have 6 close friends and roughly 15 acquaintances. None of them are in my class, I know everyone in this class and there's not for me. People tell me that I will make friends my principal did, my teachers did, my friends did and my family did. But, how can I be friends with these people when I already know what there like and I chose not to be around them because I don't like how they act, it doesn't make me feel comfortable. So NO! I am not going to make friends with these people and if you are going to tell be that I will, it's honestly not going to help. I know how to approach people, I know how to earn their trust and I know how to start friendships. These people aren't for me and I am tired of people telling me that I will make friends. Now that's out of the way onto some real problems. I am lonely (I only see my friends at 1 out of the two lunches and roughly 1 out of the 2 breaks because I stay in all lot to study.) I feel so stressed about the workload at school, I want to maintain my honour roll and that's not easy I don't understand many things and people try to explain it to me but I still don't understand it and I try to teach myself it but I can't. I am so scared for the next test or project on this because I know I will fail. I don't want to fail, I don't want to be stupid. I can't stand group work because I don't know how to work with people that aren't my friends. I hate the way people see me a loner and they think that I don't have friends when I really do. Due date are so much more faster and I have so little time for myself

hey guys! people i dont know somewhere on the world. so this week my life has been a disaster. for 1 my phone was stolen 2 my bf cheated on me 3. my mom found tampons i was hiding from her (she thinks it makes me lose my virginity) 4. then as i told my friend how my life was being annoying i passed a note saying " karma's a *****" and hey! my chemistry teacher takes the note and bam first detention of my life 5. last but not least my best friend put all my secrets i told her onto the "notice" board its where club posters go and well there are all my secrets stuff like i have a crush on abc i have a messed up family well best answer to someone who can cheer me up OH i almost forgot theres a hurricane on its way to where i live :|

Everyone I know I use. I'm 13 and everyone I know I use (but one person). I see people more as objects then humans? I hate most everyone with a passion I LOVE LOVE LOVE to make people feel like **** make them cry and *****. Then pick right back lie to them and say I'm "sooo sorry" and they Forgive me. They think I'm the nicest person ever. For example if I had Walmart and Gucci I would give them Walmart but tell them it's Gucci and the they will believe me :) They buy me things and kiss my *** :) I do it to anyone I can.(Even my therapist) I don't mean is it wrong I mean how to stop

To be honest, this question is a little embarrassing to ask and talk about, but is it ever really too late (or you get too old) to find good friends? I'm 21 and I have no friends (other than online) and i'm very socially awkward. I use to have a few friends when I was 8-13, but we lost touch and don't talk anymore. (Tho I still wonder how they are doing and hope life for them is well.) I try to wing it and tell myself i'll be alright, but I still get lonely, even sometimes when I see other groups of people having a lot of fun with thier friends or people talking about thier friends and how great they are. It can make a person feel very very alone. I'm not a bad person, i'm nice, i'm sensitive and have a big heart and I love to goof off. I'm a bit of a nerd too. But i'm shy and very awkward. -_- How would I even go about making a friend? It's not as easy as it looks.. Advice needed. lol Thank u

Back in July I got into a heated argument with a close friend of mine and I said horrible things about her. I feel so bad and I said it in the moment to hurt her because I thought she didn't want to be my friend anymore but I was completely wrong and jumped to conclusions. I feel so embarrassed and sad for what I did. I think about it all the time. We haven't spoken since early July. I really want to apologize because I was wrong and I feel horrible but I am terrified. What should I do? Thanks everyone.

My friend has been avoiding me lately because I fail to show sympathy. Whenever she talks about boys and how she feels, I don't feel anything. I don't like pretending to be someone I'm not so just sigh or remain silent. She didn't tell me why she's avoiding me but I'm human and I'm smart when it comes to understanding situations and the mindsets of people. I have very strong opinions on things and I see things rationally in my mind, and most of the times, she's wrong in what she does, even when she is right, I don't really feel anything. It's not only her that I'm like that with, it's the same with my mother, my other friends, my brothers and a lot of other people. I do pay attention to my friends and I know a lot about them, like their parents' names, their siblings, their siblings schools and all that, I take note. They don't know much about me, like my parents divorced, but I don't really mind. I just want to get to the bottom of this. I just don't have anything comforting to say. Honestly because I feel nothing at all about everything but I'm not a bad friend, I back them up and I'm very loyal to them.

i ve been planning this lowkey camping trip for saturday for a week or so and have told my mom about it several times. today i mentioned buying some snacks for it and she went off on me, saying i couldnt do it. hen i tried to offer solutions to all the issues she came up with, she acted icy and angry. when i responded to this with anger, she called me an ungreatful little ***** and infomed me she d been trying to plan a beach trip for my sweet 16. in a fit of frustration, i told her to cancel the trip to which she responded "DONE, okay! done deal!" WHAT DO I DO I DONT EVEN KNOW IF I WANT TO GO TO THE BEACH IN OCTOBER

*They don't acknowledge me in class, and if I ask a question they get angry at me. They also don't invite me when we have to work in groups(every day), so I'm always by myself. *I sit down at lunch and they ignore me, even if I say hi. *When they leave after lunch(they all have the same class), they say bye to everyone but me. *They leave me to talk to someone else, even in the middle of a conversation. * They talk about college plans(they're all attending the same school), but if I say something about mine(I'm attending a farther university) they look at me like I'm crazy and ignore what I said. *Last year, they all went to prom as friends, but didn't bother to invite me knowing I didn't have a date and was going to stay home. They are currently planning this year's prom without me. *They go out to eat every Friday and don't bother inviting me. *Right now, they're all out eating and going to the homecoming game later on. One of them offered me a ride TO THE GAME, but it was quite obvious the others didn't want me going, so I declined. I feel very unimportant. They talk down to me a lot, don't listen, stare at me, etc. I'm probably the most mature one out of the group and one of the more friendly ones. Am I just being to sensitive or does it sound like there is an actual problem? I say something about it and they get defensive or get their feelings hurt. When I'm with some of them one on one, they act completely different. That's another thing. I am fully aware of the fact that they don't really like me. I have tried to distance myself so many times and talk to other people(I have other friends), but they always end up acting like I hurt their feelings. They get upset when I don't speak to them.

I am pretty happy, but a lot of the time I am sad because I only have one friend. Nobody at school is very open about talking and making a new friend, because everybody has their own set of friends that they talk to and nobody else. This makes me very sad. How can I make new friends?

Okay, so I have a best friend (let's call her A) and we have been friends since kindergarten. 2 years ago, I joined a recreational volleyball league and made a new friend (let's call her M). After that league ended, M and I didn't talk for a while, and of course A and I's friendship kept going. Just a few weeks ago, A, M, and I created a group Facebook chat and we started talking to each other through there. When I wasn't available, they would talk on the group chat. They even made nicknames for each other. I don't have a nickname still. A now messages and says "where is m I miss her! :P" and completely ignores me. They have hung out twice without me, also. M seems like the type of person to steal friends away from someone, and that's what she's doing. What do I do? I really want to keep my friendship with A, but I could care less about my friendship with M. Please help.

So today in band class my band teacher asked me if I wanted to play piccolo (I'm first flute). I said yes and I was really excited. So she gave me the piccolo and I started playing. Then my friend noticed and she was all over me. She kept on trying to snatch it out of my hands and kept on asking where I got it. I really didn't want to tell her but I did anyway. She begged the band teacher and got the other piccolo. I'm pretty upset since she always steals my spotlight. As soon as I get something new she always has to copy me. Honestly, I'm better at flute than her and she never practices. She kept on trying to show off to people and she acted like she's played piccolo before (she found out what a piccolo was once I told her). I felt special when my band teacher gave it to me, now I don't. I want to be the only piccolo player. I want to feel special for once!!!! She always does this and it's my biggest pet peeve. How do I get her to stop playing piccolo? I came up with a few ideas myself, I thought about telling the band teacher that she isn't good (that's rude though), sabotaging her (that's mean though), telling her how I feel (but I'll never do it since I'll feel bad), or just becoming super good at it that the teacher just removes her. Usually there's only one piccolo and first flute plays it. Please help me. How can I prevent my friend from playing piccolo?

I told this dude that my friend doesn t like him back. Then the dude talked to y, friend s crush and they got in an argument. I feel so guilty. I am stupid to tell him that. Now they re going to fight, I told my friend and she told me she ll fix it, but how can I help? I feel really guilty because he s depressed. He might kill hi. Self I think.

I have this roommate who bosses me around. I have acquaintances who don't even talk to me in person, but though text and don't care about me and show I'm their friend. I have parents who show off to outside people that they are very friendly and inside argue with me all the time. When my little sister behaves badly and ignores me, I tell them she should say hi and they said she said and stop worrying about her. And then they ask me a question and I don't answer. So then I ask them a question and they don't reply back cause I didn't answer them. Why do people force me so much to answer their questions and want me to always feel depressed? :/

In middle school, there was a boy at my school named James, he was good-looking, strong, athletic, and well liked at our school by the other popular kids. I wanted to be his friend but I quickly found out he was also a bully to unpopular and wimpy boys like myself. I was in his PE class and James and 'his boys' all ganged up on me every day of my life and made me as miserable as possible. They once pinned me to the locker room floor and took turns rubbing their disgusting sweaty armpits all over in my face, and getting it in my face and mouth after practice. Another time, James pulled his pants down sat on my face b*tt naked and farted. I would always scream, squirm, and beg them to let me go which did nothing but boost his ego and torture me more. I live with the scars to this day, recently I got a message on Facebook from James, he appologized for the way he and his friends treated me in school and told me he wanted to make things right. As soon as I got it, i smiled, I replied that I honestly did not care how sorry he was and was happy to know he lived with the guilt for the rest of his life. I showed it to my friend Jacob, another victim tormented by James, but Jacob scolded me and said I was being a jerk, and that James deserved a second chance. Should I have? I feel terrible but I honestly do not forgive James.

I think I might have inadvertently offended my childhood friend's friend by saying something like this an on a reply to him when I was supposed to type blow that would go directly to my friend, not his friend who commented on his Facebook post. Here's how it went. Childhood friend - Codein to be made prescription as of next year. Me - Maybe the doctors and pharmaceutical companies realized their jobs are at stake due to the many benefits of that drug. His friend - Ban All The Drugs. Me - Yes, we should all go Christian Science. I'm kidding. (reply to his friend's post.) I feel so terrible. I have already told my childhood friend that I may have inadvertently offended his friend, but I apologized already. I feel terrible.

Here goes... So two of my friends decided to play a prank on me; write a fake letter from a girl I like and put it in my locker. The letter said "I've liked you for a long time. Please sit with me at lunch. Sincerely, [name of girl]." Which is still pretty suspicious but I try to be optimistic. Well one of my friends told another guy, who I wouldn't necessarily call my friend, and he basically told everyone at my school. The thing is, they don't even know I like her. And they told the girl what they did and she was mad, yet refused to tell me. My friend thankfully told me after class what was really going on to save me from eternal embarrassment. Now no one will stop bothering us and I have mixed feelings all around now, what should I do? I'm not exactly happy with anyone

My parents are persian and super strict. Im 16 and I literally have to be home at 9 MAX, unless there is a party or event. I can't have a girls night in with my friends. They want to know where I am every second and when I hang out with guys I have to lie. Tips on dealing with this **** p..s I have NEVER GIVEN THEM A REASON NOT TO TRUST ME

I broke up with my ex-boyfriend because he was a cheater (at least 3 times!) and verbal abuser. Anyway, I saw him recently at a party and he cornered me in a hallway. He started getting agitated and then said we "had to get back together." I said "no" and started to walk away when he grabbed my arm and twisted. I broke free and kicked him as hard as I could right in the balls with my pointed cowgirl boots! After I rocked his babymakers, he fell down and puked while I stood over him and asked him if he could taste his nuts. His face was priceless! I guess I nailed him so hard his nuts swelled up to the size of oranges and one ruptured and had to be removed (I play college soccer so I know how to blast a ballsack!). I feel a little bad about what happened but he is now saying he never mess with a girl again and he even wears an athletic cup all the time to protect his remaining family jewel. My girlfriends on the soccer team now call me the "nut remover" and say I should hang up a fake pair of nuts like a hunting trophy on a tombstone background with the words "RIP Brian's Nuts-Destroyed By Girl Power" since I sent his nuts to "nut heaven." Other people say I should hang up a guy's athletic cup as a symbol of female power over male weakness (guy's nuts are so vulnerable and they need the extra protection). Any other good nicknames? And what should I hang up? The nuts? The cup? Both? The more names and ideas the better! Be creative! Just wish more girls could experience blasting a jerk's balls! It is such a great feeling seeing a supposedly tough guy go down with one kick. Must suck to have nuts. They are just two targets dangling between a guy's legs! One shot and it is all over.

My friend and I have been friends for a while. He was raised by sisters and has only ever had real friends that were girls. So he is a little bit more feminine but is not gay. However he tells me he loves me all the time. I mean like 5-7 times in one visit and he gives the longest hugs. I dont like it and I have explained to him that and that I dont like telling him I love him back. In those moments of extreme duress is fine obviously but not every time I see the guy and multiple times at that. I feel like hes being extremely needy and is very emotionally insecure. Is it normal what he is doing? Am I the weird one?

So about a month ago I was dress shopping to see what was out there for my freshman homecoming. I found one I really loved and I knew I wasn t going to find anything else liked as much. So I decided to buy it. on the way to the cashier I realized I didnt have anyone to go with and I didn t know if I would have a group of friends by then or a date and I didnt want to buy a dress and never wear it. Then I remembered about my sorta friend whos a sophomore and is really nice and includes people. I texted her right then basically ask in if I could go with her and her friends I knew. She said yes and I was set with people to go and I bought the dress. Now many weeks into the school year I have a really good group of friends that I want to go with to homecoming but I already am going with my other friend. To make it worse the friend I was going with is revealing her true colors and is really mean to me always saying im stupid... which im not! Also everyone i knew in her friend group has dates and a lot of people i dont know are in the group. I really want to get out of this situation and go with my actual friends but by doing so im afraid that im going to burn alot of bridges... any help is welcomed thanks!

I have a friend and her birthday is 11/18/2000. Does that mean she'll be 16 this year, or next? Me and my Father got in a debate about it lol and I wanna see who's right. Need some extra opinions lol. Thanks!

This is a very important topic to me so please help me me as much as you can. I have a best friend that I have known for 10 years. she's always been the most happy amazing person ever. She always looked like she had no worries. She helped me when i had problems. I never knew she felt diferently. I noticed that she had this little notebook that she would keep with her everywhere. I always asked what it was but shed say its nothing. So one day me and my other friend decided to look at it. It seems wrong to people who don't know the situaton. But shes been acting diferently lately. She lisens to sad depression music doesent listen to her parents or anyone. So yea we got the book and inside were poems and stories and basicaly everything said she wanted to kill herself. I told her i had read it and she got mad. I asked why she would write that. She kept changing the topic a few days have passed and i saw her taking pills at lucnch and i tried stoping her but it was to late she had taken 13 luckly nothing happend she's atempted 4 more times previously. Me and my other best friend tried talking to a teacher we trust about this and she ran away from school. Shes jumped infront of cars and luckly agin they all stopped i cant do alot about this. Im only 13. I texted her 89 time telling her how much i care she just says she want to die and that life has no more meaning for her. I am literally crying my eyes out i don't know what to do. I cant imagine my life without her. please help me.

I need serious answers please. All my life I have been known as the quiet, shy kid who never smiles. I never get asked to parties because I think people might believe I will be the good kid, teachers always comment how I never smile, everyone asks why I never talk, why i'm so innocent, etc. And i'm getting tired of it. I hate hearing it. I want to be outgoing, I want to be more talkative, I want to make more friends, I want to smile more but I don't know where to start. Please help. I want to change and soon.

She didn't do anything, it's just the vibe is weird idk?

So me and a friend of mine were planing on hanging out at my place for his birthday, I am planing on having a couple of my girlfriends over as well and surprise him. We need ideas on how t get him to strip down fore us while we at least keep our underwear on if possible and what to do with him once he is naked, he is the kind of guy that likes being pressured into things. first post

I've been friends with this girl who we share a lot of the same interests for about a year now, we both recently joined a new school (the same one) and we were put into pretty much all the same classes. She's made, probably, more friends than me and I try to hang out with her but I'm really afraid as coming off as too clingy so I spend time with my other friends, which are quite boring but I appreciate their company. I would really enjoy spending time with her! I think I am an extremely clingy person, whenever I make a new friend who I like, I'll go over and talk to them and try eat lunch with them etc. because I think that's how friendships should be, loyalty. But I understand that you should give them their own space and let them hang out with their other friends, but I just realised I get a bit jealous over whoever talks to her, I don't know... I don't think we're that close in real life, yet we talk much deeper and about her problems on social media etc. to address the problem to her, any suggestions/advice?

Okay, I move away from my TRUE friends from WI when I was about to start my 10th grade year. I had some friends in the 8th grade but they all move away. Since I move up here I have trouble fitting in (who am I kidding. I wasn't able to fit in back at my old school) and now I'm having trouble fitting in college. It's really hard for me to make true friends or matter of facts any friends at because I'm really shy and awkward when I'm near someone. Even if I go back to my state my friend would all ready had new best friends already and it's hard to fit in with his friend group because u have no idea what their talking about and even if u do it still be bad because it won't matter because they already had talk about it. So when I go to school and see people with their friends I get jealous of them and start to hate myself where it always made me want to end my life because I had to true friend.

i was trying to talk with my mom earlier today and she just seemed uninterested. and then my cousin comes into the livng rooms and shes all close and talking with her. my mom speak tagolog and so does my cousin so maybe its just how she feels comfortable speaking but its so unfair because then i get treated like im not interesting enough just cause i speak english.. its bullshit and its making mad,

I haven't been able to hang out with friends because i work weekend graveyard shift. One of my friend is throwing a big birthday party and i don't really want to miss out. Unfortunately i work that Saturday graveyard too. My workplace allow 3 no show with no doctor's note. Since it going to be 1 strike only i'm planning on not even showing up.. What are you opinion? Choose fun or work..

Ok so I was walking with some girl and then she made a comment about the weather. I didn't reply to her and sorta ignored her like I didn't hear her. I saw her starring at me with some kind of look when I glanced at her like she thinks I don't talk. I was talking to her on the way home too. I feel like she isn't going to want me to be her friend because she thinks I don't talk like many people do. What do you think of this situation and what should I do?

Over the past couple of months, I have began to question the intentions of my friends, nevertheless, I am unsure as to whether these reactions are warranted or if i am just being too sensitive. This is what has happened thus far: Although I deserved this to some extent, we had been given a project to undertake by the teacher in our history class, however, I fell seriously unwell during this period which resulted in me being unable to contribute as much as I would have liked (we did not exchange contact details). Upon return to class, I was asked, in front of everyone, by the teacher about how much I helped out in the group. This culminated in the other members of the group confronting me about the situation quite severely and accusing me of "lying" (after class) although we forgave each other at the end. Later-on in the year I was placed with a few members of the same group but in a different class in which we had to take the lower years out. This ended with some of the lower years taking digs at my quiet demeanor and the rest of the group shouting at me over my "lack of participation" (I think i deserved this too, but I had been teased by them before over "not doing things right" so I was quite self conscious) After these incidents I heard some people from my class talking about me to a new student (including me forgetting the fun-dress code day on a previous occasion which was quite embarrassing admittedly), when I walked by however they acted as though nothing had happened. In our sports lessons I occasionally get picked last (continued) and When I am picked, however, people make fun of my sporting prowess (I am not the most coordinated person in the world) Occasionally, I am bad-mouthed in front of others and I was described as "crazy" in front of some of the girls in the lower years (these happened to be the ones we took out in the project, but this was not on the same day that we undertook the project). Recently (it is the last year) I have struggled with very personal issues (including my family being thrown out of our home) and I missed a lot of school, which even the teachers made fun of. When I returned, I became worried that I did not know enough for the exams, and some of the girls began to act amazed that I managed to make it in to school (they had been doing that for the past six months) and asked me why I was never in. However, I did not feel comfortable about discussing it. When I did mention that I was worried about the exams, they did mention that they did not know how I was predicted good grades since I was barely in and they did mention that "maybe I should have come to school more" On the positive side, however, we have had many good memories together and people could be quite playful with me, I am just wondering If I have a right to be angry or if I am being to sensitive to what has happened.

Well we both like to smoke but he s always pulling shady stuff like trying to screw me out of my stuff or just being a complete douchebag. I stopped hanging out with him as much but he s in my class so if I just stop responding to his texts or calls he confronts me the next day for a reason. All he does is use me and I m not the type of person to let that happen but it s just hard when I have to see him daily.

I know English and I can communicate with people but I just can't think of anything when someone curses at me or trash talks me or roasts me. It's just I don't know, much of these sort of words. I can't express my anger either in words. Need some advice.

Well basically I'm super shy in school and can't make friends and have a lot of trouble speaking in front of my class. I'm really awkward and known as the "outcast". What should I do? I'm not very confident either. Linda, I find your answer to be very rude. I'm not a "mess" just because I'm shy. You could have just said, "Try talking to a therapist." Sorry for not being outgoing and perky but you're acting like I'm the only person who's shy at school. Educate yourself and have a good evening.

They are just so rude to me. I'm a nice person and I try my best to be nice to people and I end up just getting put down or treated badly, and I don't say anything to them. I just don't get why people are so rude.

So on the first day of school which was in August, I made a friend in my digital video production class. We're juniors in high school, by the way. She seemed nice and we got on pretty well. We sat together at lunch and I introduced her to my other friends. We talked a lot in class too. Well, in that same class there's this other girl who's a freshman and she dislikes me for some reason, I don't know why. Well, her and my friend became friends around the second or third week of school. They're both obsessed with K-pop so I'm assuming that's why they get on so well and I'm not a fan of K-pop, but I like One Direction. Anyways that's beside the point. They started to talk a lot and I noticed they seemed closer than I did with my friend. They invited me to sit with them-even the freshman kept giving me dirty looks and ignoring me- so I did for one day and we sat with her friends who are into anime and K-pop and stuff which I'm not and I felt awkward sitting there. I stopped sitting there and told my friends I'll just keep sitting with my two friends I introduced her to. Ever since, she has been sitting with them and talking to that girl all the time. We don't talk in class anymore and I walk straight past her and her new friend while going to lunch. I don't sit with them either but that's because lately she has been ignoring me. Should I just let it go and ignore her or would it be better to say something? Thanks! I'm not sure if this has to do with it and I'm not trying to be rude but my new friend, let's call her K, isn't very smart. She takes all regular classes and I take AP classes. She doesn't get some of the stuff I talk about so I have to use simple words around her. I was wondering if maybe that's another reason we don't get along so well? I just think it's weird she all of a sudden started ignoring me. I'm not like a genius or anything who uses huge words in every sentence but she just isn't that smart to even understand something average and I've always had trouble getting along with people like that.

I feel very hurt and betrayed by one of my friends. Would talking about it with her on Facebook be a bad idea? I'm pretty sure I can be civil over messenger and I'm not interested in gossip, name calling, etc.; I just want to let her know how I feel. I worry that if I talk about it in person, I will get overly emotional and start crying. I also fear that it would be too late if I waited (I won't bore you with the story) and messaging would allow me to tell her my frustrations. However if it would start drama and arguments I guess I'll find something else out. Thank you.

I m 18 I went to london for uni and since i was young all i had was my mom my dad is a jerk that made my day the darkest of darks but my mom was always there shed wake up us for school when we returned shell be waiting eat lunch together shed stay all day at home with us do homework together when i went into a dark places started smoking and skipping shed come to every meeting about me and i stopped smoking and got A s She was the best thing that ever happened to me she is hands down the best mom then when Kings College accepted me i went to london and she cried and since then i cried my self to sleep every night thinking of that now I m in london we talk everyday but my heart aches i can t think or sleep without feeling pain i miss her two things hurt me a lot first of all its how old we ve become and secondly its i won t see her everyday please don t tell me grow up or some bs like that give me real advice should i after first year continue studying in london we have great uni s there or should i do something that would make me feel better i think talking it out would be good but i don t want to make my mom more sad by telling her that or my older brother who is also here i don t want to seem vulnerable or a cry baby and please don t say school councilor theres no way I m opening up to her i feel lonely i only got one friend here and one in cardiff two hours away i don t know what to do and if u want to say get over it thats not real advice thanks in advance

Like literally I talk to my sister about how I love a tv show, and then she goes and watches like one or two episodes and goes around at school telling people how much of a fangirl she is about the show. Like its cool I know the tv shows I watch are like probably pretty popular, and she s allowed to watch whatever she wants, but then she basically takes everything away from me. She acts like she knows everything about the TV show when in reality I m like caught up on all of the seasons and she s like on season 2. This has happened for like all of my favorite TV shows, so basically I have nothing different than her. It s just ugh.

She puts me down, hates me, manupilator, abused, and bullied me for awhile I didnt do anything just wanted to be her friend and our friendship end by her saying to me you are stupid, ignorant, annoying b word

It's only the second month of school and I've had enough. All my "friends" got tired of me so they don't talk to me anymore and I sit alone at lunch. Plus ever since school started I've been bullied and the teachers act like they see nothing. Please please please tell me I don't have to wait.

We both (I'm 16 and he's 15) recently moved to a new country, started in the same school and they put both of us in the same grade (11). He's really the quiet type while I'm the over the top crazy one. He's always sticking with me and it's annoying because he's too private and calm. Like whenever I talk about personal stuff he's like (WHY DID TOU TELL THEM?!) and he's always looking at me when I'm having crazy fun with my friends he's always looking at me like "How dumb are you?" I have no problem of him being with me in class because that's a serious time for studying. But during free periods or breaks, how do I get him to piss off?